WHO WOULD DATE A GUY IN A WHEELCHAIR?
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- Опубликовано: 25 июн 2019
- I interview my girlfriend about what it's like to date a guy in a wheelchair while sharing all my tips and tricks on how to get a girlfriend if you're in a wheelchair!
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I was lucky enough to find a girl just like HER! I also found self confidence goes a long way. People are attracted to it. Now me and my wife are married 8 years with 2 gorgeous daughters.
Dude we’re two lucky guys!
Congratulations!
Jay Handicap u are my hero!!!!
And l hope you'll be happy with her and she with you futher on! She is like anyone shout be! She sees your inside and your outside and she knows what is important! Be blessed!
i'm so happy for you! i'm half a year using a wheelchair all the time.. and i'm pretty scared being alone forever :/
I’ve been talking to this awesome guy whom is in a wheelchair due to terrible accident. Let me tell you. He and I vibe so well together and have amazing chemistry. He is a awesome human.
I recently gave my number to a guy in a wheelchair. I obviously noticed the chair, but I noticed his smile first and that’s what caught my eye. My coworker discouraged me because he might be “needy” or “isn’t looking for something because of his situation”. I was so annoyed by their closed minded thinking! But I think people forget to remember that we all have things that make us needy. Where he “may” be physically needy, I’m emotionally needy. I also have internal health issues that don’t physically present themselves but are a struggle in my day to day life. His personality was amazing and I didn’t wanna lose my chance. I hope things progress because he’s really funny and sweet. So, don’t ever be afraid!
Thanks, for helping me.
Rich are u her gf
@@pikagamergirl1252 I have a gf, I never thought I would because I'm disabled and in a wheelchair, no one here knows my gf's name. I was just thanking Sedona for her words, I had some low self esteem until my gf came to me.
It’s 7 months later, so are you dating?
Keagan Terry yes, we are! Things have been amazing ❤️
I’m dating a guy in a wheelchair, it happened through a dating app too and I never even cared about the wheelchair, I thought he was super good looking and intelligent, he sent me a message and I replied and now we’re really happy together. I love him so much, unlike many people think, he’s very independent and does everything on his own, he’s not needy like judgmental people think, he’s just a normal person and I saw him like that since day one. People tend to have the wrong idea of it. Romance, sexual life, intelligence, moral wise he’s just the perfect man for me. 😍
What app was it??? I don’t have a problem with it!!!
Wow you’re amazing
I'm a guy in an online long distance relationship. My girlfriend has been in a wheelchair her entire life. When she told me I said that this changes nothing for me and I will still love her regardless. In fact It made me love her even more. We are very happy together and love each a lot.
Hey, I’m recently paralyzed this year (jul 2019) and watching this is gave me some extra confidence. Hope that I can go back to a normal I’m comfortable with.
My best friend is in a wheelchair, and I completely understand. I'll be riding in his truck in the walmart parking lot looking for a spot and completely look over the handicapped spots because I forget he's in a wheelchair. There have been many times that I just completely forget. Lol
“I love you for you” honestly is the he way we should all love, and live.....xxxx
“You have to become what you want to attract.”.....so true...Does not matter if your obstacles are external (wheelchair) or internal (depression)...etc....great quote.
I am a paraplegic and wish I get such a person in my life
Patients my friend. I too am in the same position as you.
The same goes for women in a wheelchair. It's hard to find a good man to love you, care for you, help you. I said it was hard to find, not impossible. Going on 29 years with my man. He took his marriage vows seriously. He didn't say, when things get tough or you can't feel certain things anymore I'm out of here.....no, no, no. He's with me in sickness and in health. Health things can happen to anyone. You are shallow if you bail out on someone because of that. 😊
@@JEEEVANJOHN, hang in there. There's a special person out there for you.......you just haven't found each other yet. 😁
@@peacefulwife5199 If I may say so, I love your attitude, And, I think it's SO cool that you and your man are going on 29 years.... I am in a wheelchair, I have spinabifida. I met a lady on here in 2004, we dated long distance for a year, And then, I moved to Michigan, And we lived together for another year..... We Married in October of 06,,,,,,, in 2011 She met another guy on here, I trusted her, so I never knew until I found pictures, and videos of them together....... And, When I confronted my now ex-wife, She told me, She just couldn't live with a man in a wheelchair. My response was, It took you Almost 8 years to decide that? I didn't mean to go on, and on.... My point was in response to you saying people are shallow if they bail out on someone because of that, Yes, Their are some Shallow people in this world...... My ex-wife being one of them.
