Victoria is such a badass IMHO (in that she doesn't shy away from important conversations just because they would be difficult or feel awkward to initiate). When she went back inside the house after the big fight, and said hey, let's talk about this and try to work through this, I was so impressed (though I am OFTEN impressed by her).
Yeah, same even though I think she went completely ott during the conflict i have to give her credit for actually coming back and not just leaving there and then
Yea, but she manipulated the situation to get more dogs! I think it is important to acknowledge that she is also in the wrong! You have to take care of your dogs, but you just cannot take more dogs without your partner´s approval. I would feel i´m being taken advantage of helping the other dogs, and like helping the same person that doesn´t hear a thing of what i´m saying! I´m siding more with the husband here.
@@anibalplaza8633 you essentially just said the same exact thing OP said w| a whole lot more words. “it exasperates Deena’s need to control things.” 💁🏽♀️ they literally acknowledged that Deena contributes to the issue. 😂🤦🏾♀️
the husband is immature AF. you have an issue w| your partner you handle it w| healthy, mature communication + genuine effort. you don’t weaponize “incompetence” or behave passive aggressively or in ways that ultimately harm the dog, which is the only thing his behavior accomplished. mr. clean’s behavior makes it seem like he’s overcompensating for….well,a lot.
Honestly, I can see Scott's point but a man, who can look at a puppy and refuse to feed it in order to prove a point, is not someone I would care for. it's not the dog's fault. i can somewhat understand his frustration but I can also understand Deena who can't help but wanting to help a dog in need. Kudos to Victoria for staying around despite Scott's completely disrespectful behaviour. unlike Scott, she is somebody who puts these animals' well-being before her own feelings.
What about considering your husbands feelings as well? Have you even considered that? Or course helping a dog in need is admirable but Scott told her he didn't want another dog and yet she went behind his back brought it home, and thrn name-calls and belittles him and you call Scott disrespectful get a clue smh
@@JEUndisputedDeena is in the wrong for sure but Scott should have left or even rehomed the pugs with a caring family instead of punishing an innocent living creature.
Am I the only one who is purely on his side?!! He said it himself about the fact that the more work he put in the more dogs she would get. Puppy Mills are always going to fill their cages so long as they profit from it. He unlike her did not want the extra dogs to begin with, so why should he be expected to put in roughly the same work? What if he came in with loads of frogs that were going to be cooked for their legs and said, oh, hay honey, we are going to keep looking after as many frogs as we can. She obviously loved the extra dogs more than he did, so why not flip the tables here just to make it fair if she would feel the same way in every way about the frogs. Animals are animals and that includes humans. How much you care for them and want to be a part of that care are pretty big factors.
Vet tech here! One tip I've learned as working as a vet tech is that if you have a dog that eats poop, you can give your dog Pineapple or pineapple juice (dogs usually like this) and that will make the poop taste absolutely awful which makes them stop eating it.
Yeah... best trick in the book! I've had a couple of dogs over the years who loved eating poo and once I was told about the pineapple, I couldn't believe how it worked pretty much straight away. Swear by this. And now it seems like I've got another one who loves to eat her own poo, so the pineapple is already in the cupboard.
I just noticed that the channel is uploading FULL episodes of the USA episodes, I'm so excited!! I can't wait to sit down and watch them all without going from clip to clip! So thank you so much @It's Me or the Dog Much love from Sydney, Australia!
Scott seriously looked at the disabled dog and said “no food for you” as if that would teach them a lesson 😡 How is starving a hurt dog the right thing for anyone to do? Victoria was civil to him. She’s a bigger person than I would be. He’s a little narcissistic 🤬
I feel so bad for Deena. I once dated someone like Scott, and they're constant need to be in control and "above" you is exhausting. The look on his face, the way he spoke to Victoria, and the whole 20% rule just speaks volumes. Ladies, or gents, if you ever find yourself with someone like that just leave as soon as you can. There's a narcissism there that can't be overcome, and it'll break you down so fast. You're worth more than that, and I hope Deena one day realizes how toxic people like Scott are.
@@teresaames7902 Teresa, nobody is saying she isn’t strong. And the original comment feels bad Deena like almost EVERY comment mentions. Let this person give advice to the people in the comments (which is literally who the comment is directed to). Work on minding your business. They clearly have worked on themselves to know to stay away from Scotts.
I just started singing DIVORCE DIVORCE once he said that bc I would have stopped feeding Scott he isn't my responsibility he is a grown man and can cook for himself🤣
Getting a dog (or another dog) should be a decision made by both partners. I understand Scott's perspective. I have been trying to persuade my bf to get a dog for a while now, but unfortunately he isn't ready. I can't force him, and I definitely can't spring a dog on him and expect him to do half the work. I understand it's frustrating for her, and it is for me, but it's not reasonable to just ignore his decision and then blame him for it somehow...
Yea we are in the same situation. I want another pet, either a cat or a dog, but my husband just isn’t up to share the work that another pet entails right now. We will revisit the conversation in a couple years maybe!
I already wasn’t a big fan of Scott, but his attitude towards Victoria before she walked out during the feeding bit _really_ pissed me off. Guys like that infuriate me. I understand that he’s frustrated with Deena and the foster, but that’s no excuse to refuse to feed him. If he thinks that his dog is so perfect and he hates the other dogs, then he should just leave.
I agree Scott had attitude, but you can't put all the blame on him, Deena should not have brought in another dog without consulting Scrott, And his fear if he does more that Deena brings in more dogs is a high possiblity, I do see Deena as a person who would devinitly do that,
@@GJBndls No one is putting all the blame on him, he has more than attitude, he has such disrespect for the dog trainer they invited into their home and asked to fix their problems. When you dont listen to the dog trainer abt their literal job, ur the problem
Dogs are a huge responsibility. You can't just bring an animal into the home with total disregard for the person you share a home with. The hubby might come off as unfair but he clearly doesn't want that foster dog there. His wife knew that and she got the foster dog anyway. How is that fair? People overdo it with animals. Five dogs are too much.
