A Message to all Single Mothers
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Love that guy, but Mikhaila you absolutely nailed it, women are not a monolith and even my MGTOW philosophy needs to recognize that. Thank You
@@sweetbobbybliss you women sacrifice the happiness of your own children for yourself. It's so insanely selfish and horrible. It's like your kids don't even come into the equation at all.
@@HoodrichShinobi So all men and all women are the same?
All men deserve to be in their childrens life? All women do too?
That's news to me.
Last time I checked anyone can be doing shit to their children when nobody's around.
It's ignorant to say such a thing.
Some men don't deserve to see their children. Along with some mother's.
Sometimes it is in the child's best interest to be away from one parent.
My parents were happily married, I'm happily married, with a daughter and we'll always work it out together and yes for her.
But that's something we both agreed to. You can't force someone else's hand in things. And I know growing up my friend who's parents would fight were always so depressing to even be around.
And last time I checked, it's up to God to judge. Not us internet warriors. ☝🏻
Do you even have kids? Do you actually respect your wife? Do you watch porn while in a relationship? Glance at women's cleavage?
Cause a child seeing all of that is just as bad as the child seeing the mom hoe around.
Both are saying the other parent isn't good enough.
All I'm saying is your grass better be the absolute Greenest if you're coming at anyone like that. ☝🏻🙄
@@HoodrichShinobi “imma do what’s right for me”
@@HoodrichShinobi Wait do you know her? Does she even have children? That's just strange your making all kinds of presumptions about a commenter that have nothing to do with the comment.
Women are not the same. Almost every single mother I know is now married.
Older women, single women, childless women and single moms ALL don’t want this guy. Does he understand that ?
😂 Love it ! !
💯
Single women with kids are less attractive to men. Not hard to figure out.
@@relaxingsounds1386 and that's a problem. Nobody is less than anyone. It's bullshit. Single mothers already have enough on their plate, they don't need people like YOU making them feel less than. If anything, I look up to single mothers. They work hard BY THEMSELVES to provide a good life for their kid(s) So, stop being a prick, open your eyes, and being fucking respectful.
Hahaha, not on the same line, not same sympathy
Yikes. That’s kinda what my ex-husband said to me after we divorced. “No one wants a woman with 4 kids.” Then I met my current husband. I didn’t hide my kids. I worked full time too. I was reluctant to invite him into my home because it was messy lol. That didn’t scare him off either. We’ve been married now for 12 yrs.
Cause he couldn't do better
poor guy
Stay blessed
@@mikitesfaye8079 are jelous no woman wants you..
And who the fuck wants a divorced man? 😂
‘I’m fairly attractive I don’t think I’m gonna have an issue’ she’s not wrong 😅
Plenty of hotter single moms out there, and their lives are dumpster fires🔥.
U marry a single mom you're connected to her previous decisions in life forever
Did you hear her speak? You want that harping on you for the next 40 years? She’d be making your list of chores constantly. No thanks. I’d rather die… LOL!
@Steve D omg what's up with all the trolls on this channel...
@@holistic.health attractiveness is very subjective my boy
@@HisFanciness I'm a girl actually... and are you saying she's not??? Mikhaila is beautiful inside and out...
Single mothers ought to date each other.
We basically do😂, just no sex.
Why? Plenty of men are attracted to single moms. Do you have a tiny pee pee?
@@Bewise-gq4ru Stop the CAP!
@@6lu5ky86it’s true they become desperate for a social life and nobody wants to be around. Yelling and crying all day long because most of them doing it alone are trash at it. This is why the men are always blamed because we’re the only ones who can actually do it right.
💯% agree! A woman will always treat you better, take care of you better, and understand you better!
Let's be real: being a single parent will definitely lose anyone points in the dating game. It's not the end of the world though and would not stop someone from finding a decent partner.
Some men actually want children and cannot have them, and are happy to have a built-in family. Hey enjoy being a manly man and a dad. (No, I’m not a mom, but I’ve seen it happen fairly often enough). That’s because not all men are as shallow as our little friend here.
@@misskim2058 Sure that's true, but I think most logical people in that situation would rather just adopt, instead of having to deal with another man in the situation who also has the right to see his kids.
@@misskim2058 exactly. I've met a couple men that can't have kids.
I'm literally young right now, fertile and don't want kids. Men need to stop this spreading this rhetoric. There are a lot of women like me. Half my friends do not want kids at all or want to in their 30s. They better start thinking of single mom's because they won't have any kids at all.
@@misskim2058 You're literally talking about a super minority of men that are infertile. That's not a great basis for an argument.
@NoName
Having no kids is the same as raising someone else's. It's not my blood.
My friend met his wife when she had a five year old and a new baby - he instantly fell in love with the children and saw them as a bonus - they were happy married for over 40 years
Single mom here. Married for 20 years. 2 adult kids. I dont have a problem dating. I guess it depends on the person. I am a guarded person. Havent let anyone meet my kids. I can take care of myself so dating isnt a priority. I find more peace alone.
Which is why you edited your comment. Nobody is fooled, miss.
You may not have problems going on dates, but it’s obvious you lack what keeps you in the relationship for the long haul or you wouldn’t be divorced today.
When I was pregnant with our second child, my ex (after cheating on me) said, “You had better be nice to me now. What man is going to want you saddled down with 2 kids.”
I told him, “We can certainly find out.”
I’m remarried to someone who values me now.
This rhetoric is nonsense.
That’s nothing to do with this man’s argument. He never suggested that single mothers can’t attract any men.
@@Gumpmachine1 he suggested that they were of “less value”. That is nonsense. The whole premise of value being based on external criteria is superficial and insulting.
After I was a single parent, my value did not change. The number of men interested in me was lower than it was in my 20’s, but I don’t need or want to waste my time with most of those yahoos anyway.
Why should I care about men who don’t truly “see” me?
I don’t want a man who only loves me because I fit a criteria of what society deems valuable.
@@jenpoole7291 doesn’t matter what you think your value is because you don’t decide that, the market dictates that which is men because they’re the one’s that are going to have to date you.
All men and women put value’s on each other, I absolutely guarantee you’ve got some expectations from the men you date, men that can’t met those expectations are less valuable to you for maté selection.
Only attractive women get the luxury of living in a Disney fairytale, try being fat, bald, broke and a man, your opinion will change real quick.
Women will often use “cope” to deal with this reality by pretending they didn’t want these types of men anyway because they can’t accept their decline in sexual value.
@@Gumpmachine1
Response to your now deleted comment “This is what women tell themselves to feel better….”
I disagree. How one sees their own value is everything. This nonsense about what society sees as valuable is ego based and shallow.
I don’t find having the attention of a lot of men to be a massive benefit. As a young attractive women I was hit on a lot. Men would shape shift to pretend to have shared interests or lie to try to impress me. That was horrible and heartbreaking.
I didn’t know my value and put up with a lot of nonsense.
After my, let’s call it “societal value”, went down, because I was divorced and had 2 kids at 38, I went inward. I discovered my real value.
Now I have an awesome partner who sees me for the depth of my character, my insight, empathy and intelligence. Yeah.
He is attracted to me too, but he doesn’t make me feel like a prize breeding mare.
The men on here defending this line of thinking are buying into extremely ego based thinking.
I feel sorry for the “high value” women who they might manage to persuade to be with them.
People find love based on shared values and heart centered connection. Anything else is ego driven and doomed to misery.
