Chunkz & Filly Rank Their Family
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It's your father's job to put your mother first. Youre not her husband
The simplest and most beautiful comment here!
The answers just show much you value marriage
As a married woman It’s my husband, my kids then my parents. In Christianity I believe your spouse comes first after God. The two shall become one.
Bro putting wife first is fucking crazy 😂😂😂
Trust me bro it’s not that crazy
As a man, my rank will be
1. Wife
2. Children
3. Mother
I will still help my mom as much as possible, but my Wife and Children will come first
hypothetical : ur child and wife both require surgery for $10,000 , and u only have enough to pay for one surgery and the other one will die. the only right answer is to pay for ur Childs surgery and prioritise them over ur wife, that's how its supposed to be!!
@@user-rx1fh1iw9c I don’t know, I feel there is a difference between ranking your family members and the hierarchy, because in believe in a hierarchy my mom is actually above my wife and myself and I’m above my children. Yet my order of responsibility etc my children are most important + too fulfill this as best as possible I need to show example of a good relationship with me and my wife
Nah parents come before everyone and hope fully my children feel the same way when they grow up
@@jboogienohoodie7477 Our parent's duty is half done when they get us married. As a man, a leader of a household I need to take care first of my wife and my children. Children in second because they will go separate ways because they also will get married. And wife, my wife is the only one who will accompany me until my last breath
@@jboogienohoodie7477 I fully understand where you're coming from as the love we have for our parents is an unbreakable bond esp before having our own immediate families. But because Chunkz and Filly do not have a wife nor kids, it's a hypothetical question that they can't relate to yet. I wish when they rang their mums, they asked them if they still hold their own parents (C&F grandparents) a priority above their likely 30+ year marriages with husbands they've built and spent their whole adult lives with, and also above their own kids and grandkids.. I would have loved to hear it from that perspective. Or if it's just a case of C&F being proper mummy's boys 😁
Married 5yrs…
The guy behind the camera is spot on…. Wife, Kid, Parent… and your parent SHOULD understand that.
You won’t be saying that when you’re divorced…
@@zigzagnemesist5074read that again…. That doesnt even make any sense…. How could your wife be 1st if you nolonger have a wife?….
@@dnvr12 well I thought you love her so much? The reality is, you’re putting a stranger (your wife) over actual blood relations, ridiculous.
i do… and im still with her… you literally made up a hypothetical. The order is what i list. Doesnt mean you child wont annoy you at times or you wife or hisband, its still the same order.. if you go into marriage talking about when u get divorced then youve already failed at marriage simple as that. Look man. At the end of the day have your preference but thats the order. To say your wife is a “stranger” is probably the most illiterate thing ill read today. Blood relations isr another illiterate point, there are friends im closer to than some family member ive never met before and some i HAVE met.
@@dnvr12 that’s a you problem then for not having a good relationship with your family. The reality in this day and age is your wife will leave you but your kids and parents will never do that. Picking your wife just because you get a bit of s*xual satisfaction every now and again is utterly selfish and shows what kind of person you are.
I'm a married woman and it's defo 1. My Spouse 2. My Kids 3. My mom/rest of my family. Although, as a mom of young kids it's very easy to put your kids before your spouse because their needs are higher and they depend on you. However, if my husband and I don't have a healthy relationship, my children are directly impacted.
That is some good self awareness with that last part good on you
@Justin-zl6dm Thanks, appreciate that
but making sure u have a healthy relationship is prioritising your children first, because if u dont have a healthy relationship that will be harmful to the children
@@user3838-c7f Exactly💯
In Christianity it’s said in the Bible once you’re married you are to leave your parents and cleave to your spouse. Also kids will grow up and you will be left with your spouse so with that logic for me it’s:
1. Husband
2. Kids
3. Parents
What about single mothers? Who are they going to be left with if the kids cut with their spouses
@@jboogienohoodie7477 themselves.
My logic exactly!!! ❤
WHOEVER MARRIES FILLY GET FICKEN READYYYYYY.......
