(Not coming from malice) I would want more kids too but why she wants a kid mostly is due to the fear of empty nest Not coming from the point of whether sufficient resources It’s lucky of her to think she raised her first born with very little resources, but I’m sure why she succeed is not without help from her parents Its quite selfish to want another kid when your decision with impact other people
有錢留起佢，將資源俾兩個可愛仔仔啦。今日唔知聽日事，目前現狀都唔易過，唔好生多個小朋友令整個家庭冒險。 留言支持叫人生果啲，記住要課金俾佢地。 I am not on the side of Gladys , the future of the world is gonna be harder than now, it’s better to keep all the resources for them. It’s a risk to have one more kid. It’s not a must to have a healthy baby. To be honest, Gladys is too idealise, but she is a really good mum. However, when your partner doesn’t want one more kid,please respect him and don’t force him. Especially when guy said no, one day when problems out. Man is going to say I don’t want kid, you ruin my life. I can feel your husband under stress already , he is not and will not ready for one more kid forever. For your own good , please don’t force your partner to do anything , it definitely ruin the relationship. You already have 2 kids ,if you keep forcing your husband , you seems quite selfish and not listening. Anyway, wish you all have happy life.
I'm with Laurence on this one🤣, from resources point of view really, you want to give the best to the boys. Plus your plan isn't really sustainable girl, baby grows up very quickly lol
soo sweet but this time support reynold also since 兩個小朋友真係好夠 其實middle child 個小朋友真係會好辛苦 好想博關注同成日感覺比人忽視同孤獨，所以兩個真係超級夠，可以睇下關於middle child 嘅scholar essay,出生次序其實對小朋友都有好大影響
If u hv so much love, why don't you share your love by doing voluntary work helping other people or children? There are so much things to do to help the world. No matter how many kids u hv, they will still grow up and leave u one day. We still need to be prepared for that day. The greatest love of all is love without attachment then u will really gain real happiness.
Your husband is wise and realistic , , give all your love , attention and energy into raising these two boys . Then invest time for self development , perhaps a career . Kids grow up n need u less and less . Cuteness is too simple a reason to have another kid
Maybe wait a few years, build your own career and stronger income first, don't put too much pressure on your husband, you need to be financial independent yourself first. I have 3 kids and I waited 5 years to have the third one. The reason is because we needed to build up our financial resources to make sure we can buy a bigger house and hire a nanny in USA. Both my husband and I were able to build a stronger career during the five years and we were very motivated to save to get ready for the third kid. It worked out real well because my third kid was at home 5 more years when the two older sisters moved out to college. I am curious to know why you don't drive, don't you have to work on that first?
I think two is enough..I think you can try to work after two sons reach primary school level. As a woman, having independent finance is important as well..
The stress of being the oldest only the oldest will understand…2 is enough…my parents have 4 although is a loud family but jeez our teenage years wasn’t the easiest and thankfully now the two youngest one are finally in their mid teen…
Reynold is obviously uncomfortable, just don’t push further. Better put off the idea for the moment, you are young and wait a couple of years and he may say I want another one! Who knows?
Honestly, and no offence, I found the argument of wanting another baby to safe-proof your motherly feeling and reassurance when the elder two became teenagers not only unrealistic, but very selfish. However, at the end of the day, it is each couple to their own.
No worry. You both will continue to share your love and energy to your grandkids very soon after 20 years later that you will be only around 40. The grandgrandkids at age around 60. Does it make sense? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have a few Isreali friends who have 4 children and they are so happy about it. 张柏芝，陈凯琳也生了三个。 I really like the idea of having a daughter in additional to your two sons even though this is not guaranteed. I watch Cocomelon which is about a family with 3 children so many times. It is a cartoon for toddlers but the family described in this cartoon is really sweet. It makes me feel so envious, lol!
You have 2 kids very young, May be you enjoy being a grandparent than having another kid. Cause being a grandparent, you can spoil the kids and also send them home 😂
Maybe u can think to have the 3rd kids when Noah is abt 10+yo. By then, your financial should be better then now, and the elder ones can help take care of the younger sibling.
