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  • @KnaveMurdok
    @KnaveMurdok 11 месяцев назад +1315

    I loved this movie because it dares to ask the question "What if the thing standing in your way isn't necessarily just homophobia, but the fact that you're genuinely off-putting and your vibes are way off?"

    • @mayaneff3728
      @mayaneff3728 11 месяцев назад +155

      The teenage cringe was so real.

    • @Milonification
      @Milonification 10 месяцев назад +104

      yeh, cause queer or not, that is often why nobody wants to date certain people.

    • @flowerpower250
      @flowerpower250 10 месяцев назад +15

      This sums it up perfectly

    • @alyssapinon9670
      @alyssapinon9670 10 месяцев назад +75

      @@mayaneff3728teenage cringe knows no gender or sexual orientation 😂

    • @reginahaxley2659
      @reginahaxley2659 10 месяцев назад +3

      666th like.

  • @raveneskridge3143
    @raveneskridge3143 11 месяцев назад +1028

    i love queer media, almost no matter who's playing who. i love to see actors represented in their roles but to expect that only out queer actors to take parts is asking a lot of performers in a time were it is so unsafe to be queer. and with Wayne Brady recently coming out as pansexual, it's just a really great reminder that we never know. it doesn't matter how long someone's in the spot light. no actor owes us being out.

    • @TheRazorTongue
      @TheRazorTongue 11 месяцев назад +28

      Didn’t expect to learn that today about Wayne Brady. Good for him living his truth.

    • @apinchofdisappointment
      @apinchofdisappointment 11 месяцев назад +5

      @Villealt ?

    • @raveneskridge3143
      @raveneskridge3143 11 месяцев назад +7

      @@brolybroly4485 you don't seem to know what rainbow capitalism is bud

  • @LillyAnarkitty
    @LillyAnarkitty 11 месяцев назад +589

    The “what’s the sexuality of the actors” thing is interesting because I remember reading an interview with Viggo Mortensen where he defended playing a gay man, saying basically, “You don’t know what my sexuality is. I could be anything, and demanding that only openly queer people play queer roles is essentially demanding that all queer actors out themselves.” Which sounded like a really cringe, straight thing to say, but also seemed like it made sense, and it’s always stuck in my brain cause of that.

    • @faigler
      @faigler 10 месяцев назад +65

      see where I hear that and immediately go "hmm, I wonder if he's NOT totally straight". Which, I mean, it could equally just be that he's aware enough of the issues and his queer allies that he realizes why it's stupid, but also with what I do know about Viggo Mortensen, I doubt he particularly enjoys labels.

    • @meaganpinkard6039
      @meaganpinkard6039 6 месяцев назад +1

      I need to know what movie this is ASAP I love Viggo😮

    • @VeronicaHSong
      @VeronicaHSong 5 месяцев назад +11

      It actually sounds very honest and fair to me, and also- it totally sounds like Vigo wasn't REALLY hiding his queer identity, no matter what his life and relationship choices are🩷

    • @NoFirstNoLastName
      @NoFirstNoLastName 4 месяца назад +19

      Totally agree with his statements, and recent events (such as Kit Conner being forced to out himself) have revealed to me that we can’t limit queer roles to queer people because we don’t know who is queer.
      Viggo could be, or he could be pointing out that if he was or was not, backlash would be forcing him to publicize a private matter. Queer people deserve privacy.
      As well, I believe everyone deserves to be able to experience queerness even if they ultimately decide they are not queer. Film allows this.

    • @xxglowenxx
      @xxglowenxx 4 месяца назад +12

      Obviously historical/important queer roles should be saved for queer actors, but if ALL queer roles should be played by ONLY queer actors, it's like saying straight characters should only be played by straight actors. We should never pigeonhole someone due to their sexuality, and that goes both ways

  • @eypu999
    @eypu999 11 месяцев назад +450

    You’re absolutely right about cishet ppl thinking we’re more sensitive than how we actually are 😂
    I feel like a line like
    “Could the ugly untalented gays please report to the principle’s office”
    Is absolutely fine done by lgbt writers, but others won’t think we’d like it cuz we’re presumably “sensitive”.
    Idk if that made sense.

    • @Bairinde
      @Bairinde 11 месяцев назад +1

      I think that might be because oftentimes cishet people get offended on behalf of the queers and that creates this "sensitive snowflake" narrative.

    • @alyssapinon9670
      @alyssapinon9670 10 месяцев назад

      As a cishet, the cishet people who think that about lgbt people are hard projecting. I mean call most cishets a cishet and they go wild 😂

    • @perrisavallon5170
      @perrisavallon5170 2 месяца назад +5

      They're always like "YOU GUYS COULD NEVER HANDLE A CALL OF DUTY LOBBY FULL OF HOMOPHOBIC SLURS LMAO, WHILE I, A STRAIGHT MAN, AM NOT OFFENDED BY THOSE SLURS AT ALL!"
      You put salt on your food and think yourself stronger than the snail

  • @NagromSukpad
    @NagromSukpad 10 месяцев назад +65

    As a nonbinary lesbian who went to this movie with my two queer friends, we were laughing our asses off. We saw the movie opening week in a FULL theater of queer friend groups and it was SUCH an incredibly uniting and delightful experience. The crowd erupted with laughter at certain jokes, letting everyone feel comfortable and surrounded by fellow queer people enjoying the humor FINALLY WRITTEN FOR US!!!!! As an aspiring queer filmmaker, this movie really was HUGE. My friends and I left the theater with our fists pounding in the air shouting "CINEMA IS BACK BAYBEY!"

