Common in my opinion has commitment issues and appears to like famous women . Jennifer did the right by not accepting Common’s phony proposal. Common n my opinion wanted to add her name and picture to his scrapbook of women he pretended to love. He appears to love himself only and has too many red flags.
I wouldn't say she's entirely smart because she should have done her homework before she got with him. That boy is a womanizer. She should have learned from what happened to Tiffany Haddish and him.
You knew the red flags was there before you opened your legs the first time so I don't understand. So I guess you playing games too why would she get involved
This is what gets on my last fvckin’ nerve about social media! If Jen had said yes to Common, y’all would be calling her stupid but she followed her mind, heart and the Voice of the Holy Spirit but she’s still stupid. There’s NO winning out in these Internet streets so I’m glad Jen shuts it all out and did what she thought was best for herself and her son!!
So what doesn't make any sense is if he didn't propose you would still be wasting your time so you just wanna be a part of the Playboy pass and experience what everybody else is getting or are you playing games yourself. Why get involved if you know the person's past and don't trust it. Sounds to me like she used him. Whatever we think common did doesn't make it right for you to do it. That woman is not at the age to be turning down proposals once you have money people will see money is not enough we are all meant to be with someone. It's hard for women over 40 to find someone seriously wanting to commit I got a feeling she'll end up alone.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with her making a decision that she feels is right for her, no matter what her age is! It's HER life and she obviously wasn't ready, maybe she just wasn't convinced that HE was truly ready! I'm proud of her for doing what was right for HER!
No!!You are really stupid for writing in making that comment. She has her own mind. She has gone thru enough trauma with how her family died and her previous marriage. I get it but stupid is not what we are talking about is why she turned him down. Common’s answers do not jive why he has finally want to marry. He is looking at what she is bring to the table. Instead he should have said what he is bringing to the table. I get that men always look at the woman but we and he should see what he is bringing. She should not be the bread winner. She had gone through that. Jennifer has a better option instead of Common plus his history is fowl. She has options and needs Simone who is not looking at what she has. He is fun but as a mate he is common!
You got to date someone to know them before it goes to marriage. Once she realized that this cannot lead to marriage she has the right to butt out. End of story
@@MarcAskew-q9i Yes that too and once she gets confirmation she needs to do what's best for her and her family. Who's to say that she isn't doing just that!!😉
Jen can have as many doubts as she wants. She's the only one on the inside. She has nothing to prove, she is who she is and owes no one to change her decision on marriage. That what's wrong with Hollywood now everybody has been with everybody and Common is known for his behavior toward women and commitment. I think Jen is doing what is fair and right for her, not the Hollywood glam. You Go Jen be TRUE to SELF not to those who are looking from the fish bowl.
I understand you are saying all of that but she chose to deal with him knowing all of that So what is the excuse where is the accountability looks like she's playing games too.
Amen!! I'm proud of her for not being so hooked on this "I needs me uh man!" mentality and is taking her time and living her life. Common has played all his life and now wants a Sugar Mama for his big age! Nope. She's better off being alone than being used and giving up half to this emotionally immature individual. I wish her true love and pure happiness, not this fake Hollywierd stuff that women are going for these days.
Right cause that son father took down and through there what women pays a man 250k in child support until he’s 18 yrs old and the bastard quit being a lawyer and wrestler and getting that kind of money 💰 from JHud smh
@jentamal567 This, I feel is the problem especially in modern dating. People get honed in on the wrong things. Personally, what she should be looking at is feedback from women in common's past. 99% have positive feedback. And yet, he wants to be with her. The red flag for me is J hudson who cheated and made her husband look really bad in the public eye. That's the red flag for me
GOOD Jennifer recognized what is obvious to the world about Carmon.. BUT she staged him in a way to capitalize off her saying no to his marriage proposal for her personal intentions to gain media coverage. After all she has not presented herself to be that AMERICAN IDOL WINNER SUCCESS STORY.....AS FANTASIA HAD for instance. She accepts less than what SHE THINKS she is capable of. And she realizes that no amount of AWARDS can make one be that REAL ARTIST. JUST ASK BEYONCE.
He has a lot of soul searching first ,he runs from woman to woman like a jack rabbit he's unsure of himself needs extensive therapy about his questionable relationship issues. She made a right decision 😊
Who even said there's been a proposal? The person running this channel? The one who put up the title for this video but never brought the receipts. What happened to "Jennifer reveals" 🤓😂 click bait and lies have dumbed downed people on the internet
Please allow common to enjoy the taste of his own medicine. For all the women that wanted him and he wasn't ready, guess what Jen is not ready. Now how does that make you feel?
He couldn't even say Jennifer's name🙄 when she asked the question he gave a surprised laugh and scratched his head.. Jennifer please avoid this COMMON mistake😏
I think since we dont know Jennifer's heart and desires concerning marriage, we should be supportive of her wanting to date even if it doesn't lead to marriage.
HE DATED SOME OF THE MOST SUCCESSFUL, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN IN THE INDUSTRY, BUT HE WASNT SATISFIED, HIS STANDARDS WERE SOOO HIGH WITH A TRAIL OF BROKEN HEARTS! WHAT GOES AROUND! COMES AROUND! RUN JENNIFER RUN! SMELLS LIKE ARROGANCE ! TO ME! IF YOU DIDNT HAVE WHAT YOU GOT! HE WOULDNT WANT CHA!!!!😮😮😮 LEAVE LIVE.AND LOVE, ON YOUR OWN TERMS!
Jennifer, please be careful...you have to much to loose... Common change women like changing underwear. I love you and I want the best for you and your family. ❤
Am I missing something? Didn’t common speak to her about marriage and if she wanted to or not. They’re in a relationship but where is the communication?? He said she humiliated him but if she told him she didn’t want to marry and he proposed thinking she’d change her mind… common needs common sense.
Common has never had it lol. I read his memoir! He admitted that Erykah Badu broke up with him but he wouldn’t let go. That’s why she started going public with the D.O.C because common wouldn’t leave her alone. He has some serious internal issues and idc how awful it sounds. Life isn’t always peachy. Not everyone will get married.
Jennifer is doing what’s best for her and her son. There is no need to be stuck paying alimony or having different men over her son. He will have to get over it. If he truly loves her, he will stay with her.
Says who? You? Cut it out. You don't know ANYTHING about their relationship. None of us do. We are on the outside looking in. Everyone is just speculating.
Jennifer Hudson is very spiritually connected and now pays attention to what is right for her. Leave that woman alone..geeze! The name fits! >> COMMON!
Right. So if that's the case, why remain dating him if you're not going to marry him for those types of reasons? Those reasons don't change. Those reasons make him not a good match for a spiritual person, so why even stay together? Because she's a fraud and a typical female playing hard to get. No didn't mean no. She just wants him to make a bigger gesture and stroke her ego longer.
Jen take more time to know him- you are not desperate love your self first God bless u and Family he needs to be baptized in the River Jordan good luck🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🙏
Who said Jennifer wanted to get married?? Why would anybody give her the “side eye” for dating someone who seemed as tho he didn’t want to be married either?? And, people change, he knew he wasn’t ready for marriage, so he never married. But if he’s ready now, they gotta work that out. Why is there so many snippy opinions about it??
I agree cause JHud probably chose him for that very reason. Marriage wasn’t never her MO. Who is Common that he can’t be turned down, what is he the prize cause he light skinned lol just kidding but not all women want to be married and he don’t have a good track record. She is smart and knows what she wants.
@@truthreligion774 👏🏾👏🏾 exactly!👏🏾👏🏾 that statement “she wants to back out now, when she knew how he was” is ridiculous. Doesn’t make any sense! And who knows if any of this is true🤷🏾♀️
Why is it the woman should be available and ready when the man says OK let do this ???? She also has questions about am I doing this too fast... let's slow this shit down....
Thank you for saying this!!!! I don’t get why once “he’s” ready, all of a sudden women are supposed to drop everything. Common is getting what he deserves. He left a trail of women behind who wanted marriage and I remember when he said: “I don’t think that I’d make good husband material” 🙄but you continuously kept dating & smashing. They’re never ready for marriage but ALWAYS READY for sex and babies out of wedlock!
I believe she entered the relationship with a pure heart and eyes wide open banking on his track record of NOT wanting to settle down and marry which aligned with her current desire
I think Jennifer is doing exactly what she needs to do for herself. If she's not ready , she's not ready. This is why a lot of marriages don't work. People marry when they have seen red flags and they say I Do , when they know they should be saying, I don't or I won't. She's doing it right!
Right, He just wants to get Jen lock down….then he’ll start cheating on her, breaking her heart putting her thru unnecessary BS. Leave that clown alone.
I think J-Hud should do what makes her happy. It is only 2 people in that relationship. You shouldn't judge her just because she didn't want to marry that man.
I like both Jennifer and Common. I've read some of the negative things she went through with her ex-husband, so I don't blame her for rejecting Common's proposal. I think he really loved her, and maybe (and that's a realllll small maybe) wanted to marry her. However, his record of breaking others women's hearts is a big turn off. So glad she bailed as soon as she noticed red flags. For once, Common got a taste of his own medicine, and it didn't taste good.
Jennifer should postpone marrying Common due to all the legendary women he's been involved with . Wait awhile. Also let her son help choose the man she will marry, Common is an opportunist. She will know with whom & when with the person. Blessings to her & sob;❤❤❤❤❤
He speak about what he's looking for, Every show he show upon he speaks about what Jennifer has, what is Jennifer looking for? what do you think would happen if Jennifer left the glam light lost everything? pull back girl so you can get a better view.
I don't believe he asked for her hand in marriage. That just doesn't fix what Common does with all of his famous women. Remember his mother is his Best Friend so why marry. He's a player so I call BS 😂😅😅😂
Jennifer is smart to not just jump into marriage! Nobody should. And, Common has a history just like every other human! There's nothing wrong with dating until you find the one that inspires forever! Sounds like he met his match with J Hudd 🖤 Praying God moves them both in the right direction 🙏🏾
He's not, he dates single, one woman at a time goofy, he's a serial dater, folks trying to clown him but don't even know what the heck they're writing!
There's nothing wrong with a little fun dating. If Jennifer didn't intended to get married it's perfectly fine. See in life there will always be that one person that you really want but couldn't have. Don't be bitter Common because you did it to plenty of women before.
He's older, wiser, reached a high level of success vs when he was still in grind mode, so he may be in the space where he's ready to be still but that may not mean marriage which is ok especially if they have no plans on having more children.
No one should be judging this man’s past. It doesn’t matter if he had 20 Partners. He seems like a good hearted guy and you can see he wants to settle down now. She should give him a chance. Get engaged for a year and if for somehow it don’t feel right you can always pull out. Sign them prenups. She’s probably waiting too until her son is in college. But you can tell Common he has puppy dog eyes for her it’s really cute.
What does Common have? Money No, Fame, not really. Common is no prize. Jennifer run , run like the wind. Jennifer concentrate on raising your son, and your career. Common needs 💗to return to Tiffany,.
Makes sense to me that if she doesn't want marriage, she would be happy dating someone who also doesn't want marriage. Then all of a sudden, after all the years and women, this dude is talking about he's the marrying kind? Nope. He's the one flipping the script and trying to get her to change her mind about marriage just so he can go back to not being the marrying kind again. I'm sure this is his way of breaking up with her. Propose so she can reject it and he then can blame her that it didn't work out. Then take his sob story to the next woman about how broken hearted he is. We've seen this play before Common. smh.
In 1971, The Persuaders released the ultimate female revenge song entitled, "(It's A) Thin Line Between Love And Hate". The song was about a man regretting spending his entire life cheating on women and breaking their hearts. He is warning other men not to live like he did because of what has happened to him. The last verse of the song goes like this: "Here I am laying in the hospital bandaged from feet to head, in a state of shock, just that much from being dead. I didn't think my woman could do something like this to me. I didn't think the girl had the nerve, but here I am. I guess actions speak louder than words."
This is her MO as well. She was engaged to David for 10 years, so she just might not be someone caught up in getting married. 🤷🏽♀️ Maybe Common found his match. Oprah has been with Stedman & never got married. It avoids a messy bitter divorce.
Jennifer should be adamant BECAUSE he thinks he is rescuing women, and ONCE he thinks he has helped a woman heal, it's time to BOUNCE!!! PLEASE JENNIFER,put yourself in an arena so that a MAN will want you and desire you simply for the favor GOD grants you with...heal my dear, ❤ love you. A Sister in CHRIST....😊
With Common's dating background, he should understand why Jennifer feels the way she feels. After all, he dated many women and did not want to marry them. So If he can't understand why she wouldn't want to marry, he's a walking red flag.
Common is like a pass around. He is not the long term husband man and he put himself in a position to not be trusted. Due to being with so many women in the industry, looks like he will be alone for a long time , thinking Hud is playing it safe seems like the smartest thing she could do.
He must know how to put it down or some of these women have low key issues because he is always with another high profile female. If him and Jennifer break up, I am wondering who will be the next one. I wonder how many have rejected him. We only hear about the ones who say yes.
From the outside looking in Common is only fooling himself if he wants to marry Jennifer. I think he’s tired of being asked about his extensive dating history and not settling down. It’s my opinion that Jennifer knew who and what she was getting from the beginning and didn’t expect ,much, if anything. She’s the one in the relationship with him and if she’s not ready to marry him, she doesn’t have to be. Let her/them figure out their relationship, it’s not for us to tell her to get married to someone if she isn’t ready. #Common #Common sense
OMG…but Common SO FINE & INTELLIGENT tho! 😩 💯 She KNEW what she was getting when she gut him! 🤷🏽♀️ All I can say is: Use your woman’s instinct & TRUST YOUR GUT CHILE!
Jennifer will never be nobody's fool as y'all can see and she is so smart and private with her life and her relationship because she went through so much and she is dealing with a lot of pain with inside and she lost her mother and her brother and her nephew when she was at the awards and that is so sad and don't none of us knows what she is going through n life 💯 and maybe we all need 2 mind our own businesses and figure out our own life instead of being in other people's relationships and business that maybe not true ijs b mindful and put all that energy n2 your own relationship and business i am not trying 2 b mean i am just trying 2 speak facts
True it's none of our business we really should concentrate on our own life and let them live there's. Wish the best for them and be happy in our lives.