其實有 2 個小朋友巳足夠，Reynolds 說得對，從經濟及愛的角度，可集中在 2 個小朋友身上，他們到青少年時，雖然他們不像現在常在身邊，但經濟上還是要培育他們成才。
到時，你們還年輕，也可以繼續追求你們自己的夢想，享受生活，經濟許可或有精力，可開咖啡店☕️啊！
接受孩子會長大，他們是獨立個體，會離開，伴侶才是你一生一世的 partner。而且，如果雙方對生孩子的意願不是一致，千萬不要勉強生，孩子將來一定會感受到，亦會影響夫婦感情。
真的不建議只考慮自己的想法，很多時候生孩子是很現實的問題。老公其實講得好好，不是盲目地為了滿足自己，而是考慮能不能給現有的孩子更好，經濟上可不可行，夫妻對將來的規劃一不一致。
理想可以很美好，我也很喜歡你們家庭❤，但真的冷靜考慮跟同意。
有時對方不同意呀，就會成為你們將來吵架的重點。
可能心裡潛意識會對第三個孩子有怨的，畢竟人性不好去挑戰。
媽媽真的很有愛，我們都欣賞，但也要學會接受尊重孩子跟爸爸的想法，不要硬把自己的希望要對方實現。
小事真的會累積成大事的。雖然是很想要，但希望能退一步，孩子長大了是會改變，但他們愛你的心永遠不變呀🫰🏻
希望都能夠找到共識，繼續平穩開心下去❤
不能為生B而生B,雖然小朋友真的很活潑可愛,但都要考慮經濟壓力,相信你老公就是感受到這種壓力,如果勉強而為,會影響夫婦感情及影響整個家庭的和諧,我看到有評論說不如養寵物,我覺得這是一個不錯的提議,孩子又可以多個玩伴,增加更多歡樂氣氛.
無論如何，Noah同Finley嘅意願最重要，做任何大決定一定要同佢哋經過所有家庭成員嘅意願，尤其係仔女嘅意見，佢哋將來作為哥哥要真心同意先可以令家庭充滿更多愛，愛除左係爸爸媽媽俾嘅仲可以由哥哥嚟㗎！
睇咗你啲片有一段時間，其實唔好迫你老公，睇得出佢真係唔係好想
吾好生啦，仔大左後，你又咁後生，好好享受日後生話啦，仔大後，還後生可以去下旅行吖😍😍
都講得啱❤️
Totally agree with you!! 生幾多都好當佢地大個之後一樣會為自己前途離開你地！我自己覺得世界只會變差，好難會變好！我都叫我仔女不要生😅
生多一個啦
I agreed!! I have one, and that’s it! I love 2人世界多D
@@thereynoldsfamily 到時又可增值自己和共享二人世界！
我感覺媽媽只係企係自己角度思考，生多個小朋友只係滿足到你自己，但忽略曬對老公同兩個小朋友嘅影響…甚至係未出世果個。
(Not coming from malice) I would want more kids too but why she wants a kid mostly is due to the fear of empty nest
Not coming from the point of whether sufficient resources
It’s lucky of her to think she raised her first born with very little resources, but I’m sure why she succeed is not without help from her parents
Its quite selfish to want another kid when your decision with impact other people
Two is enough don’t make yourself crazy again. Having another baby is not easy. Give your love to two boys.❤❤👦🏻🧒🏻👱🏻♂️👩🏻
兒女是天父給我們的禮物❤兩個仔仔超級可愛，feel 得到爸爸媽媽好用心經營個家庭，留返一個quota, 作為未來的驚喜也不錯….🎉
現在有兩個仔仔，生活幸福就好了！每個生產都有風險！
你呢個諗法係好自私 因為你淨係諗你自己。
你生嘅係一個生命，唔係你嘅玩具，你老公講得好啱，你要理性咁諗吓經濟問題。
你可能覺得平有平養、貴有貴養，但你想唔想你嘅小朋友資源比其他同學少？或者大個啲佢會自己同其他小朋友比較會唔開心？
好多媽媽都接受唔到自己啲仔囡會長大, 唔捨得離開小朋友八歲以下任由佢哋控制嘅時期 ... 其實出去搵錢嗰個壓力都好大。
我真心覺得2 個仔已經夠哂啦， 我好支持你老公個講法。 生多個咪會分薄左對細路仔既愛. 其實對小朋友係唔公平. 真心2 個已經夠晒數， 更加唔好講經濟問題先啦
雖然你啲仔真係好可愛，但唔係講話想得罪你，講真，我相信當年你屋企唔係都有啲家底，絕對做唔到你所期望既野，如果你要半工讀，或者你要擔起頭家既開支，我覺得你無而家甘自在，當然你可以講話你而家全部係自己努力，但前提係你無左兩老既負擔先。
不過睇得出你恨仔恨到發燒
有錢留起佢，將資源俾兩個可愛仔仔啦。今日唔知聽日事，目前現狀都唔易過，唔好生多個小朋友令整個家庭冒險。
留言支持叫人生果啲，記住要課金俾佢地。
I am not on the side of Gladys , the future of the world is gonna be harder than now, it’s better to keep all the resources for them. It’s a risk to have one more kid. It’s not a must to have a healthy baby.
