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For the first time in many years I am watching five strong, amazing, smart and insightful women talking and sharing their view on these great questions. My grandmother was like this. I miss her very much. I am so grateful that I got to experience a person like her.
Hello Leah, Congratulations for this video. of course, there are the sincere and informative answers from your guests. But there is something I noticed in this video: The joy these women have. They laugh, the atmosphere is good, they can be serious, but not for too long. It is this joy of living that attracts me to the Philippines. Thank you for sharing this moment with your friends.
I do like how they seem to value the person over anything he could provide for them...& as an American who would love to have a Filipina, if I had one, & she wanted to continue in any career she chose, she could persue whatever makes her feel happy & secure in life...as an American, I believe a person has the basic human right to life, liberty & the persuit of happiness...if she's happy, she'll be willing to make me happy... I like that...that lady in the red dress is a knockout!
Being a good wife, mother and keeping a home is the most important thing a person can do. A good husband will protect and provide for this family, this home with all his might be because the most important thing to him is his wife, kids and the home. The kids look to their parents for everything including their own self respect and education. Mum is the centre of all this, her job is the most important job of all.
10k is enough? Mary is my hero! Shay is correct. Being “just a housewife” is not the proper terminology. My mother was a housewife. Her day started at 4am and ended when everyone went to bed. I’m so grateful for growing up with my mother being a housewife/house manager.
Money does not buy Happiness , but it makes life easier ! Everyone has a different lifestyle ! Everyone has a different idea of comfort ! Women need space also ! They need to feel they are contributing , so why not a career ! Give and take ! Excellent content ladies ! Hope you all have a great week !
That's so true, it is important that a man can provide if he wants a traditional wife. Living in the Philippines and not live like the locals, $3,000 is good and comfortable!
Beautiful video, thankyou leah , watching the bond of friendship growing in your group is refreshing. Bless you and the gang for inviting us into your lives ❤
I love the clarity that the ladies brought to the questions. Being a housewife is a very noble and difficult job. And a good man would appreciate that. And most men do not mind their wives going out and working, but the main factor is. You cannot forget about your household when you go out and work. But again the ladys borough great clarity.
Working a career makes women masculine. And a woman cannot be a great mother and a great employee simultaneously. One will have to give. That’s why the best wives do not work outside the home.
Here's a crazy idea. If she wants to work. Support her. Instead of being a lazy piece of 💩 also, support her by helping out around the house. Me. I appreciate my girlfriend not for what she does. But who she is. If her working makes her happy, I'll gladly cook dinner a couple nights a week. I'll run the vacuum or whatever else needs done.
In nearly every relationship I have had... I did the vast majority of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, running her kids to sports, social stuff. I had the time. They worked hard. I was thrilled to care of her, her house, kiddos, and my homes. I am fat enough ! I need the laundry folding vacuum workout 🙂
Bravo!!!! As a country boy in the USA, i am impressed that there are women in this world that are conservative and old school. Most and and I say "most" women in the States are self absorbed, FEMINIST, and unrealistic in their looks and appeal. Great job. BTW love the chickens in the audio background.
And I'd say you're an idiot. Most western women want the same things these women do. But I mean. You're a hick in a town of like 29,000 people. I'm sure you've met most of the women in the US. So I cant argue with you 😂
Hi Leah, Great video with some very funny, smart,beautiful,strong women today...Love all you guys! The topic is really important and you had the perfect balance of personality 's to cover these topics. Well done!! There is one comment from Shay that really struck home with me was " JUST A HOUSE WIFE " If a husband had to pay out of pocket for everything that a wife/mom does in the course of a day it's a fortune! Wife, Mom,Nurse,Cook,House Cleaner and of course be the glue that holds everything together with a smile and happiness!! Thank you for the content.
I enjoyed this video.. my LDR Filipina is an amazing housewife I support her and my step kids.. I am very proud of her I don't just support her financially but emotionally aswell and she supports me 💯 emotionally as well as physically 😁 syempre 😁 she is the definition of the LIGHT OF THE HOUSE she just seems to know instinctively what to do in every situation.. we have been together for 5 years she hates to ask for money even if she knows I have money and when I do give her money she is so good at prioritising what the needs of our family are.. you know ever pesso counts and she really makes every pesso count.. she works hard cooking for the kids and keeping the house clean making sure our kids have everything they need and making sure they have a good happy childhood 🥰🥰🥰 I am so lucky to have such an amazing woman in my life I am forever thankful to God for giving me the chance to have the love from such an amazing woman and to feel her soul as part of my own... I now fully understand why people call their partner.. the other half.. or the better half .. Kasi.. we are both just half of a full l.. she is a part of me and I am a part of her and that kind of bond is so strong it can never separate 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@Its-Just-Si-Entertainment haha don’t worry, and making mistakes is part of the fun. And when people laugh, they’re not laughing at you, they’re laughing with you, people actually appreciate it when you learn their language and mistakes are welcome.
The amount of money is not depending on the Filipina but on the westerner and how much comfort they want. But if you can afford a 1200-2000 usd a month apt in the U.S. you can afford anything in the Philippines
I believe the lady in the middle is the most traditional the most honest and would make the best wife, the two on the left appear to have been influenced by western thinking. They seem to think that being a good mother and housewife is something you can do part time after you satisfied your career, they only have to look at western culture to see how well that's going, however if you do choose to be a mother and a housewife over a career you better make darn sure you choose the right partner.
According to the Pea expats should not make the Filipina partner stop working . If the relationships fails later and she can prove he stopped her from working or her career in court , then he will be liable for huge costs to her. I think its wise to let the Filipina carry on working as she will need income after the older expats dies anyway. Everyone ends up on a pension no matter how small it is, if you can survive on that with some savings as backup everything else is a bonus and no reason not to date. Wouldn't rely on youtube or any other platform to earn money either, doesn't take much to get shut down or bad PR to destroy your income.
