Men's Mental Health Is in the Wrong Hands
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bruh im not even a Hamza fan but stop misrepresenting Hamza's views lol. His is a specific type of philosophy that works for men and women who are traditional & have polarity. Your philosophy is not necessarily better or worse compared to his, it's just different
@@brownzoomer I can't lie the Hamcest fans are right. Hamcest is a way of life and his way works, his drake like philosophy is inspiring.
In fact, imagine.
Imagine we're all yellow and like bananas, imagine we all say bello. Imagine, you look at your woman and treat her like your daughter. Imagine two yellow minions kissing, imagine they're sharing sex and then afterwards he walks away because he can't talk to the feminion so the maminion walks away and he can't burden the female minion with problems about banana interest rates so THEN they birth a babinion a baby minion, a little banana liker and then AND THEN the fatherinion looks at the daughter and the mominion and thinks that their relationships are the same. So is this not minioncest? the minion is no different to an animal who cannot articulate the difference between the power dynamic of a spouse or offspring. SO, what is the whole point of this argument, you just read about minions giving birth, how about you take this time to go outside and touch grass.
And maybe speak to a woman and have a genuine conversation, maybe be the minion you never had.
@@elieshasong9414 🤡 You ain't foolin anybody online, acting like you have a social life and shi 🤣YOU gotta go outside and touch grass
@@elieshasong9414 Also you ain't foolin anybody with that fake account acting like you have a social life, stop it 🤡 YOU should take your own advice: Go outside and Touch grass, talk to a woman🤣
"Believe me, random guy in a hoodie, over what your own literal partner says"
Grown a$$ man in a hoddie, that uses reddit memes non ironically.
never trust a british
random misogynist in a hoodie*
"believe me, someone who knows nothing about mental health, over all therapists and mental health professionals"
he looks like such a doofus too, only kids would think he looks cool
It’s crazy to me because most of the time men don’t even care enough to speak about anything related to men’s health until people advocate for women or queer people
great observation
It's the veterans argument all over again. People were so up in arms about how "queer people get a whole month meanwhile veterans only get one day" yet when it was pointed out to them that veterans have a month and several days outside of said month they didn't know what to say anymore. Almost like they wanted to wanted to start a fight amongst the oppressed while they had no care in the world over who won.
"well what about men" yeah, what about men? if men cared about men's mental health they'd have organized and stood for themselves a long time ago. "women don't support us" we don't have men's support either. since they don't wanna cooperate im not cooperating either, DIY brothers! i stand with men's mental health but i don't stand with all these misogynistic, weird men. stay in your lanes.
This is about where I’m at. Men’s mental health is great conceptually but seems like it’s often only brought up to speak over someone else.
@@zagiproductions1630well. Then it needs to be brought up more often. I've never seen a single video that discussed the atmosphere of violence you get as man on a party. Saw a jealous guy break anothers nose for talking to "his" girl. Randomly got beat up on more than one occasion. That's the thing. There' doesn't seem to be much about that.
"you make her feel like a little girl around you" is bro hearing himself 💀
Drake and Hamza both zesty around men, and predatory around girls
no i actually gagged hearing him say that its so gross
@@cocomuffin4666i started laughing like a maniac, I’m in disbelief 😅
That honestly doesn't sound that bad tbh. In fact, it seems endearing
Speaking from experience, I've been in a monogamous long term relationship for 10 years and certain acts of care that a father might also perform do in fact help my partner feel loved and vice versa. It doesn't mean either of us are consciously doing things with the intent of being a substitute parent but the point is that in a traditional relationship there is an overlap between how you treat your kids and your partner. For the record I'm pretty against Hamza's approach to most things if not all but if we're going to criticize, we should at least do it in good faith.
HE FOUGHT A BUNCH OF CHILDREN IN A PUBLIC PARK?! 😭😭😭
thank god the park was public
ong liker the tom scrott video
i haven't even gotten to that park of the vid,,, oh no 😭😭
haven't watched the vid yet but i'm excited for whatever this part is.
Don't like Hamza much, but he was meeting with his fans and training with them. There's nothing wrong with that. Honestly what a good role model should be.
"Treat your GF like your daughter", is Drake levels of dangerously bad advice.
He's trying to strike a chord.
@@tjenadonn6158 And it's probably A Minorrrrrrr
I mean if she wants to call you daddy what's wrong with calling her mommy?
WOP WOP
WOP WOP
@@justinlindfors8512this is the opposite of calling her mommy
it's crazy bc I've never met a woman that likes emotionally immature men. like most of the women I've talked to find emotional intelligence and awareness SUPER attractive. people over the age of 20 don't like guys that are emotionally constipated
yes, literally. people who are taking care of themselves mentally, physically, emotionally are often seen as being safer to date too and therefore more attractive. regardless of gender.
and no is ever perfect! but seeing my partner take steps and making effort to change things about themselves that they believe would be better for them, is awesome. I love to see it, support it, and receive the same support in return.
They need to start calling therapy an emotional laxative.
oh i guess it's not a problem to guys like them, they probably don't want women over 20 😭
There are no women that like emotionally unintelligent men but many women end up dating emotionally unintelligent men unfortunately
REALL OMGGG its so funny to look at these guys meanwhile the most popular men i know are fully comfortable with being vulnerable and emotional lol
If your relationship is a competition to see who is dominant and who is submissive it probably sucks
unless that's a consentual part of the power dynamic the two of you forge together, at least.
@@kfishert when you're both switches, this is most nights
@@kfishertthat sounds exhausting and dangerous
Snails:
@@kfishert bro please... There's a lot to a relationship outside of the bedroom.. Just saying..
No one should be 'submissive' to other person.. Not generally in relationships.. Not ever
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You have no idea how relieved I am to see this wasn't sponsored by Betterhelp. It's like they get a free pass at being terrible because they sponsor left-leaning channels.
in my opinion, betterhelp absolutely targets queer people with the way they advertise & have features that make it seem queer friendly, but they leak patients info & i have repeatedly seen queer people get paired with bigoted "therapists". this is terrifying what could be done with these people's personal information that is shared during therapy. doesn't matter if it's illegal, if someone's private info said during therapy or their gender/ orientation gets out, it's out & there are permanent consequences to that.
Anthony Padilla is sold out at the point, Glad to see my brown brother not doing it 🙏🌈
And let's never, ever forget the founder is an IDF soldier, and they are super pro genocide
@@anabelsamawhoa dude I did not know that!!!
Betterhelp is a scam and so are its competitors
can confirm that i showed emotion and now i get pegged everyday
Goals tbh
if we could all be so lucky 🧡
Lucky!
Jealous as fuck
Why you showing off like this man? 😂
Can confirm, I had an open honest conversation with my wife, showed her a very vulnerable side of me. Now I am a woman... Still married though.
Congratulations 🎊
That's... fucking based.
Well ain't that just the sweetest thing I've read all day.
if i'm not missing anything & this is as literal as i think it is, congrats! that's amazing, noelle! life is beautiful, love is real 🥹🥰
Trans pride! i think? im not sure if that's what this comment is about but either way, congrats!
One of my favorite thing about videos saying “it’s not pride month, it’s men’s mental health month” are the fact that they are completely forgetting the amount of Queer men that also have mental health struggles. Like we can celebrate/spread awareness for both 😭
True, like that no f@p sthick, they dont seem to focus on straight women, or bi/g@y men. Also, its just about being ashamed of their own s*xu@lity, it reeks a strong connection to abrahamic dogmas.
