Ben Affleck and J.Lo Working Out Split Announcement as He Debuts a New ‘Do (Source)

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • Ben Affleck sports a new hairdo as a source tells ET why he and his estranged wife, Jennifer Lopez, are waiting to announce their split.

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  • @energy70482
    @energy70482 Месяц назад +107

    The public doesn’t need an appropriate time for an announcement. Go ahead and do what you need to do.

    • @LloydGibson-lk1on
      @LloydGibson-lk1on Месяц назад

      😂🎉😢😮😅😊

    • @user-pr7zf4dz2m
      @user-pr7zf4dz2m Месяц назад +1

      These people are self absorbed

    • @4real266
      @4real266 Месяц назад

      Affleck is a piece of crap

    • @TheCarabailey
      @TheCarabailey Месяц назад

      ahhh. Confirm to an idiot that he is an idiot and why, first, then encourage him to do what you have to do. Otherwise he's going to remarry J.Lo again with no senses of what's happened.

    • @cyndee39
      @cyndee39 Месяц назад

      He looks 57 years old for being 62

  • @brianal7143
    @brianal7143 Месяц назад +165

    Why bother getting married in the first place if you're so quick to divorce?

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +28

      Exactly. If you're not committed why even get married??? I think he likes making her look dumb. He didn't even give it two yrs!!

    • @Closer_ToMe
      @Closer_ToMe Месяц назад +5

      This!

    • @Catwoman748
      @Catwoman748 Месяц назад +8

      Because Tiffany said it best , "Publicity stunt." 🩵🤣🤣😂😂

    • @keepingitreal5533
      @keepingitreal5533 Месяц назад +7

      @@Catwoman748 who is Tiffany? Lol

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад +4

      @@brianal7143 they both like the media attention they get when the relationship is new.

  • @user-pq2nv7lt8n
    @user-pq2nv7lt8n Месяц назад +141

    The worst thing about all these splits is the effect that it has on the kids. I can't imagine if my mom brought families and new men in my life every few years... it's traumatizing. Kids need stability. At least wait until they are adults if that's what you want to do.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад +13

      So true. It's almost like her kids are a total afterthought. The boy Max always looked depressed.

    • @dudaresende955
      @dudaresende955 Месяц назад +5

      No one got married to split so your comment doesnt have sense . Thats called Life , something bad happens every day . None of our business anyway

    • @luxurylifela2068
      @luxurylifela2068 Месяц назад +3

      Their dad has also been married before and has other children. I’m sure he dates and has people in his life as well. It’s just not as publicized as Jennifer Lopez’s life. These aren’t little babies. They’re teens that will be legal adults in no more than 2 years. They’re old enough to drive. They probably have their own lives, friends, and interests. They probably also spend a significant amount of time with their father. They’re at an age where her life doesn’t need to revolve around them. I don’t care for JLo but I think folks implying that she’s harming or traumatizing her kids are reaching. Tons of non-celeb kids for right or wrong have parents that have been married/divorced or ones constantly bringing home new “friends” or “uncles”. We just don’t know every detail because they aren’t famous. Since splitting with their father, she’s been engaged once and now married and potentially on the way to divorced again, so two major relationships.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад +1

      @@dudaresende955 actually she gets married to split 🤣🤣🤣. It's a pattern now. Duh

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад +3

      @@luxurylifela2068 it's a lot different when the kids live with the custodial parent. The custodial parent has a larger affect than the non custodial parent. Stop trying to make excuses. The constant change definitely has a negative effect on kids. You can look it up. Any family therapist will say the same.

  • @jennyrieras431
    @jennyrieras431 Месяц назад +26

    Not sure why they need to announce anything everyone knows they’ve already split. I’d just finalize it & keep it moving forward

  • @eversgirls574
    @eversgirls574 Месяц назад +47

    So embarrassing for her, after talking so much about the relationship in public. I think that was one of the downfalls. She should’ve treasured it more by keeping it private. And Ben has issues, right before getting with her he was all over the media drunk and tmz was always catching up with him. Then all of a sudden he’s gonna appear perfect just because he’s with her, no way. He has real issues that a girlfriend or wife, is not gonna fix. They moved way too fast on the relationship.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад +7

      She's not a nice person.

    • @VeeShenge
      @VeeShenge Месяц назад +2

      Ben has issues and a middle age single mama, multiple divorcee with an extremely high body count dos not? Ben has issues yes, and evidence that he has issues is that he married her in the first place, damn it.

    • @ms.c3
      @ms.c3 Месяц назад +3

      You are absolutely correct. Jennifer really likes drama and too much publicity. Plus she jumped into the relationship too fast. This is not good for her two coconuts (that’s what she calls her children)

    • @theresaelizabethelijah117
      @theresaelizabethelijah117 Месяц назад +1

      Exactly my thought Ben is a covert narcissist

    • @4real266
      @4real266 Месяц назад +1

      Allegedly she does not want rhe divorce

  • @normaalbino4558
    @normaalbino4558 Месяц назад +97

    No announcement is required, it’s obvious was going on, it’s their private lives, their relationship and their business. I’m kind of bummed but it’s their lives. If I was her I would stay alone.

