Its possible to meet someone at any age, but i suggest you just relax and stop looking, you will be found!...dating is tiring for sure. Marriage is good but not a must, i have never struggled on this, but so far i remain single by choice. Live and serve God and humanity, that is all that matters.
I feel like you can serve God and humanity even with your man with you..guys go out get someone because there's no better feeling than having someone to do life with
Guys, you can't be tired of dating but miss tactics and run out of ideas on where mr/miss right is found-period. Several reasons are attributed to these state of affairs; 1. You need to discover who you are first-personality trait in colours. Google and read 2. Re-evaluate your credentials 3. Change tactics and approach to relationships 4. Change your mind set by reviewing your expectations 5. Lower your anxiety and explore new approach to relationships 6. Check if your presentation criteria meets the type of person you are looking for. 7. Check and review what you post or comment on social media 8. Come out 9f the comfort zone and start shining 9. Reduce and change your type of friends. 10. Change your priorities of life and try an alternative route to your destiny. 11. Detach from your mother and siblings and stand on your own
Thanks for saying that 25 is the best age to start being in a dating relationship.i thought i have a problem since am 22 and single practicing Celibacy and focusing on growths and development in my life and career...I used to find it hard since all of my friends on the same age group as me are dating.i see them happy with their partners but am also happy very happy being alone ☺️☺️
First Surrender your life to Lord Jesus before you start thinking Dating. My people you need to Repent for your sinful.. We are End Time now.. REPENT!!
Thanks Benjamin for the advice I was in a relationship that affected me emotional and I have wound in my heart and im 40 and I don't have hope anymore and give up on love so thanks for sharing I'm feeling better
This show has really helped me build my circle and focus on myself, and rebuild myself after a breakup I have my own business it's just a matter of time and I will build an empire 🥰thanks to Zulu and Joyce
I will be turning 32yrs too ,I have bn meeting narcissistic men and boys and now I am kind of tired ...I have decided to go back to school once they resume and follow my dreams and enjoy life..all the best dear
I love it when men smell good! I remember two instances of this. I was walking home from school one day and one of the young men in the community passed by me; he smelled so good that I had to stop and turn to look at him. The second instance was when I was talking to my neighbour and we saw our male neighbour passing us. We stopped our main conversation and complimented him how good he smelled. He was also an athlete.
I have a close friend who just turned 40 and now realizing that she made a mistake ignoring all the guys who hunted her at early 30’s. I wish she finds love
Sorry I meant it is not too late.....Men are there. Do not act or present yourself as an already taken. Package yourself as a beautiful, wanting and available woman. It is not how many kids you have but your character and how much you are ready as a wife material. Men care less about the package. Character, respect, appreciation and beauty of the heart and looks carry the day
It's hard for single child-free women so I can imagine how hard it will be as a single mother of 2. Manage your expectations and be hopeful. Good luck.
@@leamontoweh715 imagine it is not hard Leamon either way. The problem is how to identify the one! Wife materials comprise of 30% of the women folk, the problem with the hunters is the formula to identify where this wife material hide. If a wife material woman is in the wrong places that husband materials never go, it is hard to trace you. Men who are husband materials have their own weaknesses so to trace each other is where there us a missing Link. Jane Kalunda do not lose hope yet, instead seek guidelines on how or where that man you are yearning for is. Let me give you hints. 1. A farmer with tomatoes must seek for market where tomatoes are sold. If they take to where water melons or oranges are sold, its 100% true that he will return with the entire harvest. Know your worthy and display your wears where the potential customers can see you. It is also good to package yourself well to get the right person to approach you. Children never bothers men much, the problem shall only be one in cases where they exist. Do not front yourself and children as two entities but one package. I will I Could explain better but shall be too long. 2. Do not go out hunting, allow the hunters to hunt you. You are so beautiful to attract any serious man out there. We men love a natural woman, submissive, appreciative, humble and short tongue type. We also love a clean well packaged lady who knows what she is doing, honest and ready to settle. 3. Your type of man cannot be found in millenial mix, they HATE single mothers and never shy to make such unfortunatestatementsof doom. Yours must be found from the guys born 70s and late 60s. Here is where you meet a real man with virtue and and genuine love not players. Get a man that is organised and caring but also make him understand you are not moving in to share his wealth but companionship and build each other. Such men are there but you need tips on where they are hiding. You are as good as what comes out of the mouth and or what you post in social media. 4. When out there, never depict an image of desperation or vulnerability. That image if at all attract opportunists and young playboys that you can't freely walk with in public or introduce to your friends and relatives. Their intention is often to sleep with you for money. 