YOU ARE COOKED
He explained why he picked how he picked
Fr the fact that his mother also said wife should go last is wild
@@greenbananas12378Wife will just divorce you in a few years. Kids and parents don’t divorce you
I understand our Mothers are the first people we fall in love with for some of us but Putting your spouse last is the reason why there are so many stale or broken marriages. I can see why Divorce rates are so high, damn
It’s probably the other way around.
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@@aiidaa92 no
Married man
1. Wife. If you are lucky enough, the mother of your children will always come first. What they are capable of with a home and children, we as men will never ever be able to without extreme difficulty.
2. Children. Unless they need their mothers vital organs in a life and death situation god forbid, then regardless that mother would give up anything for those children that you love more than each other. But they stll come second.
3. Mother. Again, if you were lucky enough to have the best which most are, then she will have taught you the importance of this exact order. After teaching me the exact responsibilities i will have for a family of my own one day and the importance of choosing the right partner she will always push and encourage you to always make wife first.
For a woman i think it should be children before husband however.
Both chunkz and filly admitted to this order by the way when they said mom first. They chose the wife of their dad as coming first. Them as kids saw first hand what that woman does and love them for it. Theyll understand when they're happily married.
Yeah but wife is the easiest to replace
@@jboogienohoodie7477 thats WILD! going into marriage already thinking about "easy to replace?" just dont get married in the first place
Children should be 1
Married man here …mother will always be number one she will anyways love you no matter what wives come and go my wife will never get same level of respect and status as my mother also in Islam it says mother is number 1
if youre inlove theres only one for u
@@jboogienohoodie7477
It’s not about who you love more it’s about responsibility. As a married man your responsibility it to your wife and kids first
THIS!
"Me… and the rest innit?"😭😂
Spouse comes before your children. Children leave to start their own life. You leave your parents to start your own life. Hence the order:
-Spouse
-Child(ren)
-Parent(s)
That’s why you NEED to chose your spouse VERY VERY WELL!
hypothetical : ur child and wife both require surgery for $10,000 , and u only have enough to pay for one surgery and the other one will die. the only right answer is to pay for ur Childs surgery and prioritise them over ur wife, that's how its supposed to be!!
@@user3838-c7f It depends what principles etc govern your life. Really in this case, the wife is supposed to be saved..
@@syrennada3982 hell no you have it so backwards😂
Daughter and mother will always be family no matter what. Thats not the case with a wife 😂
@@Mazin9753 Whoever goes into marriage with that mentality has already made a BIG mistake in getting married in the first place! Marriage isn’t for everyone, especially those who don’t understand what it is.
when you get married you are making a commitment to your wife above everything. doesn't mean I love my wife more than mom, but that is my duty to my wife first, and when u have children you and ur wife are making a commitment to put that child above everything, to me the only right answer is : child, wife, mom.
id agree but without ur mom u wouldnt even be able to make that commitment to ur wife since ur mom literally carried u for 9 months then pushed u out so for me it will always be 1. mom 2. kids 3. wife but im 22 boutta be 23 so in 10 years my mind could change but at this point in time with everything being the way it is rn in the world i can confidently say i dont want to be married or have kids both r two things that i dont see the benefit of imo
This is facts I said the exact same thing.
@@nonbinaryqtip390 not wanting kids or husband can sound attractive when you are young but just think about when all ur friends start their own families and gradually start hanging out less, your friends all have their own families and lives. when you are 60s , 70s, 80s you will likely just be lonely and you will look at ur friends who have children and grandchildren who have family over for Christmas while u spend it alone etc. also without children whats ur purpose? I believe life is about creation wether its inventions, media, children, but ultimately children is the greatest creation of all
Genesis 2:24: "That is why a man will leave his father and his mother and he will stick to his wife, and they will become one flesh."
