When people ask me what it's like being a mom to a THREEnager!

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @Suebearish
    @Suebearish 9 месяцев назад +472

    She is doing a great job of getting his attention and instead of saying no telling him what she wants him to do and modelling gentle

  • @LynnRPerry
    @LynnRPerry 9 месяцев назад +31

    I want to say “atta mom” for your thoughtful teaching of Neil. Some afternoons you maybe ready for bed by 6 PM but honestly when your son is 10 and above you will be so thankful for your discipline to follow through and teach with corrections until he learns the skill you are teaching. This is a great example of mom taking responsibility for her son.

    • @AllyS.2014
      @AllyS.2014 15 часов назад

      his name is Neo 😊
      everyone makes mistakes!

  • @BrundhaS1234
    @BrundhaS1234 10 месяцев назад +7418

    The way he bends his knees while closing the door gently 😂😂 he is soo cutee! God bless him always 🥰

    • @c67997
      @c67997 10 месяцев назад +25

      I died laughing 😆 😅😅😅😅

    • @ashleygill7018
      @ashleygill7018 10 месяцев назад +15

      His little knees! So cute.

    • @oscarroman3153
      @oscarroman3153 10 месяцев назад +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅

    • @jaimesandoval138
      @jaimesandoval138 10 месяцев назад +1

      D lmk kzlsjhd😘💜

    • @suzanneborres1294
      @suzanneborres1294 10 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂

  • @jones2277
    @jones2277 9 месяцев назад +773

    i like that you're persistent instead of just going around picking things up and putting them away for him.

  • @HumanityBeforeReligion
    @HumanityBeforeReligion 10 месяцев назад +4666

    Crystal is an amazing and very intelligent mother.

    • @TheCANFamily
      @TheCANFamily  10 месяцев назад +635

      She’s the best 💙

    • @sujnanipanda8042
      @sujnanipanda8042 10 месяцев назад +52

      Yes ....she is the best❤❤❤❤

    • @NicoleYoshihara
      @NicoleYoshihara 9 месяцев назад +42

      Doing parenting right not letting him get away with stuff😂 if I become a parent I don’t know how to do it but I like this style ❤

    • @teresamosca2322
      @teresamosca2322 9 месяцев назад +5

      He is a little legend😂❤ love you leon❤!

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 9 месяцев назад +5

      Its only funny the first time tho. Child cupboard clips will save your sanity after that. They can only open the cupboard 1inch then.😂

  • @lilyinthewater161
    @lilyinthewater161 6 месяцев назад +247

    Crystal is such a smart, patient, kind mommy.

  • @samragyeesingh3319
    @samragyeesingh3319 10 месяцев назад +2839

    Neo is so so adorable,, the way he was being gentle 😂😂 Just for a second,,,
    Then again Bammm 😅
    Crystal great way of parenting, making him do it again gently,, well done 👍🏼

  • @Dewzz20
    @Dewzz20 День назад +1

    Neo is so lucky to have parents like this❤🎉 Such a blessing

  • @loveRVful
    @loveRVful 10 месяцев назад +632

    Very good parenting skills, it's important to teach from wrong to right at this age. Cristal been doing a fantastic job. And the kids especially neo learning is so great. Well done

    • @Miller-n8j
      @Miller-n8j 5 месяцев назад +4

      I agree...she is such a good Mom ❤

  • @TheBrownAesthete
    @TheBrownAesthete 9 месяцев назад +15

    Crystal's way of teaching him is amazing!!

  • @clairenyanaro8198
    @clairenyanaro8198 10 месяцев назад +951

    Crystal is such a mummy 😍 the patience is on some whole new level 😊❤ Good job Crystal !!!!!!😊

  • @candicemagana4450
    @candicemagana4450 6 месяцев назад +19

    Crystal is such a good parent !! Neo good job!!❤

  • @safaa1372
    @safaa1372 10 месяцев назад +124

    High level of patience = crystal. Such of a very caring and good mummy.may Allah bless u

  • @iimanimanii
    @iimanimanii 9 месяцев назад +64

    i love how kids always look back when they’re running away just to make sure they’re making the wrong decision 😂

  • @ninjaturtle6106
    @ninjaturtle6106 10 месяцев назад +447

    I like when he closed the right door gently as if mocking his mom.

