Ladies, if you have a friend that has a toxic relationship and they don’t care to leave, let them be and move on. You will never matter more than whatever man they’re with. She’s not going to leave him bc of your high standards. If you’ve expressed your side, and they don’t value it, the breakup is coming anyway. Don’t be delusional and “keep things positive” bc the situation isn’t positive, and it bothers you for a reason. It’ll also start to affect your life negatively because you are the company you keep. You don’t have to suffer through a friendship because your friend wants to suffer through a relationship.
Umm KeKe let your Mom finish her thought. I think what she said about the friend is true. What’s wrong with saying I love you and whatever else. Some things are deep, the friend is moving to another state. Possibly away from close family and friends. She will be isolated. And that’s still her business but your friend can tell you I think you should wait a while it’s a big decision but I love you and I support you. Just let me know if you ever need something.
I totally agree with her because you can’t expect someone to wanna be around you when you don’t like to be around yourself😂❤🎉. Be busy celebrating yourself take care of yourself and that right person will come along into your life and then you also recognize it. You really recognize him when he arrives
Exactly. I really wished Keke absorbed that because I agree completely. A real friend will embrace the uncomfortable conversations. If we want ease hey let’s talk about that contention to see how to smoothly resolve this situation.
Agreed!! Now I’m not going to hold you down and force you but for my real friends we definitely have to have one “heavy” long drive in the car conversation because I love you and want the best for you. What you do after that is your choice. But r’ships can be life or death so I don’t mind getting serious with my real friends.
Please stop interrupting your Mama, Keke 😬 she can’t express a full thought without you interjecting and talking over her. Love yall together and want to hear both of your perspectives!
I believe what mom was trying to explain at the beginning was: Take care of yourself first so you'll even know what you're looking for. You can be in a relationship and feel very much alone if self is taken care of first. Your vision isn't as obstructed with all the inner issues when you take the time to do the selfcare first, giving you that 20/20 vision advantage during your next outing.
KEKE.. i am Nigerian raised in Enugu ( in an academia community- i think 6 years older than Yvonne. We did not really get any education on black Americans- how they got there etc. My exposure to Black Americans was Sanford and sons, Good times, Cosby show, Different world, fresh prince and watching the Olympics. We had a group of biracial kids ( half Nigerian/ half East European and a few Black American moms ) Thats it!
That dating advice wasn’t good. Which is why I don’t take dating advice from other people. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself. Other people are just going to force their own beliefs on to you. What worked for them may not work for you. And there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with having standards, as long as you can bring to the table the same things you’re asking to receive. A person doesn’t have to be rich, but they definitely need to have something going for themselves. If they’re broke, they shouldn’t be dating in the first place. They’ve got their priorities screwed up. Smh. Keke is in the situation she’s in now because she had no standards.🤷🏽♀️ Her mom said that women should work on themselves and love themselves before getting into a relationship. Well the same applies to men.
I could be wrong, but I got the impression that the whole convo about the friend supporting her friend who's in a bad relationship hit close to home for Sharon and KeKe.
I thought she was Igbo, I didn’t know they also called kings “Oba” I always love Yvonne Orji interviews so I know this is going to be good. She’s so funny 😂
13:14 it’s more than just “ not showing up for her “ that man is SINGLE, SINGLE. Okay! Let her make mistakes and that’s how she will learn. We all deserve the opportunity to F things up so we can grow from it. Let this man break her heart so she can know real love when she sees it. Just put a boundary up. “ I know you’re in love with him but I don’t think he’s good for you and for that reason I don’t want to talk about Charlie anymore. It stresses me out”
I just have to love certain friends from a distance for reasons like this. We talk about everything under the sun…I don’t wanna hear iiisssh about the situation if they don’t or haven’t made an exit plan.
Not in the right dimension is a real thing. Self Love makes you do things you can relate too. Bring your best self to the forefront as often as you can .