It's not fair not to feed the dog either. Scott could leave if he is that angry, yet the dog can't. Sooo he needs to get over it and treat the dog fairly or go. I agree with anything you say about responsibility and overdoing it with animals btw.
Yeah, he's not handling it well. But if my partner filled our house with dogs, when id only agreed to one...jeez. I'd be livid. 5 times the food. Five times the vet bills, five times the barking. Five times the training. Five times the hair. Wow. How do you do that to your partner and say "its not my fault you're gullible."
Ya know what, fair point. I do think he should make up his mind though: either stick around and take on your role in taking care of the dogs, or leave. He does a lot wrong, but she is not completely innocent either. There are relationship issues caused by both, it would be understandable if they break up.
@@undefinederror40404 That exactly it. He can't set his boundaries properly. If she keeps bringing in dogs and is not willing to listen to him then why is he still there??
I actively looked for any comment defending him. Do I think he should do more?Absolutely! However, he has always had the 3 dogs 4 as a ‘pushing it’ she’s the one who ignored what he wanted and makes him look like the bad guy. He probably knows from experience the more he does with fosters the more dogs she brings in. He’s probably the only reason she’s not a massive hoarder. I also don’t like how it was somehow him and his dogs fault that her dog was attacking.
@@Morghena I don’t understand I thought it was his dog that was being bullied not the foster dog. Besides dogs don’t mimic those kinds of human behaviors like other humans do. Yes it caused the foster dog to become food aggressive but I didn’t see anything about the foster being bullied because of not being feed at the same time. Can you comment the time stamp so I can see?
Scott's demeaning behavior to the trainer was embarrassing. Glad she came back even though he was incredibly disrespectful. It would have taken everything in me to wipe that smug smile off his face. The dogs are completely dependent on humans so him refusing to help is just pure hurtful to put his feelings to his wife on them.
I'm surprised Victoria didn't recommend regular walks, so the dogs can toilet outside of the yard. Shouldn't the yard be a back-up, not the primary location for toileting?
@@rosaangelicaxol1814 As long as you clean it up... If not they will walk through it and then bring it in the house and everywhere which is... Gross to say the least
Walking five dogs is a lot for one person. Reason I say this is because besides controlling the dogs, you also have to be able to defend them from escaping or getting injured by bigger, more aggressive dogs.
@@sandyrodriguez2803 It is, it's not even legal in my county to walk more than three dogs as a single person but you could either go together or split them up.
I wasn’t expecting 39:51!! It was good to see them work as a team and have success. I hope their relationship improved and they started to respect each other. They were very toxic.
I think it is not right just to blame Scott. Both of them are ridiculous. He refuses to help with the ("her") dogs and she doesn't listen to him when he says that he doesn't want another pug. So if your partner doesn't want another pet or any pet at all you have to accept it. You just can't overcome their boundaries and expect them to be happy and help you. But on the other side you have at least try to understand the hobby and interests of your partner. Try to support your partner and both of you are happy. But this couple just has to break up and go separate ways if nothing changes.
I get what your saying, but deena’s behavior was reasonable, he did not seem very promising and careless, so of course deena has trust issues and is controlling, and just because he did not want the foster dog and that it wasn’t his responsibility, still didn’t make it right how he treated him
You know what I observed from the show? Honestly the dogs are not the problem, the owners are the problem. I feel really sorry for the dogs. I wish they can choose their owners.
NOOOoo not the husband being so combatitive and the wife saying "not my fault you're gullible" after the husband said she manipulated him......... they really seem like people who could be wonderful on their own but together...... yikes. Hope they're all happier now 😥
In Australia you must clean up after your pet in any public space (eg) park, beach, street etc or else face a $200 fine. Pet owners carry plastic bags with them when walking their dogs. Also it is illegal to keep animals living in their own fecal matter, so you must clean up after them in your own yard. Any type of littering is socially unacceptable, aswell as illegal.
So it is in Germany. It is even an obligation to walk your dog and the authorities will take it away if you do not. Of course it needs neighbours to complain about .....
All I gotta say was that Scott was very rude especially to Victoria and was careless, was not a big fan of him and let me just add how immature he was about this situation, now, people might say “well deena is the one who didn’t get his permission and they didn’t agree to foster a dog” Well yea, I get that, but just because the dog wasn’t rly Scott’s responsibility, Didn’t make it ok for how he treated the foster dog.
I think Deena needs to commit to not getting more dogs without consulting Scott. If you live with someone, you have a responsibility to make sure the people you are living with also want to have a dog before you get it. This is especially true if you expect them to help.
Honestly Scott has a terrible personality. However, I can empathize with him because we had one well behaved dog. One day with no notice or discussion, my husband brought home an abandoned German Shepard with a lot of behavioral issues. It attacked our dog constantly and we had to split our house in half with baby gates. And it was a small house. I got stuck with all the feeding and all the training and all the walking. I even had to clean up after it when it went into heat because it was not spayed yet. It was a nightmare. My stress levels were through the roof. This terrible dog was forced upon me without my consent and I was very angry about it. He wanted to keep it. I ultimately told him if he didn’t find another home for the dog I was not going to live there any more. It even bit me and drew blood twice trying to get to our older dog. So I can see how someone can be really resentful of a spouse bringing in a dog you didn’t want and are now stuck with and also are forced to do extra work. It’s maddening.
Although I think the husband not feeding the dog is his way of trying to set a boundary, it's not the dogs fault it's there. But I ABSOLUTELY understand his frustration, he is being walked all over by his controlling uncompromising wife. Although she is doing something kind by fostering a dog she isn't considering her partners feelings at all. So he's acting out the only way he knows how, because she obviously doesn't listen to him, so this is how he shows his displeasure. Even if it is sonewhat childish.
As childish as he was acting, I could totally see his desperation for somebody, anybody, to validate his feelings and acknowledge that her bringing in dogs without talking to him was not ok. And all Victoria did was tell him about how fostering dogs was such a noble thing and he should be helping. I really respect Victoria, she's an amazing trainer, but she really missed seeing from his perspective here.
