AFTER DIVORCE I AM GONNA BE THE OWNER OF ALL YOUR PROPERTY! My Lawyer Thinks Otherwise r/ProRevenge

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  • Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2024

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  • @xephthetamagochi4046
    @xephthetamagochi4046 3 года назад +59

    it is sad the when a female abuses a male everyone laughs and calls the male weak but GOD FORBID we so much as grab them even if it is to save the children.

    • @jaye8708
      @jaye8708 3 года назад +3

      Reminds me of something I read when I had to do research on something an looked up something involving assault which lead to a part where men due to social normals are looked down apon if they rep or assault or "assault" with an R and people will say just tuff it out or didn't it feel good or some b.s. like that. It's rare the latter but not an impossibility.

    • @NsTheName
      @NsTheName 3 года назад +6

      Thank goodness not everyone is like that. I find it infuriating. Abuse is abuse, no matter who is on the end of it.

    • @waynekeanini4609
      @waynekeanini4609 Год назад

      P

  • @toadman506
    @toadman506 3 года назад +126

    Last one wouldn't have flown where I worked, I have to admit to no small amount of Schadenfreude at the Shocked Pikachu face we got EVERY TIME We Arrested the Female party for Domestic Violence. We had one, She was 5' nothing 95lb soaking wet, the BF was 6', 250. She answered the door all teary-eyed, talking about how she had been "Assaulted. Looked at the guy, he had REALLY Obvious Defensive Wounds on his arms, and deep, actively bleeding scratches on his face and neck. Asked him what happened, he said she'd gone off on him and started swinging, the ONLY thing he did was push her away. Cue Shocked Pikachu when I asked HIM if he wanted the Restraining Order, and signaled my partner to Cuff HER. She ended up with DV Assault (Aggravated), Agg Assault on Police Officers (4 Counts, She kicked my partner, tried to Head-butt me, and got my shoulder, Kicked and Bit the Female Officer who had to Search Her, and assaulted me a second time when I went to do her fingerprints) Damage to Property, She managed to claw up the back seat of the Car, and Kick the Window out of Alignment. She tried to play the shy, meek Victim of the Patriarchy when it went to Court, until we pulled out Photos of the Injuries to the BF, Video of her kicking, screaming and Spitting in the Garage, and nice Clear footage of her attacking the Female Officer. Talk about flipping a Switch, took 3 Bailiffs to get her cuffed after she went off and started screaming threats at Us, the Judge, the Prosecutor, and her own Attorney.

    • @mrmoose6619
      @mrmoose6619 3 года назад +24

      I can only imagine. It's just that we hear so many stories about men abusing women that there is still some shock when it's the opposite... and that the Dad is the better parent overall (like this story) that it is still somewhat surprising to hear. At least the courts now are accepting that this happens and women get their just desserts too...

    • @carljacobs1837
      @carljacobs1837 3 года назад +7

      The state I used to live in, when someone called about domestic violence, the police and court always side with the one that called the police.

    • @luisespinoza8391
      @luisespinoza8391 3 года назад +2

      What was the result when she went to court?

    • @litning123
      @litning123 3 года назад +6

      Good on you for not buying the baloney. If you could train other cops to be savvy, objective and reasonable that would go a long way to restoring public faith in LEOs.

    • @toadman506
      @toadman506 3 года назад +2

      @@carljacobs1837 Some places were really Lazy about DV, we Weren't

  • @stephanginther9051
    @stephanginther9051 3 года назад +33

    8:50 Domestic violence against men is often completely laughed off, even in America. I think most countries, not just America have bias against men in divorce proceedings. In the US a supreme court judge in the 30's made a bunch of rules and laws that basically just assumed the man to be at fault in any domestic hearing, no innocent until proven guilty. Such laws have started to be repealed in recent years but there are still places where its almost impossible for a man to get fair representation in such cases.There is a divorce lawyer that got a bit famous for defending men that the court system would not help. She did a little talk about all this a few years ago. My grandmother knew a guy who divorced his wife because she cheated on him. He was made to pay child support for the resulting kid for 18 years despite proving the kid wasn't his with a DNA test. The DNA test results were thrown out because it was done in another state, but when he asked for a new test in the same state, they said, 'no, you already did one.' He fought it for all 18 years to no avail.

