"I Would Ghost You" | Married At First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 8 | Recap | Review

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @johannajay3176
    @johannajay3176 Месяц назад +106

    Really, if attraction is so important to a person, they should not go on a "blind" dating show.

    • @youreincredible1648
      @youreincredible1648 Месяц назад +1

      @@johannajay3176 espeacially the men, it breaks my heart just like in real life.

  • @felinetherapy4782
    @felinetherapy4782 Месяц назад +124

    I love the drama of MAFS, but this just seems excessive. Half of these 'couples' shouldn't be together. Need a mass walkout.

    • @dawnh8899
      @dawnh8899 Месяц назад +13

      Say it again for the couples on the couch. 😂

    • @andrewmcpherson6374
      @andrewmcpherson6374 Месяц назад +1

      There’s literally only 1 half decent couple which is sad

  • @fayr8807
    @fayr8807 Месяц назад +13

    The experts pissed me off so bad. They really try to bully these people into accepting someone they are not attracted to. If it’s not there it’s not there. Playing with the these folks feelings smh

  • @Mrs_Bonnee
    @Mrs_Bonnee Месяц назад +68

    Rochelle is working on my last nerve. She constantly contradicts herself. And when she mentioned the cameras, I was like girl, did you not know this is a tv show?

    • @rebelruth9582
      @rebelruth9582 Месяц назад

      On the 'break' her friends obviously said the longer you stay in the process the more famous you become. Influencer? That's what all the girls are aiming for. She was not at all genuine. He was like a nodding dog with her. Caspar looked positively suicidal

    • @STOPLISTENANDTHINK
      @STOPLISTENANDTHINK Месяц назад +3

      Just because you sign up for something doesn't mean once you're in it, you should stay in it! You have to experience things to figure out whether or not it's right for you

    • @mi33slick
      @mi33slick Месяц назад +1

      @@STOPLISTENANDTHINK then she should stay OUT! Since she’s experienced it and doesn’t like it!

    • @rebelruth9582
      @rebelruth9582 Месяц назад

      @@STOPLISTENANDTHINK How many series have there been? I would have thought everyone would have watched them.

  • @sherryw6193
    @sherryw6193 Месяц назад +66

    Why would Polly sleep with Adam after he told her best friend she wasn’t his type , he hardly made eye contact and didn’t complement her?
    Then at the commitment ceremony she has her arm around him, rubbing his shoulders as he is turned away from her. I really expected her to leave.

    • @JCsDaughter610
      @JCsDaughter610 Месяц назад +12

      The way his body language was like “get off me” he didn’t even touch her, like at all!

    • @midwifek
      @midwifek Месяц назад +6

      I was so confused with her all up on him during the commitment ceremony.

    • @youreincredible1648
      @youreincredible1648 Месяц назад +4

      Sometimes women want love too much, sometimes we need to learn when to walk away.

    • @AlwaysLisaLisa
      @AlwaysLisaLisa Месяц назад

      Thought she was going to turn his head??? I guess maybe sometimes it works that way? Guys usually don’t value what they haven’t even asked for. So

    • @xXxsTePhIe16xXx
      @xXxsTePhIe16xXx Месяц назад +1

      That was so cringe when ive seen that. She seems really clingy and needy but she is stunnninng!

  • @lNoWayAroundItl
    @lNoWayAroundItl Месяц назад +58

    2:24 I would be pi55ed if the "experts" put me with someone like Adam. 'You all just set me up to fail for fun, right?'. Because this duo is a mess.

  • @dawnh8899
    @dawnh8899 Месяц назад +55

    Real talk. Women can "become" attracted to someone after getting to know them through personality. Most men just can't or don't. There's always an exception to the rule, but......

    • @likefanta2049
      @likefanta2049 Месяц назад +8

      My nakw friend and I were literally talking about this. I said even if I wasn't initially attracted to a guy at first, his personality would make me fold. But he said if he wasn't attracted, he wouldn't even bother to get to know her/her personality wouldn't make a difference

    • @dawnh8899
      @dawnh8899 Месяц назад

      @@likefanta2049 THAT part!!!!!

    • @QurVgn
      @QurVgn Месяц назад +1

      This! And the attractions that have grown - for me - have been the most intense in the end.

    • @emhu2594
      @emhu2594 Месяц назад +4

      I dont rhink thats true. I think men can become attracted to women over time, but the odds are signidicantly lower if they rhink the woman is into them.

    • @Noname-rw9qz
      @Noname-rw9qz Месяц назад

      @@emhu2594 Exactly.

