کی parenting ہماری سب سے بڑی “ ” ذمہ داری یہ ہے کہ ہم اپنے وجود کی آلودگی سے اپنے بچوں کو بچانے کی کوشش کریں۔ Solutions courtesy @Hassan Siddiqi comment- : 1- Improve relationship with your own brother/sisters and do not provide justifications if you have bad relationships. 2- Dont do comparison among your children .. which means to appreciate them of their individual strengths 3- Ignore the disagrements and fights b/w siblings and let them resolve unless it seems to get nasty and a big one
ماشاءاللہ ۔لگتا ہے کہ آپ کی صورت میں اللہ تعالی نے مجھے ایک اور بھائی عطا فرما دیا ہے اللہ تعالی سے دعا ہے کہ آپ کی اپنی زندگی میں پاکستان میں مثبت تبدیلی دیکھنے کی سعادت بھی نصیب فرمائے امین ثمہ آمین
It is very important to make others nd our self understand the role they/we have.. every 1 wants to take advantage of their role instead of thiking about others right. This is very important in my point of view that older is older and younger is younger. Being older doesn't mean that s/he has to sacrefie their self for young siblings..instead it should be turn taking. When it comes to caring both should b explained the importance of each others role in each others life. May Allah make out lives easy up on us, by being a good muslim role model to all around us nd may He make our children pious. Ameen.
MashaAllah sir, I've been trying to select someone as a mentor for myself to learn from his exposures, and then share that with my beloved one. Alhamdulellah I find that in shapb of you sir. Thanks for giving this sort of incredible and unimaginable wisedom. May live long sir.
بہت ہی اہم لیکچر تھا۔ بنگلہ دیش سے آپ کو بہت بہت شکریہ۔ ایک بات بولنا چاہتا ہوں، یہ comparison کرنا ہمارے لئے اتنا فطرتی ہو چکے ہیں کہ دل میں یہ خوف پیدا ہوتا ہے کے بچوں کے بیچ میں کمپریزن نہ کیا ممکن ہو سکتا ہے ہمارے لئے؟
Allah salamat rakhy sir aap ko Kis qadar gehrai sy aaap ny bachon k ehsasat ko mehsoos kr rakha hy jo usually hum parents b mehsoos nahin kr paty. Allah aap j sy rehnumaon ka saya salamat rakhy or hamen aap sy youn hi tarbiyat yafta honey ka sharf hasil hota rahy.
Kaash yeh Parenting advices/ Lessons pehle bhee available hoate... :( Anyways Sir your lessons are soooo Good! Hope tv channels would give u Air time to present these Lessons on Tv also
Bohat acha sabq hain ham jese walden ke lie ham bi ese karte hain ghar main bachoon ke sath main jab video dekh ri thi mera dil tarp rha tha ke ham kitna ghalt kar re the main ne to apne Kontakte main sab ko ye video beji
مقابلہ موازنہ خفی اور موازنہ جلی comparison hidden or apparent جیسے حکمت اور سمجھ آجاتی ہے ذہنی پختگی سے آجاتی ہے بچوں کو ایک دوسرے سے نقصان پہچانے سے روکیں مگر 90٪٪٪ وقت معمولی نوک جھونک کو مکمل نظر انداز کریں The capacity to endure is maturity چھوٹے بچے کو بڑے بچے کے سامنے زیادہ پیار مت کریں بلکہ والد بڑے بچے کو خاص وقت اہمیت اور valued feel آپ تو بڑے ہیں ) یہ کملہ مت استعمال کریں بلکہ ان کی نظر سے دیکھیں
Zabardust speech sir hum as kartay hain we did lot of time copare in study thats wring recently my husband did that he did not allaow my daughter to study medical compare others ke girls always get marridge kia karro gi and he selext her conerce now sge have tuff time because she did not like that subject but ihelo her and cobvence that when father hapoy GOD happy to u
Lecture key note "hurt people hurt people". 😊. Thanks sir for info. And this Ap to baray ho this is spot on.Aksar families may aur highly educated families may b danista ya gayir danista yay he hota ha.
Thank you so much sir ap ne muje ak bohat badri tention se nikal deya mere 2bacahy bety hain bohat ladrai karty hain muje lagta hai k ma fail ho unko samjanay ma lakin fact is k unko hud apna set karnay ka timr ma ne dyti wo jin k leye ladrai koi masla he ne usko mane apnay sar ka dard bana leya hai now i am feeling better.thank you
Solution already in the talk in my opinion- what i understood is: 1- Improve relationship with your own brother/sisters and do not provide justifications if you have bad relationships. 2- Dont do comparison among your children .. which means to appreciate them of their individual strengths 3- Ignore the disagrements and fights b/w siblings and let them resolve unless it seems to get nasty and a big one.
