I'm so glad for your focus on Indonesian women. I got so tired of Indo always being excluded from 'best destinations' in SE Asia. I've lived in Bali on and off since 2020 and have always been the most excited to return. In my experience dating from Jakarta to Timor to Bali, really money has never been an issue - at least not a high priority. And no, I don't lead with that for sure. I have found Indonesian girls to be not materialistic at all. Regarding kids, I have heard more than once that a mixed baby would be highly prized as a status symbol, and also for aesthetic reasons by the girls I knew. It's always so entertaining how white skinned westerners desire to be tanned (status), and dark skinned natives wish to be light (also status). Of course, that is changing and many girls I meet now are proud of their beautiful dark skin, as am I ;o) Regarding a preference for western over local men, I've heard many times from girls who expressed a preference for bule men due to them being more open-minded and caring. Well, of course girls' thinking would be biased that way since they prefer western men. It's hard to judge a the population. Inherent skewing of the data when speaking about preferences. Anyway, glad I found your channel. I've experienced much of what you talk about, but it's nice to hear your perspective, and to hear the tidbits that I have never encountered. And what about the ubiquitous jealously in Indo girls? I guess that hasn't been a big focus of your vids. Maybe I am just meeting the wrong ones, haha,. But I've experienced jealousy from gfs more than once, and been told by Indo friend-girls that it is the norm. Can be a bit overwhelming for an American like me! Gotta keep those eyes glued to the ground haha. And God forbid their is an old female friend found on social media. We're so used to casual friendliness in America, no matter the gender. But I have found that can stoke some severe reactions in a gf. Keep up the great content, bro.
Thanks for your feedback. Much appreciated!👍 Good to read your experience which is very similar to mine. Regarding the jealousy: I've done a video about that. You can watch it here👉 ruclips.net/video/jeD3s-3lP50/видео.htmlsi=NqFbkswNNoHUsWYx
Woah you're a zionist! What do the Indonesian girls think about that? I assume they don't care too much about politics? Btw nothing against Zionism, in fact I'm a hardcore christian Indonesian zionist
I am Indonesian, and I prefer foreigner not because of financial matter (because me myself already happy with my own financial status). For me the reasons more about being independent, free, supportive, and open-minded in the relationship (those are very important to me). As I had few bad experiences with dating Indonesian man and also seen it from my family, which is for me was quite depending on the lady for example in doing house chores, help in the kitchen, cook, etc.
Agree to some points. Was in west java couple of weeks ago have been going for years spent time with extended no biological family. Through friends met the local chief of police in the village. He said there are thousands of single mum's I looked at him with a strange look. He didn't need to explain I knew straight way what the reason was. The Indo man is always looking for something younger ( sorry but in my experiences this keep ringing true) and also been confirmed to me by many, many people I know. No disrespect to the locals. Yes the men can be over powering and childish which creates negativity, and the women don't like it at all. I hear it daily lol. Long black straight hair OMG yep drives me nuts lol. They want security, a future and the shallow ones status. Age they want maturity they are sick to death of playing childish games. Children: some want mixed race children, in their eyes they are far more attractive and perhaps may have a better future. Just like everyone on the planet they want an easy life, stress free and a family with financial security. Oh by the way if you make a promise to an indo woman, you had better keep if not you will wish you did. Anyway that's just my observations. Yes you can fly from Dilli with Airnorth but hope you have a shite load of money coz AUS has become mega expensive just to survive.
Its because we are rarer and thus ''exotic'' and we usually have more money. She did not want to say cos we are richer cos she will be looked at as a goldigger
I found indonesian girls and womens loyal and also hard working womens. I am not in relationship but I can say that every man of ours should treat his woman well and give her a life of her choice in which she is happy.