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +8

      They make everything else public. And no one ever asks.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад +10

      Maybe she'll finally learn to keep private things PRIVATE.

    • @hoosfan
      @hoosfan Месяц назад +5

      She needs to give up on the marriage thing !!

    • @iveliserojas612
      @iveliserojas612 Месяц назад

      It why the divorce ing because she loves herself and she probably trying to see if she can change her mind I hope not he looks alone don’t stress he look perfectly if he would’ve been drinking

    • @TheCarabailey
      @TheCarabailey Месяц назад

      You would think she would have learnt that by now, apparently not.

  • @stormiewoods1490
    @stormiewoods1490 Месяц назад +76

    They should stay single.

    • @Somethingwittyxs4ku
      @Somethingwittyxs4ku Месяц назад +1

      So should you

    • @TonyaDenton-ks8mh
      @TonyaDenton-ks8mh Месяц назад

      So should have your mother 😝​@@Somethingwittyxs4ku

    • @karids934
      @karids934 Месяц назад +2

      They should stay married. Divorce after 2 years? It's easy and it's the choice of irresponsible, selfish weaklings. Try to save the marriage, make someone happy, overcome your ego, that’s what adults do.

  • @heatherthompson8878
    @heatherthompson8878 Месяц назад +133

    They dont need to announce anything its not anyones business 💯

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +14

      Oh please. They are the ones who chose to put their relationship out there in the public sphere. You can't have it both ways! They should've kept it private from the beginning!

    • @lela888
      @lela888 Месяц назад +5

      Whatevs we already know anyways

    • @Catwoman748
      @Catwoman748 Месяц назад +9

      JLO can't keep throwing rocks and hiding her hands.
      She made it our business.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад +7

      ??? She literally made a whole movie length music video, documentary AND CD about their relationship!!

    • @sof34
      @sof34 Месяц назад

      ​@@mrsx7944uh.. In what reality are you living in? How would they be able to keep their relationship a secret for two years? Do you expect them to barricade themselves inside??

  • @Mistyvalentine
    @Mistyvalentine Месяц назад +6

    The greatest love story never told was because it didn't last long enough for the story to be finished!

  • @amaris8084
    @amaris8084 Месяц назад +31

    May they both find peace and blessings. Life is too short to be negative.

  • @tc0306
    @tc0306 Месяц назад +252

    He always looked miserable, so sad for her kids they get used to the other kids and they have to readjust to not have them around, she needs to stop putting her needs first

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +32

      Exactly. They were super close to A Rods girls for years then poof they're gone and here comes a new family. Then POOF they're gone too! It's sad

    • @jeanrita4618
      @jeanrita4618 Месяц назад +13

      He's a mess! More like a breakdown than break up! Guess he wanted a new look for his 52 birthday. But it's not a good look. 😳🙄😜

    • @JannieJannie-mm2kr
      @JannieJannie-mm2kr Месяц назад +3

      ​@@mrsx7944 now u see how it is rare for a blended family to actually not makr differences between kidz, and that kids should not be calling others dad or mom?

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +10

      @@JannieJannie-mm2kr there's nothing wrong with a blended family. But it takes YEARS for two families to really blend.

    • @ttephi3667
      @ttephi3667 Месяц назад +11

      Ben has looked miserable for a long time. He looked miserable well before Jennifer. And perhaps he will continue to look miserable. Who knows.

  • @MrBdiddypop
    @MrBdiddypop Месяц назад +109

    It’s ok, they’ll get back together in another 20 years.

    • @lolalove4837
      @lolalove4837 Месяц назад +16

      pdiddy is next 😂😂😂😂just kidding 😂😂😂

    • @kitty-vk8ic
      @kitty-vk8ic Месяц назад +5

      😂

    • @leelee185
      @leelee185 Месяц назад +14

      They’ll rekindle there love in the nursing home

    • @MrBdiddypop
      @MrBdiddypop Месяц назад +7

      @@leelee185 yes and developing slight dementia helps in terms of forgetting all bad times. Like when Benny moved out of their 60 million dollar home and bought his own 20 million dollar mansion.

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +10

      ​@@MrBdiddypopand then he'll dump her again. Imo he gets off on embarrassing her.

  • @karenscala702
    @karenscala702 Месяц назад +21

    They didn’t last long. I think he had enough of her sharing their personal business.

    • @AnonymusLeConnu
      @AnonymusLeConnu Месяц назад +2

      Which she did also 20y ago. U can take J Lo out of the hood but cant take the hood put of J Lo

  • @Foreverwinter8
    @Foreverwinter8 Месяц назад +5

    To be honest it's ironic that they really believed the relationship would last. Whereas they both were doomed from the start, When they first broke up people knew they wouldn't be forever or were meant to be together. Despite the red flags both of them got back decades after and still couldn't make things or their marriage work. So we are honestly fed up of their toxicity. Some people just aren't meant to be with each other or try second chances

  • @vr6410
    @vr6410 Месяц назад +11

    I am not surprised at all. I just that knew it was going to happen. It was just a matter of time. Sorry for the kids. The JLo is very insecure.

