For the cut line when driving, we don't hon because next time we also will do the same thing. We are doing the same thing, so won't hon others🤣 Yes! Even we Malaysian also will ask others for example where do you live ,how many members in your family, how much for your car, your salary and etc~
I think most of the points like honking, time and such shown the higher level of tolerance by Malaysian. We can accept some setbacks because we try to put ourselves in that position so it can happen. The difference is only how much one can take to be able to tolerate. For example, we don't really expect perfection but also we won't accept ignorance, such as in honking, not very often you hear them but sometimes you do - and that's when something unacceptable happened to them.
연봉이랑 집값 물어보는 건 무례한 거 맞는데 무례하다는 개념이 부족한가 봅니다. 연봉을 물어보는 건 상대의 직업 레벨을 물어보는 거죠. 상대의 직업 레벨이 무엇이든 상관 없다면 궁금하지 않을 겁니다. 하지만 매번 물어본다는 것은 상당히 신경 쓰고 있다는 거고요. 상대방의 수준을 초반부터 확실히 파악하겠다는 의지가 보이네요.그리고 그것이 무례하다는 것에 대한 개념이 부족한 거고요....
Question on property ownership or rental are usually from people trying to know rental rate or purchase price at where you are staying. They usually wanted to know for property investment and market rate. My parents would ask the same questions to people they came across (whether they are renting or just bought the property) when they visit their property for rental collection / admin matters. 😅😆😆 The street fighting would be usually near those pubs or nightclubs but rather rare (they would control as it is bad of business). I have seen street fight between students (from secondary school) as I used to stayed near the school. Neighbours would report police and to the school. Police would visit the school and patrolling the area the next day. If there is any argument between neighbours, all recorded on CCTV (increasing trend to install CCTV for business owners or family house) and would make police report straightaway if there is any threat being made / received.
해외에 살면 한국인이 까다롭고 더 나아가 화(?)가 많은 민족이라는거 백퍼 공감합니다. ^^ 미국에서 살 때 사람들이 까다롭다고 느꼈지만 논리가 분명한 편이고.... 반면에 한국인은 조금 더 감정적이고 흥분을 잘 하는것 같아요. 재미있게 보고 있습니다. 유익한 문화 차이 소개 감사해요.
Most of the time we ask questions just to strike a conversation not that we really care or want to know about it.. That way we may have something to talk about.. Maybe we dont have similarities but we have similarities with your wife.. Then we can start talking about that. we also strike conversation to just be polite.. last maybe to make sure you are real person.. If you are ghost or someone who have bad intention (kidnaper/robber) you will not welcome people talking to you right.. Thinking they will easily identify you.. Haha
Interesting comparison, love to contents. 😁👍 For Malaysian, I think personal question is only financial related subject but also depends on the individual. Other time some Malaysian are just too "busy body" or overly curious only😂
Nice video. Nice topic, Just some info that may be useful. Most Malaysian will try to help. We will try speak English to foreigner to accommodate/help you even if you try to speak Malay with us. Our brain have an automatic switch to turn to English when talk to foreigner. We most of the time "accept" the imperfection because we know we will also make mistakes sometimes. It is normal to ask some personal info. As long as not revealing your "very personal" information such as home address, Passport number, etc. (things that can make you vulnerable) Most of the time you can just answer it vaguely. OTW. Yeah, sometimes it feel annoying. But, it is just how it is. When you make an appointment for some services, try to squeeze the time. Just give them whatever reason. 12noon to 3pm is tooo damn long. You don't want to waste your weekend waiting for them. If in a Mall, I think it is better to look at the Directory Panel/Screen for direction. Some people are not familiar with the place just like you. I guess that is it for now. Bye
The thing about malaysians is we treat each other as if we know each other even if we don't 😅 hence why we call everyone auntie/uncle or sis/bro even when we meet for the first time. It's normal to strike a conversation with strangers here like randomly asking where did u buy your purse or what's the shade of your lipstick or how many kids u have (amongst females) while males be talking about things like properties, business etc. It's how we make friends and expand our knowledge in some way? To some it might seem over friendly and intrusive but the truth is we're used to this way and sometimes we ask random questions not because we really want to know about other people's personal life, it's just us picking random topic to strike a conversation and being friendly. 😅
잘 모르면서 대답해주는 문화는 인도에서 온 문화인거 같네요. 인도 애들도 모른단말을 잘안함. 알면 아는데로 잘 알려주는데 모르면 걍 지 멋대로 알려줌. 인도에서 이거때메 진짜 겁나 싸운적도 있는데 얘들 문화더라구요. 아무래도 말레이가 인도에서 온 문화들도 많으니까요. 그리고 on the way는 동남아 전역에서 그러합니다.
