spoken like a true friend. he didnt bash him, spoke highly of him, tried to sympathize and expressed concern. I too hope Bam finds his peace. we all deserve it but unfortunately we all dont find it.
And the thing is, he CAN empathize because not too long ago he was in the exact situation Bam is in now. He understands the struggle, so he doesn't look at him with condescension
@@Randomjackass135the fanboy/girl Syndrome is a strong one.Ville could fart during an Interview while simultaneously hunting his boogers and People would call him a well-mannered Genius
@@dh6565actually, the guy was being genuinely sweet towards Bam here. Now as for OP, sure it was a little hyperbolic, but jeez unless you're jealous of the dude in the video, I don't know why you'd write your comment 😂
The monster he's speaking of is addiction, he's not bashing his old friend. He's simply saying he hopes Bam gets help and support. The title took a very classy and compassionate statement and twisted it for views.
Also the title says "turning into a monster" while he literally says "turning into THE monster (that he's turning into)". If they used the actual word, then they'd have to use the full, real quote, which would make it harder for them to twist it. That's so fcked especially the circumstances
No he's not lmao Bam is fucking up even when sober. It's 100% okay to acknowledge that someone is becoming a monster and needs help. Addiction is only one of the aspects turning Bam a monster right now. That doesn't mean Ville is just talking shit or "bashing him" lol
You're twisting his words yourself to try to make it sound like he wasn't saying Bam is turning into a monster, because you think that's mean for some reason?
Yea except his family did in fact frame him before to stick him into involuntary treatmentfor almost 2 years straight while living off his money like hes britney spears. Unfortunately bam has a drinking problem however hes also being targeted because hes in a vulnerable position
@atavistic_platypusHe's not judging Bam. He's hoping and wishing Bam gets help. Yeah, Ville had his own problems in the past but faced them and changed for the better.
I've been to Finland multiple times and almost all finns that I met had really great English. And of course being an international superstar helped a lot as well
Don't contort this man's perfect synopsis of the situation for clickbait. He did not say "He is a monster". He said "he's turning into 'the' monster" that is an extremely important distinction. He meant Bam is in the throes of full blown addiction and anyone truly familiar with it has the capacity to both realize and distinguish between the true self and the shadow self. That is the Jekyl and Hyde of active addiction.
He did say he's turning into a monster though. It's a quote. You clicked and expected something else said in a different way based on how you read the quote.
Ville stopped drinking but Bam continued... And they are about same age yet Bam looks like Ville's father at the moment... Drinking truly fucks people up
“Monster” was by no means a condescension. Ville has been where Bam is and had turned into a monster HIMself for a season of his life. He can relate to Bam’s struggle. People are twisting this out of context.
Idk Bam that well and I barely know anything about HIM (that “wings of a butterfly” song that was popular when I was in high school and the heartogram logo are pretty much all I can remember), but as an addict I think it’s pretty obvious that he’s using the term from a place of love, plus I’d think the context of the rest of the video would make it a bit more obvious that he’s not trying to be derogatory or overly critical towards Bam.
hes not even techincally wrong bam has become an alcoholic monster. If i call milk milk its not that i am a condensation is because is milk is what it is
That’s the funny thing about voids…. They just get deeper and deeper when in active addiction. It’s the cycle of hell… he could be lonely (we know he’s forever devastated over Dunn’s passing) but he’s actively desecrating relationships, pushing anyone and everyone away (from his paranoia, anger, situational hatred, etc) thus the void expands and the drugs ingested ten fold.
@@dr2599 Oh god, I know exactly what you mean, and you’re spot on about the twisted romance of destruction/death. I mean, I think the romanticization of death during addiction is perfectly understandable, so I get why I felt the way I did at that time and I don’t feel ‘bad’ or ashamed about it, but it definitely makes me cringe to think about now - and I don’t say cringe to mean “makes me feel embarrassed” but more like “makes my skin crawl.” And yeah, I also have a really hard time listening to some of the music that I listened to then, for essentially the same reason I just mentioned. It’s somewhat ironic, because it’s the music that quite literally kept me alive - I mean it was truly the only thing that preserved what little will to live I had left - and now it just brings back all those feelings of cold, empty, darkness that I never want to experience again.