Go get her!
As an 18 yr old para this has really hit home for me. Never have I been so glad to discover a channel on RUclips. Thankyou guys
Don’t give up bro. Love is out there for ya 👊🏻
Hey man! I just had my 18th last week, 9 weeks ago I had my injury and I’m a t3 complete! 2 weeks ago I met the most amazing girl who legit didn’t even care bout the chair! It can happen and it will for you!
i went on a blind date. i use a powerchair, but i can walk short distances. i was told DO NOT BRING YOUR CHAIR!!! which is worse? hiding my true self or falling on my butt and embarrassing my date? date said he was okay, but i never heard from him
again. HIS loss, not mine.
in case no one has told you but you are strong and very brave for showing your true self despite others opinions. Like you said HIS loss! Stay strong and positive :)
what a wanker !
totally his loss !
Jobelle Collie hiding your true self is worse. Be yourself and someday you’ll find the one I’m sure.
Unless he was gonna carry you around. No clue why people are afraid of wheelchairs. It's for independence so you don't have to rely on others.
Always be the true you no matter what if they can't take you for you they don't deserve the best parts of being with you always ask for honesty in others and be honest yourself you will find an amazing person with your attitude you'll lead a wonderfull life no matter what
It took me a while to believe I was worthy of love and dateable, but I have found love and what an amazing lady she is! ❤✌
This is a beautiful relationship. Love is so much more than physical appearance or any disability the person has. Wish more people were open-minded.
Juvv Ansari Vlogs absolutely love is not a physical thing. I’m dating a wonderful man in a wheelchair, he is my everything
@@christinatitolo5563 Godbless you both ❤
Check me out
I’m learning to “redefine” how to answer that blunt question when people notice my disabled veteran car tags. On a dating site, I answered “retired” in the job question. I’m still me, still have a mind, personality, income, those things dating sites seem to hone in on. I DID include in my “describe yourself” that I’m a disabled vet, I use a power chair AND I have a service dog. I had to block tons of trolls that threw b.s. about why would a “broken, disabled person still want love and a relationship?” One thing I’ve know from dealing with my new body, my skin has gotten much thicker.
This channel is going to explode..
Thats what she said! 🥳
More like this D-
Im sorry..
@@eremika4life lmao
I dated some one who was an incomplete quad for years and Him being in a wheelchair was never a deal breaker.... I was young 23 and just saw him for him
Awesome... It's hard tho... Most ppl host give up on us..
Date me lol
Lena K Kan I get to know you wats your instagram name
So cool
This is vídeo makes it so much better for people understand relationships. Her input is honest 👌✊🏻 way to go bro 🙌🙌
She really did a great job. I appreciate her input a lot, even during the filming I learned a lot about what she thought.
I have md girls will never like me
@@Wheels2Walking i want to kill my self
You are a good example of what ive been telling my friend, even tho you may have been depressed, you can still go out and find a girl that will date you. But my friend is stuck in the fact that he is stuck in a wheel chair, while I believe if hes persistent with love, he will find it.
Okay, so, I've never dated, and as a person with a disability, I've struggled through the perception that no one wants a disabled partner. But realizing a very important truth saved me. I had the perception that I am somehow "less of a man" for having a disability, until I realized that what defines a "true man", the courteous, brave, confident and romantic person that women would like to see, is on the inside. Everyone has the ability to attract any partner they want. It's in the way we speak and act. I won't speak for myself, but there are disabled people who are much more attractive with their actions and manners than some of their able-bodied counterparts. Our personality is our biggest advantage. The people who wouldn't look into our personality are what I call "soul blind". HECK, your friend could even date a celebrity if he wanted to. Anyone can. It's all in our personality, the things that make us special.The most important thing, though, is to choose a person who understands and loves him for what he truly is. The question is not whether you're worthy of someone. But whether that someone is worthy of you.