It’s funny because my mom used to say you have a strong voice. I would talk over her, but she would always say you have a strong voice!!! it was almost like I would be bullying her at times 😂😂😂. I miss her so much and I miss our talks😢
Yvonne is so hilarious, I love her. We all family and on some level our ancestors went through plight so black folks have a different spiritual connection. It's all beautiful no matter what shade or culture.
I love them together. I’m getting a different side and a different perspective. I love their talkshow. They should start a talkshow. They would be wonderful different perspectives from each one. I love it. I love their energy.❤❤❤❤. They remind me of me and my mom I miss her so much.🕊️❤
3:21 Mama dropping 💎 hunnie! Love, a relationship etc all starts with self - Sure wish I was on game about this in my teens - Don't Center no one else in your life - Invite in the life you have created for yourself
That dating advice wasn’t good. Which is why I don’t take dating advice from other people. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself. Other people are just going to force their own beliefs on to you. What worked for them may not work for you. And there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with having standards, as long as you can bring to the table the same things you’re asking to receive. A person doesn’t have to be rich, but they definitely need to have something going for themselves. If they’re broke, they shouldn’t be dating in the first place. They’ve got their priorities screwed up. Smh. Keke is in the situation she’s in now because she had no standards.🤷🏽♀️ Her mom said that women should work on themselves and love themselves before getting into a relationship. Well the same applies to men.
Keke, what I find is those that talk about wanting someone with 6 figures, doesn't make 6 figures. Those that make it, are ALREADY IN A CIRCLE of folks that make it (aka their co-workers/career peers), so finding someone making similar shouldn't be that hard or something to go around talking about. So this is someone who wants to pull themselves up by someone else's wallet/hustle.
True. Also a many of men/women have dated in “their circle” and find the “average Joe/Jane” is who makes them happy, so they don’t mind being the breadwinner.
That dating advice wasn’t good. Which is why I don’t take dating advice from other people. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself. Other people are just going to force their own beliefs on to you. What worked for them may not work for you. And there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with having standards, as long as you can bring to the table the same things you’re asking to receive. A person doesn’t have to be rich, but they definitely need to have something going for themselves. If they’re broke, they shouldn’t be dating in the first place. They’ve got their priorities screwed up. Smh. Keke is in the situation she’s in now because she had no standards.🤷🏽♀️ Her mom said that women should work on themselves and love themselves before getting into a relationship. Well the same applies to men.
Keke talks a lot loudly. I imagine I would need to retreat to alone time to restore all that was lost having spent some time with Keke. Also, I hope Keke learns that what she is looking for in “vibrations” and astrology can only be found in a relationship with the Messiah Jesus Christ.
Girl you know damn well you not supposed to talk over your mom that way. It’s not a power struggle we know it’s your show, your mom was telling the truth maybe from ole school prospective, you represent your age group and your mom represents her age group, then everyone benefits…
I had to click immediately. Yvonne is so gorgeous outside and inside. I know she's gonna speak from a genuine place
Ladies, if you have a friend that has a toxic relationship and they don’t care to leave, let them be and move on. You will never matter more than whatever man they’re with. She’s not going to leave him bc of your high standards. If you’ve expressed your side, and they don’t value it, the breakup is coming anyway. Don’t be delusional and “keep things positive” bc the situation isn’t positive, and it bothers you for a reason. It’ll also start to affect your life negatively because you are the company you keep.
You don’t have to suffer through a friendship because your friend wants to suffer through a relationship.
Umm KeKe let your Mom finish her thought. I think what she said about the friend is true. What’s wrong with saying I love you and whatever else. Some things are deep, the friend is moving to another state. Possibly away from close family and friends. She will be isolated. And that’s still her business but your friend can tell you I think you should wait a while it’s a big decision but I love you and I support you. Just let me know if you ever need something.