Words of truth from Ville. He understands what's important in life - family, love and creating beautiful, meaningful things. It takes guts to openly say the truth and Ville nailed it, calling Bam a "monster". I can only imagine the pain he's gone through after losing Ryan, his best friend but enough is enough. He can't blame everyone for his situation...So many people have offered their help, family, friends, even some skaters from Italy but he stands by his means...Hope he will triumph after all.
Ville is such a beautiful soul. I'm really hoping he returns again to Seattle or the West Coast sooner than later. I missed this recent show by one day. One of the most special voices on the planet. More songs please 😅
Bam pushed him away with all bams bs while Valo was getting sober. Bam feels betrayed by everyone while he raps with busted chick's in a crack house. He doesn't want help. It's everyone else's fault and he won't let Ryan's death go.
@@Chaelsonen it was the first of many that came to mind. How low can you go after making 100s of millions. I remember when he was the youngest person on Forbes list.
That is one good looking dude, from one dude to another. Bam really looked up to this guy and his band had a huge influence on Bam. Kind caring person who wants the best for Bam
This is full of love and compassion. I think he cares a lot. He said this with so much care and intentionality. I wish I had someone like this in my life. I hope bam will find strength peace support love
His own idol is out here giving advice wanting to see him better, we all want you better bam you are great you aren’t the only person who has these issues just power threw them :)
Issue is, Bam is blaming everyone for his issues. April even blamed Ville for Bam’s Issues. Bam likely won’t hear the words, except “monster,” which would be out of context.
His family dont care, they are trying to force him into a conservatorship with Aura, who have a bad rep. HES been sober for a year, he cant have a phone as they track him constantly.
He’s so polite about the answer. Ville and Bam did reunite last year (2023) while Ville was on tour. Think Bam posted the pics on IG. So heartwarming to see. ❤
I love the care shown by this man. What an articulate, thoughtful and kind human. Bam wished me happy birthday and I could tell he was getting clean :)😊
It's wild to see the complete flip in Novak and Margera's stories. Goes to show that incredibly terrible situations can become better, and seemingly great situations can go awry in no time a'tall.
That's what I always tell people who talk down on addicts/homeless/down-and-outs... You're only one bad situation/choice from being where that person is. We are all human and have struggled at some point. Some peoples struggles was worse than others. That's all.
Novak is a major liar though. He might be clean but the majority of what he says is complete bullshit. Like he was never a pro skater, he was never on Viva la Bam as a permanent cast member he was just there for the actual cast to beat up and make fun of.
I think the world of skating misses Bam so much. But I also know his family misses him as well. If he comes back sober, he’ll be an icon in a way he never understood was possible
I'm so glad he didn't bash him , poor bam lost his best friend , as both me and my fiance did also and have been rooting for him to make a come back and said we'd start skating if he did , so we're. Back skating at 37 years old , thanks bam
Not to be a contrarian, but he looks like the Thin White Duke Bowie and he wasn't healthy at all at that point. I'm sure Ville is 100x healthier than Bowie was at that time, but he has that same pale and gaunt look
My mother asked about Ville the other day (I was in love with HIM for several years as a teen), and I was so happy to be able to tell of how his life has turned around. Good on you, Ville ❤
Such a nice guy. Saw them once in Gainesville Florida in a little club. They absolutely killed it. He sounded JUST like the records. The whole band did. Great show.
... Oh my God... Ville is absolutely stunning... So beautiful... It's impossible to take eyes off him... This beauty became absolutely unreal with ages...
I am sooooo glad he is saying this. Cuz bam absolutely LOVES this guys Music And He called bam a monster. Not to diss bam. But It’s the TRUTH His behavior is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING And Bam has a CHILD that should be his main objective ….PERIOD NOT drugs and chaos
Bam's mom seemed like such a sweetheart and his dad was very tolerant so you know they love their boy they just want him back. I would if it was my child
I’ve noticed April saying several times now, even just 2 days ago “this isn’t you Bam. This isn’t who you are”. I’ve gotten so used to this version of Bam now that that reminded me of who he used to be. He was so genuine and down to earth. I can’t wait for the day he truly heals 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Hes so respectable i love ville hes been such a great person since the show lol i love viva la bam and sometimes ville would come up but he cares for his friend very much
The only man who has a severe drinking problem but came out even more beautiful after he quit drinking. Bam thought he could drink to the same extreme as Ville and come out the same. Lol
@jason m. it's not just because he's an addict.Thats a personal issue and I'm sure he's working on that.he knows he has issues with substance abuse and he is working on it. I'm proud of him for reaching out to get help,it's not an easy thing to ask for ya know.