The Bible teaches that the marriage bond takes priority over other family relationships. Marriage provides a secure foundation for raising a family. God intended marriage to be a permanent, intimate bond between a man and a woman. Men and women are designed to complement each other so they may be capable of satisfying each other’s emotional and sexual needs and of providing children. Of course, married couples honor their parents and can benefit from the advice of their parents or in-laws. However, a couple may rightly decide to set boundaries limiting the involvement of relatives in their marriage.
Christians aren’t allowed to get a divorce so it’s literally ride or die with your one spouse so wife first makes sense. But anyone that’s not Christian that chooses wife over mother and kids is craazy
It's fucking weird to rank these idc
exactly, shows how empty people are to even imagine something like this
Divorced woman
1. Kid
2. Spouse
3. Parents
Now we know why I am divorced 😂😂
Not married yet but I understand the logic. A lot of men want companionship and not a life partner/helpmate. As a man, you must have a vision for the future, as a woman same. If your visions align and everything else checks out, marry her. Once you're married and as a man you're leading your wife to this vision and she is doing her part as well, you don't abandon your partner.
You're in this life together now, "the two became one", that's your rib. You can't put your rib after anybody. You don't work without her. You sleep next to this woman. Take care of her before you take care of the children, and then you take care of who's outside your household. Your mother is a priority too but she's just not 1st priority and every good mother knows this.
Why would you want to take care of matters outside of your bedroom and house before what's in your house? Without that man or woman next to you, you wouldn't have that child. Your mother did what she was supposed to do already, she raised you so you could be a good man to your family and society.
This is the best response!
Woman, Married 7 years:
1. My spouse
2. My children
3. My parents
The proper kind of spouse and parents will not make the ranking difficult. They will most likely know their place and be supportive. She/He will help take care of the bottom 2 and yourself. ❤
This is crazy u ranked the kid 2
My kids come before anybody!!!! Kids , husband and then mom. My mom will always be taken care of but now I got my own family to care for now
No no no
1. Wife
2. Children
3. Mother or Father
Period
I booked u a therapist session.
you're mad mom and dad 1ste
you are right, a lot do not get it, but it is alright, they will soon. also, if you are Christian, the bible literally says, "the two become 1"! how you become one with someone then put them last?
You’re putting the person that held you for 9 months last? Yeah you’re lost, it’s child, mother , wife
@@camz_205 is the list for the wife then 1. Child, 2. Parent, 3. Husband?
This is making me mad cause these boys don’t know the truth
Your wife is your “life partner” this is why you choose your wife wisely
Your kids will grow up and get their own lives find their own partner
Your mother has already lived her life already has or had her partner
Your mother is not suppose to be placed above your wife. And if filly’s mother taught him that nonsense she didn’t teach you right my brother
Genesis 2:24
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and the two shall become one flesh.
Your marriage comes first before anything else even your kids unfortunately!
Tell filly go read the bible cos he clearly doesnt know this, this guy said the bible says that your Mum comes first. If thats how YOU feel thats fine, but please dont make false statements because the bible doesnt say that. Thats why people dont take Christians seriously because of jokers like him
That's a Christian perspective. In Islam for example there is a saying from Prophet Muhammad pbuh that heaven lies under your mother's feet
It doesn't matter to me they all fall in different classes which a not comparable, a mother is a mother so is my husband so is my child ..i dont measure my love for them... they a all number 1 to me thats it.
Amin and Philippe arent yet married so dont know how heavy marriage is.
Amin is muslim and mom comes three times and will forever be under his jannah (heaven) mother's feet, but if you get married you in to another life and you are starting yours too and God willing if its ment to be She will be the only one who will know the Ins and Outs of you, sickness and health.
Philippe is christian and i hope he belives that the wife (God willing ment to be) is from the left of his ribs. So he should believe the wife is one who completes him.
So its Wife THE ONE YOU CHOOSE, Kids YOU BOTH CREATED then Mother THE ONE WHO BIRTHED AND LET YOU KNOW YOUR SELF.
