Please do a series, love doesn’t abuse / Spiritual Abuse in the Church 1. Spiritual abuse (extortion/ rejection/ competition/ manipulation 2. Pastoral abuse 3. Peer abuse
I am not apologizing for stewarding my spiritual path and heart. Im not quitting on people or relationships.. But I am quitting emotional abuse and bullying. YOU BE you.. No judgement. I BE ME.. and let us go our way in peace
The sermon, “I Quit Church”, is what drew me to this channel. It spoke to issues and experiences in my past I couldn’t explain, even to seasoned ministers. I left church years ago because I didn’t have a personal relationship with God. This message blessed me even the more. I’m ready to serve God because I now know the difference between serving God and serving man. God bless you, Pastor Dharius.
The woman that I truly love and I made a promise to the Lord to love until my last breath has broken my heart. You Dr.D have helped me in so many ways. I have been lost without her and the Lord and prayer has helped me tremendously. My heart is so damaged, but I'm healing. Thank God and You. Amen
TRUTH. WE NEED MORE OF THESE TEACHINGS, THEY BRING HEALING. NOT ONLY AONG CHURCH MEMEBERS BUT RELIGIOUS PEOPLE PERIOD, WHETHER WE MET AS NEIGHBOURS, CO-WORKERS.
That is just it everybody expects me to be angry because they're angry they want me to argue cuz they argue that was never my nature it never is I've always been about peace and I've always been about happiness but when you have that negative energy around you you have to constantly fight it off so it does not seep into you and take over thank you for this message thank you so much
AMEN!! I can relate and now that I’m distancing myself from those toxic, negative, peace stealers I can living in peace and my purpose for what God has for me 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯💯
It's PD's authenticity while providing the Word, for me. I am so grateful God has used him as a vessel to touch the hearts/broken hearts of his children. Thank you Pastor 💯
this is bigger than we give it credit... if you're out of touch with your spiritual core all else falls away. it can poison the well.. thank you for this lesson
Thank you for talking about this topic!! We need to get real about spiritual abuse in the church and in spiritual relationships. This real and it is happening every day to innocent people. It is a shame that spiritual leaders and highly respected members use their platform to manipulate, deceive, cause competition, and ultimately abuse, then break real believers in the church. We need to address this topic and get real clear on this situation happening every day in churches. We all need to have these tough conversations so that people can take accountability for their actions, try not to abuse but heal and ultimately do God’s plan by winning souls for the kingdom!!! God bless your PD for being brave enough to discuss this!!🙏🏽✝️
Something about power and us humans...this is one of the reasons why I turned to God because humans cannot handle vast power with integrity for long, eventually they will compromise unless they keep tapping into God's power
In tears listening to this TONIGHT! So DEEP...I'm so busy with my business and 🔥 burned out I don't always Catch Bible study... But I experienced such a Hurt from Beacon Light New Orleans Bishop Darryl Brister and I NEEDEDTHIS ...So Pastor I started following you, and don't have NO intention on returning to the church!! Dr Dhauris Thank You SO MUCH😪😪😪
Truth without grace is mean but have without truth is meaningless. Love these messages dr.d! Just found you 2 weeks ago and been binge watching ever since... Being the fire on this water down generation,we need your boldness!
I abandoned church and the church community for over 20 years and have only started getting in with church community only watching online lately. I’ve had a lot of hurt and rejection from the church, even told the night of my baptism that myself and another person could not do it as we hadn’t quite given up smoking. I felt so rejected by “the church family” I lost any bit of trust and hope I had left. Also couldn’t dance with the youth because of the same thing. Only was allowed to practice. I felt so dirty, so left out I was an outcast.
My prayer life has been shattered, the leader copies every single word I pray when im at home in private, every word! Has notes, knew he was affecting my prayer life and it has destroyed my prayer life!
I do feel your heart behind this teaching and thank you for allowing God to use you in this area. It's like I saw a saying and it said that I love God, it's His children that I have a problem with.