Jennifer has been married, divorced, and has a son. Jennifer is just looking for having fun and intimacy. Common is perfect for that. He cannot settle down and get married, nor does he want kids. So, this is the perfect match. Common is not use to this type of woman, so he will fall hard for her. Common gets off on making the women cry, Jennifer doesn't want his proposal or baby.
Don't make the future pay for what the past did......... Relationship is work, pain, love, commitment, give and take....etc.......Looking backwards can let you miss out on future .
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Common in my opinion has commitment issues and appears to like famous women . Jennifer did the right by not accepting Common’s phony proposal. Common n my opinion wanted to add her name and picture to his scrapbook of women he pretended to love. He appears to love himself only and has too many red flags.
Apparently famous women like him too😮😮
It gives him a reason to continue to serial date
I'm just glad that she threw him out before he left her. 🤣👍🏽
Jennifer run 🏃🏾♀️ run 🏃🏾♀️ period!
I don’t even know why is still dating common ! He is not a man for her! He is just opportunist period
Proud of her! She's smart to not marry Common!
Who checking for her???????
So why still date then
I wouldn't say she's entirely smart because she should have done her homework before she got with him. That boy is a womanizer. She should have learned from what happened to Tiffany Haddish and him.
Don't do it Jen.
@@johndockery9681every dude in your family.🤣
No need to marry once you’ve seen the red flags 🚩
You knew the red flags was there before you opened your legs the first time so I don't understand. So I guess you playing games too why would she get involved
@@hottrakz I agree. She apparently knows but she still continues to the relationship so yes Jennifer is with the foolishness too
TRUE DAT!
@@hottrakzfacts
Then why date him then.
This is what gets on my last fvckin’ nerve about social media! If Jen had said yes to Common, y’all would be calling her stupid but she followed her mind, heart and the Voice of the Holy Spirit but she’s still stupid. There’s NO winning out in these Internet streets so I’m glad Jen shuts it all out and did what she thought was best for herself and her son!!
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So what doesn't make any sense is if he didn't propose you would still be wasting your time so you just wanna be a part of the Playboy pass and experience what everybody else is getting or are you playing games yourself. Why get involved if you know the person's past and don't trust it. Sounds to me like she used him. Whatever we think common did doesn't make it right for you to do it. That woman is not at the age to be turning down proposals once you have money people will see money is not enough we are all meant to be with someone. It's hard for women over 40 to find someone seriously wanting to commit I got a feeling she'll end up alone.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with her making a decision that she feels is right for her, no matter what her age is! It's HER life and she obviously wasn't ready, maybe she just wasn't convinced that HE was truly ready! I'm proud of her for doing what was right for HER!
No!!You are really stupid for writing in making that comment. She has her own mind. She has gone thru enough trauma with how her family died and her previous marriage. I get it but stupid is not what we are talking about is why she turned him down. Common’s answers do not jive why he has finally want to marry. He is looking at what she is bring to the table. Instead he should have said what he is bringing to the table. I get that men always look at the woman but we and he should see what he is bringing. She should not be the bread winner. She had gone through that. Jennifer has a better option instead of Common plus his history is fowl. She has options and needs Simone who is not looking at what she has. He is fun but as a mate he is common!
Exactly I was thinking the same thing
Jenifer is intelligent enough to know that he is not ready for marriage. Run Jenifer run.
But not intelligent enough to not date him after deciding to not marry him. Ok.
Then why date him.
@@nayjavubenefit of the doubt of the gossip she gave him a chance as a good Christian will do - don't hate or persecute a good woman for trying.
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You got to date someone to know them before it goes to marriage.
Once she realized that this cannot lead to marriage she has the right to butt out.
End of story
Common is full of mess don't worry Jennifer he isn't the marrying type. Jennifer is too good for Common.
Stop defending these fake Holly weird folks
She is!! She needs to marry who she feels is the one truly for her.
@@Sheri_J No she needs to lean and depend on the Lord
@@MarcAskew-q9i Yes that too and once she gets confirmation she needs to do what's best for her and her family. Who's to say that she isn't doing just that!!😉
@@Sheri_J She hast to come from among them and be ye separate
Jen can have as many doubts as she wants. She's the only one on the inside. She has nothing to prove, she is who she is and owes no one to change her decision on marriage. That what's wrong with Hollywood now everybody has been with everybody and Common is known for his behavior toward women and commitment. I think Jen is doing what is fair and right for her, not the Hollywood glam. You Go Jen be TRUE to SELF not to those who are looking from the fish bowl.
I understand you are saying all of that but she chose to deal with him knowing all of that So what is the excuse where is the accountability looks like she's playing games too.
