Anti List: Caving/Spelunking, Scuba Diving, being on a "Reality" TV Show, Walking on Coals, Botox, Burning Man, Ballon Ride, Car Racing, Space Ride, go on anymore Carnaval Rides...maybe a Ferris Wheel, Zip Line, Storm Chase, spend a night in an Ice Castle or for that matter do an ice plunge on New Years, Hot Pepper Challanges or even a Hot Dog eating contest, are a few more that I would add to the same things that are on your list. Great topic!
❤️ I’m 71 and your anti-bucket list contains everything I wouldn’t do either. I would add holding a tarantula or a snake and I wouldn’t swim with sharks. I do have a fear of deep water so no lakes or rivers beyond the shallow end of shoreline.
Snakes feel amazing actually. I was afraid until a friend had one and I got to handle it. Loved it. They just feel really neat, not cold or slimy at all.
I agree on the tattoo. I’ve never, ever seen a tattoo on someone and thought “that’s beautiful” or “that’s cool”. It’s usually the thought that the tattoo removes some of their beauty. I see it as a minus not a plus.
I’ve never had the thought a tattoo is beautiful either!! I see a beautiful arm and cringe because of a busy mess of lines. Most tattoos would be great on a coffee cup.
I agree. I think tattoos are like graffiti on a building, i.e. a defacement, and think that the only people who can withstand them are those who are already extremely good looking to start with, like Angelina Jolie or David Beckham, and even then their tattoos do nothing for their looks.
Riding on a motorcycle was always on my anti-bucket list, too, until I once found myself dating a motorcycle enthusiast. He wanted me to ride SO much, and I was in love, so finally I was like "Oh . . . alright." Terror. Sheer and utter terror is the only adequate description for how I felt on that 10-mile trek with me holding onto him for dear life doing everything I could possibly do to quell the primal scream fighting to get out. LOL. NEVER. AGAIN.
I never had a desire to visit Vegas until I visited my girlfriend who lives near there in Henderson. I too am an early to bed gal and you can do a lot in Vegas during the day which I did. No crowds! I ate at good restaurants, visited museums, toured casino's and shopped. The only time I was out late was to see a Donny Osmond show and I had front row seats. Oh my heart!
I’m not a gambler but still love Las Vegas as there is so much stuff to see and much of it is free. And the shows are great too. So glad I saw Celine Dion at Caesar’s Palace. And I love Cirque du Soleil, especially Mystere. And then there is the food😊
I am with you on all of these! At 63 I’m fully aware of my limitations and am ok with them. I worked for 30 years as a Registered Nurse- 18 of those years I worked in a big city hospital and took care of trauma patients. It always amazed me the ways people came up with to hurt themselves. Maybe that influenced me to be more conservative. I so enjoy your videos and content!
With you all the way! I am not a risk taker at any degree, don’t see advantage in it, I’ll drive a block away just to have a traffic signal instead of crossing through traffic. I’m also an avid reader and do not read books with unhappy endings. I want to be entertained.
I tried reading the first Game of Thrones book and stopped early when they pushed a kid out of a window. I read it twice to be sure I read it right, then put the book down and gave it away at an exchange.
What I love about your “Anti” Bucket List is that you stand your ground as to who you are and your video inspires others to just say “NO” which can be equally as inspiring as saying “YES”. Love love love this video. Thanks for sharing.
I will be 70 in a couple months. I have ridden/driven a motorcycle, shot guns, floated the Grand Canyon and The Salmon (River of No Return) rivers, ridden a helicopter, backpacked, tent camped, skied, and more. I cannot or will not do almost all of those again. If there is a time for every season, now is my season for less strenuous, and quieter, endeavors. Cruises to Alaska, train rides across Canada, car tours from the Florida Keys up to New England for the Fall leaves. I read War & Peace, Crime & Punishment, and the Dune, Harry Potter, Outlander and the Thomas Covenant Chronicles. Don’t need another long series either. Mainly, I want to do just what I want to do now, and not what my younger self thought of doing. Age well my friends!
I agree with everything on your bucket list - EXCEPT Vegas. I’m not a gambler either, but we went to Vegas to see Elton John at the Coliseum, the last week of his residency there. We had a fantastic time there. The show was incredible. The food scene is phenomenal. We went to Tiffany’s where they allowed me to try on a US$65,000 Diamond ring, just for the heck of it. And we left the strip to explore the Arts district, where nearby there are a ton of vintage shops. And the rest of the time we lounged by the pool - in FEBRUARY! All in all just a way to say, there is so much more to Vegas than gambling.
Las Vegas used to be a cheap holiday, flight and hotel for $300. I don't gamble ( i work too hard for my money), don't drink, loved the pool and got to do alot of people watching. It was the people watching that turned me off Vegas. You didn't see people smiling or having fun. Spouses arguing, kids crying, there were alot of pawn shops, the best thing was no snow.
I agree with all of your items. One thing that I would add is reconnecting with toxic family members. Tried this a few years ago with my estranged sister when I was in my late 50s and thought that it was time to give her a 2nd chance. Wrong! She threatened to sue me.
I'm 45 and my list is nearly identical. I've run many marathons though they are getting more tiring for me. Going to massive festivals is also on my anti-bucket list. Thanks for another fun video!
Hi Jen…new listener here. I recently read “The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society” by Mary Anne Shaffer and Annie Barrows. I skipped over thinking it was a fluff book. My daughter sent me a recommendation. Not fluff! Totally worth a look. I didn’t want it to end.
Roller coasters are also on my antibucket list, closely followed by Ferris wheels. As a retired nurse we used to call motorcyclists organ donors. They were generally young with young organs.
Easy to skid on gravel, sand or a wet and/or oily patch. Serious head injuries are common. Someone at school was in hospital for a long time with a really bad leg injury after being in a motorbike accident with her boyfriend -- I never forgot that.
