Who’s currently experiencing emotional attraction? If you find this video helpful, be sure to check out 8 Subtle Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think: ruclips.net/video/ox-PkkqLE0I/видео.html
Can you do a video on relationship types? My bf...I think i...I dunni what we are. I don't talk alot but I enjoy being around him. But he's so cold and distant and show me what he wants me to see. I cry when I haven't talked to him over a few days, and think stupid thinks that he's doing. We barely talk about our issues and...its heart breaking.
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If I’m extremely emotionally attracted to someone, we don’t necessarily have to speak when hanging out. There is never an awkward silence because their company is what I appreciate the most.
I feel this way about a friend, we are best friends and I really feel like we are connected, but with nothing romantic involved, it's not even a possibility for both of us lol. I find it very curious the incredible appreciation we can have for other people
That sounds so nice! I used to have a friend like that but he started liking me romantically and it ruined everything. All I want is a very strong platonic connection, dammit!
it baffles me how i was never taught this while growing up (and i imagine most people haven't too?), I was basically raised to be superficial and with no understanding of how to truly connect with people it's very liberating to understand that and see how there's a more profound world view to live by
I agree! I wish these topics were taught at home or even at school. It's such an important topic to cover. Thanks for sharing your input! Did you find any of the signs apply to you?
@@Psych2go oh, for sure! it's kind of all of them really haha but what struck me the most was the one that said that we don't get tired of being and talking with the person. I have that with a few people and I just thought of it as me randomly being more receptive to that person, but now I understand that it's more about emotional attraction, because all of the other signs are present as well! It's so useful to recognize that there's a deeper rooted reason for all of these signs and their correlation. This kind of understanding actually changes your perspective, truly transformatory for people that have no idea of it (I don't want to overreact here, but it totally was for me lol). It really puts more importance and value into the relationships that I already have and will have in the future, and it helped me understand myself better. So thank you for sharing it in such an easy way to digest, i think your work is a great public service. Keep at it!
If you're reading this... It's too late. I already sent good vibes your way. They are coming. And there's no way to stop them. May all your worries wash away & you find pockets of peace throughout your day. 💗Dr. Liz
@@Phoebe_Games43 sorry for the long post in advanced, quick summary at the bottom don't give up, well actaully that's what I did sort of. I am currently in a blossoming wonderful relationship. But anyway I gave up on trying to force it to happen and I just came to terms that I might always be alone and decided that I will still smile and try to light up the world because the world needs it more than I need to be in a relationship and when my neediness went away I was able to find joy in every situation and people are attracted to that. Tldr: Learn to love yourself as how you would love the person you care about the most in the world.
@@MC-dz8be loving myself has proven to be the most difficult thing for me. (You can thank my parents for that) and dealing with all the stuff going on. It's so stressful. I don't have time to love myself. I just have to make sure no one is suffering around me. Even if it means I have to sacrifice my own happiness for my friends
i feel profoundly emotionally attracted to my best friend although we're basically opposites with no common interests and different values/views, i can't help but love her so much. i always want to be with her and she's the only one who makes me feel upset if she's too busy to meet :
Emotional attraction is by far the most important part of a long lasting & healthy relationship. Better yet a key sign that you are finally in union, but more than likely a reunion with your 🔥Twin Flame🔥
We must find someone who loves us for who we really are! Not what we look like! And we must love them for who they are instead of loving what they look like in return! This can be hard to find, but it's the most stable thing.
I feel that way about a friend of mine ... In fact, I see him as more than a friend. The relationship we have is so ethereal, so profound, that the first time he came to talk to me I became attached to him. And he got attached to me ... I love him so much! Someday we will be together :3
Don't confuse it withe "love" could be what you only, are feeling. Many different kinds of attractions.. Took me the span of a lifetime to figure this out, hope it helps you! You'll know "Love" when I find it..
I've been talking to a woman for over 2 years now but we haven't met yet. We video chat sometimes and text all the time. She's beautiful but im way more emotionally attracted to her, I haven't felt like this since I was engaged years ago. Such an amazing bond.
I thought I had a deep emotional connection with someone but it turns out he already has someone else currently. Watching this video was honestly pretty painful :/
I think this is the one big reason I've never stuck into relationships....never had much emotion connections, nothing ended up working out like we thought
I never see physical features first. I see people's hearts and souls first. I hear the catch in their voice when something bothers them. I see the way their eyes sparkle when they are excited. I see the way their body language changes, even in the slightest way.