5. Make sure that whatever comes from your mouth is measured and calculated wherever you are. A venomous tongue can sell you out for a 50 cent coin. 75% of women lose out on their utterances. 6. With immediate effect withdraw from membership in groups that discuss men, those that engage in gossip, some with widows, single mothers but what they discuss therein is not of any value to you. 7. Whenever you see topics, or chats like this one then you see some women that are pessimistic, those that are single by choice but inciteful, divorcees but single mothers by choice, women that call men by their popular vulgar language yet you are desperate for love and settlement, never follow such. One can be single at advanced age but ok as she is. Another category is like you now. Women that love family and want to settle down with a man. Chose the later over the former clique of women. Remember, not all groups or comments can build you or resonate with your way of thinking. When men realise that you want to settle down but you are in groups that call them dogs and sworn womaniser, trust me he can't come close to you. Men are used to insults but are sensitive to which type of woman he wants to settle with. A man can marry a woman with 5 kids and still feel comfortable and happy with the step children. Steve Harvey did and now see how sweet and happy the guy is. Marriage is all about you and what you have to offer. It is never about the other party. I meet such great men and women every so often, pure, mature ready and marriage material. I don't know where you guys look. Leamon Toweh has advised you well abd wished you luck. You need to go an extra mile because single child-free are out there in competition with you. A child matters less if the mother can allow the man to marry her as a package but not a means to come and spend his hard earned wealth but not allow him freedom and authority to bond with the kids. The later is what makes many single ladies suffer on their own. Given an opportunity I can delve into this clearly and easy to understand
I am 29 and i started dating at 23 yrs and wen my relationship of 3yrs came to an end, i never manage to keep a relationship for more than 3 months, all from thé start all seems glowing and later everything doesnt see right. Today i have just reach dat point of not trying anymore. But i wanna get married , have a home and kids Jezzzzz
Its not over till God says its over. There is a reason why you meet narcissistic men only. Create self awareness. Discover your purpose in life. You can't imagine how easy it is to find a man-Prince charming. Check your personality or temperament group, evaluate and review after discovering where you belong. It is that easy Purity.
I am 35 single no kids yet hopeful for some, I feel what I should be doing is getting ready for the journey . which is what am always afraid of but am sure when I get to meet the right one all fear will go away.
Some correlations used by comparing relationships to car dealing or objective stuff I do not support. As much as Zulu speaks sense, we cannot objectify relationships. And this free dating/exploring is not biblical to y'all calling yourself Christians. We live in a society that lack integrity ,even integrity to choose a partner and stick by them. Eg. Jacob choose Recheal and worked 7yes yo get her. This is Charater and integrity..... Hii kusema..... date many people then settle is a lie. The thing should be have many friends and from your interactions you'll know what you'll like and even choose a person from among your friends. You can't date all your friends so that you can choose. Bad bad To Christian this is my view as I've studied the bible. You go study you bible. Stop saying God will do this and that yet you don't even know what is in his word. Build on Integrity, build on character. This is what lacks in this society.even as I write this I'm not perfect, so are we all but we work towards perfection(to our knowledge and understanding)to our level best and God takes note. Then the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered My servant Job, that there is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, one who fears God and shuns evil? And still he holds fast to his integrity, although you incited Me against him, to destroy him without cause.” Job 2:3 NKJV Your Integrity is a virtue God even notices. Satan also notices. But God protects you
Some changes comes automatically especially above 30s you just find it difficult to dress in some way.i think you just need to dress neatly.n let God intervene i rest.ata wakurinu wanafunga ata vitabaa na wanaolewa.so as per me be neat n go on with your duties coz these men you are attracting their mission is just to sleep with you.ya leo lulu noo
Ahaaaa, men are the hunters. Many care less how they look because there is always someone for him whichever way he packages himself. But a real man ofcourse knows how to present themselves because they are serious, just like a wife material is
@@judymuindi2029 very true... and if a man was attracted to you because of your "sexy"dressing,what makes you think he wont be attracted to others even after he got you😂
I got ma catch on Facebook at 35 without much drama so far so good But the lesson ive learned is don’t ignore friend request or inbox you never know 🤷♀️
while ladies are getting tired, there is one tip no-one is telling them. That men are currently going the MGTOW. The call for freedom is outpowering the satisfaction of being in a relationship. Therefore, More single men out there, and they are damn sure happy with it. I know this will attract attention, but its the damn truth. The question is, what is making men shy away from relationships? maybe its a topic to be discovered... ?