I just woke up. Ms stuff and heart stuff. My egroup friend at elevation sent me this link. I don't sleep well, so I have learned to go straight to Jesus instead of waking my hubby or fussing. I expect to meet Jesus here tonight..
12:50 p.m. (ct) Thur. Sept. 7, 2023 😢. Pastor Dharius, I am receiving God's Truth, Healing & Freedom today @ this very hour. I know from personal experiences that this message is God Ordained. I praise God for ur obedience to the Spirit of God. God bless Dr. Dharius Daniels & Pastor Shemika Daniels & Change Transformation Church. Evangelist Ruth Richardson ❤❤
You are preaching today Doc. Everything your saying is facts and I understand your not putting anyone down or pointing blame but just calling it like it is
PD...bruh...man, you lifted the veil on an issue that has plagued the body of Christ for ages! Thank you for your commitment and your courage to bring this to the light. May God continue to bless you and yours on this journey! Proud of you and excited about what God is going to manifest through you!
I don't expect anything from anyone anymore. The only one I trust is THE LORD! I've been abused at church,by family and friends and people I thought loved me. Jesus is healing my heart and my body. It's a process and it takes much longer than I expected. God bless you brother.🙏🙏🙏
Pastor, you are speaking the truth. I watched a segment you preached on I quit church. After, I was asked to coordinate my Pastor's anniversary, and the day of the service. My hard work was rejected by the Pastor and the members of the church, and I haven't been back to that church since. Now, I have anxiety walking into a church because I am thinking the people will reject me
I left my church as well I'm so sorry for your experience. I experienced the spiritual abuse discard and rejection by my pastor my peers and the predatory person who ultimately ended up becoming my child's father. He got praised and elevated and I got shunned out and shamed as an unwed mother
Wow… I watched this and it made me paranoid for a moment to the point I caught myself trying to figure out why he was telling my business and who told him my secrets. Mind blowing piece awesome sermon and pastoral skills. I love how he makes me think feel and ability to totally change your perspective with ease. I encourage everyone to check this pastors words he’s awesome and dedicated to his teachings.
Pray for me too Mr D. ✋ I need to be healed. Yes Jesus. You are all my reasons. Plant me in a safe space ...forgive those brothers and sisters...make me part of the solution
Sooo good. Sooo good. Tears in my eyes. Thank you again and again. 65 years old and the mess is a mess but God knew you would deliver for healing. Man of God Dr. DD
Beautiful opening for further communication on this topic. “I Quit Church” was a great starting point. I run into people daily in my business and personal relationships who have trauma from their spiritual experiences. Thank you for being a bridge. 🙏🏼
Thank you so much Pastor Dharius for this teachings of Love Laws. I’m currently going through a series on the book “Boundaries”. God lead me to your teachings & I feel it’s what helped me to break the chains & helped me to identify everything I was reading in the book. It brought it to life for me. Thank you for your calling to the Lord. I no longer want to survive, I want to THRIVE! 🤎🤎 I don’t watch your sermons live to post in the chat, but I want you to know that God is definitely speaking to me through these messages & it’s NOT too much! I love how you don’t hold back. I want to know God’s word & not have it sugarcoated. So thank you!
A leader shouldn't try to control a member especially if they truly believe the word of God, it is written that His word doesn't return void, and He gave us free will
Thankyou for talking about the passage on women in church, I was just wondering this week what to think about that. Jesus thankyou for telling Mr Daniel's to say that. I needed it. You were listening Jesus
Please do a series, love doesn’t abuse / Spiritual Abuse in the Church 1. Spiritual abuse (extortion/ rejection/ competition/ manipulation
2. Pastoral abuse
3. Peer abuse
I am not apologizing for stewarding my spiritual path and heart. Im not quitting on people or relationships.. But I am quitting emotional abuse and bullying. YOU BE you.. No judgement. I BE ME.. and let us go our way in peace
The sermon, “I Quit Church”, is what drew me to this channel. It spoke to issues and experiences in my past I couldn’t explain, even to seasoned ministers. I left church years ago because I didn’t have a personal relationship with God. This message blessed me even the more. I’m ready to serve God because I now know the difference between serving God and serving man. God bless you, Pastor Dharius.
