Hey Domix... I hope you're working on Wes & Ted's Awksome Adventures.. I can't wait to see it PLS make it soon as possible it really took so long... BTW loOoved your last video... keep it up (Y)
Hah, you know a best friend who'd drive you an hour in the wrong direction without expecting anything in return? I might do it for my best friends, but they'd owe me several drinks down the line, and would have to put up with a few minutes' bitching on the way..
***** People who are actually best friends and decent people would? I mean, if you can help out your friend, why wouldn't you? That is what friends are for? But I guess that's asking to much.
***** Principles of reciprocity: you might do a favour for someone, but if that favour is not repaid in some way, then it harms the relationship. It doesn't have to be material, but you'd have to expect them to be willing do the same for you in the future. I help out my friends, and they help me out, but adding a 2+ hour drive to your night simply because they forgot to organise a lift for themselves? Yeah, they'd owe me after that. Personally I find people being too accommodating or polite to be a barrier to friendship. All of my favourite people will have a joke at my expense, and if I asked them to drive me somewhere that far, I'd expect some good-natured bitching along the way. At the very least you'd have to make sure you were good company on the trip.
I think they were saying friends don't treat you like you're a goddess. They treat you as equals. Most female friends I have would never google computer problems or drive hours to see me, let alone pick up the check or watch one of my shows over her show. They just tend to be more gentle about it.
Tofu I get that part. but is that supposed to be a joke to Oh hey, you could have brought a guest or invited your own friends. Or just a joke that he forgot to invite his own friend Phil?
Nyat Lay Same here. It's annoying since I have friends telling me but for some reason, I can't seem to see it! To be oblivious when it comes to this sort of thing is troublesome for me.
You know what's weird about guys? When you straight up ask them they assure you you're just friends. Not all, I'm sure, but I notice this happen. It's ok to get a little shocked by the question, panic and lie, but at least find a way to clear it up in the next few days. The worst is when they lie about it, but still have expectations of you to like them back or get the hints. Seriously? And I'm just here trying to not have prejudice that all guys are the same when they're being really nice because YOU are assuring me in that. That's a sick way of being nice, girls aren't magicians able to read your mind and know everything about signals.
+essennagerry isn't it usually the stereotype that girls are always giving off hints, hoping that the guys will notice and take their hints. I think this just happens to people who are delusional in thinking that everyone notices details, when that's not always true.
+essennagerry Not always the case. Takes Mature guys to have girl friends. I have like almost a dozen friends. I have even went out of my way (2 hour drive) for a guy I knew only once, but needed a ride from phily to Jersey, and I haven't done that to any of my female friends
browncoatz It is absolutely not always the case, I also have male friends, like truly friends, that are really nice to me and I'm nice to them. And honestly, the people from my friends circle where I am now are the only ones I feel truly free to be as nice as I want to be and know they won't take it the wrong way. :)
There's nothing wrong doing something nice for someone even if you don't see them more than just a friend. I've done a lot of nice things for many girls whether they were single or actually with someone, it's called being a good friend.
i have a guy friend who is really nice that he will drive me back even though its probably off his route for like 30 min, but he never reply me fast enough in message, he treat me to meal at times, but i treat him at times as well, but he is also nice enough to offer to drive all the way back just to get my contact lens cover, and i will probably do the same for him. conclusion guys and girls can be best friend as well, not all guys that are nice aim to be more than friends ( p.s he has a girlfriend )
How does that make him a jerk?? She just ignored all of the things he has been doing for her now that she realises that his motivation was different! She could just set him straight, or even keep things going the way they were. If she were a true friend, she'd be happy that he knows the truth about how they cant be more than friends and is already moving on.
Apparently I want to be more than friends with ALL of my friends. Seriously, is it weird to have your friends' backs? I know that if I ever need something, I'll be able to count on them, and they know the same coming from me.
I think most girls don't notice the difference is because they take it for granted. Its more of a privilege than an obligation. When girls get a guy who would do anything for them they automatically think "this guy is easy, or this guy is desperate" but its not about that at all. Then when they end up going for a guy who does none of that they start whining. Guys do this too. However for some reason.. I see girls do it more.. its like cos they have the option to do so. This video is pretty accurate.
v1etpr1nce I think when “nice” guys do things for girls to try to be appealing, it isn’t that appealing at all. What appeals most is still the way the guy carries himself, not what he does for a girl, so focus on that
But I sometimes treat some friends in the More Than Friend way even though I have no plans of starting a relationship with them... I believe some friends could fall into the Romantic Friendship category.
i can relate so much to the girl right now...xD i never think guys like me until they say so or my friends point out all the nice things they do are only for me cuz they like me -.-;
As a girl, I would NEVER go for a guy who would constantly drop everything, put his entire day on hold just to do stuff for me. Once in a blue moon would be sweet and appreciated, but anymore than that - I start thinking "Dude, don't you have your own things to take care of?" If I were to be part of someone else's life, it better already be whole before I get there. Nothing is hotter than a guy who has his own happy, fulfilling life outside of me and our relationship. I want someone who wants to share - not give - his life with me.