@Judy muindi dressing decent is a sign of self respect,or how one is brought up koz some comes from strict families so to them they have been brought up that way.What a person dresses tells a lot about that person.If a lady dresses decently she will always attract decent and serious constructive people and again not just dressing alone even how she carries herself in a respectable manner also a lady of such kind doesn’t flirt around with men she is busy with her life.but if a lady dresses almost nude she will always attract players,no man will ever take her seriously,she will always attract hit and run men,men essentially are visual so when one dresses immoral essentially she is telling the men she is ready but indirectly. Do not just dress decent with a motive of attracting #MrRight, but dress decent because you respect your body.
Ve prayed ve waited i cant give up i dont know wt to do anymore men never come to me really everytime i think of how faithfull n loving i can be i get so hurt n cry when is my turn really
I was here thinking of myself 29yrs no child,living almost hand to mouth😂😂,boyfriend who is never ready, Wah! I am thinking of getting a child from anywhere now first and try dating later.
Its possible to meet someone at any age, but i suggest you just relax and stop looking, you will be found!...dating is tiring for sure. Marriage is good but not a must, i have never struggled on this, but so far i remain single by choice. Live and serve God and humanity, that is all that matters.
Feelings 😋
I don't think my husband will find me sitting in my room 😶
Preach it more
Thank you.
I feel like you can serve God and humanity even with your man with you..guys go out get someone because there's no better feeling than having someone to do life with
I am 23 and I am learning a lot from him. Thank you Benjamin.
Same here age met 😍
Guys, you can't be tired of dating but miss tactics and run out of ideas on where mr/miss right is found-period.
Several reasons are attributed to these state of affairs;
1. You need to discover who you are first-personality trait in colours. Google and read
2. Re-evaluate your credentials
3. Change tactics and approach to relationships
4. Change your mind set by reviewing your expectations
5. Lower your anxiety and explore new approach to relationships
6. Check if your presentation criteria meets the type of person you are looking for.
7. Check and review what you post or comment on social media
8. Come out 9f the comfort zone and start shining
9. Reduce and change your type of friends.
10. Change your priorities of life and try an alternative route to your destiny.
11. Detach from your mother and siblings and stand on your own
This show makes me younger and younger am in my late 40 s but still need love
Read my tips above and the rest shall be history. Its not too late
Really Phoebe mango?
@@LadyJacky-j really life starts @40 madam. You need tips on how to get one. Enjoy it
@@LadyJacky-j yes
@@balancedviewpoint7418 where are the tips
I like him. He's funny and truthful. He gives very good advise. Thanks so much.
My age mate, me too
Lots of religious women here.... He simply ment modest,classy,chic elegant,decent ..not naked and skimpy!!! People taking things literally.
Say that again ...
under 25s kwa comments already tired of dating. I want to start dating at 27. See my life.
Lol I'm 29 and I am just about to start😭😭😭😭
Am 40+ but I know one day God will open my door for marriage
Hi please
Am here.....
Me too I'm tired of waiting but still I have hope
Amen
Thanks for saying that 25 is the best age to start being in a dating relationship.i thought i have a problem since am 22 and single practicing Celibacy and focusing on growths and development in my life and career...I used to find it hard since all of my friends on the same age group as me are dating.i see them happy with their partners but am also happy very happy being alone ☺️☺️
This guy is amazing after a consultation with him I was jolted to reality 🤣🤣🤣
How did you reach him
MR ZULU YOU MAKE EVERYTHING LOOK SO SIMPLE!!!!!