I totally agree with her because you can’t expect someone to wanna be around you when you don’t like to be around yourself😂❤🎉. Be busy celebrating yourself take care of yourself and that right person will come along into your life and then you also recognize it. You really recognize him when he arrives
14:13 I agree with Ms Sharon here. Sometimes things need to be “heavy” for them to get the point
Exactly. I really wished Keke absorbed that because I agree completely. A real friend will embrace the uncomfortable conversations. If we want ease hey let’s talk about that contention to see how to smoothly resolve this situation.
Agreed we talking about love here sometimes it do feel like life or death it’s not as easy as “fuck em”
Agreed!! Now I’m not going to hold you down and force you but for my real friends we definitely have to have one “heavy” long drive in the car conversation because I love you and want the best for you. What you do after that is your choice. But r’ships can be life or death so I don’t mind getting serious with my real friends.
Please stop interrupting your Mama, Keke 😬 she can’t express a full thought without you interjecting and talking over her. Love yall together and want to hear both of your perspectives!
I am so here for Keke's energy. And Yvonne is absolutely amazing
I believe what mom was trying to explain at the beginning was: Take care of yourself first so you'll even know what you're looking for. You can be in a relationship and feel very much alone if self is taken care of first. Your vision isn't as obstructed with all the inner issues when you take the time to do the selfcare first, giving you that 20/20 vision advantage during your next outing.
I could listen to you two talk all day. Would love to see you two in a project together. 💜
I never realized Yvonne and I had a similar family history. My mom and dad are children of Nigerian chiefs. I did not know that. I love her!
KEKE.. i am Nigerian raised in Enugu ( in an academia community- i think 6 years older than Yvonne. We did not really get any education on black Americans- how they got there etc. My exposure to Black Americans was Sanford and sons, Good times, Cosby show, Different world, fresh prince and watching the Olympics. We had a group of biracial kids ( half Nigerian/ half East European and a few Black American moms ) Thats it!
Imma need Keke to stop interrupting her Momma. I'm just waiting on Ms. Sharon to tell her to hush her dog on mouth and let her finish a thought.
They do it to each other. But I agree that it would be nice if they both let the other finish their thought/sentence before offering their rebuttals.
Sounds like you came to the wrong podcast miss lady
@@TheArtOf.LettingGoStudio adding the "miss lady" at the end of your comment omg 😭
Exactly her mum has so many wisdom gems but she keeps getting cut by keke 😢
That dating advice wasn’t good. Which is why I don’t take dating advice from other people. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself. Other people are just going to force their own beliefs on to you. What worked for them may not work for you. And there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with having standards, as long as you can bring to the table the same things you’re asking to receive. A person doesn’t have to be rich, but they definitely need to have something going for themselves. If they’re broke, they shouldn’t be dating in the first place. They’ve got their priorities screwed up. Smh. Keke is in the situation she’s in now because she had no standards.🤷🏽♀️ Her mom said that women should work on themselves and love themselves before getting into a relationship. Well the same applies to men.
came for the Yvonne conversation BUT this convo with Ms Sharon... love these pre-conversations too 💛
I could be wrong, but I got the impression that the whole convo about the friend supporting her friend who's in a bad relationship hit close to home for Sharon and KeKe.
For real for real. Keke was triggered
Yvonne is a whole vibe and energy 😻😻
16:35 keke! Let yo mama talk girl
I loved this conversation! So important to encourage this global conversation of Blackness, Africa & African Diaspora.
Agreed!
I love Ms Keke
Shes really a star - fascinating, intelligent, funny, this is a great format for her talent
💕
The synchronized “umph” was hilarious! Girl he can hear you Keke!
TEEKS is a Māori soul singer from New Zealand. Hes has awesome music
I thought she was Igbo, I didn’t know they also called kings “Oba”
I always love Yvonne Orji interviews so I know this is going to be good. She’s so funny 😂
Is she not Igbo? I think she is judging from the surname
13:14 it’s more than just “ not showing up for her “ that man is SINGLE, SINGLE. Okay!
