I recently found your vlog... what ever your doing keep it up!! Your right on do as you please..you got nice place and great girl !! I am going to try Thailand myself instead of Phillipines Gordon from Canada
Tony I like the area you live in, so peaceful and un-busy. Don’t think I could get used to Ma’s cooking. Queen P is very nice, I love that look she gives you with the smile. The haters just want to drag you down with their failed experiences and are jealous.
I dream about doing what you are in your life. Sorry to hear about people judging you and your woman. Its your life and I don't think you are dumb. Thank You for sharing your life story I enjoy watching. 👍😊
I enjoy your perspective on a lot of things - your dry humor is great - as for Pui it's easy to see she cares for you. The way she cares for your dog is a big tell imo.
Hi Tony I always enjoy your videos thank you, As for comments about Pui those people can shove off mate, as long as you are happy thats all the matters. She seems lovely you not what's what, its your life. good onya mate
Tony ,j like your channel, so relaxing to watch Hope things work out for you ,with your decisions I am not a golfer but j know hua hin is great for golfing And that old thai house in the field, looked great ,flood proof Keep them steps going Thanks from England uk
Tony you be you. You know how she makes you feel, which is most important. My wife is 25 years younger than me, look at our pictures together. My wife has all access to everything, but its just how she makes me feel when i am with her. Yes, making you food and taking care of you. But just calling and asking questions when you are away is good thought you don't want to just make them worry. Just think if she goes on with a girl friend of hers, and she goes for 6 weeks.
Hi Tony, reading the comments reminded me of an old saying: Opinions are like assholes, many stink, some don't!😂 Your life, your choices! From what you have said it seems to me you have been quite smart in handling your relationship. You are happy living in the countryside and have made a little family for yourself and your dog. Good for you!!! I hope to do something similar close to a beach on Phuket. For me a condo, part time girlfriend, hopefully some expat friends in the area, long walks for exercise, the local food, good massages will be my dream life. Each to their own! Like your shirt, please keep up the video's Sincerely Jeffrey Stecher Henderson Nevada 😁
Ma is armed for action….soi dogs (the beagle particulary) and varmints beware. The commenters act like there are no gold diggers in the west, and separation costs no matter where you are. You’re smart enough we can’t tell you something you haven’t already considered.
I agree with the fishing here. Its alot different. I to am from San Diego and im used to pelagics. I bought a boat and live in Bang Sare( 30 mins south of pattaya) and getting used to the style here. Ever out this way shoot me a message ill take ya out for some deep sea. Always looking for fellow socal folks to fish with. Dennis
Good for you Tony...you seem pretty level headed and your BS Detector is set on high for not only relationships but other answers people give you. Pui seems pretty genuine and the naysayers only see what little she is shown on YT. I have found keeping boundaries in place financially and relationshipwise is best until you feel confident to go to another level. It took me awhile and then designed and built a place near her family outside of Kuchinarai so if anything happened to me at least she would have some security. I have met guys that have been led by the nose as soon as they step off the plane and failed to set any boundaries and then they are stuck...oh well they are to blame. Take care! Love the gun culture shirts.
Tony the response to you are from people who like you and care for you. Most have seen relationships that go bad. If you don’t see anything wrong with someone going through your pockets it sad. Tony don’t want something so bad you loose your judgement. Was Pui married before? Wait until you’re 62 by then you will know more. You know you could get a nice house on the beach and a house keeper to bring you food. Your situation has all the warning signs
Actually being from the east, I feel you are actually being misled by prejudiced advise. Here’s a family that is letting you into their lives and treating you like their own. Also how you support them is commendable; but there is this canvas of a transactional mindset of someone from the west that almost due to reflexivity is bound to make a relationship fail; ie the very over-analysed stance you’re taking would eventually lead to a bad outcome. Just be as clever with your finances like you would be with a western woman in the west, that goes without a saying. Beyond that, you’re not a lab rat that is confined to fail like others, you make your karma. Wish you Tony all the best.
@@abishekraju2988 I don’t know where you’re from but he’s paying every bill and food. That’s not family. Who paid those bills before he got there. By the way the only prejudice seems to come from your mouth
To try and judge a person by isolated RUclips clips is like trying to determine how dangerous a soi-dog is while driving pass them in a car. You just can’t do it. Guys he is a grown @$$ man who has seen the worst in the woman over there and probably also the best. He is with her a lot more than we see her and therefore in a much better position to judge. Let us not forget that he has been living in the U.S. most of his life. He knows what a money grubbing, entitled woman looks like. I thank god everyday for my Thai queen. We have been together for many years and I can count on one hand how often she has asked for financial help and goes out of her way to make sure I know she is there for the long haul.