ALWAYS CAN'T STOP LAUGHING 😂 😂 😂
First Surrender your life to Lord Jesus before you start thinking Dating. My people you need to Repent for your sinful.. We are End Time now.. REPENT!!
Couldn't agree more. Having a relationship with Christ really matters.
Amen
Thanks for a reminder darling though I have already received Him
The whole world needs him badly
You're perfectly right :no Jesus no peace at all!
Your dressing should say "you wanna talk?"😂 Your dressing should be teasing, playful😂😂 wow!!😂❤️❤️ I love this😂😂❤️
Thanks Benjamin for the advice I was in a relationship that affected me emotional and I have wound in my heart and im 40 and I don't have hope anymore and give up on love so thanks for sharing I'm feeling better
This show has really helped me build my circle and focus on myself, and rebuild myself after a breakup I have my own business it's just a matter of time and I will build an empire 🥰thanks to Zulu and Joyce
32yrs old I'm tired really have decide to chase my dreams.thank u guys
I will be turning 32yrs too ,I have bn meeting narcissistic men and boys and now I am kind of tired ...I have decided to go back to school once they resume and follow my dreams and enjoy life..all the best dear
Im here to chase my dream period.
To y'all why do you chase your dreams(I still wonder why many have this mentality). I hope you don't chase but work towards your dreams.
Your dreams are valid but at 32yrs, you are ripe and hot number. Seek self awareness and read my tips up here to guide you to your prince charming
Am 28 and tired of dating completely tired 😴
Am 32 and single but sometimes am like maybe it was never meant to be .
But will start working on myself now 😉😋
Still young
32? You're young! I'm 39 and unbothered
@@kadzo6614 good one was scared when I noticed am never bothered @28😆
I love it when men smell good! I remember two instances of this. I was walking home from school one day and one of the young men in the community passed by me; he smelled so good that I had to stop and turn to look at him. The second instance was when I was talking to my neighbour and we saw our male neighbour passing us. We stopped our main conversation and complimented him how good he smelled. He was also an athlete.
Wow Benjamin is a blessing sent by God to save me🔥❤
😂😂😂 back to line am below 25 I had given up already, let me keep going on 💪💪💪
Nko hapa pia 🤣🤣🤣
Pia Mimi😭😂😂
Change tact but first discover yourself and your values. 25yrs you are spot on. First love yourself, second discover your purpose in life
Ata mimi 😂
Me too..💃..where did we go wrong😂😂
I can't get enough of this show. Love ur show
Benjamin Zulu calls it as it is. Totally love his opinions
I have a close friend who just turned 40 and now realizing that she made a mistake ignoring all the guys who hunted her at early 30’s. I wish she finds love
Benjamin is full of wisdom .
Dammm this show provoke me to work on myself . I love this show , your an amazing person Zulu .Bless you !
Thank you benjamin zulu and Joyce , I really feel alive again through this show.
I'm 27 already dating I'm learning a lot,, thanks Sir u inspired
Am a single mum of 2 and am tired completely tired
Don't be. It is too late. Find yourself and your purpose in life first then the rest shall fall to place. It is so easy imagine.
Sorry I meant it is not too late.....Men are there. Do not act or present yourself as an already taken. Package yourself as a beautiful, wanting and available woman. It is not how many kids you have but your character and how much you are ready as a wife material. Men care less about the package. Character, respect, appreciation and beauty of the heart and looks carry the day
@@balancedviewpoint7418 👏🏾
It's hard for single child-free women so I can imagine how hard it will be as a single mother of 2.
Manage your expectations and be hopeful.
Good luck.
@@leamontoweh715 imagine it is not hard Leamon either way. The problem is how to identify the one! Wife materials comprise of 30% of the women folk, the problem with the hunters is the formula to identify where this wife material hide. If a wife material woman is in the wrong places that husband materials never go, it is hard to trace you. Men who are husband materials have their own weaknesses so to trace each other is where there us a missing Link. Jane Kalunda do not lose hope yet, instead seek guidelines on how or where that man you are yearning for is. Let me give you hints.
1. A farmer with tomatoes must seek for market where tomatoes are sold. If they take to where water melons or oranges are sold, its 100% true that he will return with the entire harvest. Know your worthy and display your wears where the potential customers can see you. It is also good to package yourself well to get the right person to approach you. Children never bothers men much, the problem shall only be one in cases where they exist. Do not front yourself and children as two entities but one package. I will I Could explain better but shall be too long.