  • @ladynottingham89
    @ladynottingham89 Месяц назад +31

    So much for those words he had engraved on her engagement ring….”I’m not going anywhere” I almost feel bad for Jlo and she’s hard to sympathize with after learning how she is to people.

    • @mdejesus3888
      @mdejesus3888 Месяц назад

      Do you have genuine proof not because what you heard whisper in the air and it's all fake

  • @Greenlee55
    @Greenlee55 Месяц назад +72

    both of them should have leave the past in the past. I feel sorry for her children.

    • @jenniferbond7073
      @jenniferbond7073 Месяц назад +6

      And his kids. Jen garner was right to try to distance Lopez from her daughter.

    • @StoicStud
      @StoicStud Месяц назад +2

      Never take back an ex

    • @mdejesus3888
      @mdejesus3888 Месяц назад

      I don't feel sorry for the children to go tell that to her baby that they doing better than ours acting like everybody supposed to be able to keep a man I still don't even have a damn man and I'm a good woman talking s***

    • @RRodriguez-ny6gc
      @RRodriguez-ny6gc 27 дней назад

      I agree, her children are expose to all this instability 🫥

  • @aaliyahkassim9142
    @aaliyahkassim9142 Месяц назад +15

    What was the whole point in this whole thing. Why did they make their comeback so big? It's just embarrassing. They didn't even last two years.

    • @mdejesus3888
      @mdejesus3888 Месяц назад

      Don't believe everything's you read they publicly this. how they make their free money's

  • @rhianhegarty3383
    @rhianhegarty3383 Месяц назад +93

    Let's face it...Jennifer and Ben were doomed from the start.
    As for her, girl....just be single. Married how many times now?

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach Месяц назад +10

      I love the way people JUDGE! Have you just had 1 Relationship??

    • @dudaresende955
      @dudaresende955 Месяц назад +7

      You dont have to tell others how to live their life

    • @Amal-i5e
      @Amal-i5e Месяц назад +8

      ⁠@@CrystalDatingCoach I love the way how you JUDGE other people’s comments!

    • @yogabee2222
      @yogabee2222 Месяц назад +9

      Who cares, she can get married as many times as she wants

    • @nevergiveupbaby1720
      @nevergiveupbaby1720 Месяц назад

      Shut up tryna tell another woman what to do

  • @ms.m7764
    @ms.m7764 Месяц назад +55

    It's sad to say but the only times I've see Ben happy is when he's around his children and Jennifer Garner.😂

    • @Lucy-xh3gv
      @Lucy-xh3gv Месяц назад +18

      Yes, until she got fed up with his drinking and then he goes and sleeps with the nanny. Then blames Jennifer G for his drinking, He made Jennifer G’s life miserable, and she’s a sweet woman but even sweet women get fed up.

    • @rgrateful
      @rgrateful Месяц назад +6

      So True!

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад +4

      ​@@Lucy-xh3gvhe never blamed her for him drinking. He already clarified that. Stop spreading rumors.

    • @adelaferreira4575
      @adelaferreira4575 Месяц назад +9

      And he cheated on her with his kids nanny,so no ! He is never happy with anyone ,and Jennifer Garner is a sweet lady !

    • @lang-ed3bk
      @lang-ed3bk Месяц назад

      @@Lucy-xh3gv after her appearance on Conan, I don’t see her as sweet anymore.

  • @patriotjaneusa504
    @patriotjaneusa504 Месяц назад +99

    JLow always getting engaged, getting married, and getting divorced 😂 Way to stay in the spotlight!

    • @Cicilo1983
      @Cicilo1983 Месяц назад +14

      It's not like talent alone will sustain her...

    • @syifams
      @syifams Месяц назад +6

      ​@Cicilo1983 damn 😂😂 and she has a newsletter for her fans, wonder how many

    • @angiedinwiddie9823
      @angiedinwiddie9823 Месяц назад +2

      Not her fault she got caught up in the Ben and Jennifer Garner tornado

    • @holly3359
      @holly3359 Месяц назад +1

      Reminds me of Mariah (always getting engaged but calling it off) collecting rings 😂

    • @TheCarabailey
      @TheCarabailey Месяц назад +1

      No, she lives in her own mind, and her mind tells her she's happily married, rich and famous. But in reality, it's actually not.

  • @chazzyg5908
    @chazzyg5908 Месяц назад +42

    A Teaser for a celebrity divorce SMH

  • @Citrusfruits50
    @Citrusfruits50 Месяц назад +21

    All she talked about was her relationship w/ him like it was the be all to end all. Bye Felicia

  • @kbloom8856
    @kbloom8856 Месяц назад +23

    These two never should have married!! Ben is fortunate that his kids have a loving and present mother. The same cannot be said about his current wife.

  • @staciesstuff2
    @staciesstuff2 Месяц назад +117

    Very sad for them. Just goes to show, being beautiful doesn’t make your life better.

    • @mariaoopezalemus8028
      @mariaoopezalemus8028 Месяц назад +10

      @@staciesstuff2 It's very sad because she was in love and he loved her too.