    • @Elyseon
      @Elyseon 3 года назад +4

      It's best to just have no relationships, never marry or cohabitate and never have kids.

    • @jinga9862
      @jinga9862 2 года назад +1

      That "Supreme Court Judge" was actually 2-3 women about 30-45 years ago who created the "Duluth Model," which many a states domestic violence laws are based off of. Essentially, it decries that the man in the situation is ALWAYS the aggressor, ignoring any and all nuance. You could have a 6'3" Amazonian with bruised knuckles and a 5'4" twig of a man with a broken nose, jaw, 3 broken ribs, and is bleeding from every facial orifice and the MAN will go to jail for the night for "Domestic Violence." I'm not even joking, it's that ingrained and skewed.

  • @firstswordcorvus7368
    @firstswordcorvus7368 3 года назад +21

    Glad OP won in the last story, but wtf made her go psycho? Aside from living like a celebrity/princess it sounded like she had everything most single people wish they could have and then decides to throw it all away for what? I feel like I'll never understand why this happens. Have seen some camera footage showing similar situations and it always baffles me

    • @DisturbedArcher
      @DisturbedArcher 3 года назад +8

      like the saying goes, its not the money that makes you a horrible person, it just exposes.

  • @ladytenor9876
    @ladytenor9876 3 года назад +58

    The abusive wife is proof that being female does not mean you should have or raise children.. That story made me cry. Red Wheel, you are a source of great stories, smiles and laughter as well as needing a hankie from time to time. Thank you again and again. 🏅

    • @gabrielledormuth4634
      @gabrielledormuth4634 3 года назад +6

      As a mother of 2 kids I have seen many single moms who don't deserve to have their kids but the law is stupid sometimes 🙄

    • @janrogers8352
      @janrogers8352 3 года назад +2

      I have a family friend that had to fight for 2 long and difficult years to get his child back. Eventually he did, but there were still child support workers who thought a lying alcoholic mother should keep her child, even when the child told them they hated her and wanted to live with daddy.

  • @carolgibson-wilson4354
    @carolgibson-wilson4354 3 года назад +58

    The last one wow. Wife should have been institutionalized.

    • @svenstevenson2245
      @svenstevenson2245 3 года назад +10

      You'd be surprised on how common that type of situation actually is.

    • @Theproclaimed
      @Theproclaimed 3 года назад +12

      @@svenstevenson2245 divorce court is just court sanctioned theft from husbands

    • @jnokomis
      @jnokomis 3 года назад +1

      Nah, she just needs gentle pats on the head... with a hat. Sorry but I can't abide child abuse.

    • @joem1480
      @joem1480 3 года назад +1

      You misspelled imprisoned

  • @ernestlemmingway1124
    @ernestlemmingway1124 3 года назад +17

    First Story: The _Dilbert_ character of the PHB is there for a reason. They're very real and not restricted to one gender.
    Third Story: What can I say that others haven't already?

  • @dbeaton1111
    @dbeaton1111 3 года назад +11

    Gave my grandson my Netflix account info with the warning not to give it to anyone else. A couple of months later, when I tried to use Netflix, I was kicked out for "Too many active users". Four people were already active on my Netflix account. Two were his ex girlfriends and one was his dead beat father. Changed my account info pronto.

  • @myrajefferson3672
    @myrajefferson3672 3 года назад +8

    The second story was perfect. OP's memo was great, direct, and to the point, OP wasn't being rude at all IMO1

    • @TheWabbit
      @TheWabbit 3 года назад +2

      Its ok to admonish and slander a subordinate but when they reply back with a matter of fact how to use excel document thats being insubordinate ? I would have been up at HR and worked my way through all the managers to the CEO. You can't make an accusation that will kill someone's career and expect no reprisal. Well you can in certain companies but I would've ask for an answer to the email with an apology or I'm out of there.

  • @NightingaleFilms100
    @NightingaleFilms100 3 года назад +10

    The third story sounds like undiagnosed bipolar disease. When a person completely changes their personality it is usually the sign the chemicals that control brain function are not working.

  • @BaoHadir
    @BaoHadir 3 года назад +9

    It's pretty awful that male victims of domestic violence aren't taken seriously. Blame feminist policies.