I’ve noticed that I feel safest with my close friend, I feel like I can say or do anything I feel in his presence cuz he’ll understand and defend me. It’s always a good time when I’m around him🥰 I love having him as my friend
A few years ago I actually found someone I felt so comfortable with, I was attracted to him in an emotional way, but not in a physical way. He confessed he had feelings for me, and I felt bad to friendzone him. I really hoped it wouldn't ruin our friendship, because it felt so special and rare.. I was really doubting myself if I didn't want a relationship with him, but I didn't see myself with him in a physical way. Now we don't talk anymore, quite sad to think about sometimes
Thanks for this video! And just because of that I am pretty sure of one thing: very special person, which is my Filipina girl, I count 8 out of 8 strongly emotional attractions from each other!! Salamat po, mahal ko!!! ♥️♥️♥️
All the signs seem to be fitting from my part. However, I have no clue if all these boxes are checked from the other person's perspective. What is this? Does the other person feel an emotional connection with me then?
If you're alloromantic then there's a possibility. Just remember that emotional attraction doesn't have to be connected to romantic attraction. You can be emotionally attracted to your friends, family and etc.
Hey Psych2Go, do you think you could make some vids about aromantics and/or people, who are just happy on their own? I know love/crushes stuff is relatable for many people, but I feel like society is pushing aromantics into relationship and they should be more understood Love your content btw ^^
8 Signs of emotional attraction 1: You feel understood by them 0:50 2: You love talking to them 1:23 3: You admire their qualities 1:54 4: Your values are in sync 2:27 5: You care about their opinion 2:57 6: You turn to them for advice 3:20 7:You don’t get sick of each other 3:39 8: You can be vulnerable with them 4:00
@@ivythealiencat sorry about that no offense intended, would you say you've always been so numb? Ignore me if you don't want to get into it, I would understand.
Your videos are very helpful and interesting but the pop up on the screen over your videos makes it very heard to read some of the things you are saying because of all of them pop ups over your videos but your videos are great I watch and listen to your videos most days 😁😁😁😁
the whole ‘5 types of attraction’ thing is kinda bs. I mean there’s romantic, sexual, platonic, emotional, aesthetic, sensual, familial, intellectual, + so many more. (And attraction doesn’t make you whole, don’t feel bad if you don’t feel a type of attraction)
*8 signs of emotional attraction* 1. you feel understood by them 0:51 2. you love talking to them 1:23 3. you admire a lot of their qualities 1:55 4. your values are in sync 2:28 5. you care about their opinion 2:57 6. you turn to them for advice 3:20 7. you don’t get sick of each other 3:41 8. you can be vulnerable with them 4:02 thanks for the video!
Emotional attraction is really painful. I've genuinely experienced this with one person only and I get upset and hurt if they're not around. It's such a hurtful and a delightful feeling both at the same time. Feels like obsession. It's so much harder to let go of someone who makes you feel this way instead of someone who you're just infatuated with.
I remember being emotionally attracted to a friend once, we were on the phone one night gazing at the stars and talking about the universe. It was one of the most significant moments in my life
this just reminded me of my boyfriend 🥺👉🏽👈🏽💖 it's been difficult with the long distance due to the current situation but we finally met yesterday and everything just fell into place
Me: *Soemone who has never been in a relationship and yet still comes to watch the videos about relationships or emotions that surround the topic* Heh... Why am I here...? In all seriousness through, I think this can go alone with friends and family members we are close to. I have a best friend I feel very comfortable with and can talk to him about anything and he understands because he's going through something similar. It's a nice thing to have that kind of person. I don't do this often with people either from having terrible trust issues. I could talk to him on the phone for a long time and not get tired, and I usually hate talking on the phone with people. I don't mind seeing them now and then but I don't need constant interaction with seeing or hearing them. I'm very interverted and love being alone, and when I don't mind talking to someone for hours, you better believe that they are special.
Thanks for sharing! This not only applies to romantic relationship but to your family or friends. I am glad you have a best friend that you’re comfortable to talk about anything. Sometime we just need that best friend to be beside us. Did you find this video relatable to your life?
@@Psych2go So true. Yeah I did for the most part. It took me back when either or us were struggling and the other person would help them out however we could. Thanks! I always enjoy your guys' videos. They're simple and fun.
for me, actual attraction to someone quite literally starts on an emotional level, kinda makes being me a lot harder when everyone around me thinks I should just be physically attracted to people one way or the other regardless of my emotional state
This is exactly what I felt with my former best friend of seven years. I realized I was in love and told her, but she ghosted me. It has been a difficult 4 months because I literally think about and miss her everyday. I feel like I’ll never have the same feelings about anyone again. I would have done anything for her and wish she didn’t leave me without explanation.
