For transgender women, going to the bathroom can turn traumatic or even deadly
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- Опубликовано: 26 фев 2020
- When she used the men's bathroom, she was sexually harassed. When she used the women's bathroom, she was humiliated by a female customer, and then fired. Kristy Ramirez's story is all too relevant after a transgender woman was killed in Puerto Rico hours after being seen in the women's bathroom.
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Thank you for sharing Alexa's story. It's so heart wrenching to know that this is how trans people are treated in my island, and to know that one of the suspects is just a 17 yr old kid.
They are all 18
My dude. That MAN was in the womens bathroom. Alexa is a man and was treated accordingly
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Informative at always. So sad to see transgender people discriminated against. Thanks for opening our eyes to the injustices of the LGBT community.
the t has been dropped. it's lgba now.
@Mary Brock I disagree, I think we are used to weaken gay rights, we are constantly used to subvert any narrative when it suits certain groups and individuals.
@Mary Brock I'm not gay
@Mary Brock you say enough
Degenerates.
Single player bathrooms at least 1 per establishment would circumvent a lot of issues on all sides. For safety and well-being of all decent people, no matter your self ifentification.
Alexa's story 💔 😢 😢 too painful She don't deserve this I'm hurt I'm angry Alexa R.I.P. Boo Boo 🇵🇷 God will take care of you
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Mentally ill degenerate.
it’s so sad :( that my own island had these :(
i am so sad that when i go to puerto rico this will happen :(
@@anjeliicamoniique Ik, I fear exploring my ancestors land, only to see an LGBTQ member disrespect it.
I heard the story and it really broke my heart it's messed up so different ways God rest in peace!! Whoever did that got his days number 😞🙏🙏
That's crazy murder are you serious 😳😲 people are so obsessed with us who ever it was should never see day light again
That’s sad they grow up & not okay what who they are it’s hard for them already like damn I don’t see a man being a women I see them as normal human beings smh 🤦♀️ I pray that everyone just let them be
Thank you so much for content you post. People need understand that lgbtq people are human too. We are not here by mistake. We are a creation of nature in order to bring balance. But most people over sexualize the idea of us so much, they forget we have a spirit too. And it really sucks for someone to degrade you in way that makes you feel not worthy of living. Thank you so much brave soul❤️
Nah. It's disgusting.
LGBTQ people & BLM people, & KKK people, do not act human.
I’m so glad these stories are being shared. I hope people will be more loving and caring for those of the trans community at home and abroad.
These things need to off themselves faster.
I love all of you be STRONG I'm by your side. Love, hugs, blessing?
People need to stop judging let them be
Excellent Job !
Muy bonito por hacer este video. Hay gente tan injusta, no entiendo el desprecio y poco entendimiento e incomprensible compasiòn que tienen algunas personas, por las personas transgender y homosexuales. Igual que tù y yo ellos no pidieron nacer como son, son obras de Dios y Dios no hace errores.
Bendito so sad. Smh
Thank you so much for sharing this. 😭
To be honest, the people shown in the video stand out as "abnormal" resp. being in their transition. With which some just have a problem to deal. But of course this is no reason for such overreactions or even murder. However, the way hate and fear is stirred up against these people in the USA in order to make political capital out of it, it was to be expected that something like this would happen.
thank you for reporting this such an important issue that is never reported on the media or news trans life matters
Those people who killed Alexa need to get Arrested, Alexa needs justice, those killers need to be brought to justice for Alexa, and those killers need to get a sentence of life imprisonment without the possibility of parole for killing her in cold blood as a hate crime. The Puerto Rican law enforcement need to make sure those killers get caught & are brought to justice ASAP, he needs to do it for Alexa. They need to trace the bullets on Alexa’s body back to the gun through forensics, and then they need to get fingerprints off the gun when they find it and trace it back to the assailants, if possible, and then bring those S.O.Bs to justice. This cannot be allowed to go unpunished. We need justice for Alexa now.
lol
She's very pretty 😍
@apocalypse the Destroyer reloaded you look like a less masculine version of rue Paul if she had a drug problem lol
@apocalypse the Destroyer reloaded you so ashy last Wednesday Catholics were rubbin you on they forehead 😂
apocalypse the Destroyer reloaded you are a disgusting human being I’m sorry you don’t have a life and have to be on other people business but man get one stop being ignorant and if you can’t keep your comments to yourself
Beef 99 Trans women are women.