@@jenpoole7291 I’ll just be straight, your beauty gets the men to notice you.
Even you admitted your partner finds you attractive. Do you honestly think he’d be hanging around for your intelligence if you weren’t attractive?
Cmon now
A single mother can find a relationship but her options are limited. That's reality.
Nah not really. Most people always end up with somebody
It's not limited we have to be cautious because we can't be in relationships with just anyone or with bird brain dumb men! We have to have strong men with a back bone that treat us with respect.
@princesskf5157 of course you have to be cautious especially with under age children in the mix, goes without saying. But never the less the options are limited especially when it comes to men with plenty of them or men of a certain caliber.
@@princesskf5157 what I find funny is you didn’t care about any of the STRONG MAN talk when you gave your womb to another man. Men are not stupid. If it was that easy then you would see more and more single mothers getting married but they aren’t. Why would a man with option settle for taking care of another man’s child. Yes SOME will do it just like SOME WIN THE lottery but I’m
Not going to bank on it.
Yes, they are limited.... that's a fact. But she is pretty and smart. So she does have that going for her. So it doesn't mean Mikhaila can't find someone....but it is limited.
She found a simp to rob
As a former single mother (divorced) if I had it to do over I would have remained single/divorced until my kids grew up. The stepdad thing was horrible. Be very careful who you choose to reparent your children. It's MUCH better to be alone than with the wrong person.
I COMPLETELY AGREE.
Point proven...... 😂
Thanks for the heads up I will stay single 😊
A lot of male pedophiles will marry single moms just to get closer to the kids too.
As someone who as a child was in a parent/step-parent situation….why not allow the child’s parent to actually parent?? I get it, anger and hatred are strong emotions, but the child shouldn’t have to pay the price of two parents that can’t set their personal feelings aside for the benefit of the children they created together.
If a single mom is less “valuable” then how much is the value of a single dad? How much is the value of a man who abandoned his kid/s?
In comparison to his single peers who are more mature, attractive, responsible and and affectionate he’d be also pretty less “valuable”
Single dads are looked upon ever worse most times because it puts out the idea that hes a bad mate. Men dont care as much about mste status as women do.
I’d say his value drops aswell although not as much as the woman because of multiple reasons. But women in general are more likely to take single fathers then men would take single mothers.
Most men don’t want a single mother and for a good reason too. Cope more
@@homiixide the data shows men are far more likely to date single mothers then the inverse.
@@aKjohn8798 if by date you mean smash or have a temporary relationship to smash then yeah but to wife them up or marry no
Why so emotional? He just said LESS valuable.
My dad married my mom even though she was divorced and had a child from that marriage. He even adopted my brother when they got married :) been together for 26 years ❤️.
Your dad's a bitch
Oh god that must’ve been hell on your father I pray he grows up and realizes his wife isn’t the one if she got divorced she’ll get divorced again well thank god I don’t got a kid like you I would’ve blown my brains out if I got married to a woman with no value
She was very lucky. Specially this day and age. Where life is just so expensive. Its hard for you to marry someone who already has a child and you will have to support. Even in the animal kingdom they kill of the offsprings when a new alpha is in charge.
@@hmmmjamz9348 incel
@@hmmmjamz9348 thank God we ain't animals. Phew.
Men don't want other men's Headaches 😮
"Dudes don't wanna play another dude's saved game."
“I’m a virgin”
@@andycampbell8622 Free virgin > Responsibility for other dude's sperm monkeys & baby momma
@@andycampbell8622 Born AGAIN VIRGIN 🤪
@andycampbell8622 you surely look like one
He’s right. As a single male with no kids, I will not even consider getting into a relationship with a single mother no matter how intelligent she is. Not saying it couldn’t work, there just are more disadvantages and baggage that come with the whole situation as opposed to starting with someone fresh.
It’s okay, we feel the same about single fathers.
@greene362 As a man with no kids, having experienced relationships with few single mothers with an open mind, I can honestly say I've seen more disadvantages than advantages and baggage as little as they may be and they are always come into play. Starting fresh is always better
In the end, it's really simple: Nobody's putting a gun to anyone's head to make them go out with them. And I have no issue with a guy not wanting to date a woman with a kid, nor a woman not wanting to date a guy with a kid. It's a preference. Like some people aren't attracted to people who are too heavy, too thin, too short, too tall. It's just preferences. It doesn't mean that person you don't wish to be with is necessarily a terrible person or "not worthy". Just "isn't for me".
@@Mystika777😆
Yeah then you have to see the kids father all the time too and the potential drama lol
Lol when I was growing up men would literally throw themselves at my mom trying to take her out and buy her shit. Men are not in short supply, decent ones are though, which is why they are worth waiting for.
Edit: stop it with the mansplaining comments, I don't need you to rephrase his argument. It's condescending as hell. If you get offended at the thought of women leaving a man who is abusive to her so much that you feel personally attacked and try to tell her that she won't find love, guess what? -you're not one of the good men those women are waiting for. By agreeing with him you're basically putting a big neon sign above your head saying "I'm not a man of quality" . My mom has found happiness, been in a committed relationship for 8 years, and she's been proposed to multiple times along the way but waited for the right person and it paid off. Stop assuming shit. Women are allowed to have standards for how they'd like to be treated in a relationship.
The white Kevin Samuels
Just because they were willing to date your mom or sleep with her doesn’t mean they were willing to marry her and support her kids.
That's because they are simps
but be honest, were the men who were throwing themselves at your mom attractive and worth dating?
Yes we know. There are lot of Neanderthal men that want another man's used up roast beef sandwich. It's gross tbh.
When she goes on about her positivities “I don’t have an IQ of 100, I’m not a moron, I’m fairly attractive so I don’t think I’m gonna have an issue .”…I heard her dad’s voice all day!
But u can hear bigger ego than her dads
@@madzerincognito9732 no, I disagree. she was just stating facts.
An it kinda sounds like dr evil
Although the irony is her dad would probably agree this other guy isn't completely wrong.
@@richardpatterson4312 Not at all. She says she’s not a moron implying people with around 100 IQ or less (the overwhelming majority of the world) are morons compared to her.
She then says she’s fairly attractive even though everything about her that is attractive (physically) seems fake (make up, died hair, lip fillers, eyelashes, fake tan, fake boobs ect ect).
Would you still say that’s just a statement of fact with no ego involved?
Is crazy how this person certainly is so sure that ‘’ALL MEN’’ think the same .
They actually do in this case. Given the chance, a man would almost always choose a younger women without children vs an older single mom....given that they are both identical in personality etc, a very important factor in this scenario.
Same with women: If given the choice between 2 men (tall vs short), they would almost always pick the taller one if other factors are identical.
Yes there are outliers, hence the word "almost".
Why would a man want to take on another man's kid's?
@@russkate88 I don’t know but some do , you haven’t seen them?
I'm married to a single Mother met her 10 years ago with a 5 year old girl at the time, she's the most determined strong caring woman i've ever met. Brought her child up on her own while having a full time job no help from the girls father although they were once married, he basically doesnt exist. She got her through school with good grades and now onto college. Literally leagues above any girl ive had relationships with in the past so due to some idiotic statements going around she has no value. No man wants a single mother... what a load of shit
You didn't listen! No one is saying , no man wants a single mother! What there saying is that men prefer a woman without children . Women who have children USUALLY have to settle for simps. Simps cant get tens , so they take what they can get! I figure you and your misses are on the scale from 1 to ten,,,,, a 4. But as long as your happy , that's all that matters!