Bam's tried to emulate Ville from the jump, he worshipped Ville. Gerard Way is that for me, I can't imagine hearing him say I was a monster... Still rooting for Bam. 🖤🤘🏼
As a teen I used love watching Bam and all his shenanigans but as a grown man I realized he’s a product of never being told “No” as a child. I just hope he can finally grow up one day ❤
Bom dia para todos vocês aqui do canal. Eu só Inês de São Paulo Brasil 🇧🇷. Eu amo ❤Ville Valo e acho maravilhoso seu jeito de ser, e seu talento de compor músicas lindas e letras marcantes, beijos no seu coração ❤ Ville,. 😊😮❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. Eu gosto muito de suas entrevistas.
Very well spoken response to show you care about him and not to make him sound like a bad guy with a polite response. He answered the question but did so gently I guess you could say
What he's saying about Bam happened with me. When someone you care about goes off the rails, you gotta try. But at some point you must cut the cord & let a fool be a somewhere else.
@@salravioli try to see if you can get him into some kind of psychedelics study or program. they have amazing effects on all kinds of mental problems, from depression, ptsd and addiction
"Of the same ilk" if you mean they struggle with addiction. Bam was incredibly cruel to Brandon Novak for that same reason and Brandon still loves him, not the same.
Awwww this man….. he is such a lovely person. The fact he was waiting for an insult breaks my heart. Earl, you’re a fucking legend. And you inspire me. ❤
It sucks that the title of the video wasn't "He's a nice guy," or "he's a sensitive, special fella," or "I can understand some of it" or one of the numerous positive things Ville said. The ONE negative thing he said was picked out and turned into the title of the video like it was gonna be one more video trashing a guy who's in one of the worst places he's been in his entire life, kicking a man while he's down. But I get it. It's just gross what gets views, I guess.
Tand this is just another addition to the reason why I am so in love with him ❤ I'm do glad I got to see him finally after 20 years of trying to in austin last year. He's extremely talented.
April blamed Ville Valo for Bam’s drinking, but VV still sends love and support towards Bam. Just goes to show you who the biggest enablers truly are, and they need help too.
Im sure it didnt' help bam's cause but i think the passing of Ryan Dunn is what really did Bam in. I believe that if Dunn was still here Bam would be a completely different person
bam and his ''friends'' that enable him needs to grow a pair and start taking responsibility for their actions rather than blaming their degeneracy on others -_- Pirun tussut
Wenn ich in Bam's wunderschöne Augen schaue, sehe ich noch immer den jungen, karismatischen Kerl von damals! Hoffe so sehr das er weiterhin sauber, gesund und glücklich bleibt! Liebe und Unterstützung aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 🖤🖤🖤💀💀💀
Beautiful words H.I.M well spoken of heartfelt worry from a great friend and family. The rabbit hole is hard to climb out of when (we) people who struggle can’t find that great grip. But good words like this of feeling gives us a great grip to hold on and pull forward to get out.
Speaking to Ville is probably really hard for Bam. I'm assuming he probably feels shame and is afraid to speak with him. I've gone down a path to hell and required a lot of healing. I don't know either of them, I met Bam a long time ago while skating and we discussed the tricks we were trying, but you can see from this that he has a lot of support. I hope he realizes how much support he has around him. I may have talked shit about my own friends, but I also found out they stole from me and took advantage of me. Like come on Bam, I'm a dude with no friends, I'm broke, and I still changed things.
That was a sincere heartfelt message. I pray that Bam finds the light and can get off of the junk he’s putting into his body. Your loved Bam, life doesn’t have to be so hard. In Jesus name
@SBB333 College educated 😂 congrats on debt with no guarantee of a job bud. Almost everyone I graduated with that went to college is living with their parents and still trying to find a good job
spoken like a true friend. he didnt bash him, spoke highly of him, tried to sympathize and expressed concern. I too hope Bam finds his peace. we all deserve it but unfortunately we all dont find it.
Exactly
Are you doctor Phil or something
And the thing is, he CAN empathize because not too long ago he was in the exact situation Bam is in now. He understands the struggle, so he doesn't look at him with condescension
@@kevinmcqueen9180 Dr Phill: what are you talkin about Buddy?
Facts 💯
One of the most well-spoken rockstars in the business
Comments like these are so stupid. In what way do you determine this? I need to start seeing evidence instead of observations from unobservant people.
