I think I understand what she means. My interpretation of it is that she thinks her man will start to love her 'make up' face more than her natural face and she'll begin to feel pressure to constantly look that way to please him but because that's not what she's used to she's wary about changing up her style. I get it.
Most woman look fine without makeup and we are seeing this woman for the first time. If people meet you for the first time without makeup there’s nothing to compare too and they think you look fine. If people meet you with makeup on and then you take it off then some people say we look ugly without makeup because they’re comparing from when we wore the makeup first ( obviously enhanced the face). Her man likes her like this and he wouldn’t mind her wearing makeup because he already liked her when she wore no makeup. My husband is like Steve he doesn’t mind if I wear Makeup or not because he’s in love with me but when we were dating I always looked my best.
No wonder her boyfriend likes her the way she is. She's gorgeous, natural looking and seems to have a good heart/soul. Be strong and ignore the 'friends'.
She's feeling not-glamorous too, she's just trying to blame her friends lol. I've been there, wanting to try makeup but fearing that I would become dependent on it and not like my natural face anymore.
She sounds like a great woman. She has a good man he loves her without the makeup problem is she need to stop listening to her single ass friends. Or either her friends know something she dont😒
Supermom 85 EXACTLY How the hell can they determine what her best is ,that’s between her and her man.Sometimes Our friends can contaminate our relationship by being too damn nosy and not minding their business
When my wife removes her makeup I feel it's more like a treat. She feels comfortable enough with me to show her bare self that she would prefer to hide from the world. It's more like a private gift if you think of it this way.
I sure hope my husband thinks of it that way. What you're saying is probably true; I don't have enough confidence to go without makeup at work daily, therefore I view as my own insecurity. But I truly hate applying it everyday.
A group of friends I had used to meet once a week for dinner. At one point, I looked around the table and realized that none of us had a stitch of makeup on and we all had natural eyebrows. I thought that was a beautiful commentary on what kind of friends these ladies were: they were down-to-earth, beautiful inside and out, and they weren't competing with one another in the looks department. We just came to dinner our natural selves to enjoy one another's company.
Babe Girl You Need more Self Confidence. Love yourself and make yourself happy then everything will fall in place. Your Man love you with make up && without makeup that’s a plus.
She obviously has self confidence she isn't piling makeup on her face to look like someone she's not she wants to be herself. Her friends just won't shut up trying to control her.
Maybe her friends are jealous of her idk but she is pretty and she doesn’t have too put on make up !! && with or with out make up her Husband loves her.! That’s a plus... and I feel like she needs her self confidence up and tell her friends that she is happy the way she is she wants Too entrance her beauty!!
Lol you should be glad he likes you WITHOUT makeup. With makeup will be a bonus. Put yourself in the shoes of those who actually look terrible without makeup. A whole relationship built on deceipt. Girl you've got no problem. This isn't a problem at all
She doesn't want him to fall in love with how she looks all made up because she doesn't normally wear makeup. She seems to be scared that he is going to expect or request that she wear it.
Im of the mindset that you cant "enhance" what God has already created and said was good. That would be like saying Gos didnt do a good enough job. But what happens when you get old and you cant wear make up anymore? What is your husband to think of you then? I think a guy needs like his girl completely natural as she is. If she wants to wear a LITTLE bit of make up here and there that is fine, but please understand it does not enhance anything. EDIT: on the part of the woman, i think she needs to learn to have confidwnce in her natural beauty the way she is. The key word here is "feel". I dont think a woman needs make to feel beautiful.
Bless this woman 😂. First off, as a man I have to see a woman without makeup for me to ultimately decide whether or not I'm attracted to her. A lot of women that as soon as the makeup comes off they be looking like a whole different person. So yeah ladies be confident with or without makeup! If a man is all over u without your makeup on then you got him
A lot of guys claim to like "natural beauty" on women, but many of you don't even give a plain Jane the time of day, so we have to be glammed to even get your attention because you guys go for the glamazons always and overlook the barefaces, which is why we even have to wear makeup in the first place. You will pick a glamorous made up woman over a beautiful plain Jane with her natural hair, every time, that's just how you guys are.
@@tjaspire I think one of the big misconceptions is what men mean when they say “natural beauty”. So according to MY male friends & family (so don’t come at me with any not all men bs), natural beauty is two-fold: 1. It’s about the way a woman carries herself and treats those around her. 2. It doesn’t mean no makeup. A well-applied, natural looking, full face of makeup is often indistinguishable from a bare face to the common testosterone built & socially developed male mind. They just mean that you don’t look like two completely different people when you’re done-up vs not.
I don't understand why her so called friends are giving her flack for supposedly not looking her best because she's not wearing makeup when she's out with her boyfriend, I think her friends are rude and harsh This woman is CLEARLY BEAUTIFUL AND NATURAL to me and I think the friends shouldn't be negative and raise their friend up not down What is their deal do they have boyfriends or not I don't get it This lady needs some better friends because really GOOD PEOPLE ARE GOING TO UPLIFT OTHERS NOT DOWN I UNDERSTAND SELF ESTEEM IS VERY IMPORTANT BUT I DON'T THINK HER FRIENDS ARE COOL EWWWWWWWWW
You have to like/love me both ways. I LOVE makeup so you would have to like me both ways or it’s a no go for me. Now if you only like me with a full face of makeup we have a problem because I’m not wearing makeup every time I’m around you 🤷🏽♀️ Love me with our without makeup and we are good together
I accept my friends with all the makeup they throw on their face... If they would give me "flack" for being my natural self, they ain't my friends. P.s. With the hundreds of dollars I don't spend in makeup, I save for things that actually mean something to me. Like family time. And video games. o>o
@@WarriorsFanSince-ur3zu makeup doesn't ruin the skin. They're not taking care of the issues with their skin in be first place which is why they wewr more to cover it up.
