TEARS OF PAIN (12.28.16)

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024

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  • @spotonmetaldetecting5024
    @spotonmetaldetecting5024 8 лет назад +1

    Mary, the look your dad has in his eyes when he looks at you is such a beautiful love that only a true loving father, like God, has for his children. I am so blessed to have an amazing dad too. And our moms as well. ❤

  • @Judymontel
    @Judymontel 8 лет назад +6

    And we're really grateful you for picking up the camera and sharing every single day!

  • @FjIrwin
    @FjIrwin 8 лет назад +2

    I'd like to see a go pro on ollie to get a dogs eye view on his day so all 3 of you can vlog. Thank you Mary and Peter for inspiring me and getting me through tough times. My prayers are with you. Hope you have a very happy new year. Xxx

  • @melissamital3523
    @melissamital3523 8 лет назад +2

    Despite Mary not feeling well, it appears you all had a great Christmas. Family really helps take your mind to better thoughts and distractions. Thank you for sharing.

  • @tracyfletcher7969
    @tracyfletcher7969 8 лет назад

    Bless your heart Peter 😢. Mary is blessed to have you as her caregiver! I too am blessed, my daughter is my caregiver!!!!

  • @jazarmstrong6467
    @jazarmstrong6467 8 лет назад

    Mary, you have helped me so much. I was diagnosed with Diabetes, which runs in my family. Your courage on The Frey Life gave me the courage to work hard for my health. God bless you both, and Ollie.

  • @ramonacruz-lamb8863
    @ramonacruz-lamb8863 8 лет назад +11

    Peter pull Mary's skin really tight before putting in the Huber needle in next time you have to access Mary's port. I too have a power port in the same place Mary does. By pulling the skin tight it will make placing the needle into her chest less painful and even painless trust me it works!

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  8 лет назад +2

      Yep, that is exactly the trick that we used for my last one, and continue to use for this one :) I totally agree that it helps!

    • @ramonacruz-lamb8863
      @ramonacruz-lamb8863 8 лет назад +1

      The Frey Life I hope it gets less painful soon for Mary. Have a safe and Wonderful New Year's Eves, God Bless you both

  • @carolbeatty8085
    @carolbeatty8085 8 лет назад +1

    So close to the hundred thousand ! That's cool, I feel bad for you Peter we all know you wouldn't hurt Mary for anything . I love you Frey Family and am so happy to be part of your journey ,even if it's just from behind my iPad lol I feel like I am .i love your plaid accesories! 💕✌️🌞🎄🎉🇨🇦🙏🏼

  • @IdaDog1000
    @IdaDog1000 8 лет назад

    You are a wonderful caregiver Peter. I am my husband's caregiver and it is not always easy. Take care.

  • @kimberlygathings2936
    @kimberlygathings2936 8 лет назад +2

    Mary you have a beautiful mom and I so love yals little sewing project very cool loved all of them especially the Bow Tie lol best wishes to you all and I hope I you and your family have a blessed new year 😇😇

  • @RonandMel99
    @RonandMel99 8 лет назад +18

    Many love and hugs!!!! You guys are truly inspirations to me. :)

    • @dennamcdonough8338
      @dennamcdonough8338 8 лет назад +2

      Moms Vlog80 I second that!!!

    • @myangelseyesjkn
      @myangelseyesjkn 8 лет назад +2

      Moms Vlog80 Amen to that, and also you guys inspire me everyday!

  • @wolfsrule100
    @wolfsrule100 8 лет назад +2

    So close to 100,000!! Makes me so excited to see how the Frey life family has grown!

  • @XBOXLIXBALLS
    @XBOXLIXBALLS 8 лет назад +3

    mary your parents are amazing people

  • @TaliyahMC
    @TaliyahMC 8 лет назад +1

    WOOOOHOOO, New Frey Life...makes me smile :) Prayers as always!

  • @kimberlyhayes6006
    @kimberlyhayes6006 8 лет назад +80

    I am off the vent guys!

    • @donnapenn9284
      @donnapenn9284 8 лет назад +1

      Kimberly Hayes congratulations!!!