    • @user-en1zc5vd6y
      @user-en1zc5vd6y Месяц назад

      So ugly people don’t separate as much?

    • @h.l.malazan5782
      @h.l.malazan5782 Месяц назад +3

      Speaking from someone who was clearly a ten at her prime.

    • @lfuentes4098
      @lfuentes4098 Месяц назад +8

      Yup. And neither does having money. 😢 I wish them the best. But I’ll be honest, I was rooting for them.

    • @pilarcitadattus2016
      @pilarcitadattus2016 Месяц назад +11

      Who is beautiful here ? Do we know ow the meaning of beauty yet ?

  • @coconut8658
    @coconut8658 Месяц назад +109

    Good for Ben!!!!! He was miserable with JLO 🤷‍♀️

    • @mindy2215
      @mindy2215 Месяц назад +6

      He was with her because he wanted her. He even married. her. The press was driving him crazy as he said in one interview.

    • @IeshaWhite-js8fk
      @IeshaWhite-js8fk Месяц назад +15

      ​@mindy2215 she help them drive him crazy

    • @Saucybossy25
      @Saucybossy25 Месяц назад +17

      Please.... He's miserable with himself!!! Open your eyes!!! HE is the PROBLEM!!

    • @LifeAfterLosing
      @LifeAfterLosing Месяц назад +10

      He will be miserable with anyone he is with. He is the issue for sure. People with addiction issues, even if they aren’t using are extremely selfish.

    • @user-qh2yg3zq3i
      @user-qh2yg3zq3i Месяц назад +13

      He's been miserable all his life, so sad he made others miserable as well.

  • @Vaan1891
    @Vaan1891 Месяц назад +7

    They want to take their time announcing it. News media "HAVE YOU HEARD THE NEWS!"

    • @gregoryclarke7298
      @gregoryclarke7298 Месяц назад

      Ha,ha,ha... good one! Do they even read the newspapers? People are not into her as much as she thinks they are. Any news about her is overrated!

  • @prdivamom
    @prdivamom Месяц назад +6

    Her kids are used to this already

  • @yohanawu7347
    @yohanawu7347 Месяц назад +7

    For better or worse I follow my heart? You mean u do whatever you want?

  • @LauraRoberts-ed9nj
    @LauraRoberts-ed9nj Месяц назад +17

    Movie role? He's going to be in the sequel to the movie Jlo put out about their love story.His film is called,Part 2 This is me now....Girl bye💔

  • @susantrueman4651
    @susantrueman4651 Месяц назад +56

    Its a big shame as they do love each other
    But he likes the quiet life and she loves the bright lights 😢

    • @pilarcitadattus2016
      @pilarcitadattus2016 Месяц назад

      Not a shame ..she a selfish woman . BEN has his problems too ..and deserves someone much better. Why would u think that a 60MM house would mk them happy. Just that woman

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +9

      Lies. He knew that before married her. That's not why they're divorcing. That's just the lame excuse they want people to buy.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar Месяц назад

      BS! She's just an egocentric self absorbed control obsessed nag!

  • @rgrateful
    @rgrateful Месяц назад +3

    Ben RAN SO FAST!

  • @Cicilo1983
    @Cicilo1983 Месяц назад +27

    Yeah, like THAT was gonna last. Again.

  • @wandajones717
    @wandajones717 Месяц назад +3

    we will never know the full story. they need to do whats best for their kids and focus on their individual lives.

  • @Paradys8
    @Paradys8 Месяц назад +4

    JL wants a FAMILY-man, STABLE marriage, NOT a runaway husband. She wanted to settle down with him.
    He, he likes ‘adventures’, temporarily relationship, a fling with the nanny…, he wants just to have fun and move on.

    • @TheCarabailey
      @TheCarabailey Месяц назад

      Oh just stop. She wants a slave. Cap!

  • @MELINDAMD
    @MELINDAMD Месяц назад +2

    Children are always watching their parent's behavior we have to be good role models for them.

  • @Dee.Mcw15
    @Dee.Mcw15 Месяц назад +8

    Why are we waiting? We already know

  • @user-up8xq4uf1h
    @user-up8xq4uf1h Месяц назад +22

    Jlo always want to be in spot light diva boss lady,differcult to stay with.

  • @marymotherofgod4861
    @marymotherofgod4861 Месяц назад +7

    He looks better than ever!! Blessings Ben keep it pushing Papi❤

  • @sandranynj7118
    @sandranynj7118 Месяц назад +20

    I wish Peace to them both.

  • @xaroraxaro
    @xaroraxaro Месяц назад +6

    lol The rug has already been pulled out from under her children several times…

  • @gregoryclarke7298
    @gregoryclarke7298 Месяц назад +4

    Jaylo is so used to switching up and getting a different man, that she don't need to get married anymore. She literally is telling people that she gets bored having one man and when that happens she gets rid of them. She is no role model in my book. I really feel sorry for the next man that decides to hook up with her.

    • @mdejesus3888
      @mdejesus3888 Месяц назад

      I wonder how many you been up to !? secretly and your skeletor closet 😆 and without a marriage ring 💍🔐🔑💖🤵👰💘💝✨💛🔥👑😏💰👏👏👏👏

    • @TheCarabailey
      @TheCarabailey Месяц назад

      she's old, too old to be doing that.