2. Do not go out hunting, allow the hunters to hunt you. You are so beautiful to attract any serious man out there. We men love a natural woman, submissive, appreciative, humble and short tongue type. We also love a clean well packaged lady who knows what she is doing, honest and ready to settle.
3. Your type of man cannot be found in millenial mix, they HATE single mothers and never shy to make such unfortunatestatementsof doom. Yours must be found from the guys born 70s and late 60s. Here is where you meet a real man with virtue and and genuine love not players. Get a man that is organised and caring but also make him understand you are not moving in to share his wealth but companionship and build each other. Such men are there but you need tips on where they are hiding. You are as good as what comes out of the mouth and or what you post in social media.
4. When out there, never depict an image of desperation or vulnerability. That image if at all attract opportunists and young playboys that you can't freely walk with in public or introduce to your friends and relatives. Their intention is often to sleep with you for money.
5. Make sure that whatever comes from your mouth is measured and calculated wherever you are. A venomous tongue can sell you out for a 50 cent coin. 75% of women lose out on their utterances.
6. With immediate effect withdraw from membership in groups that discuss men, those that engage in gossip, some with widows, single mothers but what they discuss therein is not of any value to you.
7. Whenever you see topics, or chats like this one then you see some women that are pessimistic, those that are single by choice but inciteful, divorcees but single mothers by choice, women that call men by their popular vulgar language yet you are desperate for love and settlement, never follow such. One can be single at advanced age but ok as she is. Another category is like you now. Women that love family and want to settle down with a man. Chose the later over the former clique of women. Remember, not all groups or comments can build you or resonate with your way of thinking. When men realise that you want to settle down but you are in groups that call them dogs and sworn womaniser, trust me he can't come close to you. Men are used to insults but are sensitive to which type of woman he wants to settle with. A man can marry a woman with 5 kids and still feel comfortable and happy with the step children. Steve Harvey did and now see how sweet and happy the guy is. Marriage is all about you and what you have to offer. It is never about the other party. I meet such great men and women every so often, pure, mature ready and marriage material. I don't know where you guys look. Leamon Toweh has advised you well abd wished you luck. You need to go an extra mile because single child-free are out there in competition with you. A child matters less if the mother can allow the man to marry her as a package but not a means to come and spend his hard earned wealth but not allow him freedom and authority to bond with the kids. The later is what makes many single ladies suffer on their own. Given an opportunity I can delve into this clearly and easy to understand
Ladies from a Korino,repentance and holiness wear long dresses but they get married. Hapo Mr. B umechemsha
He doesn't mean literally
Hehee
Am 29yrs, no kid and totally tired of dating am waiting God to do his will
😋
Yes Mc kim
Intresting 😋
Same WhatsApp group
Same age with nothing😰
I'm 24... I've been looking for love, Oh that was wrong.. taking notes
Zulu Is fun.am even going through a heart break but laughing so loudly
Great content 🔥💞i agree with him,never leave with a man before marrriage! Beware!
I love it when you advice to start at 25... this is really superperfect
Waooh ...examine him first...thanks for this benjamin
Wow Benjamin Zulu thank you Sir. And I love this show... Watching from South Africa.
Please address those who are between 20-24 years , Mr Benjamin 🙏
I am 29 and i started dating at 23 yrs and wen my relationship of 3yrs came to an end, i never manage to keep a relationship for more than 3 months, all from thé start all seems glowing and later everything doesnt see right. Today i have just reach dat point of not trying anymore. But i wanna get married , have a home and kids
Jezzzzz
Ok I have seen your comment,am interesting to follow you and have a little conversation in a pinpoint are with integrity issue
Am oscahinyangala@email.com 29 yrs
There is still hope, just enjoy life 😃😉
Rule number one jipende kwanza then allow someone to love you don't be so stiff...
Wow! Benjamin straight on point.
