this was my life two years ago thought I was dying. but two years later I'm happily married with a beautiful daughter so glad I didn't settle for being put second to everything and being cheated on. now I know what real love feels like. Amen and I know he loves the ground I walk on because he not only tells me everyday he shows me
You better say it Mrs.Cherie.. (smiling) He not only tells me, he shows me. That's so not common for most people. I don't want someone in my life reading me alot of stories about what they will do... I want you to show me... Any time someone always tells you this and tells you that, take heed to it....
I get it ,and I used ti agree, but I say if the generational curses ain't broken, they will experience the difference we I think there might be unl aliving. Let's pray to all those faithful and prayer warriors Prayers of the righteous availeth much.
Yes she's at rest and at peace. All the love that she shared with keep it within you and she will live on through you, always keep that love that you have and she live forever
This song was written and produced by Nathan Morris of Boyz II Men. Uncle Sam was signed to BIIM's record label (Stonecreek) back in the mid 1990s. That's why they are doing the background vocals on this. It was a pretty big hit - peaked in the Top 10 on the Billboard Hot 100 and Top 5 on the R&B charts.
Yes cart sleep just broke up with my partner after eleven years it's not good what he did to me and Ime so upset he broke me up inside I did everything for him and we loved all these songs x
Best friends Bobby zimmin Sara g pure Kaliha and girls friends boyfriend double love you ❤️ note 🎵 plak muice DJ. Nov happy birthday party day Friday night cookies chocolate chips butter girls friends Boyfriend double ⏩ Play music
That shit hits ya deep, I'm 35 and not even going through it but it still hits ya as if u were lol like back then hahaha ! Deep songs never die tho ! My fav part tho
When He Sang "Thats So Unfair I Never thought Id Have To Share Your Love That I Thought Was Given To Only Me" I Dont Know If He Really Went Thru This But He Made Me Feel That In My Soul Yo 😦
Some songs are just sung so well that you believe every word. When he said, “I don’t ever want to see you again… never would be too soon!”, I felt that.
My husband’s adultery with 2 women reminded me of this song today!!! And indeed I don’t want to ever see him again. And the only prayer I can utter for him right now is Psalm 109.
28 years old and I’m listening to this, people my age wouldn’t appreciate this type of genre/music. Hits you in so many ways whether past or present, just got to be strong mentally, move on and work harder than ever.
Back in high school, people would send loving messages to their girlfriends or boyfriends over the radio, and they would tell them how much they loved them. Afterwards they would request a song as dedication to them, and they’d dedicate this Uncle Sam jam just because they loved the song. I’d laugh so hard since it was a message lost in translation 😅😂🤣🤣🤣Gotta love the 90’s.
I played this to the girl--that I was going to married last year. I mean it really hurts when you find out the one you love is not who they really say they are.
My nanna always used to say "we all make someone better for someone else" Sometimes we have to allow them go so that we can grow without them. Remember someone else will have to experience hurt so that your wife becomes yours. Be encouraged. It hurts like hell. Im just glad I let go of my past for my next. I wouldn't have found my husband. You will get there too.
It took me a min to find out and see, what the love of my life was doing to me. I wanna lay down and die, cause my pride won’t let me cry, but some how I knew I had to get over it❤️ That part😉
THAT'S RIGHT!!!! Monica Sanchez!! I did EVERYTHING for you, worked 10 hours a day, gave up boxing, put you first, made love to you on the regular!!! I'll give you this, you got me...I didn't see this coming, not with my cousin....my BEST cousin??? REALLY??? It's cool though, cause deep down I know I was real, faithful, loyal, and I can sleep at night which is more than I can say for you. I will be praying for you, I'm not gonna let you compromise my christianity!!! Good luck to you,and I wish you the best!!!
Been in my rotation since 1997! Having just gone through the 2nd worst break up of my life after finding out that she'd been cheating, this song was etched into my soul! I feel his pain through the pain I felt then! There hasn't been a week that I haven't listened to it. This is the first time that I've ever watched the video, though!
We have lost many beautiful souls because of cheating. So let us pray for all the victims, to remain strong. However we know it's not easy to remain the same after going through such pain .but please guys don't commit suicide. because of stupid people who fail to understand the meaning of love.
You're absolutely right, because pain can can be so devastating. No matter how many times you try to tell yourself, it'll someday pass, it doesn't make the pain any easier. 1 thing about life is, we have no control over how long it'll take... 💓 break is something serious, & I wouldn't wish it on any1. It's amazing how just a feeling can cause so much devastation. Sometimes I wish it was no such thing as feelings, because the feeling isn't always a feeling of being in love unconditionally..
DAM,! He put everything in prospective. You can love someone with your heart and soul. Think you doing everything right and Bam blindsided! And it was all right there under your nose! DAM. Gotta pay attention
@gerlad Beard You damn I am experiencing this same heart ache and pain, My husband of 14 years just up & left me for a bytch that we both called her sis & she is married as well
Jazmonique Harvell I am a believer in GOD and I know with him first and foremost, I will LOVE again.....TRUE SONG, loved it back in the 90' s and LOVING it still!!😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤💋💏
@@cherylbessent5008 my older sister name is Cheryl 😆 she's my favorite and u will love never allow people to make ur heart cold i just learned for my next person i will love them harder than my last i will forever have that kinda heart
The side dude didn't give a shizzle about her AT ALL. cuz why are we leaving THAT note and she's still with him? That's one of those notes you get and they wake up in heaven
this song goes to my Ex husband it hurt's so much when he was cheating on me and now been divorce over 3 year's already thank god that open my eyes the you true love that he did to me
Erica Rodriguez yes girl . I went through the same thang! 3 years later I gotta man lovin me when I promised myself I would never love again!! Thank you Jesus for showing me the whole truth about what Love Really can be!!!!❤️ Take care my sister!