Let her make mistakes and that’s how she will learn. We all deserve the opportunity to F things up so we can grow from it. Let this man break her heart so she can know real love when she sees it.
Just put a boundary up. “ I know you’re in love with him but I don’t think he’s good for you and for that reason I don’t want to talk about Charlie anymore. It stresses me out”
I just have to love certain friends from a distance for reasons like this. We talk about everything under the sun…I don’t wanna hear iiisssh about the situation if they don’t or haven’t made an exit plan.
Not in the right dimension is a real thing. Self Love makes you do things you can relate too. Bring your best self to the forefront as often as you can .
Love listening to this great job 😊
It’s funny because my mom used to say you have a strong voice. I would talk over her, but she would always say you have a strong voice!!! it was almost like I would be bullying her at times 😂😂😂. I miss her so much and I miss our talks😢
Thank you sistas, everything we needed. Can't we get this chat on the regular? Love from UK
Great advice ❤❤❤❤❤ KEKE. Vocalist Actor activist gifted influencer and creative
Yvonne is so hilarious, I love her. We all family and on some level our ancestors went through plight so black folks have a different spiritual connection. It's all beautiful no matter what shade or culture.
I’M WITH MAMA SHARON ON FOCUS ON YOURSELF
I could see these two working together. *manifesting*
The structure in Keke’s makeup. Yes, ma’am! 😍
Now why'd I pull up this First Time song and fall in love at first line!
I love them together. I’m getting a different side and a different perspective. I love their talkshow. They should start a talkshow. They would be wonderful different perspectives from each one. I love it. I love their energy.❤❤❤❤. They remind me of me and my mom I miss her so much.🕊️❤
didn't know they had a podcast!!!! i gotta tune in!
Thank you for introducing me to Teeks. His music is delicious!
Imma need Ms. Keke and Ms. Orji to start campaigning for office. I see Yvonne running for prez with Keke as her vice.
Idk I think Keke talked to much? Maybe should have let Yvonne finish her sentences.
Also, Keke is giving me Akeelah in this episode with the glasses and her hair in a ponytail lol.
Ms. Sharon gave great advice! Thats how i met my husband. I was gearing up for my hot girl summer and he came in the middle of spring 😅 5:47
talk Ms Sharon👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
3:21 Mama dropping 💎 hunnie! Love, a relationship etc all starts with self - Sure wish I was on game about this in my teens - Don't Center no one else in your life - Invite in the life you have created for yourself
Keke needs to listen more. She seems like a bit of a perfectionist projector. Humans be humans tho.
You two made me laugh😅 great interview ❤
Lmfaooo he from New Zeeeeeland New Zeeeeeeeland. Love having a chicago accent we country and funny af
That Miss Lady cracks me up 😂 Love ya❤
"He can hear you Keke, he can hear you?!" 🤣
Keke as a fellow virgo... I knew you was about to say as a virgo lol. #virgoseason247
Mama Sharon be throwing shade‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mama was preaching
This was everything ❤
3:45 Say it Sharon!!!!!
This duo👏🏼👏🏼
54:48 Here from Teeks tiktok 👀😂
BAHAHA thank you, I’ve been waiting lol I needed to hear the rest 💀
That beginning conversation with Sharon seemed like it was personal for Keke.
Teeks just got added to my library…looking handsome Teeks! He got to be aboriginal or summm…
He is Māori from New Zealand
Omg I’m from portharcourt/ river state too!!🥰❤️🔥✨
❤ saved the best for last with the mention of #TEEKS from #newzealand Love this for him and his career! 🎉
Keke you need to make your mama talk baby girl😂
I loved this video
"We're young" but the problem is children being brought up mixed up in "young, fun" mess😢
My great great grandmother on my mother side was Cherokee Native American
There's huts in Africa and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that
My space list that a new app thanks keeks
KeKe has great advice but she cuts off mom way too much. She has words to contribute as well
Now looking up Teeks
Teeks is Polynesian babyyyy, Māoris are hellla slept on!
me too the first time i saw Teeks! XD
Keke … did the convo with your mom press a button at the end ??
