Cheating GF became obsessed with me after I broke up with her.
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- This story is told by a guy whose long term GF cheated on him while she was on a business trip. He is made aware of her indiscretion through an anonymous source who sent him a video of his GF and her AP in action. After finding out, he immediately breaks up with his GF and attempts to go no contact, however she continues to relentlessly pursue him at his home and job. Find out how the OP handles this difficult situation on this week's edition of Find Your Alpha!
PLEASE READ THIS DISCLAIMER: This video and all of its contents, including any opinions expressed by the narrator, are strictly for entertainment purposes only and is not intended in any way as a substitute for professional services and consultation from a licensed therapist, doctor, attorney, or other licensed professional service provider. Each person must make their own life decisions, and those decisions are theirs.
It's simply amazing how deeply committed to their betrayed partner the cheater becomes. AFTER they cheat.
You never miss it til its gone.😂😂
Here here
The cheating woman wants her conscience, public image, and dignity washed clean ---by seducing OP back.
By getting back their betrayed simp they can convince themselves they arent used trash, worthless to all.
Amen
NEVER let the cheater control the narrative. Tell everyone what they did asap. Also, no closure, no meet ups. Walk away.
Yes. Closure only suits the cheater. The lady in the comments who advised OP to give her closure gave her own reasons for wanting closure from her own cheating)) It seems her idea of closure is to be told the cheating is OK so she can cheat again on the next dude. Without this 'closure' it seems she was less likely to cheat again and still feels shame from her actions
@RalphKetchum Alot of men are embarrassed to admit their gf/wife cheated so they keep quiet about the details
@@RalphKetchum Its even worse when they don't tell their kids the truth. I understand if they are little kids but if they are ten or older tell them.
Bingo. So many bad things can happen between when you confront and when those around *finally* learn the truth. Imagine if she claims abuse or OP was cheating? Her father comes over, you get into a fight, etc. Imagine she calls the police on you? Imagine, she gets you fired? No, you have the video. A simple "Broke up with GF due to cheating. Video evidence exists."
@@columkenn That stigma needs to go away. Only the cheaters should feel shame.
I'm always baffled when they "want to explain" when there is nothing to explain.
It’s sheer desperation. They think a verbal assault will convince you to forgive them
Sadly it probably works on some beta simps who are desperate for any potential sex they might get
Yeah...gork gork gork gork, it's not what it looks like! Do you have a napkin? I can explain! Here's the napkin, please explain! I'm all ears 👂.
Well in that case let's just forget the whole thing and act like nothing happened! Come here you!! This is her idea of the expected outcome!
@@RalphKetchum let me give your sister oral, send you the video, and we'll call it even! Your mom will be a substitute if you don't want me to do sister! You don't have to explain!
Just sayin, if a man did a fraction of what she did he would have been jailed long ago. He absolutely gutted her by not giving a flying F about her "reasons." Pathetic. Sounds like she also took advantage of her AP that was under the influence. She's irredeemable
OP is a dumbass for worrying about her parents. they said they would control her and they failed.
Was probably an ongoing affair with the AP that a work colleague knew about and informed the spouses
Exactly. Not the first time. Typically cake eaters.@@columkenn
I find the female responses disturbing. "Don't end a great four-year relationship over a single mistake." Zero accountability or acknowledgement of who actually damaged the relationship. A cheater invests so much time and energy in trying to reconcile/recover a broken relationship when it would've taken a fraction of that effort to avoid the problem in the first place. You have agency over your body and choices, right? Then own your choice and suffer the consequences. I would appreciate the effort to reconcile but if he cannot forgive, take it as a hard life lesson and move along.
The sisterhood always defends each other.
If it was the boyfriend that cheated, she'd been baying for blood.
Women may control who gets to have sex, but men controls who gets into relationships. Mess about and find about the consequences of your “cheating mistake”
Funny how they call it a mistake when it’s actually a choice. Actually a series of choices.
Effort to reconcile? Thats....really a no.
I also hate the "single mistake" narrative.
This guy didn't just hit on her out of the blue. Married coworker isn't going to risk his job, marriage, and kids out of unless he's darn sure she's agree and stay quiet. Sorry, this was building up for days if not weeks or months.
Mistake #1 -- didn't make it darn clear at work that she of out of bounds.
Mistake #2 -- failed to notice or take action when he was clearly interested in her.
Mistake #3 -- she went on a trip with male coworkers without immediately setting boundaries.
Mistake #4 -- she consumed alcohol with men around. Why? (Note, women often drink before doing bad thinks so they can blame it on the alcohol).
Mistake #5 -- she went with him back to the hotel room.
Mistakes #6-#10 -- every act did leading up to the sex, talking, undressing, making the video, etc.
Mistake #11 -- after she did it, she failed to correct the mistake -- confessing, telling his wife, quitting her job, etc.
Mistake #12 -- she failed to admit the truth when confronted, to the point OP had to describe the video.
Mistake #13 -- she failed to correct her mistake even after confronted and OP knew -- confessing, telling his wife, quitting her job, etc.
Mistake #14 -- she failed to tell her parents.
Mistake #15 -- she kept going after OP.
Mistake #16 -- she didn't get help for herself -- therapy, move away, etc.
etc., etc.
pretty sure that this was not the first time the GF cheated on him with the AP but only the first time they got caught.
I was definitely feeling that from the AP's Wife.
Very strange how the AP was fired and not the OP's Ex, maybe a meetwo fear was creeping in.
Definitely. Her reaction all but confirms it, just shock at being caught, like she's so used to it and getting away with it that seeing the direct evidence in front of her eyes caused her brain to short circuit. It simply couldn't be possible to her.
Oh dear God, the female commenters hitting the OP with the whole "stupid mistake" nonsense. What is it going to take for them to realize that cheating is not a mistake, but a choice, a conscious decision. And honestly, even if she really was drunk, that factor doesn't exactly help her situation. In fact, it only just makes it worse.
It hit me from your comment. Women calling cheating a mistake is them implying they’re unable to make basic rational, moral decisions.
Only cheaters and simps say stupid shit like that.
Yea all those women are probably cheaters themselves. Would the same logic apply if the guy was the cheater?
If the situation was reversed the cops would lock the man up for stalking.
And Harassment
@@TheKnightofAwesomeness 100%
She was zoned out after the video, because she was pissed her AP recorded her and her affair was outed. She also knew it meant the end of their relationship. Besides, what could she say, that it wasn’t what it looked like? She knew she was f*cked, so said nothing. Glad he dumped her, as I bet it wasn’t the first time she’s cheated.
Yeah, I bet it was a mental storm of “oh no, I’m busted” and “how was I recorded?”, etc etc.
This is just the first time she got caught.
Restraining Order is the only option. Talk with an attorney.
For those people lacking principles, giving a cheater a second chance just means you'll be first to lose. Cheaters will always cheat and only have the remorse of getting caught. They're selfish, vain, and lack morals to monogamy. When hooking up, definitely vett the history and steer clear of anyone who has cheated. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Petition to get you to release multiple vids per week!
Exactly!
😂bro you read my mind
Not enough guys finding their Alpha when cheated on by GF/wives.
Fr man I love this channel
These are high quality presentations. It takes time. If you want frequency you’ll have to settle for AI-voiced garbage. Thanks for the content FYA! I’d love to hear your story sometime.
My ex wife 2.0 stalked me and I had to get a restraining order. She hated the fact I walked away from her and her BS.
She probably only wanted you back so she could eventually dump you.
Women’s minds are so odd. Counter intuitive is a polite way of putting it.
F-ed up, is another way.
It disgusts me that a woman can take advantage of a drunk man and it's nothing, BUT if a man did same it's SA. She needs to be arrested and charged.
This wasn't the first time for them.
@MrModaman doesn't matter. If a man did that to woman he'd been dating or even married to, he could still be arrested and charged.
Doing it because you're drunk actually makes it worse, not better, because it means you could do it again at any time. At least if it was deliberate it means maybe you have some self-control.
The less drunk GF was hoping to start an affair and move on up to the rich manager, but F'd up her and her manager's life instead.
He really should have called the police. Would have saved himself a few headaches.
If the theory is true,then *The Whistle Blower* is hero.
Op handled the situation the best he could- calmly and logically. His GF didn't want closure, she wanted to get back together. Showing up at his door after midnight in a parka ,and then in a robe... she had very little or nothing underneath as a way of seducing him.
Did anyone notice how much more vindictive a betrayed wife can be?
Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned.
And lets face it, divorce law favor woman.
to be fair, they were married and had kids while OP could just walk away.