    • @gerbo8018
      @gerbo8018 3 года назад +2

      It was already the case before the feminists came in.
      Although now you stand almost no chance of defending yourself unless you have overwhelming evidence.

    • @j1337-l1n
      @j1337-l1n 3 года назад +4

      back in the old days, almost all victims of domestic violence were women and kids cause the men were physically superior. hence we have the feminist policies. Unfortunately, the awful women who knows the law is on their side takes advantage of it cause they know the guy can't physically defend himself. This is where we are at after several thousand years of human civilization. Fortunately enough many people are taking steps to ensure this problem can also be solved

    • @gerbo8018
      @gerbo8018 3 года назад +4

      @@j1337-l1n Tbh this is a blatant falsehood ... Domestic abuse has always existed on both sides.
      The only thing is in some parts you could literally legally kill your wife. This doesn't mean she couldn't emotionally abuse you and make you a wreck.
      Speaking out has always been stigmatized for men. people will laugh at you when you claim abuse from your wife.

    • @slimecorn
      @slimecorn 3 года назад +3

      @@gerbo8018 there 100% is a stigma against men speaking out against abuse. No one here is denying that. but pretending that women don't make up the majority of violent about cases is ignoring reality.

    • @j1337-l1n
      @j1337-l1n 3 года назад

      @@gerbo8018 in my part of the world, cases where a woman physically assaulted a man is incredibly rare and almost all cases i heard about involved adultery. On the other hand, man beating up wife and children has been a common thing until recently and heck it has been over things like children's bad grades. I don't know what wacky part of the world you are from

  • @beave200
    @beave200 3 года назад +5

    My ex was like the last ones. We didnt have kids because she forced me into celibacy. Only thing that saved me from false accusations was the fact i recorded her admitting to all the abuse as well as her abusing me. People still laugh at me even though I'm still in therapy due to ptsd from the stuff she did to me.

    • @alysiareid6659
      @alysiareid6659 Год назад

      I'm so sorry. I am also the victim of dv. I think the law almost always side with the woman.

    • @PenneySanson
      @PenneySanson Год назад

      I am sorry this happened to you. Men have just the same chance to be abused as women. Both genders can be a**holes. People need to take off their blinders and support victims regardless of their gender. Please take care of yourself. The hardest step is to leave.

  • @JediLadyMisty
    @JediLadyMisty 3 года назад +4

    Back when I had a Netflix account I shared my information with some of my family and set the account for four screens as my younger sisters were in college and/or out of State/Time Zone.
    My mom and one of my sisters did give me money for it as it wasn’t cheap but I was sometimes happy to just waive it.

  • @solidmoon8266
    @solidmoon8266 3 года назад +9

    That second one. I'd honestly demand a full blown apology, she dragged everyone in while crapping on him for her stupidity, she can apologize in the same manner.
    What a bloody clown of a director
    That third story is honestly the pinnicle of why men won't commit when they can pull this crap and get away with the worse of it.

  • @Allofthemonkeys
    @Allofthemonkeys 3 года назад +4

    My wifes fam shares logins for streaming. One pays for netflix, we pay disney, another amazon, etc.

    • @janrogers8352
      @janrogers8352 3 года назад +1

      But if you all know about it and agree to it, there's no problem. Perhaps the husband and wife should try talking to each other so that they both know what's going on.

  • @Sparky102970
    @Sparky102970 3 года назад +12

    So they can pay your wife to use your Netflix account, but can't pay Netflix for their own? They're not paying and the wife is covering for them. (SMH) people are so gullible

  • @sirxanthor
    @sirxanthor 3 года назад +2

    Got to love gold diggers. A few years back, a co worker was duped into a gold digger green card marriage. Once he caught the woman cheating, twice, he filed for divorce, and despite a prenuptial agreement, this woman was about to get away with taking 75% of his life savings he had long before he met this disaster. As it turned out, the prenuptial was not legit, as she claimed she never actually signed it, and it was discovered she in fact wrote in her own language, no good. As it turned out, after this was discovered, she had done the same exact thing with the marriage certificate, which basically voided the marriage as well as far as the state was concerned, hence she got nothing, except a very large lawyers bill.

