He said women always gain and never lose even though the man is given the authority to divorce but based on a documentary 'divorce Iranian style' a young women who tried to divorce her husband without mutual consent. She accused her husband of deception, insanity, ill treatment she even claim her husband stole her gold. Eventually she got herself divorce of mutual consent which her husband agreed to it, but on the condition that she gives up her mehr (money/gifts that she was supposed to get from her husband). Turn out there are women who end up giving up mehr just so they can get divorce. Even in mutual divorce she got nothing.
it is women who have more to loose, what was not addressed is the stigma against divorcees. its not just about the monetary gain. A divorced woman in some societies is treated very unfairly making it very difficult to re-marry and when you add children on to that, let's be honest, very few men are kind enough to accept a woman with baggage.
A divorced woman is not treated unfairly i would say but if you have the chance between a divorced woman or an unmarried one you choose the unmarried one. And now than ever with all that zina spreading no one sadly cares anymore about the woman being a virgin. They think its normal to sleep around 8 to 10 different people in general before marrying both men and women
you are probably talking about some societies.... go and see west, men arent marrying in fear of losing half of the wealth coz their women have the authority of divorce too.... its men that have MUCH more to lose...
yea, except that other religion doesn't take 2nd wife as thats not in their doctrine (nor did God actually made up to 4 woman for adam) so no, the argument doesn't fit
I have one doubt guys .. In my place our mosque is supporting a men who is injustice . One Muslim men leaved his wife in her mother house and he is going to marry another women without divorcing and not getting permission from his first wife . ( it’s not justice ) But Our mosque is still supporting that man to marry another girl by using shariat law !! I don’t understand what is going on here !!!!! Please any one reply I’m really upset and confused 😢.😢😢😢😢 I feel very sad for her because he did many cruel things to her and he’s living happily...
It is only halal to have more than 1 wife only if you treat them equally. It won’t be treating them equally if the first wife disagrees so that is haram
A woman has the right to do anything she wants. Democracy allows her to do whatever she deems necessary for her well being. No religion is going to stop her or treat her lower than a man. Democracy is an amazing form of government. Religion and state never objects each other.
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I am living in the West and people do not seem to understand just what Zakir Naik he said. TRUE as a man you lose. If you divorce the house, the money all go to the woman, even what they call Child Support goes to the woman. A man must start again, work hard build a new life, this creates a strange society were men are weak and women are strong.
Bro, Dr Naik is saying that even in Islam the man is at a disadvantage. Forget the western problems which are separate ("strange society where men are weak...") If a man has to support his children after divorce, that is just his natural obligation after all. Women suffer more in terms of the physical weaknesses from bearing his children. So both are not getting off easy just bc ge has to pay and she doesn't pay.
My wife is very abusive, she says she wants to drive me crazy so that I can give her divorce. In this case if I give her divorce does she still get to keep the mahar ?
I don't agree with him at all. We'll keep remarrying because we want more meher money? Who thinks like that? It's not about money. We live in a time where women can work and make their own. Women CAN divorce is Islam. It's that's simple. Yes it has to be a legitimate reason, but the same goes for the man as well.
may be you are honest not to commit fraud in this way but in many countries a lot of women have done it already and its a very easy thing to do. a person who is greedy you cannot imagine the extent of that greed. its just the security valve he is talking about nothing more.
Yeah.. very peaceful.. Osama bin Laden and Isis are sooooo Peaceful.. 😍 All Terrorists in pakistan and Dawood Ibrahim and millions of other Terrorists are soooo Peaceful.. 😍🤣🤣 They are all from Islam.. lmao.. So come on kiss my a**..
What if the wife is a stateless woman who is married to a man who left her? Can she get a divorce? And how would she do that if she doesn't have citizenship in any country? What judge would have jurisdiction over her?
@@عليياسر-ذ5ب stateless = without a state = a person who is not a citizen of any country. (According to Wikipedia, in international law, a stateless person is someone who is "not considered as a national by any state under the operation of its law". Some stateless people are also refugees. However, not all refugees are stateless, and many people who are stateless have never crossed an international border.)
Ya right she gain... I've known many Islam divorce women's that their husbands not paying a single cent n even after divorce no one is looking after her she's on her own... what a bullshit
The speakers response to the woman that was asking about women and divorce in Islam is the reason why I have so much respect for muslims and the islamic religion. Muslims are a different breed of men, they're not afraid to say what they know is right and they don't care if people get offended. Westernize nations are falling apart internally because the religious foundation that was responsible for the rise of these nations is being stripped away from them. Western countries are now losing their grip on the world and are not as powerful as they once were. All of the western countries are in debt and are relying on borrowed money from countries like China to keep them afloat and are also being forced to cut from their military to pay their bills. Russia laughs at the western countries now as if they're a joke, and the leaders of Russia are spreading their communist agenda across eastern Europe. The cause of the decline of westernize nations is liberalism. Liberals believe that in society there are people that are victims and that those people deserve special treatment over others. Their believe system is that we are all supposed to take money from hard working people and give that money to people that don't serve it and they justify this by portraying the receivers of the money as victims. The liberal agenda has hurt western societies. Look at what liberals have done to the countries in Europe. None of the men want to get married anymore. Women in these countries have free reign when it comes to divorce. Men are punished like criminals when their marriages don't work out. Many men are forced to live out of their cars after failed marriages while women enjoy the AC in their beautiful homes because the men have to pay women huge amounts of money to sustain the lifestyle that they had while they were married. In the west the judges don't care about what went on in the marriage. A women can file divorce because she loves someone else and receive huge amounts of money from her ex husband while she dates other people. This is the reason why men don't want anything to do with marriage and children anymore and that is the reason why babies being born out of wedlock has become so prevalent in westernize societies. Marriage is a joke. While this is going on muslim families are staying together and are having 7 to 10 children per marriage. Western countries have become corrupt, and their leaders and lawmakers are fake, they don't really follow the word of God as they claim they do. The only thing that they care about is money. Marriage is a business just like everything else. Marriage is something that only God can control not man. Marriage is not something for greedy lawyers to use as their means to make money off of.
+Jack Harper (The Illusive Man) lol bro we do care and of course we dont want to offend anyone. but sometimes, whether you like it or not, truth hurts. btw i only know 1 person who has 9 siblings, usually they they have like maximum 5 siblings. oh, and props to you for knowing about Islam not in a way that media portrayed, but you did your own research. respect.
i was very skeptic of his reply at the first ..........but held on my patience.......and then as he mentioned that some woman cud misuse their right......so as to prevent this...wow...now that how we follow the balance....at first it sounds like Islam is like another male dominant religion....but on further explaination...... things actually make sense....allhamdullilah
Modern women does not need meher, if she does not want to continue with the husband she should also have her rights. For muslim husband, it's comparatively very easy to divorce.