FR, a lot of people I see talking about mens mental health month have to add some little point, jab if you will about how it's pride month even though it's unnecessary
I often joke that us queer men get stacking buffs during June.
fr like do we have to stop celebrating christmas because of national pumpkin pie day
Me when I have to stop celebrating my birthday so we can do leukemia awareness month 🙄
Treat your girlfriend like your daughter and treat your bros like your girlfriend
now how do i treat my daughter
@@myragingwhormoans this is the real question
@@myragingwhormoans treat your daughter as your bros ofc
@@ruikasaforthewin but if you treat your bros like your girlfriend.... if you treat your daughter like your bros, then you'd be treating your daughter like your girlfriend. i was going to sound sirens, but if your treat your girlfriend like your daughter, then at the end you're treating your daughter like your daughter.... W, i guess?????
Yea no, never do that
Ok, i know that sounds crazy but hear me out, just for a second... Imagine, just imagine if Pride Month AND Men's Mental Health Month could coexist? Imagine living in a world where you could be a man, care about your mental health AND respect the fight and struggles of the LGBTQ+ community too!
Of course not! Everyone knows you can’t be LGBTQIA AND a man!! Don’t be silly.
men who are queer ascending to godhood
No they can't. For good reason. They should both exist but pick different months. They both seem like plenty huge important issues to me. This diminishes both and is a plenty problematic mix in terms of reaching the audience. I can imagine lots of stuff but it ain't helping
@@gur262this is a stupid argument. There are twelve months in a year. Some month long awareness campaigns clash with others. Its natural. That doesn't make either of them inferior or less important. You don't have to actively campaign infavour of both. Just acknowledge their coexistence, celebrate whatever you want and move on. You shouldnt be hurt because another community is celebrating their identity on the same month.
@@gur262 because being discriminated for being queer definitely doesn’t negatively impact the mental health of a proportion of the male population. “problematic mix in terms of reaching the audience” my brother in christ man and gay are not different species. gay men are real, and add to a chunk of that suicide statistic.
If you cuddle with your girlfriend, she will definitely leave you and tarnish your reputation. Only cuddle with the homies from now on for maximum testosterone production.
bro is homiesexual
My girlfriend doesn't like cuddling, she likes to caress my back of head while I lay on her chest, Really bad, It's only for the homies 😔☝️🌈
😐🫡
Kissing a woman is submitting to her face. Kiss your boys
🤐😶
I feel like most of these "male gurus" don't actually want men to love anything or anyone.
it feels like they're closeted aromantics
they want you to love that patreon whatever revenue stream they're pushing
Patreon dollars, and less competition for themselves is a pretty decent motivator to not actually give helpful advice.
of course they don't, they want them desperate so that they can profit from them.
Of course not! Their revenue stream depends on their audience remaining unhappy and unfulfilled. The other side of the grift is blaming women for the results of their shitty advice
Treat your gf like your daughter, *goes on to talk about how sex is the most important part of a relationship*
@@shrellanhe can’t keep winning…
He cant keep fucking getting away with this!
@@annah5507 and he can't keep getting away with fucking.
Y’all love running with stuff and can’t be mature about this but if I speak from my experience, when I would have sex with my girlfriend like 4-5x a week our relationship was at its best but when I stopped making that part of love a priority it wasn’t as good, does this mean relationships are all about sex? No but it’s a big part of it and when you hear treat your girlfriend the way you would your daughter that means give her the utmost love be patient and do childlike activities that bring out your inner kid but you guy’s sexualize it of course
@@vgirreland9138 we sexualize it because he says he doesn't want to talk about his feelings so he can have sex. watch it again, he talks about sex multiple times.
“Your woman shouldn’t be your therapist, but she should be your maid” soooo close babe! She should be neither🥰
So you've just proven Hamza right. If the woman is the bread winner, the man should be the maid instead, but women won't be okay with being the bread winner for a stay at home guy
Truly. When my husband and I agreed that he should become a SAHH as I was offered a job in another state, I hit puberty like a middle school-aged boy. All of a sudden I had turned into a man! A (wo)man who came home to a relaxed husband, new meals my husband experiments with, and more time for intimacy. Of course, I'm blessed to have had his support during Med School, Residency, and beyond. I'm thrilled that someone on the internet has helped my husband and I understand that I was a man all along. @Josh-sz8ip
@@beeperbooper1840 So you're a statistical anomaly and trying to extrapolate your rare case to all women. Okay. Thank you for adding nothing to the discussion. Look at the impact a man making less money than his wife has on the likelihood of her divorcing him. Don't take my word for it. Look it up and see.
@Josh-sz8ip a good friend of mine is a divorce lawyer. I understand that many people prefer traditional relationships. But oftentimes, the disputes regarding employment/income stem from an uneven distribution of workload among a household. Most people are forced to be in relationships where both partners work, but, as studies prove, women are expected to spend more time on domestic tasks. Being a stay-at-home husband when your partner agrees with the dynamic is quite different from refusing to work in a relationship where a financial contribution from you both is expected.
@@Josh-sz8ipthe point is that one doesn’t dictate what the other does. If both people work, both clean up after themselves. You know, like ADULTS. it’s always one extreme or the other with men like you. How about thinking logically instead of jumping to conclusions? Maybe listen to UNDERSTAND instead of listening to respond. Women have done plenty of listening to understand. It’s time for men to close that empathy gap.
"When you start to listen to everyone else"
"You don't realize it but you've been brainwashed"
And other things cult leaders say...
"Pls pls pls guys trust me I'm the only sane person!! I'm right, everyone else is wrong pls bro trust me, and maybe buy my course for 850 dollars while at it"
hamza sounds like the one doing the brainwashing i'll be honest
His discord server used to be called "cult of adonis" or something, but he changed over to a private messaging app (I forgot the name,) he claims that he is making a cult for men to "help" them. Not only that but he also isolates them, saying things like not to watch any RUclips besides him, only listen to his music station, and not to make friends if they don't have similar morals to this, or try to get them to adopt these morals. He is really just taking advantage of men's poor mental health rather than trying to work towards it.
@@dallensteuart2725Mohammed would be proud
"Treat your girlfriend like your daughter" Ey no problem bro I don't have one of those either
😂😂
"men are k!lling themselves because they aren't in relationships." "don't share your emotions with your girlfriend! emotions are for the boys only." this is giving me a headache in real time :(
just so you know when people use the argument that "men are sad and off themself because of feminism and all women suck", most men who commit are veterans that are 50+, i wonder what gender their recruiter and all of their higher ups in the military were.
its so contradictory, if feelings are for the bois then you wouldnt have a lot of the issues with lonelyness. If you could actually openly tell your dudebros about your emotions, it wouldnt be so much on the girlfriends to LARP as therapists
@deusex9731 "b-but that's GAY THOUGH!! if I open up my feelings to my bo-I mean bros, then I might want to get intimate with them"
To be fair. So many progressive women I dated and had platonic relationships with have shared and shamed so many personal issues and sexual desires of their previous partners despite them participating in it. It’s not a terrible Idea for men to have safe spaces that only men can understand it’s just that these spaces always filled with toxic and regressive ideas.
@@deusex9731 when men open up feelings to a girl they are mostly used against him and he is judged. This is why men don't share.