Amen!! I'm proud of her for not being so hooked on this "I needs me uh man!" mentality and is taking her time and living her life. Common has played all his life and now wants a Sugar Mama for his big age! Nope. She's better off being alone than being used and giving up half to this emotionally immature individual. I wish her true love and pure happiness, not this fake Hollywierd stuff that women are going for these days.
Right cause that son father took down and through there what women pays a man 250k in child support until he’s 18 yrs old and the bastard quit being a lawyer and wrestler and getting that kind of money 💰 from JHud smh
Woman pays a man. Is it ok when it's vice versa? 🙄@@clareathabonner7178
@jentamal567 This, I feel is the problem especially in modern dating. People get honed in on the wrong things. Personally, what she should be looking at is feedback from women in common's past. 99% have positive feedback. And yet, he wants to be with her. The red flag for me is J hudson who cheated and made her husband look really bad in the public eye. That's the red flag for me
She might have seen some red flags. Girl that women's intuition doesn't lie.
Common is too common. He's a walking red flag!
GOOD Jennifer recognized what is obvious to the world about Carmon..
BUT she staged him in a way to capitalize off her saying no to his marriage proposal for her personal intentions to gain media coverage. After all she has not presented herself to be that AMERICAN IDOL WINNER SUCCESS STORY.....AS FANTASIA HAD for instance.
She accepts less than what SHE THINKS she is capable of. And she realizes that no amount of AWARDS can make one be that REAL ARTIST. JUST ASK BEYONCE.
A walking red flag indeed!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Damn !
Why is he a red flag? Common is young single and free. Why shouldn't he enjoy his life? He’s just dating isn't what you are supposed to do?
sounds like he didn't want sign a prenup. Common think he slick lol😂
That boy ain't marrying nobody
He might, but won't like it. 😅
Exactly
He has a lot of soul searching first ,he runs from woman to woman like a jack rabbit he's unsure of himself needs extensive therapy about his questionable relationship issues. She made a right decision 😊
Right he is a conman name Common
U made me LOL! 🤣😂
Dating is one thing, Engagement is another. Good for her, she is making the right decision for her!
Who even said there's been a proposal? The person running this channel? The one who put up the title for this video but never brought the receipts. What happened to "Jennifer reveals" 🤓😂 click bait and lies have dumbed downed people on the internet
Jennifer talked to Oprah ❗😂 Oprah said take a page out my book Jen don't do it ‼️😂 #JOKE😭
Yes!!! She definitely listened to Oprah 👏🏽❤👍🏾❤️❤️❤️
Please allow common to enjoy the taste of his own medicine. For all the women that wanted him and he wasn't ready, guess what Jen is not ready. Now how does that make you feel?
👏👏👏👏👏this the comment
8:54 EXACTLY!
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Common was just calling her bluff because he knows that Jennifer knows he's not ready to marry no one
He couldn't even say Jennifer's name🙄 when she asked the question he gave a surprised laugh and scratched his head.. Jennifer please avoid this COMMON mistake😏
Okay that's ridiculous, obviously they talked about it.
She needs that other kind of man. Grown, stable and valuable.
I think since we dont know Jennifer's heart and desires concerning marriage, we should be supportive of her wanting to date even if it doesn't lead to marriage.
HE DATED SOME OF THE MOST SUCCESSFUL, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN IN THE INDUSTRY, BUT HE WASNT SATISFIED, HIS STANDARDS WERE SOOO HIGH WITH A TRAIL OF BROKEN HEARTS! WHAT GOES AROUND! COMES AROUND! RUN JENNIFER RUN! SMELLS LIKE ARROGANCE ! TO ME! IF YOU DIDNT HAVE WHAT YOU GOT! HE WOULDNT WANT CHA!!!!😮😮😮 LEAVE LIVE.AND LOVE, ON YOUR OWN TERMS!
Jennifer, please be careful...you have to much to loose... Common change women like changing underwear. I love you and I want the best for you and your family. ❤
I will never believe any relationship he gets into so long as it's with a famous black woman. Same ol-same ol.
Johnathan Major also
Am I missing something? Didn’t common speak to her about marriage and if she wanted to or not. They’re in a relationship but where is the communication?? He said she humiliated him but if she told him she didn’t want to marry and he proposed thinking she’d change her mind… common needs common sense.
Common has infantile mentality. This guy is toxic with dark energy and Jennifer found that out for herself..period!
That one
Common has never had it lol. I read his memoir! He admitted that Erykah Badu broke up with him but he wouldn’t let go.
That’s why she started going public with the D.O.C because common wouldn’t leave her alone.
He has some serious internal issues and idc how awful it sounds. Life isn’t always peachy. Not everyone will get married.
Common has been passed around, chile 😩😩😩
Passed around like most men, only difference he's famous and his business is made public...
He is community property and that belongs in the waste bin
If she does not want to marry so be it. They don't have to break up because of it.She just don't want to get married.I don't blame her
Right
sounds like non of my business but i wish them both very well.
