Guys you must stop being angered about stupid things, if a girl or woman is cheating you that means she doesn't love you and it doesn't justify you to kill her. Just walk away and start your life with a person who will love you as your wishes.
They were cousins, his plan was to rob her of her inheritance from her mother's estate. What love and cheating are you referring to? They were close relatives with the victim.
The judge is doing his job and telling the acussed what he's supposed to tell him. If the accused is not explicitly told to bring every evidence that he might have and say whatever he wishes to say it might open loopholes for the acussed when he applies for the appeal that the judge didn't consider certain evidence or that new evidence has come up which would have compelled the judge to impose a different sentence if the new evidence was available at the time of sentence. The judge is actually closing all the loopholes, especially because the acussed didn't waste court's time and resources as he confessed and admitted guilt
He is crying because of the consequences of his actions. I don't see why he would cry when he killed and dismembered a young lady with a lot of potential.
I never ever Judge anyone ever what this guy did was horrible no two ways about that. He is a graduate therefore he is dedicated and focused and wanted to be someone in life, he is a very angry human being, he dated his cousin. This picture is very sad confusing and unfortunate. I wish I know what happened to make him this type of a man. We create these monsters this is a societal problem. What issues did he have in life? What did the family feel and say about this particular relationship? Do many questions let's wait and see maybe during the mitigation of sentence.
He could be crying because of his impending fate as you correctly put it or he could be crying because he’s also shocked and repelled by what he has done. Most killers say the most difficult part is not the actual killing but the constant and intrusive thoughts after the person has died.
@@tomngwenya3041 You have no right to mention intrusive thoughts because some people are struggling out there because of OCD, they have intrusive thoughts and they are on medication to prevent themselves from harming themselves or loved ones. A murder is A PLANNER! They plan how to murder, and how they will execute that without being held accountable for their crimes or by hiding evidence. Don’t you ever compare them with people who have mental health issues, YOU ARE WRONG
We need to learn that nobody owns any human being except the creator. We don’t own our children, how much more someone else’s son or daughter? If someone becomes too much for you, leave them! Take care of yourself, love yourself first. If someone has wronged you, leave them and go on with your life.
Indeed how dare he, here he is that he’s getting people to help him in mitigation sentence when the deceased was not defended. Our daughters are safe without him.
Absolutely. It seems this is the first time someone shows him that he is still human after all that transpired. Justice does not mean inhumane treatment, hence correctional services. The judge is a good good Father.
@@jackiemonyemoratho4190 So true, sometimes we get lost in life and take stupid permanent decisions. May the Lord's intervention heal all affected families.
Not everyone has access to counselling, in private it’s quite expensive and in government facilities most often it’s not professional psychologists who do the counselling, it’s just matriculants who received very limited training in counselling.
It's sad how a decision made out of rage can change one's life forever. I can't imagine what both families are going through, looking through the lense of parenthood: one family loosing a child to murder and the other loosing a child because of committing such a horrific crime. This case is so heartbreaking.
Such a young,educated man killing his ex lover cousin and disnembering her body !Where did did man get the courage and urge to do all that ?Was he on drugs or he is unitiated into Satanism ?I feel even his second Partner was going to be killed too !!Educated moron is this culprit !
Satan is hard at work in South Africa, even in the policing and legal services. Why do people allow domestic violent situations to reach extremes before acting? That girl would still be alive today, I am certain. And he would still have his career and life outside prison intact. Some early interventions through good counseling and support would have saved them both.
This days there is a lot of satanism they are too much into our children, all over the world our children are under attack even here in my country Botswana the 18 year boy raped her mother after that he killed her. They were influenced by the drugs. We need to pray hard for our children.
Another kid standing all alone to be sentenced because of uncontrolled temper. I'm sure he was a good kid but very misguided. He's now facing up to reality of where his life ends. Reality has just hit him and those tears, stomach and chest pains are real! I think parents have to take some responsibility somewhere. We can't keep bringing up losers that end up in jail at a young age. This is a social menace.
True hey but all am seeing is regrets from this young man for fucking up his life & this should be a lesson to everyone..never ever attempt to take someone's life?
The judge is very effective in his communication. He almost sounds as if he will give him a lenient sentence but we all know he'll not, he's just being professional without condemning. And can we address the fact that his cousin is his girlfriend... so basically incest, right
@@ronaldbarbour3562black people and Indians are not the same. We don’t really have the term for “cousin” in black tribes, those are your siblings. Africans need to stop adopting nonsense
@@ronaldbarbour3562 really I agree with Londiwe and rest, this very bad for you saying that, to us is totally your brother and sister. We don't do that as Africans we don't :hence as I said we used to call each other my sister /brother. Siyahlupha sometimes Africans ukuba othathekile.
This is a prime example of why you should never ever invest more into a relationship than the other person is. Be it financially or otherwise. Meet the other person halfway in everything you do.
No it is not. AT ALL. He was abusing her physically, mentally and even financially. He would CUT her hair if she disobeyed him. He was EXTREMELY controlling, going so far as to mandate a schedule she had to follow, even though she was a fully capable adult. She tried MANY TIMES to leave him and he threatened her. An abused woman chamces of being killed goes up SUBSTANTIALLY when she decides to leave. He even forced her into marriage. Her only way of leaving him was checking out mentally, which she did. He wouldn't let her leave so like anyone would do she started seeing someone else. Stop defending this monster.
At first I thought he just killed her. But he even dismembered her body! That shows exactly how conscious he was and how he planed to kill her. He didn't have any remoss or what so ever so he can't cry now he new exactly what he was doing so he must face the music.
He regrets. Anger can block or cloud your judgment/ thought process to carry on stupid things. He can’t believe the empathy the judge is showing him. He expected to be treated differently from human perspectives
I love watching crime documentaries...It is said that sometime when someone kills sometimes they go through so much confusion from seeing the dead body... Others dismember the body and scatter it. I think it's a moment of madness
@@rmbmajestic I cannot believe people say he does not look like a criminal, for someone to have empathy for him shows you can do the same thing, he is just a wolf in a sheep clothing, evil people know how to disguise themselves amongst people
I think his emotions carried him over.. emotional investment is probably the worst form of investment ever!!!!..crimes of passion are normally gruesome and senseless...l do feel bad for him actually.
