I don’t see nothing wrong with his decision. Kids are naturally annoying. To be annoyed by a child that isn’t yours and could become a step child?! Absolutely not it’s time exit IMMEDIATELY!
Three years old and he knows where the chop shop is! My son was trying to steal a candy bar from a local store and when I found it, I took him right back and made him give it to the store manager. She had the audacity to say, "Oh, it's okay, he can have it," to which I said, "Ma'am, today it's a candy bar, tomorrow it's you and your car." She literally had to think about it, but she got it and accepted the candy bar back.
I broke up with the love of my life because his teenage daughter terrorized me and accused me of doing things that I never did. The last straw was when she involved my child in her mischief. No regrets, just sadness.
This right here is sending out a strong message to all biological fathers out there that have skipped/bounced from their boys. Remember now that even if you decide to leave mama, leaving your children especially boys for someone else to raise, SHOULDN'T be an option. You leave, then co-parent. Stay in your children's lives.
True. Especially when the father wants to be a dad, let him. Please don't use the child/children as weapons to hurt him because the relationship is over.
I'm a woman and I be annoyed AF by some of these kids who lack discipline, respect, and guidance. No one is signing up for the additional stress of bad ass kids. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
I'm a woman without children, and I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE! The one's with the worse behaved children have the nerve to not want you to verbally discipline, correct, or say anything to them either.
I’ve broken up with men because of bad kids, baby mama drama, and toxic family members. I don’t have kids, but I do have toxic family members who have ruined relationships for me. Sucks.
I don't blame him. Nobody wants to be around bad kids. Her son is an extension and reflection of her so I would have done the same thing if I were him.
If she can't discipline her son and doesn't allow the new man in her life to discipline him. He has to leave. Not about to take your kids as his kids and can't bring him up like my own. Pay the bills, feed him and clothe him but he can't whoop his ass or sit him down when he's misbehaving? bye!!
Yes, if her child is bad & she can't correct him & doesn't want ANYBODY to correct him then, the Man should RUN !! Same for the lady, if he has Bad Kids that can't be corrected then she should RUN To !!!
@angelheaven2826 Both my 7'0 sons did that too their daddy,,, I just sat back and laughed 😅 🤣 😂, when those boys came to me hard they only found thier mother 🥰 She went "Postal" ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
I stopped inviting a friend over because she couldn't control her kid. She wanted to be free from him too & sent him to live with his father for a year. Worked like a charm. Became a totally different kid.
As a woman I totally agree with him! 💯 and......if they're teenagers and think you going to hit me and I not hit your ass back wrong person. Damn that !
I remember dating a girl about 7 yrs ago who had two bad ass sons and the youngest one was the worst. One day the lil boy got mad at his Momma for putting him on punishment and he called his 6 foot 5 280 pound father right in front of me crying saying Daddy Momma boyfriend has been hitting me and his momma grabed the phone and i can here dude on the phone saying my son wouldn't lie to me bitch im on my way . I jumped in my car and left and havent seen or talked to her till this day lol
I dont blame him ! He did the right thing by leaving his GF an her little badass son !! He does not have to put up with that ! 🏃🏾💨 Mom needs to raise her kid better !
He's not wrong because most parents will not let you correct their children. That little joker could be getting ready to play in traffic and if you dare say get out of the road here goes the neck action. He's not wrong. People need to raise their kids and stop expecting everybody else to deal with them. If you can't correct them in toddler form you can hang teenage form up.
My dad raised me since I was five (my mom's ex-husband is the biological). We have never made a distinction and they're still together after 36 years. I wouldn't cut up or act a fool. If I messed up, he could check me. He let me know had it been otherwise, he and my my Mom would not have stayed together.
Why is that even a question? If the kid is bad that says a lot about the mother. Single mothers are highly capable of raising well-mannered children. I dated a woman whose kids were always in trouble at school. Too much drama for me! Their problems were rooted in her behavior.
I think the REAL point is not that he left because of the son’s behavior but because the mother probably condoned it and raised that, showing her own standards.
I agree. No one has to accept another's person's undisciplined child. If the child has behavior issues then please look at who is the child living with. This will explain the child's undisciplined behavior.
This gentleman is NOT WRONG @ ALL!!! What this woman & other women MUST realize that their focus should be on their children 1st. I’m aware that women need companionship & romance, but kids need to be taught to have & show manners & respect to all adults too. Clearly her child was not her priority, but having a man & the “D” was.
People don't have to put up with someone else's bad kids, I don't blame him, they don't want anyone to say anything to those bad kids so deal with them yourself
I agree with this logic both ways. No one should date another person with unruly children. That person has already shown their inability or unwillingness to be a good parent.