  • @Ryanthusar
    @Ryanthusar 3 года назад +4

    You come home and find your kids home alone and mother not there. YOU IMMEDIATELY CALL THE POLICE AND SAY THE KIDS ARE IN DANGER

    • @melissaupton2097
      @melissaupton2097 3 года назад

      Only a dark, narcissistic soul would leave children that young alone. I wouldn't do that to my pets much less children.

  • @jpg6417
    @jpg6417 3 года назад +3

    And that's the problem in a lot of marriages lack of communication skills

  • @margojohnson4224
    @margojohnson4224 3 года назад +11

    Good Morning Redwheel and fans hope everyone has a great week

  • @teacher555555
    @teacher555555 3 года назад +1

    OPS: dont ever embarass anyone like that ever again
    ME: dont ever assume that i dont know how to do my job just because they dont know how to do theirs.

    • @robertx8020
      @robertx8020 3 года назад

      Yeah aweful management in that company!
      It's like the 'don't bully the bully ' rule some place seem to have :(
      Protecting their 'own' and throwing others under the bus for it!
      Time to look for another job I guess :(

  • @jameskung9808
    @jameskung9808 3 года назад +4

    That last one was rough, but great that everything worked out

  • @Torsin2000
    @Torsin2000 3 года назад

    ON the Excel one, if you don't want to get in trouble you have to phrase it like a question. Such as, did the additional sheets get cut off from her copy or is VBA enabled, etc.

  • @luisespinoza8391
    @luisespinoza8391 3 года назад +4

    Last story sounds like the crazy woman my stupid older brother was married to. They deserved each other.

  • @mrblaqfyre3130
    @mrblaqfyre3130 3 года назад +3

    Wow a crying lawyer and a giggling engineer this sound the middle of a heist movie or the end of an action flick.

  • @maiingan07
    @maiingan07 Год назад

    People love to accuse others of their own doing. Surprisingly, they get away with it a lot of the time. Thankfully, in this story they did not.

  • @clivecarrick4698
    @clivecarrick4698 3 года назад

    Sorry I don’t always klick like to every story as I leave them to repeat but I do like the Chanel.👍❤️👍

  • @chaosreaver3597
    @chaosreaver3597 3 года назад +2

    The excel story. Was... was she Jen from the IT crowd?

  • @welshdragonfunhunter3461
    @welshdragonfunhunter3461 3 года назад +3

    Hi RedWheel hope you are well. Thanks for your stories. Please stay safe.🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿😷😁👍. Have a great day everyone

  • @ipman4715
    @ipman4715 3 года назад +1

    So who will not ever name their baby Karen

  • @georglimiux677
    @georglimiux677 3 года назад +1

    lesson learned here, DON`T GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @pierremainstone-mitchell8290
    @pierremainstone-mitchell8290 Год назад

    "in a country of Engineers (Germany)" - I see that the word "tautology" (tautologie in German) has the same meaning as it does in English!

  • @adog6495
    @adog6495 3 года назад

    Story 1 why are they still in contact if they almost made op homeless and if they can pay for Netflix why are they paying the wife

  • @Maninawig
    @Maninawig 3 года назад +4

    What interesting story selections

  • @enlightendbel
    @enlightendbel 2 года назад

    Getting written up and threatened and then it's you who was supposedly disrespectful simply showing where the supposed missing data was?
    Yeah, that's my que to go get a different job.

  • @michaeljohnson7538
    @michaeljohnson7538 3 месяца назад

    7:36 you should have immediately asked him if she got a reprimand for being so rude to you and calling you out in front of everyone

  • @sistersofstories4442
    @sistersofstories4442 3 года назад +2

    Good Morning RedWheel.
    I've been listening to your EntitledParents & I Idontworkherelady playlists as I've had experience in both realms of conflict, though mostly in the idontworkherelady side.
    Anyways I love these videos as my shifts as just boring as all hell.... And this is the only form of entertainment I have now