I understand where she's coming from. Her man is definitely going to love her made up face , because she is stunning without it. She doesn't want to have too keep that look up.
I think what she’s saying is that she doesn’t want him to get too used to the made up face and no longer like her natural look as much. She’ll be fine if he doesn’t really care about make up.
Lol I wear make up when I want and I take it off when I want. Its My face. If you like my natural face, cool. If not, cool. Either way ima do what I want🤷♀️
People are now getting upset because she doesn’t want to put makeup 😂 it’s her face, and let’s be real people put on makeup to be someone more beautiful and perfect than they’re, hide the dark spots, acne, contour, reshape the entire face, so not all women want that work every day for a man that doesn’t hide his face on makeup. I understand looking the best for you, but like her friends are saying putting on makeup just for him is stupid especially since he liked her and asked her out without makeup. Being confident is not being afraid to be who you truly are and want to be. And she’s also very confident of herself since she’s on TV without makeup, that’s who she is and the only people that care about the makeup is other women who think a woman without makeup is ugly.
I didn't know she had no makeup in till she said it. She looks amazing. ...BUT...i will say that i worry or wonder about the same thing. What if i like my made up self...or i meet someone when i am made up? I worry about my darn brows, I just stick with my natural look, and i feel great. I brush them up, and they look good. I don't know if the makeover will do anything for her mentally if she is not a makeup wearer.
Nothing, I prefer women that wear makeup in moderation... women don't need to look like Bozo the Clown or trying to fulfill some video vixen Fantasy. Makeup is supposed to enhance the beauty, not change the face into a completely different person.
The sad thing is I remember people telling me I look really pale and washed out without makeup so I wear it and I feel confident and I receive compliments.. but now I feel like I've become too dependent on it that I feel really terrible without it :( my self esteem issues. I'd love to go without it to work but I've had people telling me I look so sick and I look like I've not slept for years. You can never please anyone really.
For us Guys, makeup doesn't matter, the important thing is she keep herself clean and take care of her skins health. I know for one when women wear too much makeup her skin will be damaged.
I met my husband in college so he's seen me not wear makeup and then when I started wearing it all the time. I wear makeup because I like how it looks....Natural or not its all aesthetics. So its whatever is pleasing to the eye,
That is a naturally beautiful lady. What she needs are some new friends; they're supposed to be rooting for them as a couple, not some fairytale idea of what they think her guy wants. Next thing you know, they'll be telling her she needs to straighten out those tresses (which would be a big mistake!)
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she's BEAUTIFUL how she is. don't let "friends" pressure you, sis. if he is already loving you why the sudden change?! i don't get it.
“Wait. Hold on to your makeup until you hear love.” As a man, I don’t approve of this old message. I like to see confidence. Being comfortable in your own skin is what I want to see more.
I dont like women with make up too much, however i think its good if my girl put them occassionally, but like steve said, if u love a girl, make up no make up no difference. One thing this girl need to change tho, her dress, she look like a nanny
I don't really wear makeup, when I do its very basic like eyeliner and lip gloss. When I got married I went to get a facial and had my makeup done I thought I looked beautiful, when I came down the aisle my husband whispered, "what did you do to your face?" I could've cried but now 18 years later I'm glad he doesn't care for makeup or fake nails or eye lashes. For special occasions I get glamed up for myself and he doesn't mind but he honestly loves me as I am. Steve is right I think its how you meet and once their in love none of the frivolous things matter.
I personally prefer girls without makeup, I think they look better not hiding there real self behind a mask so to speak. I know there are lots of different views on this subject.
Ladies, meet a man in your most comfortable and usual look. If you don’t like to wear makeup - don’t wear it when you meet him or around him. Same for heels. I like to wear suits and dress casually but I always look my best in every situation. If I go to the gym I’m wearing clean sneakers and workout clothes that are not tattered. I shave my head everyday. The only time I may ease up on my look is if the woman says “hey, you don’t have to get so dressed up” or “don’t worry about shaving.” I owe it to the woman I’m dating to maintain the looks that mirror how she met me as much as humanly possible (age will be in a factor in long term relationships).
My boyfriend of four years fell in love with my natural face and the thing that started bothering me is when I would wear make up and take it off later, the color under my eyes seemed soooo dark to me! So, I stopped putting foundation and concealer under my eye which ended up taking away the darkness and I just put mascara on whenever and a little eyeliner but I NEVER put it on everyday. Either way, I started to have a problem with my face with makeup lol my boyfriend never cared for the makeup in general!
I wore makeup on my first and third dates with my husband. I made sure he understood that, for me, makeup is a special occasion thing for me. He was okay with it. It's what you both decide.
Steve's right. But technically, this girl is fine. Her man met her and decided to date her non-makeup face. So, she could literally make either choice and be fine. If she said, yo I've never shown my man my face without makeup, then she might actually have a problem, and would have to tread lightly.
Makeup or not, how much of it, or your chosen style, being who you are and letting that shine through is what makes for true beauty. It transcends age, health condition, and time. No amount of makeup can make your spirit ugly OR beautiful. She’s already beautiful in her spirit. The makeup’s just icing the cake.
I understand what she's saying....if she gets dolled up and he says he prefers the dolled up look over her natural look... I like the fact that Steve told her to do a makeover for herself
Your friends are bitter that they have to wear makeup to feel better about themselves and jealous of your natural beauty. You making the most out of what you have naturally IS you looking your best. Plastering makeup on is just you looking different. Tell these "friends" to worry about themselves and you stop worrying what anybody else thinks of your relationship but the two of you in it.