@@squashingRumors If she has witnesses and documented proof that a guy stopped her from working during their relationship and now she has no income then a court will jail him. No doubt you can buy her off before it got to court in some cases but its the law there. Watch the filipina pea vlog 3 months ago titled- AVOID THIS MISTAKE WHEN LIVING WITH A FILIPINA - Legal Talk With Attorney Gracey. To save you time its talked about from 22.44
Hello Ladies, I'm an American who was coming to the Philippines before my stroke and I was a Musician many years ago then got married then divorced, it was my decision because after 20 years she cheated on me too many times, so as a Musician I didn't save or invest money😔but I'm a disabled Man with a monthly check which now I'm spending on rent, which is $1800 a month here in America and groceries that takes much of that $$$
With my Filipina wife right now I like her home taking care of our daughter but once I get to the Philippines to live she wants to be a teacher so I'll send her to college so she can teach it will be the love of teaching not for income ❤❤❤❤
I like the one in the middle. Balance is important...maybe work part-time as homemaker, but still do career things you enjoy. I would be a good husband and still do the career stuff I enjoy. BALANCE! Try to understand, I enjoy helping do dishes and making meals and doing gardening and home improvement projects. I am, of course, retired.
She can call it sacrifice or you can call it compromise... Either way, if you don't know how to compromise, you will never have a successful relationship.
What a wonderful video. Five beautiful, intelligent and well spoken women from the Philippines. It’s videos like this. That makes me want to leave for the Philippines today. I can’t wait to get there.
Women (of any culture) are VERY security minded. A good heart don't keep the lights on...... money does........ including EVERYTHING these ladies desire.
If your truly in love, it should not be a problem if they continue with what your doing. Being a vlogger, it will not be forever either. People change jobs all the time.
Its wonderful to see these beautiful ladies that care more about the man and the relationship and not about the money and possessions. WOW certainly not like that here in the US. Will be moving there next month and looking forward to being away from the toxic relationships.
Me I would be extremely happy to find a woman who likes gardening, has her own career I enjoy growing my own vegetables and I’m very happy helping out around the house if my wife wants to continue her career.
Since they wouldn't understand how much money it takes for certain things in the USA or other countries that a potential foreign mate would come from and possibly take them back to, and that money doesn't go as far, maybe try asking what size of a house would they be satisfied with, what kind of clothing and how much, and how often they expect to be taken out.
Hi Leah this fun and serious topic, i like to see the men in a video answering question what they wsnt or expect, filipina think always of food that make me laugh 😂
Well, if he is going to get a nice young wife, he should be able to provide for her a little more, even though both can contribute to the pot. Sure chemistry is important, and heat, but these men go there because they like the old fashions values, so they should make a point to exceptionally care for their lady. These ladies usually taken care of the man they have, so that is more than reasonable.
who could a man not fall in love with Mary! my god what a funny and fun woman she must be, oh and by the wan, I'm single and looking oh and Mary $90K lol lol lol it's NNE Brian
Professional career or not, staying at home and taking care of the house, raising 1 or more children, grocery shopping, paying bills, doctors appointments, etc. is a full time job with very limited time off and long hours. It’s easier to have a full time job outside of the home. It takes 2 to make a baby, surely GOD’S intention is for both parents to help raise the children.
Kinda ironic. These guys say it's the "man's job to provide" yet your traditional housewife works 12+ hours per day, 7 days a week. What kinda of man makes his wife work that much?
I would think that if you love someone you wouldn't make your partner chose. Ok, you are starting a family, then the conversation may change. But I'm assuming I fall in love with a woman part of that is what she wants. Would a guy just quit his job because she said so? Doubtful. An older guy that is retired or something shouldn't expect her to just drop her life so he can be entertained. If a woman wants to raise a family and that is her priority then she would probably be wanting to be home with the family. My mom was a "housewife" and my father knew he had the easy part of going to work every day. A woman that gives all for her family is a diamond that is just as rare and should be admired as such. Just my opinion.
Problem is a lot of these guys are older men. And they just wantva young, hot Filipina to wait on them hand and foot. This is why they are moving to Asia. Time has passed them by. (Not all of course) But I agree 100% i will encourage my future wife to do whatever makes her happy. Ifcshe wants to work, great. She wants to start a business, i got her back. Wants to start a youtuve channel. I have 30k in gear. She can use any of it. I make more then enough to provide us with a great lifestyle. But if she still wants to work and needs me to help around the house. I'll gladly do so. If she wants to cook and clean while I work, great.
@@Pcbdude82 yes. Regardless of how much money the guy may have, that isn't the point. If she loves her job expecting her to quit so you can have a nurse maid is wrong. Hopefully the gal would realize this and walk away. Things will probably only get worse from there. I'm in my later 50's and can't understand why, as an adult you would expect someone to walk away from their life for you. IF she wants to then she would probably say so. But to even suggest it...then sign over everything to her first. Are you comfortable giving up everything for her? If not, then don't expect to her to do it either.
Older women are practical and want money, younger women want love and passion. The middle woman is mature and practical and so more transactional, and the one on the left is more idealistic. There's nothing wrong with any approach There is no "right" answer but there is a risky answer.
Unsolicited advice sir, take your time, no big decisions, I mean due diligence goes a long way. There are lots of good partners out there (you’ll see).. if you find a good one, you’re in for a surprise, she’ll probably treat you better than anyone. Of course there are bad ones too, so be careful
What I hear is MORE about SELF and not what is BEST for the FAMILY. GOD is first then FAMILY not CAREER. What would God like for you to be for your HUSBAND (KING)?
@penttimuhli9442 The wife doesn't need a career. God never made it a requirement for the wife. The husband is the provider, but under the modern-day system called EQUALITY means EQUAL 50-50. Most western men will avoid modern-day independent women. Independent means SELF.