    • @kityez1017
      @kityez1017 8 лет назад +2

      Kimberly Hayes Yay!! No more vent! Woohoo! 😊

    • @kimberlyhayes6006
      @kimberlyhayes6006 8 лет назад +5

      I am sore and my voice is gone, but I'm breathing on my own!

    • @lauranorwar
      @lauranorwar 8 лет назад +1

      Kimberly Hayes yes!!!!! So happy to hear this!!!!

    • @lindseyzimmerman6078
      @lindseyzimmerman6078 8 лет назад +1

      I'm glad your doing better! :)

  • @marciajenkins819
    @marciajenkins819 8 лет назад

    Started watching back in the early summer. So glad to be part of the first 100,000 subscribers. The puzzle was beautifully designed.
    Love you both and keeping you in my prayers.

  • @cattail6322
    @cattail6322 8 лет назад +3

    As of me watching this. You have 100,027 subs now. You made your goal!!

  • @wandagetz966
    @wandagetz966 6 лет назад

    Every day I come home from work and watch your videos. Because I just found you, I'm starting from the beginning. Now I'm here. :) I am a head start Advocate and I love watching you guys. I enjoy the innocence of your marriage, the love and faith you share. May God continue to watch over you. And keep my family in prayers please. We suffered a huge loss in September, the death of my only parent, my dad and our main source of income as his caregiver. I know God has a plan and my daddy is no longer suffering.

  • @bobbybaldeagle702
    @bobbybaldeagle702 8 лет назад +14

    I hope you read this story... MANY years ago when I was a teen, my dad had a Dachshund every night when he came home from work the dog would get up in the chair a nuzzle in his ear and tell him what went on all day while he was at work... He said she was telling him secrets.... So through out the many years when one of our many dogs would sniff in out ears we would say that they where telling us secrets...
    When your mom's dog was sniffing your ear it brought back that memory and I just wanted to share it with you....

    • @intothemystic6034
      @intothemystic6034 8 лет назад +1

      Bobby Baldeagle That's a really great memory . I'm glad you shared it ☺

    • @jaytee2642
      @jaytee2642 8 лет назад +1

      Aww, I love that. Thanks for sharing.

  • @CDJ714
    @CDJ714 8 лет назад

    You two are great inspirations to all. You always have a wonderful attitude.

  • @carolynlong9148
    @carolynlong9148 3 года назад

    Peter you're a good caregiver even when unexpected thing's happen. I love the matching family wardrobe so adorably cute.

  • @chachi9256
    @chachi9256 8 лет назад

    I just want you guys to know that you are so inspiring and are a beautiful reflection of Christ; sending much love and prayers. I have a female Standard poodle named Coco--so love watching Oliver! They act so similiar!!! God Bless You all, and Thank You for sharing your journey with us. Love, Joanie

  • @Autsom57
    @Autsom57 8 лет назад

    Blessings to All of you!

  • @lizverde4309
    @lizverde4309 8 лет назад +1

    It's not about the numbers, it's about the moments shared. I'm so glad you're home Mary. Enjoy the new toy Peter.

  • @TheDebbiekitty
    @TheDebbiekitty 8 лет назад

    You guys are amazing. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. We are so privileged.

  • @calliejet4499
    @calliejet4499 8 лет назад +45

    you should make a video where your parents talk about what it was like having children with CF. That would be interesting

    • @Blister_in_the_sun
      @Blister_in_the_sun 8 лет назад

      Callie Jet I was thinking the same!!!

    • @123dietdrpepper
      @123dietdrpepper 8 лет назад +1

      yes and I wonder if your parents knew the cf gene was in the family prior to the birth of u and your sisterl

    • @123dietdrpepper
      @123dietdrpepper 8 лет назад +1

      Oh I didn't realize both parents had to carry the gene. Thank you for letting me know and educating me.

    • @marieked
      @marieked 8 лет назад

      +123dietdrpepper there are dominant genes which would mean only one parent would be needed to pass on an illness and there are recessive genes where it takes two parents, but not all the kids in the family would get sick. In CF there chances are that one in four kids will get CF, two kids would carry the gene and one kid who doesn't carry the gene at all.