I want to file a khula But how?? If I don’t have any marriage contract astagfirullah,,.. I don’t want my husband May Allah will forgive me and make it easy for me
Leave any religion that doesn’t let you take your own decision. Religions are man made and if there is God , God wouldn’t differentiate men and women. If God does God isn’t God
Why has husband yet been given the athority to do what he wills? Doesn't this simply mean, the husband can do what he wants Furthermore The husband also can be given the rights for the nullification of marriage alone just as the woman possesses The woman can yet create a fake report and nullify the marriage(Correct me if i'm wrong) Why is there a discrimination in this matter between them? Please explain
Are you saying that even though women is on the receiver side yet the islam must favor women? Or you wanna say that why is the men provider/responsible to look after their women? Can you please explain your question?
No one said the man has to take care of all the money????? Both should work and earn money. I'm Muslim but I honestly don't care about this I will divorce my husband if I don't like him but he doesn't want to divorce? There's always a reason behind the woman wanting a divorce and statements like this in Islam have ruined it for so many women living in dictatorships like Iran where divorce is really hard for women
dear pupil my name is shafaque am illtreated by my husband and in laws i have tolerated my hell like married life for 4 yrs i lost peace of my mind my dignity and evrything in this marriage including my health. Please guide me to the right path thanking u all in anticipation
My question is, it is mentioned in surah AL baqarah verce 230 that And if he has divorced her [for the third time], then she is not lawful to him afterward until [after] she marries a husband other than him. And if the latter husband divorces her [or dies], there is no blame upon the woman and her former husband for returning to each other if they think that they can keep [within] the limits of Allah . In this verse it is clearly mentioned that after divorce woman is not lawful to you until she marry someone else and latter he divorces her or dies then she can marry her previous husband again. But in sir Dr zakir naik lecture he said that this couple can marry 3 times without marrying someone else with new nikkah each time. Now in same surah verse 232 it is also mentioned And when you divorce women and they have fulfilled their term, do not prevent them from remarrying their [former] husbands if they agree among themselves on an acceptable basis. If I go through this verse it looks like remarrying after divorce is allowed like Dr zakir naik said in his lectures Now I'm very confused about it I'm sure there cannot be any contradiction in Holly Quran nor a person like Dr zakir naik say something without fully verifying it, can you please help me understand exact meaning of these 2 verses? May Allah reward you
Salik Sheraz Dear brother. I did not understand your question properly! Can you please mention which part of this video Dr Naik said like that? -- The first verse: it means if I divorce my wife i can marry her again until it reach divorcing three times! After that i am not allowed to marry her until she get married someone els. If she get divorce from her later husband then i can marry her! -- The second verse: it’s for second husband. If the second husband divorce her then i can marry her. And it commands to second husband to not stop her going to her first husband! --- So what is your concern brother?
What if the husband fulfills his rights to her but they arent compatible in a lot of other instances. Eg different love languages or opionions of life chnaging topics? Not every man is made to be compatible with every woman and vice versa
#MennoMii per dr. Naik, the 3rd category: a woman can ask the "to be hasband" for a permission to have the right to divorce, in other words man giving permission to the woman to divorce herself from him and register this permission as a clause or a condition in the marriage contract. Keep in mind that there is a great disagreement among Muslim scholars regarding this rule. The other 4 rules are agreed between scholars.
his advice is wrong. woman can get divorce. so many girls divorce in islamic countries. in true islam the woman also must give permission if her husband wants take second wife
Divorce is not allowed in islam for women if they have not suffered physical or emothional abuse. Most imams will not agree to divorce without these types of conditions for women, whereas men dont need any excuses. So situations like mentioned here about not being in Love with her husband, under islam law, you dont have the right to divorce. I have heard so many imams talk about this, and everytime it comes to this. But i believe men and women, doesnt matter what religion or culture, arent fully educated on marriage. Although it seems islamic stay away from sin for sisters, please think about yourself and the double standards you might face if you end up in a divorce. If anyone has more info about this please share. So we can talk about these very serious issue that surround women in islam. There is more discussion on youtube about what to do on wedding night then these issues, and we need to change that together.
what if a man did not give anything to a girl...and then after marriage the man simply leaving and telling to the wife to end the marriage...its the wife loss
+enaj jhanne In Islam, you must give the girl anything she wants before marriage to marry her. Its a compulsory thing. You can't marry her in Islamic way without doing so. You are punishable under Islamic law if you do that.
no you dont need your rightd.we both are different.also before islam even exist woman were treated harsher and some parents would be a shame to have a daughter and would kill them not to be shame.woman was also put into slavery without choice
Men Mii i know this is late but it mean if its is written in marriage contract that the woman can give divorce to her husband anytime she has the right but by default the authority is given to man
Assalamuwalaikum Dr Saheb, I am sorry to differ with you that a man will be loosing (mehar) always when ever there is a divorce,ofcourse you are right when there's no dowry system in our society. In practice we are demanding dowry in lakhs ultimately paying mehar in thousands. Please correct me if I am wrong,,,
Ur not wrong at all, in these cases the girl loose everything, if the man gives divorce , she will be financially weak. And mentally weak too. In India so many women r just thrown out of marriages by the simple word of talaq. My own father uses this authority during his fights with my mother. I love islam but i want to understand how , this is benefits for women? How does it protect women?
@@bekindyall5555 a homeless man will be homeless unless buys a house for himself on his OWN land. As long as the land belongs to other people, he is at other's mercy no matter how beautiful house he builds. Same way, a woman fed on her husband will always be at his mercy, no matter how much she toils hard in kitchen. Nobody can change it. Won't a house-husband living of his in-laws feel threatened with divorce? Islam gave you the right to educate yourself as much as you want. It gave you inheritance right, right to work, to earn money. Islam freed women from taking financial responsibilities of family. Yes, Islam allowed women to depend on men, but what's the need? Islam gave you chance. Stand on your own feet. Say no to be threatened. That's how Islam gave women rights. Your father knows your mother has nowhere to go. So, he can threaten her. Don't let's the same happen to you. N.B: Just because Islam doesn't allow women to loot the man well, doesn't mean it's unfair. You are thinking like this because you feel women are weak, they deserve more. But why'll they're deserve anything more than "mahr" from the husband she is going to separate when she was never even obliged to spend a cent on her husband but her husband was obliged to take care of each of her finance?
