I think people need to chill with having to go on dates and make it special. The fun part of beeing with someone is beeing able to stay at home in pyjamas watch series and play games, order food and feel like it was the best day ever because you did it with someone you love. Apreciate tha daily things like just huging and cuddling, that's still a way to try and show love.
I am sorry but I don’t agree :) out of the 365 days, we do exactly that. Come home from work, and then maybe cook something or order food and then watch some TV and go to bed. So in my opinion it is so important to plan dates on weekends or take a day off to treat your relationship to something different and maybe adventurous 😊
It’s weird how I feel I am catching up with a friend when I notice you post a vid on RUclips, even though we don’t know each other. Thank you as always for showing such wholesome vlogs 😊 And I pray your dream to be a Mumma and start a family will happen, because you both are going to be great parents. Xx
i hope to see you and jake have a kid,move to a beautiful cozy home together and pls dont stop talking about whatever is in ur mind aka kids in this case cause this is what i love seeing in ur content !!!
Loved listening to Jake talk about the housing in Korea and the history around it, it’s really insightful and interesting to include something a little more educational in your videos
I wanted to cry after watching the video. Finding your soulmate is big luck and I'm so happy that you found him.. I also had a foreign boyfriend so I feel you guys :') It's so important to make that decision as to where you gonna live in the future. If your partner doesn't want to live in your country you can't move on with the relationship as I did. After watching the video I realized that I made the right decision by breaking up with him because he didn't respect my country, my nationality. He had a prejudgement and he didn't even visit my country.
Hi, Sissel! It’s always so nice to watch your videos❤ Fortunately, my Korean in-laws are not pushy either… I am already 40 and I have never felt the call to be a mother, although I do love children (but being the eldest sister, I know that having your own kids is an entirely different matter as I saw both my parents working so hard for me and my 3 siblings). In Argentina and Latin America in general, it is very common for people to push others and make comments about others having to have kids, but nowadays people have become aware of the fact it is a very delicate topic and awareness is being raised about it, so not pushy family members are greatly appreciated 💕 At the end of the day, it is the couple who has to decide according to their wishes and possibilities❤ We are also thinking about where we will live in the future, and probably we will choose Korea since Argentina is not a good option as it is always under some kind of crisis 😅 According to my birth chart and the configurations of my planets (astrology believer here), by 2026 I will move abroad… but right now we are in Buenos Aires🇦🇷 I love the fact that you want to keep dating and I congratulate you both on that❤ Big hugs and looking forward to your next video🤗🤗🤗
I appreciate you talking about kids and future plans, especially because my boyfriend and I are kind of in the same situation as you guys. We're talking about moving, getting married and all that stuff and idk after I've turned 25 the same thing you mentioned with like imagening bringing kids to places which seem magical to me and what i would have loved as a kid, it happens sooo frequently - so nice to hear someone else talking about it ahaha. Derudover tak for dine vlogs, sætter pris på dem og også at du faktisk svarer på folks kommentarer ahah 😁 dejlig dag til jer ❤
I've been watching you growing since the make up videos, so I'm truly happy and proud of you Sis that despite having a different goal in mind moving to Seoul you overcame yourself with what life sent you and even found your love ! Wishing you both more wonderful memories and a great journey ahead in life! Thank you for the warmest videos ever! ❤Supporting you always! 💌
I love that you are very open in having kids. Most comments I see online always says "preserve your life quality, do not have kids!" It's hard having a baby but I don't get why other people seem to despise them. I myself didn't have a baby until now and was married for 9 yrs. I really wasn't against having a child but I also didn't force it. I enjoyed my life without a baby but I am the happiest now that I have her.
Yeah I feel like there’s lots of hostility from both sides towards different opinions and it’s a shame we can’t just all appreciate and accept our personal choices 💚🙊
I'm not sure if I can word this right but I just wanted to say I love the way you portray your relationship. I've watched you for awhile now and as a Swedish person living in Korea for the past few years and in a long term relationship I feel like I've related the most to yours. Of course I know we are only seeing bits and pieces of your lives, but I often feel that my relationships gets treated as wow you're foreign and he's Korean from some people when that's not why we started dating each other or what attracted us to each other either. And always when I watch your vlogs with your husband it feels very much just this is your husband, yes you have struggles as an international couple ofc, but also it's just a very happy and loving real relationship between two people who love each other.
My son lives in Busan now but has been in Korea for 9 years. He is Canadian and has dated two amazing Korean women. He loves the culture and the people. I am visiting for the first time in 2024 and I have not seen my son for 5 years. I am enjoying your channel.
I love that you write the Korean version of the places to visit, I recently learned how to read Korean. It definitely helps me practice and not lose It ♥️
I also never imagined having a relationship with someone from another country… it’s wild where life can take you. I also understand all the added struggles with all the added paperwork, such a headache but it’s all worth it. I look forward to seeing how your life unfolds.❤
honestly I just discovered your channel and watching this video makes me want to watch more!! It’s such a comfortable space ❤❤ lots of love from Canada-!! ❤❤😊😊
I Love your vlogs so much, they always make my day! I’m so excited to see what the future holds for you and Jake, you guys are going to be great parents.