@@Randomjackass135 IN HOW HE JUST SPOKE,CARINGLY, ETC.--TRY N LISTEN GEEEEENIUS!!!!!!!!!!!
@@Randomjackass135the fanboy/girl Syndrome is a strong one.Ville could fart during an Interview while simultaneously hunting his boogers and People would call him a well-mannered Genius
we can see you are also well-spoken, congrats.@@Randomjackass135
@@dh6565actually, the guy was being genuinely sweet towards Bam here. Now as for OP, sure it was a little hyperbolic, but jeez unless you're jealous of the dude in the video, I don't know why you'd write your comment 😂
A rock star celebrity having wholesome, compassionate worldviews. It's great to see
He also enabled Bam for over a decade.
@@ComicusFreemaniusNo one enabled Bam other then himself
@@kalin9ne651He was Bam's hero, I guess that why I guess they say "Never meet 'em".
@ComicusFreemanius never meet your heroes.... who want you to stop dicking around with drugs and start taking care of your family??
@@ComicusFreemaniususually it's because they disappoint you.
Bam is the disappointment
The monster he's speaking of is addiction, he's not bashing his old friend. He's simply saying he hopes Bam gets help and support. The title took a very classy and compassionate statement and twisted it for views.
as usual
100% The title is not what he said at all. Anything for a click these days
Also the title says "turning into a monster" while he literally says "turning into THE monster (that he's turning into)". If they used the actual word, then they'd have to use the full, real quote, which would make it harder for them to twist it.
That's so fcked especially the circumstances
No he's not lmao Bam is fucking up even when sober. It's 100% okay to acknowledge that someone is becoming a monster and needs help. Addiction is only one of the aspects turning Bam a monster right now. That doesn't mean Ville is just talking shit or "bashing him" lol
You're twisting his words yourself to try to make it sound like he wasn't saying Bam is turning into a monster, because you think that's mean for some reason?
Ville is such a humble guy
Yea except his family did in fact frame him before to stick him into involuntary treatmentfor almost 2 years straight while living off his money like hes britney spears. Unfortunately bam has a drinking problem however hes also being targeted because hes in a vulnerable position
@@Dorothyann436what does that have to do with Ville being a humble guy?
@atavistic_platypusHe's not judging Bam. He's hoping and wishing Bam gets help. Yeah, Ville had his own problems in the past but faced them and changed for the better.
@atavistic_platypusas someone who studies human behavior and emotion, you’re mistaking empathy for judgement.
And smoking hot
He said it really well. “He’s a sensitive special fella.”
Ville is a class act. Isn’t bashing him, he is showing concern, while relating to him and wishing him well.
While also being the lead singer for him😅
He is honest, Bam is turning into a monster. Also Bam has zero talent, he has the weakest parts of the Jackass movies.
But bam did cky which shat on anything jackass ever did @@TimmyJay02
@@TimmyJay02Bam was the reason Jackass even existed
of course he's not going to bash on him in an interview. Who would do that on one?
Vile speaking better English than 98% of people who speak English as a first language.
I've been to Finland multiple times and almost all finns that I met had really great English. And of course being an international superstar helped a lot as well
i was just thinking that myself
Not necessarily but he's good at it.
Speaking better than Bams Pennsylvanian aass
What a weird statement Craig
Don't contort this man's perfect synopsis of the situation for clickbait. He did not say "He is a monster". He said "he's turning into 'the' monster" that is an extremely important distinction. He meant Bam is in the throes of full blown addiction and anyone truly familiar with it has the capacity to both realize and distinguish between the true self and the shadow self. That is the Jekyl and Hyde of active addiction.
You're wrong
@@victormature344 literally what? How was anything he said in that comment wrong .
No one is saying that in the comments
He did say he's turning into a monster though.
It's a quote. You clicked and expected something else said in a different way based on how you read the quote.
@@DrSpoculus A quote is meant to be verbatim, you know word for word. They definitely contorted his wording on purpose.