@@sultanajinnia9821 i agree but , why do men has the right to talaq? Like just with words, without any witness or supervision of elder , like women needs to have idk imam or parents to confirm the devorce? This is my qstn , why give such an immense power to just throw the women away? Even if she is powerful has job and her own money. This is where I'm stuck
@@bekindyall5555 because he is giving "mahr" to get married, the women is taking it. If the man has to get married again, he will again have to arrange "mahr" and in case to women gets married again, she will receive it again. And "talaq" is the least liked permissible thing in Islam and it's not as easy at it seems man say. When a man says "talaq" he must clear the "mahr" at that moment and for child maintenance, women will have more power in demanding the amount which can be more than basic expense and if the husband has ability, he will ensure it(according to Sunnah) but when a woman wants to get divorce herself, she has to return the "mahr" and then kadhi will decide a child maintenance to his according(and normally it is basic expence depending the past lifestyle of child) after talking to both party. That's why women need a mediator to clear this matter. Those who want to divorce, no elder can do anything. But women has to go to a kadhi; just to ensure some women don't get married just to take "mahr" from men. Hope you understand 🙂🙂
@@sultanajinnia9821 oh damn thank u sm , this does make alot of sense. Thanks fr. But like um alot of women in india and not just inda alot of other countries do suffer from this law right, so how do these women be saved? After their life is kind of shattered for the moment? Im sorry if I don't make sense My non muslim frnd has been asking these qstns alot
Zakir naik gave his own commentary in women divorce but didn't give one sura to back it up. That's weak Zakir Naik. Now I see why he won't debate Christian Prince.
If unilaterally by the will of the man then why not unilaterally by the will of the woman? Why women will have to request man to give talaq? Why can't she do? is meher equal to life? Wah kya justice hai.
I want to divorce my husband because of some personal.reasons can I divorce him he doesn't follow Islam properly he does haram things and mentally abuses me is it ok to leave him because I'm not at all happy
I really don't get the asking someone for the right to do something. I suggest you demand a divorce if you want to. (not encouraging btw just if you're sure)
yes for sure u can take it.....if he ill treats u or do something bad to you then u should be afraid to take divorce or anything....if u will not stand up for yourself this world is gonna crush you....so plzz if ur unhappy then for sure divorce him
Mujy aik baat ki samaj nae ati K Agar Wife ko husband sy shadeed kisam ki nafrat ho gai hai or wo Apny husband k rights nae pury kar skti Nikah m rehty hwy.......phr Bhi Mard usko divorce nae deta or wo Physically fit bhi nae hai apni wife ko satisfied bhi nae kar pata to Orat kaisy rehy usk saath nikah m???? Iska answer dy dein mujy plzzz
I have a 9 months baby boy and I want to take divorce from husband because he not behave nice with me tell me want can I do for take divorce want advice please give me
Reshma Khan forget Islamic law and go to legal court because Islamic law is old and court law is modern and there you will get the rights which are not biased towards you or your husband
What if they both loved each other endlessly during marriage and the girl didn't demand much amount of Meher or anything? Suppose if a girl wants to mention any clause of talaq then I'm Damn sure no men would marry her.
Sir mein islam Religion se hoon. sir meri shaadi 17-1-2014 Ko hoi thi, Meri Wife mere saath 7 months thik rehi . or uske baad pregnant hoi, pregnant hote hi woh apne (maike)apni maa k ghar rehne chalegai, Baacha ke birth 21-08 -2015 ko hua tha, Bhir bacha ka age 8 months ho ne ke baad meri ghar aake rehnelagi, Bhir ek din mere wife ne mujse bola ki uske company ne usko Job join karne keliye bolahe, Maternity leave jo apply kiya tha, woh complete ho gaya, So mere wife ne mere se request kiya ke usko uske maake Ghar jaake rehena hai, So that meri wife jo company mein kaam karthe hai ho uske (Maike) , maa ke ghar ke pass hai. So she told she can manage the Job and manage the Baby Also. She has asked 2 years time for this, so that she can setttle in her job and also baby can also settle himself and after 2 years she will come and live with me along with my baby . I didnt like her statement, but the due to the fear of family problems and divorse - I agreed to her Situation and allowed her to live in her mother house for 2 years , She is coming to my House for visit for one day every month. i am also going to her mother house to see her every month. My wife and myself are living seperately for almost 2 years. I am giving rs 5000 monthly for maintenance. 2 years period is Over, but she has settled in her job some what and We have a problem with baby that baby age is 3 years and Not speaking. now I told her to come and live with me in my house along with the baby, i also told her i will take care of her and also the baby, and i also agreed that i will take responsibility of treatment of baby. but She gave a negative response saying that she will not come and live with me till the baby begin to speak. And also she demands me money for baby treatments so that she take of treatments of baby from her mother house. i am living a tough life without my wife and i miss by baby also, Wife relatives are also not cooperating, they are coming for a fight with me often when i request to take my wife and Child back to my home. if i demand divorse from her she is denying to give me divorce. My mother is living with me and taking care of me, if some thing happens to my mother who will take care of me? From the fight of her relatives and her irresposible behavior i dont think so she will take care of me in future. i have decided to take the divorse, In this case please do Suggest me the procedure of taking a divorse?
I'm a unmarried guy 27 years old and looking for either a religious divorced or a widow woman for getting married for the sake of Allah. But she should be religious and Indian and it's my main criteria. If is there anyone please feel free to contact with me. May almighty protect us from all kind of calamity, suffering and pain.
I was married against my parents will last year post that my husband left for Australia my parents are not aware of our marriage. However we have decided to separate due to his family's non acceptance I have also applied for khula. Now my fear is. My parents are looking for a groom unaware of my previous marriage. Will there be any documents which will prove that it's my second marriage during registration or while collecting marriage certificate? Please help.
Akshit Bhalla that’s because women in a lot of places don’t have any single men to marry, so they stay single and become public property.Muslim men can have more than one wife not because their dirty people, but so that they can protect that woman’s honor and not let them become someone that the males in society can hit on pretty much any time they want and violate her rights, and Muslim men can only do this if they have enough money time etc.(things that wives desire) to give them.Also because women can’t tend to the needs of more than one husband(looking after the children, washing clothes, cooking food etc.)they already have so much work to do, but a man can handle the needs of more than one wife since they only have to financially support them, via their high-level jobs or other income sources.
