At last Gaomi came to her senses. It's not a loss to leave a cheating husband. Not only does he cheats, he treats his wife coldly. To him, she's just a baby-maker. He doesn't love her at all. It's good Gaomi realized her worth, as a woman, a wife and a mother. By leaving him, she got her piece of peace.
But didn't she go back to him in the end? He apparently made up for all the wrong he did to her. At least she thought so. Couldn't have been me to go back so soon. I'd have waited a little longer let him really feel the way I was feeling the whole past few years
@@roshanda7006yeah. But this is a Chinese drama where the misogynistic writers are devoted to normalizing women accepting abusive relationships and forgiving their cheating and/or abusive husbands. It feels like there is an agenda to romanticize toxic relationships to young women who this this is acceptable and forgivable. Need more stories where the wins does not go back to their abusive or cheating partner. Not everyone deserves a second chance and women deserve better than a partner like these. Or at least the cheater needs to go through a LOT and improve into a better person to actually earn a second chance. Not a brief “I’m sorry” and she forgives him. 🙄
It's really frustrating that these writers are so misogynistic....they glorify and reward these cheating husbands, and make the wives be treated like doormats with no self esteem or being incapable of being independent....couldn't believe she went back to him after he kicked her out of the family home and moved in his mistress....even his mother approved of him cheating on his wife and favoured the mistress....like someone else mentioned, it was only after he broke up with his mistress that he wanted to get back with his wife, and only because of the child....
@@mightyobserver12 Unfortunately I don't think it's just an Asian thing but it is primarily an old world style of thinking!! However with that being said my great grandmother always said if he wants to play around that's fine you can play around two by that meaning she meant save the money save the properties transfer all the paperwork then when you walk in there with a lawyer and serve him all your ducks are in a row!! My great grandmother divorced her husband at a birthday party she gave them the paperwork everything she transferred into her name the property the money everything and he "" said I have nothing she said you have your little side piece enjoy your life
Not only did he cheat once behind her back with that one mistress, but he kept on continuously meeting her in front of his wife too...that warrants forgiving and forgetting...as in...forgive him and promptly forget him!
That scene made me so angry 😡 He completely humiliated Gao Mi by asking his lover to eat dinner with them. He devalued their marriage and showed both of them that it meant nothing to him.
HE CHEATED!!!! And once a cheater... that should be the end of the story, but women are suppose to just roll over and forgive? He's a betraying dirt bag, period. AND...I'm sorry, but if he were a "real man" with an ounce of integrity, he would have known what NOT to do.
it's a life thing and men are men. almost all living males must spread that seed. but in this era of the mind being viewed as more important then the body we act like everything in this world is not based on sex when sex is the sole driving force for war, love, and modern tech. recall the old saying ladies if we can get it in a cardboard box we'd never buy a house. so live with it and recall when getting your half it's been that way for 10,000 years so get used to it for other 10,000 more.
Actually during the show he never had sexual relations with his ex but he did let her manipulate him and placed himself into stupid situations with her, which i suppose could be a form of cheating.
@@tonynelligan1930 yeah, cause the new generation finally realised we are not animals, and cant fall to that level. But if you want to continue spreading your 'seeds', please do within your family itself like animals do and also so that other women's lives aren't ruined by baring your children. But beware of STDs.
@@tonynelligan1930 There are men who let their instincts get the best of them, like animals. But fortunately there are men who use their heart and brains, like humans.
@@selena8041 EXACTLY! Just be frank, you date different ppl and some ppl will go for that. But don’t blame the person of cheating on you if you were told beforehand.
Selena is on point! ive always felt that the label "cheater" is to accommodating. societies seems have lightened up on people who commit acts that are considered nonviolent yet are very harmful to society at large.
Well, I agree with that to some extent. IMO, mistakes and choices are often mistaken for each other. Mistakes are things that you learn from to get better, similiar to what a child does. Choices are done with solid thought processess. You CHOOSE to drink and get drunk knowing that you can end up in bed with someone other than the significant other you have. You CHOOSE to have an affair or keep a mistress like this guy did. Those are choices. Mistakes are simply not knowing what the outcome would be and having to fix it later as you learn from it. Choices are simply either not caring or expecting a different outcome to what you think will happen. At least to me, I'm open to hear anyone's opinion on it might help to let me see if from other perspectives :)
And you blame not being communicated well as the culprit of you having a mistress? Of choosing her over your wife? Of rejecting your wife's calls when she was in labor that almost cost her life? So, who's not communicating well? Yeah,you're communicating well with your mistress,that's why she brainwashed you.Yeah,your mistress is a woman of the world that's why she can easily make you dance with just a flick of her fingertips....while your wife is naive...sheshhh....and what the heck, whatever these women including the wife saw in this man...in my book,he's not....well....nevermind.
@@TheCelidon yeah...but sadly, she still get back with her jerk husband...this is a drama afterall...I don't know in real life if the wife will get back with that kind of husband....just wondering though.
6:11 After all the trouble the husband did, this is really one of the worst. Imagine taking out the financial support for the wife when they have a child.
That is probably the most petty move from him. Even if you're desperate to get her back, at least he should think of his daughter. Thank goodness she had her own card
Alot of men does this move on their wives who leaves them ,, but thank GOD most woman don't depend on husband or a men , they stand on their own feet , head high & walk on in life , NVR look back 👍 sometimes they find new love , some prefer to live single 👌 ..
It’s hard to communicate with your wife when are always with another women, or when you do talk to your wife you call her stupid or everything that goes wrong you blame your wife. He’s a POS…yes I know it’s a movie but it’s so irritating because it actually happens in life.
He just lied to his mum and said it has nothing to do with the mistress she left because she could take it any more with the mistress ,so how come he said it hasn't anything to do with her his mind is warped
He protected the mistress as much as he could cherish. Of course besides the mistress issue, there were still many problems in his marriage. But most of the problems were lightened up by his involvements with the mistress.