@@Bobc308 What happens if the husband can't work due to illness or he passes away and the wife has no experience in the world because supposedly it was against God's plan? The woman in Proverbs 31 was a breadwinner. With young couples these days often both need to work to afford purchasing a house
@@penttimuhli9442 Under God's plan, a woman is not equal to a man. Proverbs 31 is a virtuous woman like Ruth, which she had nothing. The Bible gives us several stories where the husband died and left their wives with nothing. If both parents are working, who will manage the house and the kids? God told us to not love the world and to not love the things of the world (1 John 2:15) and to not conform to the world (Romans 12:2). In the western culture, things are very expensive and people try to buy things that they cannot afford and you become a slave to the lender. We as Christians should be the lender and not the borrower. Jacob had nothing, but he worked 7 years of labor to get each wife and 7 years to get his animals. The Proverbs 31 woman managed her house. It takes time for a man to gain resources and then he looks for a wife. You should grow your own food. What bills? God provides the Sun for light. A woman's career doesn't come before her family. The family comes FIRST. In the Bible, a virgin woman lived with her parents until she got married and others were harlots. Kids are a blessing if they are raised right. If they are not raised right, they will not know God and they will become a bad branch of the family tree (a bad fruit). God created the woman to help her husband and if she has no husband, she should still be helping her parents, but society has corrupted the ways of God.
The lady with the long, grey pants seems professional, that is great...I like that, I am a Retired College Professor. Maybe I would like to meet both, the grey long pants and the red dress. Maybe from knowing them one may share my feelings.
I heard all of your lady's opinion about the money.......and you are right money it's important yes indeed we all know that......and you are right relationship it's the most important coz if you are not happy then money dose not solve that problem.......loving and caring for each other and family that first before anything Al's.....I would look for future life partner soon and I know that a lots of philippina don't mind age difference and make you comfortable even you are a lot older the her .....hope to meet someone soon.....when I come for visit to dumaguete
Hi Leah and ladies. If I were to live in PI, it’s not much but I earned 135’000. Pesos/month without working. However, I would be interested to find a responsible woman who wanted added future life value opportunities.
Tim never lead with digits my Pinay asawa doesn't know the full amount I make without having to work either. I only told her 2.5k monthly into PNB account and the rest stays in my US account and she didn't find that out for many months after we got together
Of course it is about cash. My Filipina wife owns PP30 Million in property, that I have bought her. She has an income of PP80-100, 000 pcm. I met her when I was 48 and she was 37. We have a family and live in the Philippines. BTW, I am very fit. I have boxed since I was a teenager and have always participated in sports. Unfortunately, she has had too much of a good life over the past 10 years and seems to forget where she was when I met her.
I am in my 50's, earn 14,560,000 pesos / year and have 165,000,000 pesos in the bank. I wouldn't tell any lady in the PI any of that information, including the women in this video. I honestly don't understand why this topic keeps being brought up. Is it supposed to get foreigners thinking that if they only bring love to the table and some meager earnings / savings, that they will be able to develop a relationship with a woman who is much younger and / or about their level looks wise? This kind of video encourages men to let their guard down and reveal things about themselves or put their livelihood at risk in a country where desperate people do desperate things. I just can't wrap my head around the value of this conversation. Yes, we all know that some women think / feel the way that you SAY you do. We also know that there are plenty of those who SAY they do and then things change, drastically, when they are not on a RUclips video.
So basically what i am hearing here is the same things 90% of the western women would tell you. They want someone who can provide a comfortable lifestyle. They want the option to work. Especially if the man isnt rich, so they can contribute financially. Makes perfect sense. They want balance.
Thank you ladies! For the first time since I began watching the pinay vlogs I heard women actually describe what love it. I swear that Filipinas have a 'love' guide book that they read from, but not this time! For once I did not feel like someone was trying to pick my pocket. Being 'rich' enough to hire outside help is a bad idea in my opinion. In what World is bringing other people into a family situation a good idea? Think about it ladies. You KNOW what the uniform we men like to see maids dress up in looks like, right? I'm sure you girls have a few ideas about the dress code for male help too. Tsk, tsk, tsk. Even if Mary wore rags heads to toe she would be a solid 8. Why do you ladies troll for compliments? Consider them offered. The content was great and my thanks to the ladies who played, 'Peek-a-boo pussy cat'. I look forward to watching part 2.
When watching this video I was confused about the “desired amount of money” the ladies would want their partner (or both combined) to earn. The average seemed to be 40-50k per month. This seems to be an extremely low figure to have even a reasonable lifestyle. Even in a province, much less a city. As long as we are being honest about this, shouldn’t the number be at least 100-150k. Jerry in NH
Think you missed the point, they said it's not about the money as long as they can put food on the table.... 10k monthly will be enough to put food on the table in province. Depending on the size of family of course. It's something that is difficult to discuss if you're thinking of family needs vs lifestyle achieving, Point is they all said its about the person making each other happy and working together as a team, family unit. That's what I took from that 🤔 you are talking lifestyle and the women are talking of basic needs being met and again it's all relative to combined household income/family members
I agree Gerald. Only one lady actually answered the question and the rest answered a question that was not asked. As for your comment about 50k being too low.... 50k is about $1,000 USD. $1,000 per month in the Philippines is good money. Doctors usually make $1,000 per month in the Philippines. Nurses and police officers make about $500 or $600 per month. A construction worker might only make $10 per day at the most and if he or she works 30 days a month that it still only $300 per month. This is the reason an exact number is important to hear from these ladies. The only one that answered started out with the low at $400 a month and said $1,000 a month would be so much better. That is a proper answer to the question asked and I respect her for her honesty. Her answer suggests that she wants a man providing income at least in the middle range but like all women and men for that matter... the more the better. Honesty is refreshing.
50k is @$880 US. I have an apartment in Pasig that costs $264 per mo. Nothing really fancy. Add food, transportation and utilities. $880 does get us bye, but no trips or parties.
The one on the far left is correct. Not neglecting your partner and responsibilities at home matters. One of the main problems with American women is that they think if they work they shouldn't have to do very little or nothing at home, while still using her money only for herself so they often bring no value to the relationship/family.