Totally agree not the dogs fault but the poor man is basically ignored. Out of the two of them he understands the responsibility of the dogs and knows they already have too many to handle. One of my ex friend (a truely toxic person) did this with her ex. They had six dogs she kept bringing more when he said no. She would say they were fostering a dog to eventually spring it that they were now adopting because "insert sob story" to guilt trip him into keeping. She never did anything to take care of dogs leaving it all to him they eventually split up not because of the dogs because of her other manipulate controlling lying ways and she abandoned all the dogs with him. Her ex kept two and got good homes for another four and we found out from someone else they weren't even rescues she had been going and buying dogs off gumtree and lying about were they came from.
At that 8:38 mark, the woman saying “I can’t help that you’re gullible” shows that the disrespect and narcissistic behavior goes both ways. It’s both of them. Not just Scott.
Scott needed to grow up, Deena forced the additional dog and never should have brought a dog into a home that doesn't 100% want it. But he either should have left or even rehomed the foster instead of neglecting an innocent life in his home.
I actively looked for any comment defending him. Do I think he should do more?Absolutely! However, he has always had the 3 dogs 4 as a ‘pushing it’ she’s the one who ignored what he wanted and makes him look like the bad guy. He probably knows from experience the more he does with fosters the more dogs she brings in. He’s probably the only reason she’s not a massive hoarder. I also don’t like how it was somehow him and his dogs fault that her dog was attacking. I know I’m going to get a lot of hate and I don’t care. I have a couple family members who would get dogs and not ask anyone. I was always the one doing all the work. She seems very manipulative and then blames him and calls him “gullible”
Also in another episode a husband brings in 3 large dogs without consulting his wife or doing any training. Victoria openly says ‘if you were my husband you would be out’ yet here she completely defends the wife and reams the husband (who does work and training). I think it just shows how all people have personal feelings that can contradict what they may say in another circumstance.
We had a Scottish terrier called Molly who loved trying to eat puke. She'd eat her own, she'd eat other dogs like and I remember her doing it to mine too. We'd stop her but sometimes we weren't quick enough
@awesomeirlable yes, if she saw me or one of the other dogs' puke, she'd get really excited, wag her tail, run over, and make a jolly good attempt at lapping up the puke. I remember once having a stomach bug 🐛 and I just kept being sick, I was laying in bed off school with a bucket next to my bed. Molly camped out beside me all day, waiting on me enevitably being sick and for her to attempt to get to the puke. My gran kept chucking her out of my bedroom, but she'd always manage to get back in. She was so determined. We certainly did NOT encourage this bizarre behaviour 😳, we'd tell her no, plus we'd take her away from the area until we cleaned up. She wasn't our only minging dog in the house 🤣🤮. We had a chihuahua called Lotus, who had a penchant for bogies and snot. She'd constantly attempt to lick right up people's noses. We thought she was being sweet and giving us kisses, then the vet was like, "She's just trying to mine your snot. She seems to really like it." They made a fine pair. I miss my gross girls so much 😔😭
Divorce him!!! "I have worked with dogs that have been abused. Why don't you feed him"!? - "What's your point"? Effing divorce him! If this episode ends with a happy family Imma be pissed
To be honest i understand him but this is a problem between him and his partner. She shouldn't bring any more dog in without her partner's consent. He refuses to feed the Foster not because of the dog himself but because of issues in relationship and of course the Foster dog is who suffers in this situation.
I thought the exact same thing!! It’s not Joey he’s trying to punish (but he does by doing what he’s doing…) He’s trying to punish his partner! They should respect each other!
Or… just walk your dogs a few times a day so there is no poop all around your garden. Never get why ppl want poop and pee in their garden. Just so gross yech
You mean Deena, Scott was in the right and was bullied belittled and name-called by his so called wife, that woman is a narcissistic 2 faced walking tub of toxic waste
Scott isn’t the problem,Deena is, you don’t bring pets into the home without your partners consent. Just because you like animals is not and excuse she rescues dogs she can’t take of. That is not a rescue. It’s Scotts home too a truly good partner would not dismiss their spouse’s needs.
exactly. if they argue this much then they shouldnt be together. if they can argue this much about dogs, then they can argue about anything and make things worse.
I had dog that ate his own poop like it was cake 🤢 no matter what I did. now I have a yorkie that hates poop she even hates peanut butter she thinks it's poop starts gaging looks at me like why you trying feed me poop 😐
15:00 I hate to say it, but I'm with Scott about who has responsibility of the foster dog. Dina did accept those conditions regarding the foster dog. It is wrong of her to take him for granted as a dog sitter. Victoria shouldn't force Scott into something he doesn't want to do. She should advise them to give him up to a shelter. Not giving ultimatums about leaving because Scott will say yes, and production will say no, they need a show. Imagine they have 20 pugs in their house and Victoria saying, "They are your responsibility even though you didn't bring them in!" Basically, ETA here. Lol. All three.
Poor Victoria, She had to walk out and count to 10. I would've had to count to 1000. I feed ALL OF THE ANIMALS onthe ranch , I don't differentiate who's animals they are. There are 3 different owners. I am one of them. They are living creatures, they need to be nourished & eat & have fresh water available. I don't really care what animal belongs to who. All I care about is the animal' s well being, that they are cared for & their needs met. It duesnt matter who does it ,as long as it's done. My work around here, has inspired much more effort & time, from the other 2 owners. I am so proud of them. The place is really coming together, with more of a group effort going on here. So if I'd been a petty person, this positive group transformation, would've never happened.
I think they got a chance, I mean victoria can only do so much and these two definitely got their own issues they need to handle. Nobody is perfect, but i can see the dude is clearly fustrated and at his wits end. Then the lady wants to do well for pugs but I don't think the dude really wants this kind of thing. They may need to just sit down and talk about their future on this one but that's just an outsider's pov who knows what the real issue is there. As for the pugs they are just being pugs.
The guy's not a bad owner. He's frustrated by his partners lack of respect of his boundaries and feelings. This is his response. People calling them bad owners but don't see it's deeper than that issue. Both are good owners but they have too many dogs. The wife needs slow down and listen and the husband need to be firm on his emotions and boundaries.