Yes my friend it does I been divorce over 4 years already I been hunting so many bye guys and the one I am talking to he doesn't trust me I haven't known him yet it hurts so much my friend
Honestly this song will always be relevant for the brokenhearted coz it just doesn't make sense why we must always be on the losing end. May all those that have been hurt find their true love and never have to be back here ❤
@gracewins2712 Don't look at those years as a waste, but rather as an integral part of your journey that has made you a better person that carries invaluable life-long lessons. You worth every beautiful thing that is coming your way.
Damn right. But they song real love songs about love and heartbreak. These songs now is like fuck a bitch fuck a nigga. That's why this generation dont know what love is.
Waiting for this day to come...where I fall out of love with this fake relationship I live and the last words I say is this very own song... For now my heart will feel this pain until I can practice what I preach...
Wow. Verbatim, word for word, you couldn't have said it any better. Crazy how we cross paths mentally and emotionally. If you haven't gone through it and hopefully you won't... Simple truth of the matter is if it isn't you, it's someone else who experiences the pain.
Halina - Where are you from? Poland? I think Eastern Europeans are beautiful people. It's no wonder why lots of the super models come from those places. And Basia (singer from Poland) is great, too!
Crazy its 2023 and its still hitting. One of those songs you dont have to go through it to feel the lyrics, but if you have experienced it the song hits so hard. I miss this music ❤️🥺
Omg i couldn't remember the name of the song and nobody knew what song i was talking about. I thought I had made it up lol and it came across on my RUclips and i was like that's it!
It’s cold outside here in Cape Canaveral Florida today I worked a really long shift. I go home to an empty house, but I’m grateful to have a roof over my head. I stopped into the 7-Eleven to get some wraps and this song came on and it flooded back so many memories. I almost had to walk out. I started crying. This is the kind of song that you just really feel.❤❤😢😢😢😢
@@latishamiller2490 Calls accountability and realizing some people just do dumb sheesh. None of them together and can't stand each other, both tried to come back in my life.
I dedicated this very song to my ex-wife. I imagined her reading my letter. I thank God for separating me from her. It hurt but no regrets. I found happiness that is real. Duces.
I went hrough this but my best friend was my younger sister. It took me a long while to trust again and to let anyone is my life. after that B's like who could I really trust? But I did! I met a beautiful man, who made me see love again and all the wonderful glory it brings! My husband. now of two amazing years! Thank you, to the raggly bitches! who tried to destroy me for me only to fall into the arms of my king! Btw... They are both doing horrible. and I'll never forget once i was told by a wise person (nothing brought together by evil or the hurt of others shall prosperous. Remember that for anyone going through this.
Jazmonique Harvell I'm so glad you have a testimony sis. Look at God!! God bless you and your husband on yal beautiful union and yal beautiful family. Many years to come.
Melissa Canaday good music stopped when people started downloading free music and artists cant make good money, now new singers have to take off their clothes to make money even tho they make no cents.
“He said he couldn’t understand untill he felt your touch, now he can see why I loved you so much .” Bro.. those lyrics give me goosebumps! Kids today will never understand growing up listening to music like this
Ok folks, let's admit this was not on our recommendation list. We all searched for this. If you did you definitely know great music and are a legend. 😎
The secret is not to love anyone unconditionally. That is how people become blind to everything that is happening around them. The only person you should love unconditionally and invest in should be you.
So true. I'm going through a painful divorce right now. My husband cheated on me and got the girl pregnant. I STILL tried to keep the marriage together. He promised me that he would completely cut off contact with her for GOOD. As far as the baby is concerned, I encouraged him to pay child support, but I gave him a WHOLE MONTH to think about whether or not he had the ability to not be in the childs life either. I made it very clear that I did not want to FORCE him to be a deadbeat dad, but I know myself well enough to know that I would be on eggshells EVERY TIME he goes over her house to "see the baby." To me, that would be like agreeing to share my husband's body and love with another woman. So his choice was either Me or the baby. I know the child is innocent, but so am I. I asked him every week for a whole month what his FINAL DECISION WAS. He sent her a text message and told her that he wasn't going to be in the childs life but he would pay child support and he wanted to prioritize his marriage. This was October 6th. Then, the day after Christmas, my husband deliberately started a stupid petty argument with me and told me that he wanted a divorce. Then, when I asked him how long it would take for him to get the papers, he told me that he WAS NOT going to get any papers unless I gave him the pregnant side chick phone number. I had erased it from his phone but saved it in my phone. I refused to give it to him, so he unblocked her on Facebook and asked her could he have her number and then, he went and picked her up from work. I am HURT BEYOND WORDS. I have done so much for that man. I was with him when he had nothing and nobody. I really don't ever want to love anyone that deeply again. I feel like the biggest fool on GOD'S green earth. And he says that he is not going to pay child support for OUR SON, which is his FIRSTBORN, and the only child that he has. He also isn't going to come and spend time with him either. It would be real funny if that baby she is carrying isn't even his. He is the TRUE DEFINITION of a narcissist.