This one is a bit of a loaded question. Much would depend on the westerners requirements for a happy life then add a bit for family on it. 24x7 ac, large house, eating out all the time. If she is ok with a small unsealed shack getting water from a well eating rice and dry fish that will cost little. Bringing her standards up to yours will have a drastic change to perceived basic costs. In the west the women just wont accept less then a six pack, 500k 6 foot tall and darn good looking. That is unless she really finds him hot.
Usually you can sense if they are just using you for money. But if you found a good one, you’ll probably be doubting yourself if all of this is really happening bec they will treat you right.
In order to answer the question properly, the girls would have to experience western culture partially. they’d have to understand That western men that are proper and self supportive. should not be living at home with his parents !! should be able to afford a car and insurance and his own place. And should also be able to provide for a wife and child, whether or not the child exist at the time. I say this because in most western countries parents raze their children to be self sufficient so the parents can save for there retirement and not rely upon their children for monetary assistance. So If your western boyfriend still lives at home and you feel that he is the one ?? just remember that there is going to be a lot of headaches and sacrifices that will need to be made until your boyfriend grows up and stops playing games and gets a real job. This commonly doesn’t happen unless someone they really love pushes them to provide a sustained life. Because things are way more expensive in the west and many young men are not pulling their weight in life being slackers still sucking on mommies. I only say all this to help save you angles ❤from heartache When you find out he can’t afford to do the processing of paperwork for an overseas wife or 90 day fiancé. Or even pay for a plane ticket and hotel to see you. It’s all talk until he arrives. Just keep that mind set encase he hurts you. ❤❤
Leah, I like the lady in Red. If she is 40 or older....I would like to meet her .....and yes, if she is with me she, her son and I can eat every day 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How do Filipina women feel about guys who are unable to have sex (erectile dysfunction) or are sterile and can not have children? Would they still be interested in a guy?
What we can see here is that more and more local women getting more and more westernized. I ask myself how many foreign men would accept a pinay women who is working when the man has an age gap of 20 years or more, living in the Philippines for retirement. . I can´t imagine that he accept a woman he has to kiss good bye in the morning and saying hello in evening after her work. Foreigners wanna enjoy their last 2 or 3 decades with their beloved philippine woman, not without her, i guess.
One thing I am surprised is rarely discussed. With all these age gap relationships. What the hell happens to the 40 year old Filipina when the 70 year old goat drops dead ? I have sufficient resources to care for someone and her kiddos. But... still requires budgeting and some financial restraint. The guy should have sufficient love and respect for his partner to plan for his death. He should leave behind both sufficient resources and the skills for her and her kids to make it to the end of her life. If married... she won't get survivor Social Security benefits until her mid 60s. Currently that's at best $1200 a month. Which ain't much. Perhaps more than sufficient for current Philippine cost of living ??
Ladies...there's a saying that holds true for most men..."Keep his balls empty and his stomach full" if this is the case most men will want you to.do.whatever makes you happy. As well, you're all quite young but for the predominance of you five and maybe all of you, RUclips is wonderful but it isn't a permanent career...like it or not...everything has its season and right now you're harvesting but winter always comes!
Yes, more and more, especially on the american hotspots like Dumaguete or big cities... And as we see here, more and more women of the Dumaguete gang having their own RUclips channel, lol.
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Yes, I'm a cynic. What I am hearing is a lot of modern western women's attitudes. I will be very cautious when I am in the Philippines.
No need to worry, they have they're priorities right. Go, you wouldn't regret it!
Pesos vs dollars. They are talking pesos.
They're just asking for adequate provision for a family, not Gucci bags and all that crap.
Any women in a normal state mind does not want a man who has no job, no cash, or iis a bum.
I would take the last one on the right, if l was younger.
For the first time in many years I am watching five strong, amazing, smart and insightful women talking and sharing their view on these great questions. My grandmother was like this. I miss her very much. I am so grateful that I got to experience a person like her.
Hello Leah, Congratulations for this video. of course, there are the sincere and informative answers from your guests. But there is something I noticed in this video: The joy these women have. They laugh, the atmosphere is good, they can be serious, but not for too long. It is this joy of living that attracts me to the Philippines.
Thank you for sharing this moment with your friends.
The people are resilient, if you’ve been there you’ll see most don’t have much but they always find reasons to smile
@Cons2911 yes it's true, i can see that on my every trip in the PH.
It's says it all when the ladies talk about love and respect before money. Wow.
I do like how they seem to value the person over anything he could provide for them...& as an American who would love to have a Filipina, if I had one, & she wanted to continue in any career she chose, she could persue whatever makes her feel happy & secure in life...as an American, I believe a person has the basic human right to life, liberty & the persuit of happiness...if she's happy, she'll be willing to make me happy... I like that...that lady in the red dress is a knockout!
Being a good wife, mother and keeping a home is the most important thing a person can do. A good husband will protect and provide for this family, this home with all his might be because the most important thing to him is his wife, kids and the home. The kids look to their parents for everything including their own self respect and education. Mum is the centre of all this, her job is the most important job of all.
A wonderful group of Beautiful Ladies, with lots of truth to what you are looking for. Exactly how much is different for each lady😊
10k is enough? Mary is my hero!
Shay is correct. Being “just a housewife” is not the proper terminology.
My mother was a housewife. Her day started at 4am and ended when everyone went to bed. I’m so grateful for growing up with my mother being a housewife/house manager.
Money does not buy Happiness , but it makes life easier ! Everyone has a different lifestyle ! Everyone has a different idea of comfort ! Women need space also ! They need to feel they are contributing , so why not a career ! Give and take ! Excellent content ladies ! Hope you all have a great week !
That's so true, it is important that a man can provide if he wants a traditional wife. Living in the Philippines and not live like the locals, $3,000 is good and comfortable!
Beautiful video, thankyou leah , watching the bond of friendship growing in your group is refreshing. Bless you and the gang for inviting us into your lives ❤
I love the clarity that the ladies brought to the questions. Being a housewife is a very noble and difficult job. And a good man would appreciate that. And most men do not mind their wives going out and working, but the main factor is. You cannot forget about your household when you go out and work. But again the ladys borough great clarity.
Working a career makes women masculine. And a woman cannot be a great mother and a great employee simultaneously. One will have to give. That’s why the best wives do not work outside the home.
Here's a crazy idea. If she wants to work. Support her. Instead of being a lazy piece of 💩 also, support her by helping out around the house.
Me. I appreciate my girlfriend not for what she does. But who she is. If her working makes her happy, I'll gladly cook dinner a couple nights a week. I'll run the vacuum or whatever else needs done.
In nearly every relationship I have had... I did the vast majority of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, running her kids to sports, social stuff. I had the time. They worked hard. I was thrilled to care of her, her house, kiddos, and my homes. I am fat enough ! I need the laundry folding vacuum workout 🙂
Bravo!!!! As a country boy in the USA, i am impressed that there are women in this world that are conservative and old school. Most and and I say "most" women in the States are self absorbed, FEMINIST, and unrealistic in their looks and appeal. Great job. BTW love the chickens in the audio background.
And I'd say you're an idiot. Most western women want the same things these women do. But I mean. You're a hick in a town of like 29,000 people. I'm sure you've met most of the women in the US. So I cant argue with you 😂
Hi Leah, Great video with some very funny, smart,beautiful,strong women today...Love all you guys! The topic is really important and you had the perfect balance of personality 's to cover these topics. Well done!! There is one comment from Shay that really struck home with me was " JUST A HOUSE WIFE " If a husband had to pay out of pocket for everything that a wife/mom does in the course of a day it's a fortune! Wife, Mom,Nurse,Cook,House Cleaner and of course be the glue that holds everything together with a smile and happiness!! Thank you for the content.
It was good to watch and listen and learn from your guests who all gave great answers, and had very good time together. ❤🙏
I enjoyed this video.. my LDR Filipina is an amazing housewife I support her and my step kids.. I am very proud of her I don't just support her financially but emotionally aswell and she supports me 💯 emotionally as well as physically 😁 syempre 😁 she is the definition of the LIGHT OF THE HOUSE she just seems to know instinctively what to do in every situation.. we have been together for 5 years she hates to ask for money even if she knows I have money and when I do give her money she is so good at prioritising what the needs of our family are.. you know ever pesso counts and she really makes every pesso count.. she works hard cooking for the kids and keeping the house clean making sure our kids have everything they need and making sure they have a good happy childhood 🥰🥰🥰 I am so lucky to have such an amazing woman in my life I am forever thankful to God for giving me the chance to have the love from such an amazing woman and to feel her soul as part of my own... I now fully understand why people call their partner.. the other half.. or the better half .. Kasi.. we are both just half of a full l.. she is a part of me and I am a part of her and that kind of bond is so strong it can never separate 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Ha, you have bits and pieces of Tagalog already haha, nice. Those alone will have people’s smiling when you talk to them
@@Cons2911 syempre alam KO conti Lang tagalog pero minsan Hindi LAHAT maintindihan 😁
@@Its-Just-Si-Entertainment haha don’t worry, and making mistakes is part of the fun. And when people laugh, they’re not laughing at you, they’re laughing with you, people actually appreciate it when you learn their language and mistakes are welcome.
@@Cons2911 oo alam KO Yan 😁
That was a video with great questions and answers. Thank you. 🙂👍👍👍🙏
Thank you Joe!
Expectations vs reality: if you love someone, you’ll find a way. 😊
Of course Mary is the first to speak in the intro 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wake up Shay
I like Lady frist talk thank you All for you're houest option
Our pleasure!
LEAH ❤ THIS VIDEO IS EXCELLENT, GREAT CONTENT!, HILARIOUS AND VERY FUNNY ❤
Ohhh waooo you guys are so funny, specially the one in the middle has a contagious laugh 😂
Very interesting. The ladies were very interesting and extremely honest.
All great girls, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I wish you great happiness in your lives.
A real man will love you for who you are, he will never burden you!
Great topic Leah, I enjoy filipino women they are so real and open minded.
My favorite ladies ♥️💙🇵🇭
Thank you
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673Very welcome ❤
The most noble profession is being a loving wife mother housewife
Another great video my love ❤
Refreshing to hear these 5 lovely ladies…way different from western women… good luck ladies 😊
The amount of money is not depending on the Filipina but on the westerner and how much comfort they want. But if you can afford a 1200-2000 usd a month apt in the U.S. you can afford anything in the Philippines
I love that laugh from the woman in the middle 🤣🤣
If a good man loves you, he will support and encourage your passion.
I believe the lady in the middle is the most traditional the most honest and would make the best wife, the two on the left appear to have been influenced by western thinking. They seem to think that being a good mother and housewife is something you can do part time after you satisfied your career, they only have to look at western culture to see how well that's going, however if you do choose to be a mother and a housewife over a career you better make darn sure you choose the right partner.
Oh Sure they always say they don’t care about the money…..UNTIL…. You can’t afford too pay for their Rice addiction!!! 😂
LOL--if a guy can't afford to pay for a woman's "rice addiction"--he's broke!