  • @cassandra_desainde
    @cassandra_desainde 11 месяцев назад +106

    The way queer people speak to each other being more edgy and gritty than straight ppl assume is so real, I've definitely seen straight people's jaws drops when they hear the way my friends and I speak to each other

  • @evilbob9970
    @evilbob9970 10 месяцев назад +101

    Clarification on the Kit Conner situation for anyone who may have missed it, he posted the tweet shown at 13:56 because of the harassment he experienced after candid pictures of him on a date with a woman started to circulate, so it's much more deeply fucked up and explicitly biphobic than him just being pestered with questions about his sexuality

  • @brendaleelydon-carpenter1554
    @brendaleelydon-carpenter1554 11 месяцев назад +143

    18:20 ANYONE who would try to call anything around this movie "queerbaiting" *CLEARLY* does NOT understand the term. Sherlock is queerbaited, a film about ACTUAL LESBIANS by definition canNOT be queerbaiting! 😄
    (That doesnt mean someone won't try, but the orientation of the ACTORS has f-all to do with the movie...)

  • @disc0duck
    @disc0duck 11 месяцев назад +94

    Whats crazy is that bottoms had such a limited release but still made 10mil This is for sure gonna become a go to sleepover movie

  • @bananapuding866
    @bananapuding866 11 месяцев назад +564

    i relate to ayo. she definitely hinted at the fact that she isn't exactly straight and knowing the fact that she comes from a stricter religious background i understand her frustrations and fears as they are the same feelings i feel whenever the more religious part of my family comes to visit me. however, i also understand that a lot of queer people want to see themselves represented beyond the story told on screen and wanna see queer people actually included in the project's making.

    • @aishambengue3024
      @aishambengue3024 11 месяцев назад +32

      I truly relate to her as well and also freaking love Ayo!!

    • @keisix03
      @keisix03 11 месяцев назад +36

      I also relate to her! I live in a religious and conservative country, with a very religious family too, so i never told anyone that i'm bi. I really want to tell at least my best friends, but i'm so scared of losing them, so i just kept quiet 🥲

    • @trashfashiondotcom
      @trashfashiondotcom 6 месяцев назад +1

      wait when did she hint at not being straight?

    • @bananapuding866
      @bananapuding866 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@trashfashiondotcom i forgot the name of the publucation that published the article but it's kind of an indepth interview of her and rachel sennott where she subtly mentions religious guilt of hiding cut outs of girls she deemed pretty and she also mentioned repeatedly watching mvs of pop artists with fascination possibly only a young queer child could possess.

    • @trashfashiondotcom
      @trashfashiondotcom 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@bananapuding866 oh okay. that's really interesting. thank you!

  • @looney1023
    @looney1023 10 месяцев назад +37

    "You may be a black republican, but you're the smartest out of all of us."
    Loved this movie. I really love the idea of making a film that is explicitly (but not panderingly) feminist, about women who are exploiting feminism to get laid. To me it felt like an inversion of the "Girl at a Bar" SNL sketch, or the teen sex comedies where a male character will be SUPER into women's health issues because women will appreciate that and reward him with sex (and maybe it doesn't work and he "grows" and gets the girl that way). Like they're kind of reclaiming that trope and doing it expertly, but more gay, more aware of how shitty that behavior actually is, and all the while making a feminist point that the characters are too sex obsessed to actually notice. I'm sure I'm overanalyzing it and they were probably like "hey this would be funny and stupid let's do that," but it's really smart stupidity.
    Also Ayo Edibiri's rant about her heterosexual Christian future and her son Hezekiah was the hardest I've laughed in years.

  • @flowerbit4137
    @flowerbit4137 11 месяцев назад +382

    I definitely feel like you don’t need to be gay/queer or out as gay/queer to play a gay or sapphic character. If the writing and direction is authentically queer, I think a person of any sexuality could play a gay or sapphic character. And I think that it wouldn’t be right for actors to be forced to come out in order to get a role. As much as I love people being out and being representation for the younger people, it’s a personal thing for a lot of people and coming out in the industry can be a big deal.

    • @xxglowenxx
      @xxglowenxx 4 месяца назад

      Plus, omg. That opens up a very dangerous possibility of only straight actors being allowed to play straight characters. It's not like actors HAVE to be attracted to their love interest

  • @roziefero
    @roziefero 10 месяцев назад +69

    It has grossed over $12M now!! As a sapphic woman, I saw it during opening week and absolutely loved it!! it felt so real and relatable because I was out in high school. It was so great and refreshing!!

  • @dictionarygoat9156
    @dictionarygoat9156 11 месяцев назад +361

    Fun fact, me and my boyfriend got into a fight after watching this movie that led to me breaking up with him and coming out as a lesbian

    • @balaynganiyebe
      @balaynganiyebe 11 месяцев назад +75

      that didn't really sound fun :c /lh but congrats on coming out !!