Boys 11 Men giving without giving! With my eyes closed I can feel them all over this bop! The drums and melody not to mention their majestic voices and their signature style on it! Shoutout to Uncle Sam, who did this with the greats! This song is a real banger and I’m not a big fan of sad songs anymore but real is real! Today I had this on repeat the whole day… I’m not even hurt or betrayed by anyone 😂🤦🏽♀️ but hey this song had in some deep feeling. 80’s baby raised off 90s music, all rnb is embedded in my dna 🧬 😂 ! When he said “and you violated me” 🙆🏽♀️ “why you wanna hurt me?” ❕To those of us who overcame any kind of heartbreak and betrayal, forgave, healed and moved on - we’re champion! To those of us who hurt and harmed others, repented, forgave ourselves, healed and transformed - we’re champions! ☝🏽 just to say we all make mistakes
My ex wife did this to me. i tried to work with it but it had continuously hurted me over the years. i kept bringing it up but she denies and changes the subject. For years it had plagued me until i did the same thing she did. i wasnt thinking about anything doing the same thing because i was already hurt. Now she wants to hurt me. but i am glad its finally over. now i see her showing her true colors. i wish i could of just ended it a long time ago, but the feelings still strong for her. i am finally moving on and hopefully the one i am seeing will never do that to me.
(2)Two wrongs don't make it right.My husband tells me he loves me.My husband says he makes sure to tell me because some people are not told growing up. FORGIVENESS IS THE TYPE OF LOVE NEEDED IN THIS SCENARIO.
Thank you Delilah, for sharing that information. I knew it in my heart/discernment. He has that extra something in his voice called the anointing. I just knew it. My husband got annoyed with me because I made mention that Uncle Sam mentioned the name of the Lord. I just knew it. Thank you Delilah Renee
I still love this song so much. If you suspected that the love of your life is unfaithful, it is best to move on. God will send you a lot of blessings in your life to keep moving forward in life.
this was my life two years ago thought I was dying. but two years later I'm happily married with a beautiful daughter so glad I didn't settle for being put second to everything and being cheated on. now I know what real love feels like. Amen and I know he loves the ground I walk on because he not only tells me everyday he shows me
Cherie Rogers must b nice, congrats on finding ur true love
Beautiful
May God forgive shabbazz and quana
Good for you
You better say it Mrs.Cherie.. (smiling) He not only tells me, he shows me. That's so not common for most people. I don't want someone in my life reading me alot of stories about what they will do... I want you to show me... Any time someone always tells you this and tells you that, take heed to it....
These kids will never understand these songs. These songs had a meaning, a story line!
For sure
I get it ,and I used ti agree, but I say if the generational curses ain't broken, they will experience the difference we I think there might be unl aliving. Let's pray to all those faithful and prayer warriors
Prayers of the righteous availeth much.
W. O. R. D.
Yesss!!! Music nowadays ain’t got nothin on our music from back then!! So real and intense!!
💯 right
My girl friend of mine did this to me 😥😥but I moved on found someone better ohh thanks God for making me strong
Sometimes God allows things to happen for our good look you upgrade that's there lost
For mahlangu it oh ok 😩😭😭
I am sorry for that
I am going though that to
Your heart is in the best and right place keep it there baby.
Damn the 90s is really undefeated in r&b. All the hits we could put in the time capsule😂😂🙌🙌🙌
Word I'm blasting this
Best way to end the year is to relive the past!
My momma used to love this song. May she rest well. Eternally 💜
“Never would be to soon , I’d rather have a cold day in June “
My deepest condolences Jess 🙏🏽🌹❤️ Mom is sure proud of you 🌹
Yes she's at rest and at peace. All the love that she shared with keep it within you and she will live on through you, always keep that love that you have and she live forever
Stay strong sweetheart, better things will come to you, keep your faith strong
Just ain't fair to not physically see the ppl we love anymore. Thank God for the memories ❤
Am still listening,but I'm in Kenya ...yar....
"He said he couldn't understand until he felt your touch, now he can see why i loved you so much" They don't make music like this anymore 😔
Amber Lucille I love it!
My favorite part. Sad but straight realness
That line is the part that always gets me in this song.
Exactly! That is poetry
Amber Lucille they sure don’t
Uncle Sam was so underrated!
Man he got vocals his runs are amazing
Is not was
@@theillustratxr kaliha girls and
☕. Cup coffee. Good morning
Brother tcseacse tell tocst
@@garytoney1817 he's alive so you can't say he was😂😂
@@KalihaRoane tf is you saying?
Who’s BUMPIN this 🔥 on the Sound Bar in “2024”
Amen sister ❤
I'm an 80s baby stuck in the 90s and early 2000s
Meeee playing it right now ❤️❤️❤️💯💯
I'm here 2024 ❤❤
@@MeAlexis😊😅😅😅😢😢😢😢
I'm 39, and I remember signing this when I was younger. I never thought that it would be my husband who shattered my world.
I never thought it would be either.
💔Wishing you healing and happiness
I second that😥💔
@@mariadurden2797 I'm so sorry to hear that. I've been hurt before. My first love. I know the feeling.
Wow
This song was written and produced by Nathan Morris of Boyz II Men. Uncle Sam was signed to BIIM's record label (Stonecreek) back in the mid 1990s. That's why they are doing the background vocals on this. It was a pretty big hit - peaked in the Top 10 on the Billboard Hot 100 and Top 5 on the R&B charts.
No wonder this song has BIIMen vibes.
Wow! Sounds like B11M! I can relate now.
Thanks for that extra bit of info....I was really wondering
Sound like a Boyz 2 men song .