  • @litning123
    @litning123 3 года назад

    2d story: If what OP said is true, the head of ops is rather thick. OP’s email was far kinder than mine would have been. A b…. publicly and wrongly chatting OP when in a fact she doesn’t know a basic operation of a basic office app? She’s an idiot, the ops head is an idiot, and OP has grounds for a lawsuit (defamation - libel per se). OP should see a lawyer! Afterwards he can report everything to HR, but a good lawyer will advise OP on what to say to HR to preserve his rights and protect himself.
    Remember: HR is there to protect the company. If you want protection, see your union rep or a lawyer.
    Edit: Bloody Apple autocorrect. Chastising, not chatting

  • @Kece89
    @Kece89 3 года назад

    I think that last one was more like r/NuclearRevenge

  • @jameszimmerman6430
    @jameszimmerman6430 3 года назад

    1st 1- Why didn't the wife tell him when she 1st got the $? That wasn't very nice

  • @stoopingfalcon891
    @stoopingfalcon891 3 года назад +1

    Pointy haired boss? LMAO, never heard of that till this video.

    • @mbyerly9680
      @mbyerly9680 3 года назад +2

      It's the name of the boss in the cartoon "Dilbert" who is a balding guy whose hair points upward.

    • @mkvv5687
      @mkvv5687 3 года назад

      @@mbyerly9680 ...and pointed(ly) a bit like devils horns.

  • @paulredinger420
    @paulredinger420 3 года назад

    I think I'd of pointed out The she tried to embarrass me and make me look like a moron to begin with.

  • @Key-jc8kw
    @Key-jc8kw 3 года назад

    It's sad that society let's women outright abuse kids.

  • @amir-razzak
    @amir-razzak 3 года назад +1

    i feel bad for the man in the last story

  • @mrmoose6619
    @mrmoose6619 3 года назад +1

    Thanks to RedWheel for a great selection of stories for my listening pleasure and to all OPs for sharing.

  • @AAron-gr3jk
    @AAron-gr3jk 3 года назад +3

    The third story is exactly why men don't want to get married anymore. (The German engineer)

  • @Juggzy
    @Juggzy 2 года назад

    The one about the excel report I would have ripped every single one of those morons a new one and let them know in NO uncertain terms to NEVER talk to me like that again and if they knew anything none of that would have happened.

  • @dorothylloyd1804
    @dorothylloyd1804 3 года назад +2

    Good Monday morning. Thanks for the stories RedWheel. Have a good day all.

  • @StefenBruh
    @StefenBruh 3 года назад

    Last one: if it were my wife she would end up missing 🤷‍♂️

  • @sirxanthor
    @sirxanthor 3 года назад +2

    Inlaws sending payment for Netflix? Why aren't they just buying it themselves? I'd have checked with Netflix on this, just to be safe, because not doing so, can get your account permanently banned, if your caught giving access to another who has been Perma banned as well. For example, one of my neighbors were banned for a year from Hulu, which got lifted after a month. When a service bans you, the only way around it is to either get expensive software, or buy new WiFi cards to change out the Mac address, as this is what actually gets banned. My neighbors son had opened a free account, and ripped some shows, putting them on torrent sites, a very big no no. What their son did not know, was when he copies or watches shows, the recording is inbeded with the users account ID, which when he uploaded these shows, they quickly banned the kids account. Since no copyright warning was sent to the parents by the provider, they had no clue. His parents evidently opened their own account, and all was fine till they added their sons email, which in moments, got their account banned as well, and it took a lot to get that ban removed.

    • @intelpntium
      @intelpntium 3 года назад +2

      They were most likely sending money to the wife simply because its far cheaper to buy one subscription and share it among family than it is to subscribe on your own.

  • @fhuber7507
    @fhuber7507 3 года назад

    1... Wife was an a$$ for setting up her parents on your Netflix without saying anything.

