What is Transference?
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- Опубликовано: 28 июн 2016
- This video explains the concept of Transference. Transference in psychoanalytic therapy is the process whereby the patient displaces both positive and negative feelings that they had toward past significant others in their early life onto the analyst in the “here and now". We all experience and look at relationships through our learned patterns that we have slowly acquired in the process of growing up in our specific social and familial environment. These are subjective ways of seeing others that are deeply ingrained within us and colour our future relationships in a certain predetermined way. By bringing unresolved feelings from the past into the present relationship with the analyst they can be talked about, worked through and resolved.
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Transferrence is very difficult if its negatively focused on you. Very informative.
Best explanation of transference I have heard. Very easy to understand and great examples including the part about mourning the loss. That detail extends on the theory and makes it very practically relevant re how the healing occurs!
Totally agree. Very good
Yes. Very simple and easy conversation to understand on transference with example.
This is so incredibly helpful, thank you!
Your conversation is highly appreciated. For me, Don Carveth's lectures are informative and soothing at the same time. I listen to him when I want to learn about something, and also watch his video lecture on my breaks. Thank you!
This short video helped me write an article in my studies. Thanks Dr Carveth and Dr Moore.
@Kandi Kane thanks but i am not a young person... lol
Great explanation! Thank you.
Awesome explanation
Thank you very much.
If you can reflect on yourself pretty reliably it's a bit easier to notice negative transference. If you are extremely mad over something that happened that wouldn't seem like THAT big of deal to others it's a possible clue. Then while angry or soon after if you can reflect when you felt that way before it can really help. Have a great shrink and relationship built up is key. If you already have your doubts then experience this you're sol.
amazing thank you
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How do I mention my feelings toward my doctor?
you say Doc, how about dinner you handsome hunk?
How ever you need to that gets the point across. You could bring it up soft by saying I was watching therapy videos in RUclips and just happened to see one on transference which got me thinking........
Or be a straight shooter and say "let's have the talk..... transference talk that is" in a bit if joking way to break the ice and then jump in.
If you don't really know how the T would handle it I'd test the water by going more of a soft ball approach.
Oh fuck yeah bud
Both positive and negative transference is potentially bad. Because people have flaws or we change which makes the illusion of transference to break down
Hmm for the therapist to not know exactly what caused the split transference is a bit concerning. He left out the most vital part of transference in this discussion. The turning point from Positive transference to Negative Transference. That is precisely what you should look out for when trying to analyze the client. Sounds a bit like the therapist likes his ego stroked
It was probably soemthing 'small' like she misinterpret a comment he made or felt criticised or invalidated by something..
I felt maybe he didn't give details because it would've revealed too much of the patient's life and threatened her privacy. But I also feel you may have a point, he could've described what it was in general terms.
I agree on your opinion of him, many therapist have huge egos, and are in risk of inflation, of "The Great" healer.
@@danielantunes1060 could also be a projection. But I'm sure it isn't ;-)
@@musicianwren9248 likewise, there was a micro pause and that's what came to mind before even seeing the comments
Argh, about $600 worth of books I want to buy but can't afford! Argh. Grrr. Oh. Okay, I'm ready to watch now.
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Im so not laughing. My gosh.ok that made since at um Arnold swortinager.
It’s very worrying that analysts seem only to view negative feelings as transference. It negates the possibility that people enter into an unknown situation and find it unhelpful. Analytic ideas are pseudoscience and it is reasonable for people to feel resistant to a strange dogma. Videos like this show the aggrandising indulgence of analysts and the highly problematic culture of certitude that they know the mind of people better than they know themselves. It is NOT always transference. Sadly this dangerous power dynamic can lead to people being pressured to continue in what can be a damaging situation. It certainly was for me. Like being in bind that you are being misunderstood whether you continue or leave. The confusion remains long after for many. As a field they show no interest in harm.
This video is awful. This dude seems proud of being the “daddy"
I have a “half-sister” that can probably really benefit from a therapist like this... if she will ever be open to receiving help and not in complete denial, who knows,, my moms side of the family don’t even try to help her because she’s such a crazy bitch along with them that if anyone try’s to comfort her or bring up these issues to help she always go into crazy manic crying wrinkly fucked up face and whatever it’s like her defence mechanism is to get all the attention and act like she completely hates that side of it and she’s bipolar so I’m sure she’s out doing crazy shit to try and deal with it the wrong way lol but she was extremely sensitive to issues involving my father growing up who was obviously her step-father for many years,
She started dating in her teens and it progressively became worse and worse the types of guys she would chase after, will do anything for, my parents got divorced when I was 14 and she was 21,... she used to have a little bit of beauty when she was younger but between my parents divorce and losing the connection with my dad, that and her never ending string of god knows whatever the hell is going on in her relationships,
Anyways she basically looks like female golem now, weird balding, patchy thin hair, no eyebrows, saggy gross skin, very extremely thin, her forehead wrinkles among the other wrinkles are hideous to look at, her teeth that my parents spent over 80k dollars fixing in her teens she never took care of and they have been absessed and other stuff, the ones she has left are rotting out of her skull,,,
Anyways she also has a mental disability her whole life and seriously sensitive to these father issues so she will do anything to conform with whatever loser friends she can manage to find - usually ones that will tell her she looks good or something in a Facebook picture or idk keep her in denial and take advantage of her somehow, it’s fucked yo ...