@@triplecheesemac
Thus, one of the reason why a woman was proposed by the man.
Shes risking the sanctity of her womb.
Also, thats why single mom out of wedlock isnt a good wife material. She herself violate the sanctity of her womb.
I truly wish her all the best that she sets out to do against the two cheaters.
@@triplecheesemac Well in these videos and real life experience women are more vengeful and or more forgiving. They either go as complete ape shit crazy (probably when they don't love anymore) or super forgiving (when they love).
I.e. Generally speaking when a woman starts to cross your boundaries or cheats you are basically fucked since she doesn't love you anymore (she may say she loves you) but love lasts 3 years max, since most women are raised without knowing what respect means and are only cuddled they have bad understanding what respect means. So when the love phase goes out they are left with partnership and partnership without respect and morals is a wild west.
That's why women are cheating more and more, men on the other hand cheat almost the same as time before internet. Since if we don't learn early on what respect is, we are going to be poor or die quite fast.
Also women are more fluid on morals while men are more solid on them. Even though women are the biggest conservatists in nature due to stability that it brings and men are progressives due to need to compete.
Dude shouldn't have even looked back when he walked out on her. It's done. You're gone.
Calling cheating a "mistake" is an attempt to minimize a deliberate act. The act still happened and, likely, will happen again once the pressure is off.
My girlfriend went on a business trip! One thing led to another and her panties fell down! You can guess what happened next!! Now she's stalking me and wants me to forget and forgive what she did!
😆 "it just happened"
@@docsavage8640 yeah...alakazam poof gork gork gork! These things happen! I love only you!! Do you have a napkin?? LET ME EXPLAIN!!!!
My favourite part is the response from the commenter who cheated at 20yrs old and she still has no closier 9 years later.
There is a name for her, she’s an Alpha widow.
Sorry for the guy , she is currently with.@@annsheridan12
because you're a small man
If the guy had cheated, guaranteed the police would be knocking down his door to serve him with a restraining order if he attempted to seek closure the first time.
The presence of alcohol in people’s lives always creates problems in one way or another!
I got in trouble when I was 25 , alcohol was the main factor, I decided to never consume alcohol again and I haven’t, not one drop!
That was 42 years ago!
Not one drop!
And since then I have seen so much trouble that arises from it
Alcohol is just something that reveals what's on the inside of a person and there is a Latin expression going back to ancient times because even they knew it was a timeless truism,En vino veritas (out of wine,comes truth). Basically what I'm saying is that anything you did under the influence of alcohol you would have done anyway, the problem was you and not the booze!!
@@jacquescousteau6810 The only thing that you proved with that paragraph is that a.) you enjoy being judgmental and b.) you have little understanding of the effect of alcohol on the human brain.
The ending suggests it was an ongoing affair rather than once-off cheating. Also the description of the video suggests she was pursuing the married man
He was being too damn nice. Should've called the cops on her after the first visit smh
Way too damn nice! I would have called the cops the moment she started that psycho stalker shit and blocked her family.
Late 20s? She wants children and family thats it. Her biological clock is ticking and is shocked he moved on.
It was a simple business trip...and fall. Purely accidental! LET ME EXPLAIN!!! I'll ruin you! That's true love if I've ever seen it!! I say give her another chance! Her mom said so!
Hey dude. Just wanted to say, I watch pretty much all of these channels about cheating and yours is by far the best. The quality of the stories, the narration, adding your input without going on endless rants. You have it really dialed in. Keep it up, we’ll keep watching.
I agree with all except the "showing emotion is weakness" nonsense. Hiding emotion is weakness. Showing emotion is strength. Having the confidence to show your true self, whilst knowing you will be negatively judged by peers, is very brave. Hiding emotions is normal and natural and I don't want to put anyone down for not having the strength to open up to someone, but the narrator in these stories constantly parading the narrative that you should always hide your emotions except for when you're by yourself is beyond cowardly.
@@Joel-js2gkI agree with him wholeheartedly and despite what any woman tells you to her face their natural instinct is to be repulsed by men who show any kind of weakness including crying whining or any of that type of thing!! It's the same thing when they say they want a nice guys and good guys but then they f*** and have babies with the scumbags and dregs of society!! Don't pay any attention at all to what they tell you, pay very close attention to how they act and what they do!! And also men do not respect this type of behavior in other men and I agree with him wholeheartedly as the vast majority of men do!!