I had this one I'm emotionally attracted with.. ~~ Sometimes, its so hard to see him in pain and sick.. As if I am him.. and he is same. Its so amazing, how human nature works.. Very interesting.. The bond it can make from one person with another person.. At first that person was my worse enemy, not physically but just within me (so I tried to avoid him a lot), because he always got mad and angry, I didn't like his temper.. But somehow.. Time passed by and I wanted to give him love because I felt like he was like that because he needed some love... And then it truly worked.. He became so soft and warm-hearted as if someone was able to understand him.. Now, he is the most gentle and kindest person I've ever known. He knows I don't like his temper so he doesn't get angry anymore unlike before..
Key insights 💖 Emotional attraction is a key ingredient in making our bonds with those around us meaningful and intimate. 😌 When you feel understood by someone, it's easy to be around them and you can be yourself. 💭 You deeply enjoy talking to this person no matter how many hours you spend with them, you never seem to run out of things to discuss because you find them so endlessly fascinating and engaging. 🤗 You even appreciate all their little quirks and mannerisms, like the way they laugh or move because you feel so emotionally attracted to them. 💞 When you share the same core values with someone, you can't help but gravitate toward them and become emotionally invested in your relationship with them. 😍 If the feelings you have for them are rooted in emotional attraction, no amount of time you spend together will ever make you lose interest in them. 🌟 Over time, emotional attraction strengthens bonds with the people we love, making our relationships endure.
This was a great video! It seemed to show signs of emotional attraction that would be displayed by people with secure attachment styles. I would love to see a video similar to this that demonstrates what emotional attraction may look like for people with insecure attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, & fearful avoidant)!
As an asexual, this is about as intense as it gets for me :p Speaking of, I'd really love it if you made a video about asexuality sometime! It might help more people to understand- and maybe not treat us like broken, unnatural freaks. Sometimes ignorance can be very hurtful. Thank you xx
Paula Sofía Contreras oh my goodness i’ve never related to anything more. I’ve liked my very good friend for so long. I promised myself to never tell him and just get over him because I know he has alot of stuff he needs to figure out, and I don’t want to be another problem. It just hurts so much that I can’t let go of that hope.
Feel..or felt the same. Because I‘m stupid I confessed to her. We‘re „no longer friends at the moment“. She‘s avoiding me. I‘m avoiding her. Even changed train connections to not spend more time together. She wants me to move on, because she doesn’t want to hurt me & because she doesn‘t know how to deal with my attention and affection. Really long story. Maybe sometimes we‘ll get back to the friendship we had. Maybe we won‘t. It sucks. Can‘t recommend confessing at this point. ://
I can relate to this. I've had a crush on my long distance friend since forever, but never said a thing, which I really don't recommend. He told me he liked me three weeks ago and now we're going out lol
@@anonumosGirl 8. You can be vulnerable with them. (...) When you have an emotional attraction to someone, you're comfortable displaying your emotions around them.
"At least out loud, I won't say I'm in love..." no but seriously I DONT WANT TO ADMIT IT TO HIM I THINK HES SO COOL AND WHENEVER WE HANG OUT WE JOKE ABOUT HOW OUT PARENTS THINK WE'RE DATING AND I DONT WANT TO LOSE HIM AS A FRIEND BUT THE ONLY TIMES IVE EVER ADMITTED MY FEELINGS TO PEOPLE I EDNED UP BEING SUPER AWKWARD......... ...that actually felt kinda good to get off my chest, even if its just to random people on the internet...
Who’s currently experiencing emotional attraction?
If you find this video helpful, be sure to check out 8 Subtle Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think: ruclips.net/video/ox-PkkqLE0I/видео.html
Argurbks, I might check the video in a sec, Thanks for uploading this! Your videos are just calming and helpful!
Can you do a video on relationship types? My bf...I think i...I dunni what we are. I don't talk alot but I enjoy being around him. But he's so cold and distant and show me what he wants me to see. I cry when I haven't talked to him over a few days, and think stupid thinks that he's doing. We barely talk about our issues and...its heart breaking.
I am🥺💕
Hi!
Psych2Go :D
“You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.”
― Oscar Wilde
Cars didn't exist in the time of Oscar Wilde
bhavana samhita First car in U.K.1888. First car in Paris where Wilde died 1889. Oscar Wilde died in 1900. In 1900 Wilde did interact with a friends car. However, it cannot be verified conclusively that he wrote these lines.
Bts
Anu Sree I prefer The Fab 4 actually!