The way he says “Adonis” makes me feel violated 😭
My dumb brain keeps going “dear Adonis, I’m sorry that that man is your father…”
@@roryadie9158same lmao
@roryadie9158 I just started the video and read this comment so I assumed he was going to be talking about that 💀
*adonis…*
@@roryadie9158REAL
“Father/Daughter or Mother/Son” BROTHER EUGHHH
Hamza talks like he has never been in a relationship
Something I really hate about the conversation around men's mental health is that the solution is always *romantic relationships*. They frame women (And thereby straight relationships) as the primary culprit for men's loneliness epidemic.
This completely erases how complex this issue actually is. Entirely ignoring men's need for stronger PLATONIC relationships and the growing anxiety over the state of the economy.
This ultimately dehumanizes men further (by negating that they are in fact not just powered by lust and dominance) and repeats the cycle they claim to want to break.
EDIT: I just saw another comment mention this and I thought it was very poignant. This conversation is almost completely centred around cis-straight men and fails to mention that a huge addition to the men's mental health crisis is actually queer/trans men.
Yup. As an aroace guy, this always bothered me, too. Society really devalues platonic relationships in favor of romantic/sexual ones all the time, which not only contributes to loneliness but also leads to the all-too-common issue of men's partners being the only emotional outlets in their lives, which causes a whole host of problems.
i have always advocated for male mental health even when boys were being all "emotions are gay". But something about this current movement felt always off. Like, there is this subtle blame on women(cis or otherwise) to fix it through sexual validation (exclusively for cis guys btw). same shit is happening with the Compliments and Loneliness talking points. whats worse is that now they have begun to spun this into "find a purpose instead of talking t your bros." purpose being the same old materialistic alpha bro shit. and ofc, only cis straight guys are included here.
Exactly. Human connection is beneficial for mental health but they always find a way to circle it back to women/dating. Idk why they don't give a thought to friendships or reaching out to family to improve wellbeing
Yuppp. As a comment above mentioned. “Emotions are gay” is a terrible mindset. It forces a suppression of emotions and hinders platonic connections.
It’s almost as if being pride directly addresses that.
Feeling comfortable exploring and expressing yourself as you are. The same binary hyper masculine standards that are depressing to tackle, are a direct result of that misogynistic and patriarchal system.
Go to therapy guys. tell your bros you love them. Take care
as a straight cis gendered man i 100% agree that men need better platonic relationships and not just with men but with women a lot of men need to stop looking at women as things to fuck or something to conquer but as equal someone to learn from, someone to laugh and have fun with. I personally believe that every guy should have female friends and vice versa it opens up a whole new world that you would otherwise never be exposed to. I agree with the other half of how gay/trans men are also a huge part of the men's mental health conversation but the reason you dont see it talked about more is because no one really cares which is incredibly sad
Its “mens mental health month” until the man is gay
What a self tell, if this man thinks m/f relationships can only be like father/daughter or son/mother it means he cant properly conceptualize boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife relationships
that means he has an incest fetish probably.
Yeah, there’s a lot of emotional incest being baked into this stuff, it’s gross.
DING DING DING 😜
Every time I see someone talking about this guy I’m reminded of the fact that some people think speaking with a British accent makes you sound smarter and how he completely disproves the stereotype.
like elon musk
@@Me-vn3gz I thought his accent is South African.
@@Me-vn3gz that's a South African accent and derived more from Dutch than English.
Spending over $1,000 to learn how to be an asshole is so crazy
that $1000 could have been better spent on a gallon of milk and maybe a cup full of gas
Ikr?? Millions of people are assholes FOR FREE!!
Could be used for bulking instead
How much did you spend in college to become a misogynist and basement dweller?
One hundred thousand pennies
a comment i saw that sums up this issue well is "men have created a system to benefit their power, not their humanity"
That's like telling Roman slaves that the system was created by Romans. You have no brain cells.
I would say that it's built on this false premise that having power will help with them with their humanity, that to them the only way to be a good person is to get as much power as possible so that you can "help others". They have a very Social-Darwinist view of the world in this respect which disregards the notion of doing through say, helping your community, and instead that you can only do good by helping yourself "first" (and I put "first" in quotes because they almost never get to or act upon the second part, which is helping others)
Men have created a system to idolize wealth and power, with Hagelian-esque performativity and mutual joined hubris (performative masculinity) removed all checks and balances as weaknesses are feminine and not manly. Due to the same performativity now we men blame everything and anything for men's mental health as arriving at the root cause would be admittance of weakness. Do you want to understand how bad this phenomena was? Philosophy itself was at a standstill till Dr. Judith Butler was allowed to research and expound upon Hagel's school of desire. Philosophy is the study of the human will and what drives it at it's base level. For five hundred some years since Kant's critiques men said that there was no man that would take a left at this one road so anything down there is fantasy, Hagel even said this in writing. Of course man will lie to themselves about reality, it's part of the human condition, but it took letting the first woman into the field to actually get this out through as academic fact.
Your pfp is goated
Yes, it's so Patriarchal that zero feminists are cancelled for saying their bullshit. Very designed for men.
The dudes complaining about men's mental health are the same ones to call a dude fruity if he looks in the general direction of the color pink yet not see any relation between those two concepts
men should be allowed to express themselves! no, not in that way!
Have you met every single man who complain about MMH? Are you sure that every single man who complain do that? You gotta have nuance. I've met so many men who complain about MMH but still think it's wrong to call men fruity for having interest or do something that's "feminine"
@@divamoosic it's not unnuanced to make a generalization when you're referring to a majority.
like, it's a fact that the men who are complaining about pride month being on the same month as men's mental health month are homophobic - why else would they be mad about queer people being acknowledged alongside their mental health? they do know that men can be queer too, right? well, they might be ignoring that fact for the sake of silencing anyone queer on *their* mental health month.
it's a fact that the men tend to be less accepting of queer people than women. there are studies that show that.
now, do ALL men hold the same queerphobic views? of course not, but we're seeing a trend of men trying to separate pride from men's mental health because they think that they can't coexist together.
Or zesty. Dear lord they loveeee usin that one.
Not true at all. I even wear makeup and follow Hamza and agree with him on a lot. You have no idea what you're talking about. It's people on the left who are more likely to mock me for that. No right wing person ever has.
27:38 how much do you want to bet that his GF left him during COVID because she spent more time with him and saw how he really behaved and decided that wasn’t for her. He’s made it out in his mind to be because she didn’t like seeing his “vulnerable side” but really she just got tired of being treated like a maid / chef / sex robot / etc
I also find it hilarious that he basically took his one single experience and extrapolated that to every relationship in the world. The guy thinks he's the main character of the universe.
bros PROJECTING HARD
@@DTHains that makes him a degenerate, degenerates take one bad experience with a woman and apply it to every other woman, thinking women should be like this or that, which is very bad, obviously.
@@DTHainsHe's basing it on dozens and dozens of accounts from men AND women online saying they don't like men opening up, saying it gives them the "ick"
@@Josh-sz8ip dozens compared to millions of women that think otherwise AND actual psychologists that support men being more vulnerable. But whatever, go on suppressing your emotions around your life partner and then watch your fellow men blame the same life partner's whole gender for the male lonliness epidemic because women don't want 'feminine' men.
Hey, crazy idea. How about you treat your girlfriend like your girlfriend?
WOAH WOAH WHAT?? THAT'S A CRAZY IDEA DON'T YOU THINK?? (Lmfao 😭)
@@Pratt11 I know it’s a bit unheard of 😞
He don’t know how
Like your bestie is better
Which is?