This is my favourite vlog ever... Thank you for both being so genuine... The bit about being connected to your inner child resonates as I realised I've been ignoring mine and she needs some TLC... Much love from Tasmania, Australia
I love your vlogs Sissel. You are so open and sincere with your comments. It makes me happy watching and listening to you as you talk about your life on Seoul. Thank you 😊💕
A vlog full of sweetness as always 💕 loved hearing about all your perspective on marriage and the importance of still putting in the effort and going on dates! It is so true that many people around the world decide that after marriage not to try anymore which is kinda sad 🥺 even when having kids it's important to make the time since kids need to see their parents love on each other! 💕
I'm so glad to be back. I have been away for school and it feels like im coming back home to catch up with an old friend and so much has happened since I have been away and i'm so happy for you guys. Merry Christmas and happy new year in advance.❤
Such a beautiful vlog like always 💚 if you ever come to berlin/europe, would u consider doing like a picnic meet n greet or something of sorts? Would be so nice to meet this beautiful community one day:) also I went to the Paloma wool pop up when it was happening here in berlin and I loooved all their pieces as well (also bought a skirt!) thank u also for sharing your thoughts about where to raise ur kids and where to live in the future etc. 🌸 my boyfriend and I (who I also consider the love of my life) also have these kind of doubts/uncertainties bc we’re split between Chile and Germany 😅 so hearing you makes me feel comprehended 🧸 lots of love
Yeah international relationships aren’t easy due to many different reasons, but love is love and you just gotta do what you gotta do 🥹💚 actually I’m going back to Europe next week! Excited to share with you all soon 💚
I have been with my partner for 8 years, and I have been harassed, in a loving way, by every person we have ever met to have children. I don't know if it's curiosity from people. My husband is Irish and I'm Central American. Or they are just bring pushy because we have been together for so long. Being Latin my family has always demanded me to have children but I am too selfish. I like being with myself doing whatever I want whenever I want. But not going to lie I sometimes get curious myself. His family is the same way honestly. Honestly is it it wrong to not want children but want them at the same time? I have 3 fur babies and I don't think I'm ready for human babies.
I am sorry for you that you are being pushed 🙈 I have been with my partner for 7 years, but we have never been asked the kids question. Maybe it’s because I just graduated from university and no one with a clear mind would expect us to have a baby while I’m a student or as a recently graduated 😂 but i also can’t really imagine having kids. I like the romanticised idea of it, but I don’t think I will be having kids within the next 5 years. I want to build my career first and then maybe one day I will be ready for a child.
I’m so sorry to hear about that! That must be extremely uncomfortable and I definitely thing you used the right word describing it as harassment. It can even make you doubt your own feelings which is very uncomfortable.. my only advice is that if there’s some tiny though of kids in your mind deep down to just go and freeze your eggs if it’s accessible to you. Tell no one who’s usually nagging you tho… anyways, again I’m sorry to hear about all of this! I wish you two the best 💚💚💚
I am also engaged and also have terrible baby fever 🤒 😂😂 we are on the same boat ! Also is from another nationality (he taught me his language) (also different ethnicity) and locations, schooling method, International school from my country, a lot more come into the picture if I had just dated someone from my own country. Even jokes I have to explain or cannot explain due to language barrier. It’s very fulfilling!
Whew, that’s a whole deal! But isn’t love just so beautiful that we’ll gladly go through all of these stresses? 💚 sending you lots of love and baby energy haha
Love get to see your vid again. I follow but somehow I dont see it on my feed even with notification turn on. Thanks for being so real, funny and sharing aww love how the vid went. Your path seem so fun now. I get you about not marrying nationality. Im Asian and moved to the U.S.❤😂
the paloma wool bag matching your outfit? yes 👌 we are not tired of baby talk, so don´t worry 😊 you and Jake, always a pleasure to listen 😍 seriously, can i steal your friends? so lovely to see such an inspiring group of women ✨
I love your videos! Yours and Cari make such calming and peaceful videos I love to watch. I love how you talk to us while walking the streets of Seoul. 🧡
Thank you for sharing! I really enjoy your videos, so warm.❤ And oh my God, I need to go to Seoul Forest with my kid It's so pretty there ❤ The biggest thing I miss after moving to Seoul is that I don't see that many people with children here and it's a bit harder to make friends with other parents (and help the baby to make friends and sociolize). I've never been to Denmark, but I think it sounds amazing to live there as well!
Most young kid families are living in high rise apartment communities ! There are mothers and kids everywhere where I live and on the playgrounds, it seems to be where most socializing happens. It’s a bit harder in villas unless there are playgrounds and schools nearby 💚
I’m glad you had the kids topic, a lot of couples on you tube are sensitive about the subject either they are having fertility issues or some just don’t want kids which is sad. Thank you for opening up to us.
It would really suck if I met someone from another country I really liked in my home country and entered into a relationship, only to find out that one of her dealbreakers is that we would have to live in her country sometime in the future, so kudos to Jake for his willingness. Personally, while I love visiting other countries. having to permanently relocate would be too overwhelming because I’m too used to the environment and way of life in my country. So uprooting all of that and having to virtually start over somewhere else is quite daunting, even if I really like that person. It really underscores the importance of bringing this up in the very early stages of dating.