I once sang a song for someone and recorded it, but that person married another person and not me.
emotional attraction is more powerful than physical attraction; so fall in love with someone for who they are not what they look like
Yeah really.
Well said
So true
Yeah, I wouldn’t date someone unless they have a good personality
Amen, but physical attraction is a nice bonus ☺
“Physical attraction is how we meet eachother , emotional attraction is how we stay together”
Gosh the art is killing me its so cutee
I know right?!
@@Psych2go I wish I had money to hire that person.... Wait I don't have a channel 😂
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If I’m extremely emotionally attracted to someone, we don’t necessarily have to speak when hanging out. There is never an awkward silence because their company is what I appreciate the most.
That's wholesome ❤
I feel this way about a friend, we are best friends and I really feel like we are connected, but with nothing romantic involved, it's not even a possibility for both of us lol. I find it very curious the incredible appreciation we can have for other people
Same. I miss him.
but mine is the shy type... so ye
That sounds so nice! I used to have a friend like that but he started liking me romantically and it ruined everything. All I want is a very strong platonic connection, dammit!
@@luisaabreu4028 how are u guys doing?? imma scared to be romantically like that with him
@@ejharriettegarcia5253 It didn't go very well. We're not friends anymore.
it baffles me how i was never taught this while growing up (and i imagine most people haven't too?), I was basically raised to be superficial and with no understanding of how to truly connect with people
it's very liberating to understand that and see how there's a more profound world view to live by
I agree! I wish these topics were taught at home or even at school. It's such an important topic to cover. Thanks for sharing your input! Did you find any of the signs apply to you?
@@Psych2go oh, for sure! it's kind of all of them really haha but what struck me the most was the one that said that we don't get tired of being and talking with the person. I have that with a few people and I just thought of it as me randomly being more receptive to that person, but now I understand that it's more about emotional attraction, because all of the other signs are present as well!
It's so useful to recognize that there's a deeper rooted reason for all of these signs and their correlation. This kind of understanding actually changes your perspective, truly transformatory for people that have no idea of it (I don't want to overreact here, but it totally was for me lol). It really puts more importance and value into the relationships that I already have and will have in the future, and it helped me understand myself better. So thank you for sharing it in such an easy way to digest, i think your work is a great public service. Keep at it!
Me too. At the age of 38 I've found out there is something like this and someone out there who feel the same way. Only a half year ago😳
If you're reading this... It's too late.
I already sent good vibes your way. They are coming. And there's no way to stop them. May all your worries wash away & you find pockets of peace throughout your day. 💗Dr. Liz
That made me lol and smile in ways i can't describe.
Tysm!!
Thank you so much...Same kind of vibes to you dear💕...Noone will be able to stop that as well😉
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BABY DONT HURT ME
DONT HURT ME
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sorry, I just had to D:
😂
Me: flashbacks to What is love? By TWICE
I was about to do the same lol
original..
@@nolife4588 no
Signs of a good relationship, I hope everyone experiences this type of bond in their lifetime 💗
Awww I love that statement a lot! Thanks for sharing!
Psych2Go of course :)
Never even got to experience what true love is yet. I've been hurt by so many people.
@@Phoebe_Games43 sorry for the long post in advanced, quick summary at the bottom
don't give up, well actaully that's what I did sort of. I am currently in a blossoming wonderful relationship. But anyway I gave up on trying to force it to happen and I just came to terms that I might always be alone and decided that I will still smile and try to light up the world because the world needs it more than I need to be in a relationship and when my neediness went away I was able to find joy in every situation and people are attracted to that.
Tldr: Learn to love yourself as how you would love the person you care about the most in the world.
@@MC-dz8be loving myself has proven to be the most difficult thing for me. (You can thank my parents for that) and dealing with all the stuff going on. It's so stressful. I don't have time to love myself. I just have to make sure no one is suffering around me. Even if it means I have to sacrifice my own happiness for my friends
i feel profoundly emotionally attracted to my best friend although we're basically opposites with no common interests and different values/views, i can't help but love her so much. i always want to be with her and she's the only one who makes me feel upset if she's too busy to meet :
i know the feel, the one i like in the same way gives strange but pleasant feelings in the heart.
I felt this way about one of my close guy friends. Eventually we lost touch and I regretted not telling him....just keep that in mind
When your examples of attraction contradicts the video's xD
You don't have common interests OR values, how is this describing an emotional attraction?