You can tell too.🔥
Anyone 35 and older here still listening remembering our first loves? That first heartbreak was no joke!! 💯💔🥰
Yes🙏
Yes cart sleep just broke up with my partner after eleven years it's not good what he did to me and Ime so upset he broke me up inside I did everything for him and we loved all these songs x
@@debrahough8219 pray and find you first
@@davidgallego2854 thank you David Ime keep playing the song it's so beautiful
I'm about to be 32 and I do😉😁🤦🤷
No matter how many years pass, this song will stay in our hearts forever!
You right I love this song
😮 so sad
Yes😊❤
Facts💯
This song has so much truth!!!!! You put all your heart and soul into loving someone unconditionally and they show you they dont care about you!!!!!
I love my baby Oscar
MegaBigwill1 don't believe me it. U don't want c me then don't
The secret is not to love anyone unconditionally. The only person you should have love unconditionally and invest in should be you.
That's so true that mean ya'll don't belong together
minimize how much given take your time but not to much if it dont line up in action & word STEP QUICKLY RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN! BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.
This is Boyz 2 Men combined and he is singing alone here. What a talent ❤
Nate wrote this song
Yes😊❤
@@masungukafoa1454kids and girls
Kaliha Mom my daughter kycaeaca
Kocsrn alisesy k room 29 gurp 29 school 🏫 and my parents my sister Brittany my brother tcseacse
Best friends Bobby zimmin Sara g pure
Kaliha and girls friends boyfriend double love you ❤️ note 🎵 plak muice DJ. Nov happy birthday party day Friday night cookies chocolate chips butter girls friends
Boyfriend double ⏩ Play music
When he said..."he said he couldn't understand until he felt your touch..now he could see why I love you so much"...bruh😩#deep....shit man!!
Shit sad af yo
That shit hits ya deep, I'm 35 and not even going through it but it still hits ya as if u were lol like back then hahaha ! Deep songs never die tho ! My fav part tho
She not the only freak that gets down between the sheets...... there's no excuse !!!!!
@@rondee8361 I don't even know what you talking about.. we're talking about how deep the lyrics are...
Talking about well she gets down.... don't get it twisted .
Being able to say " BUT MY CONSCIENCE IS CLEAR AND I CAN MOVE ON FROM HERE" is everything!!!
When He Sang "Thats So Unfair I Never thought Id Have To Share Your Love That I Thought Was Given To Only Me" I Dont Know If He Really Went Thru This But He Made Me Feel That In My Soul Yo 😦
Skyiesha Armbrister I felt this in my soul
@@MYANGLE2009 and the gm man 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿✌🏾
Me too😙
Some songs are just sung so well that you believe every word. When he said, “I don’t ever want to see you again… never would be too soon!”, I felt that.
Broooooo…. I felt that too late… cut so deep
I am feeling this right now I never want to see him again 2023
@@zellieword7010that's true this guy is best
Yebo I'm firing too
Words words
I'm 19 and I'm so in love with 90's music 😘😍 and this are one of my favorite songs
Our music had meaning lol
Terry Smith how about us hooking am single too
@@HighTreason007 Yes. Exactly. Not like today music all about sex not love.
You bought tears to my eyes to be so young listening to music like this. I respect your soul
I'm the same age and I love❤️ 90s music way better then half the shite👏 is out these days 😒👍
Who's here in 2024?
Me
Present
2024 foshooooo!! 🤘🏽
I'm back from 2023😊
Right here
The lyrics touch deep when you actually been through this 💯
Yesss
He is with my elder sister , it hurts i see em.......... I cry in silence
@@brendanankumba4505 🙏 Keep your head up
@@brendanankumba4505I’m so sorry that happened to you. May the Universe bless and fulfill your every wish and desire. May you be blessed 10 fold❤🫶🏽🌹
@@tntmommieme9540 thanks alot . i receive it in thename of the almighty God
"...he said he couldn't understand until he felt your touch......now he can see why I love you so much" GOT DAMN THAT SHIT HIT THE SOUL
My husband’s adultery with 2 women reminded me of this song today!!! And indeed I don’t want to ever see him again. And the only prayer I can utter for him right now is Psalm 109.
109 and can you give the chapter please my husband is doing the same thing.
Dammmm My lady may u find a true one
@@emilytexas04 wow keep ur head up Queen u find ur KinG soon
All the way from South Africa, 2024 we still here.
Mzansi fo sho!
V.A IN THE HOUSE AND STILL PUMPING THIS SONG !! ❤
Silapha sana.
Bana ba Cupcake
Hi❤
28 years old and I’m listening to this, people my age wouldn’t appreciate this type of genre/music. Hits you in so many ways whether past or present, just got to be strong mentally, move on and work harder than ever.
bru I just turned 18 and I feel ya
@@lifeschange6064 q👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻💁🏻♂️💁🏻♂️💁🏻♂️💁🏻♂️
Bro I'm only 18 but I've been rocking with this song,and music like this period,since I was a really young kid
Dude I feel like I was born in the wrong decade Im 16😑
26
God I was so young when this came out, this song really touches my heart strings. Young people, please don’t take your youth for granted.
Same here
Amen
. I don't ever want to see her again.
" .I left a Woman who would rub in between my toes. I don't ever want to see her again.
A love that I serched for and thought it would last , told me,"I'm Done
who's listening in 2018 .... 80's babies please stand up!!!!! Raised off of 90's music.
Love this song
All day!!
Naturally Yours me
Still here listening to this hit in 2018 of my father....remembrance of him
Kieren Ethan Sorry.
😅 Randomly remembered this song picking up my kids today and was a kid loving this song ❤😊 October 2024 and still jamming to this one!
I just randomly remembered too lmao almost 2am and my kids sleeping lol
Most def!!