  • @TruthBeToldbyBab
    @TruthBeToldbyBab 10 месяцев назад +31

    Wish more mothers were like Crystal, disciplining their child in a very agreeable way, neither indulging nor aggressive.

    • @amyterry4793
      @amyterry4793 10 месяцев назад +2

      She is a wonderful Mommy!! ❤❤

  • @zainabawoon9697
    @zainabawoon9697 10 месяцев назад +130

    Kudos to you crystal. You're are such a great mum!❤❤👏👏👏 To all the people watching, this is what gentle parenting actually means. It means to be firm and assertive yet at the same time being patient and kind while disciplining children. So many parents out there are letting their children do whatever they want and don't discipline their children in the name of gentle parenting have completely misunderstood what gentle parenting means. Infact they are doing more harm to their children and the society because of this. Thank you guys for recording this moment in your lives and sharing it with all of us and setting a great example!❤❤

  • @skyhart9926
    @skyhart9926 5 месяцев назад +1

    I like Crystal’s parenting style. She just doesn’t let her kids do whatever they literally want. She teaches them good manners and is not the type of mother who let’s her kids act crazy and spoiled. 👍

  • @nivashah8643
    @nivashah8643 10 месяцев назад +436

    Neo was sooo gentle for a moment, then back to his dashing personality 😂.......just love the way crystal was teaching him, amazing parenting ❤

  • @gember1382
    @gember1382 9 месяцев назад +2

    Just your average toddler ❤. Breathe in and out mom...just a few more years then he is a teenager and you have to this all over again 😂

  • @myriahmichalski3362
    @myriahmichalski3362 10 месяцев назад +469

    He is absolutely hilarious, and you both are so beautifully patient with him 💕

  • @misssunshine6200
    @misssunshine6200 9 месяцев назад +7

    That end was TOOOO PERFECT lmao.
    I so feel you momma, please know you are NOT alone ❤

  • @marhh6010
    @marhh6010 10 месяцев назад +34

    I have to count it !!! Gentle x7 🤣🤣 she’s the most patience loving mom I have seen and is amazing to see that…. No screams no drama only love ….. and that’s what this world needs kids being raised through love patience and healthy discipline ..

  • @I-ei1sx
    @I-ei1sx 2 месяца назад +2

    Crystal truly deserves every last bit of appreciation for doing a fabulous job raising the kids 👌🏼 👏🏼 such a fab mom ! ❤

  • @fifythomaz7687
    @fifythomaz7687 10 месяцев назад +7

    Crystal i really appreciate ur patience....... n the way u guys r raising Neo to b responsible from such a young age.Its a lesson for all mothers............ Hatz off to u guys......

  • @JavierSandoval-g5v
    @JavierSandoval-g5v 3 месяца назад +1

    Neo is so Smart and he is able to obey his mother. He Will be so gentle

  • @DaceSebi
    @DaceSebi 10 месяцев назад +291

    He is soo cheeky😂😭.. Btw his mom is doing the best job ever... Love u guyss❤

  • @adedoyinbadejo679
    @adedoyinbadejo679 10 месяцев назад +4

    please???😂😂this is the stage you use your stern voice and strn mummy eye, one look and he's running to return the plate while saying sorry. The African way well.... you won't want to do that 😂

  • @kankanabardhan3269
    @kankanabardhan3269 10 месяцев назад +423

    Neo is the sassiest baby I've ever seen 😂😂❤

  • @tashugarg2621
    @tashugarg2621 Месяц назад +1

    I love something I love the way she repeated herself and the way she paid attention to the way she speaks ❤️❤️❤️. It's hard to be mother . U r amazing ❤️

  • @krishnacharu
    @krishnacharu 10 месяцев назад +217

    Good parenting

  • @Ash-kb9hn
    @Ash-kb9hn 9 месяцев назад +5

    She is an amazing mother. Most young mom’s don’t discipline their kids whatsoever. She does it and does it great.

    • @marriver789
      @marriver789 5 месяцев назад

      Discipline starts from a young age. You're doing a great job!

  • @kimk2293
    @kimk2293 9 месяцев назад +5

    This is Great 👍 !!!!! My grandson is in 5th Grade and he acts like a toddler 🙄 ! I am laughing so hard Bless you Woman 👩!! LOVE FROM MICHIGAN U.S.A 3-19- 24

  • @debraslone281
    @debraslone281 6 месяцев назад +3

    You’re doing a great job and always have both of you. Love your family.