I don't wear make-up for NO man! If he can't take me as I am, bye! I'd rather have a man who will take me as a am with no makeup. This doesn't mean I never wear makeup. I only wear it for special occasions. But, I don't wear it for any man. If I go without makeup and he doesn't want to be with me - BYE! There's the door. I'd rather be with someone who wants me for who I am, than to change into someone I'm not to save a relationship I clearly don't belong in.
I would say to her that if he doesn't like you the way you are one way or another that he is not the one. This is from a man who's been married for 21 years. You accept the other person as they are.
I’m about to be real deep: So, the guy likes her without the makeup. Her friends think she ought to wear makeup. She feels fine without makeup, but is concerned that if she wears makeup, he will like someone she’s not.... That is the deepest thing I’ve ever heard someone say. So my point is this: You KNOW you’re not you when you wear makeup. You give a false appearance of what you are. Poor illustration of what the mean... look at a clown. He/she doesn’t look like the way they look without makeup. That’s why i didn’t like dating women that wore makeup. I dated very attractive women that didn’t need it. So at their worst, they looked their best. You get me?!!? With all this makeup, you really don’t know what or who you’re getting.....
As a woman, I have to agree. Make up is great, but some of the make up like contouring is downright sorcery!! The woman looks completely different without it! Make up is supposed to accentuate good features, not give you a completely different face!The lady asking Steve already has a pretty face, she'll be fine with or without.
Girl who don't need fakeup to look stunning are the best. By doing it, it looks they are hiding sth about them, (at least to me) and that's really creepy.
U dont need makeup, your gorgeous. I understand you because I'm the same way.(different face thing) So I suggest just wear mascara, light colored lip gloss and up your hair game. No need to pack products on face .
Hating ass friends. She caught a guy without make up. See, they're creating drama and doubt in her relationship. If and when she feels like that, She can do it. She's confident. Do it for herself.
Jacob Lancostellard lol men tell me they like how “natural” I look when I have 5+ products on. My guy friends send me pics of Instagram girls talking about how they’re “pretty without makeup” but they can’t tell they got a full face, lip fillers, and tattooed brows lol I invite you to do some research, find out if you like the natural look or the natural makeup look :)
Coming from a man, if you look like that without makeup, and you feel comfortable like that, and your instinct is to be without make up, you are on the winning side of the coin... I find if very sexy when women like this one feels empowered already without make up on. She could teach a thing or two to her friends. In this day and age, women shaming other women for not wearing make up breaks the reason why make up became a thing, "to empower someones image", if you shame someone that feels empowered without using make up then you are not doing a favor to your own gender.
If I looked as good as her without makeup I probably wouldn't wear it either. Wow! Her complexion is amazing! Did they ever show what she looked like after the makeover?
Ladies/Lady...I LOVE a Woman without make up i dont mind a lil like lipstick thats all but I appreciate a woman that doesnt do too much make up. Why? Well I love seeing who you are appreciate how you are physically and all your colour etc...i actually feel the ladies without make up are sooo confident with themselves it Blows me away. Its like when a lady goes bald and shaves her head Damn!! That and eeven tge all Natrual hair thing that just the one. Am not saying that all women should do what am saying but when you are dating or going on a date I would really really like to get to know a lady without the glamour and all coz ..i shall like the glam but u that put it on did not do it for you, you did it for me BUT i would like you to be Happy and confident as you have been mase by our creator and Lord God Almighty..make up is ok but not too much. And thats what I love about the ladies down south..as in South Africa,Botswana,lesotho swazi..and many other subsahara countries I have noticed most of them are All Natrual and sooo sooo soo Beautiful..little lipstick or gloss there and say a touch of eye brow pencil etc..yeah but nothing over board...trust me ladies..Men love seeing you as you are. Especially with the way the world is now adays..Ones got to be sure ..lol ..But ladies MAKE UP IS GOOD but Not Too much to the point by where you look like a totally different person....i mean you aint auditioning for a role in a movie.....KEEP IT REAL
Thank you! I'm very confident with the way i look because i don't wear make up. My friends always say theu feel uncomfortable and less confident without it. Which is weird to me. If the guy doesn't like make up then great. There's nothing to worry about
@@tracyndlovu9717 Tracy keep on doing that my sister and yeah..i heard ladies several times saying they cant go out of their jouses without make up on am like thats a problem right there...BIGGGG problem..am glad you highlited that.
I’m really, really lucky. My man actually prefers me with no makeup on; he has a valid point about wanting to kiss me instead of getting a mouthful of makeup. Thirty eight years later, he still loves me for exactly who and what I am. He has never once passed any negative comments about my appearance. On the flip-side, I never know if what I’m wearing actually looks nice or not because, to him, I’m just beautiful… regardless. The fact that I’m actually butt-ugly makes him even more special and amazing; I wish I could see myself through his eyes ❤️
Men will say this and still chase the women with a full face of make up😂 At the end of the day ladies just be comfortable with yourself, do what you want with your face and someone will come along and love you the way you are.
Lady: I dont want my face to look different for my man because he might fall in love with a face thats not mine. Steve: Let's get you a glam makeover. WTF?
She really wants to try it but is afraid that she herself won't love her natural face anymore. It's not about her friends or her boyfriend. I think it's good for him to push her out of her comfort zone to try something she really wants to try.