She was not lie to you. I would say most of the guys specially eastern indonesian men dont respect their women without notice that they didnt respect their women. There is many indonesian men that also respect their women, but just difficult to find them. Specially in eastern indonesia You probably meet somebody that native from west timor based on what u said. Dont forget indonesia has 1.340 tribes with 718 differents languages So every palces have different culture different way of thinking, different attitude. What you see in jakarta, bali or surabaya could be completely different to the other places. I remember my father wont have his lunch or dinner if there is no fish on the table, you maybe wont believe that, but thats true his thingking was he was provider in the house so he have to be treated like king or boss. But he wont even went to the market to get fish. He said its the women job, the men wont do that, its part becouse he will be shame if one of his friend found out that. But becouse he was like that my mom was struggling to kept provide the fish on the table. There was also a thinking that they more women (quantity) like you the more handsome you are. Some men even think its ok to beat or hit your wife. Now it doesn't mean they would always like that, sometimes they can be really nice. For me even know im an indonesian. I only once in a relantionship with an indonesian guy, becouse that kind of attitude and its not easy to find an indonesian guy that can respect women. I knew some of the men but they had gf and was really in love. I had no chance 😂😂😂
Betul, budaya patriarki di Indonesia masih kuat. Dan dari soal attitude saja, bisa dinilai di media sosial, sering menemukan komentar dari para laki2 di Indonesia yang merendahkan kaum perempuan di Indonesia. Mereka juga lebih suka wanita asing dengan komentarnya yang memojokan fisik wanita se negaranya sendiri.
Yes It's mostly for money and because most ladies who look for foreigners are rejected by local men. Either they are no longer young, have children and poor. Moreover they get more freedom with foreigners.
Oh, so you made it to Kupang? There's not a lot to see there, and so there are very few foreigners. That said, the women are really nice! It also has the best pork restaurant in Indonesia outside of Bali, in my opinion. The late night fish markets are also worth checking out.
Yeah mate. Great experience. Need to come back when the weather is better and have to explore the inner countryside more all the way up to Timor Leste. Will upload a video about my impressions here in West Timor shortly👍
From what i see everytime i come across bule or foreigners on the street, train station, random places, they look very reserved and seem to always avoid eye contacts with us (Indo girls). They walked so fast forward it gives us impression they dont want to be bothered. And often they are not alone but with a woman or in groups and they only talk with each other. They dont care with surroundings. They dont put q smiley face and always avoid eye contact with the people around them. That makes us feeling afraid to approach first. If you guys want to approach indo girls, do it casually and just go for it.. make eye contact, smile and nod a lil bit, and start with Hi or converse about something. Dont be afraid because indo girls usually always wanting to talk and less negative thoughts and less suspiciousnes. They take things simple and very relaxed as a person. And again dont bring a woman near you. Go around alone and approach first and take things from there!
As others have said, I think a great deal of it is financial security but no one wants to say this because they look like a gold digger. Lighter skin is also a factor because this is a beauty standard in many cultures around the world. Western culture often emphasizes women’s rights more which can appeal to them. In general, I think women want to be with someone they can respect and be proud of so you’ll need some positive quality that will make them happy.
You are correct,... why i love western man, because they never tell me if i am jelek, he always tell me that i am sangat cantik and love the my kindness and my natural, But many Indonesian men and also the Indonesian girls tell me that i am jelek and pesek, even a kuli pasar will never interested to me😂😂
For me, western men are open minded person type, easy to complements you, easy to describe his feeling, to say that you're beautiful, to say i love you everyday etc, etc, that those i never got from my ex indonesian husband. Western men mostly has affirmative words that make you feel being respectful, self love and being loved. Security is the last chapter for me. Security we can conquer together. Although i'am established and independent woman, but i love type of man who not cheap, provider man type that i feel it describe that he loves you so much and want to take serious with you and wanna be part in your life.
Sorry..but it’s all about money. She is not telling the truth. I don’t think she really cares how white and tall we are. Love listening to your videos…they are always full of good information.
No that part of it is the truth. They only thing they may lie about is wanting to get married and having a long term relationship. She's not going to admit to anyone ever that she would just like a casual hookup with an exotic foreigner - unless of course, you make her feel completely OK with it. If you're fun to be around and can awaken her naughty side - trust me, in Timor they generally do not care for money or marriage or anything like that. Especially educated ones who are happy with their own job, their independence, and making their own money.
@nathanbutcher7720 Just to clarify: I recorded this video in Kupang, West Timor, yes. But the friend I am mentioning in my video is from Medan, North Sumatera. She is a Christian Batak Girl.
@@MinimalistNomad Yes, every part of Indonesia is different and each group has a different relationship with money. Toraja in central Sulawesi, for example, has a tradition of killing buffaloes at a funeral to display status, burying items with their dead, and many of their festivities involve "making it rain" with large piles of rupiah. One of the women I met there tried asking for money from me, not unlike what Filipina women are known for.
