Ah the romanticisation of long distance relationships as doomed. Reality is quite different. Btw Aparna, there is a name for couples like us, we are both in commuter marriages :) I am glad you did this video not because people have right to know about your private life but because when people assume the worst about your relationship it is time to show solidarity and say, women also pursue careers and commitments and there is nothing wrong with that and I am proud of my partner for being secure even if we are geographically apart. There are other couples like us.
It is indeed good that your long-distance relationship is going strong. May it continue to be so. A certain distance does creep in, in long-distance relationships whether between a couple or parents and kids and if one is comfortable with that distance creeping in, fine. But it also leads to splits in couples simply because they end up leading separate lives and the first people to share their joys or sorrows is not each other but some other people who are physically present in their life. Some couples also meet interesting people in real life with whom they start hanging out often and over time the long-distance relationship gets strained. This scenario is also quite common. So, I would advise caution in long-term long-distance relationships. In the short term, absence may make the heart grow fonder but in the long term, out of sight, out of mind is also often true. :-)
Would like to share a few tips: Graggle lukewarm water with salt in it twice or thrice in a day Take steam everyday and with eculytus oil on alternate days.. Include lemon juices in your daily diet.. Some tips that i follow which help me and my family.. my mom and sis are doctors in govt hospital at kerala and my hubby and bro in law are managers in bank and my father in law works at airport.. we do this daily... u guys too try these our
Ahahaha... I think I know the video where the RUclipsr speaks about being strong and smiling is overrated. But my experience of having lived in a tiny 2 bhk all by myself for 5 months last year and having lost a lot of near and dear friends and family members, as far as even dressing up my friend's mother who passed away because no one else would, I think going through the process of depression and trauma and surviving it is more important than how we do it. Also not everyone can be strong as every other person and that's okay. Also, it is a phase and not a choice for some of us. Also, people with anxiety issues can't smile it out. As much as I agree with you about counting your blessings it is also important to accept tragedy and pain and let going through it make you stronger for the future. Having also survived abuse in the past I can assure anyone going through grief, surviving it is important. So Aparna, I love your positivity but I have to agree with her about going through the process of grief in our own way is essential. Yes, crying helps, shouting and screaming too. Love you Aparna, please don't take it otherwise. I really look upto you. I just think it's essential for both of us to acknowledge another perspective. Also I know you stand for honesty and that's what am doing. Lots of love.😊🤗❤
You are right . Going thru the process of grieving is very important. Not everyone benefits from staying calm in the immediate aftermath and bottling things up....Aparna meant well and as a yogini , perhaps that is the best and ideal route if you are able to do so ....but definitely does not apply to all.
Yes of course everyone has their own way of dealing with life situations, and to each his own. I am simply sharing what works for me, and how I have been trained by my gurus. Thanks so much for your understanding.
And it was not just about the RUclipsr( let’s not bother guessing pls ) , I have heard it commonly, and I totally understand if someone feels that way too. To each how own, always!
Aparna, we all love you so much for the person you are and we all wish you a very happy blessed life of togetherness with your husband. Your kids need their dad with them more than school. After a few years, when they look back and recall their sweet times with their parents, they should not regret that they were able to live their childhood only with one parent. They need their father as much as they need education. Please do take this in a positive note and ask him also to stay back with family in Coimbatore as Mumbai and other areas are flooded with covid cases. Much love and a whole life of happiness to both of you as parents and your kids.. - Sushmitha
My father inlaw passed away yesterday due to covid and I could not even go and visit the family with my husband because of the current situation.i dont know what should I even think in the current situation I am just messing up at my work due to my anxiety and depression. I dont know when we will be back to normal.