he's not putting his entire day on hold, he was gonna drive the girl an hour away while he also lived an hour from her house - basically, he's splitting his life in half. he pretty much IS sharing his time in half with u. if ur so insensitive that you don't want to be with a guy who's willing to put out time for you but instead values you as much as anybody else, then sorry, but you probably won't be finding any great guys. a relationship requires time commitment, and if you dislike guys who are willing to commit, that's your choice.
you may be saying this once in a blue moon shit now but fast forward few years you'll be: you never took me anywhere abroad, you never bought me jewelry, you never appreaciated me...
The wittiness in script and the editing of this video is so amazingly well done. Great acting too. Nice jab at the friendzone. But how come noone notice Wesley was also "friendzoning" Megan? :3
I actually believe that boys and girls can be *just* friends. I have this guy friend and we've been friends for almost four years and I do had crush on him once but the feeling's faded and I see him no more than friend. And I think he's also into my other friend which always been KARAYZEE about him for years. We've gotten to that friendship stage where we'd be like, "let's pretend that we're dating" then we "date" for a day :v Idk about you tho
Her friends aren't very good friends. Like, in my experience if she says "let's celebrate my promotion!" guy friends would be so happy for her, but also say "drinks are on you." (Actually this happened last month.)
It's funny, pathetic but true. The thing is I don't think girls notice this either that or they ignore it. When a guy goes way way way out of his way, you guys aren't just friends or at least he is hoping for more. No one inconveniences themselves like that
Most of the time, girls don't notice. We're just oblivious to how guys flirt with us. The thing is, basically everything that happened in this video for the "More than Friends" scenarios is what happens between girls. Two girls go out of their way for each other, like calling them a 3 am to talk, driving them halfway across town, making ridiculously complex appointments for each other to fix our stuff, etc. So we just assume it's the same way for guys. We honestly don't know you're flirting with us since we act this way when we're with girls. Your special treatment completely goes over our heads.
Mr. Smith It's all about the feelings you're probably too scared of showing us. But that is the only way we'll know. When you guys think that getting super involved with us and our daily lives is a way of showing us how much you care, it comes off to us as being just really very friendly. Almost like a store clerk just doing errands for us. Oh, you're just SO impatient for that new season of Gossip Girl? So are our girlfriends. Oh, you want to talk until 3 am? So do our girlfriends. Oh, you'll drive me halfway across town to get me home? So do our girlfriends. But it's only when a guy starts to go out of his comfort zone and make some vulnerable displays when in our presence... THEN we start to see contrasts with you and our girlfriends. Our girlfriends don't get a little-tongue tied, or nervous, or hinting at romantic sentiments when they're around us... something's fishy. Not the straight ones, anyway. The key is to show some vulnerability. I know it sucks. I know you view it as "emasculating" yourselves, but without this, we can't tell the difference between the cashier clerk go-getter guy, and a guy that actually feels something soft for us. Guys need to start taking the concept of romance a little more seriously instead of making light of it, or "brushing it off" with masked proficiency. This is the only way we can tell you're flirting with us. This is why everything you guys do for us comes off like a business transaction than a romantic gesture. For example, if you want to schedule an appointment to fix our stuff, don't mask how you feel about us with a quick and efficient smile. It feels like I'm talking to a cashier clerk. I would like to feel like I'm talking to someone that actually has soft feelings for me. Instead, it'd be nice if you smiled like you're a little more emotionally vulnerable. (I promise you, we're not going to judge you). Showing some vulnerability, in the right areas of your personality, sets off a signal that you're interested. We'll get this right away. We'll piece it together faster than lightning. Just let the female brain do the rest. You can't win a girl over with total masculinity, but at the same time, you can't win a girl over with total emasculation. It's all about balance. I'm sure there's some girls that are totally feminine that squeal at the sight of bugs or cry and pout about every little thing, that you just wish they'd suck it up a little bit more by being a little more "masculine," as you'd call it. But at the same time, you don't want some butch girl that can beat you at arm-wrestling, every sport you and her play, and never wears a dress. You just wish she was more feminine. This "balance matters" principle goes both ways for both genders. Hope this helped.
To be fair I don’t consider going out of the way for someone to be a romantic gesture. Also when you go out of the way to help someone they would probably take the offer just because you offered them something they want. They don’t really think of the implications. But above all of that you really aren’t making yourself attractive just by helping the girl you like, because they have to be drawn to your personality
You guys are super smart and super awesome and you speak really good english and I bet you can drive well too. I live in a place where other cultures come in masses and do not make an effort to integrate. Your videos are awesome. I'd give you 2 thumbs up if I could.
okay lets be honest; he's not "trying to get something out of it" he just wants her to notice him as a potential boyfriend. He's not doing it to get some V or anything; besides how else would you get someone to start noticing you? Asking straight up gets u a "no" most of the time so does that mean he should just go up to every single girl and ask them out till he gets a yes? JFC when did romance become a fucking obstacle course that ended at a gamble!?