It seems like J. Hud is running scared. But, you never know what goes on behind closed doors.
exactly-she had her reasons and it's her life-people need to mind their business fr!
Jennifer is doing what’s best for her and her son. There is no need to be stuck paying alimony or having different men over her son. He will have to get over it. If he truly loves her, he will stay with her.
Run Girl, RUN and don't, look back.
Jennifer Hudson hasn’t been with Common long enough to make a lifetime commitment to him.
You are exactly right!!!! I wouldn't marry him.
Says who? You? Cut it out. You don't know ANYTHING about their relationship. None of us do. We are on the outside looking in. Everyone is just speculating.
1 year and 1/2 is NOT long enough 🚫
I absolutely agree with you 😮
@@mizzvonh3032: Yes. I say so. And? The comment section is for opinions, beeyahtch. 🤡
Jennifer Hudson is very spiritually connected and now pays attention to what is right for her. Leave that woman alone..geeze! The name fits! >> COMMON!
Yeah right
Right. So if that's the case, why remain dating him if you're not going to marry him for those types of reasons? Those reasons don't change. Those reasons make him not a good match for a spiritual person, so why even stay together? Because she's a fraud and a typical female playing hard to get. No didn't mean no. She just wants him to make a bigger gesture and stroke her ego longer.
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Jen take more time to know him- you are not desperate love your self first God bless u and Family he needs to be baptized in the River Jordan good luck🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🙏
@@bridgettulloch7615 He needs to be delivered just like Jennifer from those demons
Sometimes its just best to look, flirt and keep moving
Who said Jennifer wanted to get married?? Why would anybody give her the “side eye” for dating someone who seemed as tho he didn’t want to be married either?? And, people change, he knew he wasn’t ready for marriage, so he never married. But if he’s ready now, they gotta work that out. Why is there so many snippy opinions about it??
I agree cause JHud probably chose him for that very reason. Marriage wasn’t never her MO. Who is Common that he can’t be turned down, what is he the prize cause he light skinned lol just kidding but not all women want to be married and he don’t have a good track record. She is smart and knows what she wants.
@@truthreligion774 👏🏾👏🏾 exactly!👏🏾👏🏾 that statement “she wants to back out now, when she knew how he was” is ridiculous. Doesn’t make any sense! And who knows if any of this is true🤷🏾♀️
Right, it’s ok to date to have a good time with someone. Not every relationship has to move forward to marriage.
@@reaf2565 👏🏾Facts!
@@reaf2565THIS!!!! 🎯
Her saying No is his karma!!
Why is it the woman should be available and ready when the man says OK let do this ???? She also has questions about am I doing this too fast... let's slow this shit down....
Thank you for saying this!!!! I don’t get why once “he’s” ready, all of a sudden women are supposed to drop everything.
Common is getting what he deserves. He left a trail of women behind who wanted marriage and I remember when he said: “I don’t think that I’d make good husband material” 🙄but you continuously kept dating & smashing.
They’re never ready for marriage but ALWAYS READY for sex and babies out of wedlock!
I believe she entered the relationship with a pure heart and eyes wide open banking on his track record of NOT wanting to settle down and marry which aligned with her current desire
I think Jennifer is doing exactly what she needs to do for herself. If she's not ready , she's not ready. This is why a lot of marriages don't work. People marry when they have seen red flags and they say I Do , when they know they should be saying, I don't or I won't. She's doing it right!
I agree
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I think she is doing the right thing aswell
Common is not marrying anyone but himself and Jennifer is definitely to good for Common he is looking for a come up! Common is a big ZERO with looks!
So right. Jennifer keep doing you.. she's too good to be with common.
Whew chile she dodged a bullet. Now days we women need to be sure before we jump into these situations.
Common is a player
Right, He just wants to get Jen lock down….then he’ll start cheating on her, breaking her heart putting her thru unnecessary BS. Leave that clown alone.
Then why even date him.
@@lc-il6wr Ask Jen That!
Common by name and by nature
Chile🤦🏿♀️….,Common has slept with the entire industry😩!
Exactly
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Him AND Nick Cannon
Not me😫
She deserves much better
It’s okay to NOT be the marrying type. Just accept and admit it!!! He definitely isn’t husband material.
Jennifer is Fabulous. As adults , they both know what they want and need in their lives . So the public just needs to respect their decisions.
Common looking like Lionel Richie 🎶 Dancing on the ceiling 🎶 looking ahss. 😂
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Hell naw but Rt 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hshahahahahahahahahs I'm laughing my behind over here! Lionel Richie!!? Lol
He ain't ready. Another notch.
She's a grown woman. She knew what she was getting herself into.
50 yr old man doesn't change.
I think J-Hud should do what makes her happy. It is only 2 people in that relationship. You shouldn't judge her just because she didn't want to marry that man.