because of her mental disability / slow problem too she is even more desperate to come across like a “normal” person , she goes from job to job to job not because she enjoys work, or whatever work she likes, just because my loser mother has instilled in her so bad that having a job and money is one of the only things that makes her or anyone valuable,,,, she has had like 6 different minimum wage jobs in a year before .... she enjoys coming home and telling us how she had an interview or got a call back or got a job more that she actually enjoys keeping a job and whatever...... when she is not working she is always desperately hanging off the shoulder of some loser ugly boyfriend who very commonly asks her to wear his camouflage jacket for some reason, don’t ask me, but it’s a fucking pattern..... and other than that she just sits at home and weirdly watches episodes of law and order: special victims unit all day long.... like specifically to watch the bad parts or the victim mentality like when the girls act out crying over things like rape and abuse..
It’s absolutely pervasive and disgusting and I have had to put up being around her and my mother who endorses this behaviour as fine as long as she has a job at a coffee shop or some shit...
She is now dating some weird dude who was convicted of a sexual offence against a minor and I have had to eat a family dinner with these three freaks before, no sane person in the house except me. She is a compulsive liar ... if she feels guilty about something or knows she did something wrong and is asked for the truth..... she will deny deny lie lie and lie until little bits of truth are slowly brought out twisting her story until finally she once again falls into a manic ugly cry like one of her law and order victim actors and tells her side of the story
They both need fucking help, so if your a psychotherapist and specialize in this please do message me lol at least for some info on how to protect myself from these crazy bitches
I think they may have only gotten the British side of their DNA line?? Maybe it’s a British thing? Not all brits obviously but certain ones apparently....
I have the slavian part of my grandfather along with the French and indigenous sides of my father... some other stuff I’m sure but I never took a 23 and me test, I don’t trust those stupid things..
Anyways I always had goldeny tan skin growing up, olive if you will whatever....
I have dark dark almost black brown eyes, when the camera flashes in some of my pictures when I was a kid my eyes looked green behind,,,, and often I had the cat eyes reflective look
Eye colour is fixed in children once they hit the age of 6 months or so apparently and if you have certain DNA you will be born first with already a bunch of set melanin in your eyes
Over the years my eyes have increasingly become more gross and green .. pretty much completely green except for a ring of central heterochromia of brown left around my iris... it’s affected me among other things in many ways..
Someone told me they are reptilians lol... a friend I once had actually first mentioned the concept to me.... she however brought it up regarding Hollywood during an Oscar show or some crap we were watching at the time where she said reptilians run the world..... she was from Lebanon ( we live in Canada ) and her family was quite religious ( a mix of Canadian Christian beliefs and some Muslim beliefs ( like saying masha allah( gods will) when you feel someone is impeding on your destiny or something I think) so I felt like she knew more about “superstitious” or religious beliefs than I do as I grew up in an agnostic/atheistic household.... I knew there were many wars going on over in countries with these types of heritages so I felt she must be closer lineage wise to some answers and protections from people who were narcissistic or crazy... she also didn’t typically go to church or anything too crazy so I respected her opinion more ( my upbringing being an atheist).
Anyways... that side of my moms family very well maybe reptilians... if there is such a thing.. not sure exactly what it means.... but I think it has more to do with being half-brained or half-souls in a way.... they are very narcissisticly triangulated with their groups of people and who they victimize ....
and related to math the triangle has half amount of total degrees on this inside as it does on the outside (180 on inside, 360 on outside) I think this means they are half souls / minds, and their outward appearance is shape shifting dependant on their inside mood..... normal “people” “whole-souls”.... are more like squares, (360 on inside and 360 on outside). I’m sure you know a square is much more stable and solid and harder to move than a triangle, as a triangle can be pushed in certain ways to roll like a blocky wheel if you can picture it...... a square you can’t just push over and change....