You shouldve think of the consequences before you cheated on your wife... And once a woman's heart is broken by one man many times it will be hard for him to fix it
Unfortunately this dramas went the opposite, shame on them... I hope they'll rewrite the end where she will have huge success with her cake business became chairwoman of a big franchise and he can only looked on from sidelines!
So he dismissed her requests and then insulted her requests. Only when she didn’t back down from his obvious bull he then apologies. I have never seen anyone look so much in pain when the apologize.
Yes! I agree. Some will say I'll never cheat again, that may or may not be true. But I still wouldn't trust the guy even if he said that. What a POS. He needs to go on 🤬
What the big sister said=nothing. "you're a man, you should know what to do". The problem was ZouKai always took the wrong tracks so that he made too many mistakes.
I feel very sorry for the actor like i know the hate given is for the character he is playing but it looks like he is getting cursed. If i was him i would have been laughing by reading comments..His acting is pretty good to piss us off 😂😂😂😂
Cheating is the true definition of stupidity..doing the same damn thing but expecting a different result every time. No one wins with cheating. No good person cheats and the person you are cheating with isn't a good person either. Honestly, public humiliation should be brought back...i vote for public caning. Not sure if that will prohibit the cheating but at least you know their faces and they can't hide, and that includes the mistresses.
Public Caning Sounds Damn Good. I agree 100% in olden days they wouldbe stoned to death that also sounds good all I know is when everything is over you don't feel anything for that person anymore but you are left with a broken Heart
I just hate him the way he apologise to his wife, he don't deserve her beautiful wife, he really deserve to stay with her old women or girlfriend whatever..
What apology? I barely heard one. 12:31 him saying “I’m sorry” over and over, but not explaining what he is sorry for, that he has any insight, is useless. I’m sorry does not mean he has actually changed.
Why the friend even listen to his nonsense! Misunderstanding- no you were very clear in your behavior and how you treated your wife. Really the friend should have told him a few truths. Right before she left him that night was one of the most heartbreaking scenes I have ever seen in a drama. (good acting by actress) She was hysterical and begging him not to leave her again as she tried to hang on to him and the baby was screaming in the background in the crib. He didn't care any of it just threw her from him and rushed out. He was lucky she didn't try to commit suicide. Misunderstanding - yah missed his baby's birth too. He was freaking abusive. He can't even ask her to come back for him use the Mom what an ass. Love her response.
🌸 All he could say was that they had some misunderstandings!! He cheated and neglected his wife and child emotionally repeatedly….. what was there to misunderstand?
Exactly! Using the term “misunderstanding” absolves him of the impact of his CHOICES. His wife did not misunderstand him. She understood, very clearly, by his words and actions that he did not love her and would never put her (or their daughter) first before his mistress. He walked out in her and their crying baby-That’s not a misunderstanding.
Watch the good wife, it was one of the few Chinese drama where justice was served. She went through too much. He cheated on her with her niece (or distant relative)! It’s a heartbreaking story. Everyone paid for their choices.
5:42 and this my friends is why women should always have their own bank accounts and credit cards. So they can support themselves when they need to and not be in the control of their husbands when their husbands turn out to be neglectful, cheaters, and/or abusive.
Simply giving a shop was unable to drive the mistress away. She was the boss of an enterprise. A shop was too little to satisfy her desire. But the wife's credit card was frozen. A jobless woman with a child were unable to support their living costs.
Im shock 😲 he really said"you think or love can be measured with money" so what before did you think cheating was gonna earn her trust🙄 straight up disrespectful 😒
😂😂😂 yeah. He is a hypocrite! He has the audacity to accuse HER of bringing up money when he basically accused her of being a gold digger! Also, what does he mean “you think our love can be measured by money”? What love? When has he shown her love?
So firstly he didn't physically cheat on his wife. He had an emotional attachment to the ex so he kept in contact with her. There were many times she tried to get physical with him but he pushed her way. If you pay careful attention to the last conversation with his mother you will see that his attachment to Wang Yu was more of a protective relationship. His love for Mimi started to develop when Wang Yu was away from him after shw had the baby. There were many times during that period he refused to take Wang Yu calls. The one occasion he met up with her she showed up drunk at his offics. However at one point in time Mimi was intentionally doing what Wang Yu was doing to him which was dictating how he did things. Like telling him she wanted to talk about divorce when she was just scheming for him to see Wang Yu with another man and he took out his anger on her by asking for a divorce. Going to Wang Yu that last time was all his fault and Mimi was right to leave him. However I believed that is what he needed to come to his senses. She didn't take him back easily though she made him work for it. Let us all not forget the big picture....he married her because he wanted a child not because he loved her. During this period even though he had ended his relationship with Wang Yu he was still in love with her
He did emotionally cheat o his wife, which you alluded to. He also went to the other women when his wife asked him not to, she begged him, and he still went. Whether or not he was in love with his wife at the time, he made a huge mistake in doing that, he was completly wrong (in my opinion), and it seemed that was his wifes breaking point (again my opininon). He is not the one who broke it off with the other women, she did. Also, when the wife was pregnant and he was with the other women, the wife called him on his mom's birthday to see where he was, it was no one's fault but his own when the other women answer the phone. The wife then went into a difficult labour, then he ignored his wifes calls and eventually shut off his phone to "pout". To me, those are three big actions, some emotional he did, that were hurtful to her. Whether or not he was in love with his ex-wife, he should not have done those things.
Thank you....I feel some people haven't watched this show properly. Some of the comments are obviously going by the titles which are just showing drops of the story. He was still entangled and possibly confused about the ex. They started from no love point and his behaviours prove that. He also had impressions of her. As he was never fully committed (marriage certificate doesnt equate to commitment), ex could manipulate him and the whole situation. I actually enjoyed this couples journey more than the leads of the show.