According to the Pea expats should not make the Filipina partner stop working . If the relationships fails later and she can prove he stopped her from working or her career in court , then he will be liable for huge costs to her. I think its wise to let the Filipina carry on working as she will need income after the older expats dies anyway. Everyone ends up on a pension no matter how small it is, if you can survive on that with some savings as backup everything else is a bonus and no reason not to date. Wouldn't rely on youtube or any other platform to earn money either, doesn't take much to get shut down or bad PR to destroy your income.
how. can the court make a guy pay money to a girlfriend when they dont make fathers pay support for kids
@@squashingRumors If she has witnesses and documented proof that a guy stopped her from working during their relationship and now she has no income then a court will jail him. No doubt you can buy her off before it got to court in some cases but its the law there. Watch the filipina pea vlog 3 months ago titled- AVOID THIS MISTAKE WHEN LIVING WITH A FILIPINA - Legal Talk With Attorney Gracey. To save you time its talked about from 22.44
Hello Ladies, I'm an American who was coming to the Philippines before my stroke and I was a Musician many years ago then got married then divorced, it was my decision because after 20 years she cheated on me too many times, so as a Musician I didn't save or invest money😔but I'm a disabled Man with a monthly check which now I'm spending on rent, which is $1800 a month here in America and groceries that takes much of that $$$
With my Filipina wife right now I like her home taking care of our daughter but once I get to the Philippines to live she wants to be a teacher so I'll send her to college so she can teach it will be the love of teaching not for income ❤❤❤❤
I like the one in the middle. Balance is important...maybe work part-time as homemaker, but still do career things you enjoy. I would be a good husband and still do the career stuff I enjoy. BALANCE! Try to understand, I enjoy helping do dishes and making meals and doing gardening and home improvement projects. I am, of course, retired.
She can call it sacrifice or you can call it compromise... Either way, if you don't know how to compromise, you will never have a successful relationship.
What a wonderful video. Five beautiful, intelligent and well spoken women from the Philippines. It’s videos like this. That makes me want to leave for the Philippines today. I can’t wait to get there.
Excellent discussions.
Instead of housewife, call it a family engineer
Women (of any culture) are VERY security minded. A good heart don't keep the lights on...... money does........ including EVERYTHING these ladies desire.
Hola to you all beautiful young lady i enjoy you all i will be watching for the next video i 💕 you all
Thank you 🙏 for your time and providing this content.
Very good information for me to consider…I will visit there soon!
Respect ❤
I THINK >>> ALL U Girls Are a 6-8+ And Would Be HAPPY to Have a GF Like Ya'll :O)) GREAT VIDEO !!!!!
If your truly in love, it should not be a problem if they continue with what your doing. Being a vlogger, it will not be forever either. People change jobs all the time.
Its wonderful to see these beautiful ladies that care more about the man and the relationship and not about the money and possessions. WOW certainly not like that here in the US. Will be moving there next month and looking forward to being away from the toxic relationships.
Me I would be extremely happy to find a woman who likes gardening, has her own career I enjoy growing my own vegetables and I’m very happy helping out around the house if my wife wants to continue her career.
Since they wouldn't understand how much money it takes for certain things in the USA or other countries that a potential foreign mate would come from and possibly take them back to, and that money doesn't go as far, maybe try asking what size of a house would they be satisfied with, what kind of clothing and how much, and how often they expect to be taken out.
Wow the first and second ladies answered the questions perfectly for me
Interesting video ladies!
Hi Leah this fun and serious topic, i like to see the men in a video answering question what they wsnt or expect, filipina think always of food that make me laugh 😂
Well, if he is going to get a nice young wife, he should be able to provide for her a little more, even though both can contribute to the pot. Sure chemistry is important, and heat, but these men go there because they like the old fashions values, so they should make a point to exceptionally care for their lady. These ladies usually taken care of the man they have, so that is more than reasonable.
WoW !!!
Nice Video , You Are All Sweet & cute , Gladys & Shey are super cuties!
who could a man not fall in love with Mary! my god what a funny and fun woman she must be, oh and by the wan, I'm single and looking oh and Mary $90K lol lol lol it's NNE Brian
Ladies,you're correct:Money is only good for financial reasons.😂😂😂
Professional career or not, staying at home and taking care of the house, raising 1 or more children, grocery shopping, paying bills, doctors appointments, etc. is a full time job with very limited time off and long hours. It’s easier to have a full time job outside of the home. It takes 2 to make a baby, surely GOD’S intention is for both parents to help raise the children.
Kinda ironic. These guys say it's the "man's job to provide" yet your traditional housewife works 12+ hours per day, 7 days a week.
What kinda of man makes his wife work that much?
Gladys is Just like My Filipina Fiancée Lucy. Beautiful on the Inside and the Outside. Take care.
I would think that if you love someone you wouldn't make your partner chose. Ok, you are starting a family, then the conversation may change. But I'm assuming I fall in love with a woman part of that is what she wants. Would a guy just quit his job because she said so? Doubtful. An older guy that is retired or something shouldn't expect her to just drop her life so he can be entertained. If a woman wants to raise a family and that is her priority then she would probably be wanting to be home with the family. My mom was a "housewife" and my father knew he had the easy part of going to work every day. A woman that gives all for her family is a diamond that is just as rare and should be admired as such. Just my opinion.
Problem is a lot of these guys are older men. And they just wantva young, hot Filipina to wait on them hand and foot. This is why they are moving to Asia. Time has passed them by. (Not all of course)
But I agree 100% i will encourage my future wife to do whatever makes her happy. Ifcshe wants to work, great. She wants to start a business, i got her back. Wants to start a youtuve channel. I have 30k in gear. She can use any of it.
I make more then enough to provide us with a great lifestyle. But if she still wants to work and needs me to help around the house. I'll gladly do so. If she wants to cook and clean while I work, great.
@@Pcbdude82 yes. Regardless of how much money the guy may have, that isn't the point. If she loves her job expecting her to quit so you can have a nurse maid is wrong. Hopefully the gal would realize this and walk away. Things will probably only get worse from there. I'm in my later 50's and can't understand why, as an adult you would expect someone to walk away from their life for you. IF she wants to then she would probably say so. But to even suggest it...then sign over everything to her first. Are you comfortable giving up everything for her? If not, then don't expect to her to do it either.
I loved it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Older women are practical and want money, younger women want love and passion. The middle woman is mature and practical and so more transactional, and the one on the left is more idealistic. There's nothing wrong with any approach
There is no "right" answer but there is a risky answer.
I'm honestly looking to relocate in the Philippines , I will have more then enough monthly to support myself as well as the woman that finds me !