Its okay to have different interests
Emotional attraction is by far the most important part of a long lasting & healthy relationship. Better yet a key sign that you are finally in union, but more than likely a reunion with your 🔥Twin Flame🔥
So true!!! 💙
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@@Maya_hee ~ I know right 😂 Hey Bots...Click your heels 👠👠 3 x's & go back to Kansas!
I found it to be true with my soulmate....a tremendous amount of peace and love especially emotionally. :-D
It is the most beautiful thing. Separation is super challenging...but to learn self love during this time
the art is so cute 😭❤️
Thank you so much! ❤️
AA YES IT IIIIS
2:14 this frame is so cute and is such a mood 😂😂
Glad you like it!
*At the end of the day, emotional attraction matters so much in a healthy relationship.* 💖
What if my emotional attraction is with Psych2go 😳?
❤️
This comment is so sweet
We must find someone who loves us for who we really are! Not what we look like! And we must love them for who they are instead of loving what they look like in return! This can be hard to find, but it's the most stable thing.
Love your comment. You are absolutely right about this!
@@Psych2go aww! Thanks! And I always watch psych2go videos and you guys are doing an amazing job! Keep going! Love you guys
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This made me laugh thank you
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@@lemonlunges44 yer welkom kind sir or sirette
It hurts when you lose someone you have emotional attraction to. Like a part of your heart is taken.
I feel that way about a friend of mine ... In fact, I see him as more than a friend. The relationship we have is so ethereal, so profound, that the first time he came to talk to me I became attached to him. And he got attached to me ... I love him so much! Someday we will be together :3
I just found out that I'm obsessed and now I discover that I'm obsessed not in love bc I'm emotionally attracted, huh, who would guess? 🤔
SAME!!! 😂😂😂
@@restingInpieces lol, it's kinda amusing right? 😂
Oof-
What a fat mood
Don't confuse it withe "love" could be what you only, are feeling. Many different kinds of attractions.. Took me the span of a lifetime to figure this out, hope it helps you! You'll know
"Love" when I find it..
I've been talking to a woman for over 2 years now but we haven't met yet. We video chat sometimes and text all the time. She's beautiful but im way more emotionally attracted to her, I haven't felt like this since I was engaged years ago. Such an amazing bond.
I thought I had a deep emotional connection with someone but it turns out he already has someone else currently. Watching this video was honestly pretty painful :/
I think this is the one big reason I've never stuck into relationships....never had much emotion connections, nothing ended up working out like we thought
Same here
Why those videos are so soothing🥺🥺this voice and cute cartoons makes me feel like in a cloud😚☁️
Can you do a part 2 of this? As to how to develop an emotional attraction AND if it’s mutual?
when I saw this I literally went "Wow! I have no clue what that means 😃"
Dopamine secretions follows
Yay! Did you learn something new from this video?
@@Psych2go I did!
Nice pfp ya got there pal
@@Cloudm4n thanks :)
I'm SO emotionally attracted to my best friends and I don't want to part their side ever! 🥺🥺❤
I suggest you send a message to this powerful love spell caster to help me attract my ex after separation.❤❤❤❤
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I love your channel so much and your voice is so soothing. Your channel is really helpful and interesting. Thank you .
I never see physical features first. I see people's hearts and souls first. I hear the catch in their voice when something bothers them. I see the way their eyes sparkle when they are excited. I see the way their body language changes, even in the slightest way.
I’ve noticed that I feel safest with my close friend, I feel like I can say or do anything I feel in his presence cuz he’ll understand and defend me. It’s always a good time when I’m around him🥰 I love having him as my friend
Having such a good friend would help me a lot but yeah
Well I’ll be your friend if you need one.
@@speepo thank you (:
A few years ago I actually found someone I felt so comfortable with, I was attracted to him in an emotional way, but not in a physical way.
He confessed he had feelings for me, and I felt bad to friendzone him.
I really hoped it wouldn't ruin our friendship, because it felt so special and rare.. I was really doubting myself if I didn't want a relationship with him, but I didn't see myself with him in a physical way.
Now we don't talk anymore, quite sad to think about sometimes
Thanks for this video! And just because of that I am pretty sure of one thing: very special person, which is my Filipina girl, I count 8 out of 8 strongly emotional attractions from each other!!
Salamat po, mahal ko!!!
♥️♥️♥️
Kudos to the animator I really liked the style of this video. Keep it up!
Your voice is do satisfying, it makes me relax and go to sleep
My relationship with my online boyfriend has all the signs listed above. That makes me happy :3
*OH. MY. GOSH.*
I just read the desc and I says that the animator was Naphia-
*I'm such a BIG fan!!* Ekkkk!! >w<
Who here is a fan of Naphia too?? 😁
The captions:
-hey *segdegoers*
- *psytico's* aim
yes, i am emotionally atracted to someone
Will be waiting for this moment to happen to me
All the signs seem to be fitting from my part. However, I have no clue if all these boxes are checked from the other person's perspective. What is this? Does the other person feel an emotional connection with me then?