1. Because physically western men are more taller and different type of face than asian men, that's truth. And everything which different always bring curiousity and more interesting. 2. Asian men mostly treat women have lower position than men. Women need to obey and listen to their men. And asian men don't like to help about housework, they just know to work and provide money for family's need. 3. Western men are more freely to choose their women. Because here in our culture, yeah i can say the parents or family still want to drive how the way u choose your woman/man. I found that many parents still want to interfered their son's/daughter's relationship. Need to have same social status, figure out whats the parents job, the place they come from. Some parents prefer to have son in law/daughter in law from same hometown and also same religion. For western man i think this is not a big deal, if they love their woman/man so that's it, no have problem with parents or family as long as u are happy with your lover. 4. some woman said western men are more romantic. But yeah if we talk about build relationship, it's always come from your heart, how u feeling about him/her, have some chemistry or not. Western or not depends also about their personality.
I was married to Indonesian woman and really very strange when first dating and The actual clear after living there also.Number is Uang Money Number 1 for sure because they know Indo never even offer jobs to foreginers according to the laws there unless work permit by much money second is Getting visa to get out of stress and better life espcially if the husband from rich country$ , I dont say 100% but at least 90% of Mindset... OKAY number three may be social status more looking better .. iNDONESIA is amuslim country with salries range from 70$ till 300$ the highest ..rELATIONSHIP IN iNDONESIA IS NOT EAST AT ALL.. THE problem is not foreginer or Blue respect more NO is not that the indonesian man knows the cultures very well whom he grows in it and dont accept the bullshit some time and that is why thes eIndo women prefer Bloeh (blue)
I'm also from northern Europe. I like that you "break the barrier" of vloggers, so it's not just americans 👍 About "respecting women" in the west, I was married for 15 something years there. My ex, she was clear to me, she was gonna do everything in the home. It wasn't my choice, it was hers, she was also very jealous, bordering on insantity. There were no women running after me, I've never been a "woman's man", she had those ideas though and every time I even mentioned another woman, she'd punish me, not physically of course, but she made me suffer. Now, eventually she left me, and it's a hard blow. How you live with someone who's more or less consumed by you, whatever you do, it's big news to her. And then, she's gone, 'n you soon find out what you already knew, most ladies don't care 'bout you, or more precisely, most ppl don't. Is a tough blow, but it is what it is. Thanx for your good vids. Keep 'em comin', love your accent ❤
Opposite attractions. I like white. He like dark. I like hot latte, he like iced latte. I am petite and he tall. The list can go on and on. Beside that i find Caucasian man are romantic treat their woman with respect. More open minded, not pressure to have kids after get marriage.
Is this woman Muslim ? That will greatly influence her experience with her husband. Financial stability (assumed) would be factor 4 at the least (even if she has a job, and not a gold-digger)
People tend to get used to what they see every day and are challenged by something different., so white people like darker skin, and dark skin people like lighter or white skin
I think your channel will be a whole lot better if you sat down and interview this woman one-on-one so we could see and hear her answers it would be more useful other RUclipsrs do the same type of thing and I get more out of it than you just trying to explain answers for her these are things you need to do in front of the camera and let her talk and explain herself
@@MinimalistNomad well you know I found your channel recently and I like your perspective but these women need to come forward and show their face and be on camera or at least maybe block their face out and so we can hear their answers and just sit down conversation this would be much better than you trying to second-guess to behavior the mentality of somebody he don't even know just my thoughts hopefully you will do something better in the future and maybe just block out their face
Ya gimana ya, pria di Indonesia saja banyak yang merendahkan wanita di negaranya sendiri. Apalagi kalau baca komentar mereka dimedia sosial, cukup miris dari ngatain fisik sampai perkataan yang bener-bener melecehkan. Di kehidupan nyata juga tak jauh miris, dilingkungan gue aja, banyak yang lakinya diem dirumah, tapi si ceweknya kerja. Tapi giliran cewek Indo nya lebih memilih laki-laki dari negara lain, dikatain matre lah, murahan lah. Tanpa mau intropeksi untuk meningkatkan valuenya sendiri.
No, I have never experienced hostility by Indonesian men. Not sure what they think to themselves but knowing their mentality I will say that they are ok with it.