To be honest, Gladys is too idealise, but she is a really good mum. However, when your partner doesn’t want one more kid,please respect him and don’t force him. Especially when guy said no, one day when problems out. Man is going to say I don’t want kid, you ruin my life.
I can feel your husband under stress already , he is not and will not ready for one more kid forever.
For your own good , please don’t force your partner to do anything , it definitely ruin the relationship.
You already have 2 kids ,if you keep forcing your husband , you seems quite selfish and not listening.
Anyway, wish you all have happy life.
如果真係決定，唔會生多個BB，會唔會領養一隻小狗狗、小貓貓，可以同小朋友一齊學習去愛😊
Good point.👍🏼
Laurence said most people will be on Gladys side, but the real is more people be on Laurence side
吾好生，吾想得罪妳，但妳老公聰明過妳好多，妳想繼續為持妳現在既婚姻，就绝對吾好生。
我也是只想要兩個，結果老公還想要一個，於是開始沒有避孕，想說如果真的懷孕就生下了，結果第三個孩子是唐氏症。
頻道主妳現在還想再生一個代表妳現在的家庭生活與人生是很幸福的很平衡的，第三個孩子會如何打破這個人生的平衡妳不知道。老公不想生不要勉強他，生下來他也很難去愛這個孩子（因為不是他自願想要的）。生小孩不是買商品不喜歡可以退貨。
經濟負擔到生多個都無問題，但見爸爸看似有負擔😅
聽完Gladys你嘅期望，同你一樣母愛麵包嘅我，仲要就快40未生過，呢種心靈上嘅掙扎，加上隊友未必想生嘅情況下，我對你今個topic嘅感受更強烈。其實望住你有兩個小朋友，一臉幸福與老公生活，對我來講巳非常滿足。不過我都明白點解你會想生多個，但男人就係天生理性，好多時佢哋自己都想做返個小朋友，莫講話要生多一個小朋友。所以男人唔會太期望增加自己嘅生活負擔，同再被多一個家庭成員分薄左自己女人對佢嘅愛與時間。我只係諗，珍惜巳擁有的，其他就順其自然，一切都會令我們更感恩。
其实我觉得你地一家四口依家好好，等佢地大啲出社会，你地都仲后生可以享受下二人世界同有翻多啲自己嘅时间去enjoy life。:D
認真，咁生得，等細個兩個17 8歲再來多個都得😂
I'm with Laurence on this one🤣, from resources point of view really, you want to give the best to the boys. Plus your plan isn't really sustainable girl, baby grows up very quickly lol
Just discovered the amazing Reynolds family. Level-headed dad somehow manage to keep the lovely wife's passion in check 👍
Yes get ten more kids
soo sweet but this time support reynold also since 兩個小朋友真係好夠 其實middle child 個小朋友真係會好辛苦 好想博關注同成日感覺比人忽視同孤獨，所以兩個真係超級夠，可以睇下關於middle child 嘅scholar essay,出生次序其實對小朋友都有好大影響
雖然經濟上都係考慮因素，但覺得順其自然～我媽咪生左3個，我地三姊弟宜家都大個曬廿幾歲，屋企會好熱鬧，雖然都聽父母湊大我地都辛苦，但宜家大家都好幸福～❤😂
From the above conversation, I feel that the wife does not really understand the pressure of her husband, or she doesnt care
This time I agree with Laurence
Two kids are enough for a family 🙈
我真係好欣賞你哋！雖然我知而家只係一個小六嘅學生，但係我見到你好幸福！ 如果真係生第三個小朋友嘅話！我希望係女仔，因為如果三個男孩子好容易打交！但係女孩子會好少少😂
❤️🙈
小六學生有咁長遠計劃，唔簡單😅
支持生多一個！最好係寶貝妹豬啦！咁後生，一定要生！
世纪巳不同了🚀🚀 夫妻關係+人生階段會經歷不同變化🚥 伴侶才是自己身邊的守護者⏳好好珍惜當下所擁有🏡
避免再自尋煩惱🍚🍠🥱
孩子會長大，必經不同成長階段，你總不能不停咁生，每隔幾年生一個就只因喜歡小朋友？
good thing is that next year is actually next month 😏 baby #3 lets goooooooooo
If u hv so much love, why don't you share your love by doing voluntary work helping other people or children? There are so much things to do to help the world. No matter how many kids u hv, they will still grow up and leave u one day. We still need to be prepared for that day. The greatest love of all is love without attachment then u will really gain real happiness.