But where did this pressure come from that women have to do make-up (to look "better")?! I'm 35 yrs old and I tried to do make-up once or twice...very laborious for me😂😂😂😂
Sorry but why would I say I love you too a girl who is actually wearing a mask and didn't show her true face, that is just crazy I don't have to say I love you to the girl to see her without make up, I respect that girl for the way she thinks that a man need to love her for the real face and Steve you are to hard on guys we don't have to like and accept everything where is our own opinions
She looks great the way she is, why Steve want to make over the lady, she has only been with the guy 3 months, why he encouraging her to do a 360? She attracted him the way she is now, If it ain't broke don't fix it
@@rebeccacastro2525 Well she better tell him it's for him, cause if she starts getting too much attention from other guys she will be back on the show with a bigger problem.
Gregory Adolphine Now THAT’S THE PROBLEM! YOU JUST TOLD ON YOURSELF. The not wearing makeup crap is not because the woman will look like a different person or because her natural beauty looks just fine, it’s because men are terrified that another man will become attracted to his woman. It’s all about fear and jealousy.
She looks great without it , but if she wants she can put just a little bit for herself , she doesn’t need layers of it to transform her to a different person 😊
Her boyfriend is not the issue. Her friends are. She gets to decide when/how she looks her best. Period.
Yeeeeeeeeēes! The boy is her true best fridnd!
Definitely and it's seriously a societal problem hence her friends and peer pressure.
Plus shes fire without make up so why need?? And if he only likes you wit make up.. dippp!!!
Was waiting for steve to say that.
To be completely honest, we don't even like makeup.. The real you is better than the fake somebody else..
I think I understand what she means. My interpretation of it is that she thinks her man will start to love her 'make up' face more than her natural face and she'll begin to feel pressure to constantly look that way to please him but because that's not what she's used to she's wary about changing up her style. I get it.
Yup and she might gt more compliments from him with her make up leading her to always wear make up
Tianna Miller -You nailed it!
@rapheALtoid aww that's sweet
To Anna Milller: You hit nail right on the head. Then she may feel obligated to keep up the look.
I think that’s the real issue
She looks great without makeup.
jbscotchman yes she is beautiful
@@marimarielove she got makeup in the vid lol
You know why? Cause she doesn't wear it. Make up ruins your face
She is beautiful. Dont need make up...
Most woman look fine without makeup and we are seeing this woman for the first time. If people meet you for the first time without makeup there’s nothing to compare too and they think you look fine. If people meet you with makeup on and then you take it off then some people say we look ugly without makeup because they’re comparing from when we wore the makeup first ( obviously enhanced the face). Her man likes her like this and he wouldn’t mind her wearing makeup because he already liked her when she wore no makeup. My husband is like Steve he doesn’t mind if I wear Makeup or not because he’s in love with me but when we were dating I always looked my best.
She’s don’t need makeup, she needs new n good friends!!
Facts!
@ krishna t- ABSOLUTELY!!
thank you
Yes boss
Yeah. Just don't hang around them anymore is the answer.
She's beautiful even without makeup
Abby Vivian kinda
@Sheer Verde wow! Are you kidding me!!
No wonder her boyfriend likes her the way she is. She's gorgeous, natural looking and seems to have a good heart/soul. Be strong and ignore the 'friends'.
I agree 100%!
She's feeling not-glamorous too, she's just trying to blame her friends lol. I've been there, wanting to try makeup but fearing that I would become dependent on it and not like my natural face anymore.
Do what makes YOU feel lovely. Period.
@Young Black Conservative OMG 😂🤣
Lets be honest here people wear makeup and stuff to please other people
Stephanie Balchan EXACTLY
Eh...
@ Stephanie B- AGREE 💯 😃✌️
She's naturally stunning so this problem isn't much of a problem
I love white ladies faces without makeups
She is such a beautiful woman, now I'm curious to see how she would look with makeup on.
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Beautiful people are ugly with make up..
@@ayyotube5224 I think a little makeup is ok and makeup doesn't just consist of foundation, eyeshadow is great in my opinion.
@@chontaye ya i am ugly but I never wear make.
She’s pretty & got good skin
Jane G yes she does
Umm take it from a guy she's not hot she's like 4
@@henrythehilux3963 who asked you?
@@henrythehilux3963 most guys these days are 2s
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She sounds like a great woman. She has a good man he loves her without the makeup problem is she need to stop listening to her single ass friends. Or either her friends know something she dont😒
Supermom 85 EXACTLY How the hell can they determine what her best is ,that’s between her and her man.Sometimes Our friends can contaminate our relationship by being too damn nosy and not minding their business
When my wife removes her makeup I feel it's more like a treat. She feels comfortable enough with me to show her bare self that she would prefer to hide from the world. It's more like a private gift if you think of it this way.
I wonder if that's how the husbands of women who wear a face veil feel
I sure hope my husband thinks of it that way. What you're saying is probably true; I don't have enough confidence to go without makeup at work daily, therefore I view as my own insecurity. But I truly hate applying it everyday.
@@nichmon3221 After 1 or 2 weeks you stop caring
@@ZM-et7zt that’s exactly how they are meant to feel. Special!
Same when she uses the bathroom around you.
She is putting too much pressure on a 3 month relationship.
Exactly.
Exactly.Never overthink things ,you'll create a problem that doesn't exist.
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A group of friends I had used to meet once a week for dinner. At one point, I looked around the table and realized that none of us had a stitch of makeup on and we all had natural eyebrows. I thought that was a beautiful commentary on what kind of friends these ladies were: they were down-to-earth, beautiful inside and out, and they weren't competing with one another in the looks department. We just came to dinner our natural selves to enjoy one another's company.
Babe Girl You Need more Self Confidence. Love yourself and make yourself happy then everything will fall in place. Your Man love you with make up && without makeup that’s a plus.
She obviously has self confidence she isn't piling makeup on her face to look like someone she's not she wants to be herself. Her friends just won't shut up trying to control her.