@@JohnMilton-kx6ho I do believe he’s just a backsliden Christian, he mentions his family are believers but he hasn’t gone to church in years and is inconsistent with his devotional life, but wants to return. The seed is there, he just needs to give his faith to space in his life.
Chunkz is also a backslide Muslim @@sam9239
Lol tell my husband that 😂, in our list his mums first, but then how can I be mad when I feel like my mums first or maybe our kid n then my mum lol either way he's last on my list, so how can I be mad that I'm last on his.....
These comments are crazy alhamdulilah for Islam
1)God 2)Husband 3)Children 4)Mom/family
My husband and I made a covenant before God til death do us part. My husband and I have created our own family. I have my children because of him. We are a team, we are ONE. We are teaching them to become adults that will contribute to this society. They will leave our home and start their own life. My husband and I will have each other. My mom is retired and in her own relationship. She is traveling and living her best life. I think we mistake priorities with love. Just because I prioritize my marriage and before motherhood or being a daughter doesn’t mean I neglect those roles. My children are still a priority. My mom is still a priority. My mother in law is at an age where she needs to move in with us and I welcome her with open arms.
Ur a bad mother bro god before ur family?? U don't even know 100% he exists like tff
Yea they gonna be divorced sadly …
Ain’t no way my parents are first if I’m married …
My husband would be numero uno.. one flesh
My kids would be number two .. I just met them .. if the spouse is prioritized the house will be a happier place to live in for those kids
Parents number 3
1.child 2.mom 3.parents
it needs to be 1. an education
Genesis 2:24 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh” By extrapolation your wife SHOULD be first, logically your offspring are next, lastly your parents. And the cycle continues. When you have kids, be willing to let them go and be their own person. This by in no way means you dessert or stop loving your children, just wanted to make that clear. But it is about allowing them to whole heartedly love his wife and kids without you feeling like the wife and kids are in competition with you. It’s odd too if you one feels that way.
“Say no more” mumsy is always right💯
I asked my mum and she said
1. mother
2.kids
3.partner
Her reasoning for this is that in Islam it is ur mother three times before anyone else and that jannah is under ur mothers feet.
For the kids she said they will be with u until u die and when u do they will be the ones organising ur funeral making dua for u and making charity for you.
For the partner my mum said they could always leave you and you could always divorce.she gave me an example she said ‘me and your father are not together anymore. When I was younger I thought me and your father would always be together but that is not the case. Divorce is never something u can see in the future.’
What she said is a rough translation from Somali to English so not 100% accurate.
All im saying you wouldnt have no wife and kids if your mother didnt birth you but i get some people who dont have good parents and good kids, so i guess everyones different...
Interesting that both of their moms said the wife should be 3rd.Seems like they were saying that from the perspective as a mom and not a wife.I doubt they would like it if their husbands had them 3rd behind their mom and kids.
Producer is right in my opinion! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
When my husband and I got married we became one and if we don’t remain one our household (children) will fall apart.
My husband is 1st
My children are 2nd
Then my mama and everybody else
As a married man, my list would be:
0.God
1.Children
2.Wife
3.Momzie
Putting God next to “0” is crazy
thinking thT TOO but he s right tho God first at number 1 no need for that 0@@CediiDimezTv
@@CediiDimezTv because that’s without a doubt the most important
God don't care about you though 😅
@@LyricalLover3 Thats wrong, He loves everyone. Even you too.
1.mum
2.kid
3.wife
As a Muslim , I respect mum most
As soon as kids are involved then they are the number 1 priority. The rest is up for debate
Producer nailed it!🎯🎯
In my opinion & religiously, the relationships are all on their own level but parents are first, then your wife & children.
But there has to be a good level of respect between all for any order to stand.
But if anything happened in my life, my mother would always stand by me in sha’a Allah.
Allah knows best.
Spouse/Wife
Kids
Mother
no discussion
Literally I feel if u a man this is the only choice like she LITERALLY sacrifice hers body for u to have a kid but anyways I would never want to be in this position
Your child is always first, I can’t believe there are people who value their partners over their own children. Spouses divorce all the time, your child should practically be the centre of your world.