He trying to get something out of it more than just friendship. And yes, you should ask a girl/guy out if you are interested. At least you get an answer right away instead of wasting your time with someone that isn't interested in you in that way.
D2attemp I am nice to everyone I consider a friend. I try to help them whenever I can and I don't consider myself a flirt. But being nice makes it hard to get people to notice that you like them because everything starts to seem like friend like behavior. I'm not saying I'll stop being a gentleman but romance has definitely changed. calling a girl up at 12am to say happy birthday or w/e makes you "whipped" and they usually still don't see you as trying to be romantic.
TiNeVlog It's true that it's better to get a straight up answer, but he was trying to sway her judgement of him. Things are different now a days but some guys still think that romance includes proving to a girl that you're worth their time. Not every guy can just pick out girls like fruit; some guys meet one girl out of a 1000 and fall for them so they do everything to try and show that they're boyfriend material. being a man today is definitely different than being a man yesterday; that's why we're even having this discussion.
He's not being himself, so how are you supposed to like someone when you don't even know them? Also, if you aren't interested in someone, you rarely just change your mind all of a sudden. Doing everything for someone isn't "showing that you're boyfriend material", it comes off desperate. And it's not even flirting. People need to learn how to show that they are interested. If that guy had actually flirted with her, then he might have realized earlier that she wasn't interested. Or maybe she would have been.
Couldn't have said it better myself. If I've just been friend zone its clear I can't get any deeper into the relationship. So why waste time on someone who won't love you when there's someone out there who could be your future wife or husband! Especially when there's a good chance someone else is trying to build a relationship with them too! Yeah it's messed up to ditch someone who doesn't feel the same way as you but our time on earth is too short.
Because apparently being just friends with a woman is such a horrible thought that if you cant get a relationship or sex out of her, better back way off and just not associate with her, right? Like, you can get turned down and still be friends? Especially if she doesnt know you're interested which is usually the case. Just move on and keep being friends.
Katherine Campagna I understand what you’re saying, but do consider that it can be difficult, knowing that you were not enough. Of course you can have friends of the opposite sex, but it’s more complicated when you like the person and they don’t have the same feelings and reject you. That’s when it gets harder to “just be friends” and people steer away from them because they were hurt. You can’t control your own feelings.
You can be friends with pretty girls and not be romantically attracted to them. Sure, they won't seize to be attractive, but you can appreciate other people's beauty/looks without having to be sexually attracted (i.e. siblings or cousins who are good looking, or pretty people who have terrible or even just differently incompatible personalities/character) I find that girls who are very pretty, but I will get turned off to them if they won't communicate or give me the time of day. I used to try harder to befriend them, but nowadays, I have to ask myself if I would want to be around someone like that (and for a lifetime, no less), and I can't honestly say I would want that. That said, being a shyer guy I may've been perceived as creepy or awkward at times, so I'm working on my part of being able to be more social and friendly. But point being is that long term attraction should not be and is not always based on looks alone
Nice video. Friends only think about you when they are bored or need some helps. More than friends always think about you all the time. Try to be with you every minute.
That was hilarious at the end. The cuts to him being further away. I was laughing so hard. Love that stuff. So true also, if a guy is friends with a girl it's pretty much only because he likes her and hopes upon hope that someday she will like him back. AKA the Friendzone
This is bullshit :D As a guy I would go out of my way to do things for a girl because I'm obligated to do that as a friend and as a gentleman. THERE ARE NO EXPECTATIONS =^= Also there is no such thing as the friendzone
TheJas20 20 FYI. If you think you're gonna spew your patriarchy "friend-zone" bullshit on me it's not gonna work. There is no such thing as the friend zone. Just because a girl doesn't want to be with you doesn't mean you shouldn't stop doing nice things. =__=
TheJas20 *grammatical error* "doesn't mean you *should* stop doing nice things" people are suppose to be nice. You don't get a cookie for doing something nice for a girl with nothing in return. It's called altruism =___=
SyaoranXiaoLi Nah, you're the exception on this one. If there was no such thing as the friendzone then there wouldn't be a term for it. Think about that.
I CAN NEVER TELL!!! but like i like this one guy and we tease and mock each other alot thru skype and real life also we talk about everything and wats going on in our lives!.... bad thing is.... my parents and his parents are friends also? WE ARE NEIGHBORS! and he likes to see me flinch
Yeah I would say just ask him. This girl that I liked and I both liked each other without really realizing it. Then one day she told me how she felt, and I did the same. The only problem is that my parents hate her, so there's not a lot I can do right now. So at least you guy's parents are friends. Just go for it! :)
LMAO at how he faded away. I Love your show.