Maybe her friends are jealous of her idk but she is pretty and she doesn’t have too put on make up !! && with or with out make up her Husband loves her.! That’s a plus... and I feel like she needs her self confidence up and tell her friends that she is happy the way she is she wants Too entrance her beauty!!
I love how patient he is with all of these neurotic questions. Incredible social skills from uncle Steve
lol
For real
I mean she is beautiful she really doesn’t need anything... seems like it’s just her friends that are putting this seed of doubt in her.
Projecting their own insecurities onto her no doubt.
Lol you should be glad he likes you WITHOUT makeup. With makeup will be a bonus. Put yourself in the shoes of those who actually look terrible without makeup. A whole relationship built on deceipt. Girl you've got no problem. This isn't a problem at all
@NONYA BusinessA light Make up will enhance their look. That's bonus
I don't know the rest but if Steve gave her a makeover, it is such nice of him. I like her way of thinking, make the man like you as you are
But he knows what you look like... I’m so confused. 🤷🏽♀️
Dr Dermix Girl loool just as confused as you
It’s soo backwards
She doesn't want him to fall in love with how she looks all made up because she doesn't normally wear makeup. She seems to be scared that he is going to expect or request that she wear it.
@@chontaye Is that something that happens to people? Ive never heard of that problem before lol
Keisha Wright I guess she can’t be the only one, lol.
Make up only enhances existing beauty. Nothing wrong with or without.
Not if you pack it on like a freak'n CLOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Or makes the person looks horrid... Makeup does that to some
Im of the mindset that you cant "enhance" what God has already created and said was good. That would be like saying Gos didnt do a good enough job. But what happens when you get old and you cant wear make up anymore? What is your husband to think of you then? I think a guy needs like his girl completely natural as she is. If she wants to wear a LITTLE bit of make up here and there that is fine, but please understand it does not enhance anything.
EDIT: on the part of the woman, i think she needs to learn to have confidwnce in her natural beauty the way she is. The key word here is "feel". I dont think a woman needs make to feel beautiful.
Everything wrong with it, it's not the real person, it's made-up! Oh, and by the way, NO YOU AIN'T!
Bless this woman 😂. First off, as a man I have to see a woman without makeup for me to ultimately decide whether or not I'm attracted to her. A lot of women that as soon as the makeup comes off they be looking like a whole different person. So yeah ladies be confident with or without makeup! If a man is all over u without your makeup on then you got him
If women just stop wearing make up then they wont have a problem. They getting guys they got no business getting.
You nailed it bruh
A lot of guys claim to like "natural beauty" on women, but many of you don't even give a plain Jane the time of day, so we have to be glammed to even get your attention because you guys go for the glamazons always and overlook the barefaces, which is why we even have to wear makeup in the first place. You will pick a glamorous made up woman over a beautiful plain Jane with her natural hair, every time, that's just how you guys are.
@@tjaspire I think one of the big misconceptions is what men mean when they say “natural beauty”.
So according to MY male friends & family (so don’t come at me with any not all men bs), natural beauty is two-fold:
1. It’s about the way a woman carries herself and treats those around her.
2. It doesn’t mean no makeup. A well-applied, natural looking, full face of makeup is often indistinguishable from a bare face to the common testosterone built & socially developed male mind. They just mean that you don’t look like two completely different people when you’re done-up vs not.
I think she looks great without it, I’m a big fan on being authentic personally, & I agree that if he prefers no makeup, you’re good 👌🏼
I don't understand why her so called friends are giving her flack for supposedly not looking her best because she's not wearing makeup when she's out with her boyfriend, I think her friends are rude and harsh This woman is CLEARLY BEAUTIFUL AND NATURAL to me and I think the friends shouldn't be negative and raise their friend up not down What is their deal do they have boyfriends or not I don't get it This lady needs some better friends because really GOOD PEOPLE ARE GOING TO UPLIFT OTHERS NOT DOWN I UNDERSTAND SELF ESTEEM IS VERY IMPORTANT BUT I DON'T THINK HER FRIENDS ARE COOL EWWWWWWWWW
Love natural girls like her. She is genuinely gorgeous 😍
I want to see the makeover!
Well. About me, I like girls without makeup. When i had a girlfriend I told her don’t put makeup when we meet, if she put makeup I just Wipe it off😂🌚💔
I wanna see it too!!
NONYA Business I’m an Arabic guy I don’t know what u mean by what kinda arab am i 😅..
.. is that answer ur question
Lenny Ninja06 like u don’t like us or what ?
Men cannot know that we in fact have human skin.
A man will find me and think to himself "wow a woman born with gold eyelids"
LOL
Exactly! That's just how ridiculous make up is.
You have to like/love me both ways. I LOVE makeup so you would have to like me both ways or it’s a no go for me. Now if you only like me with a full face of makeup we have a problem because I’m not wearing makeup every time I’m around you 🤷🏽♀️
Love me with our without makeup and we are good together
Makes up can paint my face
Personally I never wear make up I don't care for it lol
Wow thats so nice. An u still look like a diamond in the sky
@@gorgainde1978 awww thank you :)
I can see that in your face
Normally I won't be saying all this on RUclips but from your pic...you're beautiful and don't need it lol
@@TMURF you mean my picture is beautiful oh my God
😎SWEETIE....GOOD FOR YOU...IF YOU HAVE A MAN THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TOO LOOK LIKE A TROPHY GIRL EVERY DAY 💃💃💃💃
I accept my friends with all the makeup they throw on their face... If they would give me "flack" for being my natural self, they ain't my friends.