  • @soniyasmith3141
    @soniyasmith3141 Месяц назад +27

    Someone on twitter called Adam a Henry VIII lookalike 😂😂😂

    • @PurpleAlize
      @PurpleAlize Месяц назад +2

      I can't unsee it now 😂

    • @johannawigg6921
      @johannawigg6921 Месяц назад

      @@soniyasmith3141 I was thinking Fryer Tuck lol

  • @midwifek
    @midwifek Месяц назад +12

    Its giving Caspar intensely hates his sister. Like Geez 👀

  • @SashayAnn
    @SashayAnn Месяц назад +23

    A man expressing his emotions does not make him less or any man.most people see masculinity as a man being not emotional,not expressing his feelings,not crying,hard,

  • @deborahprosper751
    @deborahprosper751 Месяц назад +8

    I reckon Richelle came back because her friends told her to stop her foolishness. I can imagine her telling them that he likes her, wants to spend time with her etc. And they were like, but that's the whole point of getting to know someone/marriageright?! 🙄

  • @spice4life67
    @spice4life67 Месяц назад +3

    I screamed when casper said he wants to understand how the experiment got him on this chair with his wife

  • @Becoming_Els
    @Becoming_Els Месяц назад +27

    Rochelle is annoying. I’ll gladly take Orcin!

  • @carofantastic
    @carofantastic Месяц назад +9

    I want to know how eve receives feedback from others because anything Charlie says to eve to hold her accountable, even takes it as a personal attack like a deeply personal attack and now the relationship is on eve’s terms like has eve ever asked Charlie what she needs in the relationship?

    • @STOPLISTENANDTHINK
      @STOPLISTENANDTHINK Месяц назад

      Right!!!!!!! Finally the truth is being aired next week. Eve has been playing in people's faces making Charlie out to be some weird abusive person who doesn't listen to her. When in fact it's been the other way round the whole entire time. And I'm sooooo sick of it to the point she thanks Polly for calling her a bully as if she cannot speak for herself. As if. She proved she can with them. Of your that fragile you should be taken of the show. But she is there to s*ag Charlie and then leave her for days on end and then have the audacity to say ...this is me!!!!!

  • @dg5522
    @dg5522 Месяц назад +31

    Watching Queen E while devouring chips and guacamole. Life is grand!

  • @carofantastic
    @carofantastic Месяц назад +6

    The fact that these women stated that if he’s not attracted to me then I won’t force him to stay, I’ll just leave and then they wrote stay like girl there’s nothing wrong with giving up. Adam and that other man are so repulsed by their matches and you can tell

  • @cathy4697
    @cathy4697 Месяц назад +12

    This season is already exhausting. Drama is great but this is something else

  • @saffs001
    @saffs001 Месяц назад +32

    I felt a bit uncomfortable when Charley and Eve were on the couch and every time Charley tried to comfort Eve with a hand on the shoulder or something Eve would just pull away like get off me. awkward

    • @mollymcfarlane3339
      @mollymcfarlane3339 Месяц назад +23

      Yeah and every time Charlie would try to comfort she's be like "I need time" and shuffle away.
      I think the experts have poorly matched them. Their communication styles are so absolutely different plus eve is 100% avoidant and can't stand conflict you even say it with all the other couples at the dinner part. She kept trying to calm and stop any arguments.
      Experts did both of them dirty.

    • @saffs001
      @saffs001 Месяц назад

      @@mollymcfarlane3339agreed!

    • @midwifek
      @midwifek Месяц назад +2

      Its toxic af

    • @STOPLISTENANDTHINK
      @STOPLISTENANDTHINK Месяц назад +3

      Eve is a disgusting liar and I am soooo glad the wool will be pulled from everyone's eyes next episode!!!! What an absolute narc. The audacity. Charlie has bent over backwards. Why did eve even bother come on the show

  • @LoveAngel333
    @LoveAngel333 Месяц назад +26

    Alex is a lil immature but disrespectful baby that’s all you home girl they need to wrap it up she need therapy

    • @kbetc.
      @kbetc. Месяц назад +3

      Tbh. I get where Alex is coming from… and yes she does need therapy…

  • @LittleMissDeeDee
    @LittleMissDeeDee Месяц назад +24

    I thought Paul’s reasons for matching Casper and Emma was terrible. Literally said because they have similar attachement styles and nothing else. They’re not a good match and I think either of them should choose leave next commitment ceremony.
    As for Alex and Holly, they have absolutely abhorrent attitudes and they’re two peas in a pod.

