I'm on your side sis. Move along and never think about him again. That small request may have saved you. He didn't even want to compromise. I recently flew Southwest after 25+ years and did not enjoy my experience due to a dirty plane, & being stuck on the tarmac, etc. I'm used to the Delta experience, so I definitely get you! I don't have time for that.
Dating in Atlanta part 7, Alicia SoAwesome. Hey. I'm watching you. I see you. That is half the battle right? Getting seen. LOL...... I like what I see. Said you were dating 3 guys. You said, the kicked the alcoholic to the curb. I know that's right. You don't want no drunk around. Very cool. Very cool. You did a good job with this one. Great video! I have just subw3scribed to your channel. So congrats, you just gained another one. I am an advocate on this platform for engaging with others and supporting one another. And returning love and reciprocating feedback. I think that kind of community on here is what we need. Hey, if there were a lot more people like me on here, you might have an extra 600 friends and fans to your channel, right now. Extra. That is the community I'm encouraging people to help me build. I truly am being sincere when I write that. I am a content creator, just like you. Let me get half the battle too. Who knows you might even like one of the videos there.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with your request. As a matter of fact, you should’ve requested him to pay the extra on the Delta flight. It’s like going to a restaurant & him ordering you a meal, & you telling him that you don’t eat a particular dish because you don’t like it, & him telling you that you should be grateful that he even bought you a meal. Absolutely not. You are a beautiful woman that needs to be treated as such. Princess treatment only. Him booking with Spirit in the first place is a red flag within itself. You dodged 3 bullets girl lol..
I personally would have just gone on the trip. I don’t fly Spirit either but if someone else bought me ticket with their own money, i would just suck it up and get through the plane ride. If you didn’t pay for it and your safety isn’t in danger, just let it go. It’s just a plan ride. The airline is a small part of the bigger picture at the end of the day. It was a very kind gesture on his part and for that i would have been appreciative enough. He didn’t have to react the way he did, but i also would have seen it as a red flag if i were him. He sounds like a “go with a flow” type of guy and you showed that you aren’t that type of girl so it sounds like he made the right decision if he’s looking for someone that matches his style. And rightfully you should find a guy that matches yours. Only commenting because you asked what we think lol anyway, good luck on your dating journey ❤
Facts! One bad experience shouldn't stop you. Same as you keep dating multiple brothers. You buy the plane tickets he pays for Hotel, sorry you probably won't like the Hotel 😂
And I feel like due to my bad experience in the past I don’t feel comfortable. I wasn’t asking him to pay anything additional. Life and relationships are about compromise. I was eager to go but didn’t feel safe or comfortable flying Spirit. And thanks for your support
You should have gotten on spirit. He was taking you out and also saving some money so that he could do more, so that his money would go further. You are not dating 3 men you had the opportunity to date one of two as one was married and you was just his toy. Tick Tick Tock sister goes the clock. Now with that said as a man depending on how you said it to me. I may try to make the change. But if this was a new relationship and sounds like it was very very new. You shouldn’t be going away with him like that anyway. If it’s an older relationship as I doubt then it would have been EZ to talk it out and change the flight in fact most men if it’s a long relationship would just give you the card and ask you to find the best rate and book it. You look nice talking all nice for the camera but I’d be willing to bet that’s not the Attitude you gave him. I’d bet heavy on it.
As a man i would be greatly offended for what you did also. Its the thought that counts even if you didnt want to go a 2hour flight on a free trip where you have nothing to lose would not have killed you. You could have stated to the guy normally i dont fly spirit but i like you so much im gonna do that for you. You didnt pay for trip so you didnt have anything to lose. Its come across as entitled and ungrateful from a mans pov. Maybe that wasnt your intention but thats how men will view it.