Turn on captions to make it even better.
Chris probably drove to HIS home because he has a surplus of bobby pins for these kinds of situations.
Hello Domics fancy meeting you here :)
LOL your comments tho lol
xD Makes sense :D
Hey Domix... I hope you're working on Wes & Ted's Awksome Adventures.. I can't wait to see it PLS make it soon as possible it really took so long... BTW loOoved your last video... keep it up (Y)
Domics. Please make more awksome adventures?
Girl: "Oh My Gosh !! Gossip Girl is streaming !!"
Wes: " Yeahh--"
Girl: "I KNOW ! I KNOW "
Wes: "WHO CARES? "
I CANT STOP LAUGHING OMG LOL
i always act like that "OMG WHAT WHAT!? ITS ITS ON SOOOooo what am i supposed to to i don't even like that"
This is the very first video where I saw MeganBatoon Now I love her so much
OMG HAAHHA 😂😂😂😂
Did you see it with captions it's so funny!!! LOL
I legit Lol
ya. u know whats more than friends?.... best friends.
Hah, you know a best friend who'd drive you an hour in the wrong direction without expecting anything in return? I might do it for my best friends, but they'd owe me several drinks down the line, and would have to put up with a few minutes' bitching on the way..
***** i would haha:D
***** People who are actually best friends and decent people would? I mean, if you can help out your friend, why wouldn't you? That is what friends are for? But I guess that's asking to much.
***** Principles of reciprocity: you might do a favour for someone, but if that favour is not repaid in some way, then it harms the relationship. It doesn't have to be material, but you'd have to expect them to be willing do the same for you in the future.
I help out my friends, and they help me out, but adding a 2+ hour drive to your night simply because they forgot to organise a lift for themselves? Yeah, they'd owe me after that.
Personally I find people being too accommodating or polite to be a barrier to friendship. All of my favourite people will have a joke at my expense, and if I asked them to drive me somewhere that far, I'd expect some good-natured bitching along the way. At the very least you'd have to make sure you were good company on the trip.
best friend zone!
I think they were saying friends don't treat you like you're a goddess. They treat you as equals. Most female friends I have would never google computer problems or drive hours to see me, let alone pick up the check or watch one of my shows over her show. They just tend to be more gentle about it.
Very well put.
"How come nobody invited Phil?"
-"Its your party!?"
haha
51TGM71 thanks mate i actually didn't watch that bit
I missed this bit LMAO!
Honestly, sometimes it's better off as friends. Oh, but the joy of falling in love.
THE CHOICE IS YOURS.
Not really a choice though...
Friends with benefits is the best choice
i never noticed until now but the opening line xD
wes: how come no one invited phil???
ted: it's your party
haH
+Serena He I never really understood that. is it supposed to be a reference to that other video where Phil is a Hugger?
+Jenny Yao It's his party. Meaning Wes is the one who invited everyone but he's asking why no one invited Phil.
Tofu I get that part. but is that supposed to be a joke to Oh hey, you could have brought a guest or invited your own friends. Or just a joke that he forgot to invite his own friend Phil?
+Jenny Yao that means no one c are about Phil both wes and ted, yes its a joke
OMG SAME😂😂😂
I can tell if its someone else but when it comes to me,,,
Im pretty blind,,,
Happens to guys too. I'm very oblivious to when girls like me and by the time I find out, it's too late.
I think male and female can be acquantance, but not friend.
Nyat Lay Same here. It's annoying since I have friends telling me but for some reason, I can't seem to see it! To be oblivious when it comes to this sort of thing is troublesome for me.
SAME!
Tru
2:04 is reasons why I love Wes
PurpleVioletization Same
wes?
I wonder if the wong fu guys sit here reading comments for the first 30 mins of releasing a new vid...
it's possible..... ....
Wong Fu Productions Lol, I guess that's my answer :D
+Wong Fu Productions hahaha
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Alternate ending:
Girl: so, do you like like me?
Guy: what? No, I'm gay.
Girl and two guys: oooh that makes sense.
True
I would have LOVED that ending
Gay jesus approved your message
Fujoshis be like - Kyaaaaaaaaaa
The even weirder one is the guy who agrees then comes out after they “break up” because you know the other guy confessed
You know what's weird about guys? When you straight up ask them they assure you you're just friends. Not all, I'm sure, but I notice this happen. It's ok to get a little shocked by the question, panic and lie, but at least find a way to clear it up in the next few days. The worst is when they lie about it, but still have expectations of you to like them back or get the hints. Seriously? And I'm just here trying to not have prejudice that all guys are the same when they're being really nice because YOU are assuring me in that. That's a sick way of being nice, girls aren't magicians able to read your mind and know everything about signals.
+essennagerry Girls do it too. First hand experience=[ Feelings can also change over time though. So messy!