He was shown consideration, generosity & fairness of process by the courts. It brought him to tears, I hope it's not lost to him how his actions towards Miss Pitse lacked all of these aspects. Humans are complicated creatures
He makes me sick😡 he had a chance to call this off, but he didn't. He confessed because he was caught and what happened to the other parts of her body? He's a sick individual, and he should rot in jail.
The fact that he kills and even chop someone like a chicken,he doesn't deserve anything than death penalty. How do we know his anger or mental issue will come back when he is out
My heart is torn 💔 I feel lyk i can do something. God, please, please do something our brothers are ending in jails devil is busy Lord be busy as well fight for us
@@not.likely You live in a black run country. A dog's life has more worth than yours. To think we thought SA would be a different African country it turned out to be worse,
@@dothadance1 It is difficult to reply to your appeal. But in my consideration, eventually it will be like any other appeal people make, there will only be silence. Like no one is on the other side, no response. Great fear. Like a vast chasm, as is written in Bible, where you can see the others and you reach out, but you cannot touch them...where you call out, but no one can hear you or you can't hear them You want to help but you can't. Now still, every so often, a window opens for mankind to escape. The poor can see it, but they are banned from participation, lest the upwardly mobile lose their privileges. They are so besotted with their idols and politics, their power play... that they confidently talk humanity away. The perspective of the poor is different. They have nothing to lose. No job, no bed, no blanket, no roof, no food...where even one aspirin is a blessing. Only when money is removed, will the true wealth of the human being be revalued. That is what we are up against, people versus gold. The value of the human being judged by the human being, at the point where the poor are finally stronger than the rich
He must get life without the possibility of parole, he has the opportunity to cry and be remorseful but unfortunately, he denied another human being the same opportunity... To feel and to be alive!!!
His miserable now, no clubbing,no holidays, zero chills, the reality has set in, jail time, this young man dismembered a whole humanbeing that must have been so involving, its so chilling. His a danger to society.
No sin is unforgettable, true Judgment will come from God especially when a person admits and shows remorse he did a very terrible thing and will be punished accordingly
What exactly did you expect to see? The man has pleaded guilty and awaits sentencing, there's nothing they could say to him. Here they're simply explaining the process to follow. The justice and correctional service are not there to punish people, but to rehabilitate. This guy is still young, has pleaded guilty, seems remorseful and has some some education which makes him a good candidate for rehabilitation. He can still rejoin society and try to live somewhat of a normal life. The best sentence would be life without parole, but we're likely to see just life sentence or something just over 20 years. 20 years would be 5 years in real time before he's granted parole.
@@Yusuf-my5qo mistake was made in 1994 by not crucifying those Apartheid Criminals and after that it’s everyone can get away with everything just like thT.....it sicks really
I don't understand his crying.How did he think this was going to end?He took his time meditating on how to end a person's life and he thought he was Cain with a mark to protect him.
Woooooooow imagine staring in the face of consequence for the worst thing you’ve ever done on your life and you know your life is over?? That’s what I see when I’m looking at him. With that said, I hope he spends the rest of his life in prison for what he has done. People like this shouldn’t be roaming the streets. Wow 😳
The judge sounds very remorseful towards flavio. Which is funny coz he actually killed and dismantled a human being. So I’m struggling to understand how he’s the victim. Or is it because he doesn’t look like a common criminal?
Either way it does not make him a victim this judge is being one sided. I had a similar case regarding the murder of my mother the boy pleaded guilty and wanted 20 years max. But judge gave him life with no chance of parole
What if this happened to the judge daughter , will he still be compasionate to the murderer? This butcher clearly knew what he was doing and does not deserve campassion at all from anyone.may he rot in jail.foetsak satan
Takeaway - There are thoughts you should NEVER think and things you should NEVER google. Period. if in pain, cry and ask God to heal your broken heart and to help you to forgive and let the person go. God said vengeance is His. So, if there's something to avenge, He will avenge. Meantime ours is to forgive because we also need to be forgiven. Then avoid the person like the plague, until you can look at them calmly.
Honestly seeing this hurts, from the little that I know Flavio from varsity, I would not have imagined he could do such a thing. This has made me to even be more scared that even good people can kill, I just pray for his mental health. It must be painful living with this, knowing that you caused pain to someone who is even related to you 😢. May God be with you ❤
This is so painful wasted years of studying. I hope this is a good example to anyone that is dishonest in a relationship which causes so much pain that it's drives one to this. Love is very painful especially when it comes to true love this guy shows true remose. God bless his parents with this painful situation. This judge is so kind to explain with such calmenes..
I wish that remorse would have prevented him from killing her. Killing is such a final act, it's you playing God and deciding that this person doesn't deserve another day on earth. Did you create that person? Do you have a right to extinguish their life, are your hurt and pain more important than the life of another human being?
@@MargaretNdawonde Exactly. Imagine if every woman cheated on killed the cheater they are in a relationship with. For what? Hurt feelings? Tsk. We could easily half the population in the country if women woke up one day and decided to act like this. No one had a right to take lives. Period.
@@MargaretNdawonde ummmm lady's the controller of this world is using you for sho! Money, woman and land which is resources that is where we get tempted as man's . I just thanks the almighty that as for now I'm still safe in his hands coz I've been hurt by woman's for several times and he protected me from that kind evil things and may he continue to protect me till the last day of my poor life in the name of our Lord Jesus amem
He killed his cousin, choping her body to pieces and store her body in the fridge he must stay in jail for the rest of his life, he chose that life he must live it. How can an educated young man did what he did?