  • @TheStorm36
    @TheStorm36 Месяц назад +56

    She will have a new man in no time…

    • @mariaoopezalemus8028
      @mariaoopezalemus8028 Месяц назад +1

      Yes, but the problem is if that man Will be like her actual husband. He is very lovely and good father.

    • @mindy2215
      @mindy2215 Месяц назад +1

      Just like you do The storm. That is what they say in your neighborhood. One goes, another comes. Do not believe it?Ask.

    • @mindyann8903
      @mindyann8903 Месяц назад

      Women are absolutely horrible to each other and you look old enough to know better.

    • @Sandy-tv1lu
      @Sandy-tv1lu Месяц назад +2

      On to the next husband.

    • @chrisbrown8641
      @chrisbrown8641 Месяц назад +6

      She broke up with Arod on Tuesday and got with Ben on Wednesday. This is all very strange to all of sudden break up.

  • @lisasims8334
    @lisasims8334 Месяц назад +4

    All of their children except for Ben's youngest are near adults. Jlo's kids are used to her revolving door of men. They will be fine.

  • @chrisbrown8641
    @chrisbrown8641 Месяц назад +14

    She moved on so fast from A Rod. Now this? What is going on?

    • @adelaferreira4575
      @adelaferreira4575 Месяц назад +2

      Both cheaters

    • @RRodriguez-ny6gc
      @RRodriguez-ny6gc 27 дней назад

      She is so worried about her love life and her kids are always in the back burner.

  • @h3artands0uLL
    @h3artands0uLL Месяц назад +6

    I think it’s so sad. How devastated she must be. First he breaks off the engagement 20 years ago and she always said he was the love of her life. Now this? She must be crushed. She put out this giant project about their love - album, movie, documentary and had set up a whole tour.
    Now? Tour cancelled bc of low ticket sales, movie flopped and doc was ridiculed. Now her marriage is potentially over?
    It’s gotta be the most topsy turvy year for her.
    A big birthday -55- and he wasn’t even there. 💔
    I feel like she carried a torch for him all these years and it’s so disappointing it came to this. I think they may have just grown into two completely different people with the 20 years they were apart. He had a chance back then to make it work. They COULD HAVE grown together. And now, they’re just too different. They have 5 kids between them from their previous marriages and it’s too much to try to make it work.
    I wish them all the best. It cannot be easy and all in the public eye ❤
    They started in the public eye 20 years ago and it had a hand in ending them she said - and now this. They finally made it to the altar but now headed for divorce. It was meant to be her last marriage but it didn’t last.
    She kept with the public eye thing to rub it in all the haters’ faces from way back then but it’s just not the same anymore. Ppl don’t take as much of a vested interested in her love life anymore the way they do Taylor Swift’s or Zendaya’s.
    Hopefully she heals. Her and her children. And finds the love one day she has wanted all her life. First within herself.

    • @Ava2969ny
      @Ava2969ny Месяц назад +2

      What you said about them growing in two different directions sounds correct. Jen seemed to still want to live her life in the public eye, and he probably wanted a more settled and private life, especially after raising kids. They also may have lost what they had when they were both young...youth is a special time, especially when two people have not yet been hurt by life's ups and downs, divorces, etc. Once jaded, forever changed!

    • @dls31070
      @dls31070 Месяц назад

      Well said

  • @karids934
    @karids934 Месяц назад +6

    1. He wooed her and he proposed to her (twice)
    2. He wrote on the ring “Not going anywhere”
    3. He said in an interview that this is a beautiful story and maybe someday he will write a book about it.
    4. He said that this time she can do whatever she wants, he will not interfere with her.
    5. He came up with the title "The Greatest Love Story Never Told"
    6. He said that he would compromise.
    But everyone blames Jennifer. Jennifer is a very loving and naive. My heart hurts for her. I can't imagine how much it hurts her if he wants divorce. I don't believe...

    • @dls31070
      @dls31070 Месяц назад +3

      @@karids934 you are 100% correct. He wooed her. Made her feel safe and loved and then dumped her when shit started getting real. I’m no fan of hers but the hate she’s getting is ridiculous. He love bombed her as soon as she split from ARod. She should not have shared the book of love letters with her team. But that book was huge. Those weren’t just letters from the 2 years they dated. It’s letters that he’s written her for the last 20 years, while he was married to Jennifer Garner. He’s no angel. He was keeping JLo on the back burner for a long time. He inscribed her engagement ring with Not Going Anywhere. He manipulated her and she never saw it coming because she loved him so much. Her album, movie and documentary were all about how much she loved him. It was her way of love bombing him back. She did it in a very public way, but that’s who she is. And he knew that! She did it because she loved him and now he’s dumping her because of it and the entire internet is on his side. He’s made a fool out of her and she’s made a fool out of herself. It’s just very sad. No one deserves this, not even her.