Emotional cheating is still cheating. It doesn't matter what type of marriage they had or what agreement he thought he made with her, their marriage was still a commitment he was supposed to put forward instead of an ex who he supposedly ended things with long before the wife came in
@@tifadreamers ...and while I hear you and agree with you to a point you have to understand that when emotions come in to play, reasoning goes out the window. No excuses here but i get the directors story line and the reason behind why he was a complete a**.
Honestly she did give him a chance because when she called him and she went into labor and she could have lost their baby and lost her life and pick up anything was a condition of she called only once she called multiple times and what did he do he turned off his phone but yeah when his ex-girlfriend calls he ran away runs and I think that's what's even more hurtful it's like it's not like she was calling before before she got pregnant he knew she was pregnant women so and she forgave him after she gave birth and try to let all that go but he still continued to let this woman into his life in the thing was if he really loved her why didn't you give him a child or into try it seems like what you wanted to overpower his mother
I don’t believe in their long term relationship. I’m. It convinced he actually loves her, just now feels guilty and wants the trappings of having a family because of what it will give HIM. And given that he hasn’t worked hard enough to improve himself, she is going to be exhausted doing 99% of the emotional work in their marriage over time. She deserves better. Every year on her daughter’s birthday she will remember how he left her there scared and aline during her traumatic labor. He can never make up for that. They should divorce, and then he can work on fixing himself, and then maybe have a chance with her.
Actually it was not a love marriage, his wife knew it. He had the mistress for years. His mom didn't approve of the mistress, so he married this girl. His wife finally left when she realized that he won't give up the mistress. This is secondary couple, only few episodes
He has been in love with mistress for over 10yrs and wanted to marry her, but his mother was against it. He only married this girl to please his mom, he was still seeing the mistress throughout the marriage and the wife knew about it. The wife was hoping he would give up mistress and when he didn't she left. I don't like the ending. The wife finally got her life together and was successful with her new life, so why did she take him back knowing that he will go running whenever mistress calls him. This culture, society, family thing cause so much unhappiness and hatred in the world.
So I guess this grown man is incapable of making his own decisions? Who cares what his mommy wants? He should man up and marry whoever he wants, not marry a woman and treat her like an afterthought in his life.
First a shout out for the 2 babies in this series they are adorable, so cute! I think it’s good she is divorcing him they were a bad match from the beginning, I never ever think cheating is acceptable, but in his defense she was a flight attendant on the prawl for a Rich husband, and came across him and stalked him, he knew it and only married her to get at his Mom because she wouldn’t accept his Mistress he was really in love with so it wasn’t a love match the foundation was built on shifting sand not solid ground so it was destined to fall! As far as the shop he gave to the Mistress as a separation gift because he was trying to break up with her, and felt he owed her something for the 10 years they had been together, the wife checking his phone finding out and sneaking around behind his back and using her Mother In Law to get the shop wasn’t the right move, she should have been mature enough to talk reasonably with him about it! But she was immature and he didn’t love her so it was bound to fail.
What a liar. The minute the mistress calls, he goes running. After loving the mistress for more than 10 years, he suddenly now loves his wife? Writers think some of us are fools. No matter if he gets back with his wife, he will always love his mistress.
Having a child with a woman you're not in love with while trying to keep a toxic relationship with someone who has been fulfilling you're mother role... Someone should have solved his Mommy issues before getting married, constantly threatening his wife with divorce and the mistress, she was just trying to love him but he was too comfortable with his old toxic affair, he wasn't even there for his daughter's birth! Then what? He wake up understanding he'll never find another silly wife who will love him and his psycho behaviour? He really deserved to lose everything he had, even the littlest crumble of love she gave him!
After they keep cheating on their faithful wives , they want to get back to their wives😑 no thanks , for such a man , he can go live with that lady he enjoy himself with 👍 ..my mum told me , no one will take care of you , you must look after yourself, always remember you are a God & not a dog - dogs vomits up & later goes back & leaks up it's vomit 🤢 , . So don't be like a dog , ..what never treasure you , must go away for good , they don't know true treasures , only spoil such beautiful jewels ..
If I am in this women place, done is done.. I will not go back to his side n will move on.. Might be my love os still there but to see him n keep remember what he done to me, am not going to live with toxic mind n environment anymore. Sorry but no more chances
Did Gao Mi know Zou Kai is in a 10 year relationship with Wang Yu before they got married? If not for his mom’s opposition he and Wang Yu would have been married. When his mom asked Gao Mi if Zou Kai did not have money if she would have married him. She without hesitation said NO. So Zou Kai believed she married him for money. His mom promised him to leave him and Wang Yu alone if he would give her a grandchild. His reason for marrying Gao Mi.
0:33 You are always at the office. Never have time to be at home. 0:56 it has nothing to do with Wang Yu? She is a huge part of this because you’ve been cheating on your wife with her. The other factor is that you have never treated your wife with respect, not as a person but as a business arrangement for a baby. When you’re married, for whatever reason, at the bare minimum, you should be respectful of the person you made a commitment to. 5:13 Her sister shouldn’t have told him where she was. 10:39 My mom wants you to come back. Nothing about he wants her back. 11:36 He has the audacity to ask if their “love” can be measured with money. Very good response from Gao Mi- he’s always treated her like a business deal. Even when she got pregnant he told her that he would give her compensation for having a baby for him. Not love at all. Business deal. This is just sad.