Back in high school, people would send loving messages to their girlfriends or boyfriends over the radio, and they would tell them how much they loved them. Afterwards they would request a song as dedication to them, and they’d dedicate this Uncle Sam jam just because they loved the song. I’d laugh so hard since it was a message lost in translation 😅😂🤣🤣🤣Gotta love the 90’s.
Lol, many people requested wrong songs because they were nice songs. Songs like I got caught were requested
😆🤣🤣🤣
Lord you went bad lol class of 98
😂
😂😂😂🎉🎉
"He said he couldn't understand until he felt your touch, now he can see why I love you so much!!" 🎼 #Deep
Frfr that part sticks in my head 🙄
😩
Sentrenae Senegal hurts
Mmmmmm well written
Bryan-Michael Dungee 😂😩😂🤦🏽♀️
Boys II Men's Nathan wrote the hell out of this song and Uncle Sam did it justice. One of the songs on my "Tear Jerker Playlist".
When you think about it it sounds like Doing just fine
Rent was due when he went in the studio that day baby .
you aint never lied lol
This is hands down one of the greatest love songs ever written. Point. Blank. PERIOD!
This is a break up song 😭
@@rhondamoore7934 a lot of people who are in love break up 🤷🏾♂️
@@SocialStudiessyup nathan morris from Boyz to men wrote this song
This man could sing. I can hear the naturalness and uniqueness and the rawness in his vocals. Not this autotuned junk we hear so much these days.
He prayed for his enemies after they committed adultery on him. That’s deep!! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
He's better than me...at that point its fuck him and her😂😂😂
I couldn’t contain myself like him
Gerald levert baby hold on to Me
Terrance Braggs that's deep you noticed that I didn't until 2021. 😔😂
@@NCKrypotonite33 I'm with ya, brother. I would've kicked both their asses.
2024, song is still fire
You can tell this happened to him for real when he took them glasses down. And tears were falling 😢 the look on his face and the way he sung it
Finally someone agrees that he did write this song himself since inquiring minds wanted to know
Yess he did although some say he didn't but you can tell how he sings it and told his story on Oprah years ago
You can't sing a song like that with raw emotion coming through unless you've been through that s*** like actually lived it
Hello hope you’re having lovely day
Absolutely
I played this to the girl--that I was going to married last year. I mean it really hurts when you find out the one you love is not who they really say they are.
Jason Wells For Mayor
Yes the worst feeling ever. Walk away from what isn't best for your life and know that your heart deserves better.
I like you so much
My nanna always used to say "we all make someone better for someone else" Sometimes we have to allow them go so that we can grow without them. Remember someone else will have to experience hurt so that your wife becomes yours. Be encouraged. It hurts like hell. Im just glad I let go of my past for my next. I wouldn't have found my husband. You will get there too.
Jason Wells For Mayor ❤️
Jason Wells For Mayor that's real talk
I would rather have a cold day in June. Man that is powerful
This song back in 95 0r 96
Loving this Song. My Asian Co-worker literally turned me on to this Song about 2 months ago. I've been bumping it since then.
Ive felt that hurt before and believe me its hurts to the pit of my soul. I don't ever want to feel that pain again.
I'm sorry man. Some women just ain't shit. I'm a woman saying this.
@@mimikinmiracle83 that is so true. Most women these days want to play the victim when they play the same game on the low. It s slim picking out there
So true
Me either fam
It took me a min to find out and see, what the love of my life was doing to me. I wanna lay down and die, cause my pride won’t let me cry, but some how I knew I had to get over it❤️ That part😉
Agree
That part currently going thru but time heals all wounds 👌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾
So the love of your life was a Thot? You need to start loving better women.
You ok?😂
The Smoke Will Never Clear 💪💪💯💯
THAT'S RIGHT!!!! Monica Sanchez!! I did EVERYTHING for you, worked 10 hours a day, gave up boxing, put you first, made love to you on the regular!!! I'll give you this, you got me...I didn't see this coming, not with my cousin....my BEST cousin??? REALLY??? It's cool though, cause deep down I know I was real, faithful, loyal, and I can sleep at night which is more than I can say for you. I will be praying for you, I'm not gonna let you compromise my christianity!!! Good luck to you,and I wish you the best!!!
+Rick Cavazos sorry man.deep words
+Rick Cavazos sorry man.deep words
Kennedy Njenga thank you
sorry dude, thats biggest reason im petrified to invest my feelings into anyone
I feel you bro
why am I crying? I ain't even dealing w nothing like this lol
😂😂😂
I'm crying too love 😢😢😢
❤❤ i can relate
Because it’s good soulful R&B I tear up every time I hear this record
This was the original release effect of this song I was like 13 feeling his pain😂😂😂😂
I was lucky to be of a generation where music had meaning.
Yes Bro me too
Same here… We had the best of rap & r&b
Can I tell you
Same here and its the best Music and i still love it 😊, sadly there no music like this anymore, the new music of 2021 sucks
@@Luna14786 I paused most of my music @early 2000s...stuck in time lol
*Music hits harder when you relate to it...smh*
Yeah it does
Definitely
I'm still loving it, 37 and the older I get, it seems more and more fitting lmao, as it did when I was 15. I'm having a 90's party by myself
It sure does. When this song was out, it was happening to me...
real, i just said that this morning
I listed to it just now in 2023 and I'ma continue to love this song forever
Absolutely
2023 still a hit😊
Absolutely
Me too
@@katusiimeimmaculate7912 aaaa🎉
Been in my rotation since 1997! Having just gone through the 2nd worst break up of my life after finding out that she'd been cheating, this song was etched into my soul! I feel his pain through the pain I felt then! There hasn't been a week that I haven't listened to it. This is the first time that I've ever watched the video, though!
