I WAS FORCED TO HAVE KIDS!!!
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- Опубликовано: 13 дек 2021
- I was forced to have kids. This is another one of my new video's where I talk about my experiences with life, family and everything else I've done. It's my opinion based on my experience and hopefully it may help you in making decisions in your life or not LOL. So grab a snack, watch and enjoy.
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As someone who is single and trying to find that special someone. This was a very good insight, thank you Papa Walsh!
all i’m hearing is you loved jen so much that you were afraid children would ruin your present dynamic with her. even though it ended i’m sure you both are extremely happy for the experience and the even better gift, 3 incredibly stunning and talented kids. this was very entertaining i love every single walsh 💗 you guys rock
yea he loved jen so much that he wants her to be perfect without flabby skin and stretchmarks till they die or break up, whichever comes first…
@@quinns17 must be hard to hear some actually tell the truth. This shit effects everyone. If u marry someone looking a certain way and 5 years down the track they look like a completely different person, Ofcourse things are going to change
@@nj3229 youre blaming a woman for looking different after having 3 kids? 💀
@@dirrty9387 No one's blaming her, but you can't control what you're attracted to. What, you think women don't divorce their husbands because they gained weight and lost their hair? It happens to both genders.
@@VDA19 and i didnt say any different. But to be a grown man and expect your wife to look the exact same after birthing and looking after 3 children is CRAZY to me lmao
Me 19, not engaged, not thinking about kids at all. Just sitting here listening to every word
Me, but 16
I'm 33 years old and perfectly content with never having kids. Too much anxiety in this world already. So glad you had those 3 insanely gorgeous, hysterical and crazy talented kids though!! 🙌💙
I'm 31 and I don't feel like having kids now. I'd like to to have one in my late 30s maybe... But childbirth scares the hell out of me 😬
@@lizzycat1271 Aw when the time is right, you'll have them!!! 😘😘
Same I'm 34 and don't want kids. But I love watching family dynamics and glad I found this family.
@@user-si4nk3lr5k true absolute max would be 40 otherwise no point.
Got two at 39 biggest regret was waiting. Wish I had a dozen
As a single mother I feel this is the father of our son speaking, now he, our son and I have a sadness that we can't shake off. We all have our lifes but nobody tells the truth like you just did. Thank you.
U should always discuss the topic of kids before getting married or into a serious/long term relationship
I very much agree with this. The first guy I dated, a few months in he calmly mentions how he never wants kids. I was so shocked. He also slips into the convo that he never wants to get married either. So no real commitment. We broke up right there. I learned right then to always ask in the first couple of dates what the person wants. Never gonna make that mistake again
This was really real. I think there is a huge stigma around “blaming” kids for divorce. While it’s obviously not inherently their fault - they do play a part in it. And I think ultimately it’s less selfish to get divorced than force a marriage where children will grow up watching their parents fight
I love how open and honest Papa Walsh is. These videos are so realistic and its comforting to know people actually deal with these things too.
I’m only 24 & definitely do not plan on having kids anytime soon so your insight was very refreshing to hear. Thank you for being so honest & not sugarcoating your perspectives too! We appreciate you Papa Walsh ❤️
Papa Walsh speaking truth/facts! I love my son, but you’re absolutely right.. The relationship changes! and I’m glad to hear things change when the kids get older, its rough when the other parent uses the child as a way to hurt or get back at the other parent.
This made me laugh so much. Man, gotta love papa Walsh! Brutally honest.😂👍🏻 I actually really enjoyed this video! I appreciate you opening up a little bit about you and your family! Happy holidays Papa Walsh!🎄
Aidan, Thank you so much for sharing your experience and being so honest about it.
You summarized my experience with my marriage and kids... the only difference was that when I met my wife she made it very clear that she wanted to have kids and I was intent on having kids but had no idea what I was getting into. My wife was pregnant a little over a year after we got married. We had twins (that's a whole 'nother story). Once the kids came into the picture, everything changed. My wife's complete focus is on the kids. When we do vacations, she will not take a vacation with me .... all vacations must include the kids even though the kids are pretty much grown. Our marriage is a shell. The only thing keeping us together is the kids.
Your observations are Spot On!
This is a real video. Parenting is not easy. My best friend kept pressuring her husband to have kids. People should have the conversation while dating if people want kids. I do as I don't want them and I'm not ashamed of it. If one is forced the dynamic is already gone. If one does not want kids be firm. I'm glad you got good kids end of the day and I'm sure it came with a lot of sacrifice.