RUclips tip: when making a teaser intro it needs to stand out so either a voice overlay saying coming up on this week exciting episode or a title overlay and then you put the montage of your clips ✔️
I cant speak for what happens off of you tube. but it seems to me she is not very happy to have you around. and her mother doesn't seem very nice. could be the culture or language barrier but it doesn't look like a great place to be. you seem like a great guy, take your time... 6 more months could change your mind
As regards a lady, I figure (1) as a grown man, you don't need or want my advice, and (2) it's none of my business. I do appreciate free speech on the good and bad about Thailand itself, however, from you, me, and everybody, as it's no bed of roses or cake and ice cream all the time, either. There is plenty about Thailand that the TAT would rather censor. Mr. Troy Pilkington, for example, and that Swiss lady in Phuket.
Here is the mistake (I’ve seen many on the channel but this one is heavier than all) A man should never enter a woman’s domain. A man should create the environment and the woman then is invited in to compliment it. You are doing it completely backwards and open yourself to a laundry list of issues because of that
A king would never build his castle on land he didn’t own Lawyer can create you a Thai business, do an Airbnb and buy 10+ Rai, lawyer firm owns 51%, you 49 and the woman comes to your land/hoke as a guest. When/if it ends she walks down the driveway and your in the rocking chair on the porch Have no idea why this is difficult for guys lol
@@davidb2206??? The wife is on zero paperwork in this scenario. How does the wife get anything? I also would never complete the government paper work for marriage in a foreign country, what point is it to do that? A firm shouldn’t be one name, it’s a registered business or partnership and there would be clauses in the event that something happened You’re just fumbling around with non sense arguments saying it’s better to take 100% risk vs 25% risk.
@@davidb2206 I see you are implying that the lawyer is foreign and has a Thai wife and if that foreign lawyer passes, the Thai wife has ownership and forces a liquidation of his assets. This is what proper due diligence is for The entire reason this is necessary is because of my original comment. A man should never enter a woman’s domain, the woman should enter the man’s domain. And from what I see on the hosts personality , he’s going to get that. It’s a huge difference when your the guy building shit on someone else’s land and HE is the guest. Literally a guest in his own home, praying that when he’s 85 and in a diaper that he’s got 4 walls and a supporting wife. Vs him owning it and having the woman as a guest, and him being in control I don’t get why ppl don’t understand basic psychology. It’s like trying to bake cookies with the ingredients and zero recipe and zero experience.
I moved into a girlfriends house, did a lot of remodeling to the house and when it ended I had to leave. I will never move into a women's house again, you lack power and control, it is a position of weakness
If I did lack power and control I would probably agree with you. Power and control are two of my attributes that have allowed me to do with my life as I please. Weakness is not in my DNA. If I do decide to leave or I am asked to leave, I will go with a smile on my face knowing that I made a difference in these good peoples lives. The changes I made here cost me nothing and means a lot to them. That's the difference between you and I.
@@amaninsiam I was with you until you threw in the "that's the difference between you and I", implying I was weak, your reply is somewhat robotic, saying I will go with a smile on my face knowing that I made a difference in these good peoples lives. You make it sound like your in a contractual relationship, and that is how it comes across in the videos. You have the power while you splash the cash and pay the bills, that is a contractual relationship, and the mom does not want you in her house.
I've said this to you several times and you verified all of it in this video today. This so-called relationship is nothing more than a monetary transactional "deal." It's so easy to see this woman wants NOTHING to do with you whatsoever. Anyone can see how she looks in your direction but doesn't see someone she cares about beyond money. She in fact appears absolutely disgusted at the sight of you. When she wanted money to pay for the chicken or cat or whatever that was laying out in the open for hours and hours, the way she looked at you was with deep resentment and absolute disgust. Maybe you should bail out of this impending nightmare BEFORE it gets worse. Not sure what some of these people commenting that "easy to see she cares for you," etc are watching, but it damn sure isn't your videos. I can't wait to see what happens when this "relationship," implodes! Gonna be fun to watch!
we all see it. She's the most sour faced Thai woman i've seen. This guy comes across a little creepy when he's away from her. Way too much interest in other women. I cringe every time he calls her queen, he's no alpha male. I guess they deserve each other.
I've been coming to Thailand since 1980, I have seen this story over and over again. This guy has no clue what so ever. He's old enough to be her Father, this shit is hard to watch. Bring on the new vehicle and house.