We have lost many beautiful souls because of cheating. So let us pray for all the victims, to remain strong. However we know it's not easy to remain the same after going through such pain .but please guys don't commit suicide. because of stupid people who fail to understand the meaning of love.
Siphiwe Tumi SAD BUT TRUE SMDH
Siphiwe Tumi let pray going frol same thin feel ya pain feel to
Siphiwe I really like this and it mean a lot to me
You're absolutely right, because pain can can be so devastating. No matter how many times you try to tell yourself, it'll someday pass, it doesn't make the pain any easier. 1 thing about life is, we have no control over how long it'll take... 💓 break is something serious, & I wouldn't wish it on any1. It's amazing how just a feeling can cause so much devastation. Sometimes I wish it was no such thing as feelings, because the feeling isn't always a feeling of being in love unconditionally..
Uncle same killed this song! 🔥
James Stockett yessss!!!
Yes, he did!!
I know I commented on this 5 year's ago but these females ain't loyal for a damn thing dude was really faithful to her and she played him smh
Who is still listening in this new decade #2020? This song always gets me into my feelings
🙋🏾♂️
@Kim Sanderson 👋
Meee....lol
My heart still hurts from what she did to me
🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️ mehhhhhhhhhhh
DAM,! He put everything in prospective. You can love someone with your heart and soul. Think you doing everything right and Bam blindsided! And it was all right there under your nose! DAM. Gotta pay attention
...yes, gotta stay woke!
You are dam right
She wanted his attention so bad at first. Been there..I left for me tho not another man. She hurt him beyond pain!
@gerlad Beard You damn I am experiencing this same heart ache and pain, My husband of 14 years just up & left me for a bytch that we both called her sis & she is married as well
omg factsssss.....so much memories
This song brought me through the storm and smokie norful. Trust me you will find love again!
Jazmonique Harvell
Hope so
Thanks
Jazmonique Harvell I am a believer in GOD and I know with him first and foremost, I will LOVE again.....TRUE SONG, loved it back in the 90' s and LOVING it still!!😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤💋💏
@@cherylbessent5008 my older sister name is Cheryl 😆 she's my favorite and u will love never allow people to make ur heart cold i just learned for my next person i will love them harder than my last i will forever have that kinda heart
Jazmonique Harvel thanks for your incredibly inspiring and thoughtful response, God bless you @!
The side dude didn't give a shizzle about her AT ALL. cuz why are we leaving THAT note and she's still with him? That's one of those notes you get and they wake up in heaven
this song goes to my Ex husband it hurt's so much when he was cheating on me and now been divorce over 3 year's already thank god that open my eyes the you true love that he did to me
Erica Rodriguez yes girl . I went through the same thang! 3 years later I gotta man lovin me when I promised myself I would never love again!! Thank you Jesus for showing me the whole truth about what Love Really can be!!!!❤️ Take care my sister!
@@paulalomans7173 thank you so much I know its hurts so much but now I am very happy
@Sweetness Babygirl me to girly so much we are very happy now
@BTSobsessed love I know girly the way you feel it hurts so much
Yes my friend it does I been divorce over 4 years already I been hunting so many bye guys and the one I am talking to he doesn't trust me I haven't known him yet it hurts so much my friend
This was the official breaking up song for every relationship
Yes
Also beyonce "the best thing I never had"
Actually would say it would be "I'm doing just fine"
Leroy Lee perfect for a lyric prank too
Ralph Tresvant - Do what i gotta do
I'm not crying, I just have something in my eye...
Lol.
Lakeshia Craft :)
Shaun D. Yes I understand.. Lol
I'm cracking up. Ok Shaun D.
Regina Edwards Hahahhaa :))
Honestly this song will always be relevant for the brokenhearted coz it just doesn't make sense why we must always be on the losing end. May all those that have been hurt find their true love and never have to be back here ❤
Are you hurt right now?
Cuz I am 😔
Wasted 8 years but I’m a better Roman for it!
@gracewins2712 Don't look at those years as a waste, but rather as an integral part of your journey that has made you a better person that carries invaluable life-long lessons. You worth every beautiful thing that is coming your way.
Am back here found my wife been cheating..😢😢 am so pained
I gave up. Hurts too much.
Damn. 2021 and this got me in my feels still. This song is timeless, and they don't make them like this anymore 🥺❤
Yes 2021 n I'm teary eyes 👌
2021. Still same feeling like when I first listened to it many years ago
2021 still 🔥
Feels ♥️♥️
All those all songs they got meaning in life but this is really hot 🔥
3:14 “ it could’ve been anybody “ 🤍
the 90's was an emotional ass decade, everybody was sitting in their feelings.
Damn right. But they song real love songs about love and heartbreak. These songs now is like fuck a bitch fuck a nigga. That's why this generation dont know what love is.
Truth!
😂 it really was
Hahha 😂 It was, even if you weren't in your feels, you sang along like you were hurt. A much simpler time though 😌.
It was balance between R&B and hip hop. Now alll trashh
Waiting for this day to come...where I fall out of love with this fake relationship I live and the last words I say is this very own song... For now my heart will feel this pain until I can practice what I preach...
Wow. Verbatim, word for word, you couldn't have said it any better. Crazy how we cross paths mentally and emotionally. If you haven't gone through it and hopefully you won't... Simple truth of the matter is if it isn't you, it's someone else who experiences the pain.