ما وقفت ضحك من قال لزوجته : هل تعتقدين ان حبنا يمكن قياسه بالمال ؟؟؟؟!!!!! اي حب هذا مالت عليه و على وجهه اي حب هل من خانها من اول و حتى قبل زواجهم او من تركها بولادتها او اهماله لها وهي حامل او من كان ينام بغرفة ثانية و الا برة البيت و الا عالكنبة او من يسكتها بالفلوس و كانه شاري خادم عنده بالبيت يلعب دور الزوجة و يجيب له عيال علشان بس يرضي غرور امه او من يستقبل عشيقته عالعشا او استقباله اتصالات عشيقته ما وقفت بتالي الليالي او لما تركها تصرخ و تبكي هي و بنته و راح يركض لعشيقته !!!! و يقول حب حبه برص و قتله بصراحة سيناريو بمنتهى الغباء عذرا لكن الزمن تغير زمن عبودية العواطف هذا ولى وراح من زمان يعني وين الانصاف لهذه الزوجة !؟ و الا العقلية الاسيوية للان تعيش بهذه العبودية الفكرية للمرأة ؟؟ حقيقة شي صادم المفروض يعاقب عاطفيا و بدنيا على خيانته ما كان لازم ترجع له بعد ما طلعت و ان رجعت لخاطر البنت و تاب هو عن خلقه القديم فهالشي كان لازم يكون بعد احداث و تغيرات تدل فعلا على تغيره و حبه لها يركض وراها من جد و جديد و يكسبها و يتزوجها مرة ثانية بعد سنة او سنتين بعد ما يواجه تحديات و منافسات و صعوبات مو على طول كان يا بيت ما دخلك شر !!!
When I was much younger, I was told that never to give a beater or a cheater a second chance. Because they never change, and they always get worse. Cheating isn't a mistake. Cheating is a choice. A mistake is leaving your phone in an Uber or accidentally locking your keys in the house. Nobody accidentally falls between someone's legs.
Esses dramas, para mim são realmente dramas! As mulheres aguentam tudo, em nome do amor safado, cheio de falta de respeito, de compromisso e principalmente de amor, e no final se pede o divórcio perde tudo! há uma renúncia sempre por parte da mulher! Isso é nojento!
Why always the husbands done that to their wives? I really agree her decision because even if you love someone then he treated like you're no one to him but at least we have self respect so at that time you have to turn of your heart and turn on your mind ❤❤
That was all his sister had to say to him? If I was her, I would have let him have it. Trust is earned, not given. He will have to crawl over fire to get that back.
Amen!! Wtf was wrong with her?? He deserved to hear how much of a POS he has been to her sister! Because clearly he is too emotionally stunted to understand on his own. And it’s not like the drama is going to show him emotionally maturing.
So many drama's pull the "go bring the wife back' like she has no choice. Or it's expected that she will just happily skip back to the family that hurts them cause they promise not to this time.
At last Gaomi came to her senses. It's not a loss to leave a cheating husband. Not only does he cheats, he treats his wife coldly. To him, she's just a baby-maker. He doesn't love her at all. It's good Gaomi realized her worth, as a woman, a wife and a mother. By leaving him, she got her piece of peace.
But didn't she go back to him in the end? He apparently made up for all the wrong he did to her. At least she thought so. Couldn't have been me to go back so soon. I'd have waited a little longer let him really feel the way I was feeling the whole past few years
Nossa aleluia se der valor mulher manda ele ir pra puta que pariu pr rsio que o parta 😂😂 infeliz
@@roshanda7006yeah. But this is a Chinese drama where the misogynistic writers are devoted to normalizing women accepting abusive relationships and forgiving their cheating and/or abusive husbands. It feels like there is an agenda to romanticize toxic relationships to young women who this this is acceptable and forgivable.
Need more stories where the wins does not go back to their abusive or cheating partner. Not everyone deserves a second chance and women deserve better than a partner like these.
Or at least the cheater needs to go through a LOT and improve into a better person to actually earn a second chance. Not a brief “I’m sorry” and she forgives him. 🙄
@@stephanien6237 agree. It was too easy for the wife to forgive the husband.
It's really frustrating that these writers are so misogynistic....they glorify and reward these cheating husbands, and make the wives be treated like doormats with no self esteem or being incapable of being independent....couldn't believe she went back to him after he kicked her out of the family home and moved in his mistress....even his mother approved of him cheating on his wife and favoured the mistress....like someone else mentioned, it was only after he broke up with his mistress that he wanted to get back with his wife, and only because of the child....
Until he received the divorce petition, he then felt the crisis of losing his wife. He never thought of this silent wife would no longer tolerate him.
Thats wrong with asian husbands as a general. That their wives wouLd aLways toLeraTe theM.
No creo sea solo asiáticos, los cuernos van x todo el mundo
@@pilarcapella4463 Exactamente. Es una plaga mundial.
@@mightyobserver12 Unfortunately I don't think it's just an Asian thing but it is primarily an old world style of thinking!! However with that being said my great grandmother always said if he wants to play around that's fine you can play around two by that meaning she meant save the money save the properties transfer all the paperwork then when you walk in there with a lawyer and serve him all your ducks are in a row!! My great grandmother divorced her husband at a birthday party she gave them the paperwork everything she transferred into her name the property the money everything and he "" said I have nothing she said you have your little side piece enjoy your life
Not only did he cheat once behind her back with that one mistress, but he kept on continuously meeting her in front of his wife too...that warrants forgiving and forgetting...as in...forgive him and promptly forget him!
That scene made me so angry 😡 He completely humiliated Gao Mi by asking his lover to eat dinner with them. He devalued their marriage and showed both of them that it meant nothing to him.
HE CHEATED!!!! And once a cheater... that should be the end of the story, but women are suppose to just roll over and forgive? He's a betraying dirt bag, period. AND...I'm sorry, but if he were a "real man" with an ounce of integrity, he would have known what NOT to do.
it's a life thing and men are men. almost all living males must spread that seed. but in this era of the mind being viewed as more important then the body we act like everything in this world is not based on sex when sex is the sole driving force for war, love, and modern tech. recall the old saying ladies if we can get it in a cardboard box we'd never buy a house. so live with it and recall when getting your half it's been that way for 10,000 years so get used to it for other 10,000 more.