I would move to Denmark is it were more affordable than Korea. If Jakes Dad and Mom are willing to move also that would be great. It is important to live where your current lifestyle is supported. Of course Korea is very pro child and does a lot to support new parents.
Denmark definitely is much more expensive, but it’s my country and I would want to raise my kids at some point there. Perhaps when the first will attend school. It’s very important to me. Unfortunately immigrating to Denmark is very hard for foreigners so that’ll be a challenge 💚
As a person of a religious and a "conservative" background, I always wondered if for people who lived with eachother for years without marriage, is it really different after marriage , I mean they get to go through everything together, what difference does it make?? is it just the commitment, cause I can see it for people who never lived together to move in with someone after marriage and get to see the real them, anyways I'm genuinely curious! don't come at me :D
Totally perfectly normal and very encouraged here to be curious ! Actually what I found the biggest change was just different expectations from each other, our families and society! Usually when you get married officially lots of things change like health care, banking loans, visas, etc 💚
@@sisselab oh I see, on the bright side people who already lived together have a lot of other issues sorted out and by that I mean getting to know someone's everyday habits, sexual life, boundaries... in your case you get to focus on other also as important things in life, well i wish you luck and hope you have a happy marriage life
Hi! This is my “gaming” account, I’ve just discovered your channel after waking up super randomly super hungry hahaa. Your videos are so enjoyable and such a good vibe. Imagine my surprise hearing you play Genshin hahahaha All the best xx
I loved Denmark so much and I agree it seems like a beautiful place to raise a family. I would have gladly volunteered as tribute for marriage and raising a family in Denmark 😂 jk. Much love, Sissel 💚 great vlog as always.
Hi Sissel, I am an elderly woman from France country side and I am a bit accro to kdramas lol so I am very interesting in Korea in general and concerned by the way of kids living.they seem to be only studying till late at night and don’t have a lot of fun , Denmark has a much better reputation for raising children. Parents seem obsessed by university in Korea. I understand It’s a big question for you both. Thank you for your videos I love everything you do and learn a lot ❤❤❤
Hey Sissel, have you ever thought about becoming a Family vlogger? There are many mixed reactions from youtubers to keeping their baby´s identity private or putting them into videos. How do you feel about this, since this is such a huge topic of Jake and yourself.
I like the new sofa table. I have been looking for sth suitable for my house forever and there is just nothing comparable here in Germany. Two of the Koreatubers I follow have sofatables I would like, but I can’t find anything like that here. You and 2hearts1seoul ^^
Having a child brings the whole date situation to non existant other than your child sleeps early and you aren't too exhausted from the day then you maybe have a drink and talk. But other than that. Everything needs to be planned out according to the childs needs. Especially, who takes care of the child, do they know the needs of the child etc etc. And something I thought would be possible but totally isn't. You can't go on dates with your child. Having your child around is always stressful... Just so you know and are prepared before getting pregnant and a child. I wished someone told me beforehand 😅
Actually I prefer people not to tell me how it will be for us, I keep hearing so many different stories of how couples fare becoming parents and I would much rather not expect anything beforehand 💚 however it’ll be, it’s a blessing
You guys are really lucky with your families being so caring & supportive. And since your only goal to come to korea was to develop a career it's lovely to see that it all came naturally. About feeling the pressure of having kids & being married to a foreign man: my first marriage was with a mexican and actually - it was the complete opposite. Nothing came/felt naturally. Weeks before getting married his family was already pressuring me/us with us having kids, saying things like: "on honeymoon you gotta give it your everything" etc. And it became worse, the expectations went through the roof after getting married. To be honest - I believe this pressure played a huge part in why our marriage failed. We both weren't ready to have kids & also he showed no interest whatsoever in moving to my home country. Not even for a few years. Mexico is a dangerous place. If we'd had kids I would have wanted to raise them in a safe country after all. Needless to say: it never happened. You are so blessed to have a husband at your side (+ his family) that does not shy back from the thought of you raising your kids abroad, even if that would mean sacrificing precious time in which they (his parents) wouldn't be able to see them (your kids), because travelling back & forth isn't always possible. I'm looking forward to see you guys taking your future steps together. I feel so grateful to you & your vlogs, they do provide some sort of inner peace to me every time I get to watch them 😘
good afternoon, thank you, a very natural and beautiful video, here's very sincere, transparent, that's how I perceive it, take care of yourself, always be happy, greetings from Maria
Lovely cozy video ☺️ Being a mum of 2 and not a content creator its a doubt i have about kids and social media. Will u show your kids on your videos? Is something that you think about it? I follow many asian couples and mostly decided to protect their kids privacy and such and i totally understand that. Just curious about your thoughts on this and Jake’s of course. 😘
It’s something I’ve thought about a loooot yes.. I won’t be blurring my child’s face but they won’t grow up with a camera in their face. This channel is about me, and probably will be changing into me as a mother, but it will never be a family channel. I also will be very selective with the moments I choose to share of the baby. However, this might change when I do become a mother, I don’t know but I’ll follow my heart when the time comes 💚
What do you mean, "you dont know why?" you got into that line quickly? Isnt your friend a literal model and or famous ish person? Pretty sure THATS why you got in in front of all the "peasants" lol. (Im a "peasant" so im just kidding btw). But youre friends with an influencer so thats obviously why lol and i dont think you should play that down. Just be open about it. Looks like a fun time, glad you had fun!!! Love your personality, you seem like such a sweet and gentle soul. ❤
Bravi che siete progettate far figli e una cosa stupenda far famiglia lui sicuramente sarà un papà bravo e amatevi sempre vi tifo x voi la mia amica e uba coreana troppo forte vi saluto amo la corea ciaooo
70년대 법죄율이 높다는거는 좀 이해가 안가네요...안전했었습니다. 그 당시는 소매치기 같은게 좀 있었고...저도 그 시기를 살았던 사람이라 동네 문 다 열어 놓고 살던 시기 입니다. 오히려 그당시는 이웃간의 교류가 많았던 시기 입니다. 동네에 따라 조금 높았던 곳이 있을 수 있었는데...절도범들도 좀 있었던거 같아요..