P.s. With the hundreds of dollars I don't spend in makeup, I save for things that actually mean something to me. Like family time. And video games. o>o
Adriana Gonzalez good choice Adriana, i bet you dont need make up. Peace out
Adriana Gonzalez Great Comment
@Adriana Gonzalez EXACTLY!!!!! 👏🏽
Same
It’s sooooo expensive
That's refreshing, most women don't want to be seen without their makeup! It's also refreshing because most women wear too much of it!!
They do. I feel as though it ruins their skin and makes them continue to wear make up.
@@WarriorsFanSince-ur3zu makeup doesn't ruin the skin. They're not taking care of the issues with their skin in be first place which is why they wewr more to cover it up.
It’s nice on special occasions to wear some makeup but on regular days, love a clean face, my brows done, lip colored gloss & a good moisturizer!!!
I understand where she's coming from. Her man is definitely going to love her made up face , because she is stunning without it. She doesn't want to have too keep that look up.
That's exactly why she doesn't want to do it.
NONYA Business what else could be the reason and I just listened to what she said.
@NONYA Business 🤣🤣🤣 JUST HAVING FUN WITH THIS HOT TOPIC😂😂🤣🤣HAVE A PLEASANT DAY!
No make up necessary she looks great this way 🎉
I think what she’s saying is that she doesn’t want him to get too used to the made up face and no longer like her natural look as much. She’ll be fine if he doesn’t really care about make up.
Lol I wear make up when I want and I take it off when I want.
Its My face.
If you like my natural face, cool.
If not, cool.
Either way ima do what I want🤷♀️
People are now getting upset because she doesn’t want to put makeup 😂 it’s her face, and let’s be real people put on makeup to be someone more beautiful and perfect than they’re, hide the dark spots, acne, contour, reshape the entire face, so not all women want that work every day for a man that doesn’t hide his face on makeup. I understand looking the best for you, but like her friends are saying putting on makeup just for him is stupid especially since he liked her and asked her out without makeup. Being confident is not being afraid to be who you truly are and want to be. And she’s also very confident of herself since she’s on TV without makeup, that’s who she is and the only people that care about the makeup is other women who think a woman without makeup is ugly.
Her so called friends need to mind their business. If she and her boyfriend are ok with her look then that's the end of it.
PREACH
@@sharronclagon8503 word
Lily Rose you nailed it! Well said.
She looks wonderful the way she looks now! Her smile is worth the whole world 😀
I didn't know she had no makeup in till she said it.
She looks amazing.
...BUT...i will say that i worry or wonder about the same thing. What if i like my made up self...or i meet someone when i am made up? I worry about my darn brows, I just stick with my natural look, and i feel great. I brush them up, and they look good.
I don't know if the makeover will do anything for her mentally if she is not a makeup wearer.
She's glam without makeup. Her friends are just envy of this natural beauty.
She's right. Don't do the makeup girl! It's too much work!
M Johnson and it causes acne.
@@summerthyme71 It also causes a fake (made up) image.
Wayyyyy to much work sis.
Lol
What’s wrong with wearing makeup in moderation ?
Just asking 💁🏽♀️
Key Word Temi moderation most of our sisters Dont know what moderation is...
@@peterchileshe9760 right !!!!
I saw a girl yesterday and it looked like a 5 year old drew with crayons on her face.
Nothing at all... smh only immature women think it’s a problem
Nothing, I prefer women that wear makeup in moderation... women don't need to look like Bozo the Clown or trying to fulfill some video vixen Fantasy.
Makeup is supposed to enhance the beauty, not change the face into a completely different person.
My wife doesn't wear makeup at all nor when we go out on dates. She looks fine to me 😊
I don't wear make up at all and I have never had issues with my men and my face 😊😊😊😊
The sad thing is I remember people telling me I look really pale and washed out without makeup so I wear it and I feel confident and I receive compliments.. but now I feel like I've become too dependent on it that I feel really terrible without it :( my self esteem issues. I'd love to go without it to work but I've had people telling me I look so sick and I look like I've not slept for years. You can never please anyone really.
For us Guys, makeup doesn't matter, the important thing is she keep herself clean and take care of her skins health. I know for one when women wear too much makeup her skin will be damaged.
I met my husband in college so he's seen me not wear makeup and then when I started wearing it all the time. I wear makeup because I like how it looks....Natural or not its all aesthetics. So its whatever is pleasing to the eye,
That is a naturally beautiful lady. What she needs are some new friends; they're supposed to be rooting for them as a couple, not some fairytale idea of what they think her guy wants. Next thing you know, they'll be telling her she needs to straighten out those tresses (which would be a big mistake!)
she's BEAUTIFUL how she is. don't let "friends" pressure you, sis. if he is already loving you why the sudden change?! i don't get it.
“Wait. Hold on to your makeup until you hear love.” As a man, I don’t approve of this old message. I like to see confidence. Being comfortable in your own skin is what I want to see more.
I dont like women with make up too much, however i think its good if my girl put them occassionally, but like steve said, if u love a girl, make up no make up no difference. One thing this girl need to change tho, her dress, she look like a nanny
Yeah i think her friends are trying to get her to not look so old fashioned....i saw that immediately
I don't really wear makeup, when I do its very basic like eyeliner and lip gloss. When I got married I went to get a facial and had my makeup done I thought I looked beautiful, when I came down the aisle my husband whispered, "what did you do to your face?" I could've cried but now 18 years later I'm glad he doesn't care for makeup or fake nails or eye lashes. For special occasions I get glamed up for myself and he doesn't mind but he honestly loves me as I am. Steve is right I think its how you meet and once their in love none of the frivolous things matter.