Joyce i would like to b ur hair stylist
Am 29 ni kid but tired.now I have decided to work towards my dream .olny meeting narcissists men too tired
Its not over till God says its over. There is a reason why you meet narcissistic men only. Create self awareness. Discover your purpose in life. You can't imagine how easy it is to find a man-Prince charming. Check your personality or temperament group, evaluate and review after discovering where you belong. It is that easy Purity.
Learn about codependency and setting boundaries
Men shud take care of their bodies shud avoid big tummy hei its a big turn off😔
Hahaha nice
😅😅😅
True a big turn off
I think getting married has nothing or less to do with looks and putting yourself out there.
love your response on celibacy😚
Lemme even subscribe coz am enjoying am from Uganda but I enjoy this channel can't stop laughing when listening to the man
Aki you making me feel old already almost 25 and still single
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣agemate sasa....tumezeeka
omg i love this show ,,🤣🤣❤️🤜🤛 much love frm Zimbabwe🇿🇼i really learnt alot frm this channel. i am your new subscriber.thanks for educating us .❤️❤️💯👏💥
Switch on a charm😂😂😂be elegant be stylish😅haibo Mr Zulu
Wow thanks Joyce and Benjamin
I am 35 single no kids yet hopeful for some, I feel what I should be doing is getting ready for the journey . which is what am always afraid of but am sure when I get to meet the right one all fear will go away.
Hi I'm speechless anyway l have learned alot thanks so much God bless you bra
Everything about this show is just wooow .but hii story ya heels, Benjamin is it really a must???🤔
🤣🤣 you know with heels,when you wear you need to catwalk and also it arouse something...
Some correlations used by comparing relationships to car dealing or objective stuff I do not support. As much as Zulu speaks sense, we cannot objectify relationships.
And this free dating/exploring is not biblical to y'all calling yourself Christians. We live in a society that lack integrity ,even integrity to choose a partner and stick by them.
Eg. Jacob choose Recheal and worked 7yes yo get her. This is Charater and integrity.....
Hii kusema..... date many people then settle is a lie.
The thing should be have many friends and from your interactions you'll know what you'll like and even choose a person from among your friends. You can't date all your friends so that you can choose. Bad bad
To Christian this is my view as I've studied the bible. You go study you bible.
Stop saying God will do this and that yet you don't even know what is in his word.
Build on Integrity, build on character.
This is what lacks in this society.even as I write this I'm not perfect, so are we all but we work towards perfection(to our knowledge and understanding)to our level best and God takes note.
Then the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered My servant Job, that there is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, one who fears God and shuns evil? And still he holds fast to his integrity, although you incited Me against him, to destroy him without cause.”
Job 2:3 NKJV
Your Integrity is a virtue God even notices. Satan also notices.
But God protects you
Wow well said Mathew👏👏
Wise words
Hmmm I want to have a guy like Matthew wow
Amen amen...you are right
For someone who is just 25 and have never been in a relationship how do I stat
I love this show Mr Zulu Ladies we need more knowledge pliz
32,single mum of 3 men are full of stress
Far from it. Change tact and priotiesin life. Discover your purpose in life and read my tips above to your prince charming door
Much love from Joyce Uganda ,l love how this guy answer quns
M 38 single mom of 2 m waiting for God's time m tired of deceit n lies
Some changes comes automatically especially above 30s you just find it difficult to dress in some way.i think you just need to dress neatly.n let God intervene i rest.ata wakurinu wanafunga ata vitabaa na wanaolewa.so as per me be neat n go on with your duties coz these men you are attracting their mission is just to sleep with you.ya leo lulu noo
Don't take it literally you'll miss the message. Elegant is respectable.
As for Wakurinu they Marry partners from their circles.
No.my dear wat he is saying very much oky but as continue maturing up some not all find it hard to dress in some ways.i support him.
Ata hao wa nguo ndefu wanapeana kama helb
I like this guy
Indecency dressing will attract all hyenas, ladies dress decently be confident by all this you get your hubby. All in all pray
Pray and wait,,,, i think thats the only great advice
Really 😹😹😹😹🏃♀️🏃♀️
@@morineakinyi1116 Yes darling I got my husband not because of dressing he was attracted by my character.