You haven't met many women then.
@@Billy-bc8pk thank you hope you put your super powers of knowing fuck all to good use
It's an automatic no if the girls been married before and has kids by that said marriage iam happy this dude found someone but some guys are not willing to accept just anything
@@bateseanderson2667 thanks for holding my wife with such distain but totally agree guys are not willing to except just anything thats why I married this women thought that was obvious
He seems to be thinking every guy is looking for a woman they can have their own children with as well. Me as a recently single man who can't have children, would much perfer a woman with children that's stable and forward thinking. Guys like me exist... not every man just sees a potential for child bearing.
He takes away the complexity of life which is kind of dehumanizing
Thank God for simps like this. There's no man sitting around thinking can't wait to meet a woman who has kids already. None
@@pekoml3999 no it's very simple Missed the point. A man who wants to start his own family and not take on yours is looking for a younger woman without kids. Not a woman whose older with kids. Simple simple. It's a general point and simple to get
@@christopheryouhanna9005 I completely understand this point but let's not reduce ourselves to statistics, being a 30 yo single mother didnt prevent Mikhaila from marrying again recently, with a rich good looking man. It's more complicated than being young and childless. Looks, connection, life story etc matter too in the modern world. That's why it's so difficult to date these days, and may be why many people marry several times. When you feel good with someone you dont want to look else where. But yeah the safest option is always to date someone with no kids, I am 24, I wouldnt want to be with a much older man that already has kids and a past etc.
@@manniefresh3425 the only time you would do that is if your desperate, OR if the single mom is rich and famous and attractive like Mikaela
Glad I found a man who saw my value and we married had four more kids and spent 20 years making a happy life before he passed away.
Lol
My most sincerest condolences for your loss and may God bless you another best friend🙂❤️❤️❤️🙂
Women are far worse nowadays, marriage is a bad deal for men
@@jamespratt7627 wtf bro 😂😂😂😂
I am So sorry Jill.
My fiancé just passed away on Valentines Day too. And my daughters and I are devastated. He was/is our Rock.
I’m crying for You. 💔💜💜💜
Step fathers are the most disrespected. They're just wallets.
Yup.... And that's one big reason to avoid this scenario
Step anything is a usually a bad choice
As a stepmom, I respectfully disagree 😅
@@uhm6577 What do you disagree about? Is it fun being a step?
😂😂😂
I can’t count how many single mothers I know that have had more than one child and married good men who have never been married or had children and who not only love and value their wives, but also love their children and take care of them as their own. And these women are loved, respected, and valued and are all good women.
I dont have any of those in my friend group. Theres a bunch of women with baby daddys that i knew from high school who are still single at 30.
Guys like this old, boring, unattractive man in the video act like this cant possibly happen
Those men are called fools
I'm one of them. I was divorced with 4 kids. My husband now was divorced, no kids, my age. He married us. Like all humans, we all have had things to learn about getting along with each other, which takes time and patience, but he loves us and we love him, and we have a child together whom the older ones adore. It's true, even if it took work. Look for people with quality regardless of their situation. Then work together.
Imagine raising another man’s kids… Biggest cuck move possible
Her attitude is great. "I'm going to do my thing and be happy and if a guy finds that attractive then great" if not I'm better off alone.
Edit: the guy interviewing her is a condescending tool and is "in way over his head". She clearly does not have "daddy issues" she has a great dad and mom
Most females with normal dads and moms have daddy issues in america/Canada.
💯 Agreed
I thought he was just asking for the perspective, wish I could watch the whole piece. Like not her specifically,but "what's a girl who is in your position to do" and her message being "don't settle for less, ladies, but BE PREPARED TO WORK HARD AND BE HAPPY ABOUT IT". There are plenty of (at least at my part of the world) divorced single mothers, who are highly attractive and smart, two thirds of which are looking for a chance to get remarried(= actively participating in the market), but it's them who are condescending towards men, married women and the society in general - like "I'm carrying the heavy cross here, bow down everyone"))) wonder what their answer to that guy will be)))
And to hell with what's best for the kid. As long as she didn't have to compromise with a man she thought was good enough to sleep with at the time, that's the only thing that truly matters. It's not virtuous, is shameful. You made your bed and got pregnant - lay in it. And maybe give a damn about your child's well-being over your selfish self-fulfillment.
You missed his point, just like most single moms. His point is if a man has a choice between a single mom with kids and just a single woman guess what the average man’s gonna pick the single woman without kids.
I remember this interview and "..do you understand that?" condescendant af.
Very condescending indeed. Seems like he may not know who she is and who her father is and how grounded this young lady is.
That guy sounds like such a POS - poor woman whoever dated or married him
@@MsAponte69 So her father adds a bigger value. Problem she is not like most women who are watching her and perhaps listening to her advice. Most normal women who are single moms are not rich, good looking and do not have a famous father. She is exception not a rule.
Missed the point. A man who wants to start his own family and not take on yours is looking for a younger woman without kids. Not a woman whose older with kids. Simple simple. It's a general point and simple to get
Rollo is an interesting guy with interesting ideas, but he can be fantastically condescending at times.
"You said you gonna have his kids, don't care if he's there or not. Now you a single mom. Now you a single mom..."
*Laughs in engaged* being a single mom didn't stop me from extra happiness. This male speaking is not high value like my fiancé. My fiancé is high value he doesn't mention that he is. He is a caring man provides and protects. This dude here is a dust muppet.
Rollo is correct, she is experiencing an episode of cognitive dissonance. He wasn't comparing her to other women. He was talking in the sense of psycho-social dynamics
I love your name! Means African Queen right?
@QUAN TRAN and if she's was ugly or obese he'd wouldn't be with/ leave her too. What's your point?
@QUAN TRAN you spitting facts
Once he loses money you’ll leave him so damn fast your head will spin
She knows her value
Her value as soon as she has a kid 📉📉📉
No she assumes it
wtf@@majorastorm
With age and baggage the depreciation stacks up fast.
@@brianjohnson6053I still think she has more value than other single moms her age.
Jack Sparrow voice"Yeah,,keep telling yourself that,darling!"😂😂😂
Maybe no one is gonna go out of there way looking for a single mother but if he runs along and finds HER as the single mother the man might make some exceptions lmfao. Some people it’s a deal breaker, but then those people aren’t meant for you. Like she said, better to be alone when you know you’ll be happy.
True everyone’s opinions are different so anyone who says that you can’t find love as a single mom needs to only speak for themselves because they’re some single moms who are happily married now.
E x a c t l y. I don't know why this flies over people's head. Plus, you don't need to be special for a billion people in order to be attractive. You just need to be special enough for that ONE person you want to marry. I don't care if a billion men think I'm lame. As long as my man sees me as the one and only, that's ENOUGH for me.
Notice that she did not think of what was best for her child or her ex-husband. She solely thought about her own happiness. Now, her daughter does not get to hold her parents in her arms and feels that security and love. Now, her daughter lives in a broken home with all the chances of a destroyed life increased. Look up the percentage rate for step dads that abuse their step daughters. I guess Mikhailas feelings are more important than everybody else.