I am not listening to anyone who unironically uses wojaks in their youtube videos.
@@shrellanmam called the doctor and the doctor said, dont let chuddies fuck in the bed.
What's sad even to me as a straight guy, is that this "men's mental health issue" is something we all have. It's not male specific, and I've come to learn that a lot of my female friends are more than willing to help me get through it and I would help them in return. But almost all the time, like fucking clockwork, this genuine aid from women that I've gotten in my life is seen as "opportunity for a relationship" for men everywhere. Like we can't even be friends anymore, and it sounds so baffling that the "men advocating for mental health" like Hamza and his band of merrymen, is still spearheading this idea to young men everywhere.
Men's mental health gets special attention because men die faster... We don't all have the same problem with mental health. Women attend to our mental health. The whole point of men's mental health month is to get men to take themselves seriously.
I'm sorry, man. I may not be a guy, but as someone who really struggled with mental health, I know that how others treat you because of it is part of why it sucks so much. I hope things get better for you. The misinformation and outright harm surrounding men's mental health is awful.
And you're still single. I've got women there for me too, but they're all married or with boyfriends. If your confidantes are single, and they don't have any deal-breakers or red flag, then what are you doing? Perfect opportunities as life partners to experience life together till old age, and you're just friends for some unknown reason. What a waste
@@seashellgarden2227You say that, but you'd still restrict him to inceldom.
@@Josh-sz8ip I'm not totally sure how I can, "restrict someone to inceldom" but if you mean I'd reject any advances, I will let you know I have dated those struggling with mental illness before.
If your first instinct when someone is being empathetic, is to immediately assume the worst, then that instant assumption will lead you down a bad path later in life. It Ironically could be what OP is doing, assuming his friends aren't unaccepting to that idea. How can you expect an opportunity if you automatically doubt every single one?
I'm not saying any of this to be an @ss, I spent a lot of my teen years being miserable and have only really begun living as an adult due to it. It sucks,
With how sex focused this guy is about relationships
He would have a short circuit learning about ace people
Ikr, one conversation with me (I’m asexual) and his whole world would be flipped upside down. Telling him that relationships aren’t just for the purpose of sex might just kill him.
Maybe he should discover himself. Maybe he’s Aromatic 🧍♂️
@@kittyzara2656 Honestly! I think listening to that conversation of him trying to even understand that would be simultaneously brain rotting and hilarious.
I'm demisexual and it's just so annoying how much people on the ace and aromantic spectrums are forgotten.
@@RoseThorn48 hey another demisexual :)
(Well I don’t know if I’m that or asexual 🤷♀️) yeah that guy just pisses me off. The way they talk about women in such a stereotype/generalization way is awful. They always talk like you can hard wire program them to do things. Bit rude
EXACTLY MY THOUGHTS
He'd just deny our existence saying we're crazy or possessed lmfao💀
"Don't tell your girlfriend you're struggling financially and looking for a second job, keep quiet about that ish" is just a bonkers thing to say. If my partner silently came home, made small talk, and then started being gone and extra 25-40 hours a week, I'd think he was cheating on me. I mean, he said you shouldn't say that to your little girl, but the little girl in this scenario is the woman you're hypothetically dating.
Jail. Straight to jail. One million years dungeon.
My favorite has always been begging and pleading for a way to let their wife know that they in fact do care for them. When you ask them if they've tried telling their wives that, it's like you're suggesting the improbable. Ah Booomers.
Women leave men because they are struggling financially often. Why risk that?
@@AAKing-d8b Why also risk typing a non-sequitur?
CHOOSING ADONIS OF ANY NAMES IS SUCH A COMIC RELIEF THOUGH. Adonis was basically nursed, cared for, guarded, saved and consequently "shared" by two women - Aphrodite and Persephone. He had other lovers including Apollo while spending time with whom he would take on a "feminine" role...wait Hamza did say u should be A DUDDEE w a woman and ...honest w a man? Seems unintentional but perfect.
For the sake of accuracy, in a much less popular version he rapes a girl Zeus had a -yet another - crush on. Ofc not without some "persuasion" from Aphrodite at Hera's behest, but he does it and runs away bc he's afraid of Zeus' rage
So, depending on which version is being examined, Adonis is either an absolute babyboy(by Hamza's standards) or a cowardly criminal, but never the kind of "iDeAL" he came up with
Oh, and Adonis being born from incest fits the "dynamics" presented by the ReAdeR oF fEmiNiNe miNdS rlly well too💀
That was very attractive of you
someome being a misogynist, or any kind of bigot, means inherently they are not going to have any facts or truth of any kind. it's always going to be distorted & confused & incorrect because bigotry isn't logical. ever.
to be a bigot is to be in a highly emotional state & to induce others into that state, you have to keep yourself & others in a rabid lather about it that only escalates until they have that moment where they realize the truth of it all, where they work on healing, or it becomes violent & influential to those around directly or working within our system that is made to enact bigotry on a wide scale.
someome being a misogynist, or any kind of bigot, means inherently they are not going to have any facts or truth of any kind. it's always going to be distorted & confused & incorrect because bigotry isn't logical. ever.
to be a bigot is to be in a highly emotional state & to induce others into that state, you have to keep yourself & others in a rabid lather about it that only escalates until they have that moment where they realize the truth of it all, where they work on healing, or it becomes violent & influential to those around directly or working within our system that is made to enact bigotry on a wide scale.
what are u talking abt adonis is drakes son 😭😭
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All for men's mental health, but this absolutely feels like the new "what about a month for our military??"
"veteran supporters" when they complain that veterans "only get one day" when they miss the multiple months and extra days dedicated to military service within the US alone. So many dipshits don't care about us n just want brownie points from whining about non-issues and embarrassing themselves
Which literally exists. I seriously don’t understand these people.
Not that I agree with a military month to exist cause only policing and politics make me shudder more than the military. Stop saying you’re fighting for your imperialist country’s freedom when you’re being sent to other poorer countries to fight them
Holiday months are stupid across the board
@@watching7721 It can be nice to spread awareness, especially about things that don't get enough of it.
@@motherlarkspur4506 And they feel the need to confine themselves to a month?
I find it so crazy to say "100 years ago relationships were much longer lasting" yeah because women weren't allowed to divorce💀
They were allowed to stop cohabiting, but didn't ask much. Our generation mostly has grandmothers who we think of as really sweet, yet you don't realise that's because they follow gender roles.
@Josh-sz8ip what are you actually talking about? I'm not even invalidating what you're saying, this is actually just gibberish
@@bingsus3144No right wing person I've argued against ever said that, because they have the intelligence necessary. Is English not your first language? Open another tab for a dictionary.
@@Josh-sz8ip brother, what you were saying had absolutely nothing to do with what I commented. Like, at least try to make them correlate? And English really is not my first language! Honestly, if you have to resort to calling someone stupid to make your point, idk how to help you
@@bingsus3144 It was a serious question. I am busy in Russian circles and often talk to Russians who don't know English well, and I actually suspected English wasn't your first language. Now I know, I'll try to elucidate my first comment:
The people of the past could not divorce, but they could move out to live in separate homes away from each other, and if we count that as divorce, since they're still effectively breaking up, then people of the past still didn't break up as much as people do today in modern feminist society. Furthermore, most of us have nice grandmothers, and love them dearly, yet we discourage young women from following their life path.