@@ERDCPKکسی بچے کو بچپن میں مارا اور بہت ڈانٹا گیا ھو... وہ پڑھنے میں اچھا ھو مگر اسکی سوشل لایف زیرو ھو.. دوست احباب برائے نام ھوں تو 23 سال کی عمر میں ھونے کے باوجود اچھی یونیورسٹی سے پڑھنے کے باوجود اس کے بچپن کے ٹراما کو کیسے ختم کریں.. اس پہ ویڈیو بنائیں اسے اپنے والدین سے شکایت ھو کہ وہ اسکے بچپن میں اسے ٹائم نہیں دے سکے... اور وہ شدید تنہائی کا شکار ہو...
Welldone sadiqi sahb...ap amazing ho.. salute and regards...plz 2 requests hn..,1 plz single parnts k massil or onka hal btaen..2 ye k kia ap trainers courses karwaty hn? Plz btaen
Exactly true that is what i ask my husband not to tell his son that u r older..bcz i used to hate the same in my childhood n would use to hate my loving sister all childhood..
Assalamualaikum Great 👍 Sir plz bataye ager 20 years ka ladka parents aur ghar walon se hamesha jhagadta ho Khud padhai nhi kiya aur apne bade bhai behen ko taraqqi kerte dekh kr khud Galat rah pe chal pade usko kaise handle kren
Salam.but i have a question about subtle comparison that dont u think its neccessory as well just to get an idea at what stage our kids are standing and to prepare them to compete the world n make them up to date..m i ryt?
اللہ تعالیٰ اس دنیا میں منزل ڈھونڈنے والے ہر انسان کے سر پر آ پ کا سایہ سلامت رکھے۔
کی parenting ہماری سب سے بڑی “
” ذمہ داری یہ ہے کہ ہم اپنے وجود کی آلودگی سے اپنے بچوں کو بچانے کی کوشش کریں۔
Solutions courtesy @Hassan Siddiqi comment- :
1- Improve relationship with your own brother/sisters and do not provide justifications if you have bad relationships.
2- Dont do comparison among your children .. which means to appreciate them of their individual strengths
3- Ignore the disagrements and fights b/w siblings and let them resolve unless it seems to get nasty and a big one
Right and thanksssssss
If we dont compare then what should we do u didn't tell
@@rabiashah1963 Every child is unique. Focus and be happy with what he/she is doing already and give them confidence on their existing strengths.
ERDC “aap toh bade hain na “ is line ka substitute line batayen. Kya keh Kar ham bade bache ko samjhaye
Jazak Allahu khaira ki aapne likh kr share kiye Allah aapko aur tarakki de
"Hurt people hurt people"
Wow Amazing philosophy but 100% True
کمال باتیں سلوٹ سر اللہ سبحان تعالیٰ آپ کی زندگی میں برکت عطاء فرمائے
Khushkismt hn wo jinky parents apky jesy hon MashaAllah
ماشاءاللہ ۔لگتا ہے کہ آپ کی صورت میں اللہ تعالی نے مجھے ایک اور بھائی عطا فرما دیا ہے اللہ تعالی سے دعا ہے کہ آپ کی اپنی زندگی میں پاکستان میں مثبت تبدیلی دیکھنے کی سعادت بھی نصیب فرمائے امین ثمہ آمین
ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب اللہ تعالٰی آپکو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے
It is very important to make others nd our self understand the role they/we have.. every 1 wants to take advantage of their role instead of thiking about others right.
This is very important in my point of view that older is older and younger is younger. Being older doesn't mean that s/he has to sacrefie their self for young siblings..instead it should be turn taking. When it comes to caring both should b explained the importance of each others role in each others life.
May Allah make out lives easy up on us, by being a good muslim role model to all around us nd may He make our children pious. Ameen.
MashaAllah sir, I've been trying to select someone as a mentor for myself to learn from his exposures, and then share that with my beloved one. Alhamdulellah I find that in shapb of you sir. Thanks for giving this sort of incredible and unimaginable wisedom. May live long sir.