@@bmanrrrrr stop projecting
Came to type this but you said it so Ill just co-sign lol. My fiancé never saw himself dating someone with kids. I got divorced at 23 and had my son shortly after at 24. I just turned 28 and have been engage for just over a year 🙂. My fiancé slowly went from bachelor lifestyle to telling ME that HE was ready to meet my son and watching my dog while I went out of town and realizing he is ready to adopt a dog and get some responsibility 🤣. One thing lead to another and now we have two dogs, live together, and my son calls him dad. Plan to move across the country so I can go to medical school in 2024- a year from now! He is the man of my dreams and it's amazing to see what the right person can become when they want to! Wish I could attach a screenshot of our text thread lol- this man is on amazon looking for birthday presents for my son (his bday is next month) and we are deciding what couch we should get that can endure us, the dogs, and our child/our future children. 🤣 The right one always picks you.... The rest don't need to because they're not your match!
I remember being in the Catholic Church and a woman was completely shunned by everyone because she divorced her abusive husband, took the kids, and had him incarcerated. I couldn’t understand how they could think less of her after going through so much
You actually believed her story? because she was in church? LOL
@@RG-ls2dbexactly! These women can lie and get away with pretty much anything.
Aren't Church goers supposed to be Understanding. Shame on them!!
Even the Bible says its ok to divorce in cases of abuse. The church is wrong for that.
@@daisyadele967 Old Testament, not New Testament.
I don't even consider dating a single mom, automatic disqualification.
Hence why your screen name has nightmare in it. Nobody probably wants you… lol. Men have a hard time taking care of their own children or themselves. I see why. Most of yaw are nightmares. -said a married woman with kids
we don't care lol
True. Cuz we don't have time for yall.
Neither do they consider dating you. Isn't it so nice when the feeling is mutual?
@@shabrethajennings7291not true I rejected a couple single moms and it hurt their self esteem
I met my wife and she had a two year old little girl. That girl had me wrapped around her finger from day one. She's twelve now and calls me dad.
Did she provide you with kids of your own at least? I couldn't imagine my ancestors looking down at me and seeing me spend my hard earned resourced on another man's progeny over my own.
Do you have kids of your own as well?
@@davidz3879 Yes.
@@ParkerGuy89 Do you view & treat your stepdaughter equally to your own kids?
@@davidz3879 Yes. At least I've never had anyone say I treat them different. I've treated them different when they were at very extreme differences is age but that's all kids.
“You let him hit it raw, you didn’t have 2nd thoughts”
Her squint, when he said “less” I knew she could handle her own!!
Handle her own? We judge each other on a hierarchy we internalize. She doesn't need to handle her own. She needs to find someone with similar values.
Her squint made me think she’s instantly taken offence, rather than understanding the point of what he said. And she didn’t going by her reply.
It helps when your father is a multi-millionaire and has given you an established platform from which to operate your business. So yes, you are correct in that you're not like 99.8% of single mothers out there.
dont be a hater
@@LjubavLove3Telling a truth is being a hater? Let's be real
Most single mom's have an average income. They are way less reachable than a single mom with a deep bag.
Often times, people confuse the truth that hits home with hatred.
@@LjubavLove3
She wouldn’t even be successful if not for piggybacking off her father’s back.
Oh so that's what it was. She has or makes more money than he does, so she left him. Heard that story plenty of times, haven't we? She definitely left because she thought she could do better. Women don't divorce their husbands and ruin their children's lives because they want to be alone
I think he must have been rejected by a lot of attractive single mothers who just didn’t think he was good enough for them
Right on
Rolo Tomosi is a married man. Has been in the game as well. Has entire male blog and books made for men by men.
Men and women’s quest for superiority has just gone next level.
I don’t know what the fuck you all are talking about, no one is inferior for any reason, I personally would look to a the way a single mother is with her child as a form of compatibility for me. A kind loving smother is something I look for,just as much a a kind loving single women. Your predetermined out come for me, based of your experience, as much as it is, is determined by your own trauma, that ended your relationships, and is now seeking to dictate the outcome of mine. So warped.
I mean yea but he’s right tho lol
I think these type of men "get off" on rejecting single mothers. It makes him feel like a 5 instead of a 2. To say that to her, of all people, shows his emotional intelligence is not something to be proud of. 😂😂😂
my mom was a single mom, she had two jobs and two kids and is very intelligent. she has a husband and her own business now, and i’m proud to say that she is mom, especially considering she basically raised us on her own with a little help from my grandparents. she did everything to support us. she valued her family over everything and that in itself is admirable. just goes to show that single moms are not at all less than anyone else.
Her husband is a beta
@@kafpachecoparizot9518 anyone who uses the word “beta” is so unbelievably sad. do some serious self reflection.
Your mom had you with Chad and she found herself a beta with no chance to question her past
I definitely strongly agree ❤
@@hurricanetortillla doesn't matter bro, stuff like this is a rarity and also anecdote is worth nothing. Use data if you want to make an argument unless you want to say "there are exceptions"
I think people forget the power of connection. She has made a connection with someone and is now married again. So yes it is possible to find happiness but also possible to never find the one even if you have no kids. It is just life.
Her husband might be simp 😂😂😂 no high value men marry single mom hahaha
Also true 👍
Connection? Hell na 😂 yall just be making shit up bruh she has a whole kid with another man tht basically saved her father mikala is just insane thts why she got plastic surgery n took over Dr. Peterson n his work
I would withold the applause if I were you. Marriage is a marathon and not a sprint.
Do you really think Simp 2 will be able to wash out the rebound's taste out of her mouth?
Lol. There is often a correlation between the number of pictures on social media and the amount of insecurity a woman has.
You seriously still think marriage is about "finding happiness?"
It is closer to War than a Scavenger Hunt.
You choose to make it work, especially when it all is going wrong.
The trolls lose once again. She is happy, married to a Ken doll and he still looks like a gremlin cousin.
Hahahaha, bullseye!!
Yeah, after all wedding is the final destination, final evaluation, final everything. Untill the next wedding, that is)
@@1D. what a mean comment. We’ll see, but I have no idea why you’re so smug and sure of yourself.
@Calderitas Beach right, even though this is her second marriage? At least get your mean, baseless insults right.
Lmao exactly. I don’t understand how the red pill guys don’t see that a cynical gremlin who almost certainly has not had the best experience with women/dating, may not be the best person to take women/dating advice from ???
NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER!!!
I like it. She threw NO shade. Just looking for a good life for herself.
Yes, and if there's a guy she likes cool but till then she's still happy, very happy. She's not going to settle for someone how's not going to add to that! Most men are cunts anyway.
If she doesn't perceive her being a single mother as a lower value how will she overcome this disadvantage? If I was a man living in my mom's basement it would not help me to downplay that in the same way she is downplaying being a single mother don't you agree?
@@bmanrrrrr that's a good point, but as a random internet troll I feel it's my duty to now assume you are in fact a loser living in your mom's basement and insult you for that and disregard your point.
She is so much like her father and I enjoy to listen to both of them speak.
Only in talking mannerisms.
That last it she said is literally what JBP warns others females not to be.
shes a moron unlike her father
She's a little spunkier and seems to have more of a personality. But factual like him
I don't think JP would fly private to romainia to land on Top G's D!