Too true, women don’t need to except it. They can learn to stand for themselves and their children 💜
Actually during the show he never had sexual relations with his ex but he did let her manipulate him and placed himself into stupid situations with her, which i suppose could be a form of cheating.
@@tonynelligan1930 yeah, cause the new generation finally realised we are not animals, and cant fall to that level.
But if you want to continue spreading your 'seeds', please do within your family itself like animals do and also so that other women's lives aren't ruined by baring your children.
But beware of STDs.
@@tonynelligan1930 There are men who let their instincts get the best of them, like animals. But fortunately there are men who use their heart and brains, like humans.
Cheating is NOT a mistake, it’s a choice.
100% agreed
You can do whatever the fuck you want but don't hurt people
@@selena8041 EXACTLY! Just be frank, you date different ppl and some ppl will go for that. But don’t blame the person of cheating on you if you were told beforehand.
@@agee2340 choice is not a mistake but cheating is a mistake..
Selena is on point! ive always felt that the label "cheater" is to accommodating. societies seems have lightened up on people who commit acts that are considered nonviolent yet are very harmful to society at large.
People don't make mistakes it's a choice...people make choices that inflict pain and hurt and they expect to be forgiven for their choices...
Amen! Well said.
Well, I agree with that to some extent. IMO, mistakes and choices are often mistaken for each other. Mistakes are things that you learn from to get better, similiar to what a child does. Choices are done with solid thought processess. You CHOOSE to drink and get drunk knowing that you can end up in bed with someone other than the significant other you have. You CHOOSE to have an affair or keep a mistress like this guy did. Those are choices. Mistakes are simply not knowing what the outcome would be and having to fix it later as you learn from it. Choices are simply either not caring or expecting a different outcome to what you think will happen. At least to me, I'm open to hear anyone's opinion on it might help to let me see if from other perspectives :)
And you blame not being communicated well as the culprit of you having a mistress? Of choosing her over your wife? Of rejecting your wife's calls when she was in labor that almost cost her life? So, who's not communicating well? Yeah,you're communicating well with your mistress,that's why she brainwashed you.Yeah,your mistress is a woman of the world that's why she can easily make you dance with just a flick of her fingertips....while your wife is naive...sheshhh....and what the heck, whatever these women including the wife saw in this man...in my book,he's not....well....nevermind.
@@lovedeocampo987 yeah leave and never look back...
@@TheCelidon yeah...but sadly, she still get back with her jerk husband...this is a drama afterall...I don't know in real life if the wife will get back with that kind of husband....just wondering though.
6:11 After all the trouble the husband did, this is really one of the worst. Imagine taking out the financial support for the wife when they have a child.
That is probably the most petty move from him. Even if you're desperate to get her back, at least he should think of his daughter. Thank goodness she had her own card
He is inhumane. The child is his. he should support both mother and daughter. Just sign the divorce papers.
Alot of men does this move on their wives who leaves them ,, but thank GOD most woman don't depend on husband or a men , they stand on their own feet , head high & walk on in life , NVR look back 👍 sometimes they find new love , some prefer to live single 👌 ..
After that move she should NEVER take him back. He is proving that he is a terrible partner and father to his child.
@@stephanien6237wife should have not taken him back in the end no matter what he does to try to win her back. Such a terrible husband.
It’s hard to communicate with your wife when are always with another women, or when you do talk to your wife you call her stupid or everything that goes wrong you blame your wife. He’s a POS…yes I know it’s a movie but it’s so irritating because it actually happens in life.
There was nothing to be expected in such marriage.
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He just lied to his mum and said it has nothing to do with the mistress she left because she could take it any more with the mistress ,so how come he said it hasn't anything to do with her his mind is warped
He protected the mistress as much as he could cherish. Of course besides the mistress issue, there were still many problems in his marriage. But most of the problems were lightened up by his involvements with the mistress.
Cheaters are the most convincing liars....
He thought he was better than his wife. He thought he could treat her harshly. He will learn his lesson.
I have never seen such an insincere apology in my life. It was like he was trying to find saliva to finish off his sentence
@@semones57 thank you for the recommendation. Will watch Two conjectures about marriage.
So that’s how u apologize to the mother of ur child and one who married u with hope of happiness.. 😮 WOW…
I'm so happy when she said back when they talk about financial bla bla bla, that man deserve to be shoved with truth!
You shouldve think of the consequences before you cheated on your wife... And once a woman's heart is broken by one man many times it will be hard for him to fix it
Unfortunately this dramas went the opposite, shame on them...
I hope they'll rewrite the end where she will have huge success with her cake business became chairwoman of a big franchise and he can only looked on from sidelines!
So he dismissed her requests and then insulted her requests. Only when she didn’t back down from his obvious bull he then apologies. I have never seen anyone look so much in pain when the apologize.
I would never give him a second chance!!! Cheating is cheating! He do it once he’ll do it again!
Yes! I agree. Some will say I'll never cheat again, that may or may not be true. But I still wouldn't trust the guy even if he said that. What a POS. He needs to go on 🤬
What the big sister said=nothing. "you're a man, you should know what to do". The problem was ZouKai always took the wrong tracks so that he made too many mistakes.
His problem is that he needs to see a therapist and work on his own mental health and communication. He’s a grown man!
And big sister should have laid into him and rebuked him for everything he did!
I feel very sorry for the actor like i know the hate given is for the character he is playing but it looks like he is getting cursed. If i was him i would have been laughing by reading comments..His acting is pretty good to piss us off 😂😂😂😂
True
and what a shame he looks nice with a baby face
I honestly think people mean the character not the actor, unless they specially say they do not like the actor.