I also don't think education has anything to do with this It could be a crime of passion which makes one not think clearly or the fact it was his cousin and she was about to expose him It still no excuse for killing Its just a sad situation 😔
He thought he would inherit her mother's assets that she mother left for her after she passed away hence he started dating her. a greedy young man. He looked innocent but he is evil. His mother and the girl's mother are siblings, I mean who dates their cousins/sister? He is insane.
Why are people feeling sorry for him? Like I don't understand, he literally took someone's life. I feel like he is crying just because he got caught and not because he is remorseful. I mean he literally kept the body in his freezer and now he wants to cry? Nah I don't buy it! He should be locked away, atleast he is still alive and the poor girl is dead.
Could be because he seems like a nice person and some that know him personally are shocked by all this considering his personality. He’s sick but I don’t think he’s incapable of being remorseful.Too little too late though
Looking at this, my heart sinks. Such a young and good looking boy, I mean he could just leave the relationship and date someone else, this whole havoc would have been avoided.
@@nomkhosizondo5548 we are on the same WhatsApp group and to be honest with u as much as I feel lonely sometimes I'm so scared of mjolo. I pray to God that I don't fall into the wrong hands.
I personally feel bad for the suspect as he, shows so much regret for what he did no one is perfect in this life regardless of whatever small sin or crime you may commit therefore that is why certain people are given bail to that they can still amend their wrongs.
It's so hard for me to feel bad for him, he did not only kill someone he loved and related to, but dismembered her body, some parts are still missing as we speak, it takes a very messed up person to do such a gruesome act. In my opinion he is a danger to society, does he feel remorseful? probably, does that mean his sentencing should be light? Absolutely not.
True Yaz : there are criminals who commit crime and kill innocent people after robbing them and that by purpose in the name of making a living, unlike this young man who was just driven by bad spirit and take his cousins life:the devil he is controlling us for really
Drugs.. you find His cuz didn't want him using her card cause she didn't like drugs.. murdered the poor girl. When she was tryna help.. how unfortunate for her..
Never get fooled by the courts ,The law is never linient on cases like this ,They good at making you feel comfortable ,Brother is going to pay ,Locked and threw away the locks bro .
What is happening in the world, we need to pray without ceasing, this guy is educated, what might have triggered this. This is deep rooted. It's too late now. Lord intervene, we pray
I pray to God and my fellow brothers that we never find ourselves in this position... Nna when a chick pisses me off chief I will ignore her and only talk to her when I feel okay
I cant see y there must be delay in sentencing when all evidence and case found him clearly guilty. Thats y SA is crime ridden because giving to much rights to criminals.
@@ronaldbarbour3562 after all evidence and admission of murderer y then still giv him a chance to explain himself its all done and dusted he must rot in prison and be a bitch for the male prisoners.would u still feel ok for him to be treated like royalty if he murdered one of your family.
Mxm, crocodile tears, he was celebrating when he killed somebody's child, sister, friend etc. He decided to run a human abattoir and now crying? What is he crying for, being finally caught
I can understand and respect what he did. He is a young man and was betrayed. I know woman are used to the idea of sharing a partner in some situations, especially a high value man. But as men, WE DO NOT SHARE
It is ironic that the judge is saying he is sure the accused would love to continue with his life when he cut someone's life short. Honestly, murderers sicken me, they don't deserve second chances or any chance at all.
Kindly excuse my ignorance, I fail to understand, this is a young, good looking, qualified actuarial scientist. Does murder have a face? Absolutely not, but this one is beyond comprehension.
Wood, reading all the comments and hearing all this tears 😭 continues falling from my eyes. My pain goes to the mother, if she is still alive, she is casing the day she gave birth to him. Her pain it's to much. You loose your niece and your son. On top of that, there's no sorry in this regard, he will pay for his sin.
People should train their emotions. I do that by imagining different scenarios and thinking how I would respond..eg If I found my wife in our bed with another man. I'm not gonna kill her or harm her in any way..
This are just crocodile tears. Look how he becomes calm and attentive when the other person is talking to the Judge, but when the Judge starts talking to him boom, he covers himself.
I am also a Mother of Two Beautiful Daughters.I teach,taught them each and Everyday that if your Relationship , is not longer Good as before just Talk,and then Quit
This is lesson to men never ,ever take a descension when you are Angry rather leave the place and get fresh air and rethink the event there after you can take a sober action to me what he did was based on a heat of the moment and it resulted in a point of no return and that point of no return resulted in him doing the unthinkable
Why kill and chop the person. Then put her body parts in a fridge. What were his intension. Eat her or what? He needs to tell the court the truth. And tell where is the rest of the body parts. Instead of crying. When he was killing he wasn't crying.
Reality has kicked in. A crime that stains your being for life. Prison is nobody's home. I can't imagine the stress. Lets take care of ourselves guys. Lets make better choices.
@@annaseemole1374 Again what do principals have to do with this? All I was pointing out was how females base mate selection on superficial things like appearance ergo you called the kid handsome thereby equating murderers to being ugly men.
the problem is people dont understand the way the devil works. people think he is a myth, not real. He is real as God is real. He will deceive you, you will fail to control your anger, yet that is the time when you need the voice of God to speak loudly and tell you to let go of whatever situation, it might even speak to you but your heart will be too hardened. ALWAYS SOFTEN YOUR HEARTS PEOPLE, its not a sign of weakness but actually strength. If you want to see how the devil can control thousands of people in a single moment at once , look at the murders you do as South Africans during xenophobia people who can stand and watch a human being burned alive. Gentlemen there is a problem. And then sunday people dress up for church🙄. Its not just South Africans its all of humanity but i have always thought we have a chance of ubuntu to bring us closer to the ways of God. Flavio doesnt even understand what happened to him, he will find God and he will be enlightened
Yhoo the victim here was a medical student, a cousin to the murderer, the murder was premeditated, it was gruesome and per body was mutated and kept in a fridge. The turso is missing and this guy has not disclosed what happed to it (correct me if I am wrong). The missing turso might also mean that this was in some way related to muti killings. I don't know. This is deep. The father and the entire family is traumatized. Hai shame mna ndedwa andimsizeli lomfana. Ungcolile and he had made a decision to walk into the path of darkeness, he deserves the maximum sentence
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Guys you must stop being angered about stupid things, if a girl or woman is cheating you that means she doesn't love you and it doesn't justify you to kill her. Just walk away and start your life with a person who will love you as your wishes.
