Tragedy Off The Boat - A Sailing Britican Update

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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2024

Комментарии • 163

  • @davidgrowse2041
    @davidgrowse2041 3 года назад +5

    So sorry for your loss Kim. I lost my dad a few months ago but like you, my family had the opportunity to be with him in his final days. I hope you take solace in being able to do that and to be with family and that with time your grief eases and gives way to all the loving memories you have of him.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words David. Kim

  • @jonathanvince8173
    @jonathanvince8173 3 года назад +1

    Two great sailing together. Sorry for what happened over sad news please take care and keep safe.

  • @sailingvesseljulianne8230
    @sailingvesseljulianne8230 3 года назад +1

    I so sorry for you’re lost, but happy you did get home to say goodbye to your dad and be there for your mom.
    Hugs, love, and prayers for you and the family.

  • @ellenhopes
    @ellenhopes 3 года назад +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss. What a privilege to have the last few days together.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Yes, it was a privilege. Thank you for your comments ellenhopes :) Smiles, Kim

  • @3233Donnie
    @3233Donnie 3 года назад +4

    Thanks for sharing, saying goodbye has got to be one of the most difficult events of our journey here on earth..Cherish your memories and the strength of your family.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Thank you Dpg. Kim

    • @3233Donnie
      @3233Donnie 3 года назад

      Your welcome, I’ve been in a similar situation although I have something to add. A friend from a different culture told me that…when out of the blue for whatever reason you think of a person that has passed away it’s actually them poking at you as they’re spirit is saying I’m still here with you.
      I don’t know about that but it’s kinda nice to think so.

  • @music-man
    @music-man 3 года назад +1

    So sorry for you loss Kim. i am glad you got to spend time with Your Stepdad. My condolences to you and your family
    All the best to you through this difficult time. xx

  • @catherineb6561
    @catherineb6561 3 года назад +3

    I am so glad you were able to get to be with your step-dad for those final days. Thanks for sharing.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Thanks for your kind thoughts Catherine B. Kim

  • @ctaylor1655
    @ctaylor1655 3 года назад +1

    So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family during this difficult time.

  • @roryodriscoll8135
    @roryodriscoll8135 3 года назад +1

    Very sorry for your loss, Kim. Look after yourself, you can look back at all the lovely memories. Rory

  • @pdutube
    @pdutube 3 года назад +1

    I'm sorry for your family's loss and I wish you all peace and a speedy recovery for your mother.

  • @tomcraddock244
    @tomcraddock244 3 года назад +3

    I know how hard it was for you to go thru this so thank you for sharing.keeping you and your family in my prayers 🙏🏻

  • @ABeriault
    @ABeriault 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing the terrible intimacy!
    Godspeed all of you!
    Cheers

  • @ratukinijojiramasima8738
    @ratukinijojiramasima8738 3 года назад +1

    So sorry for your loss. Take care and stay safe. Greetings from FIJI 🇫🇯.

  • @justlooking2222
    @justlooking2222 3 года назад +1

    Sorry for your loss. Glad you and the family could be with him.

  • @MarkMesserli
    @MarkMesserli 3 года назад +1

    So sorry Kim! Always tough to lose family! You are in our prayers!

  • @CaptMarkSVAlcina
    @CaptMarkSVAlcina 3 года назад +1

    Kim, I am so sorry for your loss of your dad to cancer.
    You and going through a lot of heartache because of your dad and mum being in hospital . I am so sorry for you and your family.
    My mum died of cancer as well and she had 11 children.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад +1

      Hey Mark! I remember you telling me about your mum. It's difficult to handle these things. Thanks so much for sending me a comment. Smiles, Kim

  • @robertlewisvideo
    @robertlewisvideo 3 года назад +1

    So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. We went though the same a few years ago.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад +1

      Sorry to hear you've been through it too Robert. It's no fun. Thank you for commenting. Kim

  • @jodiebaldwin7064
    @jodiebaldwin7064 3 года назад +1

    Our heart goes out to you and your family

  • @EllEss331
    @EllEss331 3 года назад +1

    Hugs to you & yours. So very sorry to hear about your step-dad & glad you were able to be there for him & your mom & family.
    The pictures at the end were such a beautiful tribute to his memory & life.
    My thoughts are with you all.