  • @aheartofworship12
    @aheartofworship12 10 месяцев назад +6

    Lol Neo!!!😩😂
    I went to university with Crystal and had several classes with her… Such a treat watching her as a wife and mommy!
    Great job, Crystal! 🤗🤗💕

  • @demigray9127
    @demigray9127 9 месяцев назад +27

    Don’t you just love the little malicious laugh. I love them so much.

  • @SofiaReignFajilagot
    @SofiaReignFajilagot 4 месяца назад +6

    Awww neo is the cutest person god bless him god made him well and his mom she is also pretty and kind bless them all amen❤

  • @Akshittttaa
    @Akshittttaa Месяц назад

    Crystal is such a good, patient mother really love her!

  • @narwhal-ph8il
    @narwhal-ph8il 10 месяцев назад +54

    Neo being a sassy THREEnager, you have lots of patience mommy 😂❤

    • @Reyeyawn
      @Reyeyawn 9 месяцев назад +1

      THREEnager is a new one. I never heard that before 😂😂

    • @Yusssef10
      @Yusssef10 5 месяцев назад

      @@Reyeyawn btw he took it from the short title

    • @Reyeyawn
      @Reyeyawn 5 месяцев назад

      @@Yusssef10 okay

  • @nailasaboor1939
    @nailasaboor1939 9 месяцев назад +2

    So patient mom❤❤❤. And innocent kid is joyful as well as so cute to follow his moms instructions ❤❤❤love it so adorable ❤

  • @galaxycoins8272
    @galaxycoins8272 9 месяцев назад +5

    I just love Crystal's parenting...

  • @NO_PJM
    @NO_PJM 5 месяцев назад +2

    You're doing excellent. This behavior as you probably already know is very typical. He's pushing his boundaries and exploring them and learning 💜

  • @suvarnagaikwad5692
    @suvarnagaikwad5692 10 месяцев назад +26

    Neo's like : I'm gonna annoy you mommy. Please let me play with it.😂😂❤

  • @Writer777-wanna_be.
    @Writer777-wanna_be. 5 месяцев назад +1

    Momma has it all together…good parenting. She equals the disciple out with loving her children too…these kids will have healthy minds.👍

  • @shonatheartist6171
    @shonatheartist6171 10 месяцев назад +42

    Neo is hilarious! He did do it gently after he was told for the first cabinet lol! 😂❤

  • @stephanie6897
    @stephanie6897 10 месяцев назад +2

    Seriously! Your dynamic with Neo is ADORABLE 🥲 You are such a good mom, taking the time always to teach Neo to be gentle. You are committed 😆💓💖💝 I see you!!! You're such a a good mom !

  • @jeanshelomith75
    @jeanshelomith75 10 месяцев назад +20

    When she says gentle, he’s sarcastically closing super gently and then back to normal.. Adorably cute🥰 . I know for parents, they would try instilling discipline and respect- this might be adorable at the same time testing their extra patience level😅 But for us, his every action is extra cute and special.. 😁😅

  • @AAED-NPO
    @AAED-NPO 3 месяца назад

    Patiently raising him well, mommy. Doing a great job. God bless you. 🎉

  • @DemaDema-zn1ty
    @DemaDema-zn1ty 10 месяцев назад +11

    Neo is most sassy 💁‍♂️ boy I’ve ever seen in my whole entire life 😂😂 the way he was bending his knees while closing the door gently a😂 and when he got a bobo the mom was trying to calm and he was like eww mom 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @anamariamalave2444
    @anamariamalave2444 9 месяцев назад

    Wow!! It is so *fantastic* be a Mother huh? Tons of love and patience. Uuff!! She made so good job parenting. ❤

  • @kitsmith806
    @kitsmith806 10 месяцев назад +6

    😅😂 I could watch Neo all day doing his antics , he is the cutest little guy ever 😂 😍🥰

  • @Mike-or2cv
    @Mike-or2cv 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love mom's behavior, she is firm but at the same time understanding and tries to explain and show him instead of screaming senselessly.