    • @karids934
      @karids934 Месяц назад +2

      @dls31070 Thank you. But I don't agree with you about the letters. I will never believe that this story with letters was even the slightest reason for divorce. This is absurd. These are letters from 20 years ago and after his divorce from Garner, and he divorced her back in 2015. He gave her this homemade book. This means that she can do whatever she wants with it. She shows a couple of people some letters (not all, she picks), perhaps where he writes very beautifully. I don't see anything wrong with this. It's so girly. Forget about the letters please. Her movies about self-love. Yes, in the doc she mentions the love between them, but it's more about her love for him. She adores him. There is absolutely nothing disgusting or shameful about this.

    • @karids934
      @karids934 Месяц назад +2

      @dls31070 I mean that he instilled in her 100% confidence in him, so that she would never doubt him, he, one might say, guaranteed her that he would be with her until the end of days. And this is such a huge responsibility and he took it upon himself with full confidence. And if it's true that he wants a divorce, it just pulls the ground out from under her feet. It's like saying, sorry baby, I lied. This is a stab in the back. This is what is disgusting and shameful and this is precisely what there is no justification for. I don't believe he is capable of such meanness. I still think that is all media machinations.

    • @karids934
      @karids934 Месяц назад +1

      Yes, she is not perfect, as we all. She is very demanding, stubborn, still does not love herself, and cannot set her priorities, extrovert. But he knew her perfectly well, and he consciously made a choice, and it only lasted for 2 years? Shock...

    • @dls31070
      @dls31070 Месяц назад +1

      @@karids934
      I never said there was anything shameful or disgusting. I never even used those words. I agreed with everything you said. I do think he should be ashamed, of himself. He made her feel safe and loved and bailed when things didn’t go his way.

  • @armchairguru1921
    @armchairguru1921 Месяц назад +7

    He's trying to look like he can take on the role of Hulk Hogan.

  • @Catwoman748
    @Catwoman748 Месяц назад +2

    Freedom Ride.🏍💨 Bens peace is most important.🩵

  • @arloafluhr1112
    @arloafluhr1112 Месяц назад +18

    Everyone knows when a woman cuts her hair, the relationship is over, but when the guys gets a whole new style, it over over! 🥴🤣🤣

  • @cesarestrada8175
    @cesarestrada8175 Месяц назад +137

    J Lo is the problem in her relationships

    • @mindyann8903
      @mindyann8903 Месяц назад +19

      You don’t know that. Have you seen who she’s dated ? Ben who’s an Alcoholic ( from his own mouth ) … Puff daddy ?! She’s made poor choices for sure but who hasn’t. I don’t understand all the hate she gets from all you “perfect” ppl.

    • @Barrbiana
      @Barrbiana Месяц назад

      @@mindyann8903mistakes is one two is a choice , she just like bad boys

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +10

      @@mindyann8903 saying the truth isn't "hate" so stop exaggerating. If she's picking the wrong people OVER AND OVER then she actually IS the problem.. she obviously doesn't know what to stay away from! She keeps choosing the same type of man in a different package.

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 Месяц назад +9

      ​@@mindyann8903 you only named 2 men out of like 10 . What was wrong with Chris Judd? Her first husband Ojani? Marc Anthony? A Rod?? You can't always blame the other person.

    • @victoriaspencer6357
      @victoriaspencer6357 Месяц назад +4

      @@mrsx7944oh didn't know she was married 10 times

  • @YvonneMichelleAutry
    @YvonneMichelleAutry 28 дней назад +1

    I sincerely HOPE that they both find ENDURING JOY, HAPPINESS & SOUL MATES!💕

  • @thepamela050
    @thepamela050 Месяц назад +3

    Well lets hope their chldren don't grow up to make a mockery out of marriage like their parents..It's hard to take JLo seriously anymore, she jumps in way too quickly..

  • @goodmorningfrommt
    @goodmorningfrommt Месяц назад +2

    Kids can finally breathe!

  • @mollygiovanna1095
    @mollygiovanna1095 Месяц назад +4

    I think they just announced it for them.

  • @Igottopcomments
    @Igottopcomments Месяц назад +4

    Followed her heart…look at where she at now….

  • @risaisrael4516
    @risaisrael4516 Месяц назад +6

    Awww, J. Lo. Keep following your heart. ❤

  • @DexterWhite-v8i
    @DexterWhite-v8i Месяц назад +4

    They got married because of how shallow they both are.
    They got divorced because of how shallow they both are.

  • @anirai1516
    @anirai1516 Месяц назад +18

    I think everyone already knew. They looked like they weren’t getting along well in their marriage.

  • @pdx-p2i
    @pdx-p2i Месяц назад +3

    I feel bad for the kids

  • @lopresti4559
    @lopresti4559 Месяц назад +9

    They are both better off without each other. ❤

  • @mariroerig2991
    @mariroerig2991 Месяц назад +1

    Surprise surprise. She changes men left and right.

  • @keepingitreal5533
    @keepingitreal5533 Месяц назад +7

    What was the point of her going to all those graduation ceremonies and basketball games (one of which showed them holding hands outside of an event) only to break up 5 weeks later? SMH

  • @kaylinlifejournal4467
    @kaylinlifejournal4467 Месяц назад +6

    Hope Ben can find a woman that will make him happy and more creative in the future.