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 8 лет назад

      I remember a video with her parents where they talked about it a little bit. I don't remember exactly when

  • @bgmaple47232
    @bgmaple47232 8 лет назад

    I love you two so much. Thank you for sharing your everyday life with us.

  • @MandieZangora
    @MandieZangora 8 лет назад +15

    It's hurting more because you don't have scar tissue built up over the new site yet like there was over your old one. But YES definitely get the Emla (lidocaine/prilocaine) cream it's a freaking life saver. I already have some stocked up for when my port gets replaced which will hopefully happen soon cause I am sooooooo dehydrated. Love you guys, I'm so happy you were able to spend time as a family at home for Christmas and I always love when your family visits it makes me so happy cause now that I live 8 hours away from most of my family I know how hard it is. Sending love, light, and many spoons 🥄 from Nashville!

  • @runahorsey
    @runahorsey 8 лет назад

    Frey life helping me through this horrible 4am pain. Thank you for turning my tears into smiles. I love you guys more than you know. ❤

  • @allisoneuph1
    @allisoneuph1 8 лет назад +1

    You guys are awesome. I can't feel anything from the waist down. It's getting harder to walk every day, but Christ keeps me going. Thanks for being positive and showcasing Jesus's love.

  • @PrincessMax360
    @PrincessMax360 8 лет назад

    The puzzle you and your parents are doing Mary look so neat. Also the matching shared fabric items are sweet.

  • @learningaswegocitygonecoun6805
    @learningaswegocitygonecoun6805 8 лет назад

    I totally understand how Peter felt. I did wound care for my husband (3rd burners over 34% of his body). Learning each new dressing change, new equipment, new medication... the learning curve is just stressful, when trying not to cause additional pain/discomfort. Our doctors always reminded me it a marathon not a sprint. Keeping you all in my prayers. Thanks for sharing

  • @raindropsonroses9091
    @raindropsonroses9091 8 лет назад +1

    I love the light up Ollie decoration!

  • @nanlauber398
    @nanlauber398 8 лет назад

    Congratulations to The Frey Life!!! YAY!!! ☺

  • @jessamonet2634
    @jessamonet2634 8 лет назад +2

    100K!!!!!! Y'all deserve that and more!

  • @juliewebber6022
    @juliewebber6022 7 лет назад

    absolutely love watching you two but I may or may not LOVE watching Ollie, oh my he is the cutest stinking thing ever.

  • @beltblue7473
    @beltblue7473 8 лет назад

    I really appreciate the daily vlogs u guys do despite the hard days.. when I celebrated Christmas eve at the church, I felt really emotional and grateful that I'm able to do that while some are not so fortunate. You guys made me appreciate the simple things in life so much more and I wanna thank u... you're in my prayers Mary..

  • @abbyknoner9647
    @abbyknoner9647 8 лет назад +4

    The matching flannel things are so cute

  • @TheJabberCrew
    @TheJabberCrew 8 лет назад +1

    Stay strong! We love you guys!

  • @angelikaopland7880
    @angelikaopland7880 8 лет назад +4

    New subscriber here, love you three! The other day I was having a rather funky day and watched one of your vlogs. You too were not having a good day and Mary you mentioned to "choose joy", that really resonated with me. Such a simple, but powerful message. I now tell myself this when I start to feel less than positive feelings. Thank you for that. And bless all three of you💖

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  8 лет назад +3

      Hi there! Thanks so much for saying hi and becoming a part of The Frey Life family!

    • @reversevaccum
      @reversevaccum 8 лет назад

      angelika opland welcome! Happy for you to join us!

    • @angelikaopland7880
      @angelikaopland7880 8 лет назад

      Should have mentioned, I'm joining all of you from Alaska ; )

  • @alex4alexn
    @alex4alexn 7 лет назад

    accessing the port of your spouse is always a lifetime of learning, cheers and love the vids

  • @cmgraham
    @cmgraham 8 лет назад +1

    Love the idea of matching objects...totally great project 👍🏻
    Looks like 🎅🏻was good to you and how wonderful that you could be with your parents and that "cute little canine"; almost as cute as Ollie boy;)❤️

  • @mazlockett4808
    @mazlockett4808 8 лет назад

    Hi Mary and Peter, my port is in the same place and it took many months for the tissue to settle down with pain, underneath the stitches will probably be swollen.It took me a few months try my yoga too, so go with what feels ok.Also having the needle in constantly and many changes i understand this is very tender.You both will be feeling confident and comfortable soon.Bless you both.