    • @CHEEZE369
      @CHEEZE369 10 месяцев назад +5

      If u don’t mind me asking why?

    • @dictionarygoat9156
      @dictionarygoat9156 10 месяцев назад +116

      @@CHEEZE369 Long story short I wouldn't shut up about Hazel and he was like "why do you only ever get obssessed with fictional women" and I was like "that's not true I also get obssessed with men like... uh... ya know...um..." but no men jumped to mind. So then I went and read the lesbian masterdoc and was like "oh you're right actually"

    • @marlenymusto3687
      @marlenymusto3687 10 месяцев назад +18

      See, Kat blaque had me thiiiiiinking about watching this movie w this vid, but now I know I need to watch Bottoms

    • @hallehuckleberry
      @hallehuckleberry 10 месяцев назад +10

      slay

  • @Lionfrog13
    @Lionfrog13 11 месяцев назад +51

    That point on how queer people talk to each other hit close to home. I saw one of my lesbian friends last night and the first thing I showed her was a picture of a hamburger with the f slur over it in white text.

    • @cassandra_desainde
      @cassandra_desainde 11 месяцев назад +7

      .. be right back gotta google something 😅

  • @kaikai9652
    @kaikai9652 11 месяцев назад +246

    I had so much fun when I saw this movie in theaters. I think I just loved seeing teenage lesbians be horny idiots because I was a horny idiot when I was in high school! I’m probably still a horny idiot! And I never get to see that on screen because so many queer films are sad and serious. We don’t get to see queer characters and their individual relationships with sex and desire laid out in fun ways very often.

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  11 месяцев назад +83

      So true. Everything is always sad and series, never just gross and stupid aahaha. I appreciated seeing that.

  • @evilbob9970
    @evilbob9970 10 месяцев назад +30

    You touched on the reality of how queer people talk to each other and how much edgier it is than how it's portrayed in most media and I think it's also worth drawing comparisons to how the queer community (and especially trans and nb people) have been smeared as hypersensitive, particularly in the past decade. We're no more or less averse to dark and offensive humor than any other group of people, but we're constantly called snowflakes for expecting to be treated in a way that acknowledges and respects our humanity and autonomy

  • @cor_56
    @cor_56 6 месяцев назад +9

    I also appreciated that Brittany (PJ's crush) had that moment of confirming she was straight while affirming the intimacy of female platonic friendship. Even at the end during the kiss at the game, her reaffirming this rather than somehow having all the characters learn they are a lesbian or bi felt real. I know I (as a lesbian) have had to contend with the fact that throughout high school I had incredibly intense and intimate relationships with other girls that I (who didn't at the time know I was a lesbian) certainly had a different expectation for than the other party. Some of them, like me, did find out later they were bi or lesbian, but others were just straight and saw what I imagined as romantic love as platonic. Learning how to understand that and appreciate the platonic love they did give me and knowing that was enough took time. And I appreciate a glimpse of that with PJ and Brittany

    • @alainer0611
      @alainer0611 15 дней назад

      I saw so many people give criticism during their reactions that Brittany was leading her on but… if we rewatch it i think it’s proof that the point the writers were trying to make is valid, Brittany says herself in the movie that her identity is literally attached to Isabel, she doesn’t have very many friendships or emotional substance, and just because the few times we see her growing emotionally and in her relationships is with PJ doesn’t mean it’s romantic or sexual. She said she would make her a bracelet, she owns a jewelry business so of course she would probably give out freebies to her friends, especially one she’s building a friendship with, she invites her over to hang out and study, something many girls straight or gay do all the time, she engages in playful banter, the same way she always has with everyone else throughout the film. Through PJ’s eyes, of course she’s looking into all these behaviors, shes had a several year long infatuation with her, it makes sense but to see so many people say Brittany was leading her on is proof that we need more films like this!

  • @grmgt
    @grmgt 11 месяцев назад +50

    To answer your question, i loved it! As a bi girl who was a very horny teen (lol), i appreciated having my s3xual desires validated because more often than not women's wants are made to appear so bland when we can actually be pretty intense.

  • @jillroberge4088
    @jillroberge4088 11 месяцев назад +103

    Oh such a strong point about the way Queer women's dialogue is portayed vs reality! I grew up within Lesbian community with an out Lesbian mom and one strong cultural element of that community that i think has informed who i am as an adult is that "edgy" gritty humour.

  • @beautybygita2917
    @beautybygita2917 11 месяцев назад +68

    I’m 31 and only realized I was bi at 26 and started dating or openly having sex with women/people of other genders and when I was a teen I would have loved to have movies like these. Bottoms had me doubled over laughing, I saw it in theaters twice with my friends. I want to see more of these silly fun queer stories get told and not only the ones with heartbreak and death and struggle.

    • @beautybygita2917
      @beautybygita2917 11 месяцев назад +4

      I also totally relate to the dialogue thing haha maybe not in the exact same way but w/ my queer friends we say all kinds of off the wall shit lmao

  • @justwannapost69
    @justwannapost69 11 месяцев назад +616

    I loved this movie. Let women be gross too!