5:44 Poor mama jean dealing with HIM 💀
I think it all boils down to the person's readiness in not just one or some aspects of marriage but all of them. It's complicated and a huge lifelong commitment so love won't be enough
I love my daughter and I wont change anything for that but I can relate to what you're saying Papa Walsh. Watching your videos make me happy and I would love to hang out with you one day. Stay healthy and strong.
You know what they say-"Life is hard, then you die"! Enjoy the time you have with your gang and be an inspiration for the rest of us.
this is was very nice to hear papa walsh. i’d love to hear more about why you got divorced and your perspective on it
I actually really enjoyed listening to this and hearing what you had to say about having kids. I’m 19 and I feel like all my friends want to grow up, get married and have children, and I’m sitting here like oh hell to the no with that. I know for a fact having a child makes things 10x more complicated as I saw both my parents’ relationship fail once I was born. Now that’s not saying that they didn’t have their own issues but I know for a fact as soon as I was born, it got too serious for my Dad and he up and left because he couldn’t deal with it. So when my friends say they want to have a baby and all that because “they’re cute”, I’m just like do you know how much time and effort and responsibility it is to have a baby or more. I agree a thousands times with what you were saying in this video, and I’m not having a baby until I’m ready if not at all. The world is just a scary place as well to raise a baby in and the way things are with money and health and dangers, I couldn’t think anything worse. I’m glad I’m not alone.
Love your channel dude I’m a new dad so I feel like I could learn a lot from you!
Papa Walsh, I liked this story. Kids are a game changer. Have two little ones of my own. I’d like to hear more about how you gained your success and what your career has been. Keep up the good work!
I really enjoyed listening to this. I'm only 21 so no kids but this gave me a lot to think about. Thank you papa walsh
loved this video, flew by... more sit down videos on similar life topics needed xx
I can listen to your stories any day papa Walsh !! Real advice and honest !!! Your a legend ! Finish your story about how you met your girlfriend !
“I tried to talk my way out of it” 😂😂 I don’t even wanna imagine what my now separated parents were like back then no thanks hahah. But we appreciate you for sharing your experience it’s better to be honest than a fake ass person
I watched this whole video with so much focus. Love u papa Walsh
Good video. Could hear you talk about your life stories for hours! Well done 👍🏽
My wife is due on the 25th with our first kid, so definitely interesting to get this perspective.
really enjoyed your story time and your philosophy in life. looking forward to more videos like this if possible.
At 5:46 I didn't expect that, I love how you say it with a straight face lol
I love watching your videos i found you randomly on my recommendations. sending you love from saudi arabia
Great video! I enjoyed your perspective.
ur the best papa walsh!!! love the vids
Thanks papa Walsh! This video was very insightful since I'm involved with a woman who's got kids already
Watching this is very insightful, humorous and informative. Coming from parents who later became divorced and have brothers, some of your life experiences is relatable. Even my dad has some similar stories that you said about like the c section and parents arguing. It's true that the current school system doesn't teach you more about life like raising a family and dealing with a divorce case and instead focus on calculus which we aren't going to really use in life unless your a college professor in math. Unfortunately we live in a mixed up society. I just focus on myself/work/health/family and not let it bother me. Just know we love your work Papa Walsh and your family.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts papa Walsh. Great and informative video. 😊
Thanks for the honesty. Never wanted kids. They’re cute and all but not for
me. Love my freedom too much and don’t want the extra responsibility. Too
many orphans out there that need a home so I’d rather adopt. Why add to the overpopulated world by bringing another human? Just my two cents.
I agree with you, i think the same thing
Thanks Papa Walsh! I sure learnt a great deal
But some of you have to agree with me there are marriages that turned for the better after a kid was born! And I don't think that percentage is less than those whose marriages went south after having kids
Now you have 3 wonderful kids who adore you. Imagine your life without them. It's good though, that you keep it real. I think you and your ex wife did the best you could and we all make mistakes at some point of our lives. You are an amazing person, very original, very strong and I am sure, life's got good things for you to come. There are 2 songs that define it perfectly, "la vida te da sorpresa" and "la vida es un carnaval" (Celia Cruz). Have a good day!!
I hope Brandon reacts to this, it’d make a good video
Thank you for sharing your perspective.
I always find it interesting when people have this perspective, I am 25 married pregnant and want like 6 kids. But I respect people who know what they want, no one should judge for doing what’s right for you. I personally don’t see the purpose in life with out kids but thank you for your perspective it’s nice for people to be open about this kind of thing and so straightforward!