@@CathyKitson i think she meant commit sin, as in islam sex outside of marriage is a sin. then if a women wants to have sex , she will have to do it outside of marriage. So that will lead to sins
@@CathyKitson agreed but that's due to increased female foeticide in so many societies. The increase in male population than female happened in 17th or 18th century ( i cant tell for sure ) For example let's take US , there r 97 males for every 100 female. But even if that's true, islam is not forcing men to marry 4 women! Nor women have to marry a man with wives. Also , if it makes sense , even today , alot of women don't get married because they r divorced or widowed. we r talking about the old times when things were little bit worse for women. So men were asked to help women in need. To give them their rights and lifestyle and all the other things. It was not for men to have more fun, it is more like take responsibility. Also a women also have a right to stipulate in the marriage contract that her husband can't marry anyone. No 2nd wife. So u see , alot of things r there for ppl who don't prefer it. But if u do then that's good and okay!
Assalamualaikum,Meara sawal hai k agar koi husband apni wife ko bohat dafa do dafa talaq bol Chuka ho k main tumain talaq dayta Hoon or pheir thori dayre bad sula Kar layen or ak din woh pheir 3 dafa ak sath talaq day day or 15 min k bad he bv k sath sula Kar lay or alehda na Hoon normal life guzaren tu Kya yeh talaq nhi ho ge? Woh ak sath reh saktay Hain?
a wife want divorce from husband because they things not match and 1 baby boy is there 1 years old and don't want to give to husband her child want Rights Plz give Suggestions to me Please reply
Fayeez Zaiba the baby get to be with the mom until he reach 18 then only he can choose to be with his mom or dad but I would advice you tell her be with him not for his sake but for the baby boy
bhai kiya howa apke sath?? bohot afsos howi ye sun kr apki wife ko bache ki bhi parwah nhi thi?? apki wife ne talaq kyo liya or oska or apka relation 12 saal tak kesa tha or relation khrb kab hona shoro howa meri dua hai Allah apki 2sri biwi wafadar de
FANTASTIC VIDEO! dr zakir naik always clarifies everything!! if only more people listened to the truth of islam and not just ismlamaphobic stigmas
He said women always gain and never lose even though the man is given the authority to divorce but based on a documentary 'divorce Iranian style' a young women who tried to divorce her husband without mutual consent. She accused her husband of deception, insanity, ill treatment she even claim her husband stole her gold. Eventually she got herself divorce of mutual consent which her husband agreed to it, but on the condition that she gives up her mehr (money/gifts that she was supposed to get from her husband). Turn out there are women who end up giving up mehr just so they can get divorce. Even in mutual divorce she got nothing.
she should have said in contract that she can aslo give unilateral divorce
@Ayan D A in sha Allah she will get her Haq Yaw Mal Qiyama
Man, Islam in Iran is not the Islam in the world.
Iran isnt islam what that man did is forbidden on islam in the Quran it says the man has to leave the mahir he gave the woman
Ayah Malouhi true
Dua for me please please for my recovery from anxiety jazakallah
go and take some medications it will help too
Hasbiallahu lailaha illalhu alayhi tawakkaltu wahua rabbul arehil azeem
Or surrah duha
Didnt know women is entitled to be supported by society if her guardian cannot provide for her. MashAllah, so much caring for women!
Women are stupid, and this is known, except for a homosexual minority of women
Lol… society never supports. So women are usually at a disadvantage because of this man made Islam they preach of.
Such a great question from her and quite logical answer from him.. Dr naik stay blessed❤️❤️❤️
My favorite part of the video is seeing the sister give a hugh smile of approval at 3:30
it is women who have more to loose, what was not addressed is the stigma against divorcees. its not just about the monetary gain. A divorced woman in some societies is treated very unfairly making it very difficult to re-marry and when you add children on to that, let's be honest, very few men are kind enough to accept a woman with baggage.
It is the society's problem... Our mothers (wives of S.A.W) were most of them were divorced or widow
A divorced woman is not treated unfairly i would say but if you have the chance between a divorced woman or an unmarried one you choose the unmarried one. And now than ever with all that zina spreading no one sadly cares anymore about the woman being a virgin. They think its normal to sleep around 8 to 10 different people in general before marrying both men and women
you are probably talking about some societies.... go and see west, men arent marrying in fear of losing half of the wealth coz their women have the authority of divorce too.... its men that have MUCH more to lose...
Don't link societal issues with Islam.
Go make your own lecture with your insignificant knowledge
I don't want you to take a 2nd wife as long as Im alive..... That can't end well for the 1st wife.
looool that was pretty funny 😂😂😂
Paula Allen Same goes for any women in whole world whatever community or religion she is ..
yea, except that other religion doesn't take 2nd wife as thats not in their doctrine (nor did God actually made up to 4 woman for adam)
so no, the argument doesn't fit
That doesn't mean to kill his first wife for second wife ,is that what you were trying to say .Brutally murdered not allowed any type of violence
Abdul Qadeer what? My friends mother just had a second marriage..And she is a hindu..Are u dumb?
Dua for syria
الهم بارك سوريا امين.
May Allah bless you and grant you jannah💖
Love from Bangladesh 💖
Yet, the dowry problem in India and Pakistan.
@Jesus, name above all names WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT PAKISTAN NO ONE ASK DOWRY HERE.
@@spoonfeeder442 halala is a Sin in Islam . Anyone who practiced it will be punished.
@@spoonfeeder442 Halala has nothing to do with Islam
May Allah bless u Dr.Zakir Naik
Truthful and logical answer Alhamdulillah
He is a wolf in sheep’s clothes.
@@daoudaqtash9243 prove it or stay quiet
@@daoudaqtash9243 he is a medical doctor and a learned man who uses reason logic and science....i love him for the sake of Allah
please add an English subtitles for the deaf & hard of hearing (HOH) people 🧏♀ JazakaAllah Khair
So actually she can't unless the man agrees before or while marriage. Islam is so against woman.
No she can if he say no she goes to islamic court abd they divorce her without his agreement
That isn't a reason. The woman should have equal rights
I have one doubt guys ..
In my place our mosque is supporting a men who is injustice .
One Muslim men leaved his wife in her mother house and he is going to marry another women without divorcing and not getting permission from his first wife . ( it’s not justice )
But Our mosque is still supporting that man to marry another girl by using shariat law !! I don’t understand what is going on here !!!!!
Please any one reply
I’m really upset and confused 😢.😢😢😢😢
I feel very sad for her because he did many cruel things to her and he’s living happily...
It's halal to have 4 wife's
But it's not halal to keep your wife to her fathers place and marry another woman
It is only halal to have more than 1 wife only if you treat them equally. It won’t be treating them equally if the first wife disagrees so that is haram
A woman has the right to do anything she wants. Democracy allows her to do whatever she deems necessary for her well being. No religion is going to stop her or treat her lower than a man. Democracy is an amazing form of government. Religion and state never objects each other.
They can if the constitution is anti Islamic or contain mix of sharia and non Islamic laws then they definitely can.