    • @nirvanaheights
      @nirvanaheights 11 месяцев назад +43

      thats a funny way to put it 😭

  • @whatcanidooo
    @whatcanidooo 11 месяцев назад +461

    I genuinely couldn’t care less what the sexuality of the lead actors is. The director is queer, plenty of the actors are, and most importantly, it’s probably my new favorite queer movie and I wouldn’t want it any different than it is

  • @princessjellyfish98
    @princessjellyfish98 11 месяцев назад +31

    It's so true that this is how queer women talk to each other irl 😭 like I feel like my brain didn't even clock this movie as edgy cuz this is just how me and my friends talk lmao

  • @allywon
    @allywon 11 месяцев назад +116

    watched this with my lesbiasian friend group, had a blast! it really felt like this movie was made for me because of the 2000s teen movie vibes I’m nostalgic for + the type of queer humor/dialogue I have with my friends as an adult.

  • @littleboots7629
    @littleboots7629 11 месяцев назад +26

    Finally the black lesbian got the girl at the end. That what my thoughts were

  • @bb-px7rf
    @bb-px7rf 11 месяцев назад +15

    as a sapphic teen girl, this movie made me feel so seen and fulfilled. it had my favorite actors, it was funny and entertaining, it was a good mixture of seriousness and unserious. 10000/10 i loved bottoms and i need a second movie and i need more movies like this

  • @eypu999
    @eypu999 11 месяцев назад +82

    I absolutely loved bottoms
    Maybe that’s weird to say but most sapphic movie doesn’t feel gay to me
    And it’s amazing to see something so relatable even tho I’ve never did anything they did in the movie

    • @Alto-hf6rd
      @Alto-hf6rd 10 месяцев назад +3

      Not weird at all. I feel the same way lol

  • @eypu999
    @eypu999 11 месяцев назад +76

    I’ve stopped caring about “gay roles for gay actors😡” once I stopped using Twitter, noticed queer baiting has declined and finally (and most importantly) realizing not everything is about me lol
    Cuz at first what frustrated me is seeing presumably or self identified cishets not only playing the gay roles but also act stupid in interviews just to get fame and money while simultaneously seeming like they’re making fun of lgbt ppl, they can leave the interview or finish the movie and live their happy cishet life while I could be killed or jailed any minute, I was taking the anger and frustration on them when I shouldn’t have.
    But like I said, I realized not everything is about me and I’m just one person in a planet of 8 billions. It’s ok for others to not feel like they want to come out, or not feel rushed to do so. Or even be cishet. And it’s even sad to think some can’t possibly come out.

    • @bryanstivengomezmontoya9376
      @bryanstivengomezmontoya9376 10 месяцев назад +6

      Realizing not everything is about oneself is the character development we all get when we stay out of Twitter 😂

  • @JordanSullivanadventures
    @JordanSullivanadventures 11 месяцев назад +32

    When the archdiocese tries to ban you from filming locations, you know you're doing something right

  • @imfamoushero
    @imfamoushero 11 месяцев назад +12

    As a gay woman, yeah the movie felt self-aware and very camp. The two leads get publicly outed and shamed for their sinister intentions to start the club. PJ is written intentionally horrible and doesn’t get her girl but apologizes and begrudgingly recognizes her mistakes and gets an another, unexpected girl. 100/10 movie, can’t believe it was filmed in 27 days and got denied filming locations. Hoping they’re able to make another project together

  • @starbucksthiholsters
    @starbucksthiholsters 11 месяцев назад +46

    I’m sapphic and saw it at a drive in with my girlfriend. We thought it was silly and interesting! I appreciated that it didn’t care about being realistic. I also appreciated that Hazel was very autistic coded (when they took everything literally) and that’s what caused some of the plot points with explosives.

    • @allurajane4979
      @allurajane4979 10 месяцев назад +4

      yesss her special interest is probably bombs and that is why she is able to literally make them plus she is rich so she can actually afford to

  • @karminyates3261
    @karminyates3261 10 месяцев назад +8

    As a lesbian I felt so happy. It’s happy to see a movie that was willing to push up against the boundaries of female sexuality, while simultaneously being honest. I’m glad they didn’t k*ll our gays 😚💗✨

  • @sangoluvsmiroku4eva
    @sangoluvsmiroku4eva 10 месяцев назад +10

    Also keep in mind this came around the time after the SAG AFTRA strikes started and they had limited movie theater releases. I saw so many social media comments saying the nearest theater playing it was an hour or more away. I think it was fantastic they were able to make as much as they did considering all these factors as well!!

  • @littleboots7629
    @littleboots7629 11 месяцев назад +18

    And I loved the natural hair unapologetic representation

  • @josephmanning3179
    @josephmanning3179 11 месяцев назад +17

    I think the recent """coming out""" of sufjan stevens is a good barometer for this. Clearly he wasn't near any closests for his life, and a lot of music had pretty clear queer subtext. But at the same time he chose to keep his personal life private, and i think that is something we have to respect.

  • @ariapetrova9801
    @ariapetrova9801 11 месяцев назад +86

    I lovvvvvvvvved this movie so much
    it was fun and kinda freeing?? like. I watched it two times in a day
    in sapphic media everything about sex and desire often very awkward; it has to be innocent or have ""grace"", otherwise it's a slope into objectification or a predator trope, nothing fun, everything is very compressed by an invisible border, and you just can't do it right
    so when it's clear in the first scene that they're both assholes, it's a blessing
    they suck and they're losers and they dream about cheerleaders and it's not the end of the world! nothing creepy and a lot of stupidity and they are like. two silly teens
    and its true about language jhrgudihdlrutjoi
    like im ace, and my friend is "shy" one, and still when some _new_ cishet people around - suddenly Everything we say is a little too piquant. I dont even know-
    its funny
    and movie was just that - funny and light, about untalented ugly gay girls. great job there, yep, loved it

  • @allym2787
    @allym2787 11 месяцев назад +29

    I don't really have a hat in the ring when it comes to discussions about when people should come out, though I strongly agree with you that it should be done when the person is safe. But I have long felt that we as a society are waaaaaay too invested in the private lives of celebrities, and in particular young celebrities. I have never understood the obsession with knowing all the minute details about their lives, especially the details they want to keep private. It's like people forget that they are real people, and deserve the same consideration as anyone else. If they don't want to share, then it's none of our damn business.
    On a side note, I kind of went through the opposite experience as the viewers you mentioned that drop you when they find out you're trans. I forget how I stumbled onto your channel (I think the BDSMer's take on 50 Shades video?), but I remember being thrilled when I found out you were trans. I'm Christian, raised in the Bible Belt, living in the Bible Belt, with several of my closest family members being trans or enby, and I was clueless. Finding out you were trans and openly talked about your experiences is why I subscribed. I feel sorry for the people who are too brainwashed to realize how informative your content can be.

  • @uppercut147
    @uppercut147 11 месяцев назад +21

    OH MY GOD IT'S MARSHAWN LYNCH. I knew in my lil lesbian heart, I always liked that guy 🥹🥹Very cute and fun of him to have joined this movie.

    • @Whackadoo1
      @Whackadoo1 11 месяцев назад +1

      He needs to be in more things. He hilarious!

    • @winosandbar5077
      @winosandbar5077 10 месяцев назад +7

      It's actually really cute why he is in the film... I guess he was a teen when his sister came out.... And I guess he has always regretted how he responded and wanted to be a part of the film to make it up to his sister. I love Marshawn and I want him in every movie.

  • @kiw.9805
    @kiw.9805 11 месяцев назад +56

    I LOVED Bottoms! I watched it with my wife on my honeymoon weekend and we almost pissed ourselves laughing. One thing I love is the exclusion of queer sex scenes. Like it didn’t feel like a PornHub category and I loved that! It was so damn gay and so fucking silly 🤣🤣🤣 it just felt like looking back on my high school memories with my best friend. I want more fun, weird gay movies!

  • @firstlast8310
    @firstlast8310 11 месяцев назад +15

    me and friends went to see this movie in an empty theater and had a fantastic time, the friendships and communication felt so familiar to us like you were saying in the beginning!!!

  • @cleoclaus69
    @cleoclaus69 11 месяцев назад +20

    Back when I was a youngster, my entire queer experience was through the movies, because there were consequences to being open in my real life. Regardless of whether I enjoyed the film (not as much as I wanted to), I do applaud that this film was made, that it had a wider release, and that the gay high school experience is depicted as so much more open than my time. I am seeing more progress on that front than I ever thought I would see in my lifetime (especially being a resident of regressive Florida), and it is so encouraging to see.

  • @gracedamiani8007
    @gracedamiani8007 11 месяцев назад +11

    As a teenage lesbian, I saw this in the theater with my two friends who are also queer and we had a fucking blast!! We could not stop laughing and crushing on Hazel(and Isabelle for me personally)

  • @allurajane4979
    @allurajane4979 10 месяцев назад +5

    i never even questioned if the ppl involved in the project were actually queer or not, like you said the representation of how queer women act is so accurate that i just automatically assumed that they were fruity lmaoo

  • @emclaire7027
    @emclaire7027 11 месяцев назад +14

    I was so so excited when the trailer dropped earlier in the year, and am incredibly thankful that it didn’t disappoint me! Truly the most fun I’ve had watching a movie in a long time, and I totally agree with your assessment of its realism in how the characters interact with each other and joke about things. They committed so fully on every aspect-the comedy, the stunts and violence, the characters, the totally ridiculous satirical setting-and I think that’s what made it so successful. I literally went to see it in theaters twice and have been making friends watch it

  • @Lonelyallie
    @Lonelyallie 11 месяцев назад +13

    As a bi woman I loved it! It was so silly and fun and the jokes were hilarious. I also liked that it didn’t shy away from being horny lol cause I feel like sometimes people think queer women just look at each other in the eyes for hours and don’t want to do anything else?? So yeah that was fun!