Excellent. Kindly share this lecture completely...I'll be grateful
بہت ہی اہم لیکچر تھا۔ بنگلہ دیش سے آپ کو بہت بہت شکریہ۔
ایک بات بولنا چاہتا ہوں، یہ comparison کرنا ہمارے لئے اتنا فطرتی ہو چکے ہیں کہ دل میں یہ خوف پیدا ہوتا ہے کے بچوں کے بیچ میں کمپریزن نہ کیا ممکن ہو سکتا ہے ہمارے لئے؟
ALLAH ham parents ko hiddayat day.... Achi tarbiat ki taufeeq day.
Ma sha ALLAH sir i really like your videos.
Bht alaa....allah apki zindagi m brkat dy ameen.
Really great lessons for mothers. N I like ur Comprehensive style. Jazak Allah.
..nd for fathers... Alhumdulillah
Allah salamat rakhy sir aap ko
Kis qadar gehrai sy aaap ny bachon k ehsasat ko mehsoos kr rakha hy jo usually hum parents b mehsoos nahin kr paty. Allah aap j sy rehnumaon ka saya salamat rakhy or hamen aap sy youn hi tarbiyat yafta honey ka sharf hasil hota rahy.
very helpful for parents who were orphans in their childhood
Kaash yeh Parenting advices/ Lessons pehle bhee available hoate... :( Anyways Sir your lessons are soooo Good! Hope tv channels would give u Air time to present these Lessons on Tv also
I'm a single parent... brother u say 💯 right everything
Loved people, love people!
Great efforts to society improvement may Allah pak shower his blessings on u and your team jazakalllah khair
کمال ہے سر۔ اللہ تعالی آپ کو رحمت و برکات سے نوازیں
Thank you sir thank u sooooo much may ALLAH PAK guides us much more
You are absolutely awesome sir. Great explanations
Great job sir , Jazaak Allah
JazakAllah khair...
Jazak'Allah sir .. loved your lecture, learned a lot.. so thankful to you !!
May Allah SWT bless you with all the success and health
Thanks a lot. You are welcome to our channel ruclips.net/user/ERDCpk
Bohat acha sabq hain ham jese walden ke lie ham bi ese karte hain ghar main bachoon ke sath main jab video dekh ri thi mera dil tarp rha tha ke ham kitna ghalt kar re the main ne to apne Kontakte main sab ko ye video beji
Mera ek beta as m parobam AP ka mobile no as number p msg 03003585797
Just AMAZING! MashaAllah.
very useful and informative lecture. JazakAllah
Jazak Allah Khair sir
Buhat khoob Allah kary ap ki baat samjh mai ajye insani khaal mai bahriyon k janwar hain yahan sab
Sir you are absolutely right.
Wah wah sir Kamal KR DEA very intelligent man
Jazakallahu khairn kasiran kasira v nice lecture
Boht khoon hats off to you sir. Reality turns into solutions 😊😊😊
مقابلہ موازنہ خفی اور موازنہ جلی comparison hidden or apparent
جیسے حکمت اور سمجھ آجاتی ہے ذہنی پختگی سے آجاتی ہے بچوں کو ایک دوسرے سے نقصان پہچانے سے روکیں مگر 90٪٪٪ وقت معمولی نوک جھونک کو مکمل نظر انداز کریں
The capacity to endure is maturity
چھوٹے بچے کو بڑے بچے کے سامنے زیادہ پیار مت کریں
بلکہ والد بڑے بچے کو خاص وقت اہمیت اور valued feel
آپ تو بڑے ہیں ) یہ کملہ مت استعمال کریں بلکہ ان کی نظر سے دیکھیں
Zabardust speech sir hum as kartay hain we did lot of time copare in study thats wring recently my husband did that he did not allaow my daughter to study medical compare others ke girls always get marridge kia karro gi and he selext her conerce now sge have tuff time because she did not like that subject but ihelo her and cobvence that when father hapoy GOD happy to u
Thank u sir or zaberdast baat aj batai k "ap tu baray hu" ye tu may akser bary bety ko kehti hun
Kya khub kha ap ny Zbardast
Ap to bary hy na 🤩🤩🤩bilkul theek kaha ap ny👍👍👍
Golden words.
Bot c parshni Meri ktm hoi asy lgta tha pagl ho jaon gi..thnx Bai
جزاک اللہ خیرا
Lecture key note "hurt people hurt people". 😊. Thanks sir for info. And this Ap to baray ho this is spot on.Aksar families may aur highly educated families may b danista ya gayir danista yay he hota ha.