This is an inspiring story. I've been in a wheelchair for three years now and really believed my hopes and dreams of ever having a family was just over. Perhaps there is hope.
I've been in the chair for 20+ years... got a degree, got a hot wife, got a big house, got a nice car.... you still CAN do more than most people will do👍
This video was a breath of fresh air. So many people would tell me the disability didn't matter but I always shut it down bc they hadn't lived it. You absolutely nailed the inner monolog I have with myself and then to have you essentially go "they are right it doesn't matter " was a good feeling
This is such an amazing video to bring awareness about a topic that for so many people is misunderstood. And man, the way that you two look at each other shows how in love you are!
Thanks! We both felt it was really important. You’re right, I noticed it when I was watching as well, we just stare away 🥰
I understood and related to so much of what you both were saying for I'm a female paraplegic. I had a lot of confidence in my younger yrs and when dating the guys would always tell me they "saw me" not my chair. The stories I could tell though. Haha! I was in a long term relationship and even gave birth naturally to a baby girl. My baby is now 21😀.
Enjoyed the video, I met my wife before I ended up back in my wheelchair but we discussed early on about what the future may hold. She doesn’t really see the wheelchair and I have more of an issue with it than she does. Been together now 14 years and looking forward to growing old together.
I too have more issues with my chair than she does. Funny how we both deal with that.
I wish I had known stuff like this when I was in my 20s. I'm 41 and have used a wheelchair since I was 3.
Richard, “Sometimes I poop my pants.” 😂🤣😭 You’re awesome buddy!
LOL I did today! 😂 😭 just the reality of living with an SCI
@@Wheels2Walking Yup! 💩
@@Wheels2Walking yup i do that in bed a lot nowdays my bf is so awesome though and just cleans me up and says its ok not your fault babe its awesome to have someone like that not judge what you have no control over
I am in a wheelchair and it becomes difficult from time to time with dating.
I usually don’t think about much except being able to go places that are not accessible.
When I have an accessible van equipped with a lift but parking make me not want to go places at times depending on where it is
Plan to win my friend!
I had a good friend in college who had a below-the-knee amputation on both legs and often used a wheelchair (he had prosthetic legs, but didn't use them all the time). I didn't care about the chair, I saw Tomas...the funny, wheelchair basketball-playing, popular, college student who was a blast to hang out with. I loved hanging out with him, not because of a chair, but because he was nice, funny, and fun to be around. There are women out there that focus on the person and not a chair or the medical stuff that comes with the injury....if she (or he) can't love you for you and isn't willing to take on whatever challenge your injury may have, then she's definitely not ready for a relationship! An accident can happen to anyone at anytime, so I don't really see the difference in starting life with someone who's had an accident and needs care, or the potential at any point for your partner to need care due to illness or an accident...it's called being an adult and being in a committed, adult relationship.
Wish I could have watched that video back in 1991 @ 15yrs old... would have been really helpful overcoming a lot of my hang-ups that you discuss we all deal with. Great vid, will definitely help many
That’s the goal with this channel! Find them when they’re in the first year of their journey and teach em all I know!
@@Wheels2Walking this is great man! Love it!
This video, and others like it, need to be shown in high school and college sociology classes!
Just cried big crocodile tears. Thank you J. ❤️
She’s really the best isn’t she 😍
I love this lady's attitude. Great couple! Love them and love them even more🚁💚💛💙💜🧡
My wife’s mother told her not to get involved with a guy in a wheelchair, it would be a hard life. As if any man ever made it easy on his spouse. Lol 7 years and counting, one grandchild later, my wife is fine and her mom is gone.
I'm glad it all worked out. I'm sad the wife's mom was like that. Sure you have to plan for accessible things but I'm a planner
My best friend a few yrs ago was in a wheelchair, able to stand n step up for 1 or 2 steps. She was so independent n confident that I would forget she was disabled.