And here I am a 40 yo single mother who found a wonderful 30 yo man who loves and accepts me with aaaaaaaal my bagage and does not think that I have "less value" 🤔
Sounds like that’s all he could get it. A man’s first pick is never a single mother. Come now. Be reasonable. Your 20 yr old self was hotter, tighter and fertile. There’s no win for a man to date a single mom especially when she can’t give him progeny
So there is still hope and love for single moms left. Such words as those of the guy tend to destroy me😢 and stories of strong woman believing in love gives hope ❤❤
@@mutfunkenWell when you put it that way it is heart breaking
You do realize that there are exceptions to every rule, right?
@@AnCapDog144 Well, we do not choose in the beginning to be single mothers, we choose at a point when we have to. And than society blames us for trying to make it better for us and/or our children. My child is now "luggage". My child is a gift. As everyones child. So I really don't like the attitude of "damaged goods" society tries to push on me. Believe me, we do choose as we have to choose to raise our kid alone. I am since birth alone with my kid, trying to make things work with his father in coparenting . And still people try to blame me alone for the break up. Maybe it is an American attitude to say single mothers are the trash in the dating area, but I have to say, sometimes mid forties man-children, still trying to find a mother not a partner are not really better. And I feel like I have to blame such man about the bad look society puts on single moms. Which by the way are superheroes. With love from Austria dear ancapdog144
The thing is, beauty attract but eventually fades, character is what remains and keeps the relationship going
Yes but add a kid into the mix. Be she 20 or 40, a kid severely limits her dating pool, and the more child, the less valuable she becomes.
People always say that beauty fades but they don't realise it lasts for half of a lifetime, so it's kind of a big deal like it or not.
@@StrongestKryptonianpeople who dont have it or think they dont try to discredit it. Its 100% the driver for attraction in men with options. Women who say stuff like that account for the bottom 80% of women(referred to as such because the top 20% have different albeit similar hallucinations about men theyre entitled to) going for the top 10% of men. Women think men are entitled in dating when in fact the entire pool of women from bottom of the barrel to wealthy, millionaire ceos are going for the top 10% of men. Mens parsing out of women is less concentrated and varies based on income, status, looks and availability to resources. It seems one group knows their audience and one doesnt. Entitled versus realistic.
Great point. That is why we all men and women should choose carefully, with o without kids. We are marrying characters. Like that.
@@Mariathinking it is not about value. It is more about preferences. I dont find correct to point people ...men or women with kids ... Out of value. Yikes! it tells more about the one talking. 😜
Honestly as a woman, a man having a kid isnt a game changer for me. It gives me an amazing insight to how this guy truly is.
@@dm2727x fair for them to feel that way. I wouldn’t date a man with kids. Luckily I found my husband and we’re on our 2nd kid. There’s some who like someone with kids tho. Everyone’s different
@@NotaBeautyGuru7 Very true everyone has their own preferences
No, it’s insanely a turn off. Involved or not, a divorced man is a huge turn off
@@dm2727x *all men
Then you get to deal with the crazy baby momma drama lol. Parents are just, forever off the table. 🤣 I’ll stay outta that mess thank you.
To be honest she doesn't even have to be that young for men to want a serious relationship with her, the problem is the single mother part. We simply don't want to deal with a child that's not our own.
if this is your profile pic you couldn't get her anyway...
Bruh you look like the Chinese egg guy singing tf you talking about?
I broke up with my "highschool sweetheart" in my 30's, it destroyed me. I figured I'd focus on work and let life play out. I spent nearly ten years single, my career exploded - literally! Ended up a weapon systems engineer for one of the largest aerospace engineering companies in the world and then... out of the blue... I met someone incredible. She rescues animals, shes drop dead gorgeous, has no kids, owns her house outright, and is crazy in bed. I think placing importance on a relationship is exactly why most fail. You just have to let the universe unfold around you and the right person will come along. It might take ten years like it did for me, but it will happen. The few "girlfriends" I had over the course of those ten years certainly made me realise why I wanted to be single, people are fking crazy.
Happy for you and best of luck friend.
@@alripley5335 Thank you mate, and likewise. I think the biggest lesson I learnt was that you can't find love, it finds you, you just need to put yourself out there. Peace.
So you develop systems for killing people and she saves animals🙂 Just joking mate, I'm glad things worked out for you and it's a really nice example of what you said "you don't find love, love finds you". Life has it's strange ways and if you're brave enough to walk them, there are lots of opportunities waiting.
@@marioperak You're one of few people I come across that gets the dichotomy, and it extrapolates to further obscurity. Is it keeping people safe, or putting people in harms way? Oil & gas wasn't much different, helping society or destroying the planet? Newton's flaming laser sword comes to mind, and because I can't quantify the outcome it's probably best not to be consumed by it. I'd never sleep if I did! Stay well mate, you're a good soul.
omg marry me instead 😅😅😅 i can tell your just one of those… AMAZING people i NEVER seem to meet LOL p.s. how did you make an account with a name? literally a goal of mine lol
These men say the same mess over and over. All my friends with kids are in a relationship. This is not true. Love her confidence btw and she should be
I keep saying this repeatedly this is an internet thing in reality I don't see this and I don't hear this. My sister and 2 of her friends are all recently married all of them were single moms.
You can doit, but lowering the standards its necessary for that... do not expect mr Gray as husband if you have Kids of another man
@@werwinn but who cares if it’s lowered. I’m sure they are happier then a lot of single people
the men that dont want to raise the child of another man is the mess but not the single mother?
@@trishasmiley the mommy itself cares... allways she keep having the hope of geting a high hiiiigh status man
I don’t know the full context of this conversation but I would agree with both of them.
Im 32 and no children yet. I want to be a mother with a husband one man and a solid God driven relationship
Better hurry
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Should've done that a decade ago at this point.
tic toc
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I wonder why ahahah
I was a single Mum and met my partner who is 15 years younger and wanted me AND my kids.
Me too. I had two kids. As a single mom with my own business, I had no issues finding men who wanted to commit. I’m remarried now.
If you're the exception, that's awesome! I'm sure nobody believes you couldn't do it lol
Did you put him through college as well? 😂
@ARK Babe 🦖 Gross.
@ARK Babe 🦖 would rather stay single than get with a low value/used up sloot😂
She's beautiful and found the kind of man she wanted just truth. I believe he's also right. There is someone out there for everyone
What a perfect response. There is no “all women this” or “all men that.” Why? Because none of us are “men” or “women” in the collective sense. We are individuals. Every rule has exceptions. Cuz everyone is different. Even better news-you don’t have to attract a billion people. Find someone with your unique brand of weird.
PS, Mikhaila rocks as a human. Whoever her man is is lucky to have her.
He’s talking in generalities which is how we operate in reality.
In general being a single mother will lower a woman’s ability to attract the best possible man
Exactly, we are all individuals.
@@josiemorgan6567 seriously?
@@Gumpmachine1 you’re speaking my point. We don’t though. We don’t make dating decisions on generalities-we make them on specific people based on what we specifically are into.
@@officialcalvinwayman but those individuals choices express themselves as generalities at the population level.
If I’m going to work to be attractive to women or men then I need to look at probability to maximise my chances.
A in shape man will attract more attention than a fat guy,
A childless woman will attract more quality attention than single mother
Banking on some exception, minority or Hail Mary is poor advice especially for women.
First: my Mil had 4 kids and single for maybe a month. He passed away about 2 years ago but she was able to find multiple people to date her 😊!!!
Her and her dad seem to have the same switch they flick when they're challenged. I love it!
And they take prescription drugs to cope with reality.
Except she is not doing what her father promotes.