I guess that means hes doing a good job at acting lol
On top of cheater, he blocked her credit card, seriously where is your kids gonna live and get food. 😤😤😡
Cheating is the true definition of stupidity..doing the same damn thing but expecting a different result every time. No one wins with cheating. No good person cheats and the person you are cheating with isn't a good person either. Honestly, public humiliation should be brought back...i vote for public caning. Not sure if that will prohibit the cheating but at least you know their faces and they can't hide, and that includes the mistresses.
Public Caning Sounds Damn Good. I agree 100% in olden days they wouldbe stoned to death that also sounds good all I know is when everything is over you don't feel anything for that person anymore but you are left with a broken Heart
I’m sorry for focusing about this among all the drama, but sliding the door closed just doesn’t have the same dramatic effect as slamming it shut 🤔
I just hate him the way he apologise to his wife, he don't deserve her beautiful wife, he really deserve to stay with her old women or girlfriend whatever..
What apology? I barely heard one. 12:31 him saying “I’m sorry” over and over, but not explaining what he is sorry for, that he has any insight, is useless. I’m sorry does not mean he has actually changed.
Why the friend even listen to his nonsense! Misunderstanding- no you were very clear in your behavior and how you treated your wife. Really the friend should have told him a few truths. Right before she left him that night was one of the most heartbreaking scenes I have ever seen in a drama. (good acting by actress) She was hysterical and begging him not to leave her again as she tried to hang on to him and the baby was screaming in the background in the crib. He didn't care any of it just threw her from him and rushed out. He was lucky she didn't try to commit suicide. Misunderstanding - yah missed his baby's birth too. He was freaking abusive. He can't even ask her to come back for him use the Mom what an ass. Love her response.
I agree. What woman would be convinced to stay married to a man for the sake of his mother?!!!!!!! Sickening!
Asian mothers-in-law always adds stress and pressure to the relationship!!
🌸 All he could say was that they had some misunderstandings!!
He cheated and neglected his wife and child emotionally repeatedly….. what was there to misunderstand?
Exactly! Using the term “misunderstanding” absolves him of the impact of his CHOICES. His wife did not misunderstand him. She understood, very clearly, by his words and actions that he did not love her and would never put her (or their daughter) first before his mistress. He walked out in her and their crying baby-That’s not a misunderstanding.
He doesn't love her not even a little bit.
I haven't even started to watch this yet..I'm hoping she doesn't stay with him.
Watch the good wife, it was one of the few Chinese drama where justice was served. She went through too much. He cheated on her with her niece (or distant relative)! It’s a heartbreaking story. Everyone paid for their choices.
I had to turn off as I was so angry watching the husband and niece cheating behind the good wife's back
Does the good wife have a good ending for the female lead (aside from the cheaters getting their just desserts)?
That guy was going to name his child after thr other woman. He kept choosing that other woman instead of the wife, he needed to suffer more.
"Our love" what love??actual lovers don't cheat!
5:42 and this my friends is why women should always have their own bank accounts and credit cards. So they can support themselves when they need to and not be in the control of their husbands when their husbands turn out to be neglectful, cheaters, and/or abusive.
He wanted to give the mistress a shop but doest want to give her anything
Simply giving a shop was unable to drive the mistress away. She was the boss of an enterprise. A shop was too little to satisfy her desire.
But the wife's credit card was frozen. A jobless woman with a child were unable to support their living costs.
Im shock 😲 he really said"you think or love can be measured with money" so what before did you think cheating was gonna earn her trust🙄 straight up disrespectful 😒
😂😂😂 yeah. He is a hypocrite! He has the audacity to accuse HER of bringing up money when he basically accused her of being a gold digger!
Also, what does he mean “you think our love can be measured by money”? What love? When has he shown her love?
Isso mesmo, ela deu chance pra ele.
Agora já era!
Right thing she had she should never forgive him. What a jerk he isss
Loved the mom or mother in law
before you cheat your wife think first in million times
So firstly he didn't physically cheat on his wife. He had an emotional attachment to the ex so he kept in contact with her. There were many times she tried to get physical with him but he pushed her way. If you pay careful attention to the last conversation with his mother you will see that his attachment to Wang Yu was more of a protective relationship. His love for Mimi started to develop when Wang Yu was away from him after shw had the baby. There were many times during that period he refused to take Wang Yu calls. The one occasion he met up with her she showed up drunk at his offics. However at one point in time Mimi was intentionally doing what Wang Yu was doing to him which was dictating how he did things. Like telling him she wanted to talk about divorce when she was just scheming for him to see Wang Yu with another man and he took out his anger on her by asking for a divorce. Going to Wang Yu that last time was all his fault and Mimi was right to leave him. However I believed that is what he needed to come to his senses. She didn't take him back easily though she made him work for it.
Let us all not forget the big picture....he married her because he wanted a child not because he loved her. During this period even though he had ended his relationship with Wang Yu he was still in love with her
He did emotionally cheat o his wife, which you alluded to. He also went to the other women when his wife asked him not to, she begged him, and he still went. Whether or not he was in love with his wife at the time, he made a huge mistake in doing that, he was completly wrong (in my opinion), and it seemed that was his wifes breaking point (again my opininon). He is not the one who broke it off with the other women, she did. Also, when the wife was pregnant and he was with the other women, the wife called him on his mom's birthday to see where he was, it was no one's fault but his own when the other women answer the phone. The wife then went into a difficult labour, then he ignored his wifes calls and eventually shut off his phone to "pout". To me, those are three big actions, some emotional he did, that were hurtful to her. Whether or not he was in love with his ex-wife, he should not have done those things.
Thank you....I feel some people haven't watched this show properly. Some of the comments are obviously going by the titles which are just showing drops of the story. He was still entangled and possibly confused about the ex. They started from no love point and his behaviours prove that. He also had impressions of her. As he was never fully committed (marriage certificate doesnt equate to commitment), ex could manipulate him and the whole situation. I actually enjoyed this couples journey more than the leads of the show.