Jen, I adore you. That was the best video! I'm 65, and can honestly say that everything on your anti-bucket list, is on mine. You had my laughing so hard. No way I'd jump out of a plane and skydive nor bungee jump, which my daughter has done. No tattoos for me, though the same daughter who bungee jumped, got her 1st tattoo when she was 18 (without my knowledge), and at 39, she's covered from the arms down. I'm not climbing any mountains. I've been in Vegas just for a layover, and I hated just being in the airport for 3 hours. Slot machines everywhere. I'd much rather spend my money on a nice piece of jewelry too! I'm usually in my pajamas and in my bed by 8, and hopefully asleep by 9, since I'm up by 4. I traveled alot before my divorce, so there's no place that I'm dying to go to. I just want to stay healthy enough to watch my 2 year old grandson grow up. By the way, my daughter, the adventurous, tattooed one, is an incredible vegan chef, who was on Beat Bobby Flay, and she did. Her IG page is quite interesting, and 90% of her customers aren't vegan. Feel free to check her out. On my bucket list as well, would be to eat her meals everyday! @missrachelspantry Thank you for sharing your video. We could be wonderful friends!❤❤😊
Great idea for a video and I thoroughly enjoyed watching it. Here's my take on your list: 1. I do not ever want to do a bungee jump, no thank you. However, I would consider doing a buddy-jump out of a plane with a parachute. I know I'd be too scared to jump out on my own, but I'd give it a go if I was strapped to an experienced instructor 😊 2. Nope, I love reading, but I'm not into reading any of those books that you mentioned either. 3. Why would I want to eat something that could, potentially, kill me?? 4. No, I've never wanted to ride a motorcycle either; not even as a passenger. I have friends and family who have motorbikes and have joined motorbike clubs, but I have never been tempted by it at all. 5. I've been to New York too and I loved it. I agree with you about Times Square; I was underwhelmed, to say the least. I'm also with you when it comes to celebrating New Year, I'm usually asleep in bed well before midnight 😴 6. Mountain climbing is something I wouldn't do now at the age of 65. Maybe I might have liked it when I was a lot younger, but, unfortunately, it didn't occur to me to try it back then. 7. Again, running a marathon is something that I might've enjoyed when I was much younger, if I'd ever thought of giving it a go, but not now. 8. I went to Las Vegas a few years ago. I didn't particularly want to go as, like you, I don't gamble and just thought that that's all there is to Vegas. My husband at the time wanted to go; so, I agreed to us tagging 4 nights in Vegas onto the end of a holiday in the US. I loved it and wished we had booked to stay there longer! Neither of us were gamblers and so we ignored all the casinos and discovered that there was so much more to do and see. It was great and I would go again if the opportunity arose 😍 9. I have never, ever wanted to have a tattoo; so, I will never get one. Like you, I'm not frightened of needles, I just don't like the look of them and can't see the attraction of them. Thank you for another enjoyable and thought provoking video 😊
Never thought of an anti bucket list, but mine would have many of yours. At 54, I’m coming to terms with limitations and it’s tough. Used to want to skydive, bungee jump, etc. Recently I started babysitting as a side hustle, and even that is much harder than I thought. Love your videos, and the information you give!
All are also on my own anti-bucket list, plus a few more as well ... I like that getting old/older helps clarify what comes on this list - without guilt not apology. Liberating.
I am laughing !!!! I am a book, reading person, but I truly understand you! I have a family that is forever encouraging me to do something that (an opportunity) to do something that I just am not interested in. I am getting better at saying no.
I have ridden on the back of a motorcycle. Got burned on the muffler. I still have a scar. Totally agree on the books, Vegas, tattoos, and bungee jumping. Another thing I have no desire to do is visit Russia. Not in these days & times. I’m American. I’d end up in the gulag. Come to think of it, I’m not crazy about the idea of traveling anywhere anymore. I’m 65. I have some pretty serious health issues and just feel more comfortable staying home close to my doctors.
I’m very conservative with traveling, even though I’m only 44. I went across Canada as a kid and as a teen a few times with family who loved road trips and flying, and we visited Toronto and Montreal all the time, camped in Algonquin… I won’t travel any distance further than 2 hours again in Canada again, now that I’m an adult. I’ll never take a domestic flight again, not even even for funerals (the worst possible reason to travel, imo, and it should be socially acceptable for people to skip any and all funerals or weddings that aren’t taking place in the town where you reside).
I’m 75. Going on a cruise next month to the ABC islands. We have 4 more cruises booked that will take us through this year and next year. We have been on 46 cruises so far since we met in 1996. We love to travel.
Surprisingly, this same list could have been written by me, with these additions: Swimming with sharks....no. Joining a seniors all inclusive bus tour.....nope. Descending onto a cave or cavern....never. Adding art inspired gel nails....ummmm no. Soaking in my wonderful neighbour's large swim spa.....nada. Although I can very often be found sitting pool side with a refreshing juice and enjoying the conversations! No fun here! :)
I agree with every single item on your anti-bucket list! And you are so right - some things you still want to do are just past the window of opportunity, meaning they would not be a smart choice. Love your videos!
I am new to your channel, and I quite enjoy it. I would never get a tattoo or go to any Asian countries. I enjoy looking at videos of those countries and that is fine with me.
Love this idea. Can get a bit down knowing things on my bucket list will not happen. But, an anti bucket list can certainly change my mood. Thanks for sharing.
That’s what I thought as well, an anti bucket list seems more reassuring than some of the things on my bucket list that I’m realizing probably won’t happen.
As Clint Eastwood said as Dirty Harry, "a man (or woman) has to know his limitations". This is totally true - if you know what you cannot do, then you have total freedom on everything else.
I'm right there with you on all of these. On New Year's Eve. my ideal is to watch a marathon of Start Trek or Twilight Zone episodes and then hit the hay by 10 PM. No late nights or boozy hangovers for me either. I was a big runner through my 40s, but I never had a desire to run a marathon. Love your channel!
I am 59 years old and I love that you call it an anti-bucket list. I just made a list of things I called the things I never need to do. My list and your list are extremely similar. I never have the need to go on an ocean cruise, although I know you have done that. And I have been a passenger on a motorcycle two times and both times I was injured so that didn’t turn out well. One time I burnt my leg on the muffler and another time the driver was passing on the right moving very slowly, but we, ran into a car and injured my knee. Anyway, things that you did not say or on your anti bucket list that are on mine would be hot air balloon ride, scuba diving, karaoke, zip line, and parasailing. And as far as getting a tattoo,like my 30 year-old son says just get it on a T-shirt and wear it when you’re in the mood And guarantee you won’t always be in the mood so why would you get a tattoo that you could never take off? Loved this list.
just stopping in to support your choice about the 'puffer fish' - I had it once about 10 years ago at a place in Seattle because the Sales guy I was with was curious. The mucosal consistency (I'm a texture person) and lack of a taste means I'd prioritize pretty much anything else. I remember it being expensive, too. You aren't missing a damn thing if you don't eat it! lol. 😆
I use to own three horses. I don’t desire to jump from high places. Don’t care for New York City. I had a boyfriend in my 20’s who owned a motorcycle. Loved it. I don’t like reading books but love to do research on health. I love to travel and my favorite area is the Mediterranean. Love hiking but not mountain climbing. I love walking daily but I think running will ruin your knees. I have been to Las Vegas several times but I don’t gamble. I have a small rose tattoo on my ankle. Just one. I did it to connect with my stepson. Thanks for the video!
Hi Jen, New Patreon member here! Thank you. One of the sweet things about getting older is not caring as much about what other people think. This makes it easy to say, naw-not interested in that bungie jump. Me either! Classes in pottery? Sign me up. Moving to Merida Mexico, on it! Just one year and 5 months to go!
I agree with a lot of items on your list. For me, unfortunately, I hate crowds of pushy people. So, despite being half Egyptian with a mother who was born and raised in Cairo, I don't think I'm ever going to end up visiting Egypt. All the travel videos look chaotic and loud. I can't even handle Tijuana
Agree with all your list,Jen! 53 and no tattoos for me either. Heck, I don’t even like putting bumper stickers on my car 😂. Would only add swimming with sharks &/or scuba diving. Another great video, very refreshing. Love your style ❤
Happy early birthday! You are a breath of fresh air--while our lists and sub lists (e.g., the books we won't read just to say we've read them) may differ, I feel a kinship in our common anti's. 😄 Have a lovely day!
I went to Vegas because I have family there. Did zero gambling. Saw Cirque de Soleil shows (before they closed down), walked along the strip & checked out the local natural scenery. Red Rocks is great for hiking. There is also a lovely botanical garden. Those are awesome! Much better than gambling.