Tony can I tell you my thoughts please number one you come across as a man that wouldn't cop crap number 2 pui has a funny sense of humour example in the shopping centre when she ordered 2000 Bhat you can tell she was joking and she is not stupid she would know how a lot of westerners think there all gold diggers so she played that role now thats a witty sense of humour just rubbing it in to all the haters so just keep up the great viewing and I know it's hard but ignore it you don't have to justify your love
😢 so sad....would you men want a girlfriend old enough to be yr mother? Im guessing that most of you wouldn't but these men insist on buying women much younger than them. She doesnt look happy just wants money.
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I recently found your vlog... what ever your doing keep it up!!
Your right on do as you please..you got nice place and great girl !!
I am going to try Thailand myself instead of Phillipines
Gordon from Canada
Well said! Good video...
Maaa needs to share recipes! Ha
Tony I like the area you live in, so peaceful and un-busy. Don’t think I could get used to Ma’s cooking. Queen P is very nice, I love that look she gives you with the smile. The haters just want to drag you down with their failed experiences and are jealous.
Recently subscribed to your channel and you partner pui seems to be a really nice lady . Respect to you sir from a fellow retiree in Thailand
Thanks and welcome
I dream about doing what you are in your life. Sorry to hear about people judging you and your woman. Its your life and I don't think you are dumb. Thank You for sharing your life story I enjoy watching. 👍😊
@@ugenescott111 ugene what’s stopping you from doing what he’s doing. Didn’t you prepare for your retirement or are you broke
Hi tony ,you guys are the best 😃injoy your life..
Sweet (***** edit) pension life.
lol 😂
Feels good to be the farang king of Isaan. 🤴🏼
Enjoy
My pension is not a public pension.
@ no harm no foul mate.
Cheers to you. I retract but I didn’t mean any offense.
I enjoy your perspective on a lot of things - your dry humor is great - as for Pui it's easy to see she cares for you. The way she cares for your dog is a big tell imo.
Tilapia...bread balls works in fla.
Hi Tony I always enjoy your videos thank you, As for comments about Pui those people can shove off mate, as long as you are happy thats all the matters. She seems lovely you not what's what, its your life. good onya mate
Tony ,j like your channel, so relaxing to watch
Hope things work out for you ,with your decisions
I am not a golfer but j know hua hin is great for golfing
And that old thai house in the field, looked great ,flood proof
Keep them steps going
Thanks from England uk
Thanks 👍
Hi Tony
My name is Tony and the wife’s name is Pui.
We live in Sakon Nakhon 😂
Looks like the 7-Eleven and the market you went to is Phang Khon.
Hi Tony! I wanna see you Rey your new toy the dji mics that you recently bought! Could you please do the next vlog using them? 😊
Tony you be you. You know how she makes you feel, which is most important. My wife is 25 years younger than me, look at our pictures together. My wife has all access to everything, but its just how she makes me feel when i am with her. Yes, making you food and taking care of you. But just calling and asking questions when you are away is good thought you don't want to just make them worry. Just think if she goes on with a girl friend of hers, and she goes for 6 weeks.
Don't listen to the bad comments. I built in bang khungsi 12 years ago, happy days 😊
Good to know that ur feet is firmly planted on the terra....
Hi Tony, reading the comments reminded me of an old saying:
Opinions are like assholes, many stink, some don't!😂
Your life, your choices! From what you have said it seems to me you have been quite smart in handling your relationship. You are happy living in the countryside and have made a little family for yourself and your dog. Good for you!!!
I hope to do something similar close to a beach on Phuket. For me a condo, part time girlfriend, hopefully some expat friends in the area, long walks for exercise, the local food, good massages will be my dream life. Each to their own!
Like your shirt, please keep up the video's
Sincerely
Jeffrey Stecher Henderson Nevada 😁
Ma is armed for action….soi dogs (the beagle particulary) and varmints beware.
The commenters act like there are no gold diggers in the west, and separation costs no matter where you are.
You’re smart enough we can’t tell you something you haven’t already considered.
I agree with the fishing here. Its alot different. I to am from San Diego and im used to pelagics. I bought a boat and live in Bang Sare( 30 mins south of pattaya) and getting used to the style here. Ever out this way shoot me a message ill take ya out for some deep sea. Always looking for fellow socal folks to fish with.