My partner is a paraplegic, we've been together for 4 and a half years now and the way yous are describing everything is exactly how me and him are and how the start of the relationship was how you notice everyone staring and sometimes you look for people staring, now I pretty much never notice. He cannot walk at all but he does have a incomplete spinal injury (T12) so hes hoping one day theres a chamce he can gain a little more movement in his legs
Love your channel!
I wish I could find a loving, supportive woman like you've been blessed with. An amazing, decent woman is life for us... I have to use a walker and have become sad at waking up anymore, asking myself daily, is this all that is to b for me. Always appreciate her. 💙
Your girlfriend is super brilliant
Thanks for being so honest and real. It's so refreshing to here you talk so freely about everything. Kudos! I'm slowly learning to be as upfront and honest about everything.
This is a very real and transparent video.. love it... and yes as a paraplegic we have these issues, and we need to get over them and pass them... and look ahead and know as he said crap happens, wipe your but and move (wheel) on..
Sense of humor, inner strength, and independence are key ingredients to attracting women in my opinion. They love to laugh. They love getting inspired by people with a big heart. And if they see that you can do many things on your own your wheelchair suddenly starts to disappear and you become more attractive to them.
These are great points! Absolutely correct 😁
"This is your life and l want to be a part for all that it is!" People who think like this are the people who are the ones living with us and don't care about us! Thank you! And: This can happen to anyone!
My man, mad respect to you. I go through many challenges in my day to day life, and I’m not in a wheelchair I just honestly rlly love to see even if your are disabled in anyway you still keep a positive vibe and a smile 24/7. 💯🔥⬆️
I LOVE this girl! So happy for you both! TRUE LOVE!
Thank you for inspiring me not to turn my back on life, this video will change the lives of many people thanks 🙏🏼
thanks for the video I've been struggling with this topic since 2011 eight year quadriplegic and pushing
You’re welcome man! Hope it gave you some hope for the future 😁
I'm just getting onto the dating scene and you touched on SO MANY of my anxieties! I'm especially appreciative that you were willing to talk about sexuality, because members of our community are so deprived of sexual understanding. As always, great video!
This video has changed my mindset, you guys have made me feel soooo much confident then before. You both are so right us being in a wheelchair isn’t a problem at all we just use it to move around it doesnt defined us
Awesome! That new found confidence looks good on ya!
The hardest thing about pursuing a relationship while disabled is expectation vs reality. I've noticed that so many people think that when you're in a wheelchair, you're either someone who needs total assistance or someone who just cannot walk (both of which seemed to have flawed thinking). It's never, "Hey let's just get to know this person and see what kind of personality, abilities, and needs they have. If we mesh, that's awesome! If not, that's also okay". I don't want a person to beat around the bush with me, and feel nervous with asking me questions about my disability. I also don't want to be drilled for information, in case, "they're not able to care for me". It's frustrating when I hear people say, "I wouldn't want to date a wheelchair user because I couldn't care for them". I understand that in many cases that may be true but it's not always the situation. It's important to ask questions and to be open and honest with each other.
As the saying goes first impressions are everything. But in the case of wheelchair users that is not true like ever because making assumptions just make an ass out of the person without asking the wheelchair user even if the non-disabled person does not see the wheelchair but the wheelchair user as who they are.
coming from a fellow dude in a wheelchair i salute you! your the man! i needed to hear this.
They are so open and honest I love it.