Maybe try Google translate
How is a dude unironically using rage comics and memes in their videos in 2024?
those are wojaks, my friend. slightly to the left and more modern than rage comics.
He's catering to his audience (redditors)
@@kfishertI dk, a lot of nazis use wojaks. Not saying all of course but it says less about what side you are on and more about how terminally online one is.
Time dilation factor discussed in the documentary "Eternal Sunshine of the Smoothbrain."
23:12 “there is 2 dynamics that you can have: the father/daughter dynamic & the mother/son dynamic…”
what is this Freudian nightmare
Welcome to the Hotel Huntsville...
Mommy! (fucking dies)
“feminine women always need a masculine man” what ab feminine lesbians 😭😭
They need a masculine woman and are usually bi anyways
REAL
gay people don't exist in this man's little world I think
dude one of the guys in a similar circle as this guy, some incel street interviewer asked a girl upon finding out she has a gf and not a bf, "oh so are you bi, straight, or what??" they cannot fathom women being entirely uninterested in men lmao
so masculine women need a feminine man? sounds ok to me
thank you saji for hunting bears for us
"You won't kill yourself if you suck the life out of a woman" is basically what he's saying
Reminds me of how JoJo villain, Dio sucks the blood outta a lot of women to heal himself
Because being used to vent doesn't suck the life out of you?
@@Josh-sz8ip wtf does that even mean?
@@Mira-gu6we He wants you to join him in a hvac themed role play I guess. Bro's love language and kinks are freon and chloroflurocarbons.
@@RyuKyu.77True chad 🗿
my least favorite things about this is the people who advocate for mental health and then label "good" and "bad" emotions... from a psychological standpoint, there are no "bad" emotions, because they're just emotions, and every human has them.
If my boyfriend treats me like a dad, that is the biggest red flag I can ever get from him. Like wtf?
Also some men like to trauma dump on the third date to try and make a connection faster, and say "I had never told this to anyone"... Uuuuh you should have, a therapist, that was so traumatic, I don't know you enough, wait until we are a couple at least ffs
I use 3 in 1 shampoo and I don't know what the third function is supposed to be. This is too complicated for me. Rules ugh. Trauma dumping is a neat word. I mean. Yeah I get what it means but it's also usable to decide when you just had enough of those feelings.
@@gur262 I don't need to know something super traumatic from a person I just met. That's common sense.
@@anabelsamaHamza vindicated yet again.
@@Josh-sz8ip can you not read bro? "just met". would you want your waiter to start crying about their dog dying during dinner? no. so don't expect a girl you barely know to feel differently. and fyi: your girlfriend should not be someone you barely know.
Which is why men shouldn't share their emotions with women. They don't want some hurt dude, they want a stable guy with his shit together.
Happily married to my wife and we share our happiness and sadness with each other and it’s only strengthened our relationship. I know for people who haven’t had a relationship yet this advice may sound logical but this is the fastest track to being single I ever heard.
rephrasing mutual sex as "if she's ALLOWING you to have sex with her" tells me this guy isn't the sexy Adonis he thinks he is
He shouldn't be allowed to meet a bunch of children in a park 😭
the only thing he should be meeting is chris hansen
“Pick a close male friend and only open up to him.”
Yknow what? My dad actually did that. He had one best friend that he opened up about everything to and they’d cope with feelings together.
You wanna know what happened when my dad’s friend died in a hit in run? My dad almost became part of the suicide statistic
Then again, that guy would probably have a meltdown knowing that my mom’s the breadwinner being a RN and my dad isn’t by being a pastor
I feel for your father and I hope he is doing well now, but your story brings up a good point: if a man does open up to his close buddy instead of his wife and they’re are closer…however one passes, who will he vent to now? Hamas would probably answer “oh, soon enough he’ll find another buddy to talk to” but we all know that wouldn’t work nor be the same-rebounding like that. I don’t know about anyone else, but for me, I would struggle to find someone let alone trust them to share my recent grievances and expect them to share their own. So I point to the answer that the next close person that man has to talk to and vent and share his feelings with is his wife. Communication in a relationship is key, regardless of gender or type of relationship.
@@Sunnytyme I'm just happy your dad made it through. When I read You want to know what happened autocomplete did not return anything good. Truly mean it. When I teach little ones I bring loaves of bread with happy faces of them to school since some dingbats seem to find it pertinent to worry six year old's that they're parents will separate if they are unable to solve the breadwinner issue. Horrible thing to terrify a six year old with, so I tell them "all my friends here are bread, so it just means they've got their approval." Wack people venting to kids on the bus when asked "are you ok?" Like therapy is included in our socialized healthcare please go and don't burden kids. 😓😓Poor kid tried his best to take notes too.
your gf will leave her if you “little girl” her. sure she could want you in a caregiver role, but if you see her as anything less than what she is she will leave you. not because you show emotions but because you act like a creep.
My problem with these types of men is that they never acknowledge how they have constructed this society and how they are now suffering from THEIR SET IDEALS! And somehow it’s women fault at the end of the day. Not the fact that any sign of vulnerability towards their male friends is seen as weak and “gay”. Not the fact that women are more than willing to help their men friends but men see it an opportunity for a relationship. Men have repeatedly closed these doors for themselves and now they are suffering cuz of it. They refuse to go to the root of the problem, themselves.
I was born into this society, I'm not my dad or my grandpa or my great grandpa. I didn't construct 💩 other than an IKEA shelf or 2.
@@gur262 but u are definitely prolonging those things and toxic ideals.
THIS! And, like the first response to this comment, they’ll say they didn’t make this. That they’re not their fathers or grandfathers. But, my brother in Christ, you’re carrying their bs😭 You’re carrying it and you don’t want to let it go because ‘it’s gonna make me feminine’. It’s so foolish.
@@gur262 Guess what buddy you are perpetuating those same beliefs/ideals. Seems you’re self aware but not willing to follow anything about it so you are just as bad as them
@@gur262 are you stupid on purpose or do you actually lack comprehension skills?
why is he saying "your little girl" when talking about a partner wtf
He fancies himself Gimli the Dwarf he years for the mines and high fantasy not stable relationship.
Ok im going to open up a bit just now and say as a 41yr old man with a 36yr old partner I've been with for a while now i "complain" more than her yet she always opens up to me too because we have a CONNECTION, I've helped her through a lot of problems and she's seen me through a lot too. Its about meeting in the middle, some give and take, just be yourself with your partner and let her know she can always be the same with you. Oh and as a by-line she still wants to have sex very often 😂
Also he's trying to use EXTREMELY outdated pseudo-freudian talk with all this "father/daughter mother/son" bullshit. He has such a terrible attitude and I'd laugh if it wasn't so utterly sad that i know lots of young people are actually listening to people like him.
Please listen to what Saji said, he made a lot more sense than everything "The Adonis" could ever say
i wish you and your partner the best
@@texanarchy666 thanks a lot my friend! Hope you have a great day and good life 👍
But I don't like your wife. There are loads of women in TwoXChromosomes, a sub Reddit for left wing women, saying they don't want a man to open up to them because "we're not men's therapists!!!!"
the fact that all the incels in this comment section have replied to almost every comment as soon as the comment was made trying to prove how they are right but when there's an actual real life experience, they get reaaal slow. Like I don't see any incel reply here till now. Otherwise under other comments they are the first to reply. Now they have nothing to say.