In the Bible it says to leave your parents and become ONE with your spouse. Matthew 19:5
1. Mommmmmmm
2. Kids
3. Husband
lol in the Bible it is not God then mom.
It’s God then wife.
”Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.“
Genesis 2:24
Wife comes first (after God) in the Bible because once a man and woman get married they become one in the eyes of God.
So yes, it’s
Wife
Children
Mother/parents
Your partner first so that you can both put your child first.
Even I dont like saying this but When your parents are old, they are coming to an end of their lifes, what is the point of trading someones life when they are going to die soon. It's Child, Wife and Parents.
1. Kids
2. Mother
3. Wife
For me as a wife I would say to my partner , mum, child and then wife, or children, mum then wife, if u have an understanding wife she would know why u would say wife last don’t mean u don’t love her just means u respect n love ur mum and the love for ur mum is so important in Islam.
Sad how the father is not talked about.
They are the father 😂
I feel like I'm crazy. Even though I'm a young man that isn't married, I feel like people saying having their spouse over their kids is wild to me.
As a muslim
1 Mom
2 kids
3 wife
Your wife the one that gave you your kids is last? That’s crazy. I can understand the mom but wife last??? And what do you mean “as a Muslim” 😂😂 they don’t value wives or something
Elaborate bro for thr non Muslims they don't know the hadith and backstory
@@Panaghhiaashe is not last. she is 3rd. his father that birth him is below that. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
thats not accurate islamically actually
@@everestjumper1 damn I love my dad now I think about it it’s a though choice 😭
we need a lawrence cam
It's God first always but the rest depends on. The situation
I think its different for the genders, also religious people will have a different order. The bible says leave mother n father and 'become ONE with your wife' .
Its like main characters change, depending on the time of life. Wife, children, mother. But a man has to grow up n become a man... mummy authority is over. Niw team work with wife n husband. Its growing up!
No way, your wife carried and gave birth to your children and she’s last!?! If you cherished your wife and put her first then she will be a loyal and happy wife and there wouldn’t be a divorce! It’s kinda of gross sounding to have your mom as no. one… ewww
kids, wife, mom.
1. Mother
2.Wife
3. Kids. They cost hella money.
as a woman my dad would be first my man two my son third bc before my dad i wasn’t there before my man my son wasn’t there so 1: dad 2 my husband 3: my son 🫡❤️
Putting your father before your own family and literal child is insane😂 the list should be reversed
@@yayag.8990 if my dad wasn’t there right now you thinking i would be here ,ranking my father to my man it’s absolutely insane my father above all period.
Ill add my 2pence worth. Biblically speaking. When a man and woman are betrothed they are now seen as one body. Forgotten the exact scripture but a man leaves his parents and cleaves to his wife.
As a Christian we know that marriage is not just a piece of paper but also spiritual bond. As to why to there is so much reference of the church (body of christians) being the bride of christ. There is a very important purpose for marriage as Christian's its not just to have free sex.
We are to honour our parents because they brought us into this world by God and raised and nurtured us etc but scripture also tells parents to not provoke their children to anger thus meaning parents can fall and disappoint and cause damage as well.
As a Christian who has seen disappoint from everyone you cannot really and truly quantify your love or someone else's love because life happens and it is humbling.
The love is very different also, the type of love you feel for each person.
In closing i have realised that marriage is not regarded as it should be and loving your kids and parents is easy but it doesn't require effort, they can mess up really bad but most people will say loving them (kids/parents) is pretty unconditional.
Spouse, you have to put in the most work and choose to love them everday!!! When it gets dire and still make it out. Thats where most people will quit, so i get it but marriage is never going to be easy because its God ordained, the devil will try and tear it apart. Speaking to the Christians, he who finds a wife, finds a a good thing. (I think proverbs)
A good wife is like a jewel to a mans crown (i believe proverbs as well). First step to marriage prayer prayer and prayer for God to lead you to the right woman and he will always showntou the way.