Her speech pattern is the same as his
Don't think they flip. I think they are open to a progressive Convo, not just an argument
@@MrAlexmiele8910 Well she is a grown-ass women who can think for herself and formulate her own opinions.
The reality is that _majority_ of single moms remain single, so what Rollo is saying is absolutely true, and single moms will end up "happier" being alone
No use. The delusional comments already got pushed to the top.
sad but true
😂😂😂😂I know plenty of single mothers married or in committed relationships with high value men.
@@heidicastano4382the 2-3 you know is not a lot.🤷🏾♂️
part left unsaid is that she’s not going to find somebody smarter richer better because she’s not looking. But when that day comes guaranteed, she would not be with anybody that has less than her.
“Your value is less as a single mother” what’s the value of the person who made her a single mother because I’m sure you’d praise him and tell him that he can do better …
She left him tho
Women file 80% of divorces, her included. I know men also see that as a red flag, to never expect your loyalty.
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I think the person means In general
@@overlyfatman9722 to survive perhaps?
@@UnlistedAccount to survive perhaps?
I feel so bad for young men getting pulled into a single mother’s baggage… run away bros
What about older men? Do you think it's different if an older man dates a mother?
@@The-Oneness11Dating is fine, probably not considering marriage though.
@@curtispalmer7866 I am a widowed mother and I am dating a man 30 years my senior. I somewhat desire to marry again but I do feel like since I already have children, maybe I shouldn't or don't really need to be married again. Plus I'm worried that since it is such a big age gap I may end up a widow again.
Why do so many of them do so?
I’m grateful as a single mother to have met and fallen in love with a wonderful single dad. We’re good for each other.
He's 100% correct. I never knew Mikhaila is a single mother though.
This dude’s so wrong. As a young woman, I am friends with many other young women. Neither me, nor any of my friends, would ever go out with a man over the age of 30. On another point, I have known many women through my family who were single mothers over the age of thirty who remarried with no problems. From my observations, his points hold no validity in the real world.
Women without kids are more desirable than women with kids. The math is pretty fucking simple lol
@@manniefresh3425 My point was that I have never seen what he's talking about play out in reality. It is rarer for there to be a relationship with an age gap. As such, it's shocking to see a young lady with an old man. Only 8.5% of marriages have an age gap. My point I made is the statistical average.
@@manniefresh3425 the men with the highest values for young women are rich men under 30. After 30 you start turning from a play boy to a sugar daddy only gold diggers go for if you are rich
@@bigmomma3265 I have never seen an orca breach, that doesn't mean that they don't exist or that they don't breach.
The quality of the men those single mothers brought in were most likely men who couldn't get what they really wanted and settled
She has the best response ever ❤💯😂🥰🤣😁😉😁😛
Not really because her response acknowledges that he’s right
@@Gumpmachine1she’s already divorced in this video. :| she later had her second marriage
@@sailorashy3847 not what I was talking about,
She referenced her beauty so even she acknowledged that she was going to need to lean more heavily on other positive traits to compensate for being a single mother
Have 2 sons.
No woman with kids will step into my house to be my daughter in law. Period!
Uh, you don't get to decide that lol. Your sons do. And being a controlling mother/father-in-law never works out well. Tons of adult kids are cutting their parents off for being nasty to their spouses. When your kids get married, they are starting their own families and their wives are now their priority. If they choose to marry a single mother, that's their choice. If you choose to be nasty towards those women.... you probably won't have a place in your sons' lives. So think long and hard about your own behavior and the consequences it may have.
Yeah. That's not really up to you.
Best bet for single mothers is to find a single father. They then have something in common.
Nah. They need to get back with the kids father.
Why would they risk losing their remaining 50% of their assets? Two women means 25% of an initial 100%, no damned way.
Nah. And this is actually another reason I hate single moms because if you don’t have kids she will say “My kids come first” but she wants you to put her first so if you already have kids she knows that she will never come first
Like the Brady Bunch
@@russkate88 A nice vision, but ultimately a fantasy made in television. We have got to stop letting rich tv and movie stars tell us what is normal. They are clearly not.
Getting with a woman whom already has kids and past is like sitting down to your birthday cake and the candles are already blown out and I am expected to eat the last slice.
as a single mom.. i know that my market is smaller unlike the single ladies out there. BUT!!!! i am not looking for a partner.. I am focusing on my son,saving money for a secure future and fulfilling my own ego in providing for us. I like it when people or my neighbors/relatives defend me like "eventhough she is a single mom she can provide this and that" mostly people sees a single mom as clingy and wanting to look for a father and a bank.. well,count me out.. I dont want to drown on that pool.. Because I am taking my stand for my son and as i made the decision of being a single mom.. i would never pass the responsibility to some random guy..
Good for you! Feel exactly the same ;-)
Lady be glad. That is just the f boy filter. No good person cares. Don't accept this low value shit talk. Ugly man say this to score up. Exhibit a here
And i am single with a boy too. No man was worthy to be allowed into his life so far. We set the bar, don't get it twisted. A great man to be a loving step dad to a boy is almost impossible to find in this mess
Then you're selfish.
@@gagewesterhouse9558 I think you mean "selfless". Selfish people put their needs first and selfless people think about their children's needs first. You provide for your children first and if you don't find a good, healthy partner willing to share that commitment, you do without.
She talks just like her dad, love it 😂❣️
But doesn't follow his advice.
The last bit she said is what JBP warns others females not to do.
@@khurramaziz2430 Who is she?
@@khurramaziz2430 “females” 🗿
@@esanalgona1160 women? Aliens? Fuck you getting to here?
Actually her dad said in one of his lectures that divorced women with kids have lower 'market value'
Facts I rather be by myself. I got married young and I have 4 boys with my ex husband. My value isn’t determined by any man. I’m not bitter when it comes to men and there are still good men out there. I know my value and what I can bring to the table, but I rather stay single for the rest of my life.
Its not hard as some of these men make it sound to find a man who is willing to take on the responsibilities that come with single mothers. It takes a real man that’s the difference. My dad raised me and my brother, remarried a single mother with one child, and provided for all of us.
Now my dad is a widow and I’m taking care of him and my 4 boys.
I loved it when she said “I’m not a moron”
She said that to claim that a man would find her attractive when in fact she thinks she's so much better than every man out there she won't be more realistic
Only stupid people would say that tho. Cause every psychopath is going want teach her why she is stupid.
"I'm not 100 iq. I'm not a moron." Uhhh, 100iq is average. 70iq is borderline moron status. Why bash the average in your claim T.T
@@user-nj1zu2nf1x She does not need to be more realistic. She is smarter, richer and more attractive than 90% of the world. And she did find a great husband so...
@@shadearca women approaching or over the age of 30 absolutely need to be more realistic if they're dragging around a kid. It lowers their value on The dating market,
Yes happier by myself until / unless God brings the perfect husband for me
Precisely. Nothing in between.
What standards are you looking for?
@@greenghost6416 the impossible one.
Same here! God bless you and your little ones
That's a great position to have. God bless you!
Been alone is not easy....its very sad 😢
His point is that most men won't even take the time to figure out how amazing you are once they know you're a single mother...
And that's fair. A lot of single mothers come with baggage. And there's nothing wrong with trying to avoid that.
Who wants to raise someone else's kids. No way Jose
Nor should they be expected to.