I’m not a gambler either, but visited Las Vegas and saw Cirque Du Soleil “O”, the beautiful fountains and ate at the rotating restaurant “Stratosphere”. I throughly enjoyed that trip. My anti-bucket list includes “white water rafting” I like watching their videos, but I’ll stick with kayaking on calm waters. ❤❤❤
Some of the things I put on my old bucket list (years ago!)…should have been on my anti-bucket list 😂 I gave up on the whole bucket list thing when I realized I wasn’t having ANY fun‼️ Now I’m perfectly happy just to BE 💚
I've done 3 things on your anti list. I owned a motorcycle (when in my 20s), been to Vegas (loved it, even without the gambling. There is a lot of cool stuff to do.), and I have 3 tattoos. (F 60)
I have a friend turning 60 this year and sky diving is what she wants to do for her birthday. I said I will happily watch her from the ground. 😂 definitely not going to jump from a plane ✈️
I enjoyed this one so so much! And just laughed my ass off! No jumping out of anything for me and no reading to Tolstoy as well! You are so entertaining and smart thank you so much for your videos
I love your list! Completely agree. I did read War and Peace the holiday after finishing high school. God knows why I waded through it - I can't say I enjoyed it... I had to go to Las Vegas once for a conference and I don't gamble. Didn't waste a cent. It was kind of like Disneyland for adults. Mountains have never appealed: a walk, maybe, but I just don't get struggling to get to the top of a mountain. Hate tattoos and don't see the point of them. No longer interested in snorkelling (too many sharks here in Australia); don't like things involving speed or height too much (glass bridges, car racing); spending a lot of money to eat fancy food at a restaurant; go anywhere that has really loud music.... And I'd never go scuba diving in a cave, or anywhere at night... I'm 72, been there, done that, saw the movie, read the book....
I'll be 40 next year, and I never thought about creating an official anti-bucket list. I have one, but never identified it until I saw this video, lol. I'm with your 1st 1000% and I had a good laugh at the tattoo comment. I was scared because my son wanted to give me his first "big" tattoo that he did on someone else. It's not too bad, but like you said it is permanent. Thank you for creating this video. I had a good time with it.
Anna K...never! I didn't mention in the video that I *have* read Dead Souls by Gogol, which I somewhat enjoyed, but I've got a TBR pile that's enormous and adding her back into it, just won't happen! ;)
We have some similar "not ever in my lifetime" items, but I live very close to Las Vegas and have to say it's one of my favorite places to visit. I love people watching, I love touring the gorgeous resorts on the strip, they have some of the most amazing shows in the world, and of course amazing food. Plus as a single woman I feel safe there, walking around, because of the stringent security. It's basically my happy place, lol. I also wanted to suggest (if you haven't read already) the Earth's Children series by Jean Auel... Very long series that transports readers to the Ice Age, and it is incredible. Anyway, love your channel - keep these videos coming! ❤😊
Crime and Punishment is a cracking read, but otherwise I agree with everything on your list! I would add space, submarines and diving - not gonna happen.
Oh, War and Peace. Growing up in Russia, you had to tackle the whole thing in high school! It was a nightmare. I still hate Tolstoy with his never-ending homilies...
I tuned in specifically to see if, like me, sky diving is NOT on your list. You did not fail me. Climbing Mt. Everest is another that has NEVER been on the list, this even before I read "Into Thin Air."
No going to parties where I don't know people well, no scuba diving, no upside down roller coasters, no dating reality shows, no bungee jumping, no running, and (maybe no) cruises. Thought of being in the middle of the ocean scares me.
*Anna Karenina* -- and *War and peace* -- are slow-moving (like much of life). I only read bits of them in the hope of learning something. Scanning them is one thing, actually reading them all the way through feels to me like something that belongs in a different era, a time when there were far fewer distractions and complexities.
You are absolutely right. It is a different era with different characters. Leo Tolstoy is one of the greatest philosophers, but it seems we are unaccustomed now to slow down and penetrate into his depth. Our reading preferences do change with time, as well.
I so agree with pretty much every thing on your list. I had a mid life crisis at 50 and now have a butterflie tattooed on my left-hand shoulder blade. I only have the one. I also agree with the person who won't hold spiders and snakes. I love that you have a list of things you definitely won't do .🎉
Many of these things are on my anti-bucket list, too, especially anything related to free-falling. BUT, I do have one tattoo. I used to say "I don't even put bumper stickers on my car and they're not permanent" but I have one (yes, just one) representing my medical battles with cancer. My son said I'd get more now that I have one but 3 years later, I still have just one. I guess I'm the exception that proves the rule, eh? I love your channel. Keep posting.
You helped me add some to my list. I was hanging Roman shades and nodding my head in avid agreement about puffer fish. Hadn’t thought of it! It’s securely added. I nearly fell off my ladder howling with laughter when you mentioned the motorcycle. I was talking out loud to myself about the fish and my favorite hobby, my motorcycle, in a little debate with myself, and then your next topic was ride a motorcycle. You’re right, it’s risky. I don’t disagree at all. I think about the risk a lot, but I do love it. My BFF rides a trike, and we’re both retired now and have long distance trips planned for Autumn. This was a fun discussion.
I don't know how one would disagree with an anti bucket list ,given each is a very personal list. There's a number of things on your list that I've already done but having done them ,wouldn't redo. Love the video especially the outing with the pupper.
I love your sense of humor and your play of life’s stuffs. Continuing to enjoy your channel vids, they lift my spirits, inspire me to do some thinking I otherwise wouldn’t, and bring a chuckle all at the same time. Thank you for being here.
Age 62 here and I LOVE the idea of an anti-bucket list. The book section hit home the most. I too was livid at Anna Karenina. But I did enjoy War and Peace, frustrating as it was (all. that. French) and the six months it took me to read it. I totally respect your decision not to bother, even Moby Dick, which I love…even the boring whaling chapters. 🤷♂️ Infinite Jest? We’ll see if I ever get around to that one. Oh, as a former 27-year New Yorker, you’re DEFINITELY not missing a thing with the whole New Year’s madness.
So I’m definitely not going to feel guilty anymore about not finishing, Anna Karenina. I did go skydiving several years ago and LOVED it. But I love some adrenaline pumping activities. Especially a good motorcycle ride.
I couldn't deal with Tolstoy either 😂 I did go on a motorcycle once when I was 18 and the driver was a safe, experienced one. But, I had a lot less fear of an early death back then. 😄 But, it was fun. I wouldn't do today at 70, though. 😮 --Paula in Ohio USA
Oh girl....I'm with you on every single thing on this list EXCEPT two. Vegas: There is SO much to do, even if you don't gamble (I do but shouldn't), drink (I don't), or stay out late (nope). I took my daughter on a trip there when she was 9 or 10, and we saw shows, went to the zoo and aquarium, swam in the pool, and ate a ton of good food. Definitely recommend! Tattoos: You are correct; it does become an addiction :-) I absolutely love mine. I'll also say that I have been the unfortunate recipient of not one but TWO awful pieces. I not-so-affectionately referred to them as my "prison tats" until I had them removed. And I promise you, it was exponentially more painful (and expensive) having them lasered off than it was having them put on, so I don't recommend it for anyone who isn't fully committed!
I totally agree on the high-brow books!!! There are a couple categories of books I just won’t read, I don’t see the value… also getting a tattoo is on my anti-bucket list. There is nothing I care about enough (even my children/spouse) to permanently mark my body for and anything I DO care that deeply about (again, children/spouse) would not feel respected or honored by my doing that. So I remain ink-free
Your video reminded me of a motorcycle ride, a short one, I went on with my brother-in-law, at the time. He was a very small man and there was barely anything to hold on to. I was scared. I think we only went a mile and I was yelling at him." Take me back home!". And he did.