our choices aren’t affected by that, why should it? There are many reasons why koreas population is shrinking, the most obvious being that the government has created an environment where people don’t want to raise kids in. So we will leave at some point 💚
Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.- Barack Obama
@@kranked3363does not work for this situation. this country is not optimized for a fulfilling life for many people, that’s the governments fault not the peoples
great vlog 14:16 if you had a editor he would probleby add this video of Shia LaBeouf in, you know this " DO IT JUST DO IT,, 🤭🤭🤭😇. Parenting Is A Lifelong Commitment just like you both with your parents ones you have kids there will be less dates so i think its not wrong to have kids later you both are still very young
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I think people need to chill with having to go on dates and make it special. The fun part of beeing with someone is beeing able to stay at home in pyjamas watch series and play games, order food and feel like it was the best day ever because you did it with someone you love. Apreciate tha daily things like just huging and cuddling, that's still a way to try and show love.
we do that a LOT and we love it, but nothing makes us happier than adventure outside 💚
Nah we do that all the times - having days or afternoon outsides with activities with what I love the most with my fiancé
I am sorry but I don’t agree :) out of the 365 days, we do exactly that. Come home from work, and then maybe cook something or order food and then watch some TV and go to bed. So in my opinion it is so important to plan dates on weekends or take a day off to treat your relationship to something different and maybe adventurous 😊
That does it too. But have you ever been in a long-term relationship? It’s vital to put in the effort regularly and date your partner.
@@user-rk4jy3lj1c yes, i have been in a relationship for 10 years.
It’s weird how I feel I am catching up with a friend when I notice you post a vid on RUclips, even though we don’t know each other. Thank you as always for showing such wholesome vlogs 😊 And I pray your dream to be a Mumma and start a family will happen, because you both are going to be great parents. Xx
Thank you SO much, this made me very happy to read 💚
i hope to see you and jake have a kid,move to a beautiful cozy home together and pls dont stop talking about whatever is in ur mind aka kids in this case cause this is what i love seeing in ur content !!!
Awwwwwww thank you so much 💚
Loved listening to Jake talk about the housing in Korea and the history around it, it’s really insightful and interesting to include something a little more educational in your videos
Definitely will do 💚🫶🏼
I wanted to cry after watching the video. Finding your soulmate is big luck and I'm so happy that you found him.. I also had a foreign boyfriend so I feel you guys :') It's so important to make that decision as to where you gonna live in the future. If your partner doesn't want to live in your country you can't move on with the relationship as I did. After watching the video I realized that I made the right decision by breaking up with him because he didn't respect my country, my nationality. He had a prejudgement and he didn't even visit my country.
I’m so sorry to hear that… that must’ve been heart breaking for you love 💚 your match is out there!
Hi, Sissel! It’s always so nice to watch your videos❤
Fortunately, my Korean in-laws are not pushy either… I am already 40 and I have never felt the call to be a mother, although I do love children (but being the eldest sister, I know that having your own kids is an entirely different matter as I saw both my parents working so hard for me and my 3 siblings). In Argentina and Latin America in general, it is very common for people to push others and make comments about others having to have kids, but nowadays people have become aware of the fact it is a very delicate topic and awareness is being raised about it, so not pushy family members are greatly appreciated 💕 At the end of the day, it is the couple who has to decide according to their wishes and possibilities❤
We are also thinking about where we will live in the future, and probably we will choose Korea since Argentina is not a good option as it is always under some kind of crisis 😅 According to my birth chart and the configurations of my planets (astrology believer here), by 2026 I will move abroad… but right now we are in Buenos Aires🇦🇷
I love the fact that you want to keep dating and I congratulate you both on that❤ Big hugs and looking forward to your next video🤗🤗🤗
That’s beautiful ! I’m very happy for you and your satisfaction with your personal choices 💚
I love how open and transparent you are and seeing you and jacob enjoy this chapter of your life is so fullfilling! Sending love from Argentina ❤
Thanks love 💚
I appreciate you talking about kids and future plans, especially because my boyfriend and I are kind of in the same situation as you guys. We're talking about moving, getting married and all that stuff and idk after I've turned 25 the same thing you mentioned with like imagening bringing kids to places which seem magical to me and what i would have loved as a kid, it happens sooo frequently - so nice to hear someone else talking about it ahaha.