@@tarrysmile on point. I watched this drama for this couple because I saw clip of it.
Emotional cheating is still cheating. It doesn't matter what type of marriage they had or what agreement he thought he made with her, their marriage was still a commitment he was supposed to put forward instead of an ex who he supposedly ended things with long before the wife came in
@@tifadreamers ...and while I hear you and agree with you to a point you have to understand that when emotions come in to play, reasoning goes out the window. No excuses here but i get the directors story line and the reason behind why he was a complete a**.
He didn't even looks like he regret what he did...
Por favor traducir al español el drama gracias
I hope she stays strong.
Honestly she did give him a chance because when she called him and she went into labor and she could have lost their baby and lost her life and pick up anything was a condition of she called only once she called multiple times and what did he do he turned off his phone but yeah when his ex-girlfriend calls he ran away runs and I think that's what's even more hurtful it's like it's not like she was calling before before she got pregnant he knew she was pregnant women so and she forgave him after she gave birth and try to let all that go but he still continued to let this woman into his life in the thing was if he really loved her why didn't you give him a child or into try it seems like what you wanted to overpower his mother
After birth she should have told her parents to take her home with them and left this moron to the old ho
I don’t believe in their long term relationship. I’m. It convinced he actually loves her, just now feels guilty and wants the trappings of having a family because of what it will give HIM.
And given that he hasn’t worked hard enough to improve himself, she is going to be exhausted doing 99% of the emotional work in their marriage over time. She deserves better.
Every year on her daughter’s birthday she will remember how he left her there scared and aline during her traumatic labor. He can never make up for that.
They should divorce, and then he can work on fixing himself, and then maybe have a chance with her.
Kong lin she a great actress she was the mother of Bai Lu in forever and ever
title please
Which episode is this?
Con subtitúlos en español por favor ...gracias
Legendar esse episódio em português
หย่าๆไปเถอะ เพราะตอนที่มีภรรยาอยู่ด้วยเขาก็ไม่เคยแสดงความรักหรือแคร์เธอเลย เขาไปกินข้าวดื่มเหล้ากับผญ.คนนั้นบ่อยๆทั้งที่ตัวเองแต่งงานและมีลูกแล้วมันคือการนอกใจภรรยา ที่จริงเธอควรขอหย่าตั้งแต่ตอนคลอดลูกตอนนั้นไหม ไม่ควรปล่อยเลยจนมาถึงตอนนี้เพราะเขาไม่เคยรู้สึกว่าตัวเองทำผิดต่อภรรยาเขาเลย
Which episode plzz tell me
Consequences are real! Learn the hard way if you must.
The only thing he misunderstand he was married an made a choice every time he ignored the mother of his child who is broken hearted now.
你走吧
The show is making me emotionally exhausted. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Actually it was not a love marriage, his wife knew it. He had the mistress for years. His mom didn't approve of the mistress, so he married this girl. His wife finally left when she realized that he won't give up the mistress. This is secondary couple, only few episodes
Exactly. So he should sign the divorced papers as let her lead her own life. She deserves that at least! They can co-parent the child.
He has been in love with mistress for over 10yrs and wanted to marry her, but his mother was against it. He only married this girl to please his mom, he was still seeing the mistress throughout the marriage and the wife knew about it. The wife was hoping he would give up mistress and when he didn't she left.
I don't like the ending. The wife finally got her life together and was successful with her new life, so why did she take him back knowing that he will go running whenever mistress calls him. This culture, society, family thing cause so much unhappiness and hatred in the world.
So I guess this grown man is incapable of making his own decisions? Who cares what his mommy wants? He should man up and marry whoever he wants, not marry a woman and treat her like an afterthought in his life.
First a shout out for the 2 babies in this series they are adorable, so cute! I think it’s good she is divorcing him they were a bad match from the beginning, I never ever think cheating is acceptable, but in his defense she was a flight attendant on the prawl for a Rich husband, and came across him and stalked him, he knew it and only married her to get at his Mom because she wouldn’t accept his Mistress he was really in love with so it wasn’t a love match the foundation was built on shifting sand not solid ground so it was destined to fall! As far as the shop he gave to the Mistress as a separation gift because he was trying to break up with her, and felt he owed her something for the 10 years they had been together, the wife checking his phone finding out and sneaking around behind his back and using her Mother In Law to get the shop wasn’t the right move, she should have been mature enough to talk reasonably with him about it! But she was immature and he didn’t love her so it was bound to fail.
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What a liar. The minute the mistress calls, he goes running. After loving the mistress for more than 10 years, he suddenly now loves his wife? Writers think some of us are fools. No matter if he gets back with his wife, he will always love his mistress.
Having a child with a woman you're not in love with while trying to keep a toxic relationship with someone who has been fulfilling you're mother role...
Someone should have solved his Mommy issues before getting married, constantly threatening his wife with divorce and the mistress, she was just trying to love him but he was too comfortable with his old toxic affair, he wasn't even there for his daughter's birth!
Then what? He wake up understanding he'll never find another silly wife who will love him and his psycho behaviour?
He really deserved to lose everything he had, even the littlest crumble of love she gave him!
After they keep cheating on their faithful wives , they want to get back to their wives😑 no thanks , for such a man , he can go live with that lady he enjoy himself with 👍 ..my mum told me , no one will take care of you , you must look after yourself, always remember you are a God & not a dog - dogs vomits up & later goes back & leaks up it's vomit 🤢 , . So don't be like a dog , ..what never treasure you , must go away for good , they don't know true treasures , only spoil such beautiful jewels ..
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which Episode ??
If I am in this women place, done is done.. I will not go back to his side n will move on.. Might be my love os still there but to see him n keep remember what he done to me, am not going to live with toxic mind n environment anymore. Sorry but no more chances
What episode?