I started a reverse bucket list. Things I've already done, but as I limited it (so far) to things that I had also wanted to do and not just gone along with, I haven't gotten very far with it. It could include riding a motorcycle, but that was just part of my childhood and no big deal at the time. And a hot air balloon ride, again as a youth and not my idea but fun. Maybe I should just expand it to include all the things.
I'm actually about 239 pages into War and Peace, as I picked it up out of sheer curiosity... I'm surprisingly enjoying it. That said?? I implore people to by all means not feel like you should read or not read a book because of what society or your conditioning tells you. Life is too short to read something you aren't enjoying!! I have a 100 page rule for anything I read - if I'm not invested in it after the first 100 pages, I quit reading it.
I love Vegas myself - there is something so over the top about it that I always enjoyed when I visited. Gambling was a very small part of it... But most other items you noted are also on my anti-bucket list (which didn't have a name until I watched your video). I enjoy your channel 😊
I really enjoy watching your content. I’m 40 and live in Japan and have been a teacher for 18 years. Just recently took my sister to Shibuya. She was surprised how small it was compared to Centra Beijing, but I agree that it is bigger than Times Square in New York. Love your content.
Most of what you listed plus scuba diving, space travel, rock climbing, visiting certain countries, and doing anything underground. Then there's the "did it once, don't need to do it again, ever" list. That includes eating sushi, eating blood sausage, going to an opera, and going on fair rides that spin me around. I have to say though I've never been, I would go to Vegas for the shows.
I have completed my bucket list. Bought a horse and purchased the SUV I always wanted. They were the last 2 things on my list. Greetings from Philadelphia PA USA
I got a tattoo at 60, a ladybug! At 70 I got a small coffee cup tattoo on my wrist, my friends ❤️ my choice, as I do til this day, I’m 72 currently, with no future tattoo plans! Ladybugs & coffee til the end!
I love the idea of an Anti Bucket list. I too have missed the window on some of the hikes you mentioned. I really know if they had been important to me I would have done them long ago. I too now would take a train to Machu Picchu. Glad to hear there is one. In my 20's to late early 50's I was a runner. I did a few marathons and many races and just ran for fun. I cycled and swam a lot as well. so happy I did that then as I loved it and was never injured. I stopped early 50's and started walking. It felt right for me. Also I do yoga which I love. I too will not ride a motorcycle as that time for me has passed. I thought about it however never pursued that. Just not interested. I love to travel so that is my passion and I do lots of that. I have even camped a bit on my travels loved it however not the way I do it often. thanks for the video and I am going to look more at my anti bucket list, so great. I too have books that I will never read. thanks Jen
Everything on your anti-bucket list would be on mine if I had one. 😄 And, I'm relieved to hear someone else say they (you) couldn't deal with Tolstoy. 😂 Back in my 20's (I'm now 70) I went to Vegas a few times.because my then spouse liked to go. Frankly, I wasn't impressed. But, I'm not a gambler by nature. I would have liked to have seen a couple of the shows. But, I can't recall why we didn't. But, I recall he wasn't jazzed by the idea and he was the money controller. 🤷 But, I thought Vegas was highly overrated. The two things that readily come to mind that I would put on my anti-bucket list would be scuba diving (afraid of deep water) and cave exploring or spelunking (hope I spelled that right) because I'm clausterphobic and don't want to be underground. But, to your skydiving, bungee jumping item, I would add anything involving heights. I have a fear of heights. Another lady commented she would add holding a tarantula or snake to her anti-bucket list. Yep, I'm with you on that one, too! 😮 😬 As always, great vlog Jen! Thanks and have a great week. 🙋 --Paula in Ohio USA
A fabulous anti-bucket list!!!! The only one I disagree with is tattoos- I have 2 small ones. I LOVE to read and I wholeheartedly agree with your choice of non reads. Those “classics” are just not for me. I adore traveling and hope to do more. I’m 67. Your Machu Picchu trip sounds wonderful. On the train. At this point, I cannot do the walking that I used to do. So any extreme adventure things are on my anti-bucket list: climbing, jumping, caving, even simpler thing like scuba diving. Nah. Your channel is great!
Jen I am nearly 61 years old and agree with all your bucket list. Mostly the 1st item. I would and could never do bungee jumping. Not a height thing just totally scares me to be falling off a bridge or mountain and hanging by my ankles. Nope never 😅😊
Agree with almost all of your items! I did Las Vegas only as part of a bigger trip to the Grand Canyon. I'm also not a big gambler, but I did enjoy the sights and the Cirque du Soleil shows! I would go back to see all those! And I have a few tattoos, and plans for more!
Ours are virtually identical except I live in Las Vegas, lol. If you ever find yourself here, there is so much more to it than gambling. And it's a gateway to Zion, and a myriad of other beautiful places. The older I get, the more I discover the virtues of in bed by 7:30 , lights out by 8:30.
An anti bucket list is a healthy thing to embrace.
Anti List: Caving/Spelunking, Scuba Diving, being on a "Reality" TV Show, Walking on Coals, Botox, Burning Man, Ballon Ride, Car Racing, Space Ride, go on anymore Carnaval Rides...maybe a Ferris Wheel, Zip Line, Storm Chase, spend a night in an Ice Castle or for that matter do an ice plunge on New Years, Hot Pepper Challanges or even a Hot Dog eating contest, are a few more that I would add to the same things that are on your list. Great topic!
I also have an anti-bucket list, but I call it my 'Hell No!' list 😉
I like this!!
hell no to the no. No naw...LOL!
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❤️ I’m 71 and your anti-bucket list contains everything I wouldn’t do either. I would add holding a tarantula or a snake and I wouldn’t swim with sharks. I do have a fear of deep water so no lakes or rivers beyond the shallow end of shoreline.
Same. I’m with you on those as well! 🐍 🕷️ 🦈
Oh my we're alike!!! I won't do any of those either!!! 🙄😥
Oh, yes: WATER and the rest! No way!
Snakes feel amazing actually. I was afraid until a friend had one and I got to handle it. Loved it. They just feel really neat, not cold or slimy at all.
@@jekku4688 that maybe but I won’t ever find out. I have a phobia about snakes.
I agree on the tattoo. I’ve never, ever seen a tattoo on someone and thought “that’s beautiful” or “that’s cool”. It’s usually the thought that the tattoo removes some of their beauty. I see it as a minus not a plus.
Piercings are not beautiful either!
Tattoos just look dirty to me.
I’ve never had the thought a tattoo is beautiful either!! I see a beautiful arm and cringe because of a busy mess of lines. Most tattoos would be great on a coffee cup.
I agree. I think tattoos are like graffiti on a building, i.e. a defacement, and think that the only people who can withstand them are those who are already extremely good looking to start with, like Angelina Jolie or David Beckham, and even then their tattoos do nothing for their looks.
Riding on a motorcycle was always on my anti-bucket list, too, until I once found myself dating a motorcycle enthusiast. He wanted me to ride SO much, and I was in love, so finally I was like "Oh . . . alright." Terror. Sheer and utter terror is the only adequate description for how I felt on that 10-mile trek with me holding onto him for dear life doing everything I could possibly do to quell the primal scream fighting to get out. LOL. NEVER. AGAIN.
I never had a desire to visit Vegas until I visited my girlfriend who lives near there in Henderson. I too am an early to bed gal and you can do a lot in Vegas during the day which I did. No crowds! I ate at good restaurants, visited museums, toured casino's and shopped. The only time I was out late was to see a Donny Osmond show and I had front row seats. Oh my heart!
Donny!
I’m not a gambler but still love Las Vegas as there is so much stuff to see and much of it is free. And the shows are great too. So glad I saw Celine Dion at Caesar’s Palace. And I love Cirque du Soleil, especially Mystere. And then there is the food😊
I drove through Las Vegas over 50 years ago. And all I could think of was how many poor people could be elevated on the light bills alone.😢
When I was 21 I sat where my elbow was on the table at Wayne Newton’s show in Vegas. Fun! Congrats on your front row fir Donnie Osmond!
I am with you on all of these! At 63 I’m fully aware of my limitations and am ok with them. I worked for 30 years as a Registered Nurse- 18 of those years I worked in a big city hospital and took care of trauma patients. It always amazed me the ways people came up with to hurt themselves. Maybe that influenced me to be more conservative. I so enjoy your videos and content!
With you all the way! I am not a risk taker at any degree, don’t see advantage in it, I’ll drive a block away just to have a traffic signal instead of crossing through traffic. I’m also an avid reader and do not read books with unhappy endings.
I want to be entertained.
I tried reading the first Game of Thrones book and stopped early when they pushed a kid out of a window. I read it twice to be sure I read it right, then put the book down and gave it away at an exchange.
@@Alverant You aren’t missing anything, imo. I’d rather just reread Lord of The Rings again :)
I don't like to read books with unhappy endings. either.
This is a very sensible anti-bucket list.
What I love about your “Anti” Bucket List is that you stand your ground as to who you are and your video inspires others to just say “NO” which can be equally as inspiring as saying “YES”. Love love love this video. Thanks for sharing.
I’m so happy that you made this video. So truthful about yourself
I will be 70 in a couple months. I have ridden/driven a motorcycle, shot guns, floated the Grand Canyon and The Salmon (River of No Return) rivers, ridden a helicopter, backpacked, tent camped, skied, and more. I cannot or will not do almost all of those again. If there is a time for every season, now is my season for less strenuous, and quieter, endeavors. Cruises to Alaska, train rides across Canada, car tours from the Florida Keys up to New England for the Fall leaves. I read War & Peace, Crime & Punishment, and the Dune, Harry Potter, Outlander and the Thomas Covenant Chronicles. Don’t need another long series either. Mainly, I want to do just what I want to do now, and not what my younger self thought of doing. Age well my friends!
"She dies." "It's more interesting in the movies." LOLOLOLOL 🤣
Years ago I started calling it my life list, because a trip around the world while I was sick, helped me recover.
I agree with everything on your bucket list - EXCEPT Vegas. I’m not a gambler either, but we went to Vegas to see Elton John at the Coliseum, the last week of his residency there. We had a fantastic time there. The show was incredible. The food scene is phenomenal. We went to Tiffany’s where they allowed me to try on a US$65,000 Diamond ring, just for the heck of it. And we left the strip to explore the Arts district, where nearby there are a ton of vintage shops. And the rest of the time we lounged by the pool - in FEBRUARY! All in all just a way to say, there is so much more to Vegas than gambling.
Las Vegas used to be a cheap holiday, flight and hotel for $300. I don't gamble ( i work too hard for my money), don't drink, loved the pool and got to do alot of people watching. It was the people watching that turned me off Vegas. You didn't see people smiling or having fun. Spouses arguing, kids crying, there were alot of pawn shops, the best thing was no snow.
Lots of good anti bucket list items. The only time you will see me running is if someone or something is chasing me!
I agree with all of your items. One thing that I would add is reconnecting with toxic family members. Tried this a few years ago with my estranged sister when I was in my late 50s and thought that it was time to give her a 2nd chance. Wrong! She threatened to sue me.
That seems to never work out only emotionally hurts you. Family members can be so ruthlessly toxic .Blessings Jeannie DeerHealer 🦌🙏📿💖💖💖
Our 'Anti; Bucket list is almost the same as yours. I would add I hate being in crowds made worse by loud music in restaurants and outdoor events.
Oh, yes! My nightmare would be to be in the center of thousands of people at a hard rock concert!
Im 24 and all of these items really resonated with me. Especially the marathon one, I hate running
I'm pleased to hear you've started this list early. There's no need to follow the crowd.
@@sbaumgartner9848 definitely! I’m very happy doing my own thing :)
I'm 45 and my list is nearly identical. I've run many marathons though they are getting more tiring for me. Going to massive festivals is also on my anti-bucket list. Thanks for another fun video!
I got up to see the sunrise twice. Once in the Maldives and once in San Antonio TX. Sunsets are so much more beautiful.
Hi Jen…new listener here.
I recently read “The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society” by Mary Anne Shaffer and Annie Barrows. I skipped over thinking it was a fluff book. My daughter sent me a recommendation. Not fluff!
Totally worth a look. I didn’t want it to end.
They made it into a movie and it's WONDERFUL!
Agree. Why would anyone jump out of a perfectly good airplane ✈
Roller coasters are also on my antibucket list, closely followed by Ferris wheels. As a retired nurse we used to call motorcyclists organ donors. They were generally young with young organs.
Easy to skid on gravel, sand or a wet and/or oily patch. Serious head injuries are common. Someone at school was in hospital for a long time with a really bad leg injury after being in a motorbike accident with her boyfriend -- I never forgot that.
Roller-coaster, NEVER again. But I LOVE Ferris wheels!
I'm 72, never have had a bucket list, never will. I got my one and only tattoo when I was 58 to make my body easy to identify if the need arises.
Well aren’t you just a bundle of joy.😂❤ knew I got that tattoo for a reason.
😂😂😂 They dental records for that! Here’s to another 72 years and hopefully the tattoo doesn’t shrink beyond recognition. ❤
Bucket lists seem like something for rich people?
Jen, I adore you. That was the best video!
I'm 65, and can honestly say that everything on your anti-bucket list, is on mine. You had my laughing so hard. No way I'd jump out of a plane and skydive nor bungee jump, which my daughter has done.
No tattoos for me, though the same daughter who bungee jumped, got her 1st tattoo when she was 18 (without my knowledge), and at 39, she's covered from the arms down.
I'm not climbing any mountains. I've been in Vegas just for a layover, and I hated just being in the airport for 3 hours. Slot machines everywhere. I'd much rather spend my money on a nice piece of jewelry too!
I'm usually in my pajamas and in my bed by 8, and hopefully asleep by 9, since I'm up by 4.
I traveled alot before my divorce, so there's no place that I'm dying to go to. I just want to stay healthy enough to watch my 2 year old grandson grow up.
By the way, my daughter, the adventurous, tattooed one, is an incredible vegan chef, who was on Beat Bobby Flay, and she did.
Her IG page is quite interesting, and 90% of her customers aren't vegan. Feel free to check her out. On my bucket list as well, would be to eat her meals everyday! @missrachelspantry
Thank you for sharing your video. We could be wonderful friends!❤❤😊
I immediately thought about bungy jumping and then you had it as your first anti bucket list 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same!
Same lol
Great idea for a video and I thoroughly enjoyed watching it.
Here's my take on your list:
1. I do not ever want to do a bungee jump, no thank you. However, I would consider doing a buddy-jump out of a plane with a parachute. I know I'd be too scared to jump out on my own, but I'd give it a go if I was strapped to an experienced instructor 😊
2. Nope, I love reading, but I'm not into reading any of those books that you mentioned either.
3. Why would I want to eat something that could, potentially, kill me??
4. No, I've never wanted to ride a motorcycle either; not even as a passenger. I have friends and family who have motorbikes and have joined motorbike clubs, but I have never been tempted by it at all.
5. I've been to New York too and I loved it. I agree with you about Times Square; I was underwhelmed, to say the least. I'm also with you when it comes to celebrating New Year, I'm usually asleep in bed well before midnight 😴
6. Mountain climbing is something I wouldn't do now at the age of 65. Maybe I might have liked it when I was a lot younger, but, unfortunately, it didn't occur to me to try it back then.
7. Again, running a marathon is something that I might've enjoyed when I was much younger, if I'd ever thought of giving it a go, but not now.
8. I went to Las Vegas a few years ago. I didn't particularly want to go as, like you, I don't gamble and just thought that that's all there is to Vegas. My husband at the time wanted to go; so, I agreed to us tagging 4 nights in Vegas onto the end of a holiday in the US. I loved it and wished we had booked to stay there longer! Neither of us were gamblers and so we ignored all the casinos and discovered that there was so much more to do and see. It was great and I would go again if the opportunity arose 😍
9. I have never, ever wanted to have a tattoo; so, I will never get one. Like you, I'm not frightened of needles, I just don't like the look of them and can't see the attraction of them.
Thank you for another enjoyable and thought provoking video 😊
Never thought of an anti bucket list, but mine would have many of yours. At 54, I’m coming to terms with limitations and it’s tough. Used to want to skydive, bungee jump, etc. Recently I started babysitting as a side hustle, and even that is much harder than I thought. Love your videos, and the information you give!
All are also on my own anti-bucket list, plus a few more as well ...
I like that getting old/older helps clarify what comes on this list - without guilt not apology.
Liberating.
I am laughing !!!! I am a book, reading person, but I truly understand you! I have a family that is forever encouraging me to do something that (an opportunity) to do something that I just am not interested in. I am getting better at saying no.
I have ridden on the back of a motorcycle. Got burned on the muffler. I still have a scar. Totally agree on the books, Vegas, tattoos, and bungee jumping. Another thing I have no desire to do is visit Russia. Not in these days & times. I’m American. I’d end up in the gulag. Come to think of it, I’m not crazy about the idea of traveling anywhere anymore. I’m 65. I have some pretty serious health issues and just feel more comfortable staying home close to my doctors.
I’m very conservative with traveling, even though I’m only 44. I went across Canada as a kid and as a teen a few times with family who loved road trips and flying, and we visited Toronto and Montreal all the time, camped in Algonquin… I won’t travel any distance further than 2 hours again in Canada again, now that I’m an adult. I’ll never take a domestic flight again, not even even for funerals (the worst possible reason to travel, imo, and it should be socially acceptable for people to skip any and all funerals or weddings that aren’t taking place in the town where you reside).
I’m 75. Going on a cruise next month to the ABC islands. We have 4 more cruises booked that will take us through this year and next year. We have been on 46 cruises so far since we met in 1996. We love to travel.
Surprisingly, this same list could have been written by me, with these additions:
Swimming with sharks....no.
Joining a seniors all inclusive bus tour.....nope.
Descending onto a cave or cavern....never.
Adding art inspired gel nails....ummmm no.
Soaking in my wonderful neighbour's large swim spa.....nada. Although I can very often be found sitting pool side with a refreshing juice and enjoying the conversations!
No fun here! :)
I agree with every single item on your anti-bucket list! And you are so right - some things you still want to do are just past the window of opportunity, meaning they would not be a smart choice. Love your videos!
I am new to your channel, and I quite enjoy it. I would never get a tattoo or go to any Asian countries. I enjoy looking at videos of those countries and that is fine with me.
Love this idea. Can get a bit down knowing things on my bucket list will not happen. But, an anti bucket list can certainly change my mood. Thanks for sharing.
That’s what I thought as well, an anti bucket list seems more reassuring than some of the things on my bucket list that I’m realizing probably won’t happen.
As Clint Eastwood said as Dirty Harry, "a man (or woman) has to know his limitations". This is totally true - if you know what you cannot do, then you have total freedom on everything else.
Love me some Dirty Harry Callahan!
I'm right there with you on all of these. On New Year's Eve. my ideal is to watch a marathon of Start Trek or Twilight Zone episodes and then hit the hay by 10 PM. No late nights or boozy hangovers for me either. I was a big runner through my 40s, but I never had a desire to run a marathon. Love your channel!
I am 59 years old and I love that you call it an anti-bucket list. I just made a list of things I called the things I never need to do. My list and your list are extremely similar. I never have the need to go on an ocean cruise, although I know you have done that. And I have been a passenger on a motorcycle two times and both times I was injured so that didn’t turn out well. One time I burnt my leg on the muffler and another time the driver was passing on the right moving very slowly, but we, ran into a car and injured my knee. Anyway, things that you did not say or on your anti bucket list that are on mine would be hot air balloon ride, scuba diving, karaoke, zip line, and parasailing. And as far as getting a tattoo,like my 30 year-old son says just get it on a T-shirt and wear it when you’re in the mood And guarantee you won’t always be in the mood so why would you get a tattoo that you could never take off? Loved this list.
just stopping in to support your choice about the 'puffer fish' - I had it once about 10 years ago at a place in Seattle because the Sales guy I was with was curious. The mucosal consistency (I'm a texture person) and lack of a taste means I'd prioritize pretty much anything else. I remember it being expensive, too. You aren't missing a damn thing if you don't eat it! lol. 😆
Spelunking is something I won't ever do.
I use to own three horses.
I don’t desire to jump from high places.
Don’t care for New York City.
I had a boyfriend in my 20’s who owned a motorcycle. Loved it.
I don’t like reading books but love to do research on health.
I love to travel and my favorite area is the Mediterranean.
Love hiking but not mountain climbing.
I love walking daily but I think running will ruin your knees.
I have been to Las Vegas several times but I don’t gamble.
I have a small rose tattoo on my ankle. Just one. I did it to connect with my stepson.
Thanks for the video!
Hi Jen, New Patreon member here! Thank you. One of the sweet things about getting older is not caring as much about what other people think. This makes it easy to say, naw-not interested in that bungie jump. Me either! Classes in pottery? Sign me up. Moving to Merida Mexico, on it! Just one year and 5 months to go!
Love that!
I agree with a lot of items on your list. For me, unfortunately, I hate crowds of pushy people. So, despite being half Egyptian with a mother who was born and raised in Cairo, I don't think I'm ever going to end up visiting Egypt. All the travel videos look chaotic and loud. I can't even handle Tijuana
Agree with all your list,Jen! 53 and no tattoos for me either. Heck, I don’t even like putting bumper stickers on my car 😂. Would only add swimming with sharks &/or scuba diving.
Another great video, very refreshing. Love your style ❤
Happy early birthday! You are a breath of fresh air--while our lists and sub lists (e.g., the books we won't read just to say we've read them) may differ, I feel a kinship in our common anti's. 😄 Have a lovely day!