@@Joel-js2gkna, showing emotions to cheaters if weakness, you're giving them the satisfaction of seeing you hurt. You want to let them know that you can do better than them and move on. If you want to pour out your emotions do that with family and close friends that you trust but never cry or rage in front of cheaters.
Cheating is more than a mistake and more than a choice. It's a series of choices where the cheater could have stopped at any point.
Anybody watching this that has an SO/SPOUSE that travels or has outa town business get-aways that you are not invited to ? (Don't wanna ruin their fun !) Don't ,for a second, think that this is at all, uncommon ! Oh, it's okay to act single when you're out of sight, right? Sadly, it's more likely to happen than not ! Nice, huh ?
Wow that wife is out for Blood and she is gonna get her sweet revenge.🤣🤣🤣🤣
I encourage it. The problem with society is we no longer shun, Shame, ostracized, and penalize bad behavior. If we did, people wouldn't be so morally repugnant.
Facts. Good for her
If he loses his job that will affect his abilit to pay child support.
Like a lot of responses here have stated, it was most likely an ongoing affair that was an open secret among their work colleagues. One of them that didn't have a high opinion of cheaters, discreetly got or had a trusted person get the data off the work phone (boneheaded move to begin with) to send to OP and the OBS. Her lack of emotion during the confrontation shows her to have no remorse and just trying to come up with an excuse. Hope the OBS does sue the company and the ex GF. Cheaters gots to pay.
He did the right thing never give cheaters closure.
This wasn't her first time cheating this was her first time getting caught.
They always want the one they can't have
Exactly,it's basically a silly mind game women play with themselves. Also sometimes the cheating woman can't stand for the old relationship not to end on her terms when she is ready,and she doesn't have security yet in the new relationship.........or she is a Cake Eater that doesn't want to lose her beta male provider.
And then there's the cases where they chested and thought they would leave but the cheating partner rejected a relationship so now she wants the simp back until she finds someone "better"
@@docsavage8640 in any event,never be a womans plan B. if she is cheating on you.......your automatically the plan B.
If this guy didnt have the video evidence, can you imagine the straight up lying, the gaslighting, the denial and finally the trickle truth he would have to put up with? That is why she short circuited when confronted. She couldnt come up with a plausible story on the spot to explain hard evidence.
What I do find strange is that most women when caught cheating start the litany of apology. Right away a long steady stream of "I'm sorry" over and over comes out when caught. I guess getting caught stunned her into silence.
This wasn’t the first time she had cheated. The way she went blank when op showed her the video and wouldn’t not speak and went completely emotionless. Especially since she wasn’t drunk like she said she was. I’m thinking she was trying to get with the coworker for a long time but he had more sense and wouldn’t allow it. She was just waiting on her chance and as soon as she got it she took it. And the way she was acting crazy after he ended it she thought all she had to do is show up wearing nothing but a parka or bathrobe and everything would be ok. This wasn’t the first time she cheated in op and wasn’t the first time she cheated on a bf.
she has done it before and will do it in future that is the mindset lucky you found out before further commitment
I would like to point out how much easier this OP had it since he was NOT married to her or even living with her. He basically was able to just walk away, even though she went stalker on him which was another issue. If he were married to her, she would have dragged everything out, he may have been forced into counseling and it would have cost tens of thousands in legal fees, and he might have even had to pay alimony or split other assets. Again he just said 'Adios' and walked on.
It also sounds like this may not have been the only incident of the GF with the coworker, just the one he got the video of. Thank goodness he found out when he did though. Train wreck avoided.
Yes. The story from OBS at the end suggests it was an ongoing affair
You never tell your wife or girlfriend you will leave them if they cheat.They will hide it better.
It is funny to see 304 going crazy
I really don't understand why a person in a committed relationship allows oneself to get close to another person. You know when you are feeling drunk, people really need to stop using being drunk for their action.
Sober thoughts are drunken action.
It was an ongoing affair. Not their first time
I laughed at the first comment. What closure is there to get? She cheated, he dumped her, end of discussion. She knows what she did and she knew what the consequences would be. OP doesn’t owe her anything nor can he help her find what she’s looking for even if he decided to give her closure.