  • @mrsardesch80
    @mrsardesch80 8 лет назад

    Hello from Australia!
    I'm suffering from severe chronic pain and depression, and sometimes it's extremely hard to stay positive. Watching your videos helps puts things into perspective, and really reminds me to keep positive!
    Love you guys, and thank you! xox

  • @suzannehalesuzzz4895
    @suzannehalesuzzz4895 8 лет назад

    I really want an Ollie . I have three babies right now . Thats plenty . But when I need to get a new baby I'm going to get an Ollie
    So glad you are feeling a little bit better Mary . Praying for a lot better. Peter I commend you you are a good man . Praise God

  • @meganr9637
    @meganr9637 8 лет назад

    I'm so happy to be apart of the Frey life family. I love you guys and your vlogs. The moments in my day when I feel sad and I need some cheering up I watch your vlogs. You guys have so much joy even in hard circumstances I wish I had that joy too. These next few days are going to be tough. January 3rd is 1 year since my dad died.

  • @jennymarko2196
    @jennymarko2196 8 лет назад

    Congratulations Frey Life on 100,000!! Can't wait until you get your silver play button! I've been with you since about 20,000 viewers. I've enjoyed my time with you.

  • @stefaniewhite8394
    @stefaniewhite8394 8 лет назад

    that face! he just loves you so much

  • @cclaussen
    @cclaussen 8 лет назад

    Your dedication to vlogging every day and never missing a day is so amazing!

  • @clarissahendershot4135
    @clarissahendershot4135 8 лет назад

    Thanks

  • @1004juli
    @1004juli 8 лет назад

    I love puzzles. Get well soon Mary. I have been having constant cough for 4 weeks now. I feel your pain Mary. Cheering for you.

  • @sherilacross3931
    @sherilacross3931 8 лет назад

    Peter & Mary...re: the puzzle...I had a chiropractor who had jigsaw puzzles in his waiting room for his patients to work on while waiting & when each puzzle was finished he'd put a backing on it & frame it & hang them on his wall...it would be a really cool way to display them & be able to do a new one each year!! Happy New Year!

  • @sarahelizabeth623
    @sarahelizabeth623 8 лет назад +1

    Congrats on 100K, Frey Life! Sorry I missed the party! I was so bummed, but so happy for you. :)

  • @jamiesingleton2844
    @jamiesingleton2844 8 лет назад

    You only need 93 more people as of me watching this vlog! That's so crazy!! I was so sad to see your momma and daddy leave!! The upclose of Ollie's fur made me want to just cuddle up to that sweet soft fur of his! I'm so glad you invite us into your life! There is so much love in the Frey life family! Love and prayers!! And I hope your parents have made it home safe!

  • @bew1972
    @bew1972 8 лет назад +3

    oh sweet Mary you made me laugh out loud..."boingy stuff"...you're the best!

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  8 лет назад +4

      hahahahaha. You should have heard my conversation with the surgeon before surgery a few weeks ago... "I would prefer my port to be more surface- not under a lot of boingy stuff please"

    • @bew1972
      @bew1972 8 лет назад +3

      The Frey Life I've had that exact conversation when I've gotten mine tho my terminology wasn't quite as sweet...I told him to "stay far away from the jugs". Boingy stuff is MUCH more appropriate haha

  • @lindseyzimmerman6078
    @lindseyzimmerman6078 8 лет назад

    I love you guys! I love it when Peter does the drone footage! It's always amazing! :)

  • @joygross
    @joygross 8 лет назад

    What a adorable family, I love all your plaid clothing accessories ❤🎄 lol Ollie looked so huge when he was standing next to your momma. awesome puzzle!