I went to Vegas because I have family there. Did zero gambling. Saw Cirque de Soleil shows (before they closed down), walked along the strip & checked out the local natural scenery. Red Rocks is great for hiking. There is also a lovely botanical garden. Those are awesome! Much better than gambling.
I was amazed we went to the mall on the Strip and they had a man playing a baby grand piano in the food court ! As you can see I'm easily amused 🙂
There are at least four different Cirque du Soleil shows playing in Las Vegas.
I’m not a gambler either, but visited Las Vegas and saw Cirque Du Soleil “O”, the beautiful fountains and ate at the rotating restaurant “Stratosphere”. I throughly enjoyed that trip. My anti-bucket list includes “white water rafting” I like watching their videos, but I’ll stick with kayaking on calm waters. ❤❤❤
My mother is widely traveled and not a gambler, but she said her favorite USA city was Vegas.
Some of the things I put on my old bucket list (years ago!)…should have been on my anti-bucket list 😂 I gave up on the whole bucket list thing when I realized I wasn’t having ANY fun‼️ Now I’m perfectly happy just to BE 💚
I've done 3 things on your anti list. I owned a motorcycle (when in my 20s), been to Vegas (loved it, even without the gambling. There is a lot of cool stuff to do.), and I have 3 tattoos. (F 60)
I have a friend turning 60 this year and sky diving is what she wants to do for her birthday. I said I will happily watch her from the ground. 😂 definitely not going to jump from a plane ✈️
I enjoyed this one so so much! And just laughed my ass off! No jumping out of anything for me and no reading to Tolstoy as well! You are so entertaining and smart thank you so much for your videos
I love your list! Completely agree. I did read War and Peace the holiday after finishing high school. God knows why I waded through it - I can't say I enjoyed it...
I had to go to Las Vegas once for a conference and I don't gamble. Didn't waste a cent. It was kind of like Disneyland for adults.
Mountains have never appealed: a walk, maybe, but I just don't get struggling to get to the top of a mountain. Hate tattoos and don't see the point of them.
No longer interested in snorkelling (too many sharks here in Australia); don't like things involving speed or height too much (glass bridges, car racing); spending a lot of money to eat fancy food at a restaurant; go anywhere that has really loud music....
And I'd never go scuba diving in a cave, or anywhere at night...
I'm 72, been there, done that, saw the movie, read the book....
On my anti-bucket list: Antarctica or any place very cold. I enjoyed hearing your list.
I'll be 40 next year, and I never thought about creating an official anti-bucket list. I have one, but never identified it until I saw this video, lol. I'm with your 1st 1000% and I had a good laugh at the tattoo comment. I was scared because my son wanted to give me his first "big" tattoo that he did on someone else. It's not too bad, but like you said it is permanent. Thank you for creating this video. I had a good time with it.
You’re so funny. The marathon one had me laughing. I think the same
I'm not a motorcycle type either, but I have been happy for those who like it. I agree with your list, actually. Thanks for the smile!!
The Russians are my fave...please try rereading Anna K now that you're older.... fabulous read!!
Anna K...never! I didn't mention in the video that I *have* read Dead Souls by Gogol, which I somewhat enjoyed, but I've got a TBR pile that's enormous and adding her back into it, just won't happen! ;)
@@silverandsolo Glad to hear Jen! We had soooooo much in common till now Lol!
We have some similar "not ever in my lifetime" items, but I live very close to Las Vegas and have to say it's one of my favorite places to visit. I love people watching, I love touring the gorgeous resorts on the strip, they have some of the most amazing shows in the world, and of course amazing food. Plus as a single woman I feel safe there, walking around, because of the stringent security. It's basically my happy place, lol.
I also wanted to suggest (if you haven't read already) the Earth's Children series by Jean Auel... Very long series that transports readers to the Ice Age, and it is incredible.
Anyway, love your channel - keep these videos coming! ❤😊
Never seen a tattoo that i liked, that i didn't think would be better in a frame on the wall.
Crime and Punishment is a cracking read, but otherwise I agree with everything on your list! I would add space, submarines and diving - not gonna happen.
Oh, War and Peace. Growing up in Russia, you had to tackle the whole thing in high school! It was a nightmare. I still hate Tolstoy with his never-ending homilies...
I tuned in specifically to see if, like me, sky diving is NOT on your list. You did not fail me.
Climbing Mt. Everest is another that has NEVER been on the list, this even before I read "Into Thin Air."
No going to parties where I don't know people well, no scuba diving, no upside down roller coasters, no dating reality shows, no bungee jumping, no running, and (maybe no) cruises. Thought of being in the middle of the ocean scares me.
Oh going to a party where you know very few people is awful, I agree, it's a waste of time and energy
Love your list. I hear you, particularly on the high-brow books, Times Square on NYE, and the motorcycle.
*Anna Karenina* -- and *War and peace* -- are slow-moving (like much of life). I only read bits of them in the hope of learning something. Scanning them is one thing, actually reading them all the way through feels to me like something that belongs in a different era, a time when there were far fewer distractions and complexities.
You are absolutely right. It is a different era with different characters. Leo Tolstoy is one of the greatest philosophers, but it seems we are unaccustomed now to slow down and penetrate into his depth. Our reading preferences do change with time, as well.
No tattoos 😊 Speaking as a nurse, not a good look in the nursing home 😂
loved this video! so glad an English major took some to read books off the bucket list .you are a breath of fresh air on RUclips 😊
I so agree with pretty much every thing on your list. I had a mid life crisis at 50 and now have a butterflie tattooed on my left-hand shoulder blade. I only have the one. I also agree with the person who won't hold spiders and snakes. I love that you have a list of things you definitely won't do .🎉
Many of these things are on my anti-bucket list, too, especially anything related to free-falling. BUT, I do have one tattoo. I used to say "I don't even put bumper stickers on my car and they're not permanent" but I have one (yes, just one) representing my medical battles with cancer. My son said I'd get more now that I have one but 3 years later, I still have just one. I guess I'm the exception that proves the rule, eh?
I love your channel. Keep posting.
You helped me add some to my list. I was hanging Roman shades and nodding my head in avid agreement about puffer fish. Hadn’t thought of it! It’s securely added. I nearly fell off my ladder howling with laughter when you mentioned the motorcycle. I was talking out loud to myself about the fish and my favorite hobby, my motorcycle, in a little debate with myself, and then your next topic was ride a motorcycle. You’re right, it’s risky. I don’t disagree at all. I think about the risk a lot, but I do love it. My BFF rides a trike, and we’re both retired now and have long distance trips planned for Autumn. This was a fun discussion.
I don't know how one would disagree with an anti bucket list ,given each is a very personal list.
There's a number of things on your list that I've already done but having done them ,wouldn't redo.
Love the video especially the outing with the pupper.
I love your sense of humor and your play of life’s stuffs. Continuing to enjoy your channel vids, they lift my spirits, inspire me to do some thinking I otherwise wouldn’t, and bring a chuckle all at the same time. Thank you for being here.
Awesome! Thank you!
Age 62 here and I LOVE the idea of an anti-bucket list. The book section hit home the most. I too was livid at Anna Karenina. But I did enjoy War and Peace, frustrating as it was (all. that. French) and the six months it took me to read it. I totally respect your decision not to bother, even Moby Dick, which I love…even the boring whaling chapters. 🤷♂️ Infinite Jest? We’ll see if I ever get around to that one. Oh, as a former 27-year New Yorker, you’re DEFINITELY not missing a thing with the whole New Year’s madness.