Clearly the ExGF has not given up. The hiatus in stalking is simply because Faithless GF just has too much on her plate right now to devote energy to her obsession. SHTF at work, AP's life is in turmoil, her own situation will require damage control at the very least and now she has a vengeful wife making it her mission to destroy her.
OP is likely in the clear for a short while but the more this girl gets pounded down by the consequences the crazier she is likely to get.
An ex gf like her and her tendencies is much more scarier than visiting the most haunted house
From the moral of the story about revenge as the old saying goes, "The best revenge is living a great life."
I appreciate all the good work you put into FYA. I consider this channel the best RPC educational material on the net.
I love it how its the degen women who want him to forgive her, yet the men always give good advice.
accountability will always be a modern womans kryptonite
Never ask a woman for advice on anything serious
Once again, I am caught up on all of your videos. These are fantastic stories. I am glad to hear stories about strong men, rather than the stories from weak that permeate Reddit.
The guy handled it like a boss and im sorry it happened but im kinda miffed that he didn’t ask if the guy was in a relationship and reach out to his wife with the proof.
So it was not just a one-nighter, she's actually having an affair with her boss! 😮
What guys really need to understand is. The modern female is a completely different breed. There was nothing ever like her in History. She's a mutation of sort. Something in between male and female. masculine but has somewhat feminine, or female attributes and features. The more masculine she gets, the more make up she uses to hide her masculinity and give herself more of a feminine polish. Case and point. I highly suggest guys observe this. IF you can.. Try catching a female with absolutely NO makeup. fake hair, extensions or any modifications. Try catching her in her completely bare form. Talk to her and carefully observe her behavior, attitude, tone, posture, everything.. Then catching her after she's installed all of her modifications, makeup, hair etc. And pay close attention to her attitude, voice tone, everything. It may shock you, but you will more than likely find that she will be much more bold, less feminine, meek and modest. More aggressive and masculine. She'll become almost a different person. And there is a very very good reason for this.
All women are the same. The difference is, whether society will give consequences for her actions or not. Modern society puts women on a pedestal, with no accountability.
I don't think this was the first time , I think this guy was just a back up and she didn't really give a crap until she could not have him no more .
Love the Morals of the story section. Well done. Should be in every video not just the pathetic bad behavior leading break up.
Thanks FYA. I always look forward to your next one. There have been so many good and encouraging comments and replies in these stories. ROCK ON, Gents!
I love this channel love the narration and the moral of the stories. You rock man sometimes I watch these vids twice or three times.
She is so distraught....Dangerous to OP.
Get a restraining order. This is getting scary.
Op needs to record his surroundings at all times,move away, block contact with ex in every way possible because the ex gf will involve into a psycho, stalker, aggressive, manipulative, and narcissist being. Aps ex wife promised to sue and make life miserable for her ex husband and the ex gf, what happens when a wounded predator get cornered it will attack, his ex will become unstable once she gets the lawsuit and will destroy ops personal property, make a campaign against op or will make scenes when she sees op in public
I'm sorry but I would never trust a wife or girlfriend who goes on business trips from her company.NEVER.That's just me.FACT*90% of people who cheat never get caught.Clear example of what this guy's girlfriend did.Through some bizarre miracle he received a video of his girlfriend with another guy.Cheating on these business trips are mostly one night stands and no one is the wiser.These hook ups usually happen when your wife or girlfriend are sitting at a bar having drinks and a guy starts hitting on them in the bar and next thing they're in his hotel room for a few hours and you'll never ever know about it.
Why should he meet with her and “let her explain what happened?” He KNOWS what happened, he had video of what happened. Geez!
Ffs, just call the police!
I like how your opinion is in words below the story. And your usually spot on.
👏👏👏 great story and way to go to AP to handle it so mature 👏
I'd have given her closure. However, she had all the closure she was entitled to when he showed her the video of her "servicing" some other man.
The "let me explain" part is always a hoot. You're going to "explain" why you willingly had sex with another man? It's kind of disappointing when the betrayed party doesn't give the cheater a chance to "explain", because the content would be really entertaining.
Not in love, not in lust, but were infatuated.😂
You didn't let me EXPLAIN!!
Brother. The stories you find are awesome. You really should post more than once per week. Just a suggestion. 2-3 times would be perfect 💪
If would be great if others were more selective of the crap stories that they post daily. They just regurgitate old stories non stop. Find Your Alpha does original stories that require alot more work than finding something on TikTok and reading it in their car. The quality and effort of FYA videos are only second to Think Before You Sleep.
