4 Ways to Handle Peer Pressure Situations

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  • Опубликовано: 14 мар 2016
  • Peer pressure is at an all time high in middle school and high school, so how do you deal with it? If you're a teenager looking for advice on dealing with peer pressure from your friends or in school, here are 4 ways to handle the tough questions you might ask yourself in these situations. Have you ever been peer pressured before? Leave a comment below and we'll talk about it!
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  • @Morgimanstudios
    @Morgimanstudios 8 лет назад +5

    Even though I may not be peer pressured at the moment, but as I get a little older there's s chance it could occur. I always watch these vids to help me make the right decisions in the future. Thanks Josh.

  • @tonyr.3966
    @tonyr.3966 8 лет назад +1

    THANK YOU!
    I've been waiting for a video with this topic.

  • @Amicoskates01
    @Amicoskates01 8 лет назад

    I really like how you show the youth to be their own individual, and make the right choices. Really awesome of you man!

  • @jasonwarren4926
    @jasonwarren4926 8 лет назад +2

    thanks dude God Bless you

  • @moisesescobarr
    @moisesescobarr 8 лет назад +5

    Good tips !! One of the best youtube channels for advice, keep up the good work josh.

  • @lorenzdavid9409
    @lorenzdavid9409 4 года назад +1

    Priceless Big Brother Advice! 💯 This video can boost our youngsters’ confidence toward the right direction. Saying NO is part of discipline. Thank you for your effort in making this video! Bravo 👏👏👏

  • @FreaackyFreaky
    @FreaackyFreaky 8 лет назад +4

    I guess I am a bad ass ever since last year

  • @ahmedkhalifa2726
    @ahmedkhalifa2726 4 года назад

    when some one try to make peer pressure to me i tell him i don’t like to be involved in that situation or something like that

  • @aprilcherry3542
    @aprilcherry3542 7 лет назад +3

    10 seconds in the video, I subscribed (and this is the first video I've seen from you, think)

  • @matthewwhite950
    @matthewwhite950 8 лет назад +2

    Josh, you forgot about just giving into peer pressure. You can find out whatever everyone else is doing is actually pretty fun

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  8 лет назад +1

      +Matthew White That's true, there are times where peer pressure can be positive. I wanted to focus on the anxious part of peer pressure, the side where you aren't comfortable with doing something but feel like you should simply because others want you to.

    • @dylanharris371
      @dylanharris371 8 лет назад

      +The Josh Speaks thanks man helped me out a lot

    • @minecraft123turtles6
      @minecraft123turtles6 8 лет назад

      Hi josh um I have a problem so I danced with this girl (im in grade 5) but our teacher forced the girls to say yes and the girl I asked did not say yes she said sure and now we have been talking a little bit but I'm starting to dislike her a little bit and falling for another girl we have been talking a lot as well in soccer she was on the bench and she said go and says my name what do I do does she like me and who should I go for plssss answer really need help on this and both of the girls are really beutiful so yeah what should I do plssssss reply and if anybody else wants reply be free to plsssss really need help with this.

  • @timothykapuchi
    @timothykapuchi 3 года назад

    God!!!! This guy is a genius🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • @HeroGollumModels
    @HeroGollumModels 8 лет назад

    Hey, I'm a new subscriber and I really enjoy your videos, forgive me if you've already done a video on this that I missed, but I'd really like to see a video covering 'How to find someone new'. As in, how do you find the right girl for you.
    Thank you, and I'm looking forward to seeing more great content from you!

  • @Thiccolas-tn1qg
    @Thiccolas-tn1qg 8 лет назад

    Me and my friend have a system. I went with my friend to hang with him and his crush to break the ice and vise versa. The problem was when I started to like the girl that I was hanging out with. I am pretty sure that she likes me too but I won't back stab my friend like an ass so it has been rough but I kept the bro code and I was the best damn wingman on the face of this fricking earth. Boy it is exhausting, it takes restraint not to hit on her. My friend is taking her to the movies in two days alone so I might get the girl I like to go with me but I will be thinking of what could of been. But great video josh.

  • @warpedreality7988
    @warpedreality7988 8 лет назад

    Hey Josh, in one of your videos you talked about asking her out when you know her a little better, can you describe how to recognize that moment?

  • @asonoha9332
    @asonoha9332 6 лет назад

    I was being peer pressured into drugs but I didnt know any of them except my friend, and he didnt do it either, we rlly just watched, but then we were being asked to do it but I was scared.

  • @ron4660
    @ron4660 8 лет назад +2

    i have a question
    How to propose a girl or tell her feelings you feel when she not you'r type like she's Mexican and speaks Spanish and I'm different from her.

  • @mattb6740
    @mattb6740 8 лет назад +2

    Josh I have problems in middle school. Everyone makes fun of me for the way I dress and how I act. Can you make a video on that subject.

    • @lilswxvy295
      @lilswxvy295 5 лет назад +1

      Matt B start a gofundme so you can buy gucci

    • @David-fo1rg
      @David-fo1rg 3 года назад

      It is social programming. People think when you act this or that way, dress this or that way, you are cool or boring or nerdy. But they need to understand not to judge or categorise someone by their appearance, rather than by the expression of their character.
      Or sometimes it could be their insecurities which are showing forth.

  • @FairyTail4237
    @FairyTail4237 8 лет назад

    hey man, what if that girl doesn't like me and rejects me alot and i like alot, what should do? i'm stuck in the bag now

  • @SikandarKhan-xf7ht
    @SikandarKhan-xf7ht 8 лет назад

    How do I get out of the freind zone (Middle School)

  • @tterrabnivag9498
    @tterrabnivag9498 8 лет назад

    Hