Nene Leakes on Protecting Your Peace: ‘Why Do We Have to Be Silent About Things That Hurt?’

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  • Guest co-host Nene Leakes weighs in on the importance of not destroying your peace and how dire the situation would need to be before calling someone out.
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Комментарии • 176

  • @OnyxeBlade
    @OnyxeBlade 2 года назад +135

    Nene is absolutely right! People will read and believe what they want to believe. Even if you clearly stated your intentions

  • @darienlenderson7120
    @darienlenderson7120 2 года назад

    NeNe is on it!

  • @T412-r2h
    @T412-r2h 2 года назад

    That wig is everything nene.

  • @jessicathurston8899
    @jessicathurston8899 2 года назад

    NeNe 😍😍😍

  • @AishaandLife
    @AishaandLife 2 года назад +266

    🤣🤣 Nene’s imitations of the Instagram comments got me HOWLING! Social media really does test your peace. We have to be proactive in protecting ourselves and audit what we consume.

    • @jaehoya5965
      @jaehoya5965 2 года назад +7

      Listen, I have a HEADACHE from laughing so hard lmaooo omg she is hilarious

    • @MsHappy-xz2px
      @MsHappy-xz2px 2 года назад +2

      Absolutely 💯

  • @ermmabutler2224
    @ermmabutler2224 2 года назад +188

    I like NeNe on this show.She fits in perfect.She as well speaks her mind.Love the chemistry with her and Lonni.They keep it real.👌

  • @r.wilson2348
    @r.wilson2348 2 года назад +107

    The Real has been on point these last few weeks when it comes to some of these topics

  • @Loganne92
    @Loganne92 2 года назад +96

    That’s funny when she said garcelle only speaks up accordingly and that’s literally what she did in the segment. She didn’t speak up bc she did not care

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 2 года назад +30

      She’s very consistent 😂💕

    • @Loganne92
      @Loganne92 2 года назад +18

      @@MajesticMyronn she is. She’s so funny to me

    • @TheRedScareIsAlive
      @TheRedScareIsAlive 2 года назад +15

      It's how Sagittariuses are. If we don't care, we don't care...and it ain't changing over here. Nene is a Sagittarius too. She speaks when she has something to say...and sleeps when she doesn't care

    • @Loganne92
      @Loganne92 2 года назад +4

      @@TheRedScareIsAlive I don’t blame her either. Why waste your energy

    • @323mell
      @323mell 2 года назад +3

      @@TheRedScareIsAlive Nicki minaj is Sagittarius yup we dont care

  • @patboatman966
    @patboatman966 2 года назад +31

    Nene is a welcome addition to this show , she keeps it real I think that won her a few fans. I’m feeling “The View” vibes. I like it this week.

  • @yannickbreecetoni7418
    @yannickbreecetoni7418 2 года назад +46

    And that's why I love NeNe because she's exactly like me. I don't instantly react to situations, I take in a lot and when I react... It's an EXPLOSION

  • @fatimahconteh3971
    @fatimahconteh3971 2 года назад +60

    This is a facts protect your peace. Not everything needs a call out. Only very important and serious topics. Even then if the posing party disagrees let it go.

  • @KHerronCOMS
    @KHerronCOMS 2 года назад +13

    NeNe Leakes needs to be a permanent personality on this show. She’s good here.

  • @SabbigalAS
    @SabbigalAS 2 года назад +58

    What was that? Adrienne spoke her truth and Loni just abruptly & automatically switched to Nene telling her what she likes about her actions, WTH. Thanks for Nene directing it back to Adrienne.

    • @knoname1092
      @knoname1092 2 года назад +23

      Loni sometimes do too much. She try to control the show, and the flow of the show as if the Real show is the Loni show. She talk loud and laugh loud when Adrienne or Jennie are talking. I wish she could let the show flow organically. Also the real should change how the show exit at the end. She always lean on A like she is a coat rack or position everyone in the frame. She seems very nice and caring but it translates across tv as controlling.