@@tomrushing7703 agreed brother
@@tomrushing7703 "......in their car." I walked away from that one. King of the hot takes that does absolutely no homework. I went ballistic when he said narcolepsy is a mental disorder. When I was a kid my dad worked with a guy that was also a member of our church that had that. The company carried that guy in a job where he couldn't get hurt for about 20 years. He couldn't drive, was a licensed electrician. Couldn't be trusted around a stove. One of the nicest guys that ever lived. You essentially fall asleep at any time. It was heart breaking, but Mr. Sunglasses said it was a mental illness. He was reading a story where the OP mentioned it about someone and it was off to the races.
He shouldn't have even confronted her or shown her the video. Simply call her parents out of respect and let them know that he ended the relationship and their daughter knows why and that's it.
Not only that, but he should have called the cops once she began stalking him
@@johnnyboy2411 I agree with you.
That's being a bit too nice. I'd also add, "If I hear what she said happened is not what happened, you'll get proof of what happened".
@@dlewis9760 I am not going for nice. The worse thing you can ever do to someone like that is to show them indifference. There is a story of a guy that stopped talking to his wife even before he served her divorce the second he found out she was cheating. Her parents and his mom called him and asked him why her served her and he simply said thank you for being good to me and your daughter knows why. They came to his house and knocked at the spare room that he has been sleeping in. All asking why and the STBXW crying saying she doesn't know why. He walked back to his room and grabbed the envelope of the PI pictures and dropped it at the coffee table and walked back to his room. Five years later he ran into her. She did the small chit chat and apologized and asked for a chance to make it up to him. He said how would you do that? She said things just got out of hand and she is different now. He said you don't even know what you would make up for me. Here I was the man that loves you and was faithful and willing to die for you. But now I lost trust, I will never get remarried nor have kids and if even I was stupid enough to take you back. All I will get is a lying cheating S.L...T. Up to that faithful meeting oh she tried to talk and do whatever she can but not a single word. So yeah, always go with indifference. It's the worse thing you could ever do to them.
Yeah, I don't think we've heard the end of this one.
Its so amazing how the mondern female mind says its ok to cheat on their husband, boyfriend or lover. I wonder if they say its ok for their boyfriend, lover or husband to cheat?
She clearly cannot accept the circumstances of of her own actions play stupid games win stpid prizes, first sign of stalking restraing ordee straight up no um buts or arghs about it
People are such idiots for using company phones for personal business. They don’t realize that even doing personal banking from your company phone is detrimental, because when you have to give that phone back, you have essentially
given over all of your personal ID numbers and passwords to your company.
Just STUPID!!
I am beginning to suspect most women are like this.
Modern women perhaps. I fully trust my wife of nearly fifty years married to me.
Restraining order.
Of course the women who are cheaters blame the guy for having standards and not tolerating cheating. Props to the ex boyfriend for bouncing
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
He (in her eyes) was indifferent, decisive, and masculine in his response to her infidelity. It’s like women can’t process this and get obsessed about losing the alpha. If he’d been a whiny little punk about it she would’ve been gone.
"both have great career", "business trip"
Men, did you also see how he failed from the very beginning?
Career women =/= Wife Material
Cheaters don’t deserve close. It’s typically a trick to gaslight and blame shift. Many many years ago I feel for the “I just want closure” BS and had to listen to why “I” was responsible for her “mistake”. It’s just a way for the cheater to take a big dump on you again. Just cut the off and move on. No need to do a Scooby Doo investigation on why they cheated. No need to buy into the sunk cost fallacy of how much time has been invested in a relationship. And always have boundaries and cheating as you number one deal breaker. Unfortunately a lot of cheaters think that your “love” will allow them to do whatever they want because “you” love them.
What did the commenter mean saying the girlfriend needs closure? She knows why OP broke up and that he didn't want to speak with her anymore. They didn't share finances or kids, and she had a chance to explain her side. What more is needed for "closure"?
That woman is dangerous. Even though women are physically weaker, they still have the ability to kill you in so many different ways. Listening to things like this I'm afraid the woman will try to do something like "if I can't have you, no one will!" Maybe she will target his new girl if he gets into a new relationship. All sorts of crazy things can happen. I don't get these women. Just go and be with the new guy, and if he's not suitable to be with, then don't diddle around with him.