  • @DoroHiro
    @DoroHiro 10 месяцев назад +20

    Good parenting!!! So proud of you

  • @DivineLove444
    @DivineLove444 10 месяцев назад +1

    This isn’t a negative comment towards this lovely family… 💕
    It’s not only about “teaching” a child but understanding why a child behaves that way in the first place. Children don’t just do random things out of the ordinary for no reason. There’s always a reason behind it.
    Bless this little one 🩵

  • @SanzRival
    @SanzRival 10 месяцев назад +61

    Cristal is a great mom to both kids❤❤❤

  • @judyoneal7887
    @judyoneal7887 10 месяцев назад +2

    I have 2 boys, now 33 & 31. This little guy is so typical for his age. He’s full of energy, I mean it’s just oozing out of him. He’s also impulsive & he not only thinks he’s funny-he is funny. All very typical. But most importantly, this child has learned to respect and obey his parents. She did need to call him back multiple times to complete this task appropriately but at this age I would expect that too. More importantly, he responded to his Mommy each time she called him back and in the end he put away the things she asked & he closed those blasted doors …. gently. 😤🤣🤣🤣 Now, I realize time may have passed in between these clips & he may have protested, loudly, off camera. That too is normal at this age. He’s a little doll, Mom & Dad. You’re doing a good job. Keep going & gather your strength cuz puberty…. it is coming. 🫨

  • @lisae3663
    @lisae3663 10 месяцев назад +12

    I love that Cristal makes him redo things when it’s not right. He respects that too.

  • @andreagascoigne6735
    @andreagascoigne6735 2 месяца назад

    The way he does "gentle" is so sweet !!!! 🫠🤩😍🥰

  • @MsBrytEyez
    @MsBrytEyez 10 месяцев назад +8

    The end. 😂 He legit faked an injury and left. 😂 sassy!

  • @kemanne3382
    @kemanne3382 9 месяцев назад +1

    Gentle mom is superb❤ God bless you always

  • @savingwithvane9093
    @savingwithvane9093 10 месяцев назад +9

    Like how Cristal is teaching him from a young age to do things right...their little but so intelligent to learn each day new things ❤

  • @user-Stephaniez
    @user-Stephaniez Месяц назад

    The way he bends his knees while closing the door gently 😂😂 he is so cutee! God bless him always🥰

  • @imtherealclown
    @imtherealclown 8 месяцев назад +3

    Niko laughing in the background makes the video 10 times more funnier🤣🤣😂

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 9 месяцев назад +1

    Yoo your kid is a comedian 😂😂😂😂

  • @Nabila-qg9la
    @Nabila-qg9la 9 месяцев назад +8

    He is so cute 🥰,please mummy don’t tell him off, he is adorable

  • @InChaosYouth_74
    @InChaosYouth_74 5 месяцев назад +1

    Now that's the correct parenting! 👏🏻🫶🏻

  • @scripter3851
    @scripter3851 10 месяцев назад +13

    WHY NEO IS SO ADORABLE AND CUTE 😭😭

  • @ElvarAronOpedal
    @ElvarAronOpedal 6 месяцев назад +1

    He is so cute and sweet.❤

  • @Freddydaoskih
    @Freddydaoskih 10 месяцев назад +4

    The definition of savage not average

  • @angie7777-7
    @angie7777-7 10 месяцев назад

    I love this….we need more of this ….teaching respect and acceptable behavior ❤️!

  • @keimanix23
    @keimanix23 10 месяцев назад +4

    I think the dad should not laugh when the mom is teaching the kids good manners. The kids might think that what they’re doing is fine.

  • @jessicapanov6971
    @jessicapanov6971 5 месяцев назад +1

    He is so funny!!😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @winniecarmo4480
    @winniecarmo4480 10 месяцев назад

    Real parenting at it's best! Congrats, mammy, you're my Patience Queen ❤

  • @kellykist6107
    @kellykist6107 10 месяцев назад

    That three year old is PERFECT!!! Such a great job testing every, single boundary. Mom? You cracked the code! Consistent, no emotional reward for bad behavior, kept your calm and- most importantly: no punishing! A++++ for both of you.

  • @lesliemckinley9615
    @lesliemckinley9615 9 месяцев назад +1

    Good job! Be consistent and firm with him. This is true love...not allowing him to become spoiled.

  • @claireferns6742
    @claireferns6742 5 месяцев назад

    What a character 😂, never a dull moment at the Can family crib 😂...love it ❤, he's hilarious 😅, loving Mama hiding her laugh 😅

  • @kirankhatri9717
    @kirankhatri9717 6 месяцев назад

    Neo is so blessed to have you guys as his parents ❤❤❤ 🧿You guys truly are an inspiration to many.✨

  • @rachelzemmer368
    @rachelzemmer368 9 месяцев назад

    Great to see respectfulness along with insistence in good behavior.