Purple Garment that’s awful your husband asked you that on your wedding day. 🙁 but congratulations on your lasting marriage. 🙏🏻
If I looked like that I ain’t wearing any makeup either. Girl looks stunning.
i waiting for her makeover
I personally prefer girls without makeup, I think they look better not hiding there real self behind a mask so to speak. I know there are lots of different views on this subject.
Ladies, meet a man in your most comfortable and usual look. If you don’t like to wear makeup - don’t wear it when you meet him or around him. Same for heels. I like to wear suits and dress casually but I always look my best in every situation. If I go to the gym I’m wearing clean sneakers and workout clothes that are not tattered. I shave my head everyday. The only time I may ease up on my look is if the woman says “hey, you don’t have to get so dressed up” or “don’t worry about shaving.” I owe it to the woman I’m dating to maintain the looks that mirror how she met me as much as humanly possible (age will be in a factor in long term relationships).
That one woman with no hair lookin Stun-NING!
She’s a natural beauty, imo ❤️ Does anyone know where the follow up video is? TIA🤗
She doesn't need makeup. She's gorgeous without it
She looks beautiful NATURAL!!!
Steve the man
Steve is a Awesome cat! He is always Giving!!!!!!! You go Steve 👍
I rarely wear makeup. My fiancé loves me like that. I put it on for me when I get dressed up for special occasions and he notices...lol
No it's a problem if she don't wear makeup around him, but wear makeup around her friends. When he notices, it will be an issue.
My boyfriend of four years fell in love with my natural face and the thing that started bothering me is when I would wear make up and take it off later, the color under my eyes seemed soooo dark to me! So, I stopped putting foundation and concealer under my eye which ended up taking away the darkness and I just put mascara on whenever and a little eyeliner but I NEVER put it on everyday. Either way, I started to have a problem with my face with makeup lol my boyfriend never cared for the makeup in general!
All men like natural more. Stop listening to your friends
I wore makeup on my first and third dates with my husband. I made sure he understood that, for me, makeup is a special occasion thing for me. He was okay with it. It's what you both decide.
Noooooo, she has her reasons for good reason. Don't mess!
Steve's right. But technically, this girl is fine. Her man met her and decided to date her non-makeup face. So, she could literally make either choice and be fine.
If she said, yo I've never shown my man my face without makeup, then she might actually have a problem, and would have to tread lightly.
Makeup or not, how much of it, or your chosen style, being who you are and letting that shine through is what makes for true beauty. It transcends age, health condition, and time. No amount of makeup can make your spirit ugly OR beautiful.
She’s already beautiful in her spirit. The makeup’s just icing the cake.
Occasionally Steve actually gives good advice
I understand what she's saying....if she gets dolled up and he says he prefers the dolled up look over her natural look... I like the fact that Steve told her to do a makeover for herself
You look lovely without make up sis, he liked you natural, that's what matters not your silly friends.
Your friends are bitter that they have to wear makeup to feel better about themselves and jealous of your natural beauty. You making the most out of what you have naturally IS you looking your best. Plastering makeup on is just you looking different. Tell these "friends" to worry about themselves and you stop worrying what anybody else thinks of your relationship but the two of you in it.
If he loves you so much, he’ll be fine with whatever makes you comfortable
I don't wear make-up for NO man! If he can't take me as I am, bye! I'd rather have a man who will take me as a am with no makeup. This doesn't mean I never wear makeup. I only wear it for special occasions. But, I don't wear it for any man. If I go without makeup and he doesn't want to be with me - BYE! There's the door. I'd rather be with someone who wants me for who I am, than to change into someone I'm not to save a relationship I clearly don't belong in.
Guy: accepts her the way she is
Friends: tell her she should change, and she's not good enough
"OMG GUYS ARE SO EVIL"
I would say to her that if he doesn't like you the way you are one way or another that he is not the one. This is from a man who's been married for 21 years. You accept the other person as they are.
We overlook a lot of things once we love you
Honey if she put makeup on when they go out. He wouldn't know how to act. She's freaking beautiful without it.
I’m about to be real deep:
So, the guy likes her without the makeup.
Her friends think she ought to wear makeup.
She feels fine without makeup, but is concerned that if she wears makeup, he will like someone she’s not....
That is the deepest thing I’ve ever heard someone say. So my point is this:
You KNOW you’re not you when you wear makeup. You give a false appearance of what you are. Poor illustration of what the mean... look at a clown. He/she doesn’t look like the way they look without makeup.
That’s why i didn’t like dating women that wore makeup. I dated very attractive women that didn’t need it. So at their worst, they looked their best. You get me?!!?
With all this makeup, you really don’t know what or who you’re getting.....
As a woman, I have to agree. Make up is great, but some of the make up like contouring is downright sorcery!! The woman looks completely different without it! Make up is supposed to accentuate good features, not give you a completely different face!The lady asking Steve already has a pretty face, she'll be fine with or without.
PREACH BROTHA!!
Girl who don't need fakeup to look stunning are the best. By doing it, it looks they are hiding sth about them, (at least to me) and that's really creepy.
PREACH BRYAN!!!!
Karmen Cummings is that even your last name? with all due respect
U dont need makeup, your gorgeous. I understand you because I'm the same way.(different face thing) So I suggest just wear mascara, light colored lip gloss and up your hair game. No need to pack products on face .
What’s really concerning is her caring too much about what he thinks of her looks!
HillMarie Leon Yes! This is what I’m picked up on too...and only 3 months dating too.
Hating ass friends. She caught a guy without make up. See, they're creating drama and doubt in her relationship. If and when she feels like that, She can do it. She's confident. Do it for herself.
Lots of men think they prefer women without makeup when what they really prefer is women with makeup, who don’t look like they’re wearing it.