  • @fernandofernando5540
    @fernandofernando5540 3 года назад +1

    So sorry for your loss Kim! Thanks for sharing that! He went back from where he came from and all of us are headed there you will see him again. You have a beautiful family. Wish you all the best

  • @jeffgriglack9624
    @jeffgriglack9624 3 года назад +2

    It's tough to lose anybody, but especially tough to lose a parent. The important thing is that, at the end, he knew he was loved.

  • @flyingcheff
    @flyingcheff 3 года назад

    Just discovered you. LOVE Daddy Daughter Boating Squadron - so good, had to sub. The talking hand did it!

  • @jayty4833
    @jayty4833 3 года назад +1

    That was heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @RM-uo9oc
    @RM-uo9oc 3 года назад +1

    I'm so sorry Kim. I'm glad you were able to be there and say goodbye.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Yeah...I'm glad I was able to be there too. Thank you R M. Kim

  • @garretttheterrible4058
    @garretttheterrible4058 3 года назад

    Kim, my condolences on the loss of your stepdad. My wife lost her father 2 years ago, and I think it helped that she and the rest of the family were able to be there in his final days.
    It appears daddy and daughter not only held things together in your absence, but also dispelled the legend of "cats are faster than monohulls".

  • @LeLilley1
    @LeLilley1 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this. I'm really sorry for your loss . . .

  • @firstlast1047
    @firstlast1047 3 года назад +1

    That's wonderful that you followed your intuition and left for US immediately. I had the misfortune of delaying visiting two, critically ill, close friends that passed. I have since developed a simple rule that applies to any situation; "If you think of it, do it". I have used it to guide making decisions during my professional maritime career and pleasure boating.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Yeah...I'm so happy I followed my intuition. Otherwise I can't imagine how hard it would have been for my brother and my mom. And for me not to be able to say goodbye to Vic would have been terrible. I like your rule. It's a good one. Smiles, Kim

  • @billfournier439
    @billfournier439 3 года назад

    Sorry for your loss, Kim. These are challenging times no matter where we are....

  • @oceanranger493
    @oceanranger493 3 года назад +1

    Very sorry to hear your sad news. I’m glad you managed to get such quality time with him before his time came. Also that you have your family with you as you go though the grief of this loss. Praying for you all. 🙂

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Thank you Ocean Ranger ;) Kim

    • @jack13210
      @jack13210 3 года назад

      Very sorry for your loss, it is heartwarming to see your loving family. All the best for your sailing future.

  • @paulmee6099
    @paulmee6099 3 года назад +1

    So sorry for your loss

  • @Royfile
    @Royfile 3 года назад +8

    Well done Kim, that couldn't have been easy. RIP Vic

  • @MrBernie101
    @MrBernie101 3 года назад +1

    A good travelogue type of video, especially when the Doo Doo hits the fan, the Kids step right into action. And Kim, what a tough stoic Lady you are. My commiserations to you all. King Regards, Barnacle Bern SY Cadbri SW Wales.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Thank you for your comments Barnacle Bern. K.

  • @robinpatterson2972
    @robinpatterson2972 3 года назад +1

    Kim good work on a tough palette of issues.

  • @donnakawana
    @donnakawana 3 года назад +1

    I'm sorry for the loss of your father... Your a strong woman an have a strong family full of love an support!! Sending Love and prayers your way! Thanks for sharing your lives with us and fare winds an following sea's guy's ✌🏻💗😊❣️

  • @regkane-Pluvis
    @regkane-Pluvis 3 года назад +1

    Very brave family, God's blessings on you all. Reg

  • @Tordan69
    @Tordan69 3 года назад +1

    My condolences. Take care of each other.