No ruler needed.. tank you
Is that what happened here?
@@shafiyaalgiquadra1105 yes, watch till the end
Actually she said he cheated on her, not the other way round
They were cousins, his plan was to rob her of her inheritance from her mother's estate.
What love and cheating are you referring to? They were close relatives with the victim.
He's the one who cheated and when she found out he killed her.
This Judge deserves Humanity Award 👏 👏 👏 The way he spoke .
He’s very articulate but the danger is that he could be giving the young man false hope.
Right!🙌
Came here to say this... I really appreciate him.
The judge is doing his job and telling the acussed what he's supposed to tell him. If the accused is not explicitly told to bring every evidence that he might have and say whatever he wishes to say it might open loopholes for the acussed when he applies for the appeal that the judge didn't consider certain evidence or that new evidence has come up which would have compelled the judge to impose a different sentence if the new evidence was available at the time of sentence. The judge is actually closing all the loopholes, especially because the acussed didn't waste court's time and resources as he confessed and admitted guilt
So well spoken and clear in how he delivered his judgement
Is this judge like this with everyone? If so then he is very professional and is never biased regardless of the situation
I’ve been looking for this comment. Very professional indeed
Couldn't have said it better... Very professional judge 👌👌👌👌
Intelligent well-spoken individual he is
A proper judge
He has been like this as long as I have known him
He is crying because of the consequences of his actions. I don't see why he would cry when he killed and dismembered a young lady with a lot of potential.
I never ever Judge anyone ever what this guy did was horrible no two ways about that. He is a graduate therefore he is dedicated and focused and wanted to be someone in life, he is a very angry human being, he dated his cousin. This picture is very sad confusing and unfortunate. I wish I know what happened to make him this type of a man. We create these monsters this is a societal problem. What issues did he have in life? What did the family feel and say about this particular relationship? Do many questions let's wait and see maybe during the mitigation of sentence.
He could be crying because of his impending fate as you correctly put it or he could be crying because he’s also shocked and repelled by what he has done. Most killers say the most difficult part is not the actual killing but the constant and intrusive thoughts after the person has died.
Regret. He is a sorry A$$ now... remorse happens
@@tomngwenya3041 You have no right to mention intrusive thoughts because some people are struggling out there because of OCD, they have intrusive thoughts and they are on medication to prevent themselves from harming themselves or loved ones. A murder is A PLANNER! They plan how to murder, and how they will execute that without being held accountable for their crimes or by hiding evidence. Don’t you ever compare them with people who have mental health issues, YOU ARE WRONG
The nerve to think that you have the right to take someone's life angers me soo much. How dare you
We need to learn that nobody owns any human being except the creator. We don’t own our children, how much more someone else’s son or daughter? If someone becomes too much for you, leave them! Take care of yourself, love yourself first. If someone has wronged you, leave them and go on with your life.
Relax, like chill man.
Repeat!
Indeed how dare he, here he is that he’s getting people to help him in mitigation sentence when the deceased was not defended. Our daughters are safe without him.
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I think the judge is the first person to show him undeserved love, and it is breaking him down.
Absolutely. It seems this is the first time someone shows him that he is still human after all that transpired. Justice does not mean inhumane treatment, hence correctional services.
The judge is a good good Father.
@@jackiemonyemoratho4190 So true, sometimes we get lost in life and take stupid permanent decisions. May the Lord's intervention heal all affected families.
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He is really overwhelmed about the judge how he is making sure he takes everything to consideration including his views
You are so spot on! This judge is doing a job he loves and is passionate about. Rehabilitating people and sometimes even “Animals” sorry to say
Conclusion: Do something with your anger before it controls you.
Wrong , get out of the relationship with people who anger you easily. Anger is natural
The strongest person is the one who can control his anger, most of us we fail
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@billysigudla anger is natural, but how we deal with our anger is an even bigger matter. Anger can be channelled "positively"
Not everyone has access to counselling, in private it’s quite expensive and in government facilities most often it’s not professional psychologists who do the counselling, it’s just matriculants who received very limited training in counselling.
It's sad how a decision made out of rage can change one's life forever. I can't imagine what both families are going through, looking through the lense of parenthood: one family loosing a child to murder and the other loosing a child because of committing such a horrific crime. This case is so heartbreaking.
Can't imagine, very heartbreaking. Two young people with their lives ahead of them, this is the outcome... choices choices.
Such a young,educated man killing his ex lover cousin and disnembering her body !Where did did man get the courage and urge to do all that ?Was he on drugs or he is unitiated into Satanism ?I feel even his second Partner was going to be killed too !!Educated moron is this culprit !
Satan is hard at work in South Africa, even in the policing and legal services.
Why do people allow domestic violent situations to reach extremes before acting?
That girl would still be alive today, I am certain. And he would still have his career and life outside prison intact.
Some early interventions through good counseling and support would have saved them both.
This days there is a lot of satanism they are too much into our children, all over the world our children are under attack even here in my country Botswana the 18 year boy raped her mother after that he killed her. They were influenced by the drugs. We need to pray hard for our children.
I think he's family will be okay as they'll see him though the victim's won't. In less than 10 years he'll be back so no big deal
Another kid standing all alone to be sentenced because of uncontrolled temper. I'm sure he was a good kid but very misguided. He's now facing up to reality of where his life ends. Reality has just hit him and those tears, stomach and chest pains are real! I think parents have to take some responsibility somewhere. We can't keep bringing up losers that end up in jail at a young age. This is a social menace.