@@ahsanalirafaq805, so what does Islamic law says?
There is no minimum or maximum limit for meher. Hence some family bargain about it like in market
Ma'sha Allah....very well explained
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I am living in the West and people do not seem to understand just what Zakir Naik he said. TRUE as a man you lose. If you divorce the house, the money all go to the woman, even what they call Child Support goes to the woman. A man must start again, work hard build a new life, this creates a strange society were men are weak and women are strong.
Bro, Dr Naik is saying that even in Islam the man is at a disadvantage. Forget the western problems which are separate ("strange society where men are weak...") If a man has to support his children after divorce, that is just his natural obligation after all. Women suffer more in terms of the physical weaknesses from bearing his children. So both are not getting off easy just bc ge has to pay and she doesn't pay.
From zakir naik
Divorce can be categorised into 5 categories:mutual consent, will of the husband
1:47 - if the husband doesn't treat her right she can divorce.
My wife is very abusive, she says she wants to drive me crazy so that I can give her divorce. In this case if I give her divorce does she still get to keep the mahar ?
Yes of course. Dont divorce her. You can marry again, she cant.
@@razamughal4582why not divorce her if she wants to? you want to keep a pest in your house someone who makes your life worse?
@@ddkkskwkwlsk she does not deserve freedom if her words are I will drive you crazy
I don't agree with him at all. We'll keep remarrying because we want more meher money? Who thinks like that? It's not about money. We live in a time where women can work and make their own. Women CAN divorce is Islam. It's that's simple. Yes it has to be a legitimate reason, but the same goes for the man as well.
may be you are honest not to commit fraud in this way but in many countries a lot of women have done it already and its a very easy thing to do. a person who is greedy you cannot imagine the extent of that greed. its just the security valve he is talking about nothing more.
There are plenty of cases of fraud committed by certain people who do stuff like this to get the mehr
Great answer
If islam didn’t came then woman would be still sex-object
So put some respect woman
Love islam because its the best way of peace..
Chutiya 🤣🤣🤣
Yeah.. very peaceful.. Osama bin Laden and Isis are sooooo Peaceful.. 😍 All Terrorists in pakistan and Dawood Ibrahim and millions of other Terrorists are soooo Peaceful.. 😍🤣🤣 They are all from Islam.. lmao.. So come on kiss my a**..
Lol
Yes indeed.....we are blessed to be muslims 😊😊
What if the wife is a stateless woman who is married to a man who left her? Can she get a divorce? And how would she do that if she doesn't have citizenship in any country? What judge would have jurisdiction over her?
What a stateless woman, men 😂😂😂😂😂😊
@@عليياسر-ذ5ب stateless = without a state = a person who is not a citizen of any country.
(According to Wikipedia, in international law, a stateless person is someone who is "not considered as a national by any state under the operation of its law". Some stateless people are also refugees. However, not all refugees are stateless, and many people who are stateless have never crossed an international border.)
Ya right she gain... I've known many Islam divorce women's that their husbands not paying a single cent n even after divorce no one is looking after her she's on her own... what a bullshit
Harjeet Varesh that isn't the fault of Islam, its the fault of the people around her.
The speakers response to the woman that was asking about women and divorce in Islam is the reason why I have so much respect for muslims and the islamic religion. Muslims are a different breed of men, they're not afraid to say what they know is right and they don't care if people get offended. Westernize nations are falling apart internally because the religious foundation that was responsible for the rise of these nations is being stripped away from them. Western countries are now losing their grip on the world and are not as powerful as they once were. All of the western countries are in debt and are relying on borrowed money from countries like China to keep them afloat and are also being forced to cut from their military to pay their bills. Russia laughs at the western countries now as if they're a joke, and the leaders of Russia are spreading their communist agenda across eastern Europe.
The cause of the decline of westernize nations is liberalism. Liberals believe that in society there are people that are victims and that those people deserve special treatment over others. Their believe system is that we are all supposed to take money from hard working people and give that money to people that don't serve it and they justify this by portraying the receivers of the money as victims. The liberal agenda has hurt western societies. Look at what liberals have done to the countries in Europe. None of the men want to get married anymore. Women in these countries have free reign when it comes to divorce. Men are punished like criminals when their marriages don't work out. Many men are forced to live out of their cars after failed marriages while women enjoy the AC in their beautiful homes because the men have to pay women huge amounts of money to sustain the lifestyle that they had while they were married. In the west the judges don't care about what went on in the marriage. A women can file divorce because she loves someone else and receive huge amounts of money from her ex husband while she dates other people. This is the reason why men don't want anything to do with marriage and children anymore and that is the reason why babies being born out of wedlock has become so prevalent in westernize societies. Marriage is a joke. While this is going on muslim families are staying together and are having 7 to 10 children per marriage. Western countries have become corrupt, and their leaders and lawmakers are fake, they don't really follow the word of God as they claim they do. The only thing that they care about is money. Marriage is a business just like everything else. Marriage is something that only God can control not man. Marriage is not something for greedy lawyers to use as their means to make money off of.
+Jack Harper (The Illusive Man) lol bro we do care and of course we dont want to offend anyone. but sometimes, whether you like it or not, truth hurts.
btw i only know 1 person who has 9 siblings, usually they they have like maximum 5 siblings. oh, and props to you for knowing about Islam not in a way that media portrayed, but you did your own research. respect.
Nah, In my country, a family has an average of two children.
Muslim don't care about other.we obey our laws.because it's useful to make a rigid society.
Jack Harper 100% true I have read divorce stories where I have felt sorry for non Muslim men
i was very skeptic of his reply at the first ..........but held on my patience.......and then as he mentioned that some woman cud misuse their right......so as to prevent this...wow...now that how we follow the balance....at first it sounds like Islam is like another male dominant religion....but on further explaination...... things actually make sense....allhamdullilah
So
You are saying men will not misuse
Rip logic
@Pin Apple crt
But what Abt those women who don't hve family or the family is not taking any responsibility of daughter...
what about man, that doesnt have anybody still loses mehr?
Jazakallah khair Dr Zakir Naik
I love your lectures very much , they r very effective
Satisfying answer
This man is intellectually funny and ma shaa Allah knowledgeable 😊 may Allah protect him..
Masha Allah
2:12 - the moment where you realize you should be listening to mufti menk instead
LOL
😂😂😂Its better to ask an american billionaire
Modern women does not need meher, if she does not want to continue with the husband she should also have her rights. For muslim husband, it's comparatively very easy to divorce.
Aditya Kadam no marriage is legal without meher in Islam
Aditya Kadam I agree unless they’re poor my ex husband didn’t give me mehr and I was happy but all my relatives made a Huge deal about it
Yas
I want to file a khula
But how??