So I’m definitely not going to feel guilty anymore about not finishing, Anna Karenina. I did go skydiving several years ago and LOVED it. But I love some adrenaline pumping activities. Especially a good motorcycle ride.
I couldn't deal with Tolstoy either 😂 I did go on a motorcycle once when I was 18 and the driver was a safe, experienced one. But, I had a lot less fear of an early death back then. 😄 But, it was fun. I wouldn't do today at 70, though. 😮 --Paula in Ohio USA
@@PaulaBallard-r2w now I’d like to have a “trike.”
Oh girl....I'm with you on every single thing on this list EXCEPT two. Vegas: There is SO much to do, even if you don't gamble (I do but shouldn't), drink (I don't), or stay out late (nope). I took my daughter on a trip there when she was 9 or 10, and we saw shows, went to the zoo and aquarium, swam in the pool, and ate a ton of good food. Definitely recommend! Tattoos: You are correct; it does become an addiction :-) I absolutely love mine. I'll also say that I have been the unfortunate recipient of not one but TWO awful pieces. I not-so-affectionately referred to them as my "prison tats" until I had them removed. And I promise you, it was exponentially more painful (and expensive) having them lasered off than it was having them put on, so I don't recommend it for anyone who isn't fully committed!
I totally agree on the high-brow books!!! There are a couple categories of books I just won’t read, I don’t see the value… also getting a tattoo is on my anti-bucket list. There is nothing I care about enough (even my children/spouse) to permanently mark my body for and anything I DO care that deeply about (again, children/spouse) would not feel respected or honored by my doing that. So I remain ink-free
Your video reminded me of a motorcycle ride, a short one, I went on with my brother-in-law, at the time. He was a very small man and there was barely anything to hold on to. I was scared. I think we only went a mile and I was yelling at him." Take me back home!". And he did.
You're a Jem, Jen! So enjoyed and totally agree with your anti-bucket list!
I started a reverse bucket list. Things I've already done, but as I limited it (so far) to things that I had also wanted to do and not just gone along with, I haven't gotten very far with it.
It could include riding a motorcycle, but that was just part of my childhood and no big deal at the time. And a hot air balloon ride, again as a youth and not my idea but fun.
Maybe I should just expand it to include all the things.
I'm actually about 239 pages into War and Peace, as I picked it up out of sheer curiosity... I'm surprisingly enjoying it. That said?? I implore people to by all means not feel like you should read or not read a book because of what society or your conditioning tells you. Life is too short to read something you aren't enjoying!! I have a 100 page rule for anything I read - if I'm not invested in it after the first 100 pages, I quit reading it.
I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I laughed throughout. My anti bucket is about the same as yours. I enjoy your take on life and humor.
I love Vegas myself - there is something so over the top about it that I always enjoyed when I visited. Gambling was a very small part of it... But most other items you noted are also on my anti-bucket list (which didn't have a name until I watched your video). I enjoy your channel 😊
I really enjoy watching your content. I’m 40 and live in Japan and have been a teacher for 18 years. Just recently took my sister to Shibuya. She was surprised how small it was compared to Centra Beijing, but I agree that it is bigger than Times Square in New York. Love your content.
That is awesome!
Most of what you listed plus scuba diving, space travel, rock climbing, visiting certain countries, and doing anything underground. Then there's the "did it once, don't need to do it again, ever" list. That includes eating sushi, eating blood sausage, going to an opera, and going on fair rides that spin me around. I have to say though I've never been, I would go to Vegas for the shows.
I have completed my bucket list. Bought a horse and purchased the SUV I always wanted. They were the last 2 things on my list. Greetings from Philadelphia PA USA
Right on!
I would add Ayn Rand. I tried twice while in school, and because I always read at night, I fell asleep quickly.
I got a tattoo at 60, a ladybug!
At 70 I got a small coffee cup tattoo on my wrist, my friends ❤️ my choice, as I do til this day, I’m 72 currently, with no future tattoo plans!
Ladybugs & coffee til the end!
I love the idea of an Anti Bucket list. I too have missed the window on some of the hikes you mentioned. I really know if they had been important to me I would have done them long ago. I too now would take a train to Machu Picchu. Glad to hear there is one. In my 20's to late early 50's I was a runner. I did a few marathons and many races and just ran for fun. I cycled and swam a lot as well. so happy I did that then as I loved it and was never injured. I stopped early 50's and started walking. It felt right for me. Also I do yoga which I love. I too will not ride a motorcycle as that time for me has passed. I thought about it however never pursued that. Just not interested. I love to travel so that is my passion and I do lots of that. I have even camped a bit on my travels loved it however not the way I do it often. thanks for the video and I am going to look more at my anti bucket list, so great. I too have books that I will never read. thanks Jen
Everything on your anti-bucket list would be on mine if I had one. 😄 And, I'm relieved to hear someone else say they (you) couldn't deal with Tolstoy. 😂 Back in my 20's (I'm now 70) I went to Vegas a few times.because my then spouse liked to go. Frankly, I wasn't impressed. But, I'm not a gambler by nature. I would have liked to have seen a couple of the shows. But, I can't recall why we didn't. But, I recall he wasn't jazzed by the idea and he was the money controller. 🤷 But, I thought Vegas was highly overrated. The two things that readily come to mind that I would put on my anti-bucket list would be scuba diving (afraid of deep water) and cave exploring or spelunking (hope I spelled that right) because I'm clausterphobic and don't want to be underground. But, to your skydiving, bungee jumping item, I would add anything involving heights. I have a fear of heights. Another lady commented she would add holding a tarantula or snake to her anti-bucket list. Yep, I'm with you on that one, too! 😮 😬 As always, great vlog Jen! Thanks and have a great week. 🙋 --Paula in Ohio USA
A fabulous anti-bucket list!!!!
The only one I disagree with is tattoos- I have 2 small ones.
I LOVE to read and I wholeheartedly agree with your choice of non reads. Those “classics” are just not for me.
I adore traveling and hope to do more. I’m 67. Your Machu Picchu trip sounds wonderful. On the train. At this point, I cannot do the walking that I used to do.
So any extreme adventure things are on my anti-bucket list: climbing, jumping, caving, even simpler thing like scuba diving. Nah.
Your channel is great!
Jen I am nearly 61 years old and agree with all your bucket list. Mostly the 1st item. I would and could never do bungee jumping. Not a height thing just totally scares me to be falling off a bridge or mountain and hanging by my ankles. Nope never 😅😊
Love this list. My only dif is some books but you are my twin for the rest!
Agree with almost all of your items! I did Las Vegas only as part of a bigger trip to the Grand Canyon. I'm also not a big gambler, but I did enjoy the sights and the Cirque du Soleil shows! I would go back to see all those! And I have a few tattoos, and plans for more!
Vegas is fun and easy to visit as you know. I like the design and interior Decor.. Best wishes.
I read 50 pages of crime and punishment and never completed reading it. I understand your point exactly😀
Ours are virtually identical except I live in Las Vegas, lol. If you ever find yourself here, there is so much more to it than gambling. And it's a gateway to Zion, and a myriad of other beautiful places. The older I get, the more I discover the virtues of in bed by 7:30 , lights out by 8:30.
Oh - and people who brag about reading Atlas Shrugged probably couldn't finish it either. Yaaaaaawn.
I'm with you, Jenn--no more vertical vacations!!