Then again in architecture in grade 5 I was taught that triangles were the best shape for building bridges and towers and stuff..... often they will put a beam across the shape of a square to instil more support .....however they can’t exist in these blueprints without the squares really
Something to think about
Perhaps there is a place of the 4th dimension ,,, the lower fourth or something,,, perhaps there are beings sent to earth ... to feed off our energies and establish control over our world ... “half-brained”. Or “half-souls” perhaps.....
in Islam they are called djinn / genie.... they are destined to spend eternity in a type of “hell” that they cannot evolve from and are extremely envious and hateful of humans for their potential to evolve and live harmoniously.....
Maybe they do have control of our world... like the triangle illuminate crazy hype.....tempting us as they self-righteously judge us based on what they consider wrong or right.... trying to drain us of half of our minds/souls.... turning us into half beings like them.... whether they are doing this so damn ya to the same place they come from.... or doing it so they can continue there crap agenda on earth and think our destiny to live happy healthy lives isn’t as important as their need to breed and crap... perhaps they are aliens , not heaven or hell religious crap..... maybe they are the last evolved type of creature before us humans... run off the need to breed and dominate or be submissive...... trying to desperately breed in with us “squares” and gain our “powers” while still maintaining control
Maybe they are meant to have control by some divine plan ,,,, like the creepy rothschilds that own most of the money they have weird demeanours and creepy blue eyes.....
are they supposed to be in control ? Tempting us? Do we really have free will?
I return to my atheism and say fuck that system of propaganda... thinking that they are sent here by some divine plan is exactly the self doubt in our own will and crap-belief system that will make someone like that feel like I can be taken advantage of.. or are they like cro-magnans... desperately obsessed with our spiritual beliefs and roots of our ancestry that the only way people have grown to socially defend themselves against these creeps is by choosing a belief because they are supersticious?? Only afraid of god and death... cowards if you will....guilty cowards..
Perhaps there is a correlation between the “reptilian” conspiracy and the “Adam and Eve snake conspiracy” from the bible where the woman is associated with the snake...
Then there is also Pandora’s box ..... also associated with a woman who opened the “box” to something and was forced to keep a secret...
A wise older man once also told me that “ignorance is bliss”. And “all women are dogs”
So I really do think there is a force trying to tempt us.... I’m a very curious cat by nature.... and really need to drill into my skull that ignorance is bliss 😁 whether it is strictly a man/woman thing or a DNA thing, I think more DNA , and. Cultures that have been drawn towards idealizations of rape and domination / submission ... stuff like that, really splits the soul in a sense.... I’m a romantic at heart.. but I do watch pornography... and it’s rarely kisses and cuddling or even foreplay
Also men with brown eyes are known to have up to 300 or so molecules of iron atoms or whatnot in their eyes when even women who have brown eyes only have the maximum potential for half that
I also have read about magnetic fields... energy... positive and negative and stuff...... indigenous beliefs and the effects of trauma on the “soul” and “soul fragments” and stuff, where there are shamans that can access these dimensions to retrieve parts of your soul that you are missing and return them to you... I very much like that type of belief system if any....
I believe the real wars that are propagated in the media have more to do with this type of energy trade (aura, dreams, astral travel, mid-brain and frontal lobe and iron), I was setup as a child to be victimized and go through life with confused fear and highly reactive to trauma and bullying even though I am a fighter... I was always very protective of my root chakra and butthole in like a ready to kill anyone that tries to rape me kind of way, as weird as that sounds, ( but been having trouble with that chakra lately after I was forced into such a confused state through dreams and social interactions that I conceeded in my mother about childhood sexual abuse,,, asked her if she knew anything about me being abused and she was being all fake and stupid pretending to care ... really just grabbing my tears of confusion and placing them in her purse wallet is what it felt like her eyes were saying at the time...
Either way please don’t be a naive person and ... either way “ignorance is bliss”
Dude the hatred and distain you have for your half sister is clear. It sounds like both of you had difficulties but like you are fine and she needs help. She is now less attractive, she has horrible partners, she is bipolar.
Her life style was formed from what she experienced as a kid. I won't even pretend to analyze her from your view of her on here.
It feels like you also have low self worth and need her to the black sheep to make you feel better about yourself? I think you would also benefit from therapy. I don't mean that in an offensive way either but in a genuine way. You sound like you are projecting a lot in this post. It's easier to point the finger at someone who is struggling more than you. By doing that it shows your own insecurities.
Troubled family members are NOT created from perfectly healthy family systems.
@@Martin-zr2tb are u still alive?
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"I forget what the event was"
What kind of therapist would forget such a pivotal moment? He is incompetent.
If you have been a therapist for a long time then you have had a lot of patients. You are going to catalogue things that really stick out. I think that I would not be able to recall a lot of important moments in even my most important clients. My psychologist is amazing, who I am so grateful for, forgets important things that have happened in our sessions. We've had 50 sessions 90 minute sessions, and he has probably had over a thousand different clients. I'm not surprised.
so there is hope🥹