Unsolicited advice sir, take your time, no big decisions, I mean due diligence goes a long way. There are lots of good partners out there (you’ll see).. if you find a good one, you’re in for a surprise, she’ll probably treat you better than anyone.
Of course there are bad ones too, so be careful
What I hear is MORE about SELF and not what is BEST for the FAMILY. GOD is first then FAMILY not CAREER. What would God like for you to be for your HUSBAND (KING)?
Without career how will things be taken care of? How will be bills be paid, food put on the table?
@penttimuhli9442 The wife doesn't need a career. God never made it a requirement for the wife. The husband is the provider, but under the modern-day system called EQUALITY means EQUAL 50-50. Most western men will avoid modern-day independent women. Independent means SELF.
@@Bobc308 What happens if the husband can't work due to illness or he passes away and the wife has no experience in the world because supposedly it was against God's plan?
The woman in Proverbs 31 was a breadwinner.
With young couples these days often both need to work to afford purchasing a house
One other thing to consider, the modern day system you think is bad condemns slavery, while the system you think is wonderful condoned it
@@penttimuhli9442 Under God's plan, a woman is not equal to a man. Proverbs 31 is a virtuous woman like Ruth, which she had nothing. The Bible gives us several stories where the husband died and left their wives with nothing. If both parents are working, who will manage the house and the kids? God told us to not love the world and to not love the things of the world (1 John 2:15) and to not conform to the world (Romans 12:2). In the western culture, things are very expensive and people try to buy things that they cannot afford and you become a slave to the lender. We as Christians should be the lender and not the borrower. Jacob had nothing, but he worked 7 years of labor to get each wife and 7 years to get his animals. The Proverbs 31 woman managed her house. It takes time for a man to gain resources and then he looks for a wife. You should grow your own food. What bills? God provides the Sun for light. A woman's career doesn't come before her family. The family comes FIRST. In the Bible, a virgin woman lived with her parents until she got married and others were harlots. Kids are a blessing if they are raised right. If they are not raised right, they will not know God and they will become a bad branch of the family tree (a bad fruit). God created the woman to help her husband and if she has no husband, she should still be helping her parents, but society has corrupted the ways of God.
The lady with the long, grey pants seems professional, that is great...I like that, I am a Retired College Professor. Maybe I would like to meet both, the grey long pants and the red dress. Maybe from knowing them one may share my feelings.
I heard all of your lady's opinion about the money.......and you are right money it's important yes indeed we all know that......and you are right relationship it's the most important coz if you are not happy then money dose not solve that problem.......loving and caring for each other and family that first before anything Al's.....I would look for future life partner soon and I know that a lots of philippina don't mind age difference and make you comfortable even you are a lot older the her .....hope to meet someone soon.....when I come for visit to dumaguete
compare this to American women that think most men earn $300 000, at 25 years old, on average lol. The average American man makes $50 000 a year.
Hi Leah and ladies. If I were to live in PI, it’s not much but I earned 135’000. Pesos/month without working. However, I would be interested to find a responsible woman who wanted added future life value opportunities.
Tim never lead with digits my Pinay asawa doesn't know the full amount I make without having to work either. I only told her 2.5k monthly into PNB account and the rest stays in my US account and she didn't find that out for many months after we got together
As long as she can cook chicken curry, pancit, adobo then we can eat...I can cook too.
Of course it is about cash. My Filipina wife owns PP30 Million in property, that I have bought her. She has an income of PP80-100, 000 pcm. I met her when I was 48 and she was 37. We have a family and live in the Philippines. BTW, I am very fit. I have boxed since I was a teenager and have always participated in sports. Unfortunately, she has had too much of a good life over the past 10 years and seems to forget where she was when I met her.
I am in my 50's, earn 14,560,000 pesos / year and have 165,000,000 pesos in the bank. I wouldn't tell any lady in the PI any of that information, including the women in this video. I honestly don't understand why this topic keeps being brought up. Is it supposed to get foreigners thinking that if they only bring love to the table and some meager earnings / savings, that they will be able to develop a relationship with a woman who is much younger and / or about their level looks wise? This kind of video encourages men to let their guard down and reveal things about themselves or put their livelihood at risk in a country where desperate people do desperate things. I just can't wrap my head around the value of this conversation. Yes, we all know that some women think / feel the way that you SAY you do. We also know that there are plenty of those who SAY they do and then things change, drastically, when they are not on a RUclips video.
So basically what i am hearing here is the same things 90% of the western women would tell you.
They want someone who can provide a comfortable lifestyle. They want the option to work. Especially if the man isnt rich, so they can contribute financially. Makes perfect sense. They want balance.
Thank you ladies! For the first time since I began watching the pinay vlogs I heard women actually describe what love it. I swear that Filipinas have a 'love' guide book that they read from, but not this time! For once I did not feel like someone was trying to pick my pocket.
Being 'rich' enough to hire outside help is a bad idea in my opinion. In what World is bringing other people into a family situation a good idea? Think about it ladies. You KNOW what the uniform we men like to see maids dress up in looks like, right? I'm sure you girls have a few ideas about the dress code for male help too. Tsk, tsk, tsk.
Even if Mary wore rags heads to toe she would be a solid 8. Why do you ladies troll for compliments? Consider them offered.
The content was great and my thanks to the ladies who played, 'Peek-a-boo pussy cat'. I look forward to watching part 2.
When watching this video I was confused about the “desired amount of money” the ladies would want their partner (or both combined) to earn. The average seemed to be 40-50k per month. This seems to be an extremely low figure to have even a reasonable lifestyle. Even in a province, much less a city. As long as we are being honest about this, shouldn’t the number be at least 100-150k. Jerry in NH
Think you missed the point, they said it's not about the money as long as they can put food on the table.... 10k monthly will be enough to put food on the table in province. Depending on the size of family of course. It's something that is difficult to discuss if you're thinking of family needs vs lifestyle achieving, Point is they all said its about the person making each other happy and working together as a team, family unit. That's what I took from that 🤔 you are talking lifestyle and the women are talking of basic needs being met and again it's all relative to combined household income/family members
I agree Gerald. Only one lady actually answered the question and the rest answered a question that was not asked. As for your comment about 50k being too low.... 50k is about $1,000 USD. $1,000 per month in the Philippines is good money. Doctors usually make $1,000 per month in the Philippines. Nurses and police officers make about $500 or $600 per month. A construction worker might only make $10 per day at the most and if he or she works 30 days a month that it still only $300 per month.