  • @haazelbuan
    @haazelbuan 10 месяцев назад +1

    Its good that they have a disciplinarian mom🤗❤️

  • @__Fatimah__
    @__Fatimah__ 10 месяцев назад

    The mother is doing the parenting good here..the patience and firm but gentle voice all the way.. thats really nice. This structure will give the sense of safety to the kids..well done mom!

  • @Loveroflife987
    @Loveroflife987 5 месяцев назад

    I LOVE It!!! You are so ever a patient & loving mom! ♥️
    I remember those days!! Love & guide them with all your heart with no expectation in return. For it’s our responsibility as a parent bringing them into this world. And, they will be there for you when they are older. Really!!!! Enjoy because they grow up fast!
    I truly believe that motherhood is the greatest opportunity a woman could have! And, if you’re not able to bear a child. There’s foster or orphan children that need your love!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @littlemisssunshine3267
    @littlemisssunshine3267 9 месяцев назад

    I think I will spoil that kid....Neo can do no wrong for me....❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bossgamingendless305
    @bossgamingendless305 6 дней назад +1

    Ta da...... Is the highlight 😂

  • @Merbella
    @Merbella 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are a wonderful mom ❤😊 love, patience, and rules! 👍

  • @StephanieMurray-pl4gs
    @StephanieMurray-pl4gs 10 месяцев назад

    Three really means trouble❤ He's so cute ❤God bless you and your family and Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @lorettawilson1599
    @lorettawilson1599 9 месяцев назад

    I gave this mother a lot of credit for being so patient and so understanding while teaching her child to behave❤

  • @yolinagarr5144
    @yolinagarr5144 9 месяцев назад

    He’s so cute! ☺️
    God bless your family!

  • @faithBirt
    @faithBirt 6 месяцев назад

    Serves Neo right he knows what he was doing that's why he got that boo boo. Good parenting momma 👍

  • @jeannikolich9128
    @jeannikolich9128 10 месяцев назад

    Neo is adorable, he’s so cute and has such an attitude - gang in there, it’s going to be a L O N G 18yrs, but you will never get bored with this little guy! We all love ❤❤ him!

  • @sheeseechurn3221
    @sheeseechurn3221 3 месяца назад

    🤣🤣🤣😭He's so cuteeeeeeee... I can't get over this video of him. ❤❤❤

  • @tmthompson79
    @tmthompson79 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so glad u actually discipline ur kiddos! There r so many parents out here who let their kids get so out of control and do nothing. Raising the future❤

  • @TRay_Unveiled
    @TRay_Unveiled 9 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love him!!!❤❤❤ Sooooo friggin cuuuute!!!

  • @jacintaconlon-qi1in
    @jacintaconlon-qi1in 5 месяцев назад +2

    the"ugh"and the"ew"and the "fine" got me driving😂

  • @sanjaynanajkar8643
    @sanjaynanajkar8643 8 месяцев назад

    He is doing😂🎉things on his own🎉🎉❤❤great to watch him from his childhood😂😂❤❤great development. God bless him😂😂❤and yrs you all❤❤🎉🎉lovely family bonding❤❤

  • @omkarkelkar-g8k
    @omkarkelkar-g8k 3 месяца назад

    Such a cute 🥰 and respectful child ❤

  • @mihkhailgaudette4370
    @mihkhailgaudette4370 9 месяцев назад

    Like your consistency! You stayed firm yet on task to get him to complete his jobs. Nice teaching experience for both of you.
    He is learning sound from the dishes while you are teaching him to be responsible.

  • @ghazionline3473
    @ghazionline3473 5 месяцев назад +1

    Neo u'r special n ur family also❤

  • @majdahalbazzi9655
    @majdahalbazzi9655 8 месяцев назад +1

    When he said is this gentle enough for you 😂😂😂😂got my rolling

  • @lauracranberry4355
    @lauracranberry4355 10 месяцев назад +1

    Crystal is an angel she's so patient, my mom could neverrr 😂😂😂 she's will be ready with a broom if i act like that😅

  • @cannon_gt
    @cannon_gt 9 месяцев назад +1

    If have a bad day Neo always makes me laugh 😂 😂🤣