Fostering is awesome but knowing your limits is very important. I foster dogs occasionally. But one at a time with my 2 guys and we do a lot of training so when they are placed they have forever homes
Funny how sometimes they give the dogs work out courses. This is such a bad situation, that this time, the people are given an obstacle course of sorts, instead.
If you have dogs that eat all the poop they can get their sticky little paws on... Why don't you pick up the poop the second it comes out? Unless you really want them to eat it, that is.
I agree with Scott. If he told her he didn't want any more dogs and she continues to bring more in, she should bear most of the responsibility for them. Not an excuse to starve one of your dogs though, and I agree he has the responsibility to make sure the dogs in his care aren't hungry or ill. But the show is called it's me or the dog, Dina bringing more dogs in could easily be a deal breaker in a relationship.
Treatment: First, an enema. 10mL per kilo weight with oil. Then an internal purge. 20mL/kg. Mix: saline, citrimax, macrogol double. ... when the excrements cant be picked up right away, sprinle a mix of ipecac syrup and finely ground cayenne pepper.
@@NikkieRoxxx ... are you a veterinarian? If not, even if you're confident giving advice you should always give the disaimer that you're not a vet and that people should ideally go to their vet first before starting internet treatments.
Quite a lot of dogs have the issue of eating poop. It's interesting to keep in mind that scent works very differently for them, and a lot of dogs eat poop because their food is not giving them enough nutrients or they have gut issues. So.. instead of calling them pigs, they should get some help. Not only is it often a sign of trouble, it can lead to a heck of a lot of trouble as well. If you still have contact with those dog owners, it would be great if you can raise the issue and ask them if they've talked to their vet about it. You can really improve the life of those dogs.
@Undefined Error actually the best natural remedy for poo eating is to give your dog a couple of small pieces of pineapple once a day. Not a vet but have had two dogs over the years that ate their own poo and a natural therapist put me onto this. And yes it definitely works. 🍍
It would never occur to me to bring a pet home without consulting the other members of my family. I want a puppy very badly! I’ve been sick and really want a little fur baby for my friend. Something to love, train, be proud of and above all… Enjoy! The last dog I had was stolen from me by my ex husband. My hearts been lonely ever since
by refusing to help with the dogs more, and by refusing to feed that poor foster, he's also refusing to help or care about his PARTNER. He is so smug and so arrogant. I wouldn't be able to stay with someone like that, knowing what their real personality looks like.
I know this was a serious, tense moment but I couldn’t help but laugh when the pugs were fighting and they start screaming at each other
me too😂
Same
Same
not your fault, i was snickering too😂
Lol same
Well, gosh aren't you great?" Gotta love it when Victoria's sarcasm comes out. Scott is so passive-aggressve. These two are a mess
Victoria is such a badass IMHO (in that she doesn't shy away from important conversations just because they would be difficult or feel awkward to initiate). When she went back inside the house after the big fight, and said hey, let's talk about this and try to work through this, I was so impressed (though I am OFTEN impressed by her).
Yeah, same even though I think she went completely ott during the conflict i have to give her credit for actually coming back and not just leaving there and then
This husband is THE definition of weaponized incompetence... It exasperates Deena's need to control things.
Most episodes of this with straight couples have this element to them
Yea, but she manipulated the situation to get more dogs! I think it is important to acknowledge that she is also in the wrong! You have to take care of your dogs, but you just cannot take more dogs without your partner´s approval. I would feel i´m being taken advantage of helping the other dogs, and like helping the same person that doesn´t hear a thing of what i´m saying! I´m siding more with the husband here.
@@anibalplaza8633 you essentially just said the same exact thing OP said w| a whole lot more words. “it exasperates Deena’s need to control things.” 💁🏽♀️
they literally acknowledged that Deena contributes to the issue. 😂🤦🏾♀️
the husband is immature AF. you have an issue w| your partner you handle it w| healthy, mature communication + genuine effort.
you don’t weaponize “incompetence” or behave passive aggressively or in ways that ultimately harm the dog, which is the only thing his behavior accomplished.
mr. clean’s behavior makes it seem like he’s overcompensating for….well,a lot.
"Under manipulation"... he's the main manipulator here, folks!
Honestly, I can see Scott's point but a man, who can look at a puppy and refuse to feed it in order to prove a point, is not someone I would care for. it's not the dog's fault. i can somewhat understand his frustration but I can also understand Deena who can't help but wanting to help a dog in need. Kudos to Victoria for staying around despite Scott's completely disrespectful behaviour. unlike Scott, she is somebody who puts these animals' well-being before her own feelings.
What about considering your husbands feelings as well? Have you even considered that? Or course helping a dog in need is admirable but Scott told her he didn't want another dog and yet she went behind his back brought it home, and thrn name-calls and belittles him and you call Scott disrespectful get a clue smh
@@JEUndisputedScott is disrespectful.
@@JEUndisputedDeena is in the wrong for sure but Scott should have left or even rehomed the pugs with a caring family instead of punishing an innocent living creature.
@@JEUndisputedthey’re both wrong, but ignoring and worsening the welfare of the pup so you can have one up over your partner is not right.
Am I the only one who is purely on his side?!! He said it himself about the fact that the more work he put in the more dogs she would get. Puppy Mills are always going to fill their cages so long as they profit from it. He unlike her did not want the extra dogs to begin with, so why should he be expected to put in roughly the same work? What if he came in with loads of frogs that were going to be cooked for their legs and said, oh, hay honey, we are going to keep looking after as many frogs as we can. She obviously loved the extra dogs more than he did, so why not flip the tables here just to make it fair if she would feel the same way in every way about the frogs. Animals are animals and that includes humans. How much you care for them and want to be a part of that care are pretty big factors.
Vet tech here! One tip I've learned as working as a vet tech is that if you have a dog that eats poop, you can give your dog Pineapple or pineapple juice (dogs usually like this) and that will make the poop taste absolutely awful which makes them stop eating it.
Hey, thanks for sharing that. That is a trick I had never heard of.
THANK YOU!