It’s just crazy seeing how able he is, he seems so independent.. my bf is in a wheelchair no nerve issues just didn’t do the physical training from his back surgery 4 years ago.. and stopped walking but we’re training now! But his mother pretty much did everything for him for years and got carried to the bathroom by his brothers to where even his hands don’t work very well let alone his eyelids from never looking up at anybody. It’s amazing seeing someone so functional. He gets really mad whenever I try and make a suggestion to help him better.. like us doing leg, hips, and core exercise together everyday or not using the knuckle on your thumb to grab stuff but try opening your thumb cause it will get you more used to grabbing stuff... but he just gets angry. Even this video he got really mad that I was watching it. I really feel like I can’t say anything to him.. almost like he wants me to lie to him and he doesn’t wanna do what will help him. The simplest stuff like getting protein shakes after our workout, nope. Just working out for an hour. LOOK WHERE THATS GOT US. NOWHERE CLOSE TO WALKING. He always just wants to fuck, get kisses, and be told good things. I left straight out of high school and halfway across the country to come live with him cause he told me he’d be walking in 1 or two months and all the pretty stuff we’d be doing.. one year later can’t even stand. NO PROGRESS BUT TEN POUNDS ON HIS WEIGHTS. I don’t know what to do I feel like I’m wasting my precious youth and time for college just sitting inside everyday with no job and going to the gym a few times a week. This is shitty of me to think, I know. But I’m just losing hope for the future I dreamed of.. the adventurous life with the love of my life will be a life of me probably dying young from taking care of my life his life an probably some children’s life’s. All. By. My. Self. His hands don’t workkkkkkkk he can’t lift anything above his head! Let alone lift his head up cause his hunch back prevents it. Damn I have a lot of shit to say... WOW. But I’ll end it here.
You really have explained to all of us what is important in every relationship, whether you are with a person using a wheelchair or not. I tell everyone that we are the same because we have the same problems every day just we who use a wheelchair have one problem more, and that's it. Have a nice day
Agreed. We all have problems, you can just see one of mine. Thanks for the super kind and sweet comment Suzana!
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Upravu si Suzana
I have MS and use a wheelchair. I just came across your page and I am now very inspired. You are absolutely right and a wheelchair doesn't have to stop you from living. Your videos are just awesome!
You have to become in what you what you want to attract. Is the best phrase that I've ever heard. I'm in a wheelchair and I think that a lot of people in a wheelchair should watch this video.
Can't thank you enough for this video. As my MS progresses and I lose more function, I can't see any "beauty" in myself anymore. I can't run 5 miles a day, I can barely lift weights. I feel like "I'm" gone. Maybe I just need a new outlook!
Yeah I can relate to feeling “less than” finding beauty in yourself and not your abilities or accomplishments is the key 😊
I have a degenerative condition as well and have definitely had to deal with feeling like "I'm" gone as well. It'll take time and I think it's a bit different with progressive conditions because things are constantly changing, so we're always having to deal with new things. It's not the end of the world at all! There is always someone out there who won't care that you're disabled, they'll love you for who you are. Sounds cheesy, but my girlfriend said that she fell for me because I'm confident, positive and interesting (her words!) and the fact I use a chair doesn't matter to her, except when we're deciding where to go out for a day trip and things like that...
Vicki Fluharty my MS has taken my ability to walk but not my will to laugh when I can or smile.
@@scotjuarez7148 That makes me smile! :) Thank you.
I feel you Vicki!! I have a Neurological Condition that affects my voice and the nerves spasm... It's drastically affected my confidence and the way I feel about myself... I've spent the last year watching positive uplifting videos and learning about how the brain works and it's helped me soooo much!! A positive mindset actually changes the chemicals in the brain!!! Making you healthier!!!! 🥰
Oh my God, you are so open! I absolutely love your chanel!!! Keep going!😎
I’m a wheelchair user as well, & so glad to find your channel today, keep up!
Dude great video! Very enlightening and dope how much confidence you exude and also to hear your girlfriends perspective on the relationship!
I think your confidence and determination are a very significant characteristic of your personality. Also I think it is very generous and considerate to share all of your experience in order to help people to deal with having to use a wheelchair. Also, you are a very cute couple, great personalities, both of you.
When I see your post videos I feel so much relax. Thank you so much for this.
I've just found your channel and I will keep watching
Your video popped up in my recommended to view. So glad it did as it was informative in my point of view.
As an L3 incomplete para, I found the discussion as something everyone should know something about.
Kudos to you and your other half! Keep on rocking!
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I have CP and I’m in a interable relationship. I’ve come to realize (as you said), it’s more about you completly accepting yourself. They have eyes, they see the wheelchair.
Great video. You are a great inspirations for people in wheelchairs. I am so glad that I found your channel.