Excess Sleeper 💯
Excess Sleeper ? looks like someone needs to get to know more men in her life
Jacob Lancostellard lol men tell me they like how “natural” I look when I have 5+ products on. My guy friends send me pics of Instagram girls talking about how they’re “pretty without makeup” but they can’t tell they got a full face, lip fillers, and tattooed brows lol
I invite you to do some research, find out if you like the natural look or the natural makeup look :)
Excess Sleeper PREEEAACHH
Excess Sleeper because they be the FIRST ones in your face talking about some “you look tired” or “are you sick” 🙄
Coming from a man, if you look like that without makeup, and you feel comfortable like that, and your instinct is to be without make up, you are on the winning side of the coin... I find if very sexy when women like this one feels empowered already without make up on. She could teach a thing or two to her friends. In this day and age, women shaming other women for not wearing make up breaks the reason why make up became a thing, "to empower someones image", if you shame someone that feels empowered without using make up then you are not doing a favor to your own gender.
Actually she looks really nice just like she is..👍🏿👍🏿 Seems to me that Makeup is to hide imperfections..
If I looked as good as her without makeup I probably wouldn't wear it either. Wow! Her complexion is amazing!
Did they ever show what she looked like after the makeover?
Ladies/Lady...I LOVE a Woman without make up i dont mind a lil like lipstick thats all but I appreciate a woman that doesnt do too much make up. Why? Well I love seeing who you are appreciate how you are physically and all your colour etc...i actually feel the ladies without make up are sooo confident with themselves it Blows me away. Its like when a lady goes bald and shaves her head Damn!! That and eeven tge all Natrual hair thing that just the one. Am not saying that all women should do what am saying but when you are dating or going on a date I would really really like to get to know a lady without the glamour and all coz ..i shall like the glam but u that put it on did not do it for you, you did it for me BUT i would like you to be Happy and confident as you have been mase by our creator and Lord God Almighty..make up is ok but not too much. And thats what I love about the ladies down south..as in South Africa,Botswana,lesotho swazi..and many other subsahara countries I have noticed most of them are All Natrual and sooo sooo soo Beautiful..little lipstick or gloss there and say a touch of eye brow pencil etc..yeah but nothing over board...trust me ladies..Men love seeing you as you are. Especially with the way the world is now adays..Ones got to be sure ..lol ..But ladies MAKE UP IS GOOD but Not Too much to the point by where you look like a totally different person....i mean you aint auditioning for a role in a movie.....KEEP IT REAL
Wtf is this testament. 😲
Thank you! I'm very confident with the way i look because i don't wear make up. My friends always say theu feel uncomfortable and less confident without it. Which is weird to me. If the guy doesn't like make up then great. There's nothing to worry about
@@tracyndlovu9717 Tracy keep on doing that my sister and yeah..i heard ladies several times saying they cant go out of their jouses without make up on am like thats a problem right there...BIGGGG problem..am glad you highlited that.
PREACH BROTHA!
I’m really, really lucky. My man actually prefers me with no makeup on; he has a valid point about wanting to kiss me instead of getting a mouthful of makeup. Thirty eight years later, he still loves me for exactly who and what I am. He has never once passed any negative comments about my appearance. On the flip-side, I never know if what I’m wearing actually looks nice or not because, to him, I’m just beautiful… regardless. The fact that I’m actually butt-ugly makes him even more special and amazing; I wish I could see myself through his eyes ❤️
Make up no good at all we need natural ladies colour believe what God give u
Impress the lord dont impress a man
@@thabetiann5566 !
Men will say this and still chase the women with a full face of make up😂 At the end of the day ladies just be comfortable with yourself, do what you want with your face and someone will come along and love you the way you are.
Tianna Miller not every man... my husband hates makeup
@@MrsReed-lf9iz most men
Natural beauty is hard to come bye keep on being you
Lady: I dont want my face to look different for my man because he might fall in love with a face thats not mine. Steve: Let's get you a glam makeover. WTF?
She really wants to try it but is afraid that she herself won't love her natural face anymore. It's not about her friends or her boyfriend. I think it's good for him to push her out of her comfort zone to try something she really wants to try.
Girl it’s either you want the makeup done or not (it’s not a life or death decision) regardless you are beautiful chic!
Bess Menard Exactly. People are making way too much of this makeup thing.
But where did this pressure come from that women have to do make-up (to look "better")?!
I'm 35 yrs old and I tried to do make-up once or twice...very laborious for me😂😂😂😂
Beautiful either way ❤
Sorry but why would I say I love you too a girl who is actually wearing a mask and didn't show her true face, that is just crazy I don't have to say I love you to the girl to see her without make up, I respect that girl for the way she thinks that a man need to love her for the real face and Steve you are to hard on guys we don't have to like and accept everything where is our own opinions
She looks great without makeup. Her friends should appreciate the fact that he likes her natural self.
She looks great the way she is, why Steve want to make over the lady, she has only been with the guy 3 months, why he encouraging her to do a 360? She attracted him the way she is now, If it ain't broke don't fix it
Guess what? Make up washes off. Try it, he might like it.
180* 😊
@@rebeccacastro2525 Well she better tell him it's for him, cause if she starts getting too much attention from other guys she will be back on the show with a bigger problem.
Gregory Adolphine Now THAT’S THE PROBLEM! YOU JUST TOLD ON YOURSELF. The not wearing makeup crap is not because the woman will look like a different person or because her natural beauty looks just fine, it’s because men are terrified that another man will become attracted to his woman. It’s all about fear and jealousy.
She looks great without it , but if she wants she can put just a little bit for herself , she doesn’t need layers of it to transform her to a different person 😊