Also a mother or father that have been married and know Gods word and honour it, would not even think twice about saying she would be last why...because she would put her husband/wife first (your parents) then you the child and then her parents and so on and so forth
With that being said Spouse, kids and parents. In conjuction with Gods word.
WIFE CHILD MOM . GOD TOLD ME
In islam it is :
1 kid/kids
2 wife/husband
3 mom
4 father
5 siblings
The obligations and responsibilities is what makes this list logic and right from any perspective if you really think about it. Your kids is what you will have to answer before they are adults in islam, that means until their own sins are written down. When you get married you have completed half of your deen. So the woman and man have responsibility as a spouse that the other part are expected of eachother. Then comes the mother. Paradise lies between her feets. That says alot. The mother has a special place in every heart, even those who have been hurt by their mom. Then comes the father who has the parent privilige from a Islamic perspective. Does not matter how good or bad he has been towards his child/children, it is expected that the father is respected as a parent. You don't have to like him but it is a right the father have over his child as a parent. It is good for your mental health to forgive and forget if your father have wronged you. Your patience and hardship will not be forgotten. Al-Rahmaan Al-Raheem (That is for all the women and men that have daddy issues)
Then you have your siblings.
If you are a non muslim then i recommend you to read the holy quran. It's the last relevation to whole of mankind. It has come to perfect mankind moral.
"Likewise, We have sent unto you a Messenger from among yourselves, who recites unto you Our revelations and purifies you, and teaches you the scripture and wisdom, and teaches you that which you did not know." (Quran 2:151)
This great purpose is what Prophet Muhammad declared when he said: "I have only been sent to perfect good moral character."
Peace on to you all
1. children first always, you made a choice to have children so they need to be a priority above everyone else
Not married yet, but my list would be
1. Wife
2. kids
3. Parents
No filly Christianity isn’t mum first, the bible says a man shall leave his parents (mum) and take a wife and him and her becomes one.
I would say:
1. Mom
2. Children
3. Wife
Here is my reasoning:
Mom first cause you only exist becoz she birthed you, Children next becoz they are of your DNA and blood, Third Wife who I love so much but end of the day lets be honest no matter what happens, ur mom is always gonna be ur mom and ur kids are always gonna be your kids, but you could end up getting a divorce for what ever reason god forbid, and you cant divorce you mom or kids.
1 mom
2 wife
3 kids
1. God
2.husband
3.kids
4.parents
"nah im there, ill grab the head ill pull it out"
"Uh, maybe not ..."
😂
Married man here mother will always be number one she will anyways love you no matter what wives come and go my wife will never get same level of respect and status as my mother also in Islam it says mother is number 1
Yeah you should not be married😂 poor wife
Happily married alhamdulilah
1. Mother (always)
2. Kids
3. Spouse
The needs they require is different so comparing them makes no sense in most cases
Nah it’s mum, children then wife lets be real
Muslims are saying mom first and everyone else is saying wife first
My perspective as a woman
Women:
1.kid
2.parents
3.spouse
Men:
1.wife
2.kid
3.parents
As a muslim married for 7 years with a 4 year old kid and another coming, my mum is first from what Allah and His Messenger told us, kid and wife are equal tbh
Amin will make such a wonderful husband & father. His wife’s a lucky woman.
This is a little boys mentality.
You can divorce your wife but not your mother or children!
Facts! The thing is Christians are not allowed to divorce so it make sense for them to have spouse first. Sad for the single parents tho
@@jboogienohoodie7477 are Muslims allowed to divorce?
@@BeanMacdui yes
@@jboogienohoodie7477 thank you for answering 🙂
Uh some mothers ain't mother's to their own children. Some mothers are adoptive mothers, foster mothers, ext
so if you really think about it yeah you can. Some people even have more than one mom so to speak.