hahahaha.. Profile information is quite normal.. it is b'cos we wanna get closer to you as a friend .. getting to know some information of you will tend to let us know which topic we can talk. If you keep quiet then we will know it is time for us to stop and end conversation. For question 6, sometimes we tag our friend along so that we able to introduce more friends to you. Especially if you are foreigners, we tend to get more friends to be your friend so that you don't feel lonely.. or if you needs help, there are friends everywhere that able to help you out. And sometimes, we worry.. we might end up "no topic" to talk about.. so we will bring more friends so that able to have more conversation... hahahahahahahhahaha .. but we usually respect ppl's decision by asking permission whether we can bring friends along..
아ㅋㅋㅋㅋ ㅠㅠ 너무 재밌어요! 찐 말레이시아 생활을 했을때만 느낄 수 있는 문화차이들인 것 같아요~~ 저도 말레이시아 친구들이 한국 놀러왔을때 제 월급을 물어보더라고요. 대답해줬더니 다들 링깃으로 환산하기 위해 변환기 창을 켰다는..ㅋㅋㅋ 정말 공감되고 잘 봤습니당~!❤️❤️
Yes Begaemi, what you said are true . Malaysians are friendly and we will greet and talk to strangers or people that we’ve only met for the first time. We are curious about foreigners so we ask those profile questions about your jobs and place of residence. We don’t think it’s rude, though 😆. Now,on the other hand, we will not ask about age especially to strangers or people we just met coz this will be deemed too personal for us. 😅
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ㅋㅋㅋ 넘 잼있어요 ㅋㅋ 친구데려오는것도 그렇고 ㅋ 이주 고민중인데 더 가고 싶네요 ㅎㅎ 다음에도 에피소드 있으면 들려주세요 😀
한국도 80년대까지는 코리안타임이라고 매번 약속시간 제대로 지켜지지않는때가 있었습니다
아들이 취업해서 가는바람에
말레이시아에 대해 관심을 갖게 되었어요
말레이시아에 알 수 있는 시간이었네요
감사합니다
For the cut line when driving, we don't hon because next time we also will do the same thing. We are doing the same thing, so won't hon others🤣
Yes! Even we Malaysian also will ask others for example where do you live ,how many members in your family, how much for your car, your salary and etc~
U said it .. haha.. about the honk,but not all the times
10:56 방금 말레이시아 친구한테 너월급얼마냐는 질문을 받았었어요ㅋㅋㅋㅋ진짜 신기하네요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
I think most of the points like honking, time and such shown the higher level of tolerance by Malaysian. We can accept some setbacks because we try to put ourselves in that position so it can happen. The difference is only how much one can take to be able to tolerate. For example, we don't really expect perfection but also we won't accept ignorance, such as in honking, not very often you hear them but sometimes you do - and that's when something unacceptable happened to them.
연봉이랑 집값 물어보는 건 무례한 거 맞는데 무례하다는 개념이 부족한가 봅니다. 연봉을 물어보는 건 상대의 직업 레벨을 물어보는 거죠. 상대의 직업 레벨이 무엇이든 상관 없다면 궁금하지 않을 겁니다. 하지만 매번 물어본다는 것은 상당히 신경 쓰고 있다는 거고요. 상대방의 수준을 초반부터 확실히 파악하겠다는 의지가 보이네요.그리고 그것이 무례하다는 것에 대한 개념이 부족한 거고요....