  • @jonathanwetherell3609
    @jonathanwetherell3609 3 года назад +2

    Grief, the price we pay for love. Never an easy price to pay at the best of times but talking helps. Take care of each other.

  • @chefevilee9377
    @chefevilee9377 3 года назад

    Well bless your heart. I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @angusmcdonald7944
    @angusmcdonald7944 3 года назад +3

    Kim, I know it was hard but I know you were so glad that you could be there for your family. Hope your mother & brother are doing well. Glad that the covid 19 situation is such that all this travel was not one of your issues of the trip to a greater extent. I was really impressed with the Daddy Daughter teams sailing while your gone. No worries there. Story well told. Talk soon.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Thank you Angus. I'm feeling much better now. And I'm back with mom and my family for Thanksgiving so live is moving on. Yes - talk very soon! Smiles, Kim

    • @angusmcdonald7944
      @angusmcdonald7944 3 года назад

      @@Sailingbritican I am only about an hour's drive from you, keeping your family in my thoughts. Take care.#happythanksgiving

  • @francisdelvecchio7536
    @francisdelvecchio7536 3 года назад +1

    SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE FAMILY MISFORTUNE. I HAVE LIVED IT BEFORE, LOSING MY FIRST WIFE TO CANCER. RELIVING IT NOW WITH OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS. WILL KEEP YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Thank you Francis. You're in our thoughts and prayers too. Smiles, Kim

  • @francisdelvecchio7536
    @francisdelvecchio7536 3 года назад +1

    ALWAYS A PLEASURE TO HEAR FROM YOU.

  • @PeterGrimes59
    @PeterGrimes59 3 года назад +1

    Thoughts and prayers with you Kim and family 🙏

  • @timbotim3
    @timbotim3 3 года назад

    Blessings to you and your family. Sounds as though the time you spent was some of the most valuable.

  • @johnmcntsh
    @johnmcntsh 3 года назад +1

    So sorry Kim. Enjoy Thanksgiving with your family and your memories.

  • @dazthesailor6363
    @dazthesailor6363 3 года назад

    God bless you and your family x

  • @shanevillis4079
    @shanevillis4079 3 года назад +1

    Know how your feeling, we buried dad on Mon, after a short time knowing about his cancer, he was too far gone to even start chemo.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry to hear your news Shane. I'm sending you a big hug. Kim

    • @shanevillis4079
      @shanevillis4079 3 года назад

      @@Sailingbritican Thanks Kim, appreciated, same to you and yours.

  • @drjasper100
    @drjasper100 3 года назад +1

    My sympathy guys. Sorry for your loss.

  • @ianprice9005
    @ianprice9005 3 года назад +2

    Condolences to you and your family 🙏🏻❤️

  • @calvingarrett3245
    @calvingarrett3245 3 года назад

    Hello I just ran on to your video and watched it I'm really sorry for your loss I know how it feels my condolences to you and the family his dad will not be in pain no more God will watch over him. Be safe out there on the water God bless all of you watching from Roseville California USA Ray Garrett

  • @mikes2294
    @mikes2294 2 года назад

    Sorry for your loss Kim.

  • @jvgaming3132
    @jvgaming3132 3 года назад +1

    So sorry for your loss… 😔

  • @michaelphilip9378
    @michaelphilip9378 3 года назад

    Sorry about your father. Thoughts and Prayers. Michael

  • @colinr7670
    @colinr7670 3 года назад +1

    My heart goes out to you all x

  • @dagenhamdave2611
    @dagenhamdave2611 3 года назад +1

    Our thought are with you all at this tough time
    Love from the colemans

  • @jme.1969
    @jme.1969 3 года назад

    So sorry for your loss.