The woman that I truly love and I made a promise to the Lord to love until my last breath has broken my heart.
You Dr.D have helped me in so many ways.
I have been lost without her and the Lord and prayer has helped me tremendously.
My heart is so damaged, but I'm healing.
Thank God and You.
Amen
TRUTH. WE NEED MORE OF THESE TEACHINGS, THEY BRING HEALING. NOT ONLY AONG CHURCH MEMEBERS BUT RELIGIOUS PEOPLE PERIOD, WHETHER WE MET AS NEIGHBOURS, CO-WORKERS.
Pastor Daniels you need to go deeper with this topic I can't believe the video has ended already. Wow Truth poured out overflowing.
I’m so proud of you for addressing this topic.
I definitely “quit church” bc of spiritual abuse. Thank you for addressing this!
That is just it everybody expects me to be angry because they're angry they want me to argue cuz they argue that was never my nature it never is I've always been about peace and I've always been about happiness but when you have that negative energy around you you have to constantly fight it off so it does not seep into you and take over thank you for this message thank you so much
Amen to that
I feel you
Yup forget that osmosis negativity. Rise above the hate, that's what God expects and that's what God shall get!
AMEN!! I can relate and now that I’m distancing myself from those toxic, negative, peace stealers I can living in peace and my purpose for what God has for me 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯💯
Love DOESN’T abuse!
It's PD's authenticity while providing the Word, for me. I am so grateful God has used him as a vessel to touch the hearts/broken hearts of his children. Thank you Pastor 💯
this is bigger than we give it credit... if you're out of touch with your spiritual core all else falls away. it can poison the well.. thank you for this lesson
Thank you for talking about this topic!! We need to get real about spiritual abuse in the church and in spiritual relationships. This real and it is happening every day to innocent people. It is a shame that spiritual leaders and highly respected members use their platform to manipulate, deceive, cause competition, and ultimately abuse, then break real believers in the church. We need to address this topic and get real clear on this situation happening every day in churches. We all need to have these tough conversations so that people can take accountability for their actions, try not to abuse but heal and ultimately do God’s plan by winning souls for the kingdom!!! God bless your PD for being brave enough to discuss this!!🙏🏽✝️
Something about power and us humans...this is one of the reasons why I turned to God because humans cannot handle vast power with integrity for long, eventually they will compromise unless they keep tapping into God's power
Amen to that y'all!!
☝🏽Agape love is a covenantal love not a transactional love!
How you are spiritually, is how you actually are. 🔥🔥🔥 Amen!
"I Quit Church" was REAL TALK that some people were not ready for. It was so on point.
In tears listening to this TONIGHT! So DEEP...I'm so busy with my business and 🔥 burned out
I don't always Catch Bible study...
But I experienced such a Hurt from Beacon Light New Orleans Bishop Darryl Brister and I NEEDEDTHIS
...So Pastor I started following you,
and don't have NO intention on returning to the church!!
Dr Dhauris Thank You SO MUCH😪😪😪
I hear ya. It’s happening everywhere. Take Care of You
Truth without grace is mean but have without truth is meaningless. Love these messages dr.d! Just found you 2 weeks ago and been binge watching ever since... Being the fire on this water down generation,we need your boldness!
Love doesn't abuse, love doesn't exploit.
Lord help me to understand why in the world or where in the world was this type of teaching a long time ago, however, is needed for me currently!
"Text without context is a pretext" Love this!
Love Doesn’t Abuse!