    • @idaruth6293
      @idaruth6293 Месяц назад +1

      yes i actually thought when he listed them that it was a recipe for disaster , i really think they do it on purpose so there is a tv show, then they blame the candidate, like yeah two avoidant people together, perfect match

    • @youreincredible1648
      @youreincredible1648 Месяц назад

      They need nobody untill they have worked on themselfs, but they both seem upper class if that counts.

  • @tobeornottobeact3scene1
    @tobeornottobeact3scene1 Месяц назад +17

    When did not being physically attracted to someone, regardless of why, become not allowed, every couple here seems like they were paired by pulling names out of a hat. Queen E, please send them your resume. SMH

  • @Yllehs876
    @Yllehs876 Месяц назад +18

    Naturally all humans are attracted to what they see first! I don’t understand why write stay if you don’t want the person physically!!! All these couples are set up for fails expect for one couple! But it’s still early days!!!

  • @mmem4264
    @mmem4264 Месяц назад +13

    Your hair looks beautiful!

  • @krestal0
    @krestal0 Месяц назад +7

    The way he stood over her on the balcony when they were arguing gave me abusive vibes. Sorry im talking about Alex and Ms. Insecure

  • @LillyLove-st5sz
    @LillyLove-st5sz Месяц назад +30

    U have to find your partner attractive u have to 😂 so pointless staying maybe for 5 more minutes to get more insta followers 😅

  • @leopardprint0
    @leopardprint0 Месяц назад +16

    Why are they staying? Do they get paid the longer they are on the show?

    • @maester7778
      @maester7778 Месяц назад +6

      I think it's contractual and absolutely more money paid/week if you stay. This season is a mess.

  • @andrewmcpherson6374
    @andrewmcpherson6374 Месяц назад +3

    The problem with MAFS is they dnt like to factor the importance of physical attraction… they’ll tell men ohh jus overlook the physical and focus on other qualities but if u look at the couples tht are doing okay they’re tht way because their physically attracted to their partners.

  • @terrijones693
    @terrijones693 Месяц назад +12

    I've never watched this show before; this is a mess!!! Like LIB on steroids. Yowza! Can the experts dismiss a couple? I don't understand why half these couples chose to stay. Like for what? More stress, anxiety and someone telling you they're not attracted to you. Yeah, no.

  • @johannajay3176
    @johannajay3176 Месяц назад +7

    For Adam, I wonder if he would have found Emma attractive if she didn't remind him of his sister. He clearly has major issues with his sister (they celebrated "her" bday) and the way he jumped down her throat when she spoke to him.

    • @MGold00
      @MGold00 Месяц назад +4

      Casper not Adam.

    • @andrewmcpherson6374
      @andrewmcpherson6374 Месяц назад +2

      I think the same he definitely has some grudges against his twin sister so getting a wife tht resembles her an also him not being attracted doesn’t help

  • @vuyelwancube9538
    @vuyelwancube9538 Месяц назад +18

    Rachel was brought back by the producers against her will because WHY?

    • @carofantastic
      @carofantastic Месяц назад +16

      Lmao she didn’t wanna pay the fine 😂

    • @amazingperson326
      @amazingperson326 Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂​@@carofantastic

  • @AmaniStudio
    @AmaniStudio Месяц назад +5

    I understand abstaining to be tied to waiting for marriage, while celibacy could be seasonal or a term of years, some other defined endpoint that is not marraige

  • @MarcyS-b2m
    @MarcyS-b2m Месяц назад +9

    Caspar seems horrible however, I'm really intrigued by his wife saying "I'm not an ogre" as if to say that she can't fathom why a human being is not attracted to her, very strange. Maybe she finds things attractive in everyone and expects others to be the same??

  • @annak2756
    @annak2756 Месяц назад +12

    I'm perplexed at the fact that no one seems to understand how attraction works.
    Look, I'm not a fan of Adam or Caspar but it's clear as day that they're physically NOT attracted to their match and that's ok. It doesn't make them a monster. It's like asking someone to try a fruit they've never eaten before and they say they don't like it but you're just going to gaslight them with "WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?? THIS FRUIT IS AMAZING!! YOU SHOULD LIKE IT!" 🙄 I think the "experts" and fans of MAFS alike have gone over the deep end in thinking that every match made on MAFS have to work out. News flash, that's not how it works in real life.
    With the exception of Kieran/Kristina and the other couple (deaf guy-I forgot his name 🙈), all the rest of the couples need to get off the show and build their Insta following the organic way like all the other influencers.

  • @llawrence5029
    @llawrence5029 Месяц назад +18

    I know Adam is a bit of a d head, but I felt like the experts were almost gaslighting him re Polly. The man has made it clear that he doesn't find her physically attractive and they are like well there is something wrong with you cos she's gorgeous and perfect for you just keep going.
    And Polly's self esteem is non existent this man said he feels sorry for you!!! And she is there with her arm around him stroking his shoulder and you could see this man was thinking get your hands off me! It was hard to watch!