5/12/19
i just love the music of black People you cant compare it to anything else! the love, the soul, the voices... its everything
Halina Kusocinska YES,THE GOD'S HONEST TRUTH AMEN
Halina - Where are you from? Poland? I think Eastern Europeans are beautiful people. It's no wonder why lots of the super models come from those places. And Basia (singer from Poland) is great, too!
2024 and this still hits deep!! ❤
"Took me a minute to wake up and see, what the love of my life was doing to me"
Touched something
Crazy its 2023 and its still hitting. One of those songs you dont have to go through it to feel the lyrics, but if you have experienced it the song hits so hard. I miss this music ❤️🥺
❤
Yeah it so good because you can feel his pain
esse cara está bem mano
does anybody else miss the 90's watching these older videos?
Me
yes
Yes!!
Moon social media and Facebook is not the way to blast your personal business with women issues or hard name calling cause karma is a bitch
+Richard Edge do u mean the video situation
❤❤😊28th February 2024 and I am still jamming to this song 😊
Who’s still listening in 2022? This song will always be 🔥🔥
Meeeee
Me 🇧🇷
Me
Omg i couldn't remember the name of the song and nobody knew what song i was talking about. I thought I had made it up lol and it came across on my RUclips and i was like that's it!
Yes sis
This song should be sold at a pharmacy because it reliefs stress 😩 😪 😫
😂😂🙈🙈🏃♂️🏃♂️
Haha.. nice one.
Oh totally I agree.
T@@ntombithusi3906
It took me a minute to wake up and see , what the love of my life was doing to me.
stormii amor Right😍😍
stormii amor that's the part of the song that I Love
stormii amor how i feel after loving a man more than myself for 10 years 💔💔💔💔💔
nickol lyons I know you are having it is okay form Nicole Wat me okay thanks
whats happening
It’s cold outside here in Cape Canaveral Florida today I worked a really long shift. I go home to an empty house, but I’m grateful to have a roof over my head. I stopped into the 7-Eleven to get some wraps and this song came on and it flooded back so many memories. I almost had to walk out. I started crying. This is the kind of song that you just really feel.❤❤😢😢😢😢
What goes around comes back around. Thank you because you did me a favor
INSPIRATIONAL POETRY HELLO somebody, on to greater things!! BLESSED
Am
Glad you suffered a bit bet you would ever do that mistake again I kno . Did aswell
I was 13 years old when I first heard this song, now at 34 I still love it
Bet 💚
i'm 13 rn woah
One of the greatest songs ever written!!!!!
I love this song
Truth!
Right especially for men goin thru a breakup wit triflin bishes that spin the block ijs 🔊🎶🔥 #BreakupPlaylistClassic 💯
@@PatinaEdochie Amen
Hi
It’s 2024 and I’m here ❤❤❤❤
The saddest breakup song ever! 2:43 His voice takes me everytime😩❤️❤️ He sung this so perfect✨Still listening In 2023!🔥💔❤️🎶🎶
Tears still drop cause this came out right when it was happening in my life.
Why they can’t have real R&B like this not this pop tart shit
Sorry man
What did you do to make her do it?
@@latishamiller2490 Calls accountability and realizing some people just do dumb sheesh. None of them together and can't stand each other, both tried to come back in my life.
OMG what happened? Yolanda
I dedicated this very song to my ex-wife. I imagined her reading my letter. I thank God for separating me from her. It hurt but no regrets. I found happiness that is real. Duces.
This is what you call MUSIC. Rythm to my soul
Still bumping in 2018. I’ve been singing this for three days. Just went thru something Sunday 🤷🏽♀️
Latrice Longstreet
Keep ur head up
Hold on keep your head up
Im sorry i know the feeling went through that last Tuesday
🤩 you got this
So sorry that you beautiful 😘
I went hrough this but my best friend was my younger sister. It took me a long while to trust again and to let anyone is my life. after that B's like who could I really trust? But I did! I met a beautiful man, who made me see love again and all the wonderful glory it brings! My husband. now of two amazing years! Thank you, to the raggly bitches! who tried to destroy me for me only to fall into the arms of my king! Btw... They are both doing horrible. and I'll never forget once i was told by a wise person (nothing brought together by evil or the hurt of others shall prosperous. Remember that for anyone going through this.
Jazmonique Harvell wow....That's terrible
Jazmonique Harvell . thanks for that
Jazmonique Harvell what's your name where you from I'm from Miami I like to meet you
Jazmonique Harvell 😲😲
Jazmonique Harvell I'm so glad you have a testimony sis. Look at God!! God bless you and your husband on yal beautiful union and yal beautiful family. Many years to come.
This song is truly for the strong black men who have the brother back.
powerful hurt I had experienced...years later I am well over that hurt. Amen
amen Therese Lewis happy for you that the pain is over. god blessed you with what ever you put your hand to do.
maaaaannnnn CLASSIC!! I can still feel this in my soul!!
yes 💜💜 ... what happen to good music ... u could feel this in your soul 💜🤘
Yes!
Melissa Canaday
Lawrence Harvey
Melissa Canaday seriously good music
Melissa Canaday good music stopped when people started downloading free music and artists cant make good money, now new singers have to take off their clothes to make money even tho they make no cents.
“He said he couldn’t understand untill he felt your touch, now he can see why I loved you so much .”
Bro.. those lyrics give me goosebumps! Kids today will never understand growing up listening to music like this
Ok folks, let's admit this was not on our recommendation list. We all searched for this. If you did you definitely know great music and are a legend. 😎
Actually it was on mine 6 months ago and that’s how I heard this masterpiece.