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True hey but all am seeing is regrets from this young man for fucking up his life & this should be a lesson to everyone..never ever attempt to take someone's life?
The judge is very effective in his communication. He almost sounds as if he will give him a lenient sentence but we all know he'll not, he's just being professional without condemning. And can we address the fact that his cousin is his girlfriend... so basically incest, right
100%
The judge sounds very professional
I dont feel sorry for this idiot PRETENDING crocodile tears sies he got the gut to kill for his cousins money
And here I was thinking he killed two people, his girlfriend and his cousin 😩. Kanti we're talking about the same person.🙆
@@sinegugungxongxela9102 👀 what a wow
incest on its own should be a crime ,the families who allowed these children to marry ,must be accountable
Different cultures. Indians marry in such a manner
Cultural consideration might justify such!!
@@ronaldbarbour3562black people and Indians are not the same. We don’t really have the term for “cousin” in black tribes, those are your siblings. Africans need to stop adopting nonsense
@@ronaldbarbour3562 really I agree with Londiwe and rest, this very bad for you saying that, to us is totally your brother and sister.
We don't do that as Africans we don't :hence as I said we used to call each other my sister /brother.
Siyahlupha sometimes Africans ukuba othathekile.
Correct me if I'm wrong but to my understanding is that they eloped. They went to home affairs family didn't know
This is a prime example of why you should never ever invest more into a relationship than the other person is. Be it financially or otherwise. Meet the other person halfway in everything you do.
No it is not. AT ALL. He was abusing her physically, mentally and even financially. He would CUT her hair if she disobeyed him. He was EXTREMELY controlling, going so far as to mandate a schedule she had to follow, even though she was a fully capable adult. She tried MANY TIMES to leave him and he threatened her. An abused woman chamces of being killed goes up SUBSTANTIALLY when she decides to leave. He even forced her into marriage. Her only way of leaving him was checking out mentally, which she did. He wouldn't let her leave so like anyone would do she started seeing someone else. Stop defending this monster.
At first I thought he just killed her. But he even dismembered her body! That shows exactly how conscious he was and how he planed to kill her. He didn't have any remoss or what so ever so he can't cry now he new exactly what he was doing so he must face the music.
He regrets. Anger can block or cloud your judgment/ thought process to carry on stupid things. He can’t believe the empathy the judge is showing him. He expected to be treated differently from human perspectives
I agree with you
@@danielmuchi8196 Bullshit.
I love watching crime documentaries...It is said that sometime when someone kills sometimes they go through so much confusion from seeing the dead body... Others dismember the body and scatter it. I think it's a moment of madness
One of the judges we need in our country
He does not look like the common criminal for sure, i almost want to feel bad for him but what he put this girl through is unforgivable
Eish when you dont have the covering of the Lord the evil spirit will use you n the leave you to face the consequences alone
@@esthertebogo1886 That’s how it is with sin also , the devil will give one adrenaline but at the end you face the music alone
He is not a good person, . Just a hypocrite
@@rmbmajestic I cannot believe people say he does not look like a criminal, for someone to have empathy for him shows you can do the same thing, he is just a wolf in a sheep clothing, evil people know how to disguise themselves amongst people
I think his emotions carried him over.. emotional investment is probably the worst form of investment ever!!!!..crimes of passion are normally gruesome and senseless...l do feel bad for him actually.
He was shown consideration, generosity & fairness of process by the courts. It brought him to tears, I hope it's not lost to him how his actions towards Miss Pitse lacked all of these aspects. Humans are complicated creatures
Nice take 👏🏾
So true.
Dude looks like a dummy. Incest and murder? Then crying?
They must lock him up and throw away the key 😡
Bring bk death sentence.
Amen to that
Put yourself in his shoes, nobody is perfect remember instead of Praying for him to repent you are cursing
Can’t you see that this person is not well. What he did is not normal there’s something seriously wrong with him psychologically.
@@ukejambura6815put yourselt in the girls family's shoes
Damn we were in the same Maths class with this guy at Wits.. He was very chilled and quiet. 😢
Really! I can perceive that too
The quiet ones are the dangerous ones.
He makes me sick😡 he had a chance to call this off, but he didn't. He confessed because he was caught and what happened to the other parts of her body? He's a sick individual, and he should rot in jail.
I agree and so was she. Who dates and f**ks their cousin. 😂😂
Sweet home Alexandra. 😂😂😂
Like your mother.
The fact that he kills and even chop someone like a chicken,he doesn't deserve anything than death penalty. How do we know his anger or mental issue will come back when he is out
I hope he rots
Body parts OMG 😢😢 is this person normal. How can a human being be so cruel
My heart is torn 💔 I feel lyk i can do something. God, please, please do something our brothers are ending in jails devil is busy Lord be busy as well fight for us
No matter what religion, murder does not bode well with society
@@not.likely You live in a black run country. A dog's life has more worth than yours. To think we thought SA would be a different African country it turned out to be worse,
@@dothadance1 It is difficult to reply to your appeal.
But in my consideration, eventually it will be like any other appeal people make, there will only be silence. Like no one is on the other side, no response. Great fear. Like a vast chasm, as is written in Bible, where you can see the others and you reach out, but you cannot touch them...where you call out, but no one can hear you or you can't hear them
You want to help but you can't.
Now still, every so often, a window opens for mankind to escape. The poor can see it, but they are banned from participation, lest the upwardly mobile lose their privileges. They are so besotted with their idols and politics, their power play... that they confidently talk humanity away.
The perspective of the poor is different. They have nothing to lose. No job, no bed, no blanket, no roof, no food...where even one aspirin is a blessing.
Only when money is removed, will the true wealth of the human being be revalued. That is what we are up against, people versus gold.
The value of the human being judged by the human being, at the point where the poor are finally stronger than the rich
True the devil is having a field day out here destroying this generation i pray this young man finds comfort in the lord
The Devil has nothing to do with this, leave him or her out of it! stop making excuses for evil people!