  • @marie-j6677
    @marie-j6677 Месяц назад +10

    Queen E, your hair looks good, I love it on ya.
    Why is the video short!?😣

    • @TheQueenE
      @TheQueenE  Месяц назад +3

      There wasn’t much to talk about 😅

  • @JoCissDanTheVet
    @JoCissDanTheVet Месяц назад +3

    Loving the hair! 😻

  • @xXxsTePhIe16xXx
    @xXxsTePhIe16xXx Месяц назад +2

    Rochelle is a piece of work but I kind of see her point - her partner mostly talked about himself (from what the audience has seen) and barely asked her any questions but he already developed feelings for her? May be the reason why she sees him as a “fraud”

  • @rebeccabennett1535
    @rebeccabennett1535 Месяц назад +1

    Adam wrote, "Stay!" Because they get on so well. No sense

  • @MGold00
    @MGold00 Месяц назад +13

    To be honest Alex is dodgy. His facial expressions & the movement of his eye during the whole episode. There is something about dark abt him.

    • @likefanta2049
      @likefanta2049 Месяц назад +1

      😂😂 wtf he's just an expressive person. Is he supposed to sit there like a stone?

    • @kelissamack8954
      @kelissamack8954 Месяц назад

      His energy is extremely dark.. and there are also some concerning allegations about him in the media

  • @Sk88p
    @Sk88p Месяц назад +1

    I think the point about "your missing out" has more to do with what does the other add to your life in the long run. This is an arranged marriage, so the relationship should be looked with a different eye. And they had no succes finding a long term partner on their own, which is why they are here.
    In the case of Adam and Polly there is nothing wrong with Polly. I love learning about cultures, so you see this back in allot of Pakistani drama's. I could recommend a few to watch on RUclips with English subtitles if your interested. 2 that come to mind real fast are: Koi Chand Rakh and Qalandar. Both have an average of between 40 and 50 episodes.

  • @shananagar1601
    @shananagar1601 Месяц назад +9

    Why did Casper give the impression he wanted Bridget Jones if the only part he like about Bridget is her quiet low self esteem? Cause it seems to me, confident and outgoing women give him the ick.

  • @goitcore
    @goitcore Месяц назад +4

    Look at your Barnet! Georgiana!!

  • @legasy825
    @legasy825 Месяц назад +5

    oohhhh. Nice hairstyle

  • @MyButterfly60
    @MyButterfly60 Месяц назад +7

    Alex is a typical mama’s boy!

  • @mollymcfarlane3339
    @mollymcfarlane3339 Месяц назад +3

    Queen e looking too cute ❤❤

  • @rebelruth9582
    @rebelruth9582 Месяц назад +1

    He was treating it as a joke right from the start. He was like a sulky kid. Then again, blokes don't like girls who cry all the time.

  • @goitcore
    @goitcore Месяц назад +6

    😂🤣😂 Queen E shrooms stream when!?

  • @Soulterics
    @Soulterics Месяц назад +2

    Most people need therapy not marriage 😂

  • @MissOnelove28
    @MissOnelove28 Месяц назад

    Love your vibes ❤

  • @irishlass83
    @irishlass83 Месяц назад +5

    Love your commentary as usual. I do think the two couples who attraction is a problem should end it but I do feel this process could help Caspar and Adam the most if they let it. I think they need to learn how to develop more meaningful relationships not just based on looks. If they left now they would learn nothing.

  • @kazeenapproach2986
    @kazeenapproach2986 Месяц назад

    The experts got it wrong, Alex and Richelle should be put together. They both have the attitude.

  • @paulaalleyne6886
    @paulaalleyne6886 23 дня назад

    Why are you surprised that Sacha doesn't make sense when all she does is cuss and but into other people's business.

  • @JoyAdebambo
    @JoyAdebambo 20 дней назад

    yoo the gaslighting Alex experienced on that show is maddening.. dare I say it.. ngl it feels rascist. Because how is this black man being called childish and name-called by which he simply responds with ' I would have ghosted YOU' but then he gets called immature. I seen this man be approched agressively by Holly and her whyte women sqaud where her tells them he's doesn't like their attitude and Holly responds with ' don't act defensive' ??? bruh I feel like she's trying it with Alex because he couldn't with Adam. Polly will berate and have an attitude as though they are tools to resolve their issues ( which she made up in her head) and then gets angry when Alex is rightfully triggered by her behaviour. Not once I heard this man call her anything other than her name.