You are right Brandon M and also I love your football team I’m a packer fan as well you have a great taste in football teams and music
You sir are correct
#GoPackGo
Yep this was my jam in high school!!! Best of times
The secret is not to love anyone unconditionally. That is how people become blind to everything that is happening around them. The only person you should love unconditionally and invest in should be you.
And your mother
So true. I'm going through a painful divorce right now. My husband cheated on me and got the girl pregnant. I STILL tried to keep the marriage together. He promised me that he would completely cut off contact with her for GOOD. As far as the baby is concerned, I encouraged him to pay child support, but I gave him a WHOLE MONTH to think about whether or not he had the ability to not be in the childs life either. I made it very clear that I did not want to FORCE him to be a deadbeat dad, but I know myself well enough to know that I would be on eggshells EVERY TIME he goes over her house to "see the baby." To me, that would be like agreeing to share my husband's body and love with another woman. So his choice was either Me or the baby. I know the child is innocent, but so am I. I asked him every week for a whole month what his FINAL DECISION WAS. He sent her a text message and told her that he wasn't going to be in the childs life but he would pay child support and he wanted to prioritize his marriage. This was October 6th. Then, the day after Christmas, my husband deliberately started a stupid petty argument with me and told me that he wanted a divorce. Then, when I asked him how long it would take for him to get the papers, he told me that he WAS NOT going to get any papers unless I gave him the pregnant side chick phone number. I had erased it from his phone but saved it in my phone. I refused to give it to him, so he unblocked her on Facebook and asked her could he have her number and then, he went and picked her up from work. I am HURT BEYOND WORDS. I have done so much for that man. I was with him when he had nothing and nobody. I really don't ever want to love anyone that deeply again. I feel like the biggest fool on GOD'S green earth. And he says that he is not going to pay child support for OUR SON, which is his FIRSTBORN, and the only child that he has. He also isn't going to come and spend time with him either. It would be real funny if that baby she is carrying isn't even his. He is the TRUE DEFINITION of a narcissist.
And your kids
Kalela and Jesus...he will never let us down
@@MsDera81 I am so sorry. How are u doing now?
When your childhood favorite song became reality 😳 my young 12 year old ass had no idea the pain til adulthood came
True yes
This song was back in 1997
ur young 12 what???
Facts
Me to fam🤢
Here I am again in my feels thinking of the past and just being grateful for the present 🙏🥰 beautiful music
May 1st 2019 I cant stop listening 2 this type of music 😘😘😘
may 22nd still listening
April 1st 2020
A real man that says he never got into his feelings off this song he's a dang lie....#loveit
Yes yes yes the good stuff!! Takes me back to when I was 17. The best days of my life. I’m 38 and still loving this tune
Thats a fact!!!
John Gaines u are right
You got that right these men now days don't understand real love and feelings
This song got me in my feelings.
True
geta freeman rt every damn time
Me too
IKR
This song be having me in my feelings cause i am going threw the same thing right know
Boys 11 Men giving without giving! With my eyes closed I can feel them all over this bop! The drums and melody not to mention their majestic voices and their signature style on it! Shoutout to Uncle Sam, who did this with the greats! This song is a real banger and I’m not a big fan of sad songs anymore but real is real! Today I had this on repeat the whole day…
I’m not even hurt or betrayed by anyone 😂🤦🏽♀️ but hey this song had in some deep feeling.
80’s baby raised off 90s music, all rnb is embedded in my dna 🧬 😂
! When he said “and you violated me” 🙆🏽♀️ “why you wanna hurt me?”
❕To those of us who overcame any kind of heartbreak and betrayal, forgave, healed and moved on - we’re champion!
To those of us who hurt and harmed others, repented, forgave ourselves, healed and transformed - we’re champions!
☝🏽 just to say we all make mistakes
Nathan morris from Boyz to men wrote it
My ex wife did this to me. i tried to work with it but it had continuously hurted me over the years. i kept bringing it up but she denies and changes the subject. For years it had plagued me until i did the same thing she did. i wasnt thinking about anything doing the same thing because i was already hurt. Now she wants to hurt me. but i am glad its finally over. now i see her showing her true colors. i wish i could of just ended it a long time ago, but the feelings still strong for her. i am finally moving on and hopefully the one i am seeing will never do that to me.
(2)Two wrongs don't make it right.My husband tells me he loves me.My husband says he makes sure to tell me because some people are not told growing up. FORGIVENESS IS THE TYPE OF LOVE NEEDED IN THIS SCENARIO.
Bless your heart
Wish you all the best brother...
LETTER : THIEVES IN THE TEMPLE PURPLE RAIN..NORFOLK VIRGINIA THE SCOPE
You don't have to regret, you did your best
who knew he is now Pastor Samuel Turner Jr. AWESOMENESS
yeah thats a beautiful thing! ☺
I am not surprised by looking at this video.
Thank you Delilah, for sharing that information. I knew it in my heart/discernment. He has that extra something in his voice called the anointing. I just knew it.
My husband got annoyed with me because I made mention that Uncle Sam mentioned the name of the Lord.
I just knew it.
Thank you Delilah Renee
wow,and i learned that Pebbles is a pastor too
wow
A lot people can relate to this song 🤔
Yes i can cause I'm going threw it know
I am right now and it hurts bad
I went thru it. Damn it hurt!!! I still think about it but i bounced back.
Michelle Ford really sorry but keep your head up & move on.
A lot of cheaters out there. Cheating people out of love. Sad
I still love this song so much. If you suspected that the love of your life is unfaithful, it is best to move on. God will send you a lot of blessings in your life to keep moving forward in life.