Thanks for sharing guys. I loved hearing your thoughts on your dynamic! What stood out to me was one of the final exchanges around 11:30 where Felix said that he has an easier time talking out emotions (Fe) and you can see Holly's demon fFi come out when she says "I'm really glad you don't do that..." She is basically saying, "don't pressure my personal values." I'm sure that part of the dynamic requires a good amount of very intentional communication. Kudos to you guys for navigating this dynamic the way you are!
Yeah, I think from her perspective it is both "don't put pressure on my values" and "don't pressure me to process my emotions out loud to quickly." You're absolutely right. It requires a lot of intentional communication. And that kind of communication requires awareness of your needs and the other person's needs at the same time and a willingness to balance both.
There is something quite Fe-ish about Felix in the way he emotes in these videos. He uses the Fe hand gestures a lot and uses a lot of facial expressions in quite a smooth way when he or she is talking. Maybe this is explained by having feminine Fe in the Objective personality system, but in general I find that T doms often (both Te and Ti) lack smooth intonation, can talk quite monotonous and appear more out of tune with feeling in general (whether it's Ti or Te doms). I find neither the case in your both typings. This does not mean you're not typed correctly, but maybe are not the most typical cases of your typings. I could myself explain it as to me it seems the most accurate way to describe the strength of functions by taking let's say 100% and divide the 100% into their 2 opposite percentages, in this case Fe and Ti. Having 90% Ti and 10% results in a Ti dominant that is _very strong and typical in _ Ti and _very weak and typical_ in Fe. On the other hand, there could also be istps that have 65% Ti and 35% Fe strengths, which would lead to a more balanced intp. Of course the middle functions then should be even closer together in strength, as the strongest function from the biggest difference makes a person dominant in that function. So the 65% Ti and 35% Fe ISTP could have 55% Se and 45% Ni if he's not a jumper (and the same but opposite numbers for a jumper, assuming they actually are a thing). I think such type of classification would be more clear than ' double activated' and such things in the OPS system. It would be both clear without complicated terms that have to be learned and it would allow for individual differences at the same time. The 65% Ti ISTP in this example would somewhat appear more like an INFJ, with the relative high Fe and NI compared ot hte 10% Fe variation. Anyway, just some thoughts
This was very helpful to me as Fi Si to hear from your point of view concerning Fe and Fi. Most people don't talk about their experience of demon Fi and Fe.
Thank you for that feedback! 🙏 We definitely want to talk more about our relationship dynamic, type differences and how we navigate that in future videos.
Thanks for sharing guys. I loved hearing your thoughts on your dynamic!
What stood out to me was one of the final exchanges around 11:30 where Felix said that he has an easier time talking out emotions (Fe) and you can see Holly's demon fFi come out when she says "I'm really glad you don't do that..." She is basically saying, "don't pressure my personal values."
I'm sure that part of the dynamic requires a good amount of very intentional communication. Kudos to you guys for navigating this dynamic the way you are!
Yeah, I think from her perspective it is both "don't put pressure on my values" and "don't pressure me to process my emotions out loud to quickly."
You're absolutely right. It requires a lot of intentional communication. And that kind of communication requires awareness of your needs and the other person's needs at the same time and a willingness to balance both.
This is so good!! Love the low edit format and the honesty! 5:12
Great video!
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😄 Holly can tell you where she ordered the shirts for us.
Don't listen to Felix, I handle their merch, we are taking preorders now
There is something quite Fe-ish about Felix in the way he emotes in these videos. He uses the Fe hand gestures a lot and uses a lot of facial expressions in quite a smooth way when he or she is talking. Maybe this is explained by having feminine Fe in the Objective personality system, but in general I find that T doms often (both Te and Ti) lack smooth intonation, can talk quite monotonous and appear more out of tune with feeling in general (whether it's Ti or Te doms). I find neither the case in your both typings. This does not mean you're not typed correctly, but maybe are not the most typical cases of your typings.
I could myself explain it as to me it seems the most accurate way to describe the strength of functions by taking let's say 100% and divide the 100% into their 2 opposite percentages, in this case Fe and Ti. Having 90% Ti and 10% results in a Ti dominant that is _very strong and typical in _ Ti and _very weak and typical_ in Fe. On the other hand, there could also be istps that have 65% Ti and 35% Fe strengths, which would lead to a more balanced intp. Of course the middle functions then should be even closer together in strength, as the strongest function from the biggest difference makes a person dominant in that function. So the 65% Ti and 35% Fe ISTP could have 55% Se and 45% Ni if he's not a jumper (and the same but opposite numbers for a jumper, assuming they actually are a thing). I think such type of classification would be more clear than ' double activated' and such things in the OPS system. It would be both clear without complicated terms that have to be learned and it would allow for individual differences at the same time.
The 65% Ti ISTP in this example would somewhat appear more like an INFJ, with the relative high Fe and NI compared ot hte 10% Fe variation. Anyway, just some thoughts
This was very helpful to me as Fi Si to hear from your point of view concerning Fe and Fi. Most people don't talk about their experience of demon Fi and Fe.
Thank you for that feedback! 🙏
We definitely want to talk more about our relationship dynamic, type differences and how we navigate that in future videos.
I love your shirts!
Thank you 😊