@@MinimalistNomad Thanks for Your reply. Do You think it'll be helpful to learn some indonesian language or is it futile because they mainly all speak their local native languages and dialects? So You can at least get some ideas about what they speak about You behind Your back...
@Kosty19 Good point. Their main language is Bahasa Indonesia. It is spoken all over Indonesia by every one. It will be good to learn a bit of Bahasa to communicate with the locals. On top of that you will bond much faster, make a good impression and become very likable when they see you speak a bit. It shows that you respect their culture. And if you show respect, you'll receive respect back...
@@MinimalistNomad Yes, You are right and trying to learn at least a little bit of the language would be my first priority if I'll ever want to live in a foreign country again. I want to understand at least some of what the locals talk behind my back. So does everybody there speaks Bahasa Indonesia or do they speak in their local tribe languages mainly?
@Kosty19 Basically everybody speaks and understands Bahasa, no matter where you are in Indonesia. But on top of that, people speak their local language when they are among themselves.
I dont date...I married my American husband. Not for money coz I get to the country before I marry him. GC?? Well...if u wanted to marry foreignwr wife.. then she needs it to keep her stay in the country..
I'm so glad for your focus on Indonesian women. I got so tired of Indo always being excluded from 'best destinations' in SE Asia. I've lived in Bali on and off since 2020 and have always been the most excited to return. In my experience dating from Jakarta to Timor to Bali, really money has never been an issue - at least not a high priority. And no, I don't lead with that for sure. I have found Indonesian girls to be not materialistic at all.
Regarding kids, I have heard more than once that a mixed baby would be highly prized as a status symbol, and also for aesthetic reasons by the girls I knew. It's always so entertaining how white skinned westerners desire to be tanned (status), and dark skinned natives wish to be light (also status). Of course, that is changing and many girls I meet now are proud of their beautiful dark skin, as am I ;o)
Regarding a preference for western over local men, I've heard many times from girls who expressed a preference for bule men due to them being more open-minded and caring. Well, of course girls' thinking would be biased that way since they prefer western men. It's hard to judge a the population. Inherent skewing of the data when speaking about preferences.
Anyway, glad I found your channel. I've experienced much of what you talk about, but it's nice to hear your perspective, and to hear the tidbits that I have never encountered. And what about the ubiquitous jealously in Indo girls? I guess that hasn't been a big focus of your vids. Maybe I am just meeting the wrong ones, haha,. But I've experienced jealousy from gfs more than once, and been told by Indo friend-girls that it is the norm. Can be a bit overwhelming for an American like me! Gotta keep those eyes glued to the ground haha. And God forbid their is an old female friend found on social media. We're so used to casual friendliness in America, no matter the gender. But I have found that can stoke some severe reactions in a gf.
Keep up the great content, bro.
Thanks for your feedback. Much appreciated!👍 Good to read your experience which is very similar to mine. Regarding the jealousy: I've done a video about that. You can watch it here👉 ruclips.net/video/jeD3s-3lP50/видео.htmlsi=NqFbkswNNoHUsWYx
Woah you're a zionist! What do the Indonesian girls think about that? I assume they don't care too much about politics?
Btw nothing against Zionism, in fact I'm a hardcore christian Indonesian zionist
Many people only says it's just because -money. But as an Indonesian women it self i just like it, not because 'only for money' 'greencard' etc 😅 thx
Thanks for letting us know😉👍
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@@MinimalistNomadI want to marry a European man because I want my child to be mixed European
@Katarine00 Fair enough.👍
I am Indonesian, and I prefer foreigner not because of financial matter (because me myself already happy with my own financial status). For me the reasons more about being independent, free, supportive, and open-minded in the relationship (those are very important to me). As I had few bad experiences with dating Indonesian man and also seen it from my family, which is for me was quite depending on the lady for example in doing house chores, help in the kitchen, cook, etc.
Thanks for sharing👍
Respect, loyalty and freedom of living a life is the right of women
Agree to some points. Was in west java couple of weeks ago have been going for years spent time with extended no biological family. Through friends met the local chief of police in the village. He said there are thousands of single mum's I looked at him with a strange look. He didn't need to explain I knew straight way what the reason was. The Indo man is always looking for something younger ( sorry but in my experiences this keep ringing true) and also been confirmed to me by many, many people I know. No disrespect to the locals.
Yes the men can be over powering and childish which creates negativity, and the women don't like it at all. I hear it daily lol.