  • @voidify3
    @voidify3 7 месяцев назад +2

    As a sapphic who was once a rizzless lonely teen I felt this movie deeply

  • @hallehuckleberry
    @hallehuckleberry 10 месяцев назад +6

    i saw this movie with my self-proclaimed conservative christian mom 🥰 idk if she loves & supports it as much as i do, but she watched the whole thing, laughed at several of the jokes, and listened to me rave about it all the way home ❤️

  • @witchplease9695
    @witchplease9695 10 месяцев назад +5

    Josie being a socially awkward quirky Black girl is so refreshing. We are almost never portrayed this way, with any personality that isn’t sassy comic relief or overly stoic.

  • @wildstartarot
    @wildstartarot 11 месяцев назад +8

    I haven’t seen it yet , but I would watch it just based on how you talked about it. I remember when I first seen *But I’m a Cheerleader* it blew my mind seeing that kinda narrative on tv even back then. Great video ❤

  • @carochalu8756
    @carochalu8756 11 месяцев назад +8

    Regarding the discussion of whether actors need to be out queer people to play queer characters, i will say that not only do i not want actors to be forced to out themselves for a role, but as someone who doesn't have a set label i feel comfortable in, i find the idea kind of exclusionary

  • @Maesonjaeson
    @Maesonjaeson 11 месяцев назад +17

    Loved this film! I think queer people should be able to have media where the characters can be terrible and raunchy and we still root for them! It’s always Sunny has been on the air for like 15 seasons and it’s wildly beloved! To me, this was the sapphics’ it’s always Sunny moment and that’s great!

  • @Maya-uj6fm
    @Maya-uj6fm 11 месяцев назад +15

    Bottoms was sooooo good it was so fun to laugh through the entire thing in theater with my friend! Also It’s crazy to me that people could watch Ayo & Rachel’s work and question them or be unsatisfied without how unapologetic they are… like they don’t have to say the words if you know you know and it is really crazy to me after how many young actors/musicians have literally been not just pressured but genuinely harassed and bullied into coming out to feel like we need them to explicitly confirm anything to be happy with the movie! I mean asking the question once sure but they gave their answer lol that’s that

  • @JordanSullivanadventures
    @JordanSullivanadventures 11 месяцев назад +9

    For me, I care a lot less about the particular sexual identity of the actors and a lot more about whether they're telling a good story that's true to queer experience. And generally you're a lot more likely to get that if the writers are queer!

  • @Cal-zone
    @Cal-zone 11 месяцев назад +10

    My local Cinemark only played Bottoms for like 2 weeks. I dunno if that was the norm for other regions but it seemed weird to me. I ended up missing it and having to wait to stream it. Really really enjoyed it though!

  • @Bairinde
    @Bairinde 11 месяцев назад +11

    The hijacking of the term "queerbaiting" to apply it to real people gotta be the most toxic shit I have seen in a while. I think you said it elsewhere in another video but especially since sexuality can be very fluid and therefore change throughout one's life (like the real life Piper who is fictionalised in Orange is the New Black, to name just one example) makes it so very screwed up to force someone at the age of 18 to basically set it in stone, not to mention jeopardise their whole career and possibly endangering themselves in the current political climate in the US.
    That being said, I haven't seen the movie but I'm looking forward to see a silly lesbian sex comedy!

  • @ThePonderer
    @ThePonderer 11 месяцев назад +11

    I’m kinda obsessed with this movie.
    Especially Hazel. Hazel best girl.

  • @marschowdhury7349
    @marschowdhury7349 10 месяцев назад +6

    Sapphic here! loved it just like you said we need more overtly girly queer funny unserious media

  • @Artlesbi
    @Artlesbi 10 месяцев назад +5

    I never felt totally connected to heterosexual media as a queer woman. I never found it relatable. from how the characters act / their priorities / even their gesturing and speaking style never spoke to me but something about queer media always feels so much more magnetizing maybe because I can see myself represented in the characters like straight guys do watching 90% of all films ever. yeah bottoms is campy and goofy but so am I.

  • @alylopez3721
    @alylopez3721 11 месяцев назад +16

    Idk why but I was kind of turned off from this movie when I first heard about it. From the trailer i was afraid it was just one of those films that all it does is just take straight roles/stereotypes and just replace them with queer people so all it is just repackaged bs and pandering. But your review means a lot to me especially as as a recently come out bisexual and as someone who wants to focus on consuming queer media by queer people. I’m def gonna go watch it rn!

    • @abbym4916
      @abbym4916 11 месяцев назад +4

      I had the same fears as you did, and I am happy to say all of my fears were unfounded. It's really, REALLY great.

    • @milsthebard1085
      @milsthebard1085 11 месяцев назад +2

      I'm fascinated, because I saw a trailer and was immediately like 'ew', since it looked like a gross stereotype filled mess. I probably won't watch it anyway, as I'm not into high school based media, but there could certainly be discourse on whether this film was done dirty by the marketing team or not - wouldn't be the first time.

  • @eda6654
    @eda6654 11 месяцев назад +6

    i loved the "gray areas count too" joke because it's so real

  • @robertreed7767
    @robertreed7767 11 месяцев назад +3

    Gay millennial man living in rural southern Missouri here, I had no idea this film existed but I am SO excited to watch this. I will have it waiting on screen to press play when my boyfriend walks through the door from work, thanks so much for the review!