Your husband is wise and realistic , , give all your love , attention and energy into raising these two boys . Then invest time for self development , perhaps a career . Kids grow up n need u less and less . Cuteness is too simple a reason to have another kid
Is Laurence working full-time now?
He looks tired and a little fed up all the time 😅
其實有兩個小朋友已經需要好多關注，唔係淨係錢嘅問題。如果驚啲仔大個咗唔理自己，其實係好傻嘅諗法。而且家庭投票已經係三比一唔使再諗。
I think two boys are perfect! Don’t make your life so hard and busy! 😅
Reynolds BB No.3
推！😂
YASSSS 🔥
我本來都幾鍾意睇呢個家庭,覺得好funny好開心。但係睇到呢集,我終於明白點解咁funny...因為原來個女人係傻嘅！
觀點與角度！
兩邊都有道理！
你们真的是天生一对，realistic husband & sentimental wife. 😁
哥哥嘅答案最好笑....真係唔明你點解唔驚?.....是否想要個囡囡呢?🤣🤣，祝你下年有新答覆!!!😁
多謝祝福🤣❤️
我有兩個大我11年同8年嘅哥哥，我覺得做最細嘅啊妹真係好幸福好幸福嘅事😂😂希望你地可以生第三個啦❤
No offence 不嬲都好鐘意你地家庭 好有愛 好和諧 🫶🏻
但睇完覺得你既諗法其實幾自私 講到尾 你沉醉於照顧初生嬰兒-小學階段既生活 好想小朋友依賴你 但現實係你無論生幾多個 小朋友隨時間點都會長大 咁唔通不斷生小朋友？ 睇得出你老公係衷心地真係好唔想生！有時迫得多會好反感 反而影響夫妻感情
兩個仔已經超級可愛啦！😍
Kids are soul who link with their parents ❤
你老公好靓仔，是个好爸爸 ， 你们家庭圆满 。
生! 呢哋两個仔好cute. 生多两個女! 💪🏻👍🏻😁 When you have kids, God always take care of what you eat, what you wear, what you live as mentioned in Bible.
Maybe wait a few years, build your own career and stronger income first, don't put too much pressure on your husband, you need to be financial independent yourself first. I have 3 kids and I waited 5 years to have the third one. The reason is because we needed to build up our financial resources to make sure we can buy a bigger house and hire a nanny in USA. Both my husband and I were able to build a stronger career during the five years and we were very motivated to save to get ready for the third kid. It worked out real well because my third kid was at home 5 more years when the two older sisters moved out to college. I am curious to know why you don't drive, don't you have to work on that first?
咁好嘅基因梗係生多個啦😍😍
I think two is enough..I think you can try to work after two sons reach primary school level. As a woman, having independent finance is important as well..
Totally agree with you.