6 kids? DAYUM
6????????
for some people life is a lot less stressful without kids and you have more freedom in your life to do what you want to do. not everybody needs to have kids this world is overpopulated and life sucks enough
@@jennasantostefano7785 I mean I don’t agree with that last part but that’s just my personal out look on life, that’s why I thought it was really cool he was being so open about his experience and thoughts. I totally agree that if people don’t want kids there should be no pressure at all! I’ve always found it weird when people say things “oh you’ll change your mind” or “but having kids makes your life so much better” I personally find it that way in my life but I know plenty of people who don’t want kids and that’s totally normal too. No one should feel pressured or judge for that decision.
@@jennasantostefano7785 the world is underpopulated and not overpopulated. the overpopulation is a problem in the failing underdeveloped countries but in Europe, the Americas and far east asia where most of civilization is happening it is severely underpopulated and now the Middle East is entering the chat of underpopulated.
Yep, it's about how much pressure, responsibility, and stress someone can take. Being an adult and having a job is pretty stressful. Having and maintaining a relationship adds more stress. Buying and maintaining a house adds more. Kids add a ton more.
So, everyone must figure out how much stress and responsibility they can handle without breaking apart. Many if not most fail at this and mess up their lives.
Everything you said about the kids and going back and forth driving, I’m going thru RIGHT NOW, 3 boys, I’m 27. Man it is STRESSFUL. But I asked for it.
Hahaha this is hilarious. Where was I oh yea, why I didn’t want kids! Lol
I’m only 2 min in but this is funny Papa W.
great insight, more advice for young men is always welcome, much love
Look folks , from what I've gathered watching most of ALL of the Walsh Vids ? I think Aidan gets a bad rap in a lot of ways . I mean I don't nessesarily agree with Aidan that being forced to have kids with Jen Seidel back when she was 19 and he was 25 when she was pretty young and hot in the 80s was some kind of curse or purgatory .1987 was a great year . So much decadence . I can imagine she was pursued by men that wanted a family more than just be bachelors like Aidan wanted obviously in the 80s . In the 80s having babies and a family was more in style in the US , so it's not surprising Jen wanted that so young . Most women nowadays that are hot only want one kid naturally , let alone 3 . Most women nowadays want to adopt more to protect their body image . I would have never guessed that Jen had two C Sections , and a V Back natural birth . Very interesting . You'd never know it because Jen's abs are pretty tight and phenominal for 52 yrs old . Now I can see why they are . Never knew she was an Aerobics Instructor at one time , but I can picture her doing that .
The one thing that bothers me is that Jen has this intense scorned wife victim card she plays going against Aidan . She has said in a couple of vids that Aidan was crazy when they were together / married , and he was kind of a dead beat dad .That he was never there , and she did basically everything for Brandon , Claudia , and Kennedy , which I find laughable . Aidan obviously was paying the bills providing a roof over the kids head . That's commendable enough in some people's eyes . I've seen kids that had a deadbeat parent . Those kids usually don't ever forgive or forget that stuff , if it's a constant thing , and goes past their teens . I don't believe these Walsh kids would want to visit Aidan , hang with him , have holidays with him , do vids with him if he was some horrible dead beat parent scoundrel like Jen paints him as .
god bless you dude love it or hated he is a honest guy
This was a really interesting video. It seems like everyone i graduated with are having kids super early, and im not against that at all, but I do understand where he is coming from and I think advice like this should absolutely be passed along lol I love the real talk plus mukbang! Great video
Though Papa Walsh's honesty is not really polite haha, it is refreshing. I wish more people would just state exactly how they feel. Because in all actuality, we are all shallow about certain things and if all our potential partners were honest, it would be easier to find someone you align with.
True.. Very True
Great video! Very insightful about the realities, the good and the bad, of life from your personal experiences! Definitely would be interested in more videos/content like this!
this was pretty interesting to hear in a way of adult experience that i can take in consideration. Probably more and more people think the same way, and younger generations do not consider having kids unless they are financially and mentally stable, and don't need to worry about about their living in order to not to stress out. And there's no more such thing as making your partner having kids, if you don't want to - it means you don't want to. Thank you for your video, pretty insightful
I really like you Papa Walsh and you're really wisdomand have a strong personality , greetings from Egypt 🇪🇬
You are a really good dad papa Walsh. 😊
Papa Walsh is a pretty level-headed guy. I just turned 30 on Sunday and am the oldest of 6 and def don’t want kids right now.
I was feeling down and i see this video so i click it not expecting much but omg i'm laughing. I love how honest Papa Walsh is and my new fav line is "idc im a shallow bitch"
I enjoyed the story. Keep them coming. Maybe talk about why your girlfriend didn’t want to date you at first in your next story time.