  • @windghost2
    @windghost2 11 месяцев назад +29

    I meant to see this movie in the summer, but unfortunately I was too busy. I’m glad to see that you liked it, I’ll try to check it out sometime.

    • @odevita
      @odevita 11 месяцев назад +1

      I wasn't able to because it wasn't showing near me and I don't have a car but bought it as soon as it was available on Amazon. It was unhinged, ridiculous, and adorable so I've been recommending it as much as I can!

    • @windghost2
      @windghost2 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@odevita Thanks for the great review, I'll definitely check it out!

  • @cass422
    @cass422 10 месяцев назад +3

    as a sapphic woman, i enjoyed this movie a lot! i thought it was hilarious and loved the soundtrack and cinematography. though i did feel a few plot points kind of got pushed to the side or completely forgotten about by the end. but i agree that we need more silly gay movies! and i feel these kind of movies get held to a higher standard by a non lgbt audience, even when its obviously campy and meant to be silly. so for what bottoms was trying to be, it was perfect and i loved it!

  • @jaybrielz9244
    @jaybrielz9244 11 месяцев назад +9

    I definitely need to check this movie out soon. From some of the clips I've seen Josie is so incredibly relatable lol

  • @jamesscott305
    @jamesscott305 6 месяцев назад +2

    I absolutely L O V E D this film! Think i watched the trailer cos Ayo caught my eye & seen her in a few things & think she’s great & with Bear gonna be her launch into bigger things. Loved the trailer. I took my sister to see it & she had NO idea aboot what the film was. She loved it too! It’s just straight up funny! So cleaver in its story telling & style. Elements of satire & a bit hyper feel & surreal (I felt there was at least 1 or 2 references to Not Another Teen Movie… but that could just be me)
    And I can’t relate to really any of this film. I’m a 38 straight cis white male… & my sister is cis straight too (for the most part?? We’ve never fully talked about it… going from her previous relationships…)… just took her to see a great film. Spend some sibling time together

  • @OldLadyMapleSeed
    @OldLadyMapleSeed 10 месяцев назад +3

    I wouldn’t identify myself as queer but I saw this movie with a queer (teenage )group of friends for our weekly movie night and we were all losing our minds. One of the funniest movies I’ve ever seen, the humor really home and everyone was fawning over Hazel

  • @brendaleelydon-carpenter1554
    @brendaleelydon-carpenter1554 11 месяцев назад +7

    As a not-currently-working SW, I related to your comments about people's opinion changing the moment they learn you're trans. *ANY* time it comes up in conversation & I mention something about previous work, I'm all of a sudden s:xuaIzed to an ungodly degree & I'm like, "Pete, you've known me for 3 years - why do you think it's appropriate to make comments to me like THAT, simply because I've done SW? You NEVER spoke to me like that prior to learning that part of my past..."
    I don't get why people would think you being trans would have anything to do with the validity of your opinion on...well, anything (other than trans-specific topics, obv)? Why are people like this? 🤦🏻‍♀️
    Thanks for bringing this movie to my attention! It sounds right up my alley & I can't wait to see it; too bad I couldn't see it in the theater, tho!

  • @Lu0718
    @Lu0718 11 месяцев назад +4

    Oh I really loved this review! Thank you for making it!
    As a transmasc non-binary person, I *really* loved Bottoms! It's so unapologetically gay and dumb and takes all the risks while being very aware of what it is.

  • @216pink
    @216pink 7 месяцев назад +1

    When I heard that Ayo was from a very religious background that hit so hard because not being able to be fully out to my family due to that is super real but this and other films like it are a great path to take just a load off some days. Life can’t always be serious. We’re ugly and untalented too

  • @irlANG3L
    @irlANG3L 5 месяцев назад +1

    Your comments on the way the movie reflected irl gay conversation really put into words one of my favourite things about the movie! As a teen bisexual, with a friend group of mostly bisexuals and lesbians i really felt like they captured the kind of humour we use on a day to day basis. The movie also definitely captured the horniness which i love. Not all young queer people are confused, conflicted and afraid of admitting their desires; some of us are very open about our queerness (when we feel safe to do so). This has definitely become one of my favourite movies. Its just so fun.

  • @under20over40
    @under20over40 11 месяцев назад +6

    Just for future reference Shiva (Jewish mourning period) is pronounced like the weapon Shiv with ah at the end not ay.

  • @manytinyboxes
    @manytinyboxes 11 месяцев назад +14

    god i fucking adore this kind of queer representation

  • @nguyengirl7684
    @nguyengirl7684 11 месяцев назад +2

    I really enjoyed this film! couldn't catch it in theaters but bought it for on demand streaming the minute it was available. For me a queer character being played by a cis straight actor doesn't take away from my enjoyment of the media, but when it is a queer actor, it's does feel special/ is an added bonus not lost on me. As a bisexual asian american, finding out the actress who plays Josie's love interest, Isabel (played by Havana Rose Liu), is actually pansexual was cool to see and made me love the character of Isabel even more.