He answered in such a good way, like a true friend
Ville stopped drinking but Bam continued... And they are about same age yet Bam looks like Ville's father at the moment... Drinking truly fucks people up
Yes it does , it will age a person 10 years in 3
Of course, but Ville has great genetics
It does indeed…
It turns the most amazing people into complete arseholes…
It really sucks that it’s legal…
his face is full of makeup and bam eats food regulary, not villle, bam still look younger than many women in their 30's that took care of themselves
@@retrocompaq5212 thanks for the laughs 😂 I don't remember when was the last time I laughed at some comment this much 🤣
Ville valo so humble for real I went to his show last week and it was amazing he’s an amazing singer and person I hope I see him again soon
“Monster” was by no means a condescension. Ville has been where Bam is and had turned into a monster HIMself for a season of his life. He can relate to Bam’s struggle. People are twisting this out of context.
Himself 😂
Idk Bam that well and I barely know anything about HIM (that “wings of a butterfly” song that was popular when I was in high school and the heartogram logo are pretty much all I can remember), but as an addict I think it’s pretty obvious that he’s using the term from a place of love, plus I’d think the context of the rest of the video would make it a bit more obvious that he’s not trying to be derogatory or overly critical towards Bam.
I think they are both lame twats
hes not even techincally wrong bam has become an alcoholic monster. If i call milk milk its not that i am a condensation is because is milk is what it is
I see what you did there😂. And yes he said nothing wrong. Drugs absolutely can turn you into a monster. I’ve been that way myself.
purest most humble statement on Bams state of being these days.. spoken withvtrue compassion and humbled...
I’m sure Bam is just killing loneliness..
The fact that that song is speaking of hard drugs.... I certainly hope Bam isn't Killing Loneliness in the same way
Novak was the inspiration for that song
That’s the funny thing about voids…. They just get deeper and deeper when in active addiction. It’s the cycle of hell… he could be lonely (we know he’s forever devastated over Dunn’s passing) but he’s actively desecrating relationships, pushing anyone and everyone away (from his paranoia, anger, situational hatred, etc) thus the void expands and the drugs ingested ten fold.
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@@dr2599 Oh god, I know exactly what you mean, and you’re spot on about the twisted romance of destruction/death. I mean, I think the romanticization of death during addiction is perfectly understandable, so I get why I felt the way I did at that time and I don’t feel ‘bad’ or ashamed about it, but it definitely makes me cringe to think about now - and I don’t say cringe to mean “makes me feel embarrassed” but more like “makes my skin crawl.” And yeah, I also have a really hard time listening to some of the music that I listened to then, for essentially the same reason I just mentioned. It’s somewhat ironic, because it’s the music that quite literally kept me alive - I mean it was truly the only thing that preserved what little will to live I had left - and now it just brings back all those feelings of cold, empty, darkness that I never want to experience again.
Words of truth from Ville. He understands what's important in life - family, love and creating beautiful, meaningful things. It takes guts to openly say the truth and Ville nailed it, calling Bam a "monster". I can only imagine the pain he's gone through after losing Ryan, his best friend but enough is enough. He can't blame everyone for his situation...So many people have offered their help, family, friends, even some skaters from Italy but he stands by his means...Hope he will triumph after all.
Bam needs to hear/see this
Dang. That’s was loving but hard. That’s how friendships should be. This fella has an amazing way with words.
I've had a crush on him since highschool. He looks so good still holy shit!!
I ama straight man and I have a crush on Ville. He is so classy
He aged like fine wine.
The guy is wearing eye liner lol.
He's into men.
Same here❤
@@nicholaigardner8150im not the only one 😭
Ville is such a beautiful soul. I'm really hoping he returns again to Seattle or the West Coast sooner than later. I missed this recent show by one day. One of the most special voices on the planet. More songs please 😅
You know its bad when even Ville cant reach or help him ._.
Doesn't help thar Bam had been in a conservatorship and is not having a good time. Look up The Surprise Witness regarding Bam.
Bam pushed him away with all bams bs while Valo was getting sober. Bam feels betrayed by everyone while he raps with busted chick's in a crack house. He doesn't want help. It's everyone else's fault and he won't let Ryan's death go.
@@sgt.lincolnosiris4111 that video is years old, taken when he was still with nikki
@@bradpity Good thing theres been years of him doing dumb stuff in between to fill the gap.
@@Chaelsonen it was the first of many that came to mind. How low can you go after making 100s of millions. I remember when he was the youngest person on Forbes list.
One of the best clean vocalist all of Time
That is one good looking dude, from one dude to another. Bam really looked up to this guy and his band had a huge influence on Bam. Kind caring person who wants the best for Bam
This is full of love and compassion. I think he cares a lot. He said this with so much care and intentionality. I wish I had someone like this in my life. I hope bam will find strength peace support love
At least Ville is being honest… and he sympathizes with him because Villes been on the same boat
Yeah in a lot of his appearances on Bam's show Ville was more wasted than Bam. I've never seen this guy sober and his message is short and poignant.