I abandoned church and the church community for over 20 years and have only started getting in with church community only watching online lately. I’ve had a lot of hurt and rejection from the church, even told the night of my baptism that myself and another person could not do it as we hadn’t quite given up smoking. I felt so rejected by “the church family” I lost any bit of trust and hope I had left. Also couldn’t dance with the youth because of the same thing. Only was allowed to practice. I felt so dirty, so left out I was an outcast.
Amen to that about money. Love doesn't abuse.
You are the greatest pastor I know. Thank you so much. I love you💚
My prayer life has been shattered, the leader copies every single word I pray when im at home in private, every word! Has notes, knew he was affecting my prayer life and it has destroyed my prayer life!
There's a difference between GOD, and GOD'S people
Just bc they share my faith DOESNT mean they share my values
From Teague Texas I'm blessed I believe Hallelujah 🔥🔥🔥
I'm so excited about this connection... God have your way!!!
Heavy I was in a church like that thank God for your message sir
I do feel your heart behind this teaching and thank you for allowing God to use you in this area. It's like I saw a saying and it said that I love God, it's His children that I have a problem with.
Love doesn’t abuse!!!!
There's a different between God and God's people. It is so and it's important for us to know what is of God and what is not!
Thank you so much for this truth about church hurts. God bless and keep you.
This was an on time word..Facts, facts, facts!!!! WOW!! Awesome on time word
This is good 📣 you're helping me to deal with hurt that I buried.
Thank you. You have no idea how much this video has blessed me.
It's Always the Content for ne LOVE DOESN'T ABUSE/EXPLOIT
👑🕯Thank You Triple-D!!!🕯👑
Yes my family quit from judgment
Thank you so much for addressing something so serious. I've been a victim of abuse in the church and it does leave you nowhere else to go. Thank you!
I just woke up. Ms stuff and heart stuff. My egroup friend at elevation sent me this link. I don't sleep well, so I have learned to go straight to Jesus instead of waking my hubby or fussing.
I expect to meet Jesus here tonight..
Very good Word!!! Excellent Teacher!!! Yes what's the solution? Absolutely correct!!!
12:50 p.m. (ct) Thur. Sept. 7, 2023
😢. Pastor Dharius, I am receiving God's Truth, Healing & Freedom today @ this very hour. I know from personal experiences that this message is God Ordained.
I praise God for ur obedience to the Spirit of God. God bless Dr. Dharius Daniels & Pastor Shemika Daniels & Change Transformation Church.
Evangelist Ruth Richardson ❤❤
Higher moral expectations..yes...amen
You are preaching today Doc.
Everything your saying is facts and I understand your not putting anyone down or pointing blame but just calling it like it is
Ministry of love ! God i thank you DDD!
PD...bruh...man, you lifted the veil on an issue that has plagued the body of Christ for ages! Thank you for your commitment and your courage to bring this to the light. May God continue to bless you and yours on this journey! Proud of you and excited about what God is going to manifest through you!
Deep and necessary. Praise GOD.
Blessings to you, man of GOD, in JESUS' Name. Amen.
This is so enlightening. Teach Holy Ghost! A topic that needs to be addressed in most churches.
I'm interested Dr. Daniels! Thank you for talking about the hard topics and challenging our erroneous beliefs and thinking.
I don't expect anything from anyone anymore. The only one I trust is THE LORD! I've been abused at church,by family and friends and people I thought loved me. Jesus is healing my heart and my body. It's a process and it takes much longer than I expected. God bless you brother.🙏🙏🙏
Pastor, you are speaking the truth. I watched a segment you preached on I quit church. After, I was asked to coordinate my Pastor's anniversary, and the day of the service. My hard work was rejected by the Pastor and the members of the church, and I haven't been back to that church since. Now, I have anxiety walking into a church because I am thinking the people will reject me
I am so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for sharing this story
I left my church as well I'm so sorry for your experience. I experienced the spiritual abuse discard and rejection by my pastor my peers and the predatory person who ultimately ended up becoming my child's father. He got praised and elevated and I got shunned out and shamed as an unwed mother
This hits home for me I didnt know the words to describe it. Thank you Dr. Daniels for the words.
