Thank you for creating a space for me to share all of this! 🙏🏻If you want to learn more about my love life and all that goodie goodie jump here >>> www.patreon.com/nicksrambleasmr
Hey Nick. I'm feeling pretty similarly. I have a good idea of where I want my life to go and how to get there, but the wait and daily struggles of getting there and the slow pace are frustrating. The economy being shit definitely doesn't help either. Just wanted to give you maybe some comfort knowing you are not alone in this.
aw thank you. I really appreciate your comment. It means a lot. I know times are hard, I think we just need to be patience and keep going. I appreciate you.
Sending love to everyone that sees this comment! You are so special, thank you for existing! I know everyone has a tough battle going on right now, and I know everyone thinks the are alone on this journey, but you are not! You will always have a safe space to talk about your stuff here in the comment section, and thank you Nick for doing these amazing videos, that we know a lot of us can relate to! LOVE LOVE LOVE 🐝❤
🐝💛 Dude, I wish I could give you a hug right now. Your struggles are relatable to many, including me! From what I know about you, compared to me, you're definitely more of a risk-taker. You take chances and invest more in your dreams and that's something I admire so much about you! But that sort of living inherently comes with less stability. I, on the other hand, tend to play it safer and take the path that conforms with "society's expectations". That comes with more financial certainty, but I think it also lacks experiences and spontaneity. So I think there's benefits and disadvantages to both of these ways of living. Maybe there's a way to have the best of both, but I haven't figured it out yet. 😉 If you're ever feeling unaccomplished (which you 100% should not!), look to me as an example of someone who's further on in years but doesn't have all the answers yet either. The thing that hit me the most is you talking about needing to live for yourself. I would say that is my biggest challenge, personally. I have always felt like people won't love me as I am, so I spend so much time trying to be what I think everyone wants me to be and don't really prioritize what I want/need. And that's not fair, nor a good way to go through life. You and others in this community inspire me to want better for myself, and I'm still hopeful that I can break out of this behavior. In summary, I'm sorry you're going through some tough times right now. But know you're not alone, and that no one really ever has it figured out. I think you're just describing what it is to be human! ❤️
I always appreciate your comments John. This is so wise and true... its strange because I'm beginning to realize that maybe this isn't something you can really escape like you said... there are always pros and cons, and this is one of the cons with how i've been living recently.... the cons always feels like something is wrong, and that it needs to be fixed... but the reality is, maybe its okay to be like that. As for you, and the idea of being what everyone else wants you to be... I think it'll come in a full swoop for you... I found early on in life the dissappointment in trying to be someone that everyone liked... I found that in high school... because the boys I really wanted to connect and care for, ended up splitting from me... leaving me by myself, me not even liking myself fully... and I still go through those feelings...... I guess you just realize that you can't really control whether people like you or not... I'm also learning - not to rant here- but in the last few days that it's important for me to tell people when they annoy me and such- even if its little, and If I think... "oh they won't like me if I tell them (how controlling of me):... because... I 'm realizing if I don't share that, I'll slowly resent them and pull away from reaching out... which does actually more harm to me, and honestly I don't want to fall into that anymore... so selfishly I want them to hold on to that haha... Don't know if that makes sense, BUT I appreciate your comment and look how far we've come john... almost 10k 🐝🥹
Nick, I (sadly 😂) relate a lot to where you’re at right now. I’m 25, and I mourn the idea of what I thought my twenties would look like when I was younger.
27 was the hardest year of my life. We are here for you! Love you!
♥️🐝
Thank you for creating a space for me to share all of this! 🙏🏻If you want to learn more about my love life and all that goodie goodie jump here >>> www.patreon.com/nicksrambleasmr
Aw, I'm sorry to hear all this struggling. Sending virtual hugs to you.
thanks friend I appreciate you 🐝
i absolutely love the background noise 😩 great vid nick!! ❤
SWEET okay... i'm glad sometimes I'm like idk hehe
@ no i love it. it helps me sleep 😴
Sending you lots of love. I hope you‘ll find a job that suits you and also pays the bills. ❤
Thank you friend! I appreciate it ♥️
Hey Nick. I'm feeling pretty similarly. I have a good idea of where I want my life to go and how to get there, but the wait and daily struggles of getting there and the slow pace are frustrating. The economy being shit definitely doesn't help either. Just wanted to give you maybe some comfort knowing you are not alone in this.
aw thank you. I really appreciate your comment. It means a lot. I know times are hard, I think we just need to be patience and keep going. I appreciate you.
Going through the same struggle rn😢
🫂🐝
Sending love to everyone that sees this comment! You are so special, thank you for existing! I know everyone has a tough battle going on right now, and I know everyone thinks the are alone on this journey, but you are not! You will always have a safe space to talk about your stuff here in the comment section, and thank you Nick for doing these amazing videos, that we know a lot of us can relate to!
LOVE LOVE LOVE 🐝❤
so much love to you. this comment warmed my heart 🐝
🐝💛 Dude, I wish I could give you a hug right now. Your struggles are relatable to many, including me!
From what I know about you, compared to me, you're definitely more of a risk-taker. You take chances and invest more in your dreams and that's something I admire so much about you! But that sort of living inherently comes with less stability.
I, on the other hand, tend to play it safer and take the path that conforms with "society's expectations". That comes with more financial certainty, but I think it also lacks experiences and spontaneity.
So I think there's benefits and disadvantages to both of these ways of living. Maybe there's a way to have the best of both, but I haven't figured it out yet. 😉 If you're ever feeling unaccomplished (which you 100% should not!), look to me as an example of someone who's further on in years but doesn't have all the answers yet either.
The thing that hit me the most is you talking about needing to live for yourself. I would say that is my biggest challenge, personally. I have always felt like people won't love me as I am, so I spend so much time trying to be what I think everyone wants me to be and don't really prioritize what I want/need. And that's not fair, nor a good way to go through life. You and others in this community inspire me to want better for myself, and I'm still hopeful that I can break out of this behavior.
In summary, I'm sorry you're going through some tough times right now. But know you're not alone, and that no one really ever has it figured out. I think you're just describing what it is to be human! ❤️
I always appreciate your comments John. This is so wise and true... its strange because I'm beginning to realize that maybe this isn't something you can really escape like you said... there are always pros and cons, and this is one of the cons with how i've been living recently.... the cons always feels like something is wrong, and that it needs to be fixed... but the reality is, maybe its okay to be like that.
As for you, and the idea of being what everyone else wants you to be... I think it'll come in a full swoop for you... I found early on in life the dissappointment in trying to be someone that everyone liked... I found that in high school... because the boys I really wanted to connect and care for, ended up splitting from me... leaving me by myself, me not even liking myself fully... and I still go through those feelings...... I guess you just realize that you can't really control whether people like you or not...
I'm also learning - not to rant here- but in the last few days that it's important for me to tell people when they annoy me and such- even if its little, and If I think... "oh they won't like me if I tell them (how controlling of me):... because... I 'm realizing if I don't share that, I'll slowly resent them and pull away from reaching out... which does actually more harm to me, and honestly I don't want to fall into that anymore... so selfishly I want them to hold on to that haha...
Don't know if that makes sense, BUT I appreciate your comment and look how far we've come john... almost 10k 🐝🥹
@nicksrambleasmr This comment made my day! I feel seen by you, and I see you. ❤️ Much love!
Nick, I (sadly 😂) relate a lot to where you’re at right now. I’m 25, and I mourn the idea of what I thought my twenties would look like when I was younger.
Growing up pains :/ I’m sorry you’re also going through it so much love to u 🫂🐝