Dennis
I'll do that, thank you.
i enjoy your daily life vids. Pui is beautiful, smart and likes to take care of you. its a wonderful life
Yes, thank you
They don't really do much for Christmas there, a few decorations so the farang feels good, no problem , I'm over Christmas.
Good for you Tony...you seem pretty level headed and your BS Detector is set on high for not only relationships but other answers people give you. Pui seems pretty genuine and the naysayers only see what little she is shown on YT. I have found keeping boundaries in place financially and relationshipwise is best until you feel confident to go to another level. It took me awhile and then designed and built a place near her family outside of Kuchinarai so if anything happened to me at least she would have some security. I have met guys that have been led by the nose as soon as they step off the plane and failed to set any boundaries and then they are stuck...oh well they are to blame. Take care! Love the gun culture shirts.
Like your videos Tony...but leaving her for SIX. WEEKS..is pushing your luck!..Not many women would take deal lol!..good luck😅
Hi Tony the Shimano reel you bought is that a nevaxe if so I bought one last week and what rod is it please
It's a Sashino Swan Si rod.
Tony the response to you are from people who like you and care for you. Most have seen relationships that go bad. If you don’t see anything wrong with someone going through your pockets it sad. Tony don’t want something so bad you loose your judgement. Was Pui married before? Wait until you’re 62 by then you will know more. You know you could get a nice house on the beach and a house keeper to bring you food. Your situation has all the warning signs
Actually being from the east, I feel you are actually being misled by prejudiced advise. Here’s a family that is letting you into their lives and treating you like their own. Also how you support them is commendable; but there is this canvas of a transactional mindset of someone from the west that almost due to reflexivity is bound to make a relationship fail; ie the very over-analysed stance you’re taking would eventually lead to a bad outcome.
Just be as clever with your finances like you would be with a western woman in the west, that goes without a saying. Beyond that, you’re not a lab rat that is confined to fail like others, you make your karma. Wish you Tony all the best.
@@abishekraju2988 I don’t know where you’re from but when you’re paying every bill and food. Your not being treated like family
@@abishekraju2988 I don’t know where you’re from but he’s paying every bill and food. That’s not family. Who paid those bills before he got there. By the way the only prejudice seems to come from your mouth
it looks like a high wind would lift that tin roof off
Not yet.
To try and judge a person by isolated RUclips clips is like trying to determine how dangerous a soi-dog is while driving pass them in a car. You just can’t do it. Guys he is a grown @$$ man who has seen the worst in the woman over there and probably also the best. He is with her a lot more than we see her and therefore in a much better position to judge. Let us not forget that he has been living in the U.S. most of his life. He knows what a money grubbing, entitled woman looks like. I thank god everyday for my Thai queen. We have been together for many years and I can count on one hand how often she has asked for financial help and goes out of her way to make sure I know she is there for the long haul.
I like watching your grouchy girlfriend I fast forward when she on the videos but when she weighs herself that was funny .
RUclips tip: when making a teaser intro it needs to stand out so either a voice overlay saying coming up on this week exciting episode or a title overlay and then you put the montage of your clips ✔️
Hey Tony which headphones do you use?
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@@amaninsiam thank you sir. Hope you are doing well
I never ever see any ferrang there ?
Did you notice when you gave her hundred bhat it wasn’t enough and she looked at you disappointed. Then she went into her own pocket to finish paying.
I cant speak for what happens off of you tube. but it seems to me she is not very happy to have you around. and her mother doesn't seem very nice. could be the culture or language barrier but it doesn't look like a great place to be. you seem like a great guy, take your time... 6 more months could change your mind
I understand
I have a large Thai family and none of them act like this lot. My father in law spends hours with me and the rest of them treat me
like a brother.
Just go with yr guts. Nothing else matters.
As regards a lady, I figure (1) as a grown man, you don't need or want my advice, and (2) it's none of my business.
I do appreciate free speech on the good and bad about Thailand itself, however, from you, me, and everybody, as it's no bed of roses or cake and ice cream all the time, either. There is plenty about Thailand that the TAT would rather censor. Mr. Troy Pilkington, for example, and that Swiss lady in Phuket.
Here is the mistake (I’ve seen many on the channel but this one is heavier than all)
A man should never enter a woman’s domain. A man should create the environment and the woman then is invited in to compliment it. You are doing it completely backwards and open yourself to a laundry list of issues because of that
A king would never build his castle on land he didn’t own
Lawyer can create you a Thai business, do an Airbnb and buy 10+ Rai, lawyer firm owns 51%, you 49 and the woman comes to your land/hoke as a guest. When/if it ends she walks down the driveway and your in the rocking chair on the porch
Have no idea why this is difficult for guys lol
@@Freedom-33 That's nuts. Lawyer dies and HIS wife decides to sell all of it, since she now has the controlling vote. She dissolves the company.