  • @christienbbrooks7334
    @christienbbrooks7334 8 лет назад +1

    That puzzle is really awesome

  • @BNHAalltheway
    @BNHAalltheway 8 лет назад

    Glad You got to spend time with family and had Christmas don't feel bad Peter the tissue is probably not built up yet and You will learn how to access the new port like a pro very soon the puzzle was neat front and the shapes on the back love You guys You are so sweet God bless

  • @facemonkey13
    @facemonkey13 8 лет назад

    Soooooo close to 100,000!! I'm so excited for you guys!

  • @TheShazza1963
    @TheShazza1963 8 лет назад

    99,907 subscribers and super proud to be one of them. Almost 100,000 👏👏Happy New Year from Australia to the Frey's and all your followers 😘

  • @katrinamt8808
    @katrinamt8808 8 лет назад

    Cool puzzle. I like all your matching projects!

  • @RonandMel99
    @RonandMel99 8 лет назад +4

    I do have to access Elijah and he uses the 3/4 inch needle.. But the numbing cream works wonders.. We HAVE to have that.

    • @hannakinn
      @hannakinn 8 лет назад +1

      Moms Vlog80 Wow, great to see you here. I am a Mainville Minion! You, Ronnie, Caden and of course Elijah (Drax Shadow) have really been on my mind and in my heart lately. I love all you guys.

    • @RonandMel99
      @RonandMel99 8 лет назад

      Awe thanks Angie :) Loves

  • @rousingtherelics
    @rousingtherelics 8 лет назад +1

    139 away from 100k!! You guys are very inspiring!

  • @mattroche4816
    @mattroche4816 8 лет назад

    you guys are amazing, I love how you guys are so positive about everything and even when you guys were in the hospital,

  • @erinnordstrom3349
    @erinnordstrom3349 8 лет назад +1

    I'm praying for you

  • @MsMOLLYKINS
    @MsMOLLYKINS 8 лет назад +1

    Mary you are a sweety and Peter you are a special soul . God is watching every day and smiles at your bravery bless you both and kisses for olli xoxo. Every time you say good morning or good night I instantly think of the Truman show , if I don't see any ,good morning good afternoon and goodnight lol xoxoxo

  • @am-sl5wx
    @am-sl5wx 8 лет назад

    Ok, I never comment, but watch all of your video's. I love you guys, you're an amazing team and mature beyond your years. This video shows genuine love and concern for each others feelings.as you share with us the port experience. Sending love.

  • @kaitlyngreene1777
    @kaitlyngreene1777 7 лет назад

    Mary and Peter this video (and the rest of December '16) are missing from your December '16 playlist! Love you guys and Ollie. Thanks for letting us be a part of your family

  • @kx8031
    @kx8031 8 лет назад

    Your parents are so adorable and seem so cool and laid back!! Lol

  • @JulieR73
    @JulieR73 7 лет назад

    Such an adorable Westie! I have a Cairn Terrier!

  • @mollieflamingo6142
    @mollieflamingo6142 8 лет назад

    I love your videos. Stay strong Mary.

  • @elygale2001
    @elygale2001 8 лет назад

    100,003 right this moment! Congratulations guys, you three are rock stars (yes I'm including Ollie)!

  • @jennytraviss3805
    @jennytraviss3805 8 лет назад

    just love you guys. thanks for being so real ♥♥♥.

  • @Annette1965
    @Annette1965 8 лет назад

    I'm going through the last couple videos that I've missed when the live one came on. #Freylife congratulations 🎊🎈🍾🎉

  • @pennyburdick7651
    @pennyburdick7651 8 лет назад

    So sad to see mom and dad leave. I have a son 4 hours away and leaving to come back home still hurts and he has been there for 10 years now. So glad your doing well.