I’ve been with my girlfriend for 11 years and we are very happy. It’s took time for me to be ready to date seriously. Getting used to rejection is key and after a while it’s easy. Making sure I had my life in order was important also. Get your own place and money coming in. Buy some good clothes and take care of your self physically. The bottom line is just go for it! You will be amazed at how many people are cool with the wheelchair and it can actually be an asset if you carry yourself well. Life of short, don’t let fear stop you from doing anything.
i really needed this today... thanks
Absolutely great video! Confidence in yourself is key! Every injury will be different but there are people that totally overlook the "problems" and look at the person!
Absolutely dude. Confidence is key! The more confident you are the less your injury exists.
Hello I just would like to say this video is awesome it's really helped me a lot on dating girls because I've been single for many years now I am in the wheelchair I have cerebral palsy dating has been difficult for me because I haven't found the right girl yet and over the past couple months I've kind of lost a little bit of my confidence but this video has showed me you can't give up and I'm just like everybody else no matter what I will not let my wheelchair Define who I am I know one day I will find my true love and we will live happily ever after. PS keep on making awesome videos like this you guys rock I wish you all the best thanks.
Soooo beautifully honest💖
You're a very lucky man to find such an amazing lady. I know how difficult and soul destroying it can be to be rejected over and over because on your disability but your story gives hope and shows us there is genuine people still out there who can see past our health issues wish you all the best guys for your future together god bless 🙏
Amazing advice for even able bodied persons like myself. Everyone has struggles and insecurities and limitations whether it be mentally or physically etc. This video just reinforces to have confidence and acceptance and love for yourself regardless, then you’ll attract more of that in people around you, love and acceptance for themselves and ultimately for you as well. It all circulates back around. You attract what you are. Love it!
You’re channel really saved me from the “chair slump” when I went in full time but with my old part time power chair it was major.
Reading this makes my heart smile. I’m so grateful for you ❤️ thank you so much for this kind comment. It lets me know I’m doing it right and motivates me to keep going 💪🏻
You are such a courageous person. Respect to you!
I love how she sees it! Just like me. My boyfriend is in a wheelchair to and just like here I see my boyfriend for my boyfriend and that is one of the things he feel fore whit me that I don’t see the wheelchair. He is the love of my life. He is in his wheelchair do to outer reasons than you but you are still like any other person. So happy to see more girls like me 🙂
Hell yeah! Go ahead Fred .. keep posting your stuff
This is the main thing that has me worried. I haven't been in a relationship in 6 years. I have all the orher aspects in my life in order. I would like to have someone special
Your channel deserves to be a 20 million subs channel! That is how amazing your videos are
Those who mind, don't matter and those who matter, don't mind. You are an amazing couple! Thanks for your candor!
I actually just started talking to someone with and spinal core injury.. and crazy how this just popped up on my RUclips suggestion. But I love it !
I like how you guys are so comfortable around each other, I've recently fell in love with a guy who use a wheelchair and i really hope we will be that way too as u ♥️God bless you
thank god I found this channel keep up the good work
I love your honesty. Thank you so much !
Whelp, he turned out to not be so awesome after all. 🥺😞
Your not laying in self pity, you deal with pain etc. And made a life for you. I Am very admire of people that don't let your w/c define you. God Bless You both. Hugs
I cryyy!i am super proud of you!
I'm not in a chair myself but I do love the bond you two have. Beautiful 🥰🥰❤️ it shows love really has no boundaries
I think with every video I just love you more and more. Yes, you are my corona RUclips binge and so glad you popped up in my feed.
So stoked you’re watching it all! What’s been your favorite so far?!
Wheels2Walking Oh that’s a tough one, but I’m going to say the instructional ones like your latest with Jesi on doing transfers. When you can roll up education, inspiration and motivation with a sprinkle of humor you know you are doing something right. I love the Q&A on the streets too, but honestly I love the variety of them all. I’d love to see a video from family and friends about their ups and downs over the years. Also as a fair warning if you are out and about in Atlanta and a big, bald man with a long beard squeals like a little girl and comes running up to you please don’t hit me I’m just excited to see you in person.
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Awesome video! I'm a non-disabled female but I feel like your advice about setting up an awesome life is universally applicable & am totally going to apply it to my dating life!