I think if you do all this with them but they have no sign of being uncomfortable then it's a yes
Imma send this to my BFF now.
never had anything like this before 🥺
When I have an emotional attraction to a guy, is there a possibility that I'll love him?
probably yeah
If you're alloromantic then there's a possibility. Just remember that emotional attraction doesn't have to be connected to romantic attraction. You can be emotionally attracted to your friends, family and etc.
Sorry! I just saw this xD
Ah I see thank you for your explanation, Luisa :D
Me..having those feelings towards my best friend but not my boyfriend. And I ooopp
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I suggest you send a message to this powerful love spell caster to help me attract my ex after separation.
That sounds like my friend and me🥰We understand us good and I really love her laugh,my friend is just like me wich is funny😂
Me, relating to all of this with my girlfriend: 👁👄👁
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*i have like no idea who you are*
This art style 🥺🥺✨✨😌😌😌💖💖💖💖
Hey Psych2Go, do you think you could make some vids about aromantics and/or people, who are just happy on their own? I know love/crushes stuff is relatable for many people, but I feel like society is pushing aromantics into relationship and they should be more understood
Love your content btw ^^
Thanks for your suggestion!! We will let the team know :) Stay tuned!
8 Signs of emotional attraction
1: You feel understood by them 0:50
2: You love talking to them 1:23
3: You admire their qualities 1:54
4: Your values are in sync 2:27
5: You care about their opinion 2:57
6: You turn to them for advice 3:20
7:You don’t get sick of each other 3:39
8: You can be vulnerable with them 4:00
You should do a video on loud noises. And why some people Hate them.
Never began for emotioncels
Everytime I watch your videos I feel like I know a bit more myself
It’s hard to find someone to talk to for hours
I needed to hear this
Who here smiled through the whole video like and idiot 😆
Did you realte to any?
*YASSSS*
I don't feel attracted to anyone since im aromantic but I WISH I COULD I wish i was able to feel those feelings
Be careful what you wish for, be grateful for what you have and make it your own!
@@MC-dz8be of course I'm grateful for what i have I just wish I wasn't so numb and empty all the time
@@ivythealiencat sorry about that no offense intended, would you say you've always been so numb? Ignore me if you don't want to get into it, I would understand.
@@MC-dz8be I cant remember when I started being numb I guess it happened too gradual to notice
@@ivythealiencat so you would say that at one time in your life you weren't numb. Is that safe to asume?
Emotional attraction becomes love❤❤💓
I have emotional attraction with my big sis she the beat
This video proved I have feelings for a girl
I love this so much
Your videos are very helpful and interesting but the pop up on the screen over your videos makes it very heard to read some of the things you are saying because of all of them pop ups over your videos but your videos are great I watch and listen to your videos most days 😁😁😁😁
Wowee I feel this way abt one of my best guy friends and I realized months ago I had feelings for him. I NEED ADVICE!
I'm curious why emotional attraction isn't included in the 5 types of attraction??
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the whole ‘5 types of attraction’ thing is kinda bs. I mean there’s romantic, sexual, platonic, emotional, aesthetic, sensual, familial, intellectual, + so many more. (And attraction doesn’t make you whole, don’t feel bad if you don’t feel a type of attraction)
Is this a sign because me & him are planning to go on a date so I'm happy
You are just amzing to me 🥰❤️
*8 signs of emotional attraction*
1. you feel understood by them 0:51
2. you love talking to them 1:23
3. you admire a lot of their qualities 1:55
4. your values are in sync 2:28
5. you care about their opinion 2:57
6. you turn to them for advice 3:20
7. you don’t get sick of each other 3:41
8. you can be vulnerable with them 4:02
thanks for the video!
Ty
Thanks!!
•Lovely Friend• you’re welcome!!
Annie Brannon ofc! 💛
Ty n le sigh I suppose thats why the feelings stay even though they can be gone for long periods
Does anyone else ship those two cute-ass little characters so fricken much or is it just me?
Omg I thought it was only me-
YES
Should we do a story around them? lol
@@Psych2go yes
@@Psych2go yessssssssss plss
Who else randomly found Pysch2Go one day and has been watching ever since?
why does my comment always get hearted instantly lol thanks
Me
Meee
Me
Meeee Like I just can’t stop
Emotional attraction is really painful. I've genuinely experienced this with one person only and I get upset and hurt if they're not around. It's such a hurtful and a delightful feeling both at the same time. Feels like obsession. It's so much harder to let go of someone who makes you feel this way instead of someone who you're just infatuated with.