I feel you, Nisha. So sorry for your loss. Hang in there for a while The situation should get better after a month. We're hoping to see a downward trajectory by mid may. 🤗
Take time to grieve Nisha. These things do hurt deeply, but ultimately birth and death are in God's hands. No one's sorrow can be measured and hence each person takes a different time in getting over grief. Once the raw pain of losing someone subsides in a few days or weeks, reading about grief management helps greatly as opposed to trying to say to yourself repeatedly "I am going to stay positive". It is alright to wallow in grief. As time passes, the brain itself lets you divert from the sorrow temporarily which helps in healing. No two people's journey out of bereavement is the same. Take care and take a few days off from work if that helps. For some people, working provides an outlet to divert the mind. But if you are unable to focus at work, don't feel guilty about taking time off to sort your emotions.
We all including my 7 year old are Covid positive...he was not acute...but we both suffered badly and right now I have admitted him as his oxygen level was going down abnormally....am now just wishing his Ghar vapsy asap
Hey Aparna, I really enjoy your videos. But the background music is a little distracting, I must mention! I hope you in the next video, we get to hear just you! Lots of love! Take care!
Ah the romanticisation of long distance relationships as doomed. Reality is quite different. Btw Aparna, there is a name for couples like us, we are both in commuter marriages :)
I am glad you did this video not because people have right to know about your private life but because when people assume the worst about your relationship it is time to show solidarity and say, women also pursue careers and commitments and there is nothing wrong with that and I am proud of my partner for being secure even if we are geographically apart. There are other couples like us.
It is indeed good that your long-distance relationship is going strong. May it continue to be so. A certain distance does creep in, in long-distance relationships whether between a couple or parents and kids and if one is comfortable with that distance creeping in, fine. But it also leads to splits in couples simply because they end up leading separate lives and the first people to share their joys or sorrows is not each other but some other people who are physically present in their life.
Some couples also meet interesting people in real life with whom they start hanging out often and over time the long-distance relationship gets strained. This scenario is also quite common. So, I would advise caution in long-term long-distance relationships. In the short term, absence may make the heart grow fonder but in the long term, out of sight, out of mind is also often true. :-)
Working and listening to you/watching you is JOY 🤩 thank you! ❤️
Awww... 😊 thank uuu
Would like to share a few tips:
Graggle lukewarm water with salt in it twice or thrice in a day
Take steam everyday and with eculytus oil on alternate days..
Include lemon juices in your daily diet..
Some tips that i follow which help me and my family.. my mom and sis are doctors in govt hospital at kerala and my hubby and bro in law are managers in bank and my father in law works at airport.. we do this daily... u guys too try these our
Just stay positive Aparna that is all what matters in life . I support u🤗
Ahahaha... I think I know the video where the RUclipsr speaks about being strong and smiling is overrated. But my experience of having lived in a tiny 2 bhk all by myself for 5 months last year and having lost a lot of near and dear friends and family members, as far as even dressing up my friend's mother who passed away because no one else would, I think going through the process of depression and trauma and surviving it is more important than how we do it. Also not everyone can be strong as every other person and that's okay. Also, it is a phase and not a choice for some of us. Also, people with anxiety issues can't smile it out. As much as I agree with you about counting your blessings it is also important to accept tragedy and pain and let going through it make you stronger for the future. Having also survived abuse in the past I can assure anyone going through grief, surviving it is important. So Aparna, I love your positivity but I have to agree with her about going through the process of grief in our own way is essential. Yes, crying helps, shouting and screaming too. Love you Aparna, please don't take it otherwise. I really look upto you. I just think it's essential for both of us to acknowledge another perspective. Also I know you stand for honesty and that's what am doing. Lots of love.😊🤗❤
You are right . Going thru the process of grieving is very important. Not everyone benefits from staying calm in the immediate aftermath and bottling things up....Aparna meant well and as a yogini , perhaps that is the best and ideal route if you are able to do so ....but definitely does not apply to all.
Yes of course everyone has their own way of dealing with life situations, and to each his own. I am simply sharing what works for me, and how I have been trained by my gurus. Thanks so much for your understanding.
And it was not just about the RUclipsr( let’s not bother guessing pls ) , I have heard it commonly, and I totally understand if someone feels that way too. To each how own, always!