Op wasted a lot of time calling her parents when he should have called the cops right away
when the 304s dad accused Op he should have told him to control his crazy ass daughter
Calculated decisions are all too often quite catastrophic mistakes. The two are not mutually exclusive.
Don't think wife can sue company as she has no standing.
I hate when people are like ‘it’s a bit rash to end an X year relationships after one mistake’. I’d argue that’s the perfect time to end it, especially if you’re not married and have no kids. Clean break, no attachments. Cheating is not a mistake, it’s a calculated decision. Also I get annoyed with those responses, especially from women, because you KNOW if the genders were flipped they’d tell the girl the guy was no good and she should look for someone worthy of her.
Female Response #2 🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂😂😂😂 these women, I tells ya.
Retraining order.
He cut her too much slack. If it was him doing it to her he'd be in jail.
Nah, you can't retrain her at this age. Can't teach an old dog new tricks. Maybe a restraining order, though. 😆 🐕
Odds are he won’t get one as she “didn’t do anything”.
A rusty cage would restrain almost anything!
@@dorn0531 except repeatedly beat on his door at all hours, stalk him at his job and show up half dressed in the middle of the night! It's his fault! He didn't let her explain!!! Wipe your chin, what's to explain???
sigh Always the women commentators saying "can't you reconcile"/take her back or exposing their own "mistakes". smh
Why do they do that? I'll tell you, men are visual and that video will be playing over and over in his mind for the rest of his life. It's the most painful thing a guy can go through.
12:09 no ma’am, this ain’t Jamie Fox song😂
Technically, gf sa'd her ap. If he was slurring his words and can't control his body resulting in falling over, he's legally considered to be incapacitated and not able to give consent.
She will consider cheating on him the ultimate test.
Her: “Congratulations, honey! You passed my test with your strong manly reaction. Now I want you again”
🤡
What's to explain? The girlfriend had the opportunity and cheated... and she would never have told him what she did. Now our man knows who she is.
MVP is the the company mysterious angel, who send the videos to the spouses. But honestly, I think this dude just record the video in his private phone and then send to his friends to show off, the thing blows up and all the company knows. He is fired cuz he is a male and manager, and she is in the limbo, a persona non grata, homewrecker, the one everyone point and wispers, haha, serves her right, and let's hope Mama Bear(dude who banged OP-ex-gf ex-wife) ruin both of their lifes.
Is like that saying "there is no hell as the fury of a scorned woman."
Well whomever did it, had to know how to contact this guy. The wife's scenario makes the most sense. Both work for the same company. Both, have company phones. Someone says "She works here to". Goes through her contacts and messages and comes up with OP. Also, knows how to cover their tracks. Bogus "From"s in E-mails that your eyeballs see is ez-pz and I've done it for the job. The underlying e-mail address and the bouncing of servers is the tough part. I can read that stuff, it's not hard, but I have no idea how to screw with it. You see something with ".cn" it either started in or passed through China.
About 10 years I was getting scam e-mails left and right. I tracked them down to zombie web sites hosted in Malta. I contacted the web hoster there 3 times with different zombies. Did the same for some outfit in Indiana. Getting goofy e-mails. Then Indiana outfit thought I was nuts. A couple of hours later, "Thanks, we found a bug".
OP is saying he couldn't find anything and E.E. that he mentioned is Electrical Engineer. Those people can be beyond STEM smart. I'm not one of them.
Female Response 2... Couple Counseling? Do you think if he took her back every time he looked at her he wouldn't have that video playing in his mind?
"Let me explain"
Translated: Maybe if i tell him what i was **feeling**, some how that will be an exigent circumstance for betrayal.
yeah its as stupid as it sounds.
I like the other betrayed spouse. She's doing what a lot of guys can't do or have no balls to do.
It’s awesome when karma will get his ex, again awesome!!!
Well there’s a shocker for you the female commenters are trying to paint the ex as a ‘victim’ as well , would they be as gentle if the roles had been reversed ? As if ! Hypocrisy at its finest .
I'd have liked to have known from the ex-wife about how long the affair had been going on. The guy played it correctly though, detach and move on. No point hanging around getting your heart wrecked.
Goddamn, that woman was on a war path!