🤣🤣He's totally right, and if he tries to discipline the boy the mother will at first think to herself, then eventually actually tell the brother, 'that ain't your child...only I should discipline him', especially if things aren't totally hunky dory in their relationship. Then the boy, when he gets older, will tell the brother 'you ain't my pa so don't touch me'. Eventually, it's a no-win situation for him. Better to jump ship now before he invests further time, emotion and money in the relationship.
Not everyone is made for those "Readymade Families", especially if the children are bad asf and the biological parents aren't sufficiently disciplining their little hellions😂😂😂
I've never dated a woman with kids, but I've seen many women out in public with kids just doing the most and they act like they don't see it. My momma didn't even half-way play with me acting a fool in public or private.
That boy is "bad" because his mama is an enabler! She must be trying to appease him because his daddy left her and now he's mad at her for that. When she comes to her senses and admits that she has allowed her son to do as he pleases with no consequences, then she can set her son straight, but she's got to be consistent. If she says no, she has to mean it and when he crosses the line, she has to drop the proverbial hammer on him to make him stop.
I don’t see nothing wrong with his decision. Kids are naturally annoying. To be annoyed by a child that isn’t yours and could become a step child?! Absolutely not it’s time exit IMMEDIATELY!
Not now but RIGHT NOW
EXIT STAGE TO THE LEFT TO THE LEFT LOL
Annoying AND bad.....G'bye
It could be more going on with the son that she not telling anyway and he may have made the right choice because everybody can’t handle it.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I dated a guy with two kids and they became super disrespectful towards me. He didn't do anything to discipline them so we had to break up.
"He 3 years old, and he already know how to steal rims!!!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
He's right. As soon as he tries to step in and discpline then it will be a problem. Cut your losses and avoid the drama!
Exactly
Three years old and he knows where the chop shop is! My son was trying to steal a candy bar from a local store and when I found it, I took him right back and made him give it to the store manager. She had the audacity to say, "Oh, it's okay, he can have it," to which I said, "Ma'am, today it's a candy bar, tomorrow it's you and your car." She literally had to think about it, but she got it and accepted the candy bar back.
And the bad part about it is she doesn't want nobody saying nothing to him .
I broke up with the love of my life because his teenage daughter terrorized me and accused me of doing things that I never did. The last straw was when she involved my child in her mischief. No regrets, just sadness.
Run for the hills!! You'll sleep better at night knowing you're at peace.
He is not wrong. I have witnessed this gone bad for a male friend. A totally rotten child that the mother would not discipline. He left her!
Don't blame him.
Point, Blank, Period! I'll explain this later.
"Who is accepting rims from a 3 year old?"😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
This right here is sending out a strong message to all biological fathers out there that have skipped/bounced from their boys. Remember now that even if you decide to leave mama, leaving your children especially boys for someone else to raise, SHOULDN'T be an option. You leave, then co-parent. Stay in your children's lives.
True. Especially when the father wants to be a dad, let him. Please don't use the child/children as weapons to hurt him because the relationship is over.
I'm a woman and I be annoyed AF by some of these kids who lack discipline, respect, and guidance. No one is signing up for the additional stress of bad ass kids. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Lol he said you don't need a boyfriend you need the police 🤣 😂 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
I'm a woman without children, and I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE! The one's with the worse behaved children have the nerve to not want you to verbally discipline, correct, or say anything to them either.
I’ve broken up with men because of bad kids, baby mama drama, and toxic family members. I don’t have kids, but I do have toxic family members who have ruined relationships for me. Sucks.
I don't blame him. Nobody wants to be around bad kids. Her son is an extension and reflection of her so I would have done the same thing if I were him.
A reflection of her parenting skills if nothing else.
People with kids should marry/date each other. Childless people should date/marry each other. Simple.
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I agree
Point, Blank, Period! I'll explain later.
And ladies, stop having children with men that you know will never marry and provide for you and your child. Just STOP it! 😮
If she can't discipline her son and doesn't allow the new man in her life to discipline him.
He has to leave.
Not about to take your kids as his kids and can't bring him up like my own.
Pay the bills, feed him and clothe him but he can't whoop his ass or sit him down when he's misbehaving? bye!!
I think this is the best comment here.💯
Yes, if her child is bad & she can't correct him & doesn't want ANYBODY to correct him then, the Man should RUN !!
Same for the lady, if he has Bad Kids that can't be corrected then she should RUN To !!!
😂😂😂😂Happy mothers day all. Guess he said Eff dem kidz!