Derudover tak for dine vlogs, sætter pris på dem og også at du faktisk svarer på folks kommentarer ahah 😁 dejlig dag til jer ❤
Tusind tak! 💚 åh det er en spændende tid for dig også! Alt held og Lykke og kærlighed her fra 💚
The cinematography of your videos is amazing
Awww thank you 💚💚
I've been watching you growing since the make up videos, so I'm truly happy and proud of you Sis that despite having a different goal in mind moving to Seoul you overcame yourself with what life sent you and even found your love ! Wishing you both more wonderful memories and a great journey ahead in life! Thank you for the warmest videos ever! ❤Supporting you always! 💌
Thank you sooo much for being here throughout all of that and continue to be such a lovely supporter. Thank you thank you thank you 💚💚💚
it's so beautiful to see how you guys have grown, as individuals and as a couple ❤️🥰
Aww thanks love 💚
I love that you are very open in having kids. Most comments I see online always says "preserve your life quality, do not have kids!" It's hard having a baby but I don't get why other people seem to despise them. I myself didn't have a baby until now and was married for 9 yrs. I really wasn't against having a child but I also didn't force it. I enjoyed my life without a baby but I am the happiest now that I have her.
Yeah I feel like there’s lots of hostility from both sides towards different opinions and it’s a shame we can’t just all appreciate and accept our personal choices 💚🙊
I'm not sure if I can word this right but I just wanted to say I love the way you portray your relationship. I've watched you for awhile now and as a Swedish person living in Korea for the past few years and in a long term relationship I feel like I've related the most to yours. Of course I know we are only seeing bits and pieces of your lives, but I often feel that my relationships gets treated as wow you're foreign and he's Korean from some people when that's not why we started dating each other or what attracted us to each other either. And always when I watch your vlogs with your husband it feels very much just this is your husband, yes you have struggles as an international couple ofc, but also it's just a very happy and loving real relationship between two people who love each other.
My son lives in Busan now but has been in Korea for 9 years. He is Canadian and has dated two amazing Korean women. He loves the culture and the people. I am visiting for the first time in 2024 and I have not seen my son for 5 years. I am enjoying your channel.
I love that you write the Korean version of the places to visit, I recently learned how to read Korean. It definitely helps me practice and not lose It ♥️
I glad !! It’s often easier to find on NAVER if you know the Korean name so that’s why I write it 💚
I also never imagined having a relationship with someone from another country… it’s wild where life can take you. I also understand all the added struggles with all the added paperwork, such a headache but it’s all worth it. I look forward to seeing how your life unfolds.❤
The intro is so sweet already, I love the warm mood 🥹🧡
Thank you love 🥰💚
honestly I just discovered your channel and watching this video makes me want to watch more!! It’s such a comfortable space ❤❤ lots of love from Canada-!! ❤❤😊😊
I Love your vlogs so much, they always make my day! I’m so excited to see what the future holds for you and Jake, you guys are going to be great parents.
Thank you so much 💚
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This is my favourite vlog ever... Thank you for both being so genuine... The bit about being connected to your inner child resonates as I realised I've been ignoring mine and she needs some TLC... Much love from Tasmania, Australia
That’s so sweet, thank you 💚
I love your vlogs Sissel. You are so open and sincere with your comments. It makes me happy watching and listening to you as you talk about your life on Seoul. Thank you 😊💕
Aww thanks for saying that love 💚
A vlog full of sweetness as always 💕 loved hearing about all your perspective on marriage and the importance of still putting in the effort and going on dates! It is so true that many people around the world decide that after marriage not to try anymore which is kinda sad 🥺 even when having kids it's important to make the time since kids need to see their parents love on each other! 💕
Absolutely, it brings us so much joy to channel that fresh love a date brings. Thanks love 💚
finally my fav youtuber posted!! love your videos so much ❤
Awww I’m blushing🙊💚
As I saw your stories, I was expecting a new video and ... there you are 💚✨ so far it's a very cute and slow video, love it !
Enjoy your day ✨
Thank you so much 💚💚
I'm so glad to be back. I have been away for school and it feels like im coming back home to catch up with an old friend and so much has happened since I have been away and i'm so happy for you guys. Merry Christmas and happy new year in advance.❤
Such a beautiful vlog like always 💚 if you ever come to berlin/europe, would u consider doing like a picnic meet n greet or something of sorts? Would be so nice to meet this beautiful community one day:) also I went to the Paloma wool pop up when it was happening here in berlin and I loooved all their pieces as well (also bought a skirt!) thank u also for sharing your thoughts about where to raise ur kids and where to live in the future etc. 🌸 my boyfriend and I (who I also consider the love of my life) also have these kind of doubts/uncertainties bc we’re split between Chile and Germany 😅 so hearing you makes me feel comprehended 🧸 lots of love
Yeah international relationships aren’t easy due to many different reasons, but love is love and you just gotta do what you gotta do 🥹💚 actually I’m going back to Europe next week! Excited to share with you all soon 💚
Maybe we should plan a little meet up for the Berlin community 😊
I would join too :) @@kenzanassiri9865
@@kenzanassiri9865 that would be so fun!