Kas Sadin Oh. :( Sorry to hear that. I guess I never saw girls doing that. Thanks for sharing. I hope you get back on top fast. :)
+essennagerry isn't it usually the stereotype that girls are always giving off hints, hoping that the guys will notice and take their hints. I think this just happens to people who are delusional in thinking that everyone notices details, when that's not always true.
+essennagerry Not always the case. Takes Mature guys to have girl friends. I have like almost a dozen friends. I have even went out of my way (2 hour drive) for a guy I knew only once, but needed a ride from phily to Jersey, and I haven't done that to any of my female friends
browncoatz It is absolutely not always the case, I also have male friends, like truly friends, that are really nice to me and I'm nice to them. And honestly, the people from my friends circle where I am now are the only ones I feel truly free to be as nice as I want to be and know they won't take it the wrong way. :)
Are there non asian people who watches this channel? Just curious lol.
totally..!
yeah!
yep#
Yup
Yepp!!
Wes's reaction to Gossip Girl was so AWESOME!!!
That was pretty good.
Happy MLK Day! Who else threw a party?
Nobody. I'd rather remember him for what he's worth than throw a party for his assassination.
A few people do. It's common.
I did yesterday on Sunday. At my cousin's house!!
Ik some people who throw a party in Martin Luther King's remembrance.
There's nothing wrong doing something nice for someone even if you don't see them more than just a friend. I've done a lot of nice things for many girls whether they were single or actually with someone, it's called being a good friend.
It's called chasing girls for the sake of friendship as sometimes that's all you need. Also, friends with benefits is a thing.
i have a guy friend who is really nice that he will drive me back even though its probably off his route for like 30 min, but he never reply me fast enough in message, he treat me to meal at times, but i treat him at times as well, but he is also nice enough to offer to drive all the way back just to get my contact lens cover, and i will probably do the same for him. conclusion guys and girls can be best friend as well, not all guys that are nice aim to be more than friends ( p.s he has a girlfriend )
***** That image is a DOLL.
***** Caught Thirsty...
Exactly
rebound
How does that make him a jerk?? She just ignored all of the things he has been doing for her now that she realises that his motivation was different! She could just set him straight, or even keep things going the way they were. If she were a true friend, she'd be happy that he knows the truth about how they cant be more than friends and is already moving on.
Apparently I want to be more than friends with ALL of my friends. Seriously, is it weird to have your friends' backs? I know that if I ever need something, I'll be able to count on them, and they know the same coming from me.
when the guy is like "what? who cares" lol i laughed so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂 seriously so funny
I think most girls don't notice the difference is because they take it for granted. Its more of a privilege than an obligation. When girls get a guy who would do anything for them they automatically think "this guy is easy, or this guy is desperate" but its not about that at all. Then when they end up going for a guy who does none of that they start whining. Guys do this too. However for some reason.. I see girls do it more.. its like cos they have the option to do so. This video is pretty accurate.
v1etpr1nce I think when “nice” guys do things for girls to try to be appealing, it isn’t that appealing at all. What appeals most is still the way the guy carries himself, not what he does for a girl, so focus on that
This video was incredible, well done guys
But I sometimes treat some friends in the More Than Friend way even though I have no plans of starting a relationship with them... I believe some friends could fall into the Romantic Friendship category.
got me at the wine + gossip girl.. LOLOLOL
fishy!!!
Why is Chris always the friendzoned one LOL
don't pretend like you don't know why
Kklooooiiiiio
I really like this video, especially the part when Wes said "who cares"...his performance makes me laugh a lot
after watching all of Wong Fu's videos I can precisely say that 2:06 is my favorite moment of Wes acting
She also doesn't notice it because she's hot and she gets that treatment from loads of guys.
i can relate so much to the girl right now...xD i never think guys like me until they say so or my friends point out all the nice things they do are only for me cuz they like me -.-;
Hahaha this is so true!!
I disliked this comment, just because no one else did. But then I also liked it at the same time...
How can you not love Wong Fu?
As a girl, I would NEVER go for a guy who would constantly drop everything, put his entire day on hold just to do stuff for me. Once in a blue moon would be sweet and appreciated, but anymore than that - I start thinking "Dude, don't you have your own things to take care of?" If I were to be part of someone else's life, it better already be whole before I get there. Nothing is hotter than a guy who has his own happy, fulfilling life outside of me and our relationship. I want someone who wants to share - not give - his life with me.
he's not putting his entire day on hold, he was gonna drive the girl an hour away while he also lived an hour from her house - basically, he's splitting his life in half. he pretty much IS sharing his time in half with u. if ur so insensitive that you don't want to be with a guy who's willing to put out time for you but instead values you as much as anybody else, then sorry, but you probably won't be finding any great guys. a relationship requires time commitment, and if you dislike guys who are willing to commit, that's your choice.
you may be saying this once in a blue moon shit now but fast forward few years you'll be: you never took me anywhere abroad, you never bought me jewelry, you never appreaciated me...