Long black straight hair OMG yep drives me nuts lol.
They want security, a future and the shallow ones status.
Age they want maturity they are sick to death of playing childish games.
Children: some want mixed race children, in their eyes they are far more attractive and perhaps may have a better future.
Just like everyone on the planet they want an easy life, stress free and a family with financial security.
Oh by the way if you make a promise to an indo woman, you had better keep if not you will wish you did.
Anyway that's just my observations. Yes you can fly from Dilli with Airnorth but hope you have a shite load of money coz AUS has become mega expensive just to survive.
Great summary of your experiences and impressions mate!👍 I can confirm what you just said. Thanks for sharing. PS: I skipped Australia for now...😉
@@MinimalistNomad wise move I was born, bred and live here and want to skip AUS🤣
Its because we are rarer and thus ''exotic'' and we usually have more money. She did not want to say cos we are richer cos she will be looked at as a goldigger
Good point. Makes sense.
I found indonesian girls and womens loyal and also hard working womens. I am not in relationship but I can say that every man of ours should treat his woman well and give her a life of her choice in which she is happy.
She was not lie to you. I would say most of the guys specially eastern indonesian men dont respect their women without notice that they didnt respect their women. There is many indonesian men that also respect their women, but just difficult to find them. Specially in eastern indonesia
You probably meet somebody that native from west timor based on what u said.
Dont forget indonesia has 1.340 tribes with 718 differents languages So every palces have different culture different way of thinking, different attitude. What you see in jakarta, bali or surabaya could be completely different to the other places.
I remember my father wont have his lunch or dinner if there is no fish on the table, you maybe wont believe that, but thats true his thingking was he was provider in the house so he have to be treated like king or boss. But he wont even went to the market to get fish. He said its the women job, the men wont do that, its part becouse he will be shame if one of his friend found out that. But becouse he was like that my mom was struggling to kept provide the fish on the table. There was also a thinking that they more women (quantity) like you the more handsome you are. Some men even think its ok to beat or hit your wife. Now it doesn't mean they would always like that, sometimes they can be really nice.
For me even know im an indonesian. I only once in a relantionship with an indonesian guy, becouse that kind of attitude and its not easy to find an indonesian guy that can respect women. I knew some of the men but they had gf and was really in love. I had no chance 😂😂😂
Thanks for taking the time to share your viewpoints! Very interesting👍
Betul, budaya patriarki di Indonesia masih kuat. Dan dari soal attitude saja, bisa dinilai di media sosial, sering menemukan komentar dari para laki2 di Indonesia yang merendahkan kaum perempuan di Indonesia. Mereka juga lebih suka wanita asing dengan komentarnya yang memojokan fisik wanita se negaranya sendiri.
@@TriaAzka-jg1ifpria indo menurutku banyak yg matre dan menginginkan hanya wanita muda itu yg pernah kualami
Yes It's mostly for money and because most ladies who look for foreigners are rejected by local men. Either they are no longer young, have children and poor. Moreover they get more freedom with foreigners.
Oh, so you made it to Kupang? There's not a lot to see there, and so there are very few foreigners. That said, the women are really nice! It also has the best pork restaurant in Indonesia outside of Bali, in my opinion. The late night fish markets are also worth checking out.
Yeah mate. Great experience. Need to come back when the weather is better and have to explore the inner countryside more all the way up to Timor Leste. Will upload a video about my impressions here in West Timor shortly👍
From what i see everytime i come across bule or foreigners on the street, train station, random places, they look very reserved and seem to always avoid eye contacts with us (Indo girls). They walked so fast forward it gives us impression they dont want to be bothered. And often they are not alone but with a woman or in groups and they only talk with each other. They dont care with surroundings. They dont put q smiley face and always avoid eye contact with the people around them. That makes us feeling afraid to approach first. If you guys want to approach indo girls, do it casually and just go for it.. make eye contact, smile and nod a lil bit, and start with Hi or converse about something. Dont be afraid because indo girls usually always wanting to talk and less negative thoughts and less suspiciousnes. They take things simple and very relaxed as a person. And again dont bring a woman near you. Go around alone and approach first and take things from there!
Great advice. Thanks👍
Thank you. Any other suggestions? I travel alone and will be there soon.
So you think Indonesian girls are interested in meeting foreign men?