I was feeling so down and sad this past days but this video just made my day, thank you Sissel! 💚
I’m sorry to hear that love, I hope you’re feeling better 💚
I have been with my partner for 8 years, and I have been harassed, in a loving way, by every person we have ever met to have children.
I don't know if it's curiosity from people. My husband is Irish and I'm Central American. Or they are just bring pushy because we have been together for so long.
Being Latin my family has always demanded me to have children but I am too selfish. I like being with myself doing whatever I want whenever I want. But not going to lie I sometimes get curious myself. His family is the same way honestly.
Honestly is it it wrong to not want children but want them at the same time? I have 3 fur babies and I don't think I'm ready for human babies.
I am sorry for you that you are being pushed 🙈 I have been with my partner for 7 years, but we have never been asked the kids question. Maybe it’s because I just graduated from university and no one with a clear mind would expect us to have a baby while I’m a student or as a recently graduated 😂 but i also can’t really imagine having kids. I like the romanticised idea of it, but I don’t think I will be having kids within the next 5 years. I want to build my career first and then maybe one day I will be ready for a child.
I’m so sorry to hear about that! That must be extremely uncomfortable and I definitely thing you used the right word describing it as harassment. It can even make you doubt your own feelings which is very uncomfortable.. my only advice is that if there’s some tiny though of kids in your mind deep down to just go and freeze your eggs if it’s accessible to you. Tell no one who’s usually nagging you tho… anyways, again I’m sorry to hear about all of this! I wish you two the best 💚💚💚
I am also engaged and also have terrible baby fever 🤒 😂😂 we are on the same boat ! Also is from another nationality (he taught me his language) (also different ethnicity) and locations, schooling method, International school from my country, a lot more come into the picture if I had just dated someone from my own country. Even jokes I have to explain or cannot explain due to language barrier. It’s very fulfilling!
Whew, that’s a whole deal! But isn’t love just so beautiful that we’ll gladly go through all of these stresses? 💚 sending you lots of love and baby energy haha
I wish you the best in this new stage that you are going to begin in your married life, I wish you both the best 🫂🤍🇲🇽
Thanks love 💚
Love get to see your vid again. I follow but somehow I dont see it on my feed even with notification turn on. Thanks for being so real, funny and sharing aww love how the vid went. Your path seem so fun now. I get you about not marrying nationality. Im Asian and moved to the U.S.❤😂
Ah that’s so odd ! Hmm…. But thanks love 💚💚
the paloma wool bag matching your outfit? yes 👌
we are not tired of baby talk, so don´t worry 😊
you and Jake, always a pleasure to listen 😍
seriously, can i steal your friends? so lovely to see such an inspiring group of women ✨
as always a realistic and cozy video ❤
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I love your videos! Yours and Cari make such calming and peaceful videos I love to watch. I love how you talk to us while walking the streets of Seoul. 🧡
Thank you so much 🥹💚
Seoul Forest is soooo beautiful place! ❤
Thank you for sharing! I really enjoy your videos, so warm.❤ And oh my God, I need to go to Seoul Forest with my kid It's so pretty there ❤ The biggest thing I miss after moving to Seoul is that I don't see that many people with children here and it's a bit harder to make friends with other parents (and help the baby to make friends and sociolize). I've never been to Denmark, but I think it sounds amazing to live there as well!
Most young kid families are living in high rise apartment communities ! There are mothers and kids everywhere where I live and on the playgrounds, it seems to be where most socializing happens. It’s a bit harder in villas unless there are playgrounds and schools nearby 💚
I love watching your videos. You are so real. Love your personality. I think you and Jake are such a good couple. I wish you both all the best.
I SO agree on the “new houses lack soul”!!!
I’m glad you had the kids topic, a lot of couples on you tube are sensitive about the subject either they are having fertility issues or some just don’t want kids which is sad. Thank you for opening up to us.
I'm so here for the baby talk. I'm also starting to get baby crazy, hahaha
It would really suck if I met someone from another country I really liked in my home country and entered into a relationship, only to find out that one of her dealbreakers is that we would have to live in her country sometime in the future, so kudos to Jake for his willingness. Personally, while I love visiting other countries. having to permanently relocate would be too overwhelming because I’m too used to the environment and way of life in my country.
So uprooting all of that and having to virtually start over somewhere else is quite daunting, even if I really like that person. It really underscores the importance of bringing this up in the very early stages of dating.
you help me go through my dayy
aww 💚💚
I’m so glad for you!! Wish you the happiest life
oh this video gave me such cozy vibes it was so nice and relaxing :)
I've been following your videos since 2018 I can't believe you're already married😫😭
I would move to Denmark is it were more affordable than Korea. If Jakes Dad and Mom are willing to move also that would be great. It is important to live where your current lifestyle is supported. Of course Korea is very pro child and does a lot to support new parents.