Thank you, Dr Daniels for rightly dividing the Word of Truth in context.
Wow… I watched this and it made me paranoid for a moment to the point I caught myself trying to figure out why he was telling my business and who told him my secrets. Mind blowing piece awesome sermon and pastoral skills. I love how he makes me think feel and ability to totally change your perspective with ease. I encourage everyone to check this pastors words he’s awesome and dedicated to his teachings.
Mind blowing 🤯
Heavy truth 💯
Excellent! My mind is blown
Prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.
THIS WAS GREAT! Balm for my soul. If you get the chance/feel led PD, please do more on this. God bless!
Pray for me too Mr D. ✋ I need to be healed. Yes Jesus. You are all my reasons. Plant me in a safe space ...forgive those brothers and sisters...make me part of the solution
Wonderful teaching the body of Christ needs to hear this...
HOW YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY IS HOW Y♥️U ACTUALLY ARE
Absolutely awesome message Man of God 🙏💪👊👏👏👏👏👏
LOVE DOESN’T ABUSE
I went there with an open heart, stating I needed healing and a little deliverance, got mocked and abused for 2 years
Same with me
I quit church is the catch phrase that drew me to this channel tho!!!!!
Sooo good. Sooo good. Tears in my eyes. Thank you again and again. 65 years old and the mess is a mess but God knew you would deliver for healing. Man of God Dr. DD
There is a Difference between GOD & GOD’s people‼️
BARS! Thank you as always for your obedience & for always keeping it 💯. This is why I love being a part of the Change Church family 🙌🏾
I'm from Atlanta Georgia, and It took fifty minutes before I was able to connect to Live broadcasting. Just wanted to share that.
Thank you so much Pastor Dharius🙏🏾✨
Speak. I've deal with hurt in the church. Appreciate you discussing this because it's really a problem in churches.
REAL!! Accountability
Beautiful opening for further communication on this topic. “I Quit Church” was a great starting point. I run into people daily in my business and personal relationships who have trauma from their spiritual experiences.
Thank you for being a bridge. 🙏🏼
Love doesn't abuse, manipulate, triangulate, exploit etc
Love does not abuse
Thank you so much Pastor Dharius for this teachings of Love Laws. I’m currently going through a series on the book “Boundaries”. God lead me to your teachings & I feel it’s what helped me to break the chains & helped me to identify everything I was reading in the book. It brought it to life for me. Thank you for your calling to the Lord. I no longer want to survive, I want to THRIVE! 🤎🤎 I don’t watch your sermons live to post in the chat, but I want you to know that God is definitely speaking to me through these messages & it’s NOT too much! I love how you don’t hold back. I want to know God’s word & not have it sugarcoated. So thank you!
Love doesn't mean abuse
This is heavy and hitting my soul
This was an absolute wonderful teaching! Exactly what I needed to hear.
Real real talk,Pastor Daniels!!!!!!
A leader shouldn't try to control a member especially if they truly believe the word of God, it is written that His word doesn't return void, and He gave us free will
Big Facts 💯
🙏🏽 Thank you. Dr. Daniels this is so needed. I thank God for your obedience or for releasing this message
This was amazing and needs to be a series!
Oh my 🤯!! Thank God Thank God for using you to address this!
Preach PD!!! this teaching is very important and necessary!!! Thank God for your wisdom!!
Thankyou for talking about the passage on women in church, I was just wondering this week what to think about that. Jesus thankyou for telling Mr Daniel's to say that. I needed it. You were listening Jesus
I needed this
Good Evening from Chicago
Yes I'm interested it needs to be talked about
Yes hallelujah !
Thank you for Truth and helping people with your teaching that are led by the holy spirit
Very interesting facts. Thank you for you all wonderful messages to be a better Christian to other
Heavy on so many levels
Love doesn’t abuse 🤞🏽
PD this was very much needed and helpful. I am forever grateful for you and your misery.
Telling the truth brother