    • @Lucy-xh3gv
      @Lucy-xh3gv Месяц назад +8

      No women is going to make him happy because he is not a happy person. He is an alcoholic that blames all his wives for his unhappiness. He needs to get sober, stay sober, and stay single and work on his demons.

  • @minervagalvez5937
    @minervagalvez5937 Месяц назад +4

    FCKIN FINALLY...DIVORCE!!! BEN YOU ARE FOREVER FREE!!! RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND SHUT AND LOCK THE DAMN DOOR BEHIND YOU SO JLO CAN'T GET IN EVER!!!

  • @FLeigh12
    @FLeigh12 Месяц назад +2

    Let's hope Mr Affleck derives the enormous life lesson here.!!! To N E V E R E V E R get married again...!!!!!!
    And to enjoy being single for now, and have girlfriends for the rest of his life, without putting a damn ring on it .....
    Love his brutal honestly when married: '' I felt trapped '' ....!! That is the feeling of most men.
    Don't be forced to do this madness ever again. Your a damn Oscar Winning Screenwriter...!!! ❤

  • @JoyP-rw5bc
    @JoyP-rw5bc Месяц назад +7

    The heart is deceitful above all who can know it

    • @BrightSoul736
      @BrightSoul736 Месяц назад

      I guess she hasn’t read The Book.

  • @gertrudesmith9852
    @gertrudesmith9852 Месяц назад +51

    Too bad she couldn’t respect his sobriety journey and pushed her alcohol business🙄 all about the money

    • @Bookwasbetter
      @Bookwasbetter Месяц назад +16

      Or his desire to maintain privacy. She went and made a whole documentary and movie and album about her love life with him, knowing he wasn't comfortable with it.

    • @pilarcitadattus2016
      @pilarcitadattus2016 Месяц назад +12

      ​@@Bookwasbetter Surprised? This woman is extremely selfish

    • @adelaferreira4575
      @adelaferreira4575 Месяц назад +7

      He hasn’t been sober in a long time,he drinks and then he stops and he starts again ,she has nothing to do with his alcohol problems !

    • @veronicacarranza7965
      @veronicacarranza7965 Месяц назад +1

      That sounds ignorant, it had nothing to do with that. She created that business before him it was long in production. She’s just advertising so you think she actually using those products. In her shape. She’s a salesman she’s making money. He knew long before. Wouldn’t it be nice to say it was that simple. This crap is much deeper. He’s unhappy he had a bad childhood from his experiences with his dad. Just like will smith is all jacked up so is Ben by his history. He tried and tried but he’s miserable. Alcoholism has a hold of him even in recovery. He can’t keep a promise for sure. He said he’d handle the media pressure they follow them like hawks. He said he’d never leave. She has issues yes and he is equally at fault.

    • @veronicacarranza7965
      @veronicacarranza7965 Месяц назад

      @@Bookwasbetterthe one he filmed with her the one he was behind as the interviewer. Did you even watch it. It was about a journey to love yourself because Prince Charming can’t fix you your self love is the real journey.

  • @veronicacarranza7965
    @veronicacarranza7965 Месяц назад +3

    He’s a coward he promised he wasn’t going anywhere. He’s a coward.

  • @theomartin7339
    @theomartin7339 Месяц назад +7

    Im done giving 2 bucks anymore. I routed for these two. Jlo you go through more men than anything i've ever seen. Chill it out.

  • @selenavillarreal9951
    @selenavillarreal9951 Месяц назад +2

    Handsome ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @barrysmith4610
    @barrysmith4610 Месяц назад +8

    Dont know if its possible anymore but hopefully he gets back together with Jen Garner

    • @adelaferreira4575
      @adelaferreira4575 Месяц назад +1

      No he won’t ,she is about to marry her boyfriend ,she learned her lesson well,treats him nice because of his children ,but he has humiliated her in public and in private ,who sleeps with the nanny ? He is a trouble guy !

    • @violetamih8617
      @violetamih8617 Месяц назад +1

      @barrysmith Yes, he would have a sane life. Also, the kids would be very happy to have their father at home.

  • @KingdomOfLegends
    @KingdomOfLegends Месяц назад +2

    The media has been doing the announcements for months for them.

  • @lopelopez5715
    @lopelopez5715 Месяц назад +2

    j-Low next move, trying to get a role as super hero

  • @pegggymallis324
    @pegggymallis324 Месяц назад +1

    His comments about claiming insanity for divorce, so now he's got the look

  • @kristenalmonte1110
    @kristenalmonte1110 Месяц назад +2

    Hope they stay solo. This got extremely toxic.
    They both should never marry. Odds are against them with their track record.

  • @wendi8999
    @wendi8999 Месяц назад +3

    He has midlife crisis and leaves her. Despicable man.

  • @debr4613
    @debr4613 Месяц назад +2

    She has a heart?

  • @jenfs2188
    @jenfs2188 Месяц назад +1

    Ben looks cray-cray.
    He looks like a rebellious *MID LIFE CRISIS*

  • @FreedomofSpeech865
    @FreedomofSpeech865 Месяц назад +3

    I feel bad for Jennifer, she deserves a good, strong, solid love. Ben has a lot going on with him.