Yeah... best trick in the book! I've had a couple of dogs over the years who loved eating poo and once I was told about the pineapple, I couldn't believe how it worked pretty much straight away. Swear by this. And now it seems like I've got another one who loves to eat her own poo, so the pineapple is already in the cupboard.
I don't want to watch the episode again, but I believe the owner mentioned it and that it didn't work.
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I just noticed that the channel is uploading FULL episodes of the USA episodes, I'm so excited!! I can't wait to sit down and watch them all without going from clip to clip! So thank you so much @It's Me or the Dog
Much love from Sydney, Australia!
Me too😊
I love the full episodes too.
The atmosphere in this episode was so tense that *I* could feel it. I can only imagine what it's like for the dogs.
Scott seriously looked at the disabled dog and said “no food for you” as if that would teach them a lesson 😡 How is starving a hurt dog the right thing for anyone to do? Victoria was civil to him. She’s a bigger person than I would be.
He’s a little narcissistic 🤬
I feel so bad for Deena. I once dated someone like Scott, and they're constant need to be in control and "above" you is exhausting. The look on his face, the way he spoke to Victoria, and the whole 20% rule just speaks volumes. Ladies, or gents, if you ever find yourself with someone like that just leave as soon as you can. There's a narcissism there that can't be overcome, and it'll break you down so fast. You're worth more than that, and I hope Deena one day realizes how toxic people like Scott are.
Stop projecting. His partner can handle herself and does . Work on you sweetheart and leave them to it!
@@teresaames7902 Teresa, nobody is saying she isn’t strong. And the original comment feels bad Deena like almost EVERY comment mentions. Let this person give advice to the people in the comments (which is literally who the comment is directed to). Work on minding your business. They clearly have worked on themselves to know to stay away from Scotts.
Stay away from Scotts….and Teresas. 🎉
You’re so right! That narcissism wore me down so badly that it landed me in the hospital. Twice. I almost died.
@@teresaames7902what 😂😂😂😂
I just started singing DIVORCE DIVORCE once he said that bc I would have stopped feeding Scott he isn't my responsibility he is a grown man and can cook for himself🤣
Getting a dog (or another dog) should be a decision made by both partners. I understand Scott's perspective. I have been trying to persuade my bf to get a dog for a while now, but unfortunately he isn't ready. I can't force him, and I definitely can't spring a dog on him and expect him to do half the work. I understand it's frustrating for her, and it is for me, but it's not reasonable to just ignore his decision and then blame him for it somehow...
Yea we are in the same situation. I want another pet, either a cat or a dog, but my husband just isn’t up to share the work that another pet entails right now. We will revisit the conversation in a couple years maybe!
We usually watch the full episodes during meal time. I think we might skip this one 😆
I do to
Don’t blame you 😂
I already wasn’t a big fan of Scott, but his attitude towards Victoria before she walked out during the feeding bit _really_ pissed me off. Guys like that infuriate me. I understand that he’s frustrated with Deena and the foster, but that’s no excuse to refuse to feed him. If he thinks that his dog is so perfect and he hates the other dogs, then he should just leave.
I agree Scott had attitude, but you can't put all the blame on him, Deena should not have brought in another dog without consulting Scrott, And his fear if he does more that Deena brings in more dogs is a high possiblity, I do see Deena as a person who would devinitly do that,
@@GJBndls No one is putting all the blame on him, he has more than attitude, he has such disrespect for the dog trainer they invited into their home and asked to fix their problems. When you dont listen to the dog trainer abt their literal job, ur the problem
Dogs are a huge responsibility. You can't just bring an animal into the home with total disregard for the person you share a home with. The hubby might come off as unfair but he clearly doesn't want that foster dog there. His wife knew that and she got the foster dog anyway. How is that fair? People overdo it with animals. Five dogs are too much.
It's not fair not to feed the dog either. Scott could leave if he is that angry, yet the dog can't. Sooo he needs to get over it and treat the dog fairly or go.
I agree with anything you say about responsibility and overdoing it with animals btw.
Yeah, he's not handling it well. But if my partner filled our house with dogs, when id only agreed to one...jeez. I'd be livid. 5 times the food. Five times the vet bills, five times the barking. Five times the training. Five times the hair. Wow. How do you do that to your partner and say "its not my fault you're gullible."
Ya know what, fair point. I do think he should make up his mind though: either stick around and take on your role in taking care of the dogs, or leave. He does a lot wrong, but she is not completely innocent either. There are relationship issues caused by both, it would be understandable if they break up.
@@undefinederror40404 That exactly it. He can't set his boundaries properly. If she keeps bringing in dogs and is not willing to listen to him then why is he still there??
I actively looked for any comment defending him. Do I think he should do more?Absolutely! However, he has always had the 3 dogs 4 as a ‘pushing it’ she’s the one who ignored what he wanted and makes him look like the bad guy. He probably knows from experience the more he does with fosters the more dogs she brings in. He’s probably the only reason she’s not a massive hoarder. I also don’t like how it was somehow him and his dogs fault that her dog was attacking.
@@lifehappens2987 By not feeding the foster dog he showed the others it was okay for that one to be bullied and her dog took him up on the offer
@@Morghena I don’t understand I thought it was his dog that was being bullied not the foster dog. Besides dogs don’t mimic those kinds of human behaviors like other humans do. Yes it caused the foster dog to become food aggressive but I didn’t see anything about the foster being bullied because of not being feed at the same time. Can you comment the time stamp so I can see?
Victoria casually driving the coolest cars in every episode
I think Scott is just resentful and hurt that she brought another dog home. He has good reason not to trust her but the dog shouldn't suffer.
Scott's demeaning behavior to the trainer was embarrassing. Glad she came back even though he was incredibly disrespectful. It would have taken everything in me to wipe that smug smile off his face. The dogs are completely dependent on humans so him refusing to help is just pure hurtful to put his feelings to his wife on them.
I'm surprised Victoria didn't recommend regular walks, so the dogs can toilet outside of the yard. Shouldn't the yard be a back-up, not the primary location for toileting?