@Skíðblaðnir nope
@@seancrowe3353 Sounds like you support abortion, some people respect life
As a single mother and woman your value to anyone should be more and your respect should be more because someone failed her.
Single Moms and Single Dads Unite!!
@Skíðblaðnir there are also less of them.
@@radagast7200 so true 😂😂😂
@Skíðblaðnir I agree. Family courts are very bias. Men also tend to die more on the job as well.
@Skíðblaðnir why is that?
Yes please date each other and stop messing up dating for people with no kids. Good solutions
Dated a single mom after i got discharged(past one night stand) was good to kids, park, zoo, stuff on weekends, ect. A date was a "family affair"($$) came out one morning for work, and her 8 year old was using the side of my truck(with a 2 day old new custom, expensive paint job, with custom mix paint) for batting practice. Got the whole"i dont have to listen too you "thing.
His Mom, my girlfreind/fiancee, says its no big thing, and she'll "pay for it"😂😂😂
She needed all her$$$ cuz i kicked Her and her 3 kids out on the spot. Called in to work, took their stuff too her mothers.
You can try with single moms, but beware
Listen to Mikhaila speak about herself objectively, no arrogance, just facts. No wonder she found who she was looking for, despite clowns like this saying she couldn't❤️
Even though she cheated once but it’s funny how everyone forgot about that even though it was a couple of years ago.
@@gabrieltejada1697 Unless you have proof to back up your claim and the backbone to address Mikhaila yourself, I advise getting a life.
@@gabrieltejada1697 ohh honey. Are you squatting in Mikhaila's walls? It's the only way you'd know this. I take that back. You could also be a voyeur. Oof. You should get professional help before your stalking gets even worse & something really bad happens. I mean, youre already at the level of intrusive where youve been hiding close enough to actually witness her, in her intimate private life. I think you should talk to a shrink. I hear her dad is one of the Greats...
@Brandon Johnson About as dense as a person whining about Mikhaila to an internet stranger, instead of addressing Mikhaila directly on her YT channel.
@Brandon Johnson can you send your source please? When did she say so?
Smart, intelligent, knows what she believes and isn't intimidated by being questioned, but rather relishes in it. Love her style.
Hahahaha
Yeah. Yet somehow she is still a single mother. Mmmm 😂🤣
Appeartly she is married
@@sheenamims379 Yeah, after she had her back blown out by Andrew Tate and his friends.
@@paulh7798 from what souce Mr troll?
Every person is valuable . Glad i can help .
Its like this, love is NOT a planned event, it's a gift that happens and, in many cases, does not. The first mistake you made was when you said "looking", because unless you have magic powers, that's not doing anything. Life is not rules to live by, love is not choice, they both are mysteries to be lived......
I do not get this weird impulse to analyse human relationships as though they were economic models. Economists have enough difficulty coming up with decent rules of thumb everyone can agree on. Actually, come to think of it, perhaps this guy would do well to look into the subjective theory of value.
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No he doesn't need to as a guy we can tell you what we value in a woman and you can get mad all you want but having a kid devalues women for men. You can try to twist it and turn it however you want
subjective theory of value is bs its looking at outliers as if they are the rule. One example of this is modern art the vast majority of people hate it, and they hate it because its based on he subjective theory of value, that there is no correct way to do or value anything, This is just bs, if you have one painting that 99% of people think is beautiful and one that 99% of people think is awful, it doesn't matter if 1% of people subjectively disagree, the one that 99% of people like is better. And on the subject of economics, economic free markets find value better than anything people pay more for things they value more, so even if a particular car which people pay millions for is subjectively disliked by some people, it's still valuable because people value is more than most houses.
but back to the paintings just like paintings you can have pretty people and no so pretty people where 99% prefer one over the other, sure you can say it's subjective, but that's dishonest and you know it, saying such things supports people failing to do things like maintaining a healthy wright to attract a pathners because they think, hey its jlsubjectice right I will just find that perfect person who loves me regardless. This is dumb and leaves many people especially women wasting their best years, this is why it's important to think of value, when women are young they have more value to men, so they can use that to have the best selection of men possible in reading their chance of finding that perfect guy, or they can just believe in subjective value and wait to find a man later when less men value her. This is the thing just like with l paintings sure you can say its subjective, but if 99% of people prefer one over the other and you want lots of people to buy your paintings then you want paintings that 99% of people like, in the same way while yes some men will subjectively still like a woman at an older age as I said the vast majority wont so there is less choice and therefore chance of finding the right person, so it does matter, analysis is of course required for relationships, they are important, why wouldn't you analyse anything important to look for areas where you could make mistakes or improve?
Oh and back to economics, real economists have no trouble making rules of thumb eg supply and demmand = price, its the economically illiterate aka communists who disagree with basic economic rules, no communist is a real economist so their opinions don't matter
@@daquanmartinez1423 the interesting thing is if that woman has a kid, then there’s also a single man out there with that same kid. But I bet y’all won’t speak on what value a single man with a kid has the same way you would about a single woman with a kid 🙄
Instead of over analyzing the “value” of women y’all should turn the lens on yourself and figure out what “value”, if any, you hold
@@harashe1000 you are right because men don't value the same things as women.. men don't look for the same thing in a partner as women. I'm telling you as a man and I we talk we are not fans of women with children. If women are okay with it that's y'all cool
I had two kids and I’m now happily married. Our value is in the eyes of the beholder, also depends on what kind of mother you are.
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Very true
A mother that recognizes she messed up, and that her value has gone down will always be more successful than the ones that lie to themselves;
Mikhaila is not a moron;
She is intelligent;
You found a sucker. Bet he doesn't give you the tingles
I married a single mom and having a daughter come into my life and having the experience being a dad has been one of the very best things in my life. We married later in life, and I've dated women with and without kids prior to meeting my wife. Watching how a woman treats her children will tell you most of what you need to know about what type of partner she will be. A good mother can put the need of her family in front her own, good mother is not selfish, self centered, or cruel for cruelties sake. It's not easy being a single parent and anyone who can make it work is not afraid of hard work and possesses a good measure of common sense...all qualities I value in a partner. I was looking for a worthwhile person living a life that was truly worth living and found that in single mother.
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Please tell us that your wife still collects child support from the 'dad' and you DID NOT adopt 'her' child.
@@formula112967 She's an adult now. Her bio dad is still in her life, but if he weren't I would have adopted her years ago. I love her and she love's me, we have a great relationship...she just gave birth to my first grandson. We may not share physical DNA, but we do share a sort of spiritual DNA. If my wife left me tomorrow I would still have a relationship with her...she's my daughter too.
@@Shannon-pn1iv I actually met her daughter a few years before I met my now wife. My wife and I had a mutual friend (f) who was babysitting her daughter for a day and we took her hiking with us. She was a joy to be with, but after that day I didn't give it another thought. Both my now wife and I were married to other people at the time and we wouldn't meet for another 3 years or so when we were both single, and we were introduced by that mutual friend. If you told me on that day we went hiking that I would someday marry that girl's mother and she would call me dad, I would have thought you were crazy...funny how life takes you down paths you cannot even imagine.
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He is 100% correct she’s going to settle why because her value isn’t what it use to be 🤷🏾♂️
That comeback though! Yes, Mikhaila!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
She left her husband snd child. Go whatM
He said LESS valuable. He did not say “not valuable”. If you are short man you are less valuable to women. Does not mean a short man can not have higher value than others. But still less than a a version of himself with 3 inch on top.