Question on property ownership or rental are usually from people trying to know rental rate or purchase price at where you are staying. They usually wanted to know for property investment and market rate. My parents would ask the same questions to people they came across (whether they are renting or just bought the property) when they visit their property for rental collection / admin matters. 😅😆😆
The street fighting would be usually near those pubs or nightclubs but rather rare (they would control as it is bad of business). I have seen street fight between students (from secondary school) as I used to stayed near the school. Neighbours would report police and to the school. Police would visit the school and patrolling the area the next day. If there is any argument between neighbours, all recorded on CCTV (increasing trend to install CCTV for business owners or family house) and would make police report straightaway if there is any threat being made / received.
와 이렇게 썰푸는 컨텐츠 너무 좋음ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 재밌당ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 다른거는 말레이시아 여유롭고 순둥불편(?)하니 좋다 싶었는데 난.. 마지막은.. 어렵다ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 갑자기 가니 사람이 가득?ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 오우....☆
중국에서도 좀 그런 경향이 있는 것 같아요.
@@somang2020 오 중국도 그렇군요 너무나 신기..👀
해외에 살면 한국인이 까다롭고 더 나아가 화(?)가 많은 민족이라는거 백퍼 공감합니다. ^^
미국에서 살 때 사람들이 까다롭다고 느꼈지만 논리가 분명한 편이고.... 반면에 한국인은 조금 더 감정적이고 흥분을 잘 하는것 같아요.
재미있게 보고 있습니다. 유익한 문화 차이 소개 감사해요.
Most of the time we ask questions just to strike a conversation not that we really care or want to know about it.. That way we may have something to talk about.. Maybe we dont have similarities but we have similarities with your wife.. Then we can start talking about that. we also strike conversation to just be polite.. last maybe to make sure you are real person.. If you are ghost or someone who have bad intention (kidnaper/robber) you will not welcome people talking to you right.. Thinking they will easily identify you.. Haha
빠앙은 아니고, 아주 짧게 빵... 넋 잃고 있는 걸 정신 차리게 해주려곻..!!! (빨리 가자..!!!)
Interesting comparison, love to contents. 😁👍
For Malaysian, I think personal question is only financial related subject but also depends on the individual. Other time some Malaysian are just too "busy body" or overly curious only😂
경적 안울리는거 진짜 150퍼 공감!!!!!!!
thats NORMAL!! if malaysian ask about personal question to you!!! ☺️☺️☺️☺️. we among malaysian also talk like that. hihi . dont worry .
저도 한 삼년에 말레이시아 살아본적이 있거든요. 2014-2016말까지 ^^ 언니 이야기 들어보니 모든 추억이 나오고 막 웃음이 났어요 ㅎㅎ
베개미님 저도 마지막이랑 시간 진짜 공감해요!! 말레이시아 친구를 말레이시아에서 만난 적이 있는데 친구 데려온대서 한명 더 데려오는 줄 알았더니 세명을 데려왔더라고요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ심지어 이와중에 늦기까지.. 오늘도 영상 잘봤습니다☺️☺️
Nice video. Nice topic,
Just some info that may be useful.
Most Malaysian will try to help.
We will try speak English to foreigner to accommodate/help you even if you try to speak Malay with us. Our brain have an automatic switch to turn to English when talk to foreigner.
We most of the time "accept" the imperfection because we know we will also make mistakes sometimes.
It is normal to ask some personal info. As long as not revealing your "very personal" information such as home address, Passport number, etc. (things that can make you vulnerable) Most of the time you can just answer it vaguely.
OTW. Yeah, sometimes it feel annoying. But, it is just how it is.
When you make an appointment for some services, try to squeeze the time. Just give them whatever reason. 12noon to 3pm is tooo damn long. You don't want to waste your weekend waiting for them.
If in a Mall, I think it is better to look at the Directory Panel/Screen for direction. Some people are not familiar with the place just like you.