Love how this is unfiltered
Papa Walsh is blessed with 3 awesome children!
I loved the video, wholesome family. c:
My parents did it the opposite way, they had my brother and me then got married. My dad always said my brother was the oops baby and I was the photo finish. Hehe. My brother and I were both good babies we were sleeping through the night within the first month and we never cried. My mom had it easy. My parents went through 3 divorce proceedings before the 3rd one finally stuck. My brother and I couldn't wait until our parents were divorced. We were lucky enough to have grandparents 2 blocks away. Thanks for explaining your experience with having kids. At least you recognized what you did not want for valid reasons. Question, since you did have kids, are you looking forward to having grandkids? Thanks again for another great video Papa Walsh!
How do you remember when you were 1 month old😭😭😭💀
As a man I appreciate that real talk
You just described my entire experience with my parents.
as a 23 year old woman, who made up her mind when she was 18, i can't wait to never have kids
Merry Christmas Papa W!
I like your honesty papa Walsh
It’s so funny seeing you with your own channel now
I loved this !!
One of my favorite podcast couples Colleen Ballinger and Erik Stocklin just went through a c section with twins and the husband describe it as calm but tense while everything is in slow motion. I feel like every husband who has describe it makes it sound straight out a movie lol. just curious were any of the kids in the nicu? Anyways you did a great job whether you think so or not. They all have character and are honest ppl
Im in my late 20s and i know right now I don't want any kids. But then again im also single so yeah it's not happening anytime soon. But he has a good insight. If i was to have kids i want go be financially stable.
Thanks for the story :)
Wise words from wiseman walsh
Well Papa Walsh...I see your point and you have right to have it, but it was a little offensive when you said that you didn't want to pregnant women have stretches and fat and you loved her perfect and you want keep her perfect...well, it's seems like what immature person would say but that's ok its your opinion and your experience
@Demetrius Dem well, that's your problem then
you are so right !
Glad you were... Cause you made my 2020 all of the Washes..ty👍
Even though I disagree with you but I really enjoyed the video. We need more story time videos
Papa Walsh is the coolest person ever
Just saw Jessie’s video! You killed that
Papa Walsh keeping it real
Wow that was a good video and thank you for opinion on having kids 👌🏻👌🏻
god i love this guy
Kids are expensive! I can’t afford to support a kid when prices are going up. Good story Papa Walsh!
Love your family honour God 🙏 stay positive stay powerful
Lovely episode 😃
Kids! Yes and no but yes. That's what I get from this video. And it makes sense to me.
Best video ever!!!
About to finish nursing school in 3 months and wanted to try … think ima hold off for a bit lol 😳🥴
I JUST LUV UR FAMILY PAPA WALSH
Papa Walsh is genuine and great guy.
This story is of a rollercoaster ride. I disagree with some of your thought processes but I get what you were trying to tell. You should have discussed kids before marriage if you think that that is the reason why divorce happens. I think you ingrained yourself with what you see outside your relationship (just like how people you know would constantly talk shit abt their marriage life) instead of focusing on your family life. I think it is wrong to blame the kids for the divorce, blame your relationship communication skills, and fail to set boundaries with mama Jen abt having kids. But we do be thinking the worst at some point of our lives, and failing to see that having children is time, money, and energy-consuming. Kudos for blurting out people's inner thoughts and still taking good care of your 3+2 kids. You and mama Jen did a great job raising three wonderful individuals.
Papa walsh chose violence today
Respect to talk the truth feom your hearth.
Thanks for sharing :) love your fam. I do think it’s unfair to blame divorce on children tho. Personally, I think that having children just exacerbates problems that are unresolved between parents. It’s not their fault the foundation wasn’t solid if that makes sense
True.. Very True
Glad I wasnt the only one who thought the same about the negative affects of having kids kids are good but the extra worry might be too much you know
Great story Papa Walsh!!
Exact same reason I got divorced!!
Damn, I thought the divorce rate here in the Netherlands was about 33%.
But that was 20 years ago when I last heard that.
Now it's 47%....!
Thx for the advice!
Watching this at 2:50 am and now I crave that burrito too 😂
So Brandon came out as a "SMURF"! His hair now matches!
Thanks Papa Walsh! I got lucky and never had any so this video has made me so glad that I didn't lmao! But you should be proud that you had them as you are the Creator of the Walsh Empire! Therefore I shall take the liberty of addressing you as His Royal Highness - Papa Walsh! All Hail! ;)
31 vasectomy and will always refuse to sign a contract that the woman is incentivized to break. best way to live in my opinion!