This was a situation where before you say anything, you weigh the outcome. Do you be audacious enough to say something to them and have them (rightfully), feel that you are pretentious, controlling and ungrateful for a kind gesture vs not saying anything and see how it goes. It’s called compromise and picking your battles for a greater outcome;a nice trip with a potentially nice guy, who took his time and hard earned money to plan a trip for you (even if it wasn’t how you would do it.). Thats like someone getting you roses and you saying you actually like peonies because roses stain your hands and clothes (a random complaint or nag that has nothing to do with him). He has every right to say something and be offended when he was making a nice gesture to spend time with and do something nice to get to know you. If you were going to critique any part then you should have never accepted his offer to plan it, booked and paid for your whole trip yourself, to not be put in any situation until you get to know his tastes and likes;Especially not knowing how he travels. If it came up in convo later on in Houston, that he flew Spirit to meet you, you could then tell him why you dnt fly them. And this way he learns you without anything being lost or gained on either side. But to be offended that he got angry is gaslighting him in a situation that is offensive when he had pure intentions to simply spend time. Its not about the money. It about his effort being nitpicked snubbed. Flying Spirit isnt him asking you to compromise your morals or values. If the end goal is about him it shouldn’t matter if you are stuck in an airport together on a crappy airline. Its an experience and you get to learn each other. And it helps you to be flexible and see how irrelevant a 45 min flight is to potentially meeting your person.
That’s where you’re wrong…”he” is not the end goal…”we” are and it’s important to respect each other’s wishes, compromise when possible and continue to learn each other if that makes since…sorry for your confusion
She doesn’t fly Spirit period. Either he changes it or he can move on. Why would she make herself uncomfortable just to please a man she’s only dating? I’m sure she wouldn’t do the same to him.
It’s not irrelevant to me due to my past experiences. It’s weird that you refer to my past experience with the airline as irrelevant. You don’t even know what happened to me. And there was no gaslighting involved. I told him what I felt he didn’t feel it was important and we parted ways…that is all
I don’t want to attack your character but you are extra and it’s a red flag. If you start that way a logical man knows it’s only going to showcase even more the deeper into the relationship.
yeah hunni.. U was in NO WRONG + asked to Pay the Additional fee.. Naw He can go. its givin CHEAP narcissist!!🤨
Thank u
I'm on your side sis. Move along and never think about him again. That small request may have saved you. He didn't even want to compromise. I recently flew Southwest after 25+ years and did not enjoy my experience due to a dirty plane, & being stuck on the tarmac, etc. I'm used to the Delta experience, so I definitely get you! I don't have time for that.
Absolutely!
She dropped them guys like a bad habit 😅😅😅
I want happiness. Not uncertainty and despondent
He is not the one If you cant respect your wishes. He is pointless. He should a gentleman and respect you. u were not rude.
Thank you. I was shocked because up until then he was so kind
Dating in Atlanta part 7, Alicia SoAwesome. Hey. I'm watching you. I see you. That is half the battle right? Getting seen. LOL...... I like what I see. Said you were dating 3 guys. You said, the kicked the alcoholic to the curb. I know that's right. You don't want no drunk around. Very cool. Very cool. You did a good job with this one. Great video! I have just subw3scribed to your channel. So congrats, you just gained another one. I am an advocate on this platform for engaging with others and supporting one another. And returning love and reciprocating feedback. I think that kind of community on here is what we need. Hey, if there were a lot more people like me on here, you might have an extra 600 friends and fans to your channel, right now. Extra. That is the community I'm encouraging people to help me build. I truly am being sincere when I write that. I am a content creator, just like you. Let me get half the battle too. Who knows you might even like one of the videos there.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with your request. As a matter of fact, you should’ve requested him to pay the extra on the Delta flight. It’s like going to a restaurant & him ordering you a meal, & you telling him that you don’t eat a particular dish because you don’t like it, & him telling you that you should be grateful that he even bought you a meal. Absolutely not. You are a beautiful woman that needs to be treated as such. Princess treatment only. Him booking with Spirit in the first place is a red flag within itself. You dodged 3 bullets girl lol..