He must get life without the possibility of parole, he has the opportunity to cry and be remorseful but unfortunately, he denied another human being the same opportunity... To feel and to be alive!!!
His miserable now, no clubbing,no holidays, zero chills, the reality has set in, jail time, this young man dismembered a whole humanbeing that must have been so involving, its so chilling. His a danger to society.
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@@ronaldbarbour3562 Yup.
He's very dangerous lm also scared of him
that innocent face of his scares me 😱
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Sitting like an innocent man, yet so evil
Dismiss the case because there is so much sympathy towards him.This is really ridiculous considering he murdered a person 🤔
No sin is unforgettable, true Judgment will come from God especially when a person admits and shows remorse he did a very terrible thing and will be punished accordingly
Let me tell u if ur a parent never say anything bad abt another person's child we don't know anything God knows n he will avenge
true that
So true
Absolute True.
Yes for sure if you are a parent just pray that this thing must not happen to your children.
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The way they are being so nice to him, you'd swear he didn't kill.
This is south africa where criminals ate treated like loyalty typical eg zuma, cyril ramapooza and the whole anc
Fucking ridiculous...it makes me angry
What exactly did you expect to see? The man has pleaded guilty and awaits sentencing, there's nothing they could say to him. Here they're simply explaining the process to follow.
The justice and correctional service are not there to punish people, but to rehabilitate. This guy is still young, has pleaded guilty, seems remorseful and has some some education which makes him a good candidate for rehabilitation. He can still rejoin society and try to live somewhat of a normal life.
The best sentence would be life without parole, but we're likely to see just life sentence or something just over 20 years. 20 years would be 5 years in real time before he's granted parole.
Hey tell me about it... maybe they are related
@@Yusuf-my5qo mistake was made in 1994 by not crucifying those Apartheid Criminals and after that it’s everyone can get away with everything just like thT.....it sicks really
This Guy is an Actuarial science graduate from WITS- IntellectualLY , he is not dumb
Thanks to my favourite You Tuber THE PLUG. Because of her informed crime stories, I know most of these stories I never knew before.
Why do they show murderers remorse? Found guilty, Death penalty finish and kla.
I don't understand his crying.How did he think this was going to end?He took his time meditating on how to end a person's life and he thought he was Cain with a mark to protect him.
POV;:He thought that saying "it will end in tears" was jus a MYTH.
He's crying because he is facing the consequences of his actions. I don't think it's tears from what he did?
@@boutrosnen6471 I think so too. He’s crying coz he got caught, not because of his actions
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It ended in tears .😢
Woooooooow imagine staring in the face of consequence for the worst thing you’ve ever done on your life and you know your life is over?? That’s what I see when I’m looking at him.
With that said, I hope he spends the rest of his life in prison for what he has done. People like this shouldn’t be roaming the streets.
Wow 😳
The judge sounds very remorseful towards flavio. Which is funny coz he actually killed and dismantled a human being. So I’m struggling to understand how he’s the victim. Or is it because he doesn’t look like a common criminal?
I think it has to do with the fact that he admitted and has plead guilty
Either way it does not make him a victim this judge is being one sided. I had a similar case regarding the murder of my mother the boy pleaded guilty and wanted 20 years max. But judge gave him life with no chance of parole
What if this happened to the judge daughter , will he still be compasionate to the murderer? This butcher clearly knew what he was doing and does not deserve campassion at all from anyone.may he rot in jail.foetsak satan
@@tumimonareng5108 justice prevailed.
Judges don't show emotions when handing a judgement.They get trained
He is showing a remorse....like seriously...iyoo here in Botswana 🇧🇼 he will be sentence to death
No he’s not…he’s crying because he got caught, if he was remorseful he would have confessed to the murder before he was found out
Justice will only be served by returning death sentence for murder if found guilty.prison is not enough
Takeaway - There are thoughts you should NEVER think and things you should NEVER google. Period. if in pain, cry and ask God to heal your broken heart and to help you to forgive and let the person go. God said vengeance is His. So, if there's something to avenge, He will avenge. Meantime ours is to forgive because we also need to be forgiven. Then avoid the person like the plague, until you can look at them calmly.
Honestly seeing this hurts, from the little that I know Flavio from varsity, I would not have imagined he could do such a thing. This has made me to even be more scared that even good people can kill, I just pray for his mental health. It must be painful living with this, knowing that you caused pain to someone who is even related to you 😢. May God be with you ❤
I'm so teary right now 😢 thinking about his life now that will be on turmoil because of his action I wish he didn't do it he looks like a good guy
Everybody is a killer, all you gotta do is push them to the limits -JCole-
@Mpho Siwela He's not a good guy. Good guys don't kill other human beings and cut them into pieces
He was harboring rage for a long time apparently 🤔
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This is so painful wasted years of studying. I hope this is a good example to anyone that is dishonest in a relationship which causes so much pain that it's drives one to this. Love is very painful especially when it comes to true love this guy shows true remose. God bless his parents with this painful situation. This judge is so kind to explain with such calmenes..
I wish that remorse would have prevented him from killing her. Killing is such a final act, it's you playing God and deciding that this person doesn't deserve another day on earth. Did you create that person? Do you have a right to extinguish their life, are your hurt and pain more important than the life of another human being?
@@MargaretNdawonde Exactly. Imagine if every woman cheated on killed the cheater they are in a relationship with. For what? Hurt feelings? Tsk. We could easily half the population in the country if women woke up one day and decided to act like this. No one had a right to take lives. Period.
It's no remorse he is just sad and come to realization that his evil way has destroyed him.
@@MargaretNdawonde Exactly, I have no empathy for anyone who intentionally kill anyone and to further the evil he dismembered the body what a gut
@@MargaretNdawonde ummmm lady's the controller of this world is using you for sho! Money, woman and land which is resources that is where we get tempted as man's . I just thanks the almighty that as for now I'm still safe in his hands coz I've been hurt by woman's for several times and he protected me from that kind evil things and may he continue to protect me till the last day of my poor life in the name of our Lord Jesus amem
He killed his cousin, choping her body to pieces and store her body in the fridge he must stay in jail for the rest of his life, he chose that life he must live it. How can an educated young man did what he did?