This all sounds extremely gay going off this checklist but I'll extend the welcome out to you and your partner, on behalf of the Illumifruiti. We rebranded from Gay Mafia, that sounds dumb. Bit confused on you and your wife being gay, but we do acceptance over here not judgment so if you're happy so are we!
One complaint though, you don't need to apologize for opening up, I appreciate you for sharing your story, and any man who reads that and becomes helped is saying thank you to you as well even if they can't today. Wishing ya continued relationship success, and you got communication down it seems that is the only key, I believe in ya'll!
22:30 my grandparents were married for more than 50 years. They met and got married at the age of 18 and 19. And immigrated to this country, you don't know how many times they cried in each other’s arms. With the stress of making a future for our family. Though they were traditional they both openly voiced their opinions to one another. The key to a healthy relationship will always be communication. And if that person leaves you got that, they weren't meant for you
👏 always communication
Yo this is literally what my parents did too, the relationship part, not that many years but at 30 years it's the same thing. Never heard no arguments followed by silence, they always planned. It's like we copy pasted comments on this thread. Hopefully someone will realize the significance of this, or communication if nothing else. The traditional part is what people get hung up on with my parents too. My mum proposed to my dad with a whole two page proposal for betrothal basically at 14, since he had gotten into college. Her reasoning was since her father picked boys terribly and she might as well do it, so it was actually someone to her liking and she didn't feel like she was participating in the interrogation of a foreign spy for intel on dates. I try to stress on the whole she wrote a 2 page contract agreement upon learning my dad was a huge business and finance nerd when she could have just demanded due to who her father was. She is very science focused, and always says "A proposal without proof showcases zero methodology knowledge, why would there be a proposal without proof." Understanding and mutual respect are the building blocks of trust which is the foundation for a relationship of any kind. There has and will never be a forced arranged marriage that is happy.
Idk why these folks love to use "women will actually dislike u if u choose to share your feelings" when it's not at all accurate?? Like sure some will but they aren't someone you'd want have a relationship OR a friendship with. I would never feel comfortable talking about my struggles with someone who feels like they can't afford being vulnerable w me. Honestly, I wouldn't want to be more than acquaintances w someone like that as it's a sign of distrust and a relationship without trust fails as soon as it starts. Not allowing yourself to be honest w yourself and those close to u is exhausting and destructive, EVEN in friendship. I respect honesty probably more than anything else so hearing that dude say "it'll make her lose respect for you" is like nails on chalkboard. HOW FULL OF YOURSELF DO U HAVE TO BE TO THINK U KNOW WHAT WOMEN RLLY WANT BETTER THAN WOMEN THEMSELVES. I know some ppl who are like this - men and women, they will listen to whatever you say while thinking "yeaaa suuuree" in their heads, some ppl genuinely believe they know others better than the others know themselves - I could never have this much arrogance nor do i want to.
The assumption that men will help u find a solution and women will just give emotional comfort is WILD...how about offering both- comfort AND solutions, is it not possible? Sounds like a skill issue to me.
Long story short - just don't strive to conform to some dude's standards of what a "man" is, especially when his argument for his advice is basically "sensitive not hot" and the source is "some bois i know, some bois on the internet" yet women evidently have very different opinions about these internet discussions. I think it says sth when in the comment sections under videos where a man is doing anything that's not considered to be traditionally masculine below one bad comment (usually posted by a man) bashing him you can find LOTS of replies from women saying " yo, that's not cool, u couldn't be more wrong, shut it".
I won't even comment on his "dynamics"👀💀💀scary creepy off-putting stuff
But he wanted though. See? Plenty women wanted a relationship with the hot felon dude, the jailbird model. Cause he's hot. You can tell him all you want she wasn't good for him anyway if he didn't get far enough to be properly convinced of that it's still a negative experience. Open up feelings. Bra closes. Not gonna do that again.
@gur262 it's a negative experience but if i learn that sth is bad for me I still feel fortunate to learn it before more damage has been done - the dude could've found out he had been living w a shallow person(if we are to believe his story is accurate) AFTER marrying her, maybe even after having kids, it'd be even more of a nightmare. So, I think you can recognize that losing someone can be heartbreaking, but good for your future while trying to adapt just to keep them is never beneficial.
Also, it's a negative experience but it is not definitive of what women as a whole would do, just this example somehow gives Hamza the confidence to say "yeah, go on, try it and suffer" even though it evidently does not reflect the opinion of the majority. We can ignore the prevalence of women holding opinions that contradict Hamza's narrative on the internet bc "butbut they're just saying it!!"(which i think is a dumb thing to believe but okay). Even in real life, I have a lot of girl friends who would never agree w Hamza and i know it'snot just yapping bc i know their bfs, my -rather big - extended family has 18 women and none of them share the "ew, he has feelings" sentiment, it's quite the opposite. In fact, at different points in time during different get-togethers all 12 of my aunts would talk about how their husbands opening up to them brought their family closer, they'd say that they feel endlessly grateful for the trust, and these are families that have been together for anywhere from 15 to 35 years.
Let's not talk about the felon admirers too bc it's not a "women" thing, it's an "everyone who's a bit nuts" thing, men also have been fanboying over some despicable women criminals. And, to be fair, although it is bizarre but most "admirers" admire those dangerous ppl exclusively from the screens, not irl, still messed up, but thankfully it's the weird minority portion of both genders(those who actually have crushes on criminals, send them letters, etc).
@@gur262 Something to take into consideration is how he said he presented himself to her as this unshakable mountain of an alpha man when they started dating. If this image crumbled and he became way more vulnerable than he ever was, perhaps it blindsided her.
Judging by how Hamza describes being vulnerable as this form of putting everything on her to make things better, him doing that probably clashed horribly with the image she had of him, and she ended up deciding that the real him was not who she signed up for. If you try to portray yourself as an infallible man, and a lady falls for it, any changes to that image will likely damage your relationship or break it.
This is actually something really damaging about Hamza's advice; he's telling men to be like him and portray something they aren't, and when that image will inevitably crumble, you can imagine how their mental health will be affected.
@@gur262 your only experience with women clearly comes from cinema lmao, sure some women will ignore that a guy is a felon if hes hot enough, you gotta realize that some women should be allowed to be dumb, there is a lot of dumb guys too but i don't see you saying thats all of them
Your pfp kinda reminds me of Nayeon from Twice 😂
He be like: listen everyone else is WRONG. No man listen, I am correct and everyone else is wrong.
Without a questioning himself. Bless the obliviousness.
he literally said sth like “if there is something everybody agrees about it’s probably wrong” like what???
"and who set that system up" is all im thinking about during this
SAMEEE
they should pull themselves up by their bootstraps or something. Pretty feminine to ask women to fix your issues if you are so so capable
@@deusex9731 what is bro on abt
@@shrellanno one saying it is your fault; the answer to “who set up that system?” question is patriarchy and those who enforce it (which is primarily men who refuse to listen to any answer or solution feminism may give them). Instead of finding a problem with “who set up that system?” question and taking it personally, maybe you could try thinking “alright, where do we as a society go from here and what can we do to abolish oppressive systems or ideas that oppose all of us?” As that is more productive.
@@cry-piddawgYeah because feminism is going to help me have children, even though the more feminist a country is, the lower it's birthrate, and the more educated a woman is, the more likely she is to divorce.
She helped him start his business??? That’s a little feminine of him isn’t it?