  • @olli_k
    @olli_k 3 года назад +1

    I"m sorry for your loss.
    Every family grieves in their own way. My family certainly does. A cousin was in hospice and about. 20 of piled into the room. The rest of the rooms on the hall were full of families dealing with what we were going through. But if you had walked into the hall and didn't know where you were, you would think there was a comedy show going on in my cousin's room. We were all laughing, telling stories of all the fun we had with our cousin, all the pranks he puled on us and that we pulled on him. We were going at it so much I thought we would be asked to leave. The following day we all met at my aunt's house and we continued even more rambunctiously than the previous night! In my family there is an unspoken phrase that we all live up to. "Remember that the first three letters in funeral are F U N."
    In all seriousness...
    This is how my family deals with grief. We don't focus on the loss of a loved one. We focus on the find memories we have of the person. We laugh about all the fun we had with the person and then we laugh some more. We keep having fun and carrying on that we laugh so much we begin to cry.
    Kim, I sincerely hope that you can look back at the life of your step-father and have a good laugh at all the fun times and all the funniness you/he/everyone shared in. Don't focus on the loss too long. There is definitely a time to grieve, to cry from the emptiness. BUt don't let it consumer your thoughts and heart. Laugh.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад

      Thank you for your comments Olli. During the week of Vic being in hospice there were so many laughs. Sometimes I wasn't even sure if I was laughing hard or crying hard - the two things started to feel the same! I hear your message and I appreciate it. Thank you. Kim

  • @johnadams2313
    @johnadams2313 3 года назад

    I'm so sorry for your loss! 💔

  • @dacapo82
    @dacapo82 3 года назад +1

    My condolences :-(

  • @2212db
    @2212db 3 года назад

    Sorry to hear your sad news Kim

  • @boblivingston4841
    @boblivingston4841 3 года назад

    Im so very sorry for your unbearable loss.

  • @cliffbenford
    @cliffbenford 3 года назад

    RIP Vic. condolences to all xx

  • @cfield1468
    @cfield1468 3 года назад

    🙏🏻 to your family

  • @johnjaco5544
    @johnjaco5544 3 года назад

    So sorry!

  • @Jaxe2.0
    @Jaxe2.0 3 года назад +1

    Very sorry this has happened. :-/

  • @tna2me197
    @tna2me197 3 года назад +1

    Sad for your loss. But so glad you could be with him to say goodbyes.
    Waking up 7 days in a row at 3am. Might lead to think God is speaking something.

  • @ston3kill3r
    @ston3kill3r 3 года назад

    Sorry for your loss , cancers such a messed up disease

  • @sailinglatis
    @sailinglatis 3 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @joakimsall8384
    @joakimsall8384 3 года назад

    ❤️

  • @kevinhornbuckle
    @kevinhornbuckle 3 года назад

    You were there for him and you mom. That is all that matters.

  • @SV-DEDICATED
    @SV-DEDICATED 3 года назад +1

    RIP

  • @dutchglobetrotter4513
    @dutchglobetrotter4513 3 года назад

    DDBS I like it.

  • @pon1952leod
    @pon1952leod 3 года назад

    🦋🙏🏻🦋

  • @nivkorah7599
    @nivkorah7599 3 года назад

    💐

  • @denzildon9202
    @denzildon9202 3 года назад

    After I don’t know

  • @stephenmahoney9531
    @stephenmahoney9531 3 года назад

    😞😞

  • @deerfield2004
    @deerfield2004 3 года назад

    Rip

  • @davidclarke7728
    @davidclarke7728 3 года назад

    Sympathies

  • @rayman1611
    @rayman1611 3 года назад

    Sorry about your Step Father. But, he has cancer. Don’t let the people who should be treating him put the COVID stigma on him.

  • @pauleohl
    @pauleohl 3 года назад +1

    @Kim You are getting too much sun. I have not seen this channel for two years, so the change was startling. Use the sun screen liberally and see a dermatologist.

    • @Sailingbritican
      @Sailingbritican  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for your concern Paul. It was also bad lighting, no makeup, and a general feeling of misery ;) Smiles, Kim

  • @emilioplentz
    @emilioplentz 3 года назад

    So sorry for your loss.