@Beef 99 I already blocked you on Grindr, I told you I'm not versatile
Thank you for this interview
Cristo te ama. Venga a el, el es tu respuesta! Jesus Cristo ~ Venid a mi todos los cargados y turbados y yo los hare descansar. El te levanta y te puede cambiar y TRANSformar! Cristo viene Pronto Marana no es prometido. La Biblia dice Aunque tu Madre y Padre te abandone con todo Jehova te recogera! No hay nada imposible para Dios darle la oportunidad.. el es quien hace el trabajo en ti y cambiar y forma de pensar.
Qué triste lo que pasan las personas así, esto debe cambiar.
She did nothing wrong please don't regret the way that you are were special the way God made us people are just crazy, stupid and ridiculous us trans women rocks 🤩
We all have our sad stores on Discrimination of Religion, colour, gender and yes Ugly as well. I take no joy in this and in meny other defferent hardships people face everyday.
However
You can not make a law to Appease .01 percent of the population it's not in governments intrest to do so. The government made no law for women nor men, A majority of the population I might add, to have a Separated washroom.
If the private Commercial sector Interest in expanding their consumer base They would have the initiative to do so.
An idea for a private commercial sector;
a 4 Separated unisex private single washroom each with a locking door.👌
Love your videos very well made thank you.
Ps. Love the Diversity of ideas and conversations. Thank you.
I accept the fact they are transgender, if that is what they want that's their lifestyle. But I don't know how to feel when it comes to my daughters using the same bathroom. Correct me if I am ignorant but It is just hard to me when it comes to that.
No transgender person is going to harm your girls. I have nieces myself. Being transgender and transitioning is very hard. It's hard to pass and horomones replacement therapy is expensive and difficult to get. We aren't going to do something that would out ourselves as perverts. In a public place like a McDonalds where their are tons of people around, we could never get away with it. Thankfully, the male sex drive is always neutralized after being on female horomones. I understand the concern, as I would feel the same way about my nieces. But my experience as a transwoman for three years tells me that your daughters will be okay. You are a great father for caring so much for your girls. Thank you for being thoughtful in your concern as well. Many people like to jump to conclusions without seeing the big picture. You're a thoughtful person, we need more people like you.
It scares me too as a mother and a women myself I know all people aren't bad but just creeps me out a little knowing someone that was born a man is in the same bathroom. Not trying to offend anyone.
@@donkeylongears yes that is why I don't like to jump to conclusions. Sadly, because of some people it affects everyone and that is in general. We need to accept but we Need to respect everyone. Thank You for your comment it means alot that you decide to talk instead of attacking. Great Person.
@@rainbowartistry4347 same here trying to understand. I want both part to feel safe :)
@@alekz0506 Honestly, I just handled it in the most reasonable and understandable way I could. I'm not a great person, but I hope to one day be. I want everyone to be happy and comfortable. The world, especially now, needs more people who strive to think reasonably.
She has experienced so much pain 😪
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delusional dumbfuq
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There're people who have special needs like the handicap, no-one are defending there intrest. If the government draws a bill for the need of every different Situation, all small Businesses will have to close. They will be forced to make additional preparations for every kind of need for the public in order to open their doors to do Business.
Food for thought. Thank you.
RIP ALEXA
For NORMAL females, having some "transgender type" in the bathroom IS a traumatic experience.
No it isn’t.
@George Floyd May Rot in Hell are you personally inspecting peoples genitals or somethin
did you even watch the video?
@@nahir5684 Yes it is. My wife and daughters don't want a mentally deranged freak among them.