Love it
Ok Teeks!
I love this damn podcast!
Keke please. If a man can’t take you on a nice date he’s not ready to date
Exactly!
That dating advice wasn’t good. Which is why I don’t take dating advice from other people. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself. Other people are just going to force their own beliefs on to you. What worked for them may not work for you. And there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with having standards, as long as you can bring to the table the same things you’re asking to receive. A person doesn’t have to be rich, but they definitely need to have something going for themselves. If they’re broke, they shouldn’t be dating in the first place. They’ve got their priorities screwed up. Smh. Keke is in the situation she’s in now because she had no standards.🤷🏽♀️ Her mom said that women should work on themselves and love themselves before getting into a relationship. Well the same applies to men.
If you're gonna have guests or a cohost you gotta let them talk and finish their statement
Love you, Ms Sharon! Sorry you get talked over a lot
Why am I learning stuff from Keke Palmer? All the time?
I love Yvonne but Chile Keke can TALK
Omg hearing her story she has the same uprooting as Nicki Minaj. Their backgrounds are very similar
Why Ke Ke mom didn't tell her that her wig was sliding back 🥴😬
The wig isn’t sliding, it looks like she has a nude color headband on
Ms lady 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Sometimes serious conversations are heavy, and if it could really change the course of her life.. Sounds serious to me.
There are plenty of people with 9-5 jobs that date people that they feel will increase their profile… especially men more so than women imo
Keke, what I find is those that talk about wanting someone with 6 figures, doesn't make 6 figures. Those that make it, are ALREADY IN A CIRCLE of folks that make it (aka their co-workers/career peers), so finding someone making similar shouldn't be that hard or something to go around talking about. So this is someone who wants to pull themselves up by someone else's wallet/hustle.
True. Also a many of men/women have dated in “their circle” and find the “average Joe/Jane” is who makes them happy, so they don’t mind being the breadwinner.
We need to understand that Nationality (American, German, African etc...) is different from race. So I am an American, with African ancestry.
There is no such nationality as African😊
A more complete discussion would be nationality, race, ethnicity.
21:56 We can also talk about the phenomenon of "Brain Drain".
SN: My sociology degree will be used (even if only in RUclips comment sections 😄)
Selena is from Texas .
That dating advice wasn’t good. Which is why I don’t take dating advice from other people. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself. Other people are just going to force their own beliefs on to you. What worked for them may not work for you. And there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with having standards, as long as you can bring to the table the same things you’re asking to receive. A person doesn’t have to be rich, but they definitely need to have something going for themselves. If they’re broke, they shouldn’t be dating in the first place. They’ve got their priorities screwed up. Smh. Keke is in the situation she’s in now because she had no standards.🤷🏽♀️ Her mom said that women should work on themselves and love themselves before getting into a relationship. Well the same applies to men.
Stop interrupting your Sharon.
Please stop interrupting your momma baby..
54:00 Teeks isn’t black? 😂 nah he’s Maori.
Please let your mama speak...please.
Is anyone actually listening to keke for relationship advice? Look who she procreated with 😂😂
Keke talks a lot loudly. I imagine I would need to retreat to alone time to restore all that was lost having spent some time with Keke. Also, I hope Keke learns that what she is looking for in “vibrations” and astrology can only be found in a relationship with the Messiah Jesus Christ.
Y'all gonna let Keke "Sagittarius Moon" live her life, and interview how she does 😄
Girl you know damn well you not supposed to talk over your mom that way. It’s not a power struggle we know it’s your show, your mom was telling the truth maybe from ole school prospective, you represent your age group and your mom represents her age group, then everyone benefits…
Because cali Is Mexico !!!
I feel like this conversation was very surface-level, not authentic
Or maybe she was liberian
Keke-keep a job