  • @kathynelson8423
    @kathynelson8423 Месяц назад +17

    My prayers are with both you and your family! You’ll get through this and a new chapter is ahead with exciting things in front of you both so remain good friends and keep a good spirit! We love you all! God bless you in all your endeavors.
    Love,
    Kathy Nelson

  • @1jsilvera
    @1jsilvera Месяц назад +4

    He looked and was miserable pre Jlo so stop it, but i agree she should just stay alone for a while and get back to her career

    • @user-uo4hl4dc4b
      @user-uo4hl4dc4b Месяц назад +2

      what career? She's not that talented.

    • @1jsilvera
      @1jsilvera Месяц назад

      @@user-uo4hl4dc4b ur delusional shes been in the game 30 + years , countless #1 movies, albums, sold out arenas fashion icon, i mean even her perfumes have been successful, u must be out ur damn mind if u think she doesnt have a career

  • @marisolfigueroa5905
    @marisolfigueroa5905 Месяц назад +9

    HOW SAD, AFTER SUCH A BIG WEDDING AND ALL THAT LOVE TALK AND HER PROJECTS. ALL FOR WHAT? JLO STAY SINGLE! 🤪

    • @syifams
      @syifams Месяц назад +4

      For money and fame of course 😂

    • @TheCarabailey
      @TheCarabailey Месяц назад +1

      I hope she paid for the wedding

    • @syifams
      @syifams Месяц назад +1

      @TheCarabailey clearly not, and the 60 million house they bought last year 🙄

    • @marisolfigueroa5905
      @marisolfigueroa5905 Месяц назад +1

      IS JLO GOING TO MAKE NEW MUSIC ABOUT THIS DIVORCE? I HOPE NOT!🤣🤣🤣

  • @insomniac_racheal
    @insomniac_racheal Месяц назад +2

    Why does Ben looks like he he aged 50 years 😮

  • @kathywhitson8737
    @kathywhitson8737 Месяц назад +2

    Jlo poor kids been through this enough

  • @elliebeebeauty6419
    @elliebeebeauty6419 Месяц назад +8

    He looks great . Top Gun vibe.😅nyc

  • @janetfedeles3964
    @janetfedeles3964 Месяц назад +3

    Obviously for the worse, JLo. You need therapy.

  • @cynthiasmith4130
    @cynthiasmith4130 Месяц назад +3

    He looks bad ass!!! Good Luck Ben!!!

  • @kenterminateddq5311
    @kenterminateddq5311 Месяц назад +6

    Again?

  • @EmilyGuruleZiegler
    @EmilyGuruleZiegler Месяц назад +4

    I'm so sorry it hasn't worked out 😢

  • @sunnybrucci3453
    @sunnybrucci3453 Месяц назад +2

    The best to all involved. They have to be happy. Totally different personalities.

  • @jessicanaan3284
    @jessicanaan3284 Месяц назад +4

    It's a toss up with these two middle aged people re: who's to blame. But, Lopez is really trying to look like the victim, once again. Ben didn't realize that in 20 years JLo had become fame & fortune obsessed.

  • @mariejo7408
    @mariejo7408 Месяц назад +2

    I wish Ben the best he's away from his ex great done honey RUN sweetheart 😂❤

  • @jeangray6863
    @jeangray6863 Месяц назад +1

    Jennifer, Jennifer, I am speaking to you like a mother, leave this guy, don't look back and spend sometime getting to know yourself. It's ok to be alone, wait, be patient and you will find your soul mate.😢😢😢😢

    • @karids934
      @karids934 Месяц назад

      He is her soul mate. But they are both so selfish. I feel sorry for both of them, more of course for her.

  • @cynthiafrancis8401
    @cynthiafrancis8401 Месяц назад +3

    What the hell is the problem?? JLO can’t even stay married!! And after all these years Ben and Jen get back together to just Divorce after a year or so??!!! RIDICULOUS!!

  • @xoabby7772
    @xoabby7772 Месяц назад +1

    Ben Affleck has so many red flags…truly feel for him. His dad hurt him deeply and when he looks in the mirror he sees that he is the same way to his kids. He can break the cycle if he regains his power.

  • @kristinscotbarryjames
    @kristinscotbarryjames Месяц назад +1

    Does anyone really believe this nonsense? Its not about the kids who would have known long before this

  • @moniquesykes8351
    @moniquesykes8351 Месяц назад +4

    Sad I FEEL for the KIDS😢 they got close snd bonded snd became siblings and now its like NOW WHAT??? SAD the kids always suffer the most

  • @user-yv4gz2oc2s
    @user-yv4gz2oc2s Месяц назад +1

    I wish both Jen & Ben the best of luck❤

    • @TonyaDenton-ks8mh
      @TonyaDenton-ks8mh Месяц назад

      I don't, all they do is travel and vacation in lovely areas and looks like they don't appreciate that they can do that, alot of people wish they can do that but surely can't. Who gives a sh*t about them spoiled liberals!

  • @TiffanyMorris-g2d
    @TiffanyMorris-g2d Месяц назад +14

    Divorce haircut