So he was dating his cousin
@@kellyalexander7347 yes
@@merrymashila1658 the devil is having a party with this generation destroy youngest lives
I also don't think education has anything to do with this
It could be a crime of passion which makes one not think clearly or the fact it was his cousin and she was about to expose him
It still no excuse for killing
Its just a sad situation 😔
He thought he would inherit her mother's assets that she mother left for her after she passed away hence he started dating her. a greedy young man. He looked innocent but he is evil. His mother and the girl's mother are siblings, I mean who dates their cousins/sister? He is insane.
This is sad.Our Generation needs God in their lives.
Why are people feeling sorry for him? Like I don't understand, he literally took someone's life. I feel like he is crying just because he got caught and not because he is remorseful. I mean he literally kept the body in his freezer and now he wants to cry? Nah I don't buy it!
He should be locked away, atleast he is still alive and the poor girl is dead.
Could be because he seems like a nice person and some that know him personally are shocked by all this considering his personality.
He’s sick but I don’t think he’s incapable of being remorseful.Too little too late though
The judge should give him a job, car, house on an island and some spending money!! What the ¥uck!!
And keep him in his home
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Honestly this is super sad😭😭.. However he would have been leaving a lavish life had they not the body💔
Looking at this, my heart sinks. Such a young and good looking boy, I mean he could just leave the relationship and date someone else, this whole havoc would have been avoided.
I understand killing could be out of anger but dismembering their body parts!? 💔 that’s a mentally sick individual
@@leeroux5202 Love? The same love that is patient, kind etc? He was not reasoning well.
I agree with you sis I do not even have a valentine partner tomorrow 😪🤧. N this hunk is going to be locked up
@@nomkhosizondo5548 we are on the same WhatsApp group and to be honest with u as much as I feel lonely sometimes I'm so scared of mjolo.
I pray to God that I don't fall into the wrong hands.
Fusegi. Lengane yabantu aybulele?
The devil is having a field day with this generation 😒 its sad
I personally feel bad for the suspect as he, shows so much regret for what he did no one is perfect in this life regardless of whatever small sin or crime you may commit therefore that is why certain people are given bail to that they can still amend their wrongs.
It's so hard for me to feel bad for him, he did not only kill someone he loved and related to, but dismembered her body, some parts are still missing as we speak, it takes a very messed up person to do such a gruesome act. In my opinion he is a danger to society, does he feel remorseful? probably, does that mean his sentencing should be light? Absolutely not.
Maybe he’s crying coz he got caught and will probably be spending the rest of his life in prison
Yes no one is perfect but that statement is wrong in this case, not every one can kill and dismember someone or have you, or will you
True Yaz : there are criminals who commit crime and kill innocent people after robbing them and that by purpose in the name of making a living, unlike this young man who was just driven by bad spirit and take his cousins life:the devil he is controlling us for really
Wait till the girl is your sister perhaps you wouldn't say that.
Mxm I dont know why the judge is showing so much care for this murderer. He must go rot in jail cos these crocodile tears won't help him.
Eish they must give him 30 years
It's too late for tears now
Let the one without sin cast a stone.
True
Shut up!
Deep statement, help us oh Lord
Every action has consequences. Reality has kicked in, may that young ladies soul rest in Gods perfect peace...♡
So TRUE
He dated his own cousin? Am I understanding this correctly?
Correct!
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I'm so confused
@@thobekamadlala6305 They where dating and there where cousins.
Cousins do get married to one another 🤷♀️
@@AaminahShellyzia5995 I guess it depends
This guy studied actuarial science. There's a difference between being smart and intelligent.
Total nonsense. 😂
@@mr.mysterious.3242 what do u mean?
Drugs.. you find His cuz didn't want him using her card cause she didn't like drugs.. murdered the poor girl. When she was tryna help.. how unfortunate for her..
You forgot to mention studying to be a murderer/ butcher.
He has time for hair cut give him life sentence too evil to come back to live amongst us. He is a monster don’t be fooled by the tears
Never get fooled by the courts ,The law is never linient on cases like this ,They good at making you feel comfortable ,Brother is going to pay ,Locked and threw away the locks bro .
This is a great Judge
Very sober minded judge
Agree. This judge is extraordinarily compassionate despite the crime this guys committed. Very professional
What is happening in the world, we need to pray without ceasing, this guy is educated, what might have triggered this. This is deep rooted. It's too late now. Lord intervene, we pray
No Lord just jail and someone making him a wife there. He can go straight to hell this cold and calculating murderer. Piece of shit really.
I pray to God and my fellow brothers that we never find ourselves in this position... Nna when a chick pisses me off chief I will ignore her and only talk to her when I feel okay
Handsome and educated why did he do that
I'm also still trying to understand
He allowed devil to use him
I cant see y there must be delay in sentencing when all evidence and case found him clearly guilty. Thats y SA is crime ridden because giving to much rights to criminals.
Its called justice. It is by law that he should be given that chance to do so
This guy is in jail so it's the same thing. He isn't going anywhere
@@ronaldbarbour3562 after all evidence and admission of murderer y then still giv him a chance to explain himself its all done and dusted he must rot in prison and be a bitch for the male prisoners.would u still feel ok for him to be treated like royalty if he murdered one of your family.
Reality is kicking in now, hence tears 😢 Unfortunately he must bare the consequences of his own actions.
Love is as strong as death.
Yes so true.
He murdered someone,he dismembered the body,,,thats extremely evil,,has he told the family where he buried the body parts?
He put the body in the fridge
Yes, he actually did tell them where to find some of the body parts
Mxm, crocodile tears, he was celebrating when he killed somebody's child, sister, friend etc. He decided to run a human abattoir and now crying? What is he crying for, being finally caught
He s not crying there s no Devil he must taste his medicine beast
Albatross or abattoir?