@@davidb2206??? The wife is on zero paperwork in this scenario. How does the wife get anything? I also would never complete the government paper work for marriage in a foreign country, what point is it to do that?
A firm shouldn’t be one name, it’s a registered business or partnership and there would be clauses in the event that something happened
You’re just fumbling around with non sense arguments saying it’s better to take 100% risk vs 25% risk.
@@davidb2206 I see you are implying that the lawyer is foreign and has a Thai wife and if that foreign lawyer passes, the Thai wife has ownership and forces a liquidation of his assets. This is what proper due diligence is for
The entire reason this is necessary is because of my original comment. A man should never enter a woman’s domain, the woman should enter the man’s domain. And from what I see on the hosts personality , he’s going to get that.
It’s a huge difference when your the guy building shit on someone else’s land and HE is the guest. Literally a guest in his own home, praying that when he’s 85 and in a diaper that he’s got 4 walls and a supporting wife.
Vs him owning it and having the woman as a guest, and him being in control
I don’t get why ppl don’t understand basic psychology. It’s like trying to bake cookies with the ingredients and zero recipe and zero experience.
@@Freedom-33 Thai lawyer. He has Thai wife. He is killed in car or motorcycle crash. By Thai law, his Thai WIFE inherits all his ownership. Simple.
I moved into a girlfriends house, did a lot of remodeling to the house and when it ended I had to leave. I will never move into a women's house again, you lack power and control, it is a position of weakness
If I did lack power and control I would probably agree with you. Power and control are two of my attributes that have allowed me to do with my life as I please. Weakness is not in my DNA. If I do decide to leave or I am asked to leave, I will go with a smile on my face knowing that I made a difference in these good peoples lives.
The changes I made here cost me nothing and means a lot to them. That's the difference between you and I.
@@amaninsiam I was with you until you threw in the "that's the difference between you and I", implying I was weak, your reply is somewhat robotic, saying I will go with a smile on my face knowing that I made a difference in these good peoples lives. You make it sound like your in a contractual relationship, and that is how it comes across in the videos. You have the power while you splash the cash and pay the bills, that is a contractual relationship, and the mom does not want you in her house.
lol hehe so niave , anywayss , been married over 30yrs
No need to explain finances! Nor relationships!
I've said this to you several times and you verified all of it in this video today. This so-called relationship is nothing more than a monetary transactional "deal." It's so easy to see this woman wants NOTHING to do with you whatsoever. Anyone can see how she looks in your direction but doesn't see someone she cares about beyond money. She in fact appears absolutely disgusted at the sight of you. When she wanted money to pay for the chicken or cat or whatever that was laying out in the open for hours and hours, the way she looked at you was with deep resentment and absolute disgust. Maybe you should bail out of this impending nightmare BEFORE it gets worse. Not sure what some of these people commenting that "easy to see she cares for you," etc are watching, but it damn sure isn't your videos. I can't wait to see what happens when this "relationship," implodes! Gonna be fun to watch!
we all see it. She's the most sour faced Thai woman i've seen. This guy comes across a little creepy when he's away from her. Way too much interest in other women. I cringe every time he calls her queen, he's no alpha male. I guess they deserve each other.
I've been coming to Thailand since 1980, I have seen this story over and over again. This guy has no clue what so ever. He's old enough to be her Father, this shit is hard to watch. Bring on the new vehicle and house.
I've said the same thing a few times! This guy is blind!
Wow man why so you project such doom on this guy ?
👎👎👎😥
Tony can I tell you my thoughts please number one you come across as a man that wouldn't cop crap number 2 pui has a funny sense of humour example in the shopping centre when she ordered 2000 Bhat you can tell she was joking and she is not stupid she would know how a lot of westerners think there all gold diggers so she played that role now thats a witty sense of humour just rubbing it in to all the haters so just keep up the great viewing and I know it's hard but ignore it you don't have to justify your love
😢 so sad....would you men want a girlfriend old enough to be yr mother? Im guessing that most of you wouldn't but these men insist on buying women much younger than them. She doesnt look happy just wants money.
as soon as the govt notice your monetized channel its bye bye to a visa. your wife knows this.
why?
If the channel is domiciled outside of Thailand I don't think there is an issue with Thai immigration....not 100% sure but that's my guess