No it can be a toileting place. My dog go their but don’t eat their 💩
@@rosaangelicaxol1814 As long as you clean it up... If not they will walk through it and then bring it in the house and everywhere which is... Gross to say the least
they need a lotof poo bags;-)
Walking five dogs is a lot for one person. Reason I say this is because besides controlling the dogs, you also have to be able to defend them from escaping or getting injured by bigger, more aggressive dogs.
@@sandyrodriguez2803 It is, it's not even legal in my county to walk more than three dogs as a single person but you could either go together or split them up.
Victoria is so smart. That flag technic was just brilliant
Agree. I am so impressed by her. She's amazing.
It's the same with young children. Inconsistent parenting creates confusion and the resulting behaviour issues.
I wasn’t expecting 39:51!! It was good to see them work as a team and have success. I hope their relationship improved and they started to respect each other. They were very toxic.
Dogs are so weird... they're like. "I don't like you, but your poop is such a fine delicacy. I want some "😂
he was an absolute tool when he said "look at you with hands on your hips" CRINGE
Scott makes me angry. That guy is so damn unlikable.
So?
@@Aminah6623 So what ?
Oh get over it little boy
If it’s this bad why do they stay together
I feel so bad for her she works so hard and he doesn’t to anything ❤
@Yvon Q. "Useless dogs" shows what kind of person you are. Take your toxicity elsewhere.
Idk man, if this were reddit I'd say ESH, because she keeps manipulating him into getting more dogs, making him want to leave the work to her 🤷♀️
Pugs are clever and comical at the same time. Can only imagine the snoring at night! Lol.
I think it is not right just to blame Scott. Both of them are ridiculous. He refuses to help with the ("her") dogs and she doesn't listen to him when he says that he doesn't want another pug.
So if your partner doesn't want another pet or any pet at all you have to accept it. You just can't overcome their boundaries and expect them to be happy and help you.
But on the other side you have at least try to understand the hobby and interests of your partner. Try to support your partner and both of you are happy.
But this couple just has to break up and go separate ways if nothing changes.
I get what your saying, but deena’s behavior was reasonable, he did not seem very promising and careless, so of course deena has trust issues and is controlling, and just because he did not want the foster dog and that it wasn’t his responsibility, still didn’t make it right how he treated him
I’ve got a feeling they are divorced by now. 😂😂😂
Let’s hope so. 🙏🌈🕊️
Scott makes my skin crawl.
You know what I observed from the show? Honestly the dogs are not the problem, the owners are the problem. I feel really sorry for the dogs. I wish they can choose their owners.
That's usually always the case
NOOOoo not the husband being so combatitive and the wife saying "not my fault you're gullible" after the husband said she manipulated him......... they really seem like people who could be wonderful on their own but together...... yikes. Hope they're all happier now 😥
Right.. they aren’t a good fit at all
In Australia you must clean up after your pet in any public space (eg) park, beach, street etc or else face a $200 fine. Pet owners carry plastic bags with them when walking their dogs. Also it is illegal to keep animals living in their own fecal matter, so you must clean up after them in your own yard. Any type of littering is socially unacceptable, aswell as illegal.
So it is in Germany. It is even an obligation to walk your dog and the authorities will take it away if you do not. Of course it needs neighbours to complain about .....
Same in all of EU I think, there's laws against animal neglect and dog poop is littering
@@atherisGAY Yeah same in Ireland so think it's all EU countries
It’s that way here in the USA as well, but so many people disregard the signs and laws (and it’s rarely heavily enforced).
All I gotta say was that Scott was very rude especially to Victoria and was careless, was not a big fan of him and let me just add how immature he was about this situation, now, people might say “well deena is the one who didn’t get his permission and they didn’t agree to foster a dog” Well yea, I get that, but just because the dog wasn’t rly Scott’s responsibility, Didn’t make it ok for how he treated the foster dog.
I think Deena needs to commit to not getting more dogs without consulting Scott. If you live with someone, you have a responsibility to make sure the people you are living with also want to have a dog before you get it. This is especially true if you expect them to help.
No but when deena is holding the pug and they are barking at each other he sounds like a chiken😂
Chicken
I think he is playing g a good game of weaponised incompetence
This woman doesn’t only help dogs but she saves relationships❤❤
The climbing exercise was ace ❤. Great to see team work !
Honestly Scott has a terrible personality. However, I can empathize with him because we had one well behaved dog. One day with no notice or discussion, my husband brought home an abandoned German Shepard with a lot of behavioral issues. It attacked our dog constantly and we had to split our house in half with baby gates. And it was a small house. I got stuck with all the feeding and all the training and all the walking. I even had to clean up after it when it went into heat because it was not spayed yet. It was a nightmare. My stress levels were through the roof. This terrible dog was forced upon me without my consent and I was very angry about it. He wanted to keep it. I ultimately told him if he didn’t find another home for the dog I was not going to live there any more. It even bit me and drew blood twice trying to get to our older dog. So I can see how someone can be really resentful of a spouse bringing in a dog you didn’t want and are now stuck with and also are forced to do extra work. It’s maddening.
Watching some of these episodes makes me really appreciate being single.
Although I think the husband not feeding the dog is his way of trying to set a boundary, it's not the dogs fault it's there. But I ABSOLUTELY understand his frustration, he is being walked all over by his controlling uncompromising wife. Although she is doing something kind by fostering a dog she isn't considering her partners feelings at all. So he's acting out the only way he knows how, because she obviously doesn't listen to him, so this is how he shows his displeasure. Even if it is sonewhat childish.
As childish as he was acting, I could totally see his desperation for somebody, anybody, to validate his feelings and acknowledge that her bringing in dogs without talking to him was not ok. And all Victoria did was tell him about how fostering dogs was such a noble thing and he should be helping. I really respect Victoria, she's an amazing trainer, but she really missed seeing from his perspective here.
Totally agree not the dogs fault but the poor man is basically ignored. Out of the two of them he understands the responsibility of the dogs and knows they already have too many to handle. One of my ex friend (a truely toxic person) did this with her ex. They had six dogs she kept bringing more when he said no. She would say they were fostering a dog to eventually spring it that they were now adopting because "insert sob story" to guilt trip him into keeping. She never did anything to take care of dogs leaving it all to him they eventually split up not because of the dogs because of her other manipulate controlling lying ways and she abandoned all the dogs with him. Her ex kept two and got good homes for another four and we found out from someone else they weren't even rescues she had been going and buying dogs off gumtree and lying about were they came from.