    • @SabbigalAS
      @SabbigalAS 2 года назад +10

      @@knoname1092 I love all the ladies and I'm certain they care and really like each other, if not truly have love in their hearts for one another. It was just a bit weird to me. But we're all humans and can't be perfect: say and do all things right all the time, every single time. I know Loni loves A. I'm glad the lil digs at A have stopped though, at least I haven't been noticing them in the freq I was like the weeks before.

    • @spirit5228
      @spirit5228 2 года назад +16

      Adrienne usually talks too much. I guess loni had enough of her talking.

    • @323mell
      @323mell 2 года назад +6

      @@spirit5228 A does too much and says nothing

    • @erowo8767
      @erowo8767 2 года назад +2

      @@323mell she says alot, stop being a jobless troll

  • @KIDSFUNHOUSE123
    @KIDSFUNHOUSE123 2 года назад +23

    Nene is perfect.. keep her please

    • @tb5898
      @tb5898 2 года назад

      😓

  • @MariaHernandez-yg9md
    @MariaHernandez-yg9md 2 года назад +30

    Nene is right everyone should be proud of their culture 👏! Happy black history!

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever1990 2 года назад +18

    Nene seems to have calmed down glad to see that.

  • @Mikaelson_Royal
    @Mikaelson_Royal 2 года назад +9

    Garcelle and NeNe, like myself, are Saggs ♐... We do take a lot and when we do decide to speak up, we explode. That's an actual fact!

  • @CrystalMyLife
    @CrystalMyLife 2 года назад +16

    Love Nene on the show!!

  • @danyielsays4621
    @danyielsays4621 2 года назад +11

    I learned this at work! Ain't no coworker or boss gonna stop me from getting my bag, I ain't the real, I'm real fake to all them bitches 🤓I got bills to pay and friendships at work will not pay them!

  • @Boogiefizzie
    @Boogiefizzie 2 года назад +5

    What happened to “Keep your legs CLOSED to MARRIED men?!” The wife claims she and NeNe’s married boyfriend are NOT divorced NOR separated (which is STILL married FYI.) Is he divorced or is NeNe breaking her own cardinal rule of not disrespecting the sanctified union of marriage by committing adultery?

  • @withfatiimatou1519
    @withfatiimatou1519 2 года назад +12

    🤣🤣 I love garcelle she said she don’t caaaaaare

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 2 года назад +49

    I refuse to give anybody my power or energy… I am a natural care and willing to forgive but I don’t always forget ! Everyone is human and allowed to mess up… but if u fool me once…shame on you , fool me twice… shame on me ! I choose myself my peace and my happiness before anything else

    • @girlsgeneration9130
      @girlsgeneration9130 2 года назад

      you love putting all this energy in the real comments section tho 😂

  • @genialgigi1800
    @genialgigi1800 2 года назад +22

    You can call things out while protecting your peace. The part that's difficult is calling things out that cause you pain. That's when your close peeps and support system come into play. My two cents.

  • @puledoctormokoena415
    @puledoctormokoena415 2 года назад +18

    Okay Nene needs to stay… she fits in so well with these ladies

  • @shimmers1824
    @shimmers1824 2 года назад +14

    I love Nene doing Nene 😍 she is a gem to the culture and tv

  • @8luvbug
    @8luvbug 2 года назад +4

    Loni is so shady and phony

  • @bellawangari8557
    @bellawangari8557 2 года назад +8

    Nene is good for the show and also st the fashion police, she used to crack me up😂

  • @Queen-of-the-Burbs
    @Queen-of-the-Burbs 2 года назад +20

    Asking if she would call out discrimination is weird considering she called out Bravo for being racist a few years ago. Did they not know that ?