This is the reason an exact number is important to hear from these ladies. The only one that answered started out with the low at $400 a month and said $1,000 a month would be so much better. That is a proper answer to the question asked and I respect her for her honesty. Her answer suggests that she wants a man providing income at least in the middle range but like all women and men for that matter... the more the better. Honesty is refreshing.
50k is @$880 US. I have an apartment in Pasig that costs $264 per mo. Nothing really fancy. Add food, transportation and utilities. $880 does get us bye, but no trips or parties.
@geraldwilliams8189 Yes. I always use 50 pesos to the dollar for easy math and the good exchange rates of today won't last.
Personally, I’d say 100k is ok
LOL. This was a great video.
Home duties is an honorable profession...!!
They are all so cute❤❤
No money. No honey. If anyone ever tells you something different, it's bula bula.
Thanks for the answer but to say we will live of love is not how most filipinas think. They want want money or ask for money early. Pay to play girls❤
The one on the far left is correct. Not neglecting your partner and responsibilities at home matters. One of the main problems with American women is that they think if they work they shouldn't have to do very little or nothing at home, while still using her money only for herself so they often bring no value to the relationship/family.
Being a stay at home parent, taking care of a house and kids is easy, especially much easier than working full time.
This one is a bit of a loaded question.
Much would depend on the westerners requirements for a happy life then add a bit for family on it.
24x7 ac, large house, eating out all the time.
If she is ok with a small unsealed shack getting water from a well eating rice and dry fish that will cost little.
Bringing her standards up to yours will have a drastic change to perceived basic costs.
In the west the women just wont accept less then a six pack, 500k 6 foot tall and darn good looking.
That is unless she really finds him hot.
Basically, if you can contribute with roughly 1,000 US dollars a month, they will take care of the rest. Wow!!!
Usually you can sense if they are just using you for money. But if you found a good one, you’ll probably be doubting yourself if all of this is really happening bec they will treat you right.
Is 50,000 PHP a month really a lot in the province?
Yep
@@Melvin-cd1oy That's less than $1,000. Maybe I'll move to the Philippines and settle in the province. :)
When I help my Filipina family, I alway ask if they are working I never ask how much there income is
The young lady in red has a good point now the lady in blue she need to get a better prospective of life.
In order to answer the question properly, the girls would have to experience western culture partially.
they’d have to understand
That western men that are proper and self supportive.
should not be living at home with his parents !!
should be able to afford a car and insurance and his own place.
And should also be able to provide for a wife and child, whether or not the child exist at the time.
I say this because in most western countries parents raze their children to be self sufficient so the parents can save for there retirement and not rely upon their children for monetary assistance.
So If your western boyfriend still lives at home and you feel that he is the one ??
just remember that there is going to be a lot of headaches and sacrifices that will need to be made until your boyfriend grows up and stops playing games and gets a real job.
This commonly doesn’t happen unless someone they really love pushes them to provide a sustained life.
Because things are way more expensive in the west and many young men are not pulling their weight in life being slackers still sucking on mommies.
I only say all this to help save you angles ❤from heartache
When you find out he can’t afford to do the processing of paperwork for an overseas wife or 90 day fiancé. Or even pay for a plane ticket and hotel to see you.
It’s all talk until he arrives. Just keep that mind set encase he hurts you. ❤❤
Housewives are the best 😁
Should the question be, would you date a man that didn't a job or work not work
I would love to do videos with these wonderful women
Who is the lady in light blue I would like to know her!!!
youtube.com/@MaryinthePhilippines?si=Jp5jVLUBkuLqX-DO
Check out her channel . Appreciate it!
Thank you@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673
Thank you my dear
Leah, I like the lady in Red. If she is 40 or older....I would like to meet her .....and yes, if she is with me she, her son and I can eat every day 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How do Filipina women feel about guys who are unable to have sex (erectile dysfunction) or are sterile and can not have children? Would they still be interested in a guy?
What we can see here is that more and more local women getting more and more westernized. I ask myself how many foreign men would accept a pinay women who is working when the man has an age gap of 20 years or more, living in the Philippines for retirement. . I can´t imagine that he accept a woman he has to kiss good bye in the morning and saying hello in evening after her work. Foreigners wanna enjoy their last 2 or 3 decades with their beloved philippine woman, not without her, i guess.
One thing I am surprised is rarely discussed. With all these age gap relationships. What the hell happens to the 40 year old Filipina when the 70 year old goat drops dead ? I have sufficient resources to care for someone and her kiddos. But... still requires budgeting and some financial restraint. The guy should have sufficient love and respect for his partner to plan for his death. He should leave behind both sufficient resources and the skills for her and her kids to make it to the end of her life.
If married... she won't get survivor Social Security benefits until her mid 60s. Currently that's at best $1200 a month. Which ain't much. Perhaps more than sufficient for current Philippine cost of living ??
Ladies...there's a saying that holds true for most men..."Keep his balls empty and his stomach full" if this is the case most men will want you to.do.whatever makes you happy. As well, you're all quite young but for the predominance of you five and maybe all of you, RUclips is wonderful but it isn't a permanent career...like it or not...everything has its season and right now you're harvesting but winter always comes!
So, What are You Filipinas Bringing to the table besides your looks?
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What
house husband and wife works
Are filipinas becoming westernized?
Yes, more and more, especially on the american hotspots like Dumaguete or big cities... And as we see here, more and more women of the Dumaguete gang having their own RUclips channel, lol.
Definitely not!