Amen...although usually the guys who don’t drop everything for a girl...don’t like the girl. Lol.
Good luck with ur relationship girl !
You're a realist, girl.
Wes: How come nobody invited Phil?
Ted: it's your party.
LOLOLOLOL
The wittiness in script and the editing of this video is so amazingly well done. Great acting too. Nice jab at the friendzone.
But how come noone notice Wesley was also "friendzoning" Megan? :3
lol when wes said "who cares" about gossip girl it made em laugh my butt off!!!!!!!!!!!
This is legit, girls just dont see that.
I do lol
Well then the guy who wants to date you is just plain lucky. :)
Haha apparently I'm still alone!
What!?! Okay..
No worries. Some guy would go crazy for you for sure
Hopefully! It's just a matter of the waiting game -_-
why you tell the boys secret??!!
They needed to know...
Poor Life Choices livin by the username I see
haha
nathan9065717 would you like to know.
I also loved Chris teleporting xD
Man I love you guys! Intellectual skits are the best.
I freaking love Chris. He's hilarious.
Girl " oo GOSSIP GIRL IS STREAM, I KNOW I KNOW..."
Friend "what... Who cares"
Wow. The accuracy. Eye opening. This just hit the feels
Had to pause after the part @ 2:01 to laugh at Wes' amazing acting HAHAHA.
The Gossip Girl Part... ^^ "Who cares?!"
i don't know how i got to this video, but well this clear so many things for me XD...
I actually believe that boys and girls can be *just* friends. I have this guy friend and we've been friends for almost four years and I do had crush on him once but the feeling's faded and I see him no more than friend. And I think he's also into my other friend which always been KARAYZEE about him for years. We've gotten to that friendship stage where we'd be like, "let's pretend that we're dating" then we "date" for a day :v
Idk about you tho
Wow, this is me, except my bro friend IS into one of my lady friends.
hmmmm... That means none of you have such kind of special feelings.. But feelings are unpredictable... You never know when you might fall for him....
*****
Haha I hope not I can barely stand him as a friend let alone being more
i love how wes says 'okay' so much idek it's just like the cutest thing ever
Confession: Never watched a single episode of Gossip Girl.
JiSo *gasps
2:35 Chirs....BUDDY! I died!
Anyone else have sympathy heartache when she said "Chris.... buddy"
This literally happened to me. I never saw him again
Her friends aren't very good friends. Like, in my experience if she says "let's celebrate my promotion!" guy friends would be so happy for her, but also say "drinks are on you." (Actually this happened last month.)
It's funny, pathetic but true. The thing is I don't think girls notice this either that or they ignore it. When a guy goes way way way out of his way, you guys aren't just friends or at least he is hoping for more. No one inconveniences themselves like that
Most of the time, girls don't notice. We're just oblivious to how guys flirt with us.
The thing is, basically everything that happened in this video for the "More than Friends" scenarios is what happens between girls. Two girls go out of their way for each other, like calling them a 3 am to talk, driving them halfway across town, making ridiculously complex appointments for each other to fix our stuff, etc.
So we just assume it's the same way for guys. We honestly don't know you're flirting with us since we act this way when we're with girls. Your special treatment completely goes over our heads.
That Part of Your Brain You Don't Listen To Good to know. So how should we flirt or let you know we are flirting?
Mr. Smith It's all about the feelings you're probably too scared of showing us. But that is the only way we'll know.
When you guys think that getting super involved with us and our daily lives is a way of showing us how much you care, it comes off to us as being just really very friendly. Almost like a store clerk just doing errands for us. Oh, you're just SO impatient for that new season of Gossip Girl? So are our girlfriends. Oh, you want to talk until 3 am? So do our girlfriends. Oh, you'll drive me halfway across town to get me home? So do our girlfriends.
But it's only when a guy starts to go out of his comfort zone and make some vulnerable displays when in our presence... THEN we start to see contrasts with you and our girlfriends.
Our girlfriends don't get a little-tongue tied, or nervous, or hinting at romantic sentiments when they're around us... something's fishy.
Not the straight ones, anyway.
The key is to show some vulnerability.
I know it sucks. I know you view it as "emasculating" yourselves, but without this, we can't tell the difference between the cashier clerk go-getter guy, and a guy that actually feels something soft for us.
Guys need to start taking the concept of romance a little more seriously instead of making light of it, or "brushing it off" with masked proficiency. This is the only way we can tell you're flirting with us. This is why everything you guys do for us comes off like a business transaction than a romantic gesture.
For example, if you want to schedule an appointment to fix our stuff, don't mask how you feel about us with a quick and efficient smile. It feels like I'm talking to a cashier clerk. I would like to feel like I'm talking to someone that actually has soft feelings for me.
Instead, it'd be nice if you smiled like you're a little more emotionally vulnerable. (I promise you, we're not going to judge you).
Showing some vulnerability, in the right areas of your personality, sets off a signal that you're interested. We'll get this right away. We'll piece it together faster than lightning. Just let the female brain do the rest.