Hard agree
I personally would have just gone on the trip. I don’t fly Spirit either but if someone else bought me ticket with their own money, i would just suck it up and get through the plane ride. If you didn’t pay for it and your safety isn’t in danger, just let it go. It’s just a plan ride. The airline is a small part of the bigger picture at the end of the day. It was a very kind gesture on his part and for that i would have been appreciative enough. He didn’t have to react the way he did, but i also would have seen it as a red flag if i were him. He sounds like a “go with a flow” type of guy and you showed that you aren’t that type of girl so it sounds like he made the right decision if he’s looking for someone that matches his style. And rightfully you should find a guy that matches yours. Only commenting because you asked what we think lol anyway, good luck on your dating journey ❤
Facts! One bad experience shouldn't stop you. Same as you keep dating multiple brothers. You buy the plane tickets he pays for Hotel, sorry you probably won't like the Hotel 😂
And I feel like due to my bad experience in the past I don’t feel comfortable. I wasn’t asking him to pay anything additional. Life and relationships are about compromise. I was eager to go but didn’t feel safe or comfortable flying Spirit. And thanks for your support
Dating is easy just take out all the expectations and stop the sprinkle sprinkle in fear that you might get got 😊
Huh? Sprinkle sprinkle?
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You should have gotten on spirit. He was taking you out and also saving some money so that he could do more, so that his money would go further. You are not dating 3 men you had the opportunity to date one of two as one was married and you was just his toy. Tick Tick Tock sister goes the clock. Now with that said as a man depending on how you said it to me. I may try to make the change. But if this was a new relationship and sounds like it was very very new. You shouldn’t be going away with him like that anyway. If it’s an older relationship as I doubt then it would have been EZ to talk it out and change the flight in fact most men if it’s a long relationship would just give you the card and ask you to find the best rate and book it. You look nice talking all nice for the camera but I’d be willing to bet that’s not the Attitude you gave him. I’d bet heavy on it.
As a man i would be greatly offended for what you did also. Its the thought that counts even if you didnt want to go a 2hour flight on a free trip where you have nothing to lose would not have killed you. You could have stated to the guy normally i dont fly spirit but i like you so much im gonna do that for you. You didnt pay for trip so you didnt have anything to lose. Its come across as entitled and ungrateful from a mans pov. Maybe that wasnt your intention but thats how men will view it.
@@bradleystreet8478 that’s not how men view it…that’s how you viewed it. Your opinion is valid. Everyone ain’t for everybody. Appreciate your support
This was a situation where before you say anything, you weigh the outcome. Do you be audacious enough to say something to them and have them (rightfully), feel that you are pretentious, controlling and ungrateful for a kind gesture vs not saying anything and see how it goes. It’s called compromise and picking your battles for a greater outcome;a nice trip with a potentially nice guy, who took his time and hard earned money to plan a trip for you (even if it wasn’t how you would do it.). Thats like someone getting you roses and you saying you actually like peonies because roses stain your hands and clothes (a random complaint or nag that has nothing to do with him). He has every right to say something and be offended when he was making a nice gesture to spend time with and do something nice to get to know you. If you were going to critique any part then you should have never accepted his offer to plan it, booked and paid for your whole trip yourself, to not be put in any situation until you get to know his tastes and likes;Especially not knowing how he travels. If it came up in convo later on in Houston, that he flew Spirit to meet you, you could then tell him why you dnt fly them. And this way he learns you without anything being lost or gained on either side. But to be offended that he got angry is gaslighting him in a situation that is offensive when he had pure intentions to simply spend time. Its not about the money. It about his effort being nitpicked snubbed. Flying Spirit isnt him asking you to compromise your morals or values. If the end goal is about him it shouldn’t matter if you are stuck in an airport together on a crappy airline. Its an experience and you get to learn each other. And it helps you to be flexible and see how irrelevant a 45 min flight is to potentially meeting your person.
That’s where you’re wrong…”he” is not the end goal…”we” are and it’s important to respect each other’s wishes, compromise when possible and continue to learn each other if that makes since…sorry for your confusion
She doesn’t fly Spirit period. Either he changes it or he can move on. Why would she make herself uncomfortable just to please a man she’s only dating? I’m sure she wouldn’t do the same to him.
@@AliciaSoAwesome same mentality same outcome…but go off
It’s not irrelevant to me due to my past experiences. It’s weird that you refer to my past experience with the airline as irrelevant. You don’t even know what happened to me. And there was no gaslighting involved. I told him what I felt he didn’t feel it was important and we parted ways…that is all
@@teedee643 not fr. Not at all actually
I don’t want to attack your character but you are extra and it’s a red flag. If you start that way a logical man knows it’s only going to showcase even more the deeper into the relationship.
Showcase what? What are you speaking about…clarify