Denmark definitely is much more expensive, but it’s my country and I would want to raise my kids at some point there. Perhaps when the first will attend school. It’s very important to me. Unfortunately immigrating to Denmark is very hard for foreigners so that’ll be a challenge 💚
love you sissel xo
As a person of a religious and a "conservative" background, I always wondered if for people who lived with eachother for years without marriage, is it really different after marriage , I mean they get to go through everything together, what difference does it make?? is it just the commitment, cause I can see it for people who never lived together to move in with someone after marriage and get to see the real them, anyways I'm genuinely curious! don't come at me :D
Totally perfectly normal and very encouraged here to be curious ! Actually what I found the biggest change was just different expectations from each other, our families and society! Usually when you get married officially lots of things change like health care, banking loans, visas, etc 💚
@@sisselab oh I see, on the bright side people who already lived together have a lot of other issues sorted out and by that I mean getting to know someone's everyday habits, sexual life, boundaries... in your case you get to focus on other also as important things in life, well i wish you luck and hope you have a happy marriage life
@@obg3260yes absolutely! I definitely personally love that we had 1,5 of living together before we got married 💚
Another amazing vlog. I really appreciate your love affair with amazing food , drink and fashion ❤
Hi! This is my “gaming” account, I’ve just discovered your channel after waking up super randomly super hungry hahaa. Your videos are so enjoyable and such a good vibe. Imagine my surprise hearing you play Genshin hahahaha
All the best xx
I loved Denmark so much and I agree it seems like a beautiful place to raise a family. I would have gladly volunteered as tribute for marriage and raising a family in Denmark 😂 jk. Much love, Sissel 💚 great vlog as always.
Hahaah girl me too, thanks love 💚
So happy for youuuuu
Thank you so much 💚🥹
Hi Sissel, I am an elderly woman from France country side and I am a bit accro to kdramas lol so I am very interesting in Korea in general and concerned by the way of kids living.they seem to be only studying till late at night and don’t have a lot of fun , Denmark has a much better reputation for raising children. Parents seem obsessed by university in Korea. I understand It’s a big question for you both. Thank you for your videos I love everything you do and learn a lot ❤❤❤
"Find your Oppa"😉😆
결혼후 현실적이고 일상적으로 맞이하는 얘기에 스며들었네요.😅
totally agree with Jake's dad
Ahhh I hope you’re loving it! 💚
Hey Sissel, have you ever thought about becoming a Family vlogger? There are many mixed reactions from youtubers to keeping their baby´s identity private or putting them into videos. How do you feel about this, since this is such a huge topic of Jake and yourself.
Definitely won’t be a family vlogger haha, still want to be very selective with how much I show of kids 💚
OMG did my two favesssss jussttt mettt ahckkk
Omg, yes Jake, even in Europe the pressue for having kids is so real xD. Got married a year ago and they are still asking why there are no kids yet 😅😅
I like the new sofa table. I have been looking for sth suitable for my house forever and there is just nothing comparable here in Germany. Two of the Koreatubers I follow have sofatables I would like, but I can’t find anything like that here. You and 2hearts1seoul ^^
💕 i can't believe you can walk around in shorts this time of year !! isn't it usually so cold on October? 🍂🍂🍂
Actually it’s super beautiful and comfortable weather these days! 22 during the day and 13 ish in the night 💚
Having a child brings the whole date situation to non existant other than your child sleeps early and you aren't too exhausted from the day then you maybe have a drink and talk. But other than that. Everything needs to be planned out according to the childs needs. Especially, who takes care of the child, do they know the needs of the child etc etc. And something I thought would be possible but totally isn't. You can't go on dates with your child. Having your child around is always stressful... Just so you know and are prepared before getting pregnant and a child. I wished someone told me beforehand 😅
Actually I prefer people not to tell me how it will be for us, I keep hearing so many different stories of how couples fare becoming parents and I would much rather not expect anything beforehand 💚 however it’ll be, it’s a blessing
You guys are really lucky with your families being so caring & supportive. And since your only goal to come to korea was to develop a career it's lovely to see that it all came naturally.
About feeling the pressure of having kids & being married to a foreign man: my first marriage was with a mexican and actually - it was the complete opposite. Nothing came/felt naturally. Weeks before getting married his family was already pressuring me/us with us having kids, saying things like: "on honeymoon you gotta give it your everything" etc. And it became worse, the expectations went through the roof after getting married. To be honest - I believe this pressure played a huge part in why our marriage failed. We both weren't ready to have kids & also he showed no interest whatsoever in moving to my home country. Not even for a few years. Mexico is a dangerous place. If we'd had kids I would have wanted to raise them in a safe country after all. Needless to say: it never happened.
You are so blessed to have a husband at your side (+ his family) that does not shy back from the thought of you raising your kids abroad, even if that would mean sacrificing precious time in which they (his parents) wouldn't be able to see them (your kids), because travelling back & forth isn't always possible.