    • @munab3666
      @munab3666 2 года назад +3

      I almost feel like that questioning was a shady way of trying to get her to bring this up! You know old Lenethia would have, but this new calmer and trying to get back on RHOA Nene will not. And its super awkward because Garcelle is now working for Bravo 👀

    • @KL-nw9mi
      @KL-nw9mi 2 года назад

      Lon I wanted her to bring it up

    • @foulany7774
      @foulany7774 2 года назад +1

      Called Bravo and Andy every names in the book then turn around and wants to go back to them, weird especially since she claims she isn't hurting money and opportunity wise 🙃xxx

    • @YT-ph3qb
      @YT-ph3qb 2 года назад

      Well, that was the same day that Andy Cohen got the star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Coincidence? Maybe😉

    • @foulany7774
      @foulany7774 2 года назад

      @@YT-ph3qb
      Mind games 😒

  • @janwoburn447
    @janwoburn447 2 года назад +10

    Strong people can absorb a lot without complaining. What I learn though would be not to internalize everything people say and to filter out what's true and worthy of my energy and attention and I think a lot of hurt can be avoided

  • @Boujeekitty
    @Boujeekitty 2 года назад +14

    I love Adriennes ear piercings sm 💖 I NEED MORE 🥺

  • @TheChinadll
    @TheChinadll 2 года назад +5

    Nene is definitely a Sagittarius. I’m so like that. I will say nothing for a while then the final nail in the coffin and I will explode.

  • @LilyEliseOfficial
    @LilyEliseOfficial 2 года назад +32

    Nene is so perfect for this show

  • @mulke9939
    @mulke9939 2 года назад +5

    Nene is so hilariously shady 😭😭😭😭😭😭 4:58

  • @milovich7817
    @milovich7817 2 года назад +7

    I am here for Nene my favorite housewife hosting on my birthday !! I love her !!!!

  • @LockedInNOW
    @LockedInNOW 2 года назад +21

    I am like that with friends , this one EX friend of mines who I been friends with over 10 years and I just quietly cut her off without any explanation… because she knows what’s up and I know how you do , so why call you out?! I am just going to protect my inner peace !!!

    • @imperfectlyperfect3961
      @imperfectlyperfect3961 2 года назад +4

      I’ve done the same!!! You have to protect your inner being 💜

    • @LockedInNOW
      @LockedInNOW 2 года назад +2

      @@imperfectlyperfect3961 Its sad , but we have to do what we have to do 🤷🏾‍♂️ !

    • @anacreyes
      @anacreyes 2 года назад +3

      I cut off my close friend since middle school 2 years ago right after my 30th birthday. I became a mother right before pandemic and my priorities changed as the world around us did too, I realized that not everything needs a reaction, if it’s not bringing me peace or benefiting me or my family or we’re not building each other up it has to go! I chose myself and what’s understood doesn’t need to be explained.

    • @LockedInNOW
      @LockedInNOW 2 года назад +1

      @@anacreyes Did your bf act weird or bad vibes that made you cut them off , or did you just feel like the relationship naturally drifted apart ?!

    • @anacreyes
      @anacreyes 2 года назад +2

      @@LockedInNOW Yes! We drifted apart over the years at least on my end i felt that the relationship was forced in a way. I care about her and always supported her no matter what, in return she often criticized me, she seemed to be envious and just bad vibes honestly.

  • @heatherlynsey3092
    @heatherlynsey3092 2 года назад +6

    When Loni is really cracking up she rocks back and fourth and it is so funny 😂😂😂😂

  • @yessumyessum6624
    @yessumyessum6624 2 года назад +3

    Okay, I'll say it: NeNe looks so much like Tamar. I wonder if they'll keep her on The Real. She seems to fit so far.

  • @booojee4
    @booojee4 2 года назад +4

    Nene should be permanent on the view ..

  • @moimeself1088
    @moimeself1088 2 года назад +3

    Hi Loni. Been killing with most of your looks this season. Also did great with the styling at home during lockdown.💕💕🥰💃🏾
    Not loving the camo looks, though. 🙈

  • @MaikasCooking
    @MaikasCooking 2 года назад +7

    It's not an attack on you Nene. She was about to compliment you......

  • @DidiMuseri
    @DidiMuseri 2 года назад +10

    Nene leakes looks amazing 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Ronsayy
    @Ronsayy 2 года назад +38

    I love to see Nene back on the show❤

  • @SingerAntonioBlack
    @SingerAntonioBlack 2 года назад +4

    I like nene on here

  • @michelledyess138
    @michelledyess138 2 года назад +6

    I’m the first to comment❤️

  • @ClaudiaMabry
    @ClaudiaMabry 2 года назад +3

    Peace be still. Trust God. I am a Witness!