😂😂😂😂
Lived That,,, Done That,,, ❤️🔥
I punch them in the face when they bring back my stolen truck ✊️✊️✊️✊️✊️✊️✊️
@@wesleysmith5580 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@angelheaven2826 Both my 7'0 sons did that too their daddy,,, I just sat back and laughed 😅 🤣 😂, when those boys came to me hard they only found thier mother 🥰
She went "Postal" ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
LEAVE BROTHER!
Before you catch a case
Nope....and single mothers.....you KNOW what your child is capable of STOP THE CAP!
Agreed!! He did the right thing for himself and the relationship.
I stopped inviting a friend over because she couldn't control her kid. She wanted to be free from him too & sent him to live with his father for a year. Worked like a charm. Became a totally different kid.
It's a package deal so he is not wrong. #Bounce
Sounds like a smart man, because if she can't control him,then what makes you think you can.
He dodged a super size bullet and fun size jail bird.
As a woman I totally agree with him! 💯 and......if they're teenagers and think you going to hit me and I not hit your ass back wrong person. Damn that !
Stomp a mud hole in them asses
I would rather the man leave, then read that he killed this child. He did the right thing.
Cigarettes, condoms and cocaine....Shuler I'm bout dun wit chu!😂😂😂😂😂
There's no reason to set yourself up for disaster.
He ain't wrong.🤣Aint nobody got time for that!
Sweet Brown!
Straight like that
That’s why I don’t date anyone with kids.
I wouldn’t date a man with an annoying BM or a bad child..I can’t my blood pressure is too high..
It's not his fault that the mother refused to discipline and control her bad ass child.
He isn’t wrong. Kudos❤👏🏾to him. I’d rather see him leave than get so mad that he snaps & harms the child.
Exactly
This woman supports this man’s decision 100%! This should be a lesson to him in the future.
“You don’t need a boyfriend..you need the police”!….😂😂😂
Yes!! a bad ass kid that's a deal breaker,!!😅😅😅
RUN BROTHA RUN
🤔 He is not wrong if he knows he is not equipped to handle her child no matter the age. You can't handle it, leave asap.
As a woman with a son, I didn't bring any one around mine. When I did, mine knew to respect adults. (.)
That's all that's matters.
That's the only way it can work out! Salute.
Coming home from a hard day’s work and having to deal with bullshit, no sir.
Not even a little bit.
This! A man’s home is his sanctuary.
He had to walk away before he do something he regrets, he saved that kid from 100 whoopings.😂😂😂😂
As soon as momma leaves out.... They bad a** quick to say! "You ain't my Daddy!" #YouRight
Secure your peace at all costs. Don’t blame him at all
I remember dating a girl about 7 yrs ago who had two bad ass sons and the youngest one was the worst. One day the lil boy got mad at his Momma for putting him on punishment and he called his 6 foot 5 280 pound father right in front of me crying saying Daddy Momma boyfriend has been hitting me and his momma grabed the phone and i can here dude on the phone saying my son wouldn't lie to me bitch im on my way . I jumped in my car and left and havent seen or talked to her till this day lol
I congratulate you and commend you at the same time.
It's not worth losing your life over a lie.😢
this is NOT funny, but I can't stop laughing. I can see you grabbing your keys, jumping over the fence and speeding down the street 🤣
I dont blame him ! He did the right thing by leaving his GF an her little badass son !! He does not have to put up with that ! 🏃🏾💨
Mom needs to raise her kid better !
Bae Bae kids...He say he ain't trying to wake up dead🤣🤣
I can relate. Discipline starts early.
She allowed him to be that way. Then expects someone else told deal with it.
And i bet when he tried to speak up and teach that boy some manners and respect she says dont touch my child.
It’s not even about touching her child she need to back him up on redirection and effectively disciplining ❤
Agreed! I left my bf for the same reasons 😂 folks like that don’t need to be chasing relationships. Raise them bad kids first.
ALL the way right! 💯
Run like the mighty Mississippi.
Lol
He's not wrong because most parents will not let you correct their children. That little joker could be getting ready to play in traffic and if you dare say get out of the road here goes the neck action. He's not wrong. People need to raise their kids and stop expecting everybody else to deal with them. If you can't correct them in toddler form you can hang teenage form up.
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You are avoiding a big situation. Because the moment you correct him she wants to cut you. Hell nah
Walk out
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That part!
this is a future “my baby ain’t never hurt nobody” mother
😂😂😂😂
While he’s sitting at the defendant’s table and she’s looking on in the courtroom
Nope, not bad. Maybe now she'll learn to discipline her son.
On top of that he has restrictions on him naturally from it not being his son, then she has her boundaries that limits even more...
Child done Set the curtains on fire😅😅😅😅😅😅
Nah ik tf shuler did not just say sum “He 3 years old and he already know how to steal rims” 😭💀
He got connections 😂😂😂😂
He said 😂
He got condoms in his pocket and can't fit none of them..