As i woman ill say husband, kids and mom. As a kid you grew up to have your own family. If you have a good partner for both of you the family is the most important thing that means the kids. Thise kids will grow up to have their own families one day. It wil be you and your partner. Till dead do us part baby❤
Bare ppl saying wife or husband like they won’t contemplate divorce when she get hectic
1. Parents
2. Partner
3. Children
1) MY DAUGHTER every single time
2) My husband
3) My mother
when we say wife is 3rd, everyone thinks wife is just last and we dont care abt them or something. but they are still the 3rd most important person in our life. above our dads, brothers, sisters, friends 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
i see where filly gets his humour❤
Alxmd Am Married and Expecting a Child, But lemmy tell you some, My Mom is NO 1 ♥.
Man Said i love my wife coz she gave birth to my Child, But Man ur forgeting who brought you to this Earth.
Love Mom.
i've got a wife and children, and my mom still takes the top spot No1
I’m not married nor have I ever been and I don’t have children but it goes my husband my children then parents..
Married person:
Husband
Child( children) when we become parents
And even though it pains me to say this…. My mom( she definitely gets it)
Once you are married, besides God your wife/husband comes first. Your parents are suppose to have each other that way you cleave to your partner.
you’re not “in love” with your parents. you have a biological and psychological attachment to them. a parental love is incomparable to the love of a romantic partner. the love you have with your parent is mostly signified by the strength of your bond/connection. You shouldn’t seek parental styles of attachment in a romantic partner, and when people do they mostly have dysfunctional relationships. I also don’t think that the point Filly’s mym made about “always being there” is valid because often times, you don’t outlive your parents - however in a (successful) long term marriage, (and your relationships with your children) tend to last most if not all of your life. In my personal opinion, the goal should be to embody and find a spouse that is willing to fulfil each others needs and birth a healthy foundation/environment to raise children in. If the M/FIL(s) aren’t willing to allow their child to prioritise their personal lives above their parental attachments, that is quite problematic, and unfair.
Filly really loves psalms 92😂. I hope he gets time to read the bible.
1. Child 2.Mum 3.Wife. Those crazy attitudes you had as a child crying all night not to talk of childbirth. Anyone that puts wife first will encounter the biggest heartbreak and disappointment in today’s world lol.
Child wife and mother.Ur father can put ur mom first,u have another family,ur own family how can u put ur mom above ur wife when she gave birth to ur child and stays w u until u grow old
@@MariAce-vc1hmIn an ideal world yes she’s stay with you till you’re old. But Imagine you had a bad accident and you’re paralysed from waist down you think your wife will stay? You’re in delulu land. 98% will leave you. Bro even bill gates wife divorced him end if discussion.
I think it’s a stupid question they’re all unreplacable and no one can fill the shoes of the other.
Regarding who sits in the front seat there isn’t a correct answer, it depends on the culture you live in. For us KSA the oldest is always in front unless they refuse so if my mother, wife and grandmother are riding the one sitting in the front is the grandmother.
You only have one mother
Your kids are apart of you
You can always get another Wife
You can always have more kids. I don’t think going into a marriage with the mindset that you’re wife is replaceable is the best way to start off that new chapter.
Your parents will eventually pass away. Your children will grow up and move on. Your spouse is your chosen partner for life. I'll be damned if my man doesn't put me first!
I mean you’re choosing to do life together with your wife…It’s not like you care about one more than the other. It’s about making sure the flow continues. The wife must be taken care of in order to make sure the husband and household flows in order. The child next because the parents must give guidance and care so they are flowing orderly and prospering through daily living and basic needs. The mom 3..the mom is grown and should have a great handle with least assistance unless sickly…
Single mothers always raise their sons to be the husband they never had. She knows what buttons to push on her son to get her way bc she formed those buttons. A man who does not put firm boundaries with their mother when it comes to their family are headed for divorce. Then the cycle will continue, more single mothers raising sons to be their emotional incest puppet husband. Love and honor your mother but on god do not ever put her needs and wants over your wife. She will break up your marriage, while pretending she cares when really she just wants her "husband" to herself. Your children will suffer because of it.