This. If you have asked him in the past if he has kids and he said no….then he is hiding that baby. If he is hiding his own baby then that’s a big red flag 🚩
Obviously a lot of single people have kids these days - before marriage I purposely avoided dating someone that already had kids because while I like kids I didn’t want to deal with their mother (because there aren't many instances I've seen where that is a good situation) and I didn’t want my future finances to potentially be impacted by someone having to pay child support. I would be pretty salty if I was a month into dating someone and they hadn't told me because that would have wasted a month of my time.
You can't pay child support via venmo. Courts don't allow that. She should probably ask before jumping to conclusions. He may have been "not the father". That absolutely could be the case because you can't pay child support via on your own. It goes through a court period. This did more harm than good. The child is clearly not in his life for whatever reason. I would absolutely ask questions before you jump. This is crazy to judge someone based on this.
This is actually not true! You can do it almost every way you can pay everything else. Maybe where you’re at, just isn’t there yet. Some people will just get it taken out of there check automatically , but alas
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Wow! Run girl!! If he will lie about and hide a CHILD what else will he lie about!!
This. If you have asked him in the past if he has kids and he said no….then he is hiding that baby.
If he is hiding his own baby then that’s a big red flag 🚩
Obviously a lot of single people have kids these days - before marriage I purposely avoided dating someone that already had kids because while I like kids I didn’t want to deal with their mother (because there aren't many instances I've seen where that is a good situation) and I didn’t want my future finances to potentially be impacted by someone having to pay child support. I would be pretty salty if I was a month into dating someone and they hadn't told me because that would have wasted a month of my time.
Definitely a red flag
Other fish are in the sea
If the roles were reversed then all hell would break loose on the guy
You can't pay child support via venmo. Courts don't allow that. She should probably ask before jumping to conclusions. He may have been "not the father". That absolutely could be the case because you can't pay child support via on your own. It goes through a court period. This did more harm than good. The child is clearly not in his life for whatever reason. I would absolutely ask questions before you jump. This is crazy to judge someone based on this.
Yes you can. My ex pays via Zelle; Venmo was also an option.
This is actually not true! You can do it almost every way you can pay everything else. Maybe where you’re at, just isn’t there yet. Some people will just get it taken out of there check automatically , but alas