36 I think
Did Gao Mi know Zou Kai is in a 10 year relationship with Wang Yu before they got married? If not for his mom’s opposition he and Wang Yu would have been married. When his mom asked Gao Mi if Zou Kai did not have money if she would have married him. She without hesitation said NO. So Zou Kai believed she married him for money. His mom promised him to leave him and Wang Yu alone if he would give her a grandchild. His reason for marrying Gao Mi.
Where can I find this to be able to watch the whole thing? Plz n thk u
Which episode is this
Drama name - Unbeatable You
Legenda em português por favor
0:33 You are always at the office. Never have time to be at home.
0:56 it has nothing to do with Wang Yu? She is a huge part of this because you’ve been cheating on your wife with her. The other factor is that you have never treated your wife with respect, not as a person but as a business arrangement for a baby. When you’re married, for whatever reason, at the bare minimum, you should be respectful of the person you made a commitment to.
5:13 Her sister shouldn’t have told him where she was.
10:39 My mom wants you to come back. Nothing about he wants her back.
11:36 He has the audacity to ask if their “love” can be measured with money. Very good response from Gao Mi- he’s always treated her like a business deal. Even when she got pregnant he told her that he would give her compensation for having a baby for him. Not love at all. Business deal. This is just sad.
Please why can't i get the episodes
ما وقفت ضحك من قال لزوجته : هل تعتقدين ان حبنا يمكن قياسه بالمال ؟؟؟؟!!!!!
اي حب هذا مالت عليه و على وجهه
اي حب
هل من خانها من اول و حتى قبل زواجهم
او من تركها بولادتها
او اهماله لها وهي حامل
او من كان ينام بغرفة ثانية و الا برة البيت و الا عالكنبة
او من يسكتها بالفلوس و كانه شاري خادم عنده بالبيت يلعب دور الزوجة و يجيب له عيال علشان بس يرضي غرور امه
او من يستقبل عشيقته عالعشا
او استقباله اتصالات عشيقته ما وقفت بتالي الليالي
او لما تركها تصرخ و تبكي هي و بنته و راح يركض لعشيقته
!!!!
و يقول حب
حبه برص و قتله
بصراحة سيناريو بمنتهى الغباء
عذرا لكن الزمن تغير
زمن عبودية العواطف هذا ولى وراح من زمان
يعني وين الانصاف لهذه الزوجة !؟
و الا العقلية الاسيوية للان تعيش بهذه العبودية الفكرية للمرأة ؟؟
حقيقة شي صادم
المفروض يعاقب عاطفيا و بدنيا على خيانته
ما كان لازم ترجع له بعد ما طلعت
و ان رجعت لخاطر البنت و تاب هو عن خلقه القديم فهالشي كان لازم يكون بعد احداث و تغيرات تدل فعلا على تغيره و حبه لها
يركض وراها من جد و جديد و يكسبها و يتزوجها مرة ثانية بعد سنة او سنتين بعد ما يواجه تحديات و منافسات و صعوبات
مو على طول كان يا بيت ما دخلك شر !!!
Well said!
Por favor pongan este capítulo en español para saber ñlo que se dicen porfa gracias
Tap on the video and then click on the wheel at the top right corner. Click language and select Spanish.
When I was much younger, I was told that never to give a beater or a cheater a second chance. Because they never change, and they always get worse. Cheating isn't a mistake. Cheating is a choice. A mistake is leaving your phone in an Uber or accidentally locking your keys in the house. Nobody accidentally falls between someone's legs.
Name drama
Drama name please.
Ingin nonton versi lengkap yang berbahasa Indonesia, di mana ya?
Esses dramas, para mim são realmente dramas! As mulheres aguentam tudo, em nome do amor safado, cheio de falta de respeito, de compromisso e principalmente de amor, e no final se pede o divórcio perde tudo! há uma renúncia sempre por parte da mulher! Isso é nojento!
There is truth in this mostly in asians especially filipinos! Even if not married, they would stay in living together.
Зато английский перевод везде.Ваши дорамы доступны только тем,кто владеет английским языком,а жаль.
Transit dong ke bhs indonesia semua episode nya
Title.pls
What's the drama name
What this drama called with English subtitles??
Unbeatable you
Drama name
Me encanta ella muy valiente 🤩
Why always the husbands done that to their wives?
I really agree her decision because even if you love someone then he treated like you're no one to him but at least we have self respect so at that time you have to turn of your heart and turn on your mind ❤❤
where can I get full series to watch,Thank
You Tube.
Por favor traducir los capítulos en español
That was all his sister had to say to him? If I was her, I would have let him have it. Trust is earned, not given. He will have to crawl over fire to get that back.
Amen!! Wtf was wrong with her?? He deserved to hear how much of a POS he has been to her sister! Because clearly he is too emotionally stunted to understand on his own. And it’s not like the drama is going to show him emotionally maturing.
ong he doesnt deserve her she did so much for their relationship while he just fucking abused her emotionally the whole time
cho xin ten bo phim bằng tieng viet cam on
Love the babies hair.
Cheating is cheating.
может кто нибудь открыть тайну) как называется этот сериал😊 или это большая тайна)))
Unbeatable You is the title
So many drama's pull the "go bring the wife back' like she has no choice. Or it's expected that she will just happily skip back to the family that hurts them cause they promise not to this time.
Bem que podia ter em português
Cheating is called a misunderstanding now, he has some nerve.
Until a divorce is not striked these husbands won't value thr gem they have 💯
That. Is a man's way of letting the woman know he is still in charge and to force her to come back. Next is fighting for custody.
Можно название пожалуйста
Unbeatable You is the title
Right now all I want to know is.......she doesn't end up with this man in the end. Does she?????????? Please 🙏 someone answer......