If I don’t have any marriage contract astagfirullah,,..
I don’t want my husband
May Allah will forgive me and make it easy for me
Same here
Nour Marianito Ahmed how you don’t have marriage contract if you are married not judging
Nullify the marriage
Leave any religion that doesn’t let you take your own decision. Religions are man made and if there is God , God wouldn’t differentiate men and women. If God does God isn’t God
Why has husband yet been given the athority to do what he wills?
Doesn't this simply mean, the husband can do what he wants
Furthermore
The husband also can be given the rights for the nullification of marriage alone just as the woman possesses
The woman can yet create a fake report and nullify the marriage(Correct me if i'm wrong)
Why is there a discrimination in this matter between them?
Please explain
Are you saying that even though women is on the receiver side yet the islam must favor women? Or you wanna say that why is the men provider/responsible to look after their women? Can you please explain your question?
@@rifakhan7222Are you saying Khadija had more right because she was tbd boss of prophet
No one said the man has to take care of all the money????? Both should work and earn money. I'm Muslim but I honestly don't care about this I will divorce my husband if I don't like him but he doesn't want to divorce? There's always a reason behind the woman wanting a divorce and statements like this in Islam have ruined it for so many women living in dictatorships like Iran where divorce is really hard for women
atoosadiamandis you have a very poor knowledge about the rights of women
they can't both work, because women have to bear and raise the children
Allah said men has to take care and pay all basic needs alone
Love from Bangladesh❤❤
My husband torture me beat me. I asked for divorce.he did not agree to divorce me.. what should I do. If I go back to him .he will torture me again
Spend money, go to court and get a khula.
I did @@razamughal4582
May almighty Allah reward you
Dr
Well explained 😍
dear pupil my name is shafaque am illtreated by my husband and in laws i have tolerated my hell like married life for 4 yrs i lost peace of my mind my dignity and evrything in this marriage including my health. Please guide me to the right path thanking u all in anticipation
wow! what a answer..!
My question is, it is mentioned in surah AL baqarah verce 230 that
And if he has divorced her [for the third time], then she is not lawful to him afterward until [after] she marries a husband other than him. And if the latter husband divorces her [or dies], there is no blame upon the woman and her former husband for returning to each other if they think that they can keep [within] the limits of Allah .
In this verse it is clearly mentioned that after divorce woman is not lawful to you until she marry someone else and latter he divorces her or dies then she can marry her previous husband again.
But in sir Dr zakir naik lecture he said that this couple can marry 3 times without marrying someone else with new nikkah each time.
Now in same surah verse 232 it is also mentioned
And when you divorce women and they have fulfilled their term, do not prevent them from remarrying their [former] husbands if they agree among themselves on an acceptable basis.
If I go through this verse it looks like remarrying after divorce is allowed like Dr zakir naik said in his lectures
Now I'm very confused about it I'm sure there cannot be any contradiction in Holly Quran nor a person like Dr zakir naik say something without fully verifying it, can you please help me understand exact meaning of these 2 verses?
May Allah reward you
Salik Sheraz
Dear brother. I did not understand your question properly! Can you please mention which part of this video Dr Naik said like that?
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The first verse: it means if I divorce my wife i can marry her again until it reach divorcing three times! After that i am not allowed to marry her until she get married someone els. If she get divorce from her later husband then i can marry her!
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The second verse: it’s for second husband. If the second husband divorce her then i can marry her. And it commands to second husband to not stop her going to her first husband!
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So what is your concern brother?
Mashalah aleyk dacter zakir
It is so amazing and teachable presentation may alah increases you
Right
What if the husband fulfills his rights to her but they arent compatible in a lot of other instances. Eg different love languages or opionions of life chnaging topics? Not every man is made to be compatible with every woman and vice versa
The man gives material goods, but the wife gives who she is.
#MennoMii per dr. Naik, the 3rd category: a woman can ask the "to be hasband" for a permission to have the right to divorce, in other words man giving permission to the woman to divorce herself from him and register this permission as a clause or a condition in the marriage contract. Keep in mind that there is a great disagreement among Muslim scholars regarding this rule. The other 4 rules are agreed between scholars.
Must put in marital contract that says wife has talaq a tawfeek so wife has unilateral right to divorce.
Can someone provide me with the reference for when women put divorce right in nikkah nama? Any Hadith reference?
Is marriage based on mehr? No love? No affection? How can a lady be in receiving end.
Marriage is not based on mehr...
his advice is wrong. woman can get divorce. so many girls divorce in islamic countries. in true islam the woman also must give permission if her husband wants take second wife
Allah rabbul alamin aap ko lambi umar se nawaze or aap ki or aap ke ahlo ayal ki hifaz farmaya Aameen
Divorce is not allowed in islam for women if they have not suffered physical or emothional abuse. Most imams will not agree to divorce without these types of conditions for women, whereas men dont need any excuses. So situations like mentioned here about not being in Love with her husband, under islam law, you dont have the right to divorce.
I have heard so many imams talk about this, and everytime it comes to this. But i believe men and women, doesnt matter what religion or culture, arent fully educated on marriage. Although it seems islamic stay away from sin for sisters, please think about yourself and the double standards you might face if you end up in a divorce.
If anyone has more info about this please share. So we can talk about these very serious issue that surround women in islam.
There is more discussion on youtube about what to do on wedding night then these issues, and we need to change that together.
Disgusting, now I want to leave islam
what if a man did not give anything to a girl...and then after marriage the man simply leaving and telling to the wife to end the marriage...its the wife loss
+enaj jhanne In Islam, you must give the girl anything she wants before marriage to marry her. Its a compulsory thing. You can't marry her in Islamic way without doing so. You are punishable under Islamic law if you do that.
+Annoor Mahboob Punishable if its a nation under Sharia or under hooligans like Al Shabaab!!
They are SO un islamic!!
Dude doing illegal thing is sin and is punishable in islam
Sir, great job Allah give highest reward. In the world hereafter Allah bless you Ameen ya rabbul alameen
First thing..
We don’t need money..we need rights same equal as men.
In Islam women get everything equal to men.
What do you mean equal rights pls explain??
Which rights ???? to have penis or what 😂😂😂😂😂😂
To have the rights men have
no you dont need your rightd.we both are different.also before islam even exist woman were treated harsher and some parents would be a shame to have a daughter and would kill them not to be shame.woman was also put into slavery without choice
قرآن و احادیث پڑھیں تو پتا چلے گا ذاکر صاحب بلکل صحیح کہ رہے ہیں .
Mere bahi islaam may khula haram hai ap lug tora takhqik karoo
@@mohiuddinmasood2402 islam me Khula haram to nahin ha. Lekin agar ap ko lagta ha ke haram ha, to baraye maharbani apni dhaleel pesh kijiye, bhai.
0:55 Martial contract in Christianity it is a sacrament instituted by the holy Church
I didn't really understand the third category. Can Someone be so kind and explain it to me?
Men Mii i know this is late but it mean if its is written in marriage contract that the woman can give divorce to her husband anytime she has the right but by default the authority is given to man
Assalamuwalaikum Dr Saheb, I am sorry to differ with you that a man will be loosing (mehar) always when ever there is a divorce,ofcourse you are right when there's no dowry system in our society. In practice we are demanding dowry in lakhs ultimately paying mehar in thousands. Please correct me if I am wrong,,,
Ur not wrong at all, in these cases the girl loose everything, if the man gives divorce , she will be financially weak. And mentally weak too. In India so many women r just thrown out of marriages by the simple word of talaq. My own father uses this authority during his fights with my mother.
I love islam but i want to understand how , this is benefits for women? How does it protect women?
@@bekindyall5555 a homeless man will be homeless unless buys a house for himself on his OWN land. As long as the land belongs to other people, he is at other's mercy no matter how beautiful house he builds. Same way, a woman fed on her husband will always be at his mercy, no matter how much she toils hard in kitchen. Nobody can change it. Won't a house-husband living of his in-laws feel threatened with divorce? Islam gave you the right to educate yourself as much as you want. It gave you inheritance right, right to work, to earn money. Islam freed women from taking financial responsibilities of family. Yes, Islam allowed women to depend on men, but what's the need? Islam gave you chance. Stand on your own feet. Say no to be threatened. That's how Islam gave women rights. Your father knows your mother has nowhere to go. So, he can threaten her. Don't let's the same happen to you.
N.B: Just because Islam doesn't allow women to loot the man well, doesn't mean it's unfair. You are thinking like this because you feel women are weak, they deserve more. But why'll they're deserve anything more than "mahr" from the husband she is going to separate when she was never even obliged to spend a cent on her husband but her husband was obliged to take care of each of her finance?
@@sultanajinnia9821 i agree but , why do men has the right to talaq? Like just with words, without any witness or supervision of elder , like women needs to have idk imam or parents to confirm the devorce? This is my qstn , why give such an immense power to just throw the women away? Even if she is powerful has job and her own money. This is where I'm stuck
@@bekindyall5555 because he is giving "mahr" to get married, the women is taking it. If the man has to get married again, he will again have to arrange "mahr" and in case to women gets married again, she will receive it again. And "talaq" is the least liked permissible thing in Islam and it's not as easy at it seems man say. When a man says "talaq" he must clear the "mahr" at that moment and for child maintenance, women will have more power in demanding the amount which can be more than basic expense and if the husband has ability, he will ensure it(according to Sunnah) but when a woman wants to get divorce herself, she has to return the "mahr" and then kadhi will decide a child maintenance to his according(and normally it is basic expence depending the past lifestyle of child) after talking to both party. That's why women need a mediator to clear this matter. Those who want to divorce, no elder can do anything. But women has to go to a kadhi; just to ensure some women don't get married just to take "mahr" from men. Hope you understand 🙂🙂
@@sultanajinnia9821 oh damn thank u sm , this does make alot of sense.
Thanks fr.
But like um alot of women in india and not just inda alot of other countries do suffer from this law right, so how do these women be saved? After their life is kind of shattered for the moment? Im sorry if I don't make sense
My non muslim frnd has been asking these qstns alot
so how a woman can give divorce to his husband as its mention in nkah nama by husband whats the method?
Same question
Zakir naik gave his own commentary in women divorce but didn't give one sura to back it up.
That's weak Zakir Naik.
Now I see why he won't debate Christian Prince.
Such a great religion
NOT
@@yuliayane6928Alhamdulilah for Islam
Cry as much as you want
Thats WHY your mother and sisters are converting to islam in their MILLIONS
@@abdulHaqqqq False Religion
@@JesusSaves349 true religion
Great reply by Dr. Zakir.
Just ignore hypocrites in the comments section as they never agree😂
Nulification of marriage simply means she will not get any of the rights granted of a divorced women inspite of having been married in the past
No it doesn't
Why doesn't she ask "Why only man gives gift (mahr), not woman?". They always look after their side. Hypocrisy to it's finest
If unilaterally by the will of the man then why not unilaterally by the will of the woman? Why women will have to request man to give talaq? Why can't she do? is meher equal to life? Wah kya justice hai.
Watch again the 3rd category
great
some people I love on youTube
Yes they can divorce in talaq e taweez and the dissolution of muslim marriage act, 1939
Stay blessed ❤❤
I wish i could like vid more than 1 time❤
Good
If husaband has a bad character, and don't agree to devorce to her wife, thn what can do that wife
Then she can go to the Qazi to have her marriage nuliffied as her husband is not giving her rights
0:56 note down all
well said!
I want to divorce my husband because of some personal.reasons can I divorce him he doesn't follow Islam properly he does haram things and mentally abuses me is it ok to leave him because I'm not at all happy
Yes it is okay to divorce him because you have good reasons, tell your family to support you in this action and go to a sheikh to seek divorce
mariam ok
I really don't get the asking someone for the right to do something. I suggest you demand a divorce if you want to. (not encouraging btw just if you're sure)
yes for sure u can take it.....if he ill treats u or do something bad to you then u should be afraid to take divorce or anything....if u will not stand up for yourself this world is gonna crush you....so plzz if ur unhappy then for sure divorce him
If I was you leave your husband you need a very happy life
Mujy aik baat ki samaj nae ati K Agar Wife ko husband sy shadeed kisam ki nafrat ho gai hai or wo Apny husband k rights nae pury kar skti Nikah m rehty hwy.......phr Bhi Mard usko divorce nae deta or wo Physically fit bhi nae hai apni wife ko satisfied bhi nae kar pata to Orat kaisy rehy usk saath nikah m???? Iska answer dy dein mujy plzzz
Pehli hi gairat lati aur pehly hi mana karti.
So leave him it's is allowed
do women have right to divorce her husband?
I have a 9 months baby boy and I want to take divorce from husband because he not behave nice with me tell me want can I do for take divorce want advice please give me
Reshma Khan please think again..
Reshma Khan forget Islamic law and go to legal court because Islamic law is old and court law is modern and there you will get the rights which are not biased towards you or your husband
@@ArcherTrade muslim ho aap?
@@sarwarjahan523 mai woh hu jiski baatein seriously nahi leni chahiye
@@sarwarjahan523 Insaan he re ho
If she wants her husband not to marry again and again means, she doesn't
approve of the way our prophet lived. In that way she can't be a Muslim.
What if they both loved each other endlessly during marriage and the girl didn't demand much amount of Meher or anything? Suppose if a girl wants to mention any clause of talaq then I'm Damn sure no men would marry her.
Unilateral divorce by wife
It's by Shariyat, right?
She can ask.then husband will give divorce
How long iddat period if she go with qazi and finish the nikah
Is khula count the divorce?
You can't take what Allah allows?You take the religion cant pick and choose.But if u can show prove it.
Sir mein islam Religion se hoon. sir meri shaadi 17-1-2014 Ko hoi thi, Meri Wife mere saath 7 months thik rehi . or uske baad pregnant hoi, pregnant hote hi woh apne (maike)apni maa k ghar rehne chalegai, Baacha ke birth 21-08 -2015 ko hua tha, Bhir bacha ka age 8 months ho ne ke baad meri ghar aake rehnelagi, Bhir ek din mere wife ne mujse bola ki uske company ne usko Job join karne keliye bolahe, Maternity leave jo apply kiya tha, woh complete ho gaya, So mere wife ne mere se request kiya ke usko uske maake Ghar jaake rehena hai, So that meri wife jo company mein kaam karthe hai ho uske (Maike) , maa ke ghar ke pass hai. So she told she can manage the Job and manage the Baby Also. She has asked 2 years time for this, so that she can setttle in her job and also baby can also settle himself and after 2 years she will come and live with me along with my baby . I didnt like her statement, but the due to the fear of family problems and divorse - I agreed to her Situation and allowed her to live in her mother house for 2 years , She is coming to my House for visit for one day every month. i am also going to her mother house to see her every month. My wife and myself are living seperately for almost 2 years. I am giving rs 5000 monthly for maintenance.
2 years period is Over, but she has settled in her job some what and We have a problem with baby that baby age is 3 years and Not speaking. now I told her to come and live with me in my house along with the baby, i also told her i will take care of her and also the baby, and i also agreed that i will take responsibility of treatment of baby. but She gave a negative response saying that she will not come and live with me till the baby begin to speak. And also she demands me money for baby treatments so that she take of treatments of baby from her mother house.
i am living a tough life without my wife and i miss by baby also, Wife relatives are also not cooperating, they are coming for a fight with me often when i request to take my wife and Child back to my home. if i demand divorse from her she is denying to give me divorce. My mother is living with me and taking care of me, if some thing happens to my mother who will take care of me? From the fight of her relatives and her irresposible behavior i dont think so she will take care of me in future.
i have decided to take the divorse, In this case please do Suggest me the procedure of taking a divorse?
I'm a unmarried guy 27 years old and looking for either a religious divorced or a widow woman for getting married for the sake of Allah. But she should be religious and Indian and it's my main criteria. If is there anyone please feel free to contact with me. May almighty protect us from all kind of calamity, suffering and pain.
brother get a women who fears you out of respect and fears allah.dont take a boss babe! and don't let our parents or anyone show your wife hatred!!!
I was married against my parents will last year post that my husband left for Australia my parents are not aware of our marriage. However we have decided to separate due to his family's non acceptance I have also applied for khula. Now my fear is. My parents are looking for a groom unaware of my previous marriage. Will there be any documents which will prove that it's my second marriage during registration or while collecting marriage certificate? Please help.
wow shocking
Husband: I gave you Maher (Gift- mostly money). Therefore, you can't have multiple spouses but I can.
Wife: Okay, deal.
LOL LOGIC
Akshit Bhalla that’s because women in a lot of places don’t have any single men to marry, so they stay single and become public property.Muslim men can have more than one wife not because their dirty people, but so that they can protect that woman’s honor and not let them become someone that the males in society can hit on pretty much any time they want and violate her rights, and Muslim men can only do this if they have enough money time etc.(things that wives desire) to give them.Also because women can’t tend to the needs of more than one husband(looking after the children, washing clothes, cooking food etc.)they already have so much work to do, but a man can handle the needs of more than one wife since they only have to financially support them, via their high-level jobs or other income sources.
@@nageenkhan5979 Most unmarried women aren't public property.
@@CathyKitson i think she meant commit sin, as in islam sex outside of marriage is a sin. then if a women wants to have sex , she will have to do it outside of marriage. So that will lead to sins
@@bekindyall5555 Even if that's true, she could marry, couldn't she? After all, there are more men than women in the world.
@@CathyKitson agreed but that's due to increased female foeticide in so many societies. The increase in male population than female happened in 17th or 18th century ( i cant tell for sure )
For example let's take US , there r 97 males for every 100 female.
But even if that's true, islam is not forcing men to marry 4 women! Nor women have to marry a man with wives. Also , if it makes sense , even today , alot of women don't get married because they r divorced or widowed. we r talking about the old times when things were little bit worse for women.
So men were asked to help women in need. To give them their rights and lifestyle and all the other things.
It was not for men to have more fun, it is more like take responsibility. Also a women also have a right to stipulate in the marriage contract that her husband can't marry anyone. No 2nd wife.
So u see , alot of things r there for ppl who don't prefer it. But if u do then that's good and okay!
Sir just i ask if the husband and wife get devorced then later on if they like to unite again then should hve wedding again?
Assalamualaikum, please if you don't mind, I will kindly like to know the major reasons or the mean reasons for divorce in Islam
Assalamualaikum,Meara sawal hai k agar koi husband apni wife ko bohat dafa do dafa talaq bol Chuka ho k main tumain talaq dayta Hoon or pheir thori dayre bad sula Kar layen or ak din woh pheir 3 dafa ak sath talaq day day or 15 min k bad he bv k sath sula Kar lay or alehda na Hoon normal life guzaren tu Kya yeh talaq nhi ho ge? Woh ak sath reh saktay Hain?
a wife want divorce from husband because they things not match and 1 baby boy is there 1 years old and don't want to give to husband her child want Rights Plz give Suggestions to me Please reply
Fayeez Zaiba the baby get to be with the mom until he reach 18 then only he can choose to be with his mom or dad but I would advice you tell her be with him not for his sake but for the baby boy
Wafadar ladies nowhere to be found. I loved my wife for 12 years and she left me for no reason and she took everything. May Allah give hidayat
bhai kiya howa apke sath?? bohot afsos howi ye sun kr
apki wife ko bache ki bhi parwah nhi thi??
apki wife ne talaq kyo liya or oska or apka relation 12 saal tak kesa tha or relation khrb kab hona shoro howa
meri dua hai Allah apki 2sri biwi wafadar de
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