Who talked of indecency
I like this...🔥🔥🔥
Men also shud learn how to wear, they shouldn't wear a parachute🤣🤣🤣and wear a nice perfume👏👏
Ahaaaa, men are the hunters. Many care less how they look because there is always someone for him whichever way he packages himself. But a real man ofcourse knows how to present themselves because they are serious, just like a wife material is
I believe in God who will grant me with the desire of my heart .
A right mindset is also needed not only prayers
Those men who knows what they are looking for they won't fall in dressing other than to fall on behaviour. Period
@@judymuindi2029 very true... and if a man was attracted to you because of your "sexy"dressing,what makes you think he wont be attracted to others even after he got you😂
Am 33yrs with one teenage girl I wish I learn this kitabo 🤣🤣🤣
Me too 😜
😊 same age with 2 teenage girls
Omg I love this show.😂Love from Botswana ❤
Benjaa wou your show is really clitching my brain keep it up watching all the way from france
An interesting conversation here
I think I'm in a right track 🤣🤣 thanks Mr Zulu and Joyce
Good men are out there
Ur superb I swear
🤣🤣🤣 You gotta love Zulu
Am really learning, love you guys
Is there a way I can contact Benjamin personally?
I need help. Can't publicise my problem.
Benjamin Zulu ke on face book
Sure,good hearted people are rare.
Mimi am okay single will not do all these to grab a man's attention NEVER got better things to do 😂😂😂.
I know right,aki watu hupata hii nguvu yote wapi 🤨
Me too I don't have time
😂😂😂
I got ma catch on Facebook at 35 without much drama so far so good
But the lesson ive learned is don’t ignore friend request or inbox you never know 🤷♀️
i really wonder 😂😂 let me chase ma dreams
Wueh!! I had to pose this one to breathe! 🔥🔥😂😂
Good work
while ladies are getting tired, there is one tip no-one is telling them. That men are currently going the MGTOW. The call for freedom is outpowering the satisfaction of being in a relationship. Therefore, More single men out there, and they are damn sure happy with it. I know this will attract attention, but its the damn truth. The question is, what is making men shy away from relationships? maybe its a topic to be discovered... ?
Am really learning alot God bless.
Oh my ,,,dressing code💃💃💃💃💃
lm realy Loving the Show..@Benjamin Thank you..
My best show love u guys💞
Benjamin some men do not see being caring as something important. Pls can you touch on that. Thanks
I believe following this l will find aman
Create a platform where singles can mingle
Hahaha Mr Zulu thanx very much
Waaw this was great
Why should one dress with a motive to attract men attention? Waste of time.Just dress decent and be real always.
100%
He doesn't mean literally
You get it right and does dressing mean you will get Mr perfect if yes I will
@Judy muindi dressing decent is a sign of self respect,or how one is brought up koz some comes from strict families so to them they have been brought up that way.What a person dresses tells a lot about that person.If a lady dresses decently she will always attract decent and serious constructive people and again not just dressing alone even how she carries herself in a respectable manner also a lady of such kind doesn’t flirt around with men she is busy with her life.but if a lady dresses almost nude she will always attract players,no man will ever take her seriously,she will always attract hit and run men,men essentially are visual so when one dresses immoral essentially she is telling the men she is ready but indirectly. Do not just dress decent with a motive of attracting #MrRight, but dress decent because you respect your body.
@@cikuciku2355 Ciku you are very right God bless you.
Dress code that says "you are not talking" This is hilarious but very serious
Ve prayed ve waited i cant give up i dont know wt to do anymore men never come to me really everytime i think of how faithfull n loving i can be i get so hurt n cry when is my turn really
Am 35yrs never married ad no kids tired of dating no see any man Serious for marriage
Yes we are tired of dating but kukula fea hatutaacha khaaa!!!😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣ati ....a shirt that looks like a parachute😆😆😆 aki Benjamin
Thank u Benjamin!🙏🏾🙏🏾
I was here thinking of myself 29yrs no child,living almost hand to mouth😂😂,boyfriend who is never ready, Wah! I am thinking of getting a child from anywhere now first and try dating later.
Think of that child.
Waaah, read my tips above and be guided to success
Zulu ! I'm 36yrs. N single with 2kinds, n searching what should I do?
Yho!!! Benjamin is the real MVP🔥🔥💯
It’s a great show🙏🏽❤️
Thanks too benja
Thank you 😊