Victoria just pulled up in a really expensive car and I didn’t even know it was her!
At that 8:38 mark, the woman saying “I can’t help that you’re gullible” shows that the disrespect and narcissistic behavior goes both ways. It’s both of them. Not just Scott.
The foster pup looks so happy I love it
Quien más se rie de ver como gruñen "amenazantes" 😂😂😂😂
Scott needed to grow up, Deena forced the additional dog and never should have brought a dog into a home that doesn't 100% want it. But he either should have left or even rehomed the foster instead of neglecting an innocent life in his home.
Wow... Talk about a toxic relationship..
I actively looked for any comment defending him. Do I think he should do more?Absolutely! However, he has always had the 3 dogs 4 as a ‘pushing it’ she’s the one who ignored what he wanted and makes him look like the bad guy. He probably knows from experience the more he does with fosters the more dogs she brings in. He’s probably the only reason she’s not a massive hoarder. I also don’t like how it was somehow him and his dogs fault that her dog was attacking.
I know I’m going to get a lot of hate and I don’t care. I have a couple family members who would get dogs and not ask anyone. I was always the one doing all the work. She seems very manipulative and then blames him and calls him “gullible”
Also in another episode a husband brings in 3 large dogs without consulting his wife or doing any training. Victoria openly says ‘if you were my husband you would be out’ yet here she completely defends the wife and reams the husband (who does work and training). I think it just shows how all people have personal feelings that can contradict what they may say in another circumstance.
Exactly
@@lifehappens2987 I remember that episode.
You do have a good point. She is being selfish and doing a disservice to her dogs by choosing to take on more than he has also agreed to.
I’m shocked Victoria touched anything in the house. Poop eaters and they are licking hands, arms, faces. Friggin gross
We had a Scottish terrier called Molly who loved trying to eat puke. She'd eat her own, she'd eat other dogs like and I remember her doing it to mine too. We'd stop her but sometimes we weren't quick enough
That is nasty!!! Worse than eating poop!!!
@@jenniferburchill3658 it really is. She was proper into it 🤢🤮
She tried to eat YOUR vomit???
@awesomeirlable yes, if she saw me or one of the other dogs' puke, she'd get really excited, wag her tail, run over, and make a jolly good attempt at lapping up the puke. I remember once having a stomach bug 🐛 and I just kept being sick, I was laying in bed off school with a bucket next to my bed. Molly camped out beside me all day, waiting on me enevitably being sick and for her to attempt to get to the puke. My gran kept chucking her out of my bedroom, but she'd always manage to get back in. She was so determined. We certainly did NOT encourage this bizarre behaviour 😳, we'd tell her no, plus we'd take her away from the area until we cleaned up. She wasn't our only minging dog in the house 🤣🤮. We had a chihuahua called Lotus, who had a penchant for bogies and snot. She'd constantly attempt to lick right up people's noses. We thought she was being sweet and giving us kisses, then the vet was like, "She's just trying to mine your snot. She seems to really like it." They made a fine pair. I miss my gross girls so much 😔😭
Divorce him!!!
"I have worked with dogs that have been abused. Why don't you feed him"!?
- "What's your point"?
Effing divorce him! If this episode ends with a happy family Imma be pissed
To be honest i understand him but this is a problem between him and his partner. She shouldn't bring any more dog in without her partner's consent. He refuses to feed the Foster not because of the dog himself but because of issues in relationship and of course the Foster dog is who suffers in this situation.
I thought the exact same thing!! It’s not Joey he’s trying to punish (but he does by doing what he’s doing…) He’s trying to punish his partner! They should respect each other!
22:45 what are they feeding those dogs to make them have poop like that. They didn't seem concerned.
That is not a healthy relationship. Not poop-eating gross, but super unhealthy.
They need to get better food for those dogs. That is not healthy poop consistency
Or… just walk your dogs a few times a day so there is no poop all around your garden.
Never get why ppl want poop and pee in their garden. Just so gross yech
Ain’t no way he just said that to her 14:50
Ughhhhhh, Scott turns my stomach. Barf.
Who wants to start a GoFundMe to pay for this woman's divorce lawyer? Keep the dogs. Throw the whole man away.
She needs to run and he needs to set boundaries and leave her. If he doesn't want the dogs, he can go
You make this same "throw the whole man away" comment on every video.....
You got issues
In an episode about poop eating pugs, the last thing you want to hear in the intro is “are the dogs mimicking the owners, or the other way around?”
Scott is a walking red flag. Every narcissistic, mentally and emotionally manipulative red freaking flag!
You mean Deena, Scott was in the right and was bullied belittled and name-called by his so called wife, that woman is a narcissistic 2 faced walking tub of toxic waste
Scott isn’t the problem,Deena is, you don’t bring pets into the home without your partners consent. Just because you like animals is not and excuse she rescues dogs she can’t take of. That is not a rescue. It’s Scotts home too a truly good partner would not dismiss their spouse’s needs.
@@jharris3267 the point is moot after the dogs are already there. You don’t make the animals suffer. That’s just childish.
7:01 BRO I CANNOT THE PUG’S FACESSS
7:00 cracks me up!
They need to be seperated.. the people.
exactly. if they argue this much then they shouldnt be together. if they can argue this much about dogs, then they can argue about anything and make things worse.
I had dog that ate his own poop like it was cake 🤢 no matter what I did.
now I have a yorkie that hates poop she even hates peanut butter she thinks it's poop starts gaging looks at me like why you trying feed me poop 😐
She could just not like peanut butter lol or did she tell you it was because it reminded her of poop?
Your dog shouldn’t eat peanut butter as well … just saying
15:00 I hate to say it, but I'm with Scott about who has responsibility of the foster dog. Dina did accept those conditions regarding the foster dog. It is wrong of her to take him for granted as a dog sitter. Victoria shouldn't force Scott into something he doesn't want to do. She should advise them to give him up to a shelter. Not giving ultimatums about leaving because Scott will say yes, and production will say no, they need a show.