You can't win a girl over with total masculinity, but at the same time, you can't win a girl over with total emasculation. It's all about balance.
I'm sure there's some girls that are totally feminine that squeal at the sight of bugs or cry and pout about every little thing, that you just wish they'd suck it up a little bit more by being a little more "masculine," as you'd call it. But at the same time, you don't want some butch girl that can beat you at arm-wrestling, every sport you and her play, and never wears a dress. You just wish she was more feminine.
This "balance matters" principle goes both ways for both genders. Hope this helped.
That Part of Your Brain You Don't Listen To Interesting read. I will take that into account
To be fair I don’t consider going out of the way for someone to be a romantic gesture. Also when you go out of the way to help someone they would probably take the offer just because you offered them something they want. They don’t really think of the implications. But above all of that you really aren’t making yourself attractive just by helping the girl you like, because they have to be drawn to your personality
That screeching sound effect during the friends title is like nails on a chalkboard
"Ooh Gossip Girl is streaming!"
"Oooh what? ...who cares!" LOL
linda always gets popular comments...
LOL why do you always find me
hahahahaha the ending when chris goes further and further xD
Omg! She gave him the “let’s be friends” treatment.
the "friends"
is the girl being friendzoned
impossible
The first girl I dated is my best friend today.
That's probably because the other gender doesn't experience the same things as you do
@KRYMauL they like their personalities oooo~
Meg: Oh gossip girl is streaming!
Wes: What?
Meg: I know i know!!!
Wes: Who cares!
Lol perfect.
You guys are super smart and super awesome and you speak really good english and I bet you can drive well too. I live in a place where other cultures come in masses and do not make an effort to integrate. Your videos are awesome. I'd give you 2 thumbs up if I could.
2:01-2:09 literally all of my guy friends :D
Damn yet another great video guys! Keep up the good work!
OMG put the captions on! the silent dialog is hilarious!
omg the teleportation thing i'm crying lol
Yay! One with Ted and Wes!
And no Phil! I'm not jumping out of my seat about that, but it's definitely something different and new.
mirroredhour Yah. But Ted and Wes are usually behind the camera! Still, great video right?
123rikin Yup! Haha, the roles have been reversed.
mirroredhour Yah!
and it ends with "guys are jerks" with them agreeing... nice.. good way of summing up "Chris" basically becoming a private servant lol
This explains much
The difference between a queen & a princess is that a queen is self made & doesn't whine about the king tending to his work.
I actually like this quote.
Can I get some context? Who's the queen or princess in this?
Megan is so hot o my
Moral of this story; never allow yourself to fall into the friendzone!
This is too funny ^_^
I love all your videos! I'm taking some filming class right now and I'm getting a lot of ideas from the way you guys shoot. Thanks! Keep it up guys!
Thanks for making my day better
okay lets be honest; he's not "trying to get something out of it" he just wants her to notice him as a potential boyfriend. He's not doing it to get some V or anything; besides how else would you get someone to start noticing you? Asking straight up gets u a "no" most of the time so does that mean he should just go up to every single girl and ask them out till he gets a yes? JFC when did romance become a fucking obstacle course that ended at a gamble!?
It's sad that in today's world being polite and a complete gentlemen means you're flirting, when it should be the norm.
He trying to get something out of it more than just friendship. And yes, you should ask a girl/guy out if you are interested. At least you get an answer right away instead of wasting your time with someone that isn't interested in you in that way.
D2attemp I am nice to everyone I consider a friend. I try to help them whenever I can and I don't consider myself a flirt. But being nice makes it hard to get people to notice that you like them because everything starts to seem like friend like behavior. I'm not saying I'll stop being a gentleman but romance has definitely changed. calling a girl up at 12am to say happy birthday or w/e makes you "whipped" and they usually still don't see you as trying to be romantic.
TiNeVlog It's true that it's better to get a straight up answer, but he was trying to sway her judgement of him. Things are different now a days but some guys still think that romance includes proving to a girl that you're worth their time. Not every guy can just pick out girls like fruit; some guys meet one girl out of a 1000 and fall for them so they do everything to try and show that they're boyfriend material. being a man today is definitely different than being a man yesterday; that's why we're even having this discussion.
He's not being himself, so how are you supposed to like someone when you don't even know them? Also, if you aren't interested in someone, you rarely just change your mind all of a sudden. Doing everything for someone isn't "showing that you're boyfriend material", it comes off desperate. And it's not even flirting. People need to learn how to show that they are interested. If that guy had actually flirted with her, then he might have realized earlier that she wasn't interested. Or maybe she would have been.
OMG Chris and Wesley
Why are we jerks for getting away when friend zoned? It's only natural we keep looking for some other options.