My dad raised me since I was five (my mom's ex-husband is the biological). We have never made a distinction and they're still together after 36 years. I wouldn't cut up or act a fool. If I messed up, he could check me. He let me know had it been otherwise, he and my my Mom would not have stayed together.
If you can't control your kid then I'm out. I ain't sign up for none of that!!! Go get your kid some therapy, and I might be back 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why is that even a question?
If the kid is bad that says a lot about the mother. Single mothers are highly capable of raising well-mannered children.
I dated a woman whose kids were always in trouble at school. Too much drama for me! Their problems were rooted in her behavior.
So there are no bad kids from two parent homes? You sound off
@@leodelicious865 Of course there are. How is that even remotely related to Shuler's post?
The man IS Right. Leave while you can Sir.. You can Only do so much. 😢😢😮
he did the right thing
Run like your butt is on fire! 🤯🔥🔥🔥
🤣The baby got connects I'm hollering
Good man. 👍🏿
He didn't birth the boy, so he can slide FREELY... 🙏🏾
“I didn’t birth him” That’s how his bio dad feels too.
I would’ve done the same. I have very little patience for kids that aren’t mine 🤣
Just because you accept your bad behind kids doesn't mean everybody else has too.
Absolutely right, he just saved himself tons of pain and drama down the road.
Shuler, I applaud that guy, and I enjoy your humor and comedic talents. 😊😂😅
I think the REAL point is not that he left because of the son’s behavior but because the mother probably condoned it and raised that, showing her own standards.
Well said..❤
I agree. No one has to accept another's person's undisciplined child. If the child has behavior issues then please look at who is the child living with. This will explain the child's undisciplined behavior.
This gentleman is NOT WRONG @ ALL!!! What this woman & other women MUST realize that their focus should be on their children 1st. I’m aware that women need companionship & romance, but kids need to be taught to have & show manners & respect to all adults too. Clearly her child was not her priority, but having a man & the “D” was.
People don't have to put up with someone else's bad kids, I don't blame him, they don't want anyone to say anything to those bad kids so deal with them yourself
He got condoms in his pocket and he can't fit none of them! I'm done!!!
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I agree with him 💯💯 no sir no ma’am no turkey no ham!!!
this is the main reason a lot of men say not to date a single mothers.
My son wasn't bad. Your kids are reflection of you. That's means his mama didn't raise him right and teach him manner's.
If it isn’t a bad child, then it’s a crazy baby daddy or she is just for the streets and your the sucker.
Yet. They have no problem dating them when they need a place to stay or something to eat. The hypocrisy is real in these "Alpha male" streets 🙄.
@@olebitty9414who hurt you sis😂
@@JunkFoodieMikeB obvs one of y’all 😂
Nah, I'm good. Peace is important.
I know that's right!
I agree if he is not comfortable with that child then he can leave. It is better than for him to stay and have issues down the road.
I applaud him, I did it twice!
I agree with this logic both ways. No one should date another person with unruly children. That person has already shown their inability or unwillingness to be a good parent.
🤣🤣He's totally right, and if he tries to discipline the boy the mother will at first think to herself, then eventually actually tell the brother, 'that ain't your child...only I should discipline him', especially if things aren't totally hunky dory in their relationship. Then the boy, when he gets older, will tell the brother 'you ain't my pa so don't touch me'. Eventually, it's a no-win situation for him. Better to jump ship now before he invests further time, emotion and money in the relationship.
Not everyone is made for those "Readymade Families", especially if the children are bad asf and the biological parents aren't sufficiently disciplining their little hellions😂😂😂
I've never dated a woman with kids, but I've seen many women out in public with kids just doing the most and they act like they don't see it. My momma didn't even half-way play with me acting a fool in public or private.
Run, brutha run 🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾
That boy is "bad" because his mama is an enabler! She must be trying to appease him because his daddy left her and now he's mad at her for that. When she comes to her senses and admits that she has allowed her son to do as he pleases with no consequences, then she can set her son straight, but she's got to be consistent. If she says no, she has to mean it and when he crosses the line, she has to drop the proverbial hammer on him to make him stop.
That's call looking past the trees and seeing the forrest😮
The kid ain’t his. He didn’t want them problems. Case closed. 😆
I Don't Blame Him At All, he's Right 😂😂😂😂
He's not obligated to stay or raise her child. Her child, her responsibility
You don't need a boyfriend, you need the police!!! For sure!!!
SAVE YOURSELF!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know that’s right.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!
The booty wasn't that good for him to have to put up with Bebe's Kids.😂😂😂😂
Mine got some though 😂😂
Run Forrest!!!! Run🏃🏃🏃