  • @patrikbengtsson3883
    @patrikbengtsson3883 Год назад

    Nowadays Netflix cannot be shared

  • @donniearmstrong8390
    @donniearmstrong8390 Год назад

    so in other words when OP says the services director was a pointy haired boss he was basically saying she was a living version of a troll doll

  • @lavenderandwine
    @lavenderandwine 3 года назад

    Domestic violence knows no gender. I am the victim of domestic abuse from my ex-fiance (he raped me repeatedly for years). My brother is the victim of domestic abuse from his now (hopefully if the paperwork finally went through) ex-wife. I knew it was bad for him and had tried to help where I could but I didn't know just HOW bad it had gotten. Like this bitch literally beat him with a giant bag of ice in front of witnesses while also verbally abusing him just because he didn't move fast enough for what she wanted. She tried to isolate him from his family and friends. She literally stole his paychecks and spent all of them within a few days and then would abuse him for not making more money (still no idea what she was spending it on). She had a warrant out for her arrest for a drug charge in California (they were living in the Midwest during the abuse) from before they met. I hope her son's dad gets custody of kiddo and he gets the therapy he needs. I hope my brother will go into therapy but he is under the impression it is for the weak and crazy thanks to our grandmother who is a whole other cow of insanity (anti-vaxx, racist, homophobic etc. -- note, I came out as trans and gay a year or two ago and before all this this woman literally looked me in the face and said people like me, even though she didn't know at the time, should be shot if that tells you what this woman is like). I wish people believed victims. My brother is at least being believed and I am grateful for that. My rapist is still walking free and no one believes me that knows him except for a small handful. I now have PTSD because of him and will literally have flashbacks and feel like I'm suffocating (physical manifestation of anxiety related to PTSD).

  • @SylvesterCarl
    @SylvesterCarl Год назад

    That woman earned the nick name "Tabby".

  • @ChaddeusThaddeus
    @ChaddeusThaddeus 3 года назад

    When did The Virus start a RUclips channel

  • @joshuaengleman1131
    @joshuaengleman1131 3 года назад +2

    GOOD MORNING RED WHEEL AND ALL OF NEVERLAND!!!! 👋 👋 👋
    It's a B-E-A-UTIFUL RAINY DAY!!!!
    WHOOOOOOO!!!!!
    Let's have a Manic Monday, Everybody!!!!!
    Stay safe. Stay hydrated. Stay blessed. 🙌 😇

  • @RVREVO
    @RVREVO 2 года назад

    Last story sounds like the ex-wife is bipolar.

  • @shane142
    @shane142 3 года назад

    Be good if you can make Karen a Good girl for a change LOL

  • @davidwalker8195
    @davidwalker8195 3 года назад

    First one: How petty can I be?

  • @cynthiaappleton1474
    @cynthiaappleton1474 3 года назад

    Hello Hello 👋 I love you stories RedWhell 🦋

  • @lewischase
    @lewischase 3 года назад +3

    Good morning RedWheel
    Hi all

  • @smitty8163
    @smitty8163 3 года назад

    Don’t call her Karen, call her white woman!

  • @Oneebie
    @Oneebie 3 года назад +1

    Morning folks have a good daily dose of redwheel

  • @Cryton12345
    @Cryton12345 3 года назад

    I just laughed my ass off on the first story

  • @terryburnett751
    @terryburnett751 3 года назад +3

    Let's do this lol

  • @cynthiajordan8751
    @cynthiajordan8751 3 года назад +3

    First

  • @dustinandtarynwolfe5540
    @dustinandtarynwolfe5540 3 года назад

    *My lawyer and I. Jesus man get your shit together.

  • @MrSmooth273
    @MrSmooth273 3 года назад

    👍👍👍😊😊😊👌✌

  • @jlp2061
    @jlp2061 3 года назад +1

    ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐💖💖💖💖⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @tiffany6341
    @tiffany6341 3 года назад

    🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @suzyelliot5886
    @suzyelliot5886 3 года назад +3

    Sorry, but last story is such BS.

    • @gerbo8018
      @gerbo8018 3 года назад +1

      Based on what info ?

    • @Suzaku455
      @Suzaku455 3 года назад

      @@gerbo8018 I'm guessing is because the man won?

    • @suzyelliot5886
      @suzyelliot5886 3 года назад

      @@gerbo8018 listen to the story again and you'll see why.

    • @gerble36
      @gerble36 3 года назад +3

      @@suzyelliot5886 So in other words, you got nothing and is just trolling. Good to know.

    • @gerbo8018
      @gerbo8018 3 года назад

      @@suzyelliot5886 That is a non answer

  • @roymoses1945
    @roymoses1945 Год назад

    So she can call you out for not doing what you did do, embarrassing you in the process. But you can't send clarification that you DID do the work without getting in trouble because she was embarrassed?!?