That's a friend right there.
I like his elegant way of putting harsh truths he's a good friend
My guy has stunning eyes
My guy? I wish people would stop saying that. It’s really annoying.
@@silver47official😂😂😂😂 it's not just me. That shit and bruh/bro.
Smoke his pole then and ask him for eyeliner advice. You fruit cakes can be happy.
@@silver47official
Don't worry about that, my guy.
That’s hella sus my guy 😂
this guy is a class act. Very well spoken and eloquent. Love to sit down and have a few with him.
Just like that! Ville is legend, very Interesting artist.
His own idol is out here giving advice wanting to see him better, we all want you better bam you are great you aren’t the only person who has these issues just power threw them :)
Man it is really beyond tragic that even his hero cant get through to him :(
Someone need to send this to BAM. Immediately
He will hear about it/see it I’m sure
Issue is, Bam is blaming everyone for his issues. April even blamed Ville for Bam’s
Issues. Bam likely won’t hear the words, except “monster,” which would be out of context.
Glad I watched the full video rather than judging him based on the title. Beautifully put
Does this dude even age?
Vampire
No.
May all the hats have something to do with it.
He's always looked like a vampire, sounds like one too, seducts like one too. All the clues are there
His family dont care, they are trying to force him into a conservatorship with Aura, who have a bad rep. HES been sober for a year, he cant have a phone as they track him constantly.
He’s so polite about the answer. Ville and Bam did reunite last year (2023) while Ville was on tour. Think Bam posted the pics on IG. So heartwarming to see. ❤
Is this the lead singer of HIM? He is so handsome!! Always had a crush on him.
he definitely is, handsome and humble as ever
That is yeah, Ville Valo. He just put out a solo record.
@@JumpinJackClash his solo stuff is great because he can get as weird as he wants to with it. Those songs wouldn't have fit with HIM's theme.
still do
@AnAdorableWombat1 Agreed, Ville is an absolute BEAUTY. Such gorgeous, captivating eyes 😍🤩
Wow so beautifully spoken. I really hope bam sees this and is able to reach out to ville. He seems like the one true friend bam needs right now
Ville is sooooo gorgeous, and has a beautiful soul. 🖤🖤
A beautiful hole
I love the care shown by this man. What an articulate, thoughtful and kind human.
Bam wished me happy birthday and I could tell he was getting clean :)😊
Holy cow, his voice sounds so much better and different, I'm guessing since quiting smoking a d drinking, his health has improved
Indeed! His skin looks way better too
He got veneers too, cause he has a thing where he grinds his teeth so that affected his voice too, but in a good way!
No need for guessing there!
Not cocaine tough lol
@@xerrymx some guys just like the way it smells 👍🏻
That was well spoken. He is right to the point in a respectful way.
It's wild to see the complete flip in Novak and Margera's stories. Goes to show that incredibly terrible situations can become better, and seemingly great situations can go awry in no time a'tall.
Aged terribly
That's what I always tell people who talk down on addicts/homeless/down-and-outs... You're only one bad situation/choice from being where that person is. We are all human and have struggled at some point. Some peoples struggles was worse than others. That's all.
novak was worse , idk why people saying that shit,
@@anghellicone87 as the Joker puts it, "everyone is just one bad day away from becoming me."
Novak is a major liar though. He might be clean but the majority of what he says is complete bullshit. Like he was never a pro skater, he was never on Viva la Bam as a permanent cast member he was just there for the actual cast to beat up and make fun of.
I think the world of skating misses Bam so much. But I also know his family misses him as well. If he comes back sober, he’ll be an icon in a way he never understood was possible
Wow what a great and honest message
Ville is spot-on with the advice and straightforward concern for his friend.
Very good friend right there. Bam is lucky to have people that care about him. Hopefully he realizes this before it’s too late.
I'm so glad he didn't bash him , poor bam lost his best friend , as both me and my fiance did also and have been rooting for him to make a come back and said we'd start skating if he did , so we're. Back skating at 37 years old , thanks bam
This guy still looks young and healthy. Like look at Ville and look at Bam...