So true , having your own income is of paramount importance
生多個妹都幾好😂，兩個哥哥有個妹妹幾好（親身經歷）
真心覺得唔好生 下面留言個個話生多個囡 萬一唔係囡？事情又會咁美好？我身邊冇見過任何一個三囝囡家庭係開心 唔止偏心問題 洗費 比較心態 冇一個輕鬆 一定三個有一個唔開心 而且講衰啲noah嘅敏感問題已經要落好多心思 咁你能接唔接受到萬一下一個有啲更嚴重嘅先天問題 到時錢 時間 心力都唔簡單 真係要諗清楚 我自己就好支持你老公 生唔緊要 但睇落實在諗得太離地同理想
希望佢只係為流量拍，不過都唔多似
@@ヤニカス-q5p 睇落就八九成係真 我明Gladys好中意細路 但佢有冇諗過除咗中意 仲有啲唔捨得細路大嘅情感喺入面 唔通真係好似佢字幕啲jokes話每年生一個？ 接受細路大個係父母嘅一個課題 唔係去逃避之後再生多個 當佢接受唔到又再生肯定多少會比更多心力心血落個B度 就少分比其他囝囡 冇可能達到唔偏心
我又唔想講負面嘅，不過睇佢個老公個樣真係唔想
看完這段片我都不讚成您們再生第三個了🍼🍼 因為2個已經足夠👍
好啊，好快到下年啦！可以再問過啦😄
No offense, but 個人感覺媽媽妳係咪有啲將自己嘅生活同精神來源過多於依賴喺子女身上？子女只係生活嘅一部分……咁仔女大咗，妳咪會好失落？……
夫婦沒有生小孩共識，千祈吾好強行生，只會做成夫妻決裂導火線。
我都認同😭
@@thereynoldsfamily 但男人會心軟
你唔提一年半年
再講下自己老啦⋯⋯ 再唔生真係冇得生
咁就人生好灰暗咁。喊下～～
可能會心軟
但要時間 唔好再提生bb
The stress of being the oldest only the oldest will understand…2 is enough…my parents have 4 although is a loud family but jeez our teenage years wasn’t the easiest and thankfully now the two youngest one are finally in their mid teen…
Young couple with lovely children. It's very nice. In my view, two more lovely girls. Ha! Ha! Ha!
Reynold is obviously uncomfortable, just don’t push further. Better put off the idea for the moment, you are young and wait a couple of years and he may say I want another one! Who knows?
I live in Warwick and today have a snow in the morning, it’s very cold❄️🌨but it’s it was fun and l’m very happy 🎉🎊🥳
I support Lawrence, you gotta be realistic 😅
小朋友一定話唔要架😂再生只係在父母角度分散風險，小朋友資源會再被分薄
Honestly, and no offence, I found the argument of wanting another baby to safe-proof your motherly feeling and reassurance when the elder two became teenagers not only unrealistic, but very selfish. However, at the end of the day, it is each couple to their own.
3比1.要接受現實😊
其实两个已经够了，作为大哥或大姐真的会觉得多一个妹妹或弟弟就是多一个麻烦😅
你同老公都好後生，多個女就完美。2個哥哥可以保護妹妹。媽咪可以去瞓覺。而且英國環境好，適合養小孩。
但如果又係仔囝呢？
仲正，男仔打交打到七彩，家裡有生氣，媽咪也生氣😡⋯錯，媽咪坐係度欣賞三B打功夫。
生多個女，之後又多個半邊仔(女婿)
父母愛錫又有經濟能力，30歲前盡快生多一個吧！家庭熱鬧啲，最大果個又開始大，可以幫手睇細佬妹～
Be responsible for your kids. If you don't have the money, don't have another one baby.
哈哈 暫定兩個仔先🤣
🤣🤣🤣
如果Finley好似Noah咁乖又照顧細佬妹，而且你哋經濟又搞得掂，有得諗。
好似有聽過心理學講，3個小朋友對佢地成長會好啲。
因為2個小朋友，一但有conflict,佢地就會對立,好難solve the problem
But! 3個小朋友,佢地就會有一個buff係到,可以做到緩沖。
我支持生多個呀👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
但生吾生小朋友都要兩公婆拎到共識先得❤
但the 2nd child都有機會會變成被忽視個個
@@Nat.net2023 我記得她老公就是2nd child, 如果女方能理解的話
過來人經驗，3個小朋友唔會有buff，如果你有機會認識下呢種家庭，通常排中間果個小朋友會被父母疏忽感受而且在家庭中會變成情緒夾心餅，有苦自己知
做中間係最唔好！
生唔生唔可以由其他人決定或多事，兩公婆自己有決定有共識
祝福你生個可愛囡囡❤。我朋友80年， 佢24歲就生第一個仔，隔年生個囡，到佢35歲時仔囡都開始唔跟佢去街， 佢同老公講生多個，佢老公唔想，覺得有仔囡都足夠， 最後我朋友喺39歲果年生左第三個囡，佢兩公婆重拾當年被初為人父母的喜悅生活，有種時光倒流，似曾相識的甜蜜，三四今年都三歲啦～ 哥哥家姐會為左個細妹，肯一家五口一齊去迪士尼玩，仲會幫手照顧，教導妹妹，所以鐘意小朋友，再生的話，係幸福的
修正：三女今年三歲
同大哥差15年🙈
真係感性上希望多一個bb，但理性上好似真係夠了哈哈哈
你哋好幸福呀！我係2013年1月2號出世嘅,希望可以睇多啲你哋嘅精彩影片!