Femboys famously take advise and help from their female partners
Masculinity and feminity is literally just looks, if masculinity is bravery for example, is femininity cowardly? it just doesn't make sense
It’s really cute how magically as soon as June rolls around people spontaneously care about Men’s Mental Health, then moving into July, it’s back to the norm.
That’s how it is with pride month. No one actually cares, and that’s not a bad thing. It’s just an inconvenience when we have time wasting discussions because people are bullshitting.
And I’m sat
Sad Boyz podcast is a great example of sharing your thoughts with your homies. Very positive about mental health and funny :)
I’ve broken down in tears in front of my girlfriend 5 times in the year we’ve been together, I’ve laid in her lap crying. And for some reason, she’s more in love with me than she’s ever been today 🤯🤯
But do you have 3 children?
Does she already have another man's kids?
Is she another man's leftover?
And yet again, i see no incel comment here (yet)
You got a rare one I guess
@@kzg_veritas12 it’s not, I just showed my cards from the start. I’ve been with women who are very receptive to emotions and others that are more on the unavailable side, but you shouldn’t shut your emotions away out of fear of your partner leaving you
@@ggroganWhat if leaving you means divorce and losing your home and children?
The problem with people like Hamza, is that he is model looking. His advices won't work for majority of the guys watchin' him. (And even at that, his talking points are boderline pshycotic)
thats why I rly like the hasanabi get-better routine
@@kyumu yasss :3
@@kyumu soryr yes
lol thats A problem with Hamza, not THE problem. the problem is he is going to create a ton of abusive men, just like tate and samuels and the fresh and fit and so on
@@lowlowseeseeit's rly unhealthy and he's going for the most vulnerable people. men do insane, impulsive, harmful stuff when they're mentally sound. men with mental health issues are a completely different story
"How many pities?" Almost spit my ibuprofen out.
freud would give up his life savings to study this adonis guy
I think when women say they want men to be more vulnerable and show their emotions more they mean to be more communicative about their emotions, not display them in a childish manner. As in how a man responds, reacts, and handles emotions in a mature manner. I want a man to tell me that something is bothering him, tell me that he’s upset, tell me that he’s sad. Not only that I want him to tell me why he’s upset. It’s prevents the mind games, unnecessary drama that comes with just bottling everything up and dropping hints. If men are so logical then the first step to solving a problem is identifying it, being communicative of that problem, and, finding solutions/compromise. You’re suppose to do that as a couple and it strengthens your relationship.
When they say this they mean attractive men, the rest of them can still stay away.
@@AAKing-d8bnot at all, women, unlike men, don't want to f4ck every male they're in contact with, that's a male mindset to only care about "attractive" women and women they're interested in, women do see men as friends so anyone can open up about their feelings and ofc you DATE who you find attractive, don't be incohesive like this
@@AAKing-d8b And you're making this sort of insinuation from where?
@@K̰ḭr̰ḭn̰5731 This advice is meaningless for men that are too ugly to qualify to begin with.
Dudes like Hamza, are the reason people think good lookin' folks are unbearable to be around
Nobody thinks that, also Hamza is a 6.5 tops.
dudes like hamza (and such others) and his dreg followers are the reason why i can’t even get the urge to pushback anymore when women say they hate men. me too b itch. me too
@@Narasthenics The likes I just got disagre with ya. Also, as much as I dislike him, he is indeed very atractive, still an @$$ tough
@@NarasthenicsIf even Hamza isn't attractive, then you are proving incels right about women's standards for looks being way too high 😂
@@wellersonoliveira5334Absolutely. I'm using her comment for pro-incel propaganda.
the overuse of sound effects and just like fucking wojacks? it’s like it’s a kids show for incels😭
It basically is a kids show for incels knowing his audience is teen boys
“Promise me not to hide yourself when you’re in pain, it’s unfair that we laughed together but you cried alone.”
Bro why can’t it be mens mental health month and pride month and why does one have to be more important than the other 😭
Men's Mental health month would also include gay and trans men so there's no reason to actually separate them
How? I know black history month and pride. I just learned men's mental health is a thing. What's Audi supposed to do make the rings rainbow colored but also nooses to remind us of high male suicide rate? Kinda clashes. I mean. Just like with everything you can't just combine it all. Even if it fits together.
It's also potentially incredibly counterproductive. Guess what feelings are seen as by the guy bottling them up till he 🦘 of a roof? Gay. And gay is seen as bad by that same guy. Sure I'd want him to change that view too but I ain't getting that far if caring about mental health is linked to being gay. It doesn't help. It's a bit much at once.
@gur262 Guess what being gay is seen as by that guy? Gay. Time to cancel Pride Month; it's too counterproductive.
@@johnsonsharon81 well yeah but cis straight guys mental health also matters, some people are just both men AND lgbt
One of my wife’s friends married her husband about 3 years ago. Now crazy thinking going on here but she found out he wasn’t paying the mortgage and the car payments. And more shit kept coming out and now they’re getting divorced.
he wasn’t treating her equally and kept everything hidden and now he leaves it for her to clean up now that shit hit the fan. Best of luck to anyone following that guys advise, they’re going to need it.
My father consistently tells me that because I am a man I have to take all this suffering, he has no idea how much he hurts me every time he says that but he is a hispanic man who grew up with even more toxic behaviors so there isn’t much I can do
It's not toxic
It's masculine and traditional, deal with it
@@kzg_veritas12 🤓
@@kzg_veritas12 and that is toxic
@@maki49574 no
Suffering in life is normal and encouraged
It hurt cause he was telling you the truth. Be a man with nothing to offer and see how little people care. Outside of family and some friends, they don't.
he's a scouser, i immediately do not trust him
my thoughts exactly
"bigotry is wrong!"
"I don't trust a Scouser"
- the left
He’s a woolly back
Guys, let's be real for a moment. Having a girlfriend is gay. The real masculine bond is between two men sharing emotions and being vulnerable together.
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My bf is my BEST friend in the world and we both struggle with mental health issues in different ways- I would never feel comfortable confiding in him if he didn’t also confide in me. I love when he opens up to me because it shows he trusts me as much as I trust him.
Also the closer we’ve gotten over these 4 years the better the sex has been, and this guy just doesn’t know love. We talk during the act and share our love and I love it and I love him.
Do not listen to these alpha bro weirdos, it’ll just make you insufferable and no one but other losers will want to be around you. Love yourself and confide in the people you love. Find peace in yourself and others
I feel like by the time these dudes get to the point they're breaking down and finally opening up to their partner, the sx life is already starting to get stale because they insist on always aggro topping. They're missing the forest for the trees
I feel like my ex listened to a lot of this “don’t burden your gf” advice and ultimately shut me out and when I brought up a breakup because of the disconnect he said he didn’t want to burden me with his problems???
But that was why I wanted to break up!! I continuously asked for vulnerability from him and never got it :/ and that was what truly put a strain on the relationship:(
imagine being his ex girlfriend and knowing that after breaking up with him he became not only a mega incel but one with a large and influential platform directed at young boys
Why would you make fun of a group of people where 60% of them think of suicide every day, and 30% are autistic?
How do you know the sexual habits of strangers? Or are just all men you don't like incels?
@@AAKing-d8b Don't expect rational thought from femcels.