Imagine they have 20 pugs in their house and Victoria saying, "They are your responsibility even though you didn't bring them in!"
Basically, ETA here. Lol. All three.
I was excited by new full episode after weeks of clips from previous episodes, but I am 100% this is just a reupload of an old one.
it isn't a reupload but clips of the episode have been on here
Poor Victoria,
She had to walk out and count to 10. I would've had to count to 1000.
I feed ALL OF THE ANIMALS onthe ranch , I don't differentiate who's animals they are. There are 3 different owners. I am one of them. They are living creatures, they need to be nourished & eat & have fresh water available. I don't really care what animal belongs to who. All I care about is the animal' s well being, that they are cared for & their needs met. It duesnt matter who does it ,as long as it's done. My work around here, has inspired much more effort & time, from the other 2 owners.
I am so proud of them. The place is really coming together, with more of a group effort going on here. So if I'd been a petty person, this positive group transformation, would've never happened.
Looove full episodes! 🥰
I think they got a chance, I mean victoria can only do so much and these two definitely got their own issues they need to handle. Nobody is perfect, but i can see the dude is clearly fustrated and at his wits end. Then the lady wants to do well for pugs but I don't think the dude really wants this kind of thing. They may need to just sit down and talk about their future on this one but that's just an outsider's pov who knows what the real issue is there. As for the pugs they are just being pugs.
They seem like they'd benefit from a poop scooping service
The guy's not a bad owner. He's frustrated by his partners lack of respect of his boundaries and feelings. This is his response. People calling them bad owners but don't see it's deeper than that issue. Both are good owners but they have too many dogs. The wife needs slow down and listen and the husband need to be firm on his emotions and boundaries.
You’re a bad owner if you’re making one dog suffer because you have drama with your wife.
Fostering is awesome but knowing your limits is very important. I foster dogs occasionally. But one at a time with my 2 guys and we do a lot of training so when they are placed they have forever homes
Funny how sometimes they give the dogs work out courses. This is such a bad situation, that this time, the people are given an obstacle course of sorts, instead.
Scot had every right to feel the way he did and let her take on most of the work.
@TeamScot
And I dont give a heck if I am the only one on his side.
Victoria to the rescue LUV U ❤❤
girl dump him
If you have dogs that eat all the poop they can get their sticky little paws on... Why don't you pick up the poop the second it comes out? Unless you really want them to eat it, that is.
That is so nasty never let your dogs eat poop 💩 😮
It's a habit from the wild to cover up their scent so they can't be tracked by predators
It can be easier said than done, though... a family I know has had their dogs sneak over to the cat's litter box for kitty roca.
I cried soo hard when I saw. Joe even though I saw how begore
I agree with Scott. If he told her he didn't want any more dogs and she continues to bring more in, she should bear most of the responsibility for them. Not an excuse to starve one of your dogs though, and I agree he has the responsibility to make sure the dogs in his care aren't hungry or ill. But the show is called it's me or the dog, Dina bringing more dogs in could easily be a deal breaker in a relationship.
Victoria’s face expression when pugs were at it with each other. 😂
Idk I kind of see Scott's point. Not how he's going about it, but his fear of her bringing more dogs in. I really hope to see that addressed
That poop looks... interesting and not like anything I've ever seen come out of a dog.
You probably don’t have much experience around dogs then…
@@rustykrieger7181Yeah, I've only been around them like my entire life and got my own one running around here 🙄
I think the show altered the color for television ive seen other episodes were the pee is changed in color too
Dang that dog is nasty but its a cute dog!🍡
OMG! They are all so cute love Pugs ❤
Again I still don't understand how rescues are giving these people more dogs and they can't even handle what they have
4:05 Pugfather, come on! It wasn't that hard!
Looks like a pug thing...i once was dogsitting two of these and they inhaled any poop the could get...pigs
Treatment: First, an enema. 10mL per kilo weight with oil. Then an internal purge. 20mL/kg. Mix: saline, citrimax, macrogol double. ... when the excrements cant be picked up right away, sprinle a mix of ipecac syrup and finely ground cayenne pepper.
Not at all. My miniature poodle does the same. 😢
@@NikkieRoxxx ... are you a veterinarian? If not, even if you're confident giving advice you should always give the disaimer that you're not a vet and that people should ideally go to their vet first before starting internet treatments.
Quite a lot of dogs have the issue of eating poop. It's interesting to keep in mind that scent works very differently for them, and a lot of dogs eat poop because their food is not giving them enough nutrients or they have gut issues.
So.. instead of calling them pigs, they should get some help. Not only is it often a sign of trouble, it can lead to a heck of a lot of trouble as well.
If you still have contact with those dog owners, it would be great if you can raise the issue and ask them if they've talked to their vet about it. You can really improve the life of those dogs.
@Undefined Error actually the best natural remedy for poo eating is to give your dog a couple of small pieces of pineapple once a day. Not a vet but have had two dogs over the years that ate their own poo and a natural therapist put me onto this. And yes it definitely works. 🍍
My grandparents Shih Tzu eats poop as well,I might need to try what they r doing
I found putting cooked pumpkin just a small bit in your dogs meal
Did that help?
they should just get a divorce at this point. geez, they shouldnt be together if they argue this much.
IKR!!! No communication marriage with a maninfant husband !
Victorias face was like "what the Fu** " 😂
It would never occur to me to bring a pet home without consulting the other members of my family. I want a puppy very badly! I’ve been sick and really want a little fur baby for my friend. Something to love, train, be proud of and above all… Enjoy! The last dog I had was stolen from me by my ex husband. My hearts been lonely ever since
what a horrible partner
I’m disgusted but they are cute little dogs!
by refusing to help with the dogs more, and by refusing to feed that poor foster, he's also refusing to help or care about his PARTNER. He is so smug and so arrogant. I wouldn't be able to stay with someone like that, knowing what their real personality looks like.
Again pugs love food, more so than any other dog. Just treat them to avoid them being mean!