  • @FalenBauciquot
    @FalenBauciquot 2 года назад +7

    I LOVE NeNe on this show! I see her as a permanent host!

  • @victorbogen1558
    @victorbogen1558 2 года назад +2

    Dam Nene 54 wow! u a fine black womem! love her hair ooff! looking fantastic for 54! Nene looks 30 not 54 👌

  • @thatgirlshanti
    @thatgirlshanti 2 года назад +5

    Lmao not the comment imitations 😂

  • @miekaxiii
    @miekaxiii 2 года назад +3

    Personally I’m a big believer in protecting my peace, so I’ll let small stuff slide when it’s about me, I know karma and god will handle things for me BUT I’m really protective of the people I support, love and care about so don’t hurt my people because that I won’t let slide.

  • @munab3666
    @munab3666 2 года назад +3

    On twitter I am always calling garbage out. I can't see racist/sexist/misogynistic garbage and let it go. Unless its clear the person is a troll and does it for attention. Its why I regularly take twitter breaks, to protect my peace. I really sometimes let things get to me

  • @meeky0420
    @meeky0420 2 года назад +1

    Nenes nose is giving me Michael vibezzz

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson9219 2 года назад +1

    Why should we be silent about things that hurt!---Nene

  • @allisonlaroche626
    @allisonlaroche626 2 года назад +2

    Loni am watching you these days you are glowing.

  • @taylor7139
    @taylor7139 2 года назад +2

    Nene look good chyyy

  • @victorbogen1558
    @victorbogen1558 2 года назад +1

    Nene gonna be a fine old lade when she hits 60! 👌

  • @jeffmays5434
    @jeffmays5434 2 года назад +1

    I like Nene on the show better than girl who had the baby😕

  • @Desi-zz4gb
    @Desi-zz4gb 2 года назад +1

    Omg me abs ade are similar. When I peep I don't say nothing and leave

  • @ThankfullyBlessed777
    @ThankfullyBlessed777 Год назад +1

    My Girl NeNe

  • @ascendedprincess
    @ascendedprincess 2 года назад +1

    NeNe is so entertaining! She should be a permanent cohost!

  • @Boujeekitty
    @Boujeekitty 2 года назад +2

    If I’m thinking it I’m saying it lol 😝

  • @micheal6901
    @micheal6901 2 года назад +1

    Nene never looks so good. You look at peace. God bless you..

  • @kathleenweinberg6442
    @kathleenweinberg6442 2 года назад +2

    Just want Lonnie says and what Adrian says

  • @tlove4130
    @tlove4130 2 года назад +1

    I've learned this lesson in life.

  • @joshuacasey51
    @joshuacasey51 2 года назад +7

    Ohh Nene’s back!

  • @cynaraecolbert4192
    @cynaraecolbert4192 2 года назад +17

    I love Nene on the real congratulations I hope it lasts

  • @smoothcomplex3759
    @smoothcomplex3759 2 года назад

    Yup, Loni called Nene out as arrogant on a more recent clip.....and Nene boldfaced lied and said she wasn't.

  • @terrberrburr6848
    @terrberrburr6848 2 года назад

    Can somebody find some decent wigs for Darcelle, gosh! She is beautiful but her wigs are not.

  • @handu02
    @handu02 2 года назад

    Sorry if I'm late for this... but is Loni engaged? Or is she just wearing a normal ring on that finger?! 🤔🙂

  • @cherp7522
    @cherp7522 2 года назад

    I just wasted 5 minutes. This is so old, and dry, and boring, as if....

  • @j.c7719
    @j.c7719 2 года назад

    Wtf is wrong with saying ‘stop discrimination’, isn’t all discrimination wrong? That was a reach and a half.

  • @caenterprisellc6922
    @caenterprisellc6922 2 года назад

    I'm not silent about things that hurt. Those are lies coming from a serial liar. People will test your peace.