As others have said, I think a great deal of it is financial security but no one wants to say this because they look like a gold digger. Lighter skin is also a factor because this is a beauty standard in many cultures around the world. Western culture often emphasizes women’s rights more which can appeal to them. In general, I think women want to be with someone they can respect and be proud of so you’ll need some positive quality that will make them happy.
Great summary and very well put👍
You are correct,... why i love western man, because they never tell me if i am jelek, he always tell me that i am sangat cantik and love the my kindness and my natural, But many Indonesian men and also the Indonesian girls tell me that i am jelek and pesek, even a kuli pasar will never interested to me😂😂
For me, western men are open minded person type, easy to complements you, easy to describe his feeling, to say that you're beautiful, to say i love you everyday etc, etc, that those i never got from my ex indonesian husband. Western men mostly has affirmative words that make you feel being respectful, self love and being loved. Security is the last chapter for me. Security we can conquer together. Although i'am established and independent woman, but i love type of man who not cheap, provider man type that i feel it describe that he loves you so much and want to take serious with you and wanna be part in your life.
Sorry..but it’s all about money. She is not telling the truth. I don’t think she really cares how white and tall we are. Love listening to your videos…they are always full of good information.
Yup, you might have a point here👍
This is why men have to earn more because the women won't pay the bills. Everyone knows this exept the politicains.
No that part of it is the truth. They only thing they may lie about is wanting to get married and having a long term relationship. She's not going to admit to anyone ever that she would just like a casual hookup with an exotic foreigner - unless of course, you make her feel completely OK with it. If you're fun to be around and can awaken her naughty side - trust me, in Timor they generally do not care for money or marriage or anything like that. Especially educated ones who are happy with their own job, their independence, and making their own money.
@nathanbutcher7720 Just to clarify: I recorded this video in Kupang, West Timor, yes. But the friend I am mentioning in my video is from Medan, North Sumatera. She is a Christian Batak Girl.
@@MinimalistNomad Yes, every part of Indonesia is different and each group has a different relationship with money. Toraja in central Sulawesi, for example, has a tradition of killing buffaloes at a funeral to display status, burying items with their dead, and many of their festivities involve "making it rain" with large piles of rupiah. One of the women I met there tried asking for money from me, not unlike what Filipina women are known for.
1. Because physically western men are more taller and different type of face than asian men, that's truth. And everything which different always bring curiousity and more interesting.
2. Asian men mostly treat women have lower position than men. Women need to obey and listen to their men. And asian men don't like to help about housework, they just know to work and provide money for family's need.
3. Western men are more freely to choose their women. Because here in our culture, yeah i can say the parents or family still want to drive how the way u choose your woman/man. I found that many parents still want to interfered their son's/daughter's relationship. Need to have same social status, figure out whats the parents job, the place they come from. Some parents prefer to have son in law/daughter in law from same hometown and also same religion. For western man i think this is not a big deal, if they love their woman/man so that's it, no have problem with parents or family as long as u are happy with your lover.
4. some woman said western men are more romantic.
But yeah if we talk about build relationship, it's always come from your heart, how u feeling about him/her, have some chemistry or not. Western or not depends also about their personality.
Point 3 is absolutely spot on: yes, in Western societies parents almost never interfere. You chose your partner, that's it.
Seolah-olah kawin dengan orang luar negeri adalah kebahagiaan yg begitu mewah
I was married to Indonesian woman and really very strange when first dating and The actual clear after living there also.Number is Uang Money Number 1 for sure because they know Indo never even offer jobs to foreginers according to the laws there unless work permit by much money second is Getting visa to get out of stress and better life espcially if the husband from rich country$ , I dont say 100% but at least 90% of Mindset... OKAY number three may be social status more looking better .. iNDONESIA is amuslim country with salries range from 70$ till 300$ the highest ..rELATIONSHIP IN iNDONESIA IS NOT EAST AT ALL.. THE problem is not foreginer or Blue respect more NO is not that the indonesian man knows the cultures very well whom he grows in it and dont accept the bullshit some time and that is why thes eIndo women prefer Bloeh (blue)
Why don't you rather phrase your question this way : "Why do you / Indonesian women prefer Indonesian men ?"