Dope sometimes pickles people rather than ages them 🤷♀️
I was thinking the exact thing
Genetics though. Look at Phill and then look at Bam…. Or even Don Vito
Not to be a contrarian, but he looks like the Thin White Duke Bowie and he wasn't healthy at all at that point. I'm sure Ville is 100x healthier than Bowie was at that time, but he has that same pale and gaunt look
ummmm....👀 he looks like the poster boy for Hepatitis, but that's just imo.
Beautiful !He sounds like a very humble man,and to have the looks to go with it!
❤🖤❤
Hope he sees this. He's got a lot to lose.
He’s already lost it
@@kdizzle901 bams already too far gone in his madness that some of his fans lost hope and used to look up to him 20 years ago
Ville is such a lovely man ❤
He's still a gorgeous man and so humble and so loveable.
My mother asked about Ville the other day (I was in love with HIM for several years as a teen), and I was so happy to be able to tell of how his life has turned around. Good on you, Ville ❤
Ville ages like fine wine 🖤
im surprised how good he looks after all those cigarettes, booze and drugs :D good for Him
GREAT RESPONSE. Hope Bam hears this.
That was very well said! Kudos to Ville! 👏🏻
This makes my heart break man. I love these dudes. Great to hear from ville. Miss em.
We’ve all lost someone we loved deeply. Bams gotta get himself together for his son
Such a nice guy. Saw them once in Gainesville Florida in a little club. They absolutely killed it. He sounded JUST like the records. The whole band did. Great show.
... Oh my God... Ville is absolutely stunning... So beautiful... It's impossible to take eyes off him... This beauty became absolutely unreal with ages...
Absolutely!
I am sooooo glad he is saying this.
Cuz bam absolutely LOVES this guys Music
And
He called bam a monster.
Not to diss bam.
But
It’s the TRUTH
His behavior is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING
And Bam has a CHILD
that should be his main objective
….PERIOD
NOT drugs and chaos
You can tell ville is such a great friend. Everyone really just wants the best for him.
Bam's mom seemed like such a sweetheart and his dad was very tolerant so you know they love their boy they just want him back. I would if it was my child
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I’ve noticed April saying several times now, even just 2 days ago “this isn’t you Bam. This isn’t who you are”. I’ve gotten so used to this version of Bam now that that reminded me of who he used to be. He was so genuine and down to earth. I can’t wait for the day he truly heals 🙏🏼🙏🏼
He is just so beautiful himself!! I just love him so much!! Just an awesome, talented individual!!😊
What a very loving statement by Ville.
This guy is responsible for deaths of countless butterflies 🦋😂
Hes so respectable i love ville hes been such a great person since the show lol i love viva la bam and sometimes ville would come up but he cares for his friend very much
You’d think if anyone’s gonna get thru to bam it will be Ville, nice to hear him wanting the best him
He is so kind! Such a good person and caring friend ❤ and what a brilliant English ❤ and voice ❤ love him 😊
The only man who has a severe drinking problem but came out even more beautiful after he quit drinking. Bam thought he could drink to the same extreme as Ville and come out the same. Lol
Ja, da hat er Glück, das sein Aussehen nicht so gelitten hat.
Seine schönen Augen hat er behalten...
Ville is an amazing dude. Super down to earth. I got tons of respect for him. And we want to see Bam better.
That's cool to hear,Bam has always been his own worst enemy! I wish him the best too
That’s almost always the case. Especially with addicts.
@jason m. it's not just because he's an addict.Thats a personal issue and I'm sure he's working on that.he knows he has issues with substance abuse and he is working on it. I'm proud of him for reaching out to get help,it's not an easy thing to ask for ya know.
Love you and your kind and real words ❤
Bam's tried to emulate Ville from the jump, he worshipped Ville. Gerard Way is that for me, I can't imagine hearing him say I was a monster... Still rooting for Bam. 🖤🤘🏼
🤤
You know.. You have something in your eye! 👀
@@HatlessAtlasHA I also see some on her chin
@@KahlessTheUnforgettable
...Yawotm8?
😆 Geez
As a teen I used love watching Bam and all his shenanigans but as a grown man I realized he’s a product of never being told “No” as a child. I just hope he can finally grow up one day ❤
Bom dia para todos vocês aqui do canal. Eu só Inês de São Paulo Brasil 🇧🇷. Eu amo ❤Ville Valo e acho maravilhoso seu jeito de ser, e seu talento de compor músicas lindas e letras marcantes, beijos no seu coração ❤ Ville,. 😊😮❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. Eu gosto muito de suas entrevistas.