Me, an asexual, thinking this was the only attraction that existed
Same lmao
🤣
Yup
mood
As someone who's a very picky Demi-
Mood.
Me, a demisexual who’s clearly having feelings for a close friend: wait but is that REALLY what I’m feeling
Same😕
Same
Same ;-;
Why the hell says that this is from 5 days ago when it has been published right now???
Same
I'm so blessed to have found my best friends who are emotionally super close to me.
Best friends are the best! Did you find this video relatable to you?
@@Psych2go yes, completely. I think adversities in my life brought them out and made them shine. Can't imagine my life without them anymore :))
Psych2Go Im a youngster, trying to learn more about psychology and trying to be more emotionally intelligent. Do you have any advice to help me?
That moment that you realized... That they look like Baymax but with plant hairs..
Lol
I'm hoping to eventually meet someone that I feel a connection to in this way.
All I can say is that it takes time and when you find them you’ll know they are the one
You will.
I need THAT someone now tho😢
Sad thing is, COVID's been making that goal pretty much impossible.
@@PremierRikLatyeskov not anymore
Now I understand why I feel this way about certain people.
I can think of a few off the top of my head lol.
this poor reply section, I feel bad for the original commenter lmao
Lmfao why did so many bots reply to the same comment
@@aviomons I tought the same thing. Like... wtf is this?
@@erm12302 Lol, they deleted it.
I love the narrator’s voice and the animations are just so cute 😍🥰❤️❤️❤️
Thank you! I totally agree with you!
Psych2Go 😊😊😊
Ding Dong Doodles oh, there was a bot that was spamming
Ding Dong Doodles ok jeez, stop being so triggered 🙄
I’m emotionally attracted to my friends, but I still don’t feel comfortable being vulnerable with them :/
are you a wizard? how did you comment 1 month ago on a video from 5 minutes ago?
@@juicykiwi7347 yeah I notice that...he's a Russian time traveler
All the comments like this; I think this vid was locked in an "undisclosed location" and released...
ur not emotionally attracted to them if u cant be vulnerable with them
I remember being emotionally attracted to a friend once, we were on the phone one night gazing at the stars and talking about the universe. It was one of the most significant moments in my life
This also applies to platonic love right? I really admire my best friends and these kinda relate to me
Of course!
I’m aroace but I feel these in my platonic relationships so yep :)
Absolutely!..
For sure!
this just reminded me of my boyfriend 🥺👉🏽👈🏽💖 it's been difficult with the long distance due to the current situation but we finally met yesterday and everything just fell into place
That's great news! Meanwhile I've actually grown much closer to my best friend because of the situation 😆
I'm in a similiar situation too!
Howd the breakup go? Long distance never works for the female.
Your voice is so relaxing!
Me: *Soemone who has never been in a relationship and yet still comes to watch the videos about relationships or emotions that surround the topic* Heh... Why am I here...?
In all seriousness through, I think this can go alone with friends and family members we are close to. I have a best friend I feel very comfortable with and can talk to him about anything and he understands because he's going through something similar. It's a nice thing to have that kind of person. I don't do this often with people either from having terrible trust issues. I could talk to him on the phone for a long time and not get tired, and I usually hate talking on the phone with people. I don't mind seeing them now and then but I don't need constant interaction with seeing or hearing them. I'm very interverted and love being alone, and when I don't mind talking to someone for hours, you better believe that they are special.
Thanks for sharing! This not only applies to romantic relationship but to your family or friends. I am glad you have a best friend that you’re comfortable to talk about anything. Sometime we just need that best friend to be beside us. Did you find this video relatable to your life?
@@Psych2go So true. Yeah I did for the most part. It took me back when either or us were struggling and the other person would help them out however we could. Thanks! I always enjoy your guys' videos. They're simple and fun.
Haven't had anybody to have those type conversations with in about 20 years... I miss my best friend..
Like basic attraction, you never saw it coming. This unexpected quality of emotional attraction makes it even more appealing.
Did I just send this to my crush to explain more accurately why I like them?
Yes, yes I did.