@drinksnapple8997 then I hope they stay away from you, for their own safety
Shit is sad...people need to leave others the fuck alone .ot aint no ones business if they r man or women damnit
i test them thank God but they get jealous,the other women,when I respect them +because they think and belief is a contest,they rather not find the true facts,I think we all gender and race are all intelligent but some learn wrong and built a evil human beaver all because of being real true facts of God eye and mind,so some go scare and try to understand.so i'm praying right now to sent them a Angel to the true facts genders and straight persons to walk with them to success of any good being human to God,and the others they need help healing and learning better but they get punch too,Amen.
Well you can’t say anything about the women there feeling uncomfortable,they have every right to be.
Maybe don't be such a snowflake
@@firstname405 just use the correct bathroom, you snowflake.
Vestirse de mujer no te hace mujer
Exacto
Snowflake
Having an opinion does not mean others need to agree with you, José.
BUMP: This needs more views and to be shared asap!
So sad….how hated trans people are. Why do people have so much hate in their hearts…?
Transphobes live in constant fear of something that doesn't exist and take it out on what they don't understand. It's very sad
Becuz I dont want my children victimized. They made the choice to do that to themselves, face the consequences. Freedom is unatural for this reason, anarchy has never worked.
Hurting other people is always wrong. Unfortunately, there are people who are taking advantage of the situation and creating more problems. I'm talking about predators taking advantage of the fact that now in some places, anyone can go to any restroom no matter what, no questions asked. I used to think that type of situation was like rare or virtually non-existent until I had the experience of a shady male going to the lady's room while I was in it. Full on dude, dude hair, full beard, dirty jeans, and hiking boots. Nobody stopped him or said anything to him when they saw him there. I was busy using the restroom so I have no idea if he was recording anything. Like a fool I thought the restroom was a place I can let my guard down and didn't pay attention to anything except my phone and doing my business. We have to find a way to help people who are genuinely gender changed AND assure that women are safe from unscrupulous men who try to take advantage of the situation. I can't think of anything myself, but from now on no more public restrooms for me unless it is a one person restroom or a family restroom.
This is fear mongering.
#SaveWomensSpaces
From who? Trans women? They aren’t threatening women’s spaces. They are women.
@@chrisperez3614 in the eyes of who?
@@chrisperez3614 are you this much of a dumbfuq? They are men.
@@dearjohn8789snowflake
@@chrisperez3614 "they are women", no, no they are not.
Crime against racism, gender, religion and facial appearance are all crime against humanity there is no defferents. Thier is no reason to make a specific law Except for propaganda purposes.
What we do need is full support for our first responders like the police force. To get the best Candidates to be Hired in the police force they need better wages and retirement, and Intern better service. What we don't need is 78 mayors taking up space and money of the people of Puerto Rico.
Thank you.
WNBA The Women's National Basketball Association is a professional basketball league
I have to admit I would feel uncomfortable with a man using the restroom while I’m in there. That said, I wouldn’t say anything just live and let live.
Trans women are not men
If some mentally ill man walks into the woman's bathroom he should be escorted out and arrested if he is seen there again.
@@chrisperez3614 men are men, youre wrong.
That’s why bathrooms should be for everyone not separate
People have the right to be who or what they want to be. I am straight and I careless about some guy wants to be a girl or likes to be a girl. However, they are neither men nor women so they need to use the single occupancy restroom.
It's the hard-knock life, Jay Z
Men is a men and women is a women it’s called common sense - Vladimir Putin President of Russia 🇷🇺
Hater
Why do you want to kill your fellow man!
yes and trans is simply a way to describe them
@@saturni4412exactly, trans women are women
@@bperez8656 I dont want them killed, but I dont care.
@@firstname405 nope, men are men.
Trans IS Beautiful 🦋🦋🦋
They need to off themselves faster than they already do.
@Bob-if3yk why do you hate yourself so much? You're so lame
This makes woman very uncomfortable when they see man with penis in there space. What about them?
Lucky that doesn't happen
Their feelings are more important than others' safety?
Not real women. Not a real problem.