Very well spoken response to show you care about him and not to make him sound like a bad guy with a polite response. He answered the question but did so gently I guess you could say
What he's saying about Bam happened with me. When someone you care about goes off the rails, you gotta try. But at some point you must cut the cord & let a fool be a somewhere else.
My brother is turning into a monster too 😢
@@salravioli try to see if you can get him into some kind of psychedelics study or program. they have amazing effects on all kinds of mental problems, from depression, ptsd and addiction
The pain in his eyes kills me 😢 you can see how much he misses his friend and the good times they had together
"Of the same ilk" if you mean they struggle with addiction. Bam was incredibly cruel to Brandon Novak for that same reason and Brandon still loves him, not the same.
I can't believe he is more of a beautiful, cool dude than he was ever before. Im really happy for Ville.
Smart man. We love you Ville!
Real shit💯 God bless you my man. I wish Bam better DAYS!!!
Concentrate on the essential. Thanks Ville!
Awwww this man….. he is such a lovely person. The fact he was waiting for an insult breaks my heart. Earl, you’re a fucking legend. And you inspire me. ❤
It sucks that the title of the video wasn't "He's a nice guy," or "he's a sensitive, special fella," or "I can understand some of it" or one of the numerous positive things Ville said. The ONE negative thing he said was picked out and turned into the title of the video like it was gonna be one more video trashing a guy who's in one of the worst places he's been in his entire life, kicking a man while he's down. But I get it. It's just gross what gets views, I guess.
Tand this is just another addition to the reason why I am so in love with him ❤ I'm do glad I got to see him finally after 20 years of trying to in austin last year. He's extremely talented.
Bam partied harder than most rock stars
Extremely well put. Extremely sad situation.
April blamed Ville Valo for Bam’s drinking, but VV still sends love and support towards Bam. Just goes to show you who the biggest enablers truly are, and they need help too.
Im sure it didnt' help bam's cause but i think the passing of Ryan Dunn is what really did Bam in. I believe that if Dunn was still here Bam would be a completely different person
bam and his ''friends'' that enable him needs to grow a pair and start taking responsibility for their actions rather than blaming their degeneracy on others -_- Pirun tussut
Wenn ich in Bam's wunderschöne Augen schaue, sehe ich noch immer den jungen, karismatischen Kerl von damals! Hoffe so sehr das er weiterhin sauber, gesund und glücklich bleibt! Liebe und Unterstützung aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 🖤🖤🖤💀💀💀
Valo is so much more mature, nowadays. This guy used to be a party monster himself.
Beautiful words H.I.M well spoken of heartfelt worry from a great friend and family. The rabbit hole is hard to climb out of when (we) people who struggle can’t find that great grip. But good words like this of feeling gives us a great grip to hold on and pull forward to get out.
Speaking to Ville is probably really hard for Bam. I'm assuming he probably feels shame and is afraid to speak with him. I've gone down a path to hell and required a lot of healing. I don't know either of them, I met Bam a long time ago while skating and we discussed the tricks we were trying, but you can see from this that he has a lot of support. I hope he realizes how much support he has around him. I may have talked shit about my own friends, but I also found out they stole from me and took advantage of me. Like come on Bam, I'm a dude with no friends, I'm broke, and I still changed things.
Sometimes that’s what helps, having only yourself and not all these enablers around like Bam has.
That was a sincere heartfelt message. I pray that Bam finds the light and can get off of the junk he’s putting into his body. Your loved Bam, life doesn’t have to be so hard. In Jesus name
Love Ville 🖤
I love this guy❤ he's good people.
Dang, Ville is very intelligent. I like this guy. No homo.
hahahahaha omg I haven’t heard that since 2007 🤗
@SBB333 sensitive eh? You going to be okay, my besties are lesbian, they don’t get offended, why do you?
@SBB333 cool story 👍🏻 Why you wrote a speech is 🤷🏼♀️
@SBB333 I’m a woman, with a Vagina, i’m not a dude
@SBB333 College educated 😂 congrats on debt with no guarantee of a job bud. Almost everyone I graduated with that went to college is living with their parents and still trying to find a good job
He’s still strikingly attractive 😲
Bam started drinking hardcore because he wanted to be like him
Bam was already off his face on drugs and everything else waaaaay before he met ville which everybody fails to realise
@@rybo0072 that's not even remotely true lol