I’m going to do the same except I won’t directly say it you are a genius 😂
for me, actual attraction to someone quite literally starts on an emotional level, kinda makes being me a lot harder when everyone around me thinks I should just be physically attracted to people one way or the other regardless of my emotional state
This is exactly what I felt with my former best friend of seven years. I realized I was in love and told her, but she ghosted me. It has been a difficult 4 months because I literally think about and miss her everyday. I feel like I’ll never have the same feelings about anyone again. I would have done anything for her and wish she didn’t leave me without explanation.
This has helped me understand some things that have happened recently, thank you
Nobody has a perfect life. Everybody has problems. Some people just know how to deal with it in a best way.
-The Shades
I get emotionally attached with people too quickly but that vulnerability is terrifying to live with
I had this one I'm emotionally attracted with.. ~~
Sometimes, its so hard to see him in pain and sick.. As if I am him.. and he is same.
Its so amazing, how human nature works.. Very interesting.. The bond it can make from one person with another person..
At first that person was my worse enemy, not physically but just within me (so I tried to avoid him a lot), because he always got mad and angry, I didn't like his temper.. But somehow.. Time passed by and I wanted to give him love because I felt like he was like that because he needed some love...
And then it truly worked..
He became so soft and warm-hearted as if someone was able to understand him..
Now, he is the most gentle and kindest person I've ever known. He knows I don't like his temper so he doesn't get angry anymore unlike before..
Key insights
💖 Emotional attraction is a key ingredient in making our bonds with those around us meaningful and intimate.
😌 When you feel understood by someone, it's easy to be around them and you can be yourself.
💭 You deeply enjoy talking to this person no matter how many hours you spend with them, you never seem to run out of things to discuss because you find them so endlessly fascinating and engaging.
🤗 You even appreciate all their little quirks and mannerisms, like the way they laugh or move because you feel so emotionally attracted to them.
💞 When you share the same core values with someone, you can't help but gravitate toward them and become emotionally invested in your relationship with them.
😍 If the feelings you have for them are rooted in emotional attraction, no amount of time you spend together will ever make you lose interest in them.
🌟 Over time, emotional attraction strengthens bonds with the people we love, making our relationships endure.
That moment that you realized... That they look like Baymax but with plant hairs..
This was a great video! It seemed to show signs of emotional attraction that would be displayed by people with secure attachment styles. I would love to see a video similar to this that demonstrates what emotional attraction may look like for people with insecure attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, & fearful avoidant)!
As an asexual, this is about as intense as it gets for me :p Speaking of, I'd really love it if you made a video about asexuality sometime! It might help more people to understand- and maybe not treat us like broken, unnatural freaks. Sometimes ignorance can be very hurtful. Thank you xx
^^^^
This, yes
You know.. sometimes I wish I never met them. But at the same time i’m glad I do? Does that even make sense?
Yes?
Yeah I know what you mean
Me about my best friend, who I’m hopelessly in love with.
Paula Sofía Contreras oh my goodness i’ve never related to anything more. I’ve liked my very good friend for so long. I promised myself to never tell him and just get over him because I know he has alot of stuff he needs to figure out, and I don’t want to be another problem. It just hurts so much that I can’t let go of that hope.
Feel..or felt the same. Because I‘m stupid I confessed to her. We‘re „no longer friends at the moment“. She‘s avoiding me. I‘m avoiding her. Even changed train connections to not spend more time together.
She wants me to move on, because she doesn’t want to hurt me & because she doesn‘t know how to deal with my attention and affection. Really long story.
Maybe sometimes we‘ll get back to the friendship we had. Maybe we won‘t. It sucks. Can‘t recommend confessing at this point. ://
Random question I have, how do you know if someone crushes on you in a long distance friendship?
FR
For me, you'll know with how much time they invest in you
@@cesunyan1563 nice
I can relate to this. I've had a crush on my long distance friend since forever, but never said a thing, which I really don't recommend.
He told me he liked me three weeks ago and now we're going out lol
@@anonumosGirl 8. You can be vulnerable with them. (...) When you have an emotional attraction to someone, you're comfortable displaying your emotions around them.
"At least out loud, I won't say I'm in love..." no but seriously I DONT WANT TO ADMIT IT TO HIM I THINK HES SO COOL AND WHENEVER WE HANG OUT WE JOKE ABOUT HOW OUT PARENTS THINK WE'RE DATING AND I DONT WANT TO LOSE HIM AS A FRIEND BUT THE ONLY TIMES IVE EVER ADMITTED MY FEELINGS TO PEOPLE I EDNED UP BEING SUPER AWKWARD.........
...that actually felt kinda good to get off my chest, even if its just to random people on the internet...
I know this feeling ahah it's hard to know what to do in this situation, you want to go for it and at the same time keep him as a friend for life