@@yolanda.7033 definitely abattoir, these fingers Yolanda.S can sabotage you.
Shame ..this is so sad...
Yes, so sad a young lady with a lot of potential was killed and dismembered.
He took every moment of him to plan to kill his own cousin girlfriend, he deserve to rot in jail agg maan he is sooo cruel
Indeed!
The fact that killed , dismembered and hid her body parts shows some elements of a very cold person.
I can understand and respect what he did. He is a young man and was betrayed. I know woman are used to the idea of sharing a partner in some situations, especially a high value man. But as men, WE DO NOT SHARE
Crocodile cries what about cries of parents.
Was waiting for this
why is he crying now
One horrific moment will change your life
It is ironic that the judge is saying he is sure the accused would love to continue with his life when he cut someone's life short. Honestly, murderers sicken me, they don't deserve second chances or any chance at all.
They don't deserve to be on the streets
This guy is a cruel creature of a human being. Extend of googling how to murder without a trace it's alarming and scary.💔😭😠
😢😢wait he even went as far as googling?
Kindly excuse my ignorance, I fail to understand, this is a young, good looking, qualified actuarial scientist. Does murder have a face? Absolutely not, but this one is beyond comprehension.
Wood, reading all the comments and hearing all this tears 😭 continues falling from my eyes. My pain goes to the mother, if she is still alive, she is casing the day she gave birth to him. Her pain it's to much. You loose your niece and your son. On top of that, there's no sorry in this regard, he will pay for his sin.
She should have trained him well; these things do not happen in one day. He must have been exhibiting wickedness in some form.
. Guys please. Learn to walk away. If she cheated, let her go. No one cheat and still loves u....
Walk away
People should train their emotions. I do that by imagining different scenarios and thinking how I would respond..eg If I found my wife in our bed with another man. I'm not gonna kill her or harm her in any way..
Why is he even crying?
He was greedy, why killing his cousin/sister?devil in the sheep skin. Those are the crocodile tears dear juge dont feel sorry for him
Very professional smart judge
The way he's so cute neh🥺🤣They are going to enjoy him in prison
Dunuza style😂🤣
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No one in they mind can kill someone that's freaking syco!!!!
Lover and cousin? Am I making a mistake to think that these were relatives? Incest to the core.
This are just crocodile tears. Look how he becomes calm and attentive when the other person is talking to the Judge, but when the Judge starts talking to him boom, he covers himself.
Do you know prison
His just scared of what is coming for him. But he should really be.
I am also a Mother of Two Beautiful Daughters.I teach,taught them each and Everyday that if your Relationship , is not longer Good as before just Talk,and then Quit
This is lesson to men never ,ever take a descension when you are Angry rather leave the place and get fresh air and rethink the event there after you can take a sober action to me what he did was based on a heat of the moment and it resulted in a point of no return and that point of no return resulted in him doing the unthinkable
God please do something with this world please lord we need you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢
His cousin was also his lover ? The fact that he’s educated manipulated me into biasness
Imagine
His own cousin 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
There's a reward for everything, so this is definitely his price
I think his breaking down due to the fact that reality just hit him harder than he thought
I would never condone a murder of another person however I feel like this young did not kill with an intent and I stand to be corrected.
Why kill and chop the person. Then put her body parts in a fridge. What were his intension. Eat her or what? He needs to tell the court the truth. And tell where is the rest of the body parts. Instead of crying. When he was killing he wasn't crying.
God bless this judge
Why is he crying? WHY IS HE CRYING?
He will be fine.
Jail is a tough tough place my friend.Violence,rape,gangsterism etc. This guys is a good guy who let emotions get the better of him..Heartbreaking.
Reality has kicked in. A crime that stains your being for life. Prison is nobody's home. I can't imagine the stress. Lets take care of ourselves guys. Lets make better choices.
Such a handsome young man doing this horrific murder
What do his looks have to do with this tragedy? This is why y'all pick rapists and abusers to birth children for
@@LengfOrGirf ehh principal pls 🙏 I've never said there r preference for rapist or killers
Sad hey....?
This idiot took a familys life!
@@annaseemole1374 Again what do principals have to do with this?
All I was pointing out was how females base mate selection on superficial things like appearance ergo you called the kid handsome thereby equating murderers to being ugly men.
His lawyer told him to cry
the problem is people dont understand the way the devil works. people think he is a myth, not real. He is real as God is real. He will deceive you, you will fail to control your anger, yet that is the time when you need the voice of God to speak loudly and tell you to let go of whatever situation, it might even speak to you but your heart will be too hardened. ALWAYS SOFTEN YOUR HEARTS PEOPLE, its not a sign of weakness but actually strength. If you want to see how the devil can control thousands of people in a single moment at once , look at the murders you do as South Africans during xenophobia people who can stand and watch a human being burned alive. Gentlemen there is a problem. And then sunday people dress up for church🙄. Its not just South Africans its all of humanity but i have always thought we have a chance of ubuntu to bring us closer to the ways of God. Flavio doesnt even understand what happened to him, he will find God and he will be enlightened
Eish he looks like he really regrets it!!!at least there's some type of remorse.
When you see that your relationship is not going well just live n start a new one or stay single
People like this fail why given time to live or come out of jail after good behaviour.
He is crying because he feels sorry for himself. No remorse whatsoever . Sicko
Can someone please tell me what happened?
Yhoo the victim here was a medical student, a cousin to the murderer, the murder was premeditated, it was gruesome and per body was mutated and kept in a fridge. The turso is missing and this guy has not disclosed what happed to it (correct me if I am wrong). The missing turso might also mean that this was in some way related to muti killings. I don't know. This is deep. The father and the entire family is traumatized. Hai shame mna ndedwa andimsizeli lomfana. Ungcolile and he had made a decision to walk into the path of darkeness, he deserves the maximum sentence
Mutilated, sorry