I guess that is it for now. Bye
The thing about malaysians is we treat each other as if we know each other even if we don't 😅 hence why we call everyone auntie/uncle or sis/bro even when we meet for the first time. It's normal to strike a conversation with strangers here like randomly asking where did u buy your purse or what's the shade of your lipstick or how many kids u have (amongst females) while males be talking about things like properties, business etc. It's how we make friends and expand our knowledge in some way? To some it might seem over friendly and intrusive but the truth is we're used to this way and sometimes we ask random questions not because we really want to know about other people's personal life, it's just us picking random topic to strike a conversation and being friendly. 😅
14:45 매우 공감합니다ㅋㅋㅋ
네 번째 문화차이건은 사바사인 것 같아요ㅋㅋㅋ 아예 모르는 사람한테 가끔 인사하려 말걸긴하지만 집세 얼마냐 이런 질문까지 안하는 것 같아요ㅎㅎ 그분들께서 정말 궁금해서 물어본 것 아닌지 싶어욬ㄱㅋㄱㅋㄱㅋㄱㅋㄱㄱ (이상 제 개인적인 생각이지만요😅)
넘 재밌떠 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
덕분에 말레이시아에 대해서 조금씩 알게 되네요. 오늘도 유쾌한 영상 잘보고 갑니다.
잘 모르면서 대답해주는 문화는 인도에서 온 문화인거 같네요.
인도 애들도 모른단말을 잘안함.
알면 아는데로 잘 알려주는데 모르면 걍 지 멋대로 알려줌.
인도에서 이거때메 진짜 겁나 싸운적도 있는데 얘들 문화더라구요.
아무래도 말레이가 인도에서 온 문화들도 많으니까요.
그리고 on the way는 동남아 전역에서 그러합니다.
hahahaha.. Profile information is quite normal.. it is b'cos we wanna get closer to you as a friend .. getting to know some information of you will tend to let us know which topic we can talk. If you keep quiet then we will know it is time for us to stop and end conversation.
For question 6, sometimes we tag our friend along so that we able to introduce more friends to you. Especially if you are foreigners, we tend to get more friends to be your friend so that you don't feel lonely.. or if you needs help, there are friends everywhere that able to help you out. And sometimes, we worry.. we might end up "no topic" to talk about.. so we will bring more friends so that able to have more conversation... hahahahahahahhahaha .. but we usually respect ppl's decision by asking permission whether we can bring friends along..
한국도 과거에 코리안 타임이 있었어요. 그리고 시골가면 말 몇마디 하다보면 신상조사 들어오는 경우가 가끔 있어요. 한국이 잃어버린 풍습이 아직 남아 있는 것 같습니다. 좋으네요. 말레이무역 할땐 몰랐던것이 유튜브 보면서 배우네요.
인도네시아친구에게서도 비슷한 느낌을 받았는데.. 말레이시아와 인도네시아사이
언어나 음식 풍습.. 비슷한점도 궁금합니다
인도네시아랑 말레이시랑 비교하면 어떨 지 궁금해지네요. 인도네시아에 안 살아보셨으면 비교하기 힘들겠지만... 그래도 말레이시아 사시면 인도네시아에 대해서 간접적으로라도 많이 듣기는 하실 듯...
아ㅋㅋㅋㅋ ㅠㅠ 너무 재밌어요! 찐 말레이시아 생활을 했을때만 느낄 수 있는 문화차이들인 것 같아요~~
저도 말레이시아 친구들이 한국 놀러왔을때 제 월급을 물어보더라고요. 대답해줬더니 다들 링깃으로 환산하기 위해 변환기 창을 켰다는..ㅋㅋㅋ 정말 공감되고 잘 봤습니당~!❤️❤️
아 저도 친구랑 친구가족들이 월급 물어본거......ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Yes Begaemi, what you said are true . Malaysians are friendly and we will greet and talk to strangers or people that we’ve only met for the first time. We are curious about foreigners so we ask those profile questions about your jobs and place of residence. We don’t think it’s rude, though 😆. Now,on the other hand, we will not ask about age especially to strangers or people we just met coz this will be deemed too personal for us. 😅
Hi I’m otw 5 min pls tq
너네집 얼마야 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