  • @theeviljames
    @theeviljames 9 месяцев назад +2

    I think this might be the funniest film I've seen this year. Maybe for a few years. Cannot wait to see the next project from Rachel Sennott and Emma Seligman

  • @elluchadork
    @elluchadork 10 месяцев назад +2

    I fugging love this movie!!! I love that it was told through surrealism and that it gave representation in a way that felt real

  • @gbassman5341
    @gbassman5341 10 месяцев назад +3

    This Cis-Het guy LOVED it

    • @winosandbar5077
      @winosandbar5077 10 месяцев назад

      Same here. I laughed so hard my stomach hurt. I think every group of people should get their "superbad" movie. Lol.

  • @chappellroanplsgotomanilaibeg
    @chappellroanplsgotomanilaibeg 11 месяцев назад +2

    this is such a well done review, as a lesbian who cant for the love of god be as eloquent as you, we thank you for putting these thoughts into words

  • @jacobaeden
    @jacobaeden 11 месяцев назад +4

    i love how every queer youtubers and movie reaction youtubers are enjoying this movie

  • @kaley5730
    @kaley5730 11 месяцев назад +1

    The first time I saw a trailer for this film I knew I needed to see it. It looks hilarious! Definitely on my list to see soon.

  • @Medallion88_
    @Medallion88_ 10 месяцев назад +1

    The softness and the lighting! How’d you do it??!

  • @Alina_Schmidt
    @Alina_Schmidt 10 месяцев назад +1

    The premise sounds like both so very absurd and brilliant and original. Oh and the camp thing. Wanna watch it!

  • @SEmme-ov6yy
    @SEmme-ov6yy 10 месяцев назад +8

    I’m not sapphic, I’m just a hetero trans woman but this movie was hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @MassimoConnolli
    @MassimoConnolli 11 месяцев назад +3

    I loved Bottoms! I think it’s possibly gonna join the high school classics pantheon :)
    Kat have you seen Rotting In The Sun? I’d love to hear your opinion on that one

  • @marymitchell6257
    @marymitchell6257 11 месяцев назад +10

    This movie captures the energy of teenage horniness and stupidity so well. I love it

  • @VeronicaHSong
    @VeronicaHSong 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this! I never heard of this movie, and now I know I HAVE to watch it! If it's anything like "Jennifer's Body" in relation to women loving women+ slightly gory humour, it's definitely my kind of movie!

  • @LyletCook
    @LyletCook 11 месяцев назад

    I saw this a week or two ago and had such a great time watching this! What a refreshing time watching it.

  • @IshtarNike
    @IshtarNike 11 месяцев назад +2

    Might be mistitled. It sounds WAY more fun than I thought. LESBIAN HIGHSCHOOL FIGHT CLUB would actually have done it for me. I'm gonna go watch this now.
    Edut: I dont want to piss people off by critiquing queer media (is this even a criticism of the film?). But i noticed Kat retitled this multiple times. I think part of the reason is the film title and imagery. With no other context you get no idea of how cool this is if you haven't already seen a trailer for it.

  • @pleaseitsme
    @pleaseitsme 11 месяцев назад +2

    Kat I love you because you're a truthful woman. Thank you for this good news! I'm celebrating (being in a trans sisterhood with you!).

  • @kaylajohnson8478
    @kaylajohnson8478 10 месяцев назад +4

    this movie made me cackle so loud in the theatre. this and polite society have been such a goddamn vibe I hope we see more campy dumb fighting films centered around woc

  • @zebibabr
    @zebibabr 2 месяца назад

    sapphic woman here, I LOVED THIS MOVIE! I think you nailed why it is awesome, and also the complexity of queer roles/queer actors!

  • @jessicawalton3497
    @jessicawalton3497 11 месяцев назад +2

    Yay! I'm stoked on hearing your positive review! I will rent this movie this weekend.

  • @me-mj9du
    @me-mj9du 10 месяцев назад +1

    I watched it twice in theaters it was FANTASTIC

  • @ThatFlamingFroggo
    @ThatFlamingFroggo 11 месяцев назад +13

    Aye, us Gays/Queer folk do be pretty edgy.

  • @lblack1961
    @lblack1961 10 месяцев назад +2

    Ohhh...I knew I recognized Ayo. She is in the Hulu show "The Bear". I love her presence...I think she has a great future career as an actress.

  • @asterismos5451
    @asterismos5451 11 месяцев назад +23

    I think this has a great potential to become a cult classic and make back its money later on.

  • @puzzles7413
    @puzzles7413 6 месяцев назад +1

    I feel like there's no better representation of what you said about the edginess of how queer people talk to each other than the homophobic dog meme. We eat that shit up.

  • @Robin-tried-it
    @Robin-tried-it 10 месяцев назад +2

    My girlfriend and I watched the previews, and both thought it looked stupid, so we didn't watch it. Though I honestly never like watching movies/ shows about kids in high school, even if they're gay. I just never find them entertaining.
    Plus, we work at a gay bar, so we see enough awkward horny baby lesbians daily😂

  • @mother_of_wasps
    @mother_of_wasps 11 месяцев назад +5

    I've noticed cis/het people are starting to realize how queer people make fun of each other and such. I'm gonna be honest, this might sound wild, but I credit Terri Joe/Georgia/Kelon for this. And before him, Trixie and Katya.

  • @eski5084
    @eski5084 11 месяцев назад +4

    i adored 'bottoms' as a queer woman