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 года назад +1

    2:57 for me if they don’t listen then it hurts more

  • @suemurray8840
    @suemurray8840 2 года назад

    Adrienne not saying anything? I cannot believe that because she is never quiet

  • @CJ-dg3bm
    @CJ-dg3bm 2 года назад

    Yes Adrianne that is how I am. We would be beasties I promise because we are so much alike

  • @ClaudiaMabry
    @ClaudiaMabry 2 года назад +1

    We have to choose our battles!

  • @spiritualgoddess958
    @spiritualgoddess958 2 года назад

    I feel they picked these topics just for Nene!!

  • @d.m2104
    @d.m2104 2 года назад

    Be humble sometimes things doesn’t need attention!

  • @larissam6279
    @larissam6279 2 года назад +1

    A great topic and the fits todaayyy!!!

  • @thembsy8618
    @thembsy8618 2 года назад +5

    Nene ❣️ speak up Queen

  • @STARZldnlyfe
    @STARZldnlyfe 2 года назад

    Nene got caught out now she tryna just brush over it

  • @maryjohnson8707
    @maryjohnson8707 2 года назад

    Nene looks so much better not being a blonde

  • @thanosave7112
    @thanosave7112 2 года назад

    why don’t nene friends tell her the truth ???

  • @brandonsturgill3589
    @brandonsturgill3589 2 года назад +1

    I wanna know how tamar feels about nene being on the show..

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 2 года назад +1

      She actually seems supportive she said “ y’all look so good 😍😍😍” she’s at peace at this point

  • @NicoleJButler
    @NicoleJButler 2 года назад

    I love Nene's ring!

  • @mariaanette2343
    @mariaanette2343 2 года назад

    What Nene was trying to say is...
    ✨ We're Black Every Day, Love✨
    If someone steals this I'm sueing
    - Ashley.b

  • @eliranpinhasov5940
    @eliranpinhasov5940 2 года назад +3

    There is no peace on social media
    That's why I don't have any of those.
    Only RUclips and watsapp.
    Love you Sherri nene!!!!🌹❤🇮🇱

  • @juliesampson4922
    @juliesampson4922 2 года назад

    Nene looks really good. This is a great forum for her. Brava!!!!....not Bravo 🤣🤣

  • @EBCommunity
    @EBCommunity 2 года назад

    Yooo yesss I see loni peeped that

  • @donttrymetryjesus4566
    @donttrymetryjesus4566 2 года назад

    "I hold everything in & When I speak I explode" my therapist said that's actually not Good. Gotta learn how to master your emotions and practice coping skills js

  • @chillbrutha82
    @chillbrutha82 2 года назад

    NeNe in those red bottoms.

  • @shitalkaur9750
    @shitalkaur9750 2 года назад

    It would be amazing to have a host from a different ethnicity to be added to the mix i.e. Arabic or South/SE/ East Asian..

  • @lenayahoti
    @lenayahoti 2 года назад

    Anybody else notice the ring on Loni's finger??? Am I reading into it too much? It's probably just for fashion but if she's engaged imma cry 🥺

  • @floortje368
    @floortje368 2 года назад

    Garcelle sup with the fashion today😔

  • @teprice2000
    @teprice2000 2 года назад

    Let NeNe live damn!

  • @thanosave7112
    @thanosave7112 2 года назад

    lonnie is gorgeous!

  • @marvininebartness8314
    @marvininebartness8314 2 года назад

    Ade you look soooo good

  • @MoniqueAguilarmicaela
    @MoniqueAguilarmicaela 2 года назад

    I dont like the " little fat woman" she must be changed for another one less opinionated, her comments are always said by yelling laughing so loudly,

  • @siosworld4064
    @siosworld4064 2 года назад +2

    I am a Sagittarius and I would call you out however I learn to control my tongue and protect my peace. I'll leave you let you think I am stupid.

  • @Worldshottestpariah
    @Worldshottestpariah 2 года назад

    Nene looks so good

  • @tls2267
    @tls2267 2 года назад

    Choose your battles wisely 💗 it. Look and walk away 💗