I'm looking forward to see you guys taking your future steps together. I feel so grateful to you & your vlogs, they do provide some sort of inner peace to me every time I get to watch them 😘
lovely video! :)))
I love your videos❤ wish u would upload even more,hahaha😂
Mew i want a cinnamon bun now! I have a chocolate mousse cake but no cinnamon bun 🥲
How do you keep your makeup off of your white sweater/white clothing?
Just make sure not to touch it with my face haha 💚
good afternoon, thank you, a very natural and beautiful video, here's very sincere, transparent, that's how I perceive it, take care of yourself, always be happy, greetings from Maria
Thank you Maria 💚
Lovely cozy video ☺️
Being a mum of 2 and not a content creator its a doubt i have about kids and social media. Will u show your kids on your videos? Is something that you think about it? I follow many asian couples and mostly decided to protect their kids privacy and such and i totally understand that. Just curious about your thoughts on this and Jake’s of course. 😘
It’s something I’ve thought about a loooot yes.. I won’t be blurring my child’s face but they won’t grow up with a camera in their face. This channel is about me, and probably will be changing into me as a mother, but it will never be a family channel. I also will be very selective with the moments I choose to share of the baby. However, this might change when I do become a mother, I don’t know but I’ll follow my heart when the time comes 💚
What do you mean, "you dont know why?" you got into that line quickly? Isnt your friend a literal model and or famous ish person? Pretty sure THATS why you got in in front of all the "peasants" lol. (Im a "peasant" so im just kidding btw). But youre friends with an influencer so thats obviously why lol and i dont think you should play that down. Just be open about it. Looks like a fun time, glad you had fun!!! Love your personality, you seem like such a sweet and gentle soul. ❤
girl no it doesn’t work like that 🤣 the line was gone when we came back so we were able to get in
결혼했다고욧? 축하드려욧
감사합니다 ~ 💚
7:26 Where did get the Sweart shirt from?
Your home is so cute! Where is the sofa from 😊
Thank you! It’s from a Korean brand called Flat Point 💚
카메라가 어떤걸 사용하시는거지 하면서 1:26 에서 203 카메라 아무리 찾아도 안나옴. 곰곰히 생각해보니 반전이면 EOS 군요 ㅋㅋㅋ
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Not easy getting your non-eu spouse into Denmark !!
oh really? Do the rules differ in the EU? I'm in Germany and it was no problem bringing in my non-EU husband
Yeah… it’s so freaking difficult … 😭💚
Bravi che siete progettate far figli e una cosa stupenda far famiglia lui sicuramente sarà un papà bravo e amatevi sempre vi tifo x voi la mia amica e uba coreana troppo forte vi saluto amo la corea ciaooo
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시슬
점쟁이한테 점보러 갈때
봤는데 벌써 결혼했어???
대단하다 장하다 시슬
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결혼 축해해용 ~~~~~
결혼식은 형식일 뿐
둘이 행복하면 그게 최고
I am in the same situation as you and have same problem:(( For us Getting jobs for him is very difficult..
It’s not easy to move like that… I wish you the very best 💚
I love your red nails,
Thanks!! Just changed them today 🫢💚
@@sisselab Ow, they were so pretty ❤️
70년대에 살인등 강력 범죄율이 높았던게 아니라 서울에는 좀도둑이 있었죠.
시골에는 도둑이 없어서 문이 없는 집도 많았지만 서울에는 70대에는 도둑이 꽤 있었습니다.
YOU PLAY GENSHIN IMPACT OMG ?
Girl you’ve been sleeping! Hahaha 💚💚💚
Koreans are not ready to let you leave korea.
70년대 법죄율이 높다는거는 좀 이해가 안가네요...안전했었습니다. 그 당시는 소매치기 같은게 좀 있었고...저도 그 시기를 살았던 사람이라 동네 문 다 열어 놓고 살던 시기 입니다.
오히려 그당시는 이웃간의 교류가 많았던 시기 입니다. 동네에 따라 조금 높았던 곳이 있을 수 있었는데...절도범들도 좀 있었던거 같아요..
14:24: well that's great future contribution with the population declining xD
Korea's population is shrinking but you're going to Denmark and growing theirs? 🤪😜
our choices aren’t affected by that, why should it? There are many reasons why koreas population is shrinking, the most obvious being that the government has created an environment where people don’t want to raise kids in. So we will leave at some point 💚
Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.- Barack Obama
@@kranked3363does not work for this situation. this country is not optimized for a fulfilling life for many people, that’s the governments fault not the peoples
@@sisselab맞는말 하셨네요! 소득대비 주택가격은 미친수준! 결혼하려면 엄청난빗더미로 시작해야해서…❤
great vlog 14:16 if you had a editor he would probleby add this video of Shia LaBeouf in, you know this " DO IT JUST DO IT,, 🤭🤭🤭😇. Parenting Is A Lifelong Commitment just like you both with your parents ones you have kids there will be less dates so i think its not wrong to have kids later you both are still very young
So grateful for your continuous input on actual daily life
Also CINNABONS! They're my LIFE! 🥹🥹🥹😋😋
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red nail suits you!
Thanks! 💚
Ty for the video Sissel and all the efforts you put in them from an avid watcher in Paris💗🫶🏽
Thank YOU for watching 💚