趁後生，快快生個女兒，兩個哥哥一定超級開心，3個小朋友，不錯吧！生女一定係超級靚女,
多一個係錦上添花，不過呢個係一定要兩夫妻有共識先有幸福。老公覺得足夠亦要尊重佢。不如試下俾佢接觸下多啲BB女，話唔埋會觸發到佢啲父愛呢？夾硬黎係唔得既。
Noah真係好令仔~ 而Finley就cute到爆~ 好羨慕你既家庭~
很有趣的问题😂期待明年的这个问题
喺片睇得出你老公好無奈😁
其實 Gladys 27歲仲好後生， 真係可以考慮生多個 bb， 睇得出她好鐘意小朋友。
真係鍾意小朋友可以領養，而唔係不停製造不幸
@@kleung3111 有咩不幸，有父有母，有經濟能力又有父母錫
@@Siudieme 你真係覺得唔會打仗?😏仲有,打 咗針仲生唔怕出事
Lawrence 講廣東話越來越流利！👍👍👍
currently. we are living in a world of uncertainty.if i were you, i would wait for a bit
順其自然.祝闔家安好!
No worry. You both will continue to share your love and energy to your grandkids very soon after 20 years later that you will be only around 40. The grandgrandkids at age around 60. Does it make sense? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have a few Isreali friends who have 4 children and they are so happy about it. 张柏芝，陈凯琳也生了三个。 I really like the idea of having a daughter in additional to your two sons even though this is not guaranteed. I watch Cocomelon which is about a family with 3 children so many times. It is a cartoon for toddlers but the family described in this cartoon is really sweet. It makes me feel so envious, lol!
the child comes from different daddy.
睇錢。夠錢就生。如果經濟狀況一般唔好生。生得就要比到佢地正常生活，興趣玩樂各樣野 既童年。
其實我細佬大個左都仲好痴媽媽架❤ 唔係裙腳仔果種 但佢都仲會好關心好愛媽咪 所以唔洗擔心佢有異性無媽媽既🤭 分分鐘到時煩到你唔想佢煩你tim la 🤣🤣
你老公都好識諗嘢👍知道養小朋友要洗好多錢，兩個仔仔一樣識諗👍
You have 2 kids very young, May be you enjoy being a grandparent than having another kid. Cause being a grandparent, you can spoil the kids and also send them home 😂
I love this 🤣🤣 “ you can also send them home” !!
雖然唔知你地會唔會返嚟HK, 但HK有暫托家庭搵人照顧(24/7, 一段日子)有需要的小朋友
唔知英國有冇呢個programe, 但如果有而兩位公子步入teenage時可以考慮下
though 我支持生多個B女
哥哥好好笑😂唔想要兩個呢d😂😂😂
有仔有女最完滿，一切由自己決定，照顧小孩也辛苦的。🥰🥰💪🏿💪🏿
Would love to see another Reynolds baby but Laurence is pretty persuasive🙈
Noah好可愛 所以我都明白-你点解要第三個 但都是不要against other family memberS' will
I think a daughter in your family will give a whole new experience and perspective to Reynolds🥰
Probably a great idea but no guarantee the third one will be a girl.
Don’t have any more since both of you aren’t on the same page. But I guess woman always win in this situation.
Maybe u can think to have the 3rd kids when Noah is abt 10+yo. By then, your financial should be better then now, and the elder ones can help take care of the younger sibling.
生孩子無論係咩理由，必須係另一半都同意，真正的愛亦請尊重他的意願