@@AAKing-d8b Hamza is being exposed for who he is, you're just late to the party
he's promoting worryingly antisocial behavior to people mostly born after 2010
No matter what gender you are, please, take care of yourself. You are important, your life is important, your feelings are valid. If needed, seek professional help. I hope you enjoy this weird and difficult, but in it's own way beautiful journey called "life"❤
People like you is what keeps the world going
People always mention how 50% of men who commit suicide have no history of mental illness, but ignore the fact that the other half did have a history of mental illness but still commit suicide. Why? Because a romantic relationship is paramount, and women don't want that fact to be widely accepted.
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Real homie love 😋
I have been consuming the thoughts of people who speak about the men’s mental health crisis for several years now. There’s always been a small (but significant) issue with what they say that i don’t see many people speak on-
MRA/ red pill/ manosphere type people are constantly saying how the “world” doesn’t care about men’s mental health, I always thought - doesn’t that mean *MEN* don’t care about men’s mental health either?
I hear them talk about the issues men face.
“no one cares about men’s feelings”
okay. Wh don’t you create a virtual support group, or a subreddit, or a church group, or a meetup group to discuss men’s feelings?
“No one cares when men are sad”
Okay. Why don’t you go to therapy to have some listen to you? Why don’t you encourage men to seek the help of therapists to have someone listen to them? Why don’t you approach your male friends and have vent/ crying sessions the way that women do?
It’s like they literally don’t understand that forcing every male into a “BIG BOSS WHO IS NEVER WEAK 💪😎💰” arychtype is the *source* of their suffering. Not respite from it.
All of male specific problems can be completely eradicated by OTHER MEN.
I don’t hate men. I never have. I am simple frustrated with the conversations surrounding their obsession with “men’s mental health” while their actual actions accomplish NOTHING
If you're dating someone, *no matter their gender OR yours*, and they can't handle the fact that you have feelings... maybe don't date them?
But I don't wanna be alone and my underwear is over there in the corner soooo... 😢
most men don't have the privilige of choosing who they date. Sorry but this is just like "if you don't like your job just get a new one".
For an average guy it is legitimately easier to become a millionaire than to get a girlfriend.
@@self_improvement_d What? The only way this works out just looking at the fact humanity exists is if the average dude already has a million dollars.
@@self_improvement_d why does this resonate so much lmaoooo
@@self_improvement_dit's absolutely a man's choice who he dates. If there is a partner who isn't suitable then a man is entirely within that man's power to say no to a relationship with them. Men on average have much less options for sure, but you always have a choice to say no which tbh it's better to be alone than with someone you don't like
Men I am repulsed by: hard men, men who think they need to help me without being asked, men who are unable to be soft and emotional.
Men I like: Deeply flawed, human people with gentle souls and strong bodies, who are open with their thoughts and feelings, but who are good enough to hold them for themselves and not dump them on people. A renaissance man who can go from boxing in the ring to painting a landscape to relax. I want Aragorn, son of Arathorn, not Gregor Clegane.
You want all that but you're just an average woman. What makes you entitled to that?
I was like the latter and got friendzoned. Then I was like the former and got an amazing girlfriend.
@@Josh-sz8ip okay? Your gf has little to no self respect and finds comfort in being treated poorly, that's not a flex.
@@Jane-oz7pp So do househusbands also have no self respect?
@@Jane-oz7pp It's all women
I never undestood the "masculine feminine Energy" thing because It ignores the existance of gay people, i am a relatively femine girl, my girlfriend ia hella femine, and yet we bound Really well, wierd innit?
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I recommend Pop Culture Detective's video on patriarchy too, it's so sad these men think all their problems are caused thanks to feminism or pride month, they want to put the blame on something else and never reach the true cause of all their misery, instead this just make them even more miserable and distant from others.
I've already watched it and it sucks and is stupid and misandrist. Untill women are as happy to be with men of lower socioeconomic status than them as men are happy to be with women of lower socioeconomic status than them, feminism is just female supremacy
The problem is men thinking that there's someone else's hands other than their own that will pick them up and get what needs to be done.
Would you say the same thing about women though? Would you say that women need to pick themselves up by their own hands and get what needs to be done? Yes its true that at the end of the day you are ultimately the one responsible for your own happiness and mental health, but there is nothing wrong with getting help from other people and reaching out for help from other people, regardless of whether you're a man or a woman. The mentality of "I can do everything myself and dont need anyone else" is what causes so many men to feel depressed and isolated.
@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy But women have though, WE fought for our rights and started movements. All men do is whine and complain and blame women for the system THEY made. Also, why are we expected to help me n will their problems when they never, and STILL don't care about our issues? Why am I expected to wanna help my natrual predator and oppressor?
Had a boyfriend/fiancé (thankfully ex🙏🙏🙏🙏) that treated me like BOTH a mother and daughter, I don’t wish that upon anyoneeee💀
Heeey...maybe let's not treat our romantic parts like our blood/adopted relatives
Nope the healthiest way to be mentally actually is to add sexual connotation to guardianship roles. It's best to terrify the good ones with the idea that they'll wanna start molesting children randomly like a werewolf. The fear breeds love. Most definitely, not fatigue and confusion. Turns out maybe they actually wanted this though, as I learned all this at Catholic private school so you can guess who did what.
this guy hamza really said "lets fix this long time problem behaving the exact same way man have behaved this throughout this whole time"
"when she gets a little bit bigger".... is she still growing??? how old is she 😨
I am a woman and let me say.....with confidence.....most women do NOT want a superman! There are so many women who WISH that their men partners would open up to them more and communicate about their struggles. Not being able to open up and be vulnerable with your partner is the great way to be miserable (feeling alone) as well as fail in relationships for the rest of your life. That lack of communication spills over into EVERY aspect of your dynamics, including sex. Good partners are good communicators, no matter what their gender identity is.
Then why are millions of men giving accounts of doing that and it backfiring? It's all well and good to say that those women were just bad women, but there is a limited number of women in the world, and if that many women are responding negatively to men opening up, then men either have to adapt, or women have to adapt, but men can inly control their own actions
@@Josh-sz8ip millions huh? i would just love to see that source 🤔
@@ithoughtiwascishet1316just look at anywhere on the internet
I can be your superman , your superman , your superman...
Keep lying to yourself 304
"We want men to open up!1!1!"
*Man opens up*
Femoid: "Oh shut up!1!1!1, Boohoo, deal with your problems!"
I love it when they put all women in one category n all men in one category as if personalities preferences wants doesn't affect affect they all have one mindset.
I'm in a relationship for 8 years now talking out feelings and everything does makes relationship stronger when you understand eachother n work on it together and arguments also matter when they are productive enough to make changes it shows the seriousness about the situation
"Personalities and Preferences"
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@@kzg_veritas12 Brainrot reply
My partner and I have been together for 13 years, and one of the most important parts of our foundation is our ability to be vulnerable and show each other our troubles or "weaknesses."
I feel so bad for people who internalize these toxic ideas of never showing weakness and viewing your partner as some one specific thing instead of a fully realized human being who is your equal and who can shoulder the burdens of life WITH you
When will people realize that nobody needs to be dominant in a relationship. Both people can be equal in those terms
As someone who has dated a lot of men who would never open up about their feelings.... this is not the answer lmao
8:38 he really thinks he's from fight club - which is ironic because an aim of that movie is to address toxic masculinity and it isn't supposed to be an idealism like to think someone would do that with actual young boys is insane 💀
Yeah that's insane telling kids to trust that it is him at that park based off eyesight and to go there just willy nilly.
all I'm thinking about is where are the parents