  • @misscavana08
    @misscavana08 Месяц назад

    As a canadian, where can I watch this show?

    • @sherryw6193
      @sherryw6193 Месяц назад +4

      I’ve been watching it on RUclips

  • @DJ-wl9iw
    @DJ-wl9iw Месяц назад

    Where can we see this show

  • @QurVgn
    @QurVgn Месяц назад

    You look so cute today! 💕

  • @unique.diamond5955
    @unique.diamond5955 Месяц назад +1

    Where are you watching this because I can’t find it!! Lol

  • @kay3262
    @kay3262 Месяц назад +3

    Queen I love your reviews they are so on point. And I see you with the old school roller set that was me all of 2022.
    Not going to lie but Adam is right..... he is not interested made it known severally and Polly is still there and busy leaning all over him and holding his hand wanting to continue so of course he will continue to feel he's better than her 🤷🏾‍♀️
    More women are open to personalities before looks men not so much. Even in a job market let's be honest your looks get you in any door before your personality and qualifications.
    Caspar isn't interested that's fine, she's too much like his sister and Bridget Jones is just still there being annoyed shouting "he doesn't find me sexy" why stay what are you guys going to figure out in a week? Bridget Jones is a nice lady but she's also a serial dater which is a red flag as well she's not the epitome of emotion available. You can force attraction yes Caspar has his own issues but let's me honest we've seen this scenario over and over again. We don't even see these two talk about anything or get to know each other, maybe they'll be able to talk about something other than the lack of attraction in the coming week.
    Charlie and Eve. Charlie insists on dealing with issues then and there while Eve shuts down quickly and wants to walk away. I personally feel Eve got away with not being accountable during the commitment ceremony, she definitely has some toxic behaviours sleeping with someone then shutting down and disappearing.
    Richelle and Orson I find that Richelle projects her feelings on Orson. Babe you have also been hurt and you're also insecure. Men don't get over cheating, for most men that's the line, women say they get over cheating but don't let be forgotten which is probably worse. I'm sure after the commitment ceremony Richelle realised that the girlies are going through it with their husbands and Orson isn't that bad.
    Alex and Holly I don't think Alex is wrong Holly is a classic with the white woman tears. She's annoyed when he doesn't communicate, she's annoyed when he responds it's ridiculous. Holly is a woman who has never grown up she's still a teenager who has made being a mother her whole life and personality. Leave your kids/being a mother out of every statement.

  • @Nanatalks
    @Nanatalks Месяц назад +1

    In my opinion, Alex's partner is lowkey gaslighting him then when he reacts, she cries

    • @STOPLISTENANDTHINK
      @STOPLISTENANDTHINK Месяц назад

      You mean Alex is gaslighting Charlie!? Yes Alex is gaslighting and doing other forms of abuse apart from slapping her about

    • @diamcole
      @diamcole Месяц назад +2

      @@STOPLISTENANDTHINK No, I think they're talking about her projection of past trauma on to him. Not a fan of the idea that you have to be perfectly healed before engaging in relationships, we're all works in progress, but she definitely should have sat this opportunity out. She's been hurt and understandably insecure, but it's not Alex's job to "fix" her.

    • @STOPLISTENANDTHINK
      @STOPLISTENANDTHINK Месяц назад +1

      @@diamcole sorry I meant Eva (and Charlie) I keep getting the names mixed up!

    • @STOPLISTENANDTHINK
      @STOPLISTENANDTHINK Месяц назад +2

      @@diamcole Your so right. Exactly what I said, when she said he can "fix her"
      No one can fix anyone, it's our own job to do and then hopefully being in a healthy relationship builds you up in different ways after the fact

    • @diamcole
      @diamcole Месяц назад +1

      @@STOPLISTENANDTHINK Oops, my bad then haha! I kept getting them mixed up too 🤣

  • @Vanu-i4o
    @Vanu-i4o Месяц назад +1

    This is why I do not get why women get automatic custody of the kids. She's not only really selfish going on this show, but she's potentially exposing her kids to this "man" and if I were the father I'd be using this as evidence to get my kids back to bring them up properly. Otherwise they're going to end up like her and tbh I think she's probably more toxic for them than he is lol.

  • @aka_ren
    @aka_ren Месяц назад

    🩷

  • @Dunno-h8r
    @Dunno-h8r Месяц назад

    They gave these guys all mid women, who think of themselves as 10’s, poor guys 😂 😂

  • @nyandaejackson5781
    @nyandaejackson5781 Месяц назад

    Love your hair sis