@@JoyGeeks1 Touché🙂
I couldn't catch your live chat Aparna but I really admire your work.You really are an inspiration!
Have a blessed year. Thanks for bringing life by to my lonely heart❤️ thank you
Have got it twice. I agree its tough on one's body but we should be positive. Stay safe all
Muskurate rahiye, kyunki jo positive hote h wahi muskurate h ♥
Joyful will be the choice mam
Love and light .... ❤️💫
Love your vibe....
Soo happy.. 😊I am in Coimbatore I recently moved from Bangalore....let's meet
Aparna, we all love you so much for the person you are and we all wish you a very happy blessed life of togetherness with your husband. Your kids need their dad with them more than school. After a few years, when they look back and recall their sweet times with their parents, they should not regret that they were able to live their childhood only with one parent. They need their father as much as they need education. Please do take this in a positive note and ask him also to stay back with family in Coimbatore as Mumbai and other areas are flooded with covid cases. Much love and a whole life of happiness to both of you as parents and your kids..
- Sushmitha
Yes he is with us at the moment
I love you 😍💗💛💓♥💖😍
Love from North East , Assam ❤
U r my inspiration 💛
Happy to hear about your Granny that she survived Covid.😀👌
Love you ur vibe Aparna!❤
This video is so comforting 😊😊.
Totally loved it.
You always radiate sweet vibes💕.
My father inlaw passed away yesterday due to covid and I could not even go and visit the family with my husband because of the current situation.i dont know what should I even think in the current situation I am just messing up at my work due to my anxiety and depression. I dont know when we will be back to normal.
We all are in the same boat. I feel you.. It's really scary... I wish everything comes back to normal in a very few days
I feel you, Nisha. So sorry for your loss. Hang in there for a while The situation should get better after a month. We're hoping to see a downward trajectory by mid may. 🤗
Prayers , strength and hugs for you.so sorry.
Take time to grieve Nisha. These things do hurt deeply, but ultimately birth and death are in God's hands. No one's sorrow can be measured and hence each person takes a different time in getting over grief. Once the raw pain of losing someone subsides in a few days or weeks, reading about grief management helps greatly as opposed to trying to say to yourself repeatedly "I am going to stay positive". It is alright to wallow in grief. As time passes, the brain itself lets you divert from the sorrow temporarily which helps in healing. No two people's journey out of bereavement is the same. Take care and take a few days off from work if that helps. For some people, working provides an outlet to divert the mind. But if you are unable to focus at work, don't feel guilty about taking time off to sort your emotions.
On ur recommendations I bought colorbar sinful matte envious and exposed oil and they r superb
Yayyy! Glad to know 🙂
We all including my 7 year old are Covid positive...he was not acute...but we both suffered badly and right now I have admitted him as his oxygen level was going down abnormally....am now just wishing his Ghar vapsy asap
I am so sorry Pranita, hope this gets done soon
Hi, Aparna, i love your personality..
You must be missing each other so much... 😔😔
Will love to see the second part of dress haul ❤️
Let's be positive and be there for each other❤️
Hope everyone stays safe 🙏
You are simply amazing!!!
Biggg hugs 🤗
Hey Aparna, I really enjoy your videos. But the background music is a little distracting, I must mention! I hope you in the next video, we get to hear just you! Lots of love! Take care!
Love your videos ❤️
Stay Blessed Stay Happy 😘🤗😍
More fashion hauls please.😀😊
😊👍
3:33 lizard making noises behind the camera? 😅
Wow I live in cbe too.. hope to run into u sometime somewhere 😊🤞
Heyyyy yes would love that
Superb 👌
Loved the chit chat video 🤗
#Respect
Maam tell us more about Coimbatore
Hi,your caption on the live chat was juicy.But loved your chat
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Nice video.😊👍
Hugs🤗🤗🤗🤗
Sending lots of 😁😁😁😁😁😁
Make a video with your children .. who knows whom better
Hi