Run Jennifer Run🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
I'm betting Common thought his charm would make Jennifer not ask him to sign a prenup😂😂 lol he ain't slick.
This my cousin and considering what she has been thru, she deserves to take her time. It’s her life and choice. Team Jhud😊
So true. I wish her the best, she is the best.
I like both Jennifer and Common. I've read some of the negative things she went through with her ex-husband, so I don't blame her for rejecting Common's proposal.
I think he really loved her, and maybe (and that's a realllll small maybe) wanted to marry her. However, his record of breaking others women's hearts is a big turn off. So glad she bailed as soon as she noticed red flags. For once, Common got a taste of his own medicine, and it didn't taste good.
Jennifer should postpone marrying Common due to all the legendary women he's been involved with . Wait awhile. Also let her son help choose the man she will marry, Common is an opportunist. She will know with whom & when with the person. Blessings to her & sob;❤❤❤❤❤
He speak about what he's looking for, Every show he show upon he speaks about what Jennifer has, what is Jennifer looking for? what do you think would happen if Jennifer left the glam light lost everything? pull back girl so you can get a better view.
You're not very sharp...are you? 🤔🤔🙄🙄🙄
Every woman has a gut feeling. Trust you gut If you are not feeling it , run
I don't believe he asked for her hand in marriage. That just doesn't fix what Common does with all of his famous women. Remember his mother is his Best Friend so why marry. He's a player so I call BS 😂😅😅😂
Run Jennifer, RUN!
He’s Mr Secret -Secret. That answer was kind of hard for him to get out . He’s struggling like he’s reading a script . 😮😢
Jennifer is smart to not just jump into marriage! Nobody should. And, Common has a history just like every other human! There's nothing wrong with dating until you find the one that inspires forever! Sounds like he met his match with J Hudd 🖤 Praying God moves them both in the right direction 🙏🏾
That man is fos😂 the way he danced around that question makes Michael Jackson’s head spin
Common did not say Yes" quick enough for me on marriage.
Everybody else has wanted a proposal and she’s the one who got it don’t want shit
Common is a SERIAL POLYGAMIST.
He's not, he dates single, one woman at a time goofy, he's a serial dater, folks trying to clown him but don't even know what the heck they're writing!
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Serial Monogamous
@@ogriss412 right lol 😂
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Run Jennifer he is not a commited guy focus onn u our self and your son and nephews... dont never marry comon.
don't do it Jen, he has some type of problem on the inside, follow your mind Jen, it's telling you that for a reason
You forgot Kerry Washington 🙃
Follow your heart JHud. Listen to your spirit mind. ❤❤❤Don’t let anyone pressure you into something you don’t want. Blessings to her.
And to him.
There's nothing wrong with a little fun dating. If Jennifer didn't intended to get married it's perfectly fine. See in life there will always be that one person that you really want but couldn't have. Don't be bitter Common because you did it to plenty of women before.
Male example of "Ran Through" 😂
He's older, wiser, reached a high level of success vs when he was still in grind mode, so he may be in the space where he's ready to be still but that may not mean marriage which is ok especially if they have no plans on having more children.
No one should be judging this man’s past. It doesn’t matter if he had 20
Partners. He seems like a good hearted guy and you can see he wants to settle down now. She should give him a chance. Get engaged for a year and if for somehow it don’t feel right you can always pull out. Sign them prenups. She’s probably waiting too until her son is in college. But you can tell Common he has puppy dog eyes for her it’s really cute.
He seems to have a mean streak, when things don't go his way.
Right now let's see how long he will wait
YES!!! Very much so!!!
O! Allegedly he just can not use the C word...Committment!😮😮😮😊😊
Stay away Jen ...he's bad news 😕
What does Common have? Money No, Fame, not really. Common is no prize. Jennifer run , run like the wind. Jennifer concentrate on raising your son, and your career. Common needs 💗to return to Tiffany,.
I think he wanted her to boost his image!
just to use her!
Makes sense to me that if she doesn't want marriage, she would be happy dating someone who also doesn't want marriage. Then all of a sudden, after all the years and women, this dude is talking about he's the marrying kind? Nope. He's the one flipping the script and trying to get her to change her mind about marriage just so he can go back to not being the marrying kind again.
I'm sure this is his way of breaking up with her. Propose so she can reject it and he then can blame her that it didn't work out. Then take his sob story to the next woman about how broken hearted he is. We've seen this play before Common. smh.
Yup
Thank you Jennifer for keeping your eyes open and protecting your heart
Trust God he will never lead you astray
Forever loving you
Be Blessed
Why can't she date him because she likes him but still do not want to get married.