Being a single mother doesn't lower your value as a woman, just the perception of your value in the eyes of a _subgroup_ of prospective partners.
But value as a woman its only strengthened when you have experience with dealing with a child. The whole world can see how good of a mother they are by how their child is. You can talk with the child and get an indication of the mother. You can share the experience with other women and help them, that sounds far more valuable to me .
@@ishish8816 to you. You will get a better man if you weren’t a single mother
@@ishish8816 It does lower your Value in the dating world. That is the harsh truth.
I think things got out of control a couple of years back when that guy who had the RUclips channel started talking about how low value women are after 30 and I think that our “Creator” was like please “don’t speak for me” and took him out. That’s what I believe..
He was trying to break down her self esteem so he could swoop in and be sugar daddy to the rescue 🕵️♂️
...no? 😂
@@adamm2091 Your comment literally has zero context. All that I can infer from your one word question is that you don't have a 'Yes' answer and you're having a giggle.
@@kennethjones5179 for a person who literally formed a stupid conspiracy by a few words of that man, you're the last person to talk about context.
@@chaitanyagupta6668 Calling someone out for their misogynistic and derogatory remarks against females who didn't ask for their opinion isn't "Some dumb conspertory!" Like you say. It's choosing not to live with my ass in the air and my head under a rock like the both of you do. Chaitanya just because you live an IMPOTENT LIFE and never make a good change, does not mean that you are NOT CAUSING HARM. Your silence is consent for evil men of the world to continue their wicked crusades of the mind and of flesh.
Congratulations Mikaela on your beautiful marriage, your wonderful family and the great husband you have. A real man who is not condescending, a smart man who knows and recognizes you for the gem that you are.
They'll be divorced in 5 years. Guarenteed.
Women aren't the prize anymore once their body count becomes high or they get kids from a dude that left them;
Mikhaila is intelligent enough to know and recognize how she lost hersepf as the prize, so, she moved forward with finding the man that is the prize;
And she did;
Congrats, indeed;
But, not for the narcissistic reasons you stated; 😒
Women do not decide what's a real man. Real men do not accept others mistakes.
@@anonymity2882 ...I was going to give them 3 1/2!!! ROFLMAO 😂
Imagine getting with someone that you like and that respect’s you, that’s all, that’s all you need.
Now imagine she has took another man’s seed and now you want to take care of another man’s child
@@askaryibarra8420 Tons of men clearly dont car if they have kids
No that’s not all that matters. You just have no standards.
@@askaryibarra8420 But they could get without a 29 year old without kids lol your just trying to exaggerate a counter example by saying oh its between a 23 year old and oh the 29 year old has traumas lol why would she suddenly have traumas? what if its a choice between a 29 year old with kids and the 23year old has traumas?
The fact of the matter is you could always say its oh well you cant do any better with any situation and also in real life you meat someone you like and you just get with them, their isnt this massive weighing and calculating of what you can possibly get, people just meet someone they like and if they meet the particular preferences they have then they get with them and here its clear lots of men DONT mind they have kids otherwise they wouldn't get with them, also alot of men with actual life experience and maturity in fact would choose a 29 year old over the 23 year old as they know they have to actually have a relationship with this person and want a mature person for that.
@@askaryibarra8420 Also stop the with the body count BS all the men having the casual sex raising there's weren't complaining then nor getting criticized and now suddenly you complaining that it also means woman have had sex, Oh get over yourself, grow up and deal with it yes woman have sex with people just like men and dont want to to deal with your hypocritical double standards
Papa Jordan gonna need to havva talk with his daughter.
"I'm not like other wimmen, I'm special."
The point : ✈️ 🙋♂️
Glad she’s hunkered down being happy by herself because that attitude and heard of kids is going to keep her there.
There are definitely nicer ways of saying that. I think the important thing is that if you have kids you have to realize that the other people are going to factor that into the equation and of course taking care of somebody else's kids, even if you treat them as your own, it's still different than taking care of your own kids.
If you're "not like other women" why do you say the same shit as EVERY woman?
He's right. You're wrong.
God values us all as equals and he loves us all. All the best in your walks through this crazy world. May you find people who build you up and stand by you.
Value as a woman...she's a human being for God sake.
Her human value because she is a mother increases because she has more reliant on her.
However, if she had a price tag in the sexual market place. YES, it does go down because that’s how men perceive it , and that’s who decides to commit their time to the woman.
Your sexual market value changes much faster than your comparatively more stagnant human value. Human value is innate, sexual market value naturally fluctuates.
@@thekittehmanthere is no such thing as a “sexual marketplace”. Does it not ever occur to you how disgusting and demeaning it is to both yourself and your fellow man to reduce sexuality to some sort of commodity subject to market forces? Is nothing sacred anymore? Good Lord…
@@polkforpresident9710 There definitely is a sexual marketplace, and it's absolutely brutal - just ask the short broke men with wonderful personalities.
It's only women who have the privilege of being able to pretend it doesn't exist..... at least until they turn 30 and decide they've "had their fun, and it's time to settle down." Then it becomes apparent that abundance of male attention is not correspond to the scarcity of commitment.
@@polkforpresident9710 if youve ever turned down a woman, for any reason, congratulations you have participated in the sexual market place. If youve ever been turned down, than your value in the marketplace has been deemed unsuitable
Prostitutes too. You should marry one
I agree with this... I haven't had kids and I chose this because of this exact reason lol.
Rollo is right in terms of generalities but when it comes to specific persons he gets it wrong.
He only meant it in the *general* sense. Why everyone defaults to a pedantic (anecdotal) evaluation is beyond my understanding. Likely a failure to understand logic and syllogism.
@@EricA-xd9fn Literally every woman commenting on here is ignoring all his points and dismissing it by saying not everyone is the same. I Don't get it either. Why discuss anything if all people are as unique as these women claim? We'll just listen to their anecdotal evidence and pretend that no 2 people ever act alike.
It is just called limiting beliefs. I know of many blended family. For both men and women who have kids there is still hope.
People just don't like reality. If she compares herself with herself without a kid who would win. There is no contest.
Also, bringing IQ into the mix was cringe
@@carolinespence15 Your "limiting beliefs" argument is more suited for the single mother keeping an upbeat attitude. But strictly speaking both men and women make subtle (often subconscious) judgments of a partner's "value proposition". Beauty, wealth, humor, height, weight, maturity, faith, family all add or subtract "value". Hard truth, but "kid who's not yours" isn't considered a plus. No one is saying that's just or kind, but it's how a plurality of men think...and it's biologically and genetically-driven too.
I love how she doesn’t allow him to put her down. Fuck his mentality toward you! ❤You do You, Don’t settle and don’t bring no man around who you can’t see as a good and safe Person
She is definitely a women of value absolutely
I mean if he means most women sure, but her lol no she's in no danger at all. She's beautiful, somewhat famous, rich. This dude's off his rocker on his point if directed at her. She can easily pull a top dude.
@@daytonaofcv6856No she can't. She's got a kid and has herpes.
@daytonaofcv6856 only to sleep with. Take andrew tate for example....
Plus the 'top dudes' could get someone way more attractive and younger than her.
She aint even that hot.
Thats the point rollo is making.
@@daytonaofcv6856 Why would fame and money help her get a top dude? Men dont care about that. Also maybe it's just me, but I don't find her very attractive. Okay I guess.
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