I'm also from northern Europe. I like that you "break the barrier" of vloggers, so it's not just americans 👍
About "respecting women" in the west, I was married for 15 something years there. My ex, she was clear to me, she was gonna do everything in the home. It wasn't my choice, it was hers, she was also very jealous, bordering on insantity.
There were no women running after me, I've never been a "woman's man", she had those ideas though and every time I even mentioned another woman, she'd punish me, not physically of course, but she made me suffer.
Now, eventually she left me, and it's a hard blow. How you live with someone who's more or less consumed by you, whatever you do, it's big news to her. And then, she's gone, 'n you soon find out what you already knew, most ladies don't care 'bout you, or more precisely, most ppl don't. Is a tough blow, but it is what it is.
Thanx for your good vids. Keep 'em comin', love your accent ❤
Thanks for sharing!👍 Hope you will be ok!!
Indo girl told me it was becuz most Indo guys are smaller D than Western...she was not a bar girl either.
😅 really it's mostly about the 🍆?
Opposite attractions. I like white. He like dark. I like hot latte, he like iced latte. I am petite and he tall. The list can go on and on. Beside that i find Caucasian man are romantic treat their woman with respect. More open minded, not pressure to have kids after get marriage.
Is this woman Muslim ? That will greatly influence her experience with her husband. Financial stability (assumed) would be factor 4 at the least (even if she has a job, and not a gold-digger)
People tend to get used to what they see every day and are challenged by something different., so white people like darker skin, and dark skin people like lighter or white skin
I think your channel will be a whole lot better if you sat down and interview this woman one-on-one so we could see and hear her answers it would be more useful other RUclipsrs do the same type of thing and I get more out of it than you just trying to explain answers for her these are things you need to do in front of the camera and let her talk and explain herself
Some of the women simply don't like to be on cam. What to do?🤷 But noted on your comment👍
@@MinimalistNomad well you know I found your channel recently and I like your perspective but these women need to come forward and show their face and be on camera or at least maybe block their face out and so we can hear their answers and just sit down conversation this would be much better than you trying to second-guess to behavior the mentality of somebody he don't even know just my thoughts hopefully you will do something better in the future and maybe just block out their face
Ya gimana ya, pria di Indonesia saja banyak yang merendahkan wanita di negaranya sendiri. Apalagi kalau baca komentar mereka dimedia sosial, cukup miris dari ngatain fisik sampai perkataan yang bener-bener melecehkan. Di kehidupan nyata juga tak jauh miris, dilingkungan gue aja, banyak yang lakinya diem dirumah, tapi si ceweknya kerja. Tapi giliran cewek Indo nya lebih memilih laki-laki dari negara lain, dikatain matre lah, murahan lah. Tanpa mau intropeksi untuk meningkatkan valuenya sendiri.
Need more flights ✈️ from West Timor to Australia as it would be beneficial to both 🎉
Are indonesian men hostile when You date local women as a foreigner?
No, I have never experienced hostility by Indonesian men. Not sure what they think to themselves but knowing their mentality I will say that they are ok with it.
@@MinimalistNomad Thanks for Your reply. Do You think it'll be helpful to learn some indonesian language or is it futile because they mainly all speak their local native languages and dialects? So You can at least get some ideas about what they speak about You behind Your back...
@Kosty19 Good point. Their main language is Bahasa Indonesia. It is spoken all over Indonesia by every one. It will be good to learn a bit of Bahasa to communicate with the locals. On top of that you will bond much faster, make a good impression and become very likable when they see you speak a bit. It shows that you respect their culture. And if you show respect, you'll receive respect back...
@@MinimalistNomad Yes, You are right and trying to learn at least a little bit of the language would be my first priority if I'll ever want to live in a foreign country again. I want to understand at least some of what the locals talk behind my back. So does everybody there speaks Bahasa Indonesia or do they speak in their local tribe languages mainly?
@Kosty19 Basically everybody speaks and understands Bahasa, no matter where you are in Indonesia. But on top of that, people speak their local language when they are among themselves.
All about money the main reason
well to present an Woman all i have all i am well that would be an Magnet of Materialistic Woman and realy STUPID
Does indonesian wife ask money for her family?
I never had an Indonesian wife. But as far as my previous girlfriends are concerned they never asked me for any money for their family.
I dont date...I married my American husband. Not for money coz I get to the country before I marry him. GC?? Well...if u wanted to marry foreignwr wife.. then she needs it to keep her stay in the country..