In 1971, The Persuaders released the ultimate female revenge song entitled, "(It's A) Thin Line Between Love And Hate". The song was about a man regretting spending his entire life cheating on women and breaking their hearts. He is warning other men not to live like he did because of what has happened to him. The last verse of the song goes like this: "Here I am laying in the hospital bandaged from feet to head, in a state of shock, just that much from being dead. I didn't think my woman could do something like this to me. I didn't think the girl had the nerve, but here I am. I guess actions speak louder than words."
Its hard for high profile relationships to last. Wishing them both well in all their endeavors.
David Otunga looks toxic. He was a non-working lawyer from a reality show. Chile, please 👎🏾
He had a cold spirit 😡
This is her MO as well. She was engaged to David for 10 years, so she just might not be someone caught up in getting married. 🤷🏽♀️ Maybe Common found his match. Oprah has been with Stedman & never got married. It avoids a messy bitter divorce.
2024, Jennifer, being a grown woman that should be her decision. Being her life, that would also be her business.
Enjoy Each Other! Have Fun!!!!
To Hell With Media's Opinion 😮
Goooooo Girl!
Jenifer did good by not accepting his proposal. He has commitments issues. He seems like he gets bored and move on from flower to flower.
Jennifer should be adamant BECAUSE he thinks he is rescuing women, and ONCE he thinks he has helped a woman heal, it's time to BOUNCE!!! PLEASE JENNIFER,put yourself in an arena so that a MAN will want you and desire you simply for the favor GOD grants you with...heal my dear, ❤ love you. A Sister in CHRIST....😊
With Common's dating background, he should understand why Jennifer feels the way she feels. After all, he dated many women and did not want to marry them. So If he can't understand why she wouldn't want to marry, he's a walking red flag.
You said something very profound. He dated many women and did want to marry any of them. Then he must consider Jennifer very special.
All I can is lets wait and see…Common has icy feet…lol…but you never know…lol😂
Common is like a pass around. He is not the long term husband man and he put himself in a position to not be trusted. Due to being with so many women in the industry, looks like he will be alone for a long time , thinking Hud is playing it safe seems like the smartest thing she could do.
He must know how to put it down or some of these women have low key issues because he is always with another high profile female. If him and Jennifer break up, I am wondering who will be the next one. I wonder how many have rejected him. We only hear about the ones who say yes.
From the outside looking in Common is only fooling himself if he wants to marry Jennifer. I think he’s tired of being asked about his extensive dating history and not settling down. It’s my opinion that Jennifer knew who and what she was getting from the beginning and didn’t expect ,much, if anything. She’s the one in the relationship with him and if she’s not ready to marry him, she doesn’t have to be. Let her/them figure out their relationship, it’s not for us to tell her to get married to someone if she isn’t ready. #Common #Common sense
Common is undercover crazy...
OMG…but Common SO FINE & INTELLIGENT tho! 😩 💯
She KNEW what she was getting when she gut him! 🤷🏽♀️ All I can say is: Use your woman’s instinct & TRUST YOUR GUT CHILE!
She said she was not getting married. He probably got with her BECAUSE he knew she wasn't gonna go for a ring. Otherwise he wouldn't have asked.
There is "no time line" on when an individual can cast doubts regarding a relationship.
Jennifer will never be nobody's fool as y'all can see and she is so smart and private with her life and her relationship because she went through so much and she is dealing with a lot of pain with inside and she lost her mother and her brother and her nephew when she was at the awards and that is so sad and don't none of us knows what she is going through n life 💯 and maybe we all need 2 mind our own businesses and figure out our own life instead of being in other people's relationships and business that maybe not true ijs b mindful and put all that energy n2 your own relationship and business i am not trying 2 b mean i am just trying 2 speak facts
True it's none of our business we really should concentrate on our own life and let them live there's. Wish the best for them and be happy in our lives.
Well said
Run girl run.....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Common, Serena has been the best all around lady you dated.
She shouldn't have even given him her time - He's not the one - she deserves better!!
Jennifer has been married, divorced, and has a son. Jennifer is just looking for having fun and intimacy. Common is perfect for that. He cannot settle down and get married, nor does he want kids. So, this is the perfect match. Common is not use to this type of woman, so he will fall hard for her. Common gets off on making the women cry, Jennifer doesn't want his proposal or baby.
Fyi Jennifer Hudson was never married she was engaged
Jennifer never married her sons father.
No she hasn't. She waisted Mr Otunga's time
The word is wasted, and she didn't waste his time she just got wiser
She was engaged to her son's father they were never married
Don't think she should marry him. When people show you they are believed them.
I never saw a connection.
Yes she should have doubts...I would... Westcoast Listening 🙏🎧
And already he wants to pop the question. Sure yeah right get out of town
HE'S A FISH AND THERE'S JUST TOO MANY FISH IN THE SEA, (No Pun intended)
Don't make the future pay for what the past did......... Relationship is work, pain, love, commitment, give and take....etc.......Looking backwards can let you miss out on future .
I think she'll be alright. Common will just move on to the next one.