Sir you are true inspiration
Very informative video for parents
Thnks for sharing sir
Keep in touch.
Jazakallah khair sir
I want to ask that it's not possible in joint family system
How to encourage our kids give me solution plz sir
Yes right .in joint family system sometimes other people teaches wrong values to children .
Jazakallah khair 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Hakim in the morning to you soon and have a good time and consideration and look
Very nice and informative
Good topic Sr g aj Kal hr gr m yehi ho raha h thnxxx sir g jazakAllah
So nice sir
Thank you so much salman sir
Beautiful talk
Sir app buhat acha samjhaty hai.thanks very nice
JazakAllah very nice
Well said,I learn alot, JazakAllah
Hurted people,Hurts people..
Thank you so much sir ap ne muje ak bohat badri tention se nikal deya mere 2bacahy bety hain bohat ladrai karty hain muje lagta hai k ma fail ho unko samjanay ma lakin fact is k unko hud apna set karnay ka timr ma ne dyti wo jin k leye ladrai koi masla he ne usko mane apnay sar ka dard bana leya hai now i am feeling better.thank you
Understanding of the problem is half of the solution. Glad this video helped.
plz tell me kay jub bari bachi choti bachi say zid kare exmple toys ,mobile tu bare bachay ko kysay samjae
Great but give us solutions of these issues.thanks
Solution already in the talk in my opinion- what i understood is:
1- Improve relationship with your own brother/sisters and do not provide justifications if you have bad relationships.
2- Dont do comparison among your children .. which means to appreciate them of their individual strengths
3- Ignore the disagrements and fights b/w siblings and let them resolve unless it seems to get nasty and a big one.
@@hassansiddiqi3050 Thanks for summing that up. Will include that in the pinned comment.
Sir you are a great person. I like ur all videos about parenting
OUT STANDING SIR
Mashallah behad khoob sir 💚💚💚❤❤❤❤
Very informative.
Thanks you so much sir
Awesome sir u r doing great job great respect for u
Thanks for the appreciation. Do watch more & also share with family & friends.
@@ERDCPKکسی بچے کو بچپن میں مارا اور بہت ڈانٹا گیا ھو... وہ پڑھنے میں اچھا ھو مگر اسکی سوشل لایف زیرو ھو.. دوست احباب برائے نام ھوں تو 23 سال کی عمر میں ھونے کے باوجود اچھی یونیورسٹی سے پڑھنے کے باوجود اس کے بچپن کے ٹراما کو کیسے ختم کریں.. اس پہ ویڈیو بنائیں اسے اپنے والدین سے شکایت ھو کہ وہ اسکے بچپن میں اسے ٹائم نہیں دے سکے... اور وہ شدید تنہائی کا شکار ہو...
So motivational Mashallah
You arre great sir
Two lovers who are not intellectually mature .... they always fight
as the get mature .... they fight less and less
V nice
Great sir
jazakAllah
Very nice sir .you are great
Welldone sadiqi sahb...ap amazing ho.. salute and regards...plz 2 requests hn..,1 plz single parnts k massil or onka hal btaen..2 ye k kia ap trainers courses karwaty hn? Plz btaen
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Great mentor sir u r gem
Nyc sir g papers ki waja sy busy thaa ab aapki har video regular aaajao ga
Allah Almighty bless you sir
Weldon 👍spokesperson
Nice sir
Exactly ........
Masha allah..awesome
My mum is an educated lady but still she gives prefrence to sons grandchild
Excellent sir
Best sir
Zbrdast sir so nice 👍
Exactly true that is what i ask my husband not to tell his son that u r older..bcz i used to hate the same in my childhood n would use to hate my loving sister all childhood..
👍 useful info
Very well sir
Love from Canada
Bohot khoob
Good
I love it thanks again
God bless you
Amazing and very informative video ....
Assalamualaikum
Great 👍
Sir plz bataye ager 20 years ka ladka parents aur ghar walon se hamesha jhagadta ho Khud padhai nhi kiya aur apne bade bhai behen ko taraqqi kerte dekh kr khud
Galat rah pe chal pade usko kaise handle kren
Nice
Allah hmare bachcho pr raham kre ....
Sir what about comparing
Salam.but i have a question about subtle comparison that dont u think its neccessory as well just to get an idea at what stage our kids are standing and to prepare them to compete the world n make them up to date..m i ryt?
aap tu baray hi !!waqi ye tu zindagi bhar sunna hota hi