Couldn't have said it better myself. If I've just been friend zone its clear I can't get any deeper into the relationship. So why waste time on someone who won't love you when there's someone out there who could be your future wife or husband! Especially when there's a good chance someone else is trying to build a relationship with them too! Yeah it's messed up to ditch someone who doesn't feel the same way as you but our time on earth is too short.
Because apparently being just friends with a woman is such a horrible thought that if you cant get a relationship or sex out of her, better back way off and just not associate with her, right?
Like, you can get turned down and still be friends? Especially if she doesnt know you're interested which is usually the case. Just move on and keep being friends.
Katherine Campagna I understand what you’re saying, but do consider that it can be difficult, knowing that you were not enough. Of course you can have friends of the opposite sex, but it’s more complicated when you like the person and they don’t have the same feelings and reject you. That’s when it gets harder to “just be friends” and people steer away from them because they were hurt. You can’t control your own feelings.
Turn on the subtitles people. They are gold
ok but yall gotta turn on captions. PRICELESS
If you look like that girl, there is no straight, single guy that wants to just be friends with you.
lol., I disagree
Have extremely different chemistry
You can be friends with pretty girls and not be romantically attracted to them. Sure, they won't seize to be attractive, but you can appreciate other people's beauty/looks without having to be sexually attracted (i.e. siblings or cousins who are good looking, or pretty people who have terrible or even just differently incompatible personalities/character)
I find that girls who are very pretty, but I will get turned off to them if they won't communicate or give me the time of day. I used to try harder to befriend them, but nowadays, I have to ask myself if I would want to be around someone like that (and for a lifetime, no less), and I can't honestly say I would want that.
That said, being a shyer guy I may've been perceived as creepy or awkward at times, so I'm working on my part of being able to be more social and friendly. But point being is that long term attraction should not be and is not always based on looks alone
Yeah, no.
@@timothyn4699 I can agree with that
Is it just me or did you check to see if you or the room you are in made the noise @ 1:08 ?
Yep lol
Actually my ears exploded when I heard that
😂
Sad part is it's all completely true... :'c
I love these short films!! You guys are freakin funny, and talented!
Nice video. Friends only think about you when they are bored or need some helps. More than friends always think about you all the time. Try to be with you every minute.
Lily Wang exactly!
"OMG GOSSIP GIRL IS STREAMING!"
"WHAT? *FANBOYS*"
"OMG YEA-"
"WHO CARES?!"
HAHAHAHAHHA
wes' ''okay'' face at 0:19 loool
It's perf XD
lovelaughlive1Dream
i agree :)
OMG GOSSIP GIRl!!
HA HA WHO CARES?
Loved this short.
I seriously LOVE this channel!
That was hilarious at the end. The cuts to him being further away. I was laughing so hard. Love that stuff. So true also, if a guy is friends with a girl it's pretty much only because he likes her and hopes upon hope that someday she will like him back. AKA the Friendzone
This is bullshit :D As a guy I would go out of my way to do things for a girl because I'm obligated to do that as a friend and as a gentleman. THERE ARE NO EXPECTATIONS =^= Also there is no such thing as the friendzone
SyaoranXiaoLi how old are you?
TheJas20 20 FYI. If you think you're gonna spew your patriarchy "friend-zone" bullshit on me it's not gonna work. There is no such thing as the friend zone. Just because a girl doesn't want to be with you doesn't mean you shouldn't stop doing nice things. =__=
TheJas20 *grammatical error* "doesn't mean you *should* stop doing nice things" people are suppose to be nice. You don't get a cookie for doing something nice for a girl with nothing in return. It's called altruism =___=
SyaoranXiaoLi Nah, you're the exception on this one. If there was no such thing as the friendzone then there wouldn't be a term for it. Think about that.
This is true, but I do have guy friends who are pretty helpful with other girls and guys.
"Wait, don't you owe me money?"
-Me, everytime
Love this channel + the single by 30 show!!!! 😩🙌🏾
hahah omg the ending was so cute with both Wes and Ted saying "no!" at the same time. their reaction was priceless!
2:00 at the "gossip girl" scene. Probably the funniest scene in this video, rofl.
I CAN NEVER TELL!!! but like i like this one guy and we tease and mock each other alot thru skype and real life also we talk about everything and wats going on in our lives!.... bad thing is.... my parents and his parents are friends also? WE ARE NEIGHBORS! and he likes to see me flinch
sometimes i think he likes me but then im just like NAH
Ever think of just asking?
Sara Bayona totally, just be a leader and take the initiative if u WANT to know.
if your hot then he probly likes u if not then most likely not
Yeah I would say just ask him. This girl that I liked and I both liked each other without really realizing it. Then one day she told me how she felt, and I did the same. The only problem is that my parents hate her, so there's not a lot I can do right now. So at least you guy's parents are friends. Just go for it! :)
2:00-2:07 hahaha!! Funny
Luis Bueno z
"Chris" is a good actor. Very natural.
At the end...I realized I watched the whole video with a smile. I guess you're just THAT awesome :)