There isn't anyone whom is immune to and guaranteed life without any accidents of which could put them in a wheelchair or bed ridden. It's pure ignorance to look at anyone as less or even by pass a person because of a physical dis ability. It could happen to ANYONE. There are plenty of us whom are not shallow and wouldn't dismiss someone in a wheelchair. It's the heart, the person within whom counts.
As a care taker in general, I have a very special place in my heart for anyone with disabilities and the elderly. They are such beautiful people.
You two are awesome, thanks for this video.
I drove school bus for 17 yrs, after 5 yrs in, I got a special Ed run where I had a little boy in a wheelchair, he was such a sweetheart, but he could not carry on a conversation or do anything. I would take him to school, take him and his chair off the bus, wheeled him in to the school and I would head back home. On my way home I would just bawl my eyes out, I knew he would never be able to do things that I or any kids would be able to do. I did this for a few weeks and had to come off the run cause it was. Upsetting me to see him and know I could not do anything to make him better.
I know God puts us into these situation and gives us the cards that we must get accustomed to but it’s hard so I give everyone in a wheelchair that can function by them self a big hug cause I know it’s not easy and I hope the challenges get easy over time or more stuff is available to help with the disabled.
BTW, I know you are str8 but just wanted to say you are amazing and very good looking, your GF is pretty and so glad she has you and you have her. I find your videos amazing and thank you for showing us.
Thanks for this.
Seeing Jalila here and in "CAN A WHEELCHAIR USER BE IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP?!?" makes me understand better why my wife chose to be with me and I am WAY better for it!
Keep it up!
Thanks bro love ur vids..
I live in jamaica been in a wheelchair since I was born that dating thing is hard asf
You’re welcome dude! You on IG? I have a great post about how to become more confident on there. That could be more helpful!
My love is in wheelchair i wasn't know before because we met online when he told me i said it's ok i love your amazing heart Alhamdulillah now we are happy we will get married soon i love him so much more than before
Just joined, great videos, I'm wheelchair bound it's fun to watch you get around, you're the wheel dude.....
Thank you - your videos are always great!
Your videos helps to anyone whos heart nead love. I learned a lot
My dad was paralyzed from the waist down and in a wheelchair my whole life and most of his adult life from 26 untíl he passed in 04 😇. My mom is 4'10" so it was just us 3. I had the best childhood and some of the best times of my life back in the day!! My mothér loved him déarly and still doés!! I just wish social media was around in the 80's, so he and us could have connected with other families like us. You all are so inspiring¡! I wish you many happy héalthy yéars!! ✌🏼 Fróm CT
So cool
Awesome honesty. I have found that women really enjoy getting to know about our lives/injuries and over the years theyve treated me very well. Sure there are women who probably wouldnt date me but thats the same for all people. I think especially great women tend to find us and its a bit of a test to love someone with a very different lifestyle. It shows something about friends and lovers that means a lot to people like us. Cathing was always the most awkward information to share with others. Many of us have found awesome women and I really beleive anyone can. Ive had entire bars cheersing me because of the women on my lap... Ive gotten unsolicited numbers.. even old ladies try to help me out of the car 😆 The love is out there for all people. I just concieved naturally no problem... fu&k yeah ✊🏻✌🏻
Fuck yes dude! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 to everything!
Dude this vid is great love the positive vibes in it. The only thing Ima say I did not totally agree is, it's not the wheelchair in getting girls to go on dates with ya. There are times the girl can't look past the wheelchair, they tend to be them younger ones. You have Special women (like the girl you got, like the one I have), then you have those women that are just way shallow the ones that's best you stay away from. anyways, love this channel; I'm about to subscribe just because seems like you know what you're talking about in a lot of different subjects. Keep it up bro!
You two are simply dope. I am glad you both found each other.❤
She’s incredible I’m so lucky to have her in my life
I'm a paraplegic due to an accident. I use to be married and had a girlfriend, but its pretty hard to find a women who isn't shallow. Im not rich,nor am i poor. I have a big heart and lots to offer. I hope to find some.