  • @lilymela2674
    @lilymela2674 8 лет назад

    Hi Mary and Peter stay strong I've been watching your channel since the beggining

  • @MFF901
    @MFF901 8 лет назад

    Mary so glad we got to see your parents there.They like doing games and puzzles with you.I enjoyed that.Merry Christmas and A Blessed New Year.🐧🎄🎁😀

  • @misskerry5627
    @misskerry5627 8 лет назад

    Loved the last shot of the family pics 😄

  • @jessicafranklin7046
    @jessicafranklin7046 7 лет назад

    I bought my dad a puzzle from liberty puzzles for Christmas this year and it's awesome....I found out about liberty puzzles from one of your videos....so thank you

  • @sunshine-pb5nu
    @sunshine-pb5nu 8 лет назад

    Love you guys so much. You keep my spirits up. Thank you. Xo

  • @jamiegoode5215
    @jamiegoode5215 8 лет назад

    That puzzle is so cool...it's like a wooden fractal puzzle I saw but with actual shapes...*need one*

  • @sarahvanorden670
    @sarahvanorden670 8 лет назад +2

    You guys are so close! I'm super excited for tomorrow! Our local theater is doing the Disney version of Beauty and the Beast, I am a huge fan of Disney and my parents got us tickets to see Beauty and The Beast tomorrow!

  • @CurvyNerd
    @CurvyNerd 8 лет назад

    Congrats on 100k. You both inspire me.

  • @Klutzy17
    @Klutzy17 8 лет назад

    Only 93 subscribers to get to 100,000! Y'all are so close, and I'm so glad to be a part of the #freyfam

  • @emsdailylife9529
    @emsdailylife9529 7 лет назад

    Hi you are the best I am so happy 😁 and grateful for you thank you 😊

  • @kaarinrosso2400
    @kaarinrosso2400 8 лет назад

    Peter and Mary (Olli too), I'm so excited for "The Frey Life", your are under 100 to go!

  • @jenniferbower2545
    @jenniferbower2545 8 лет назад

    as I watch this video you need 93 to reach the 100,000 goal. congratulations Peter and Mary. Looks like you will hit it before the new year.

  • @Kittehcat3000
    @Kittehcat3000 8 лет назад

    Ha! The Ballinger Family gets one of those puzzles every year for Christmas! They are really cool!

  • @20Unbelievable06
    @20Unbelievable06 8 лет назад +2

    I LOVE the expression boingy stuff!

  • @cathycook6719
    @cathycook6719 8 лет назад

    thanks for sharing

  • @gracepalmer8076
    @gracepalmer8076 8 лет назад

    stay strong Mary

  • @shelleyh7767
    @shelleyh7767 8 лет назад +6

    that puzzle was cool!! :) The 'boingy stuff' is probably tissue that isn't used to being poked yet. Do you remember if you had pain when your other port was first put in?

    • @FloridaGrandma
      @FloridaGrandma 8 лет назад

      Shelley Hooper Did they mention where they got it? besides as a gift I mean.

    • @shelleyh7767
      @shelleyh7767 8 лет назад

      Lynn
      no, they didn't .... at least not that I heard

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  8 лет назад +7

      The brand of the puzzle is Liberty Puzzles :)

    • @shelleyh7767
      @shelleyh7767 8 лет назад

      The Frey Life
      ...THANKS!! :)

  • @aprilfrith6556
    @aprilfrith6556 8 лет назад

    Numbing cream is a wonderful thing! This is my third port and I've had it for almost 3 years, and I still can't get it accessed without the cream.

  • @tracyrubin5053
    @tracyrubin5053 8 лет назад

    Love your medical terminology for boingie stuff!! Ollie is adorable as are the two of you!!

  • @stowedstuff
    @stowedstuff 8 лет назад

    That puzzle looks super cool!!! I love puzzles!

  • @crazyconnie06
    @crazyconnie06 8 лет назад

    love u guys!!!!! love when peter does the drone.. so cool!!!

  • @rebeccaschmidt976
    @rebeccaschmidt976 8 лет назад +1

    Love the term "boingy stuff"!

  • @carolwmsbowman9801
    @carolwmsbowman9801 8 лет назад +1

    Was that a Liberty puzzle? We have a few of that kind and they are really fun!

  • @kattieanderson5809
    @kattieanderson5809 8 лет назад

    Cool puzzle for sure!.....love the matching! so much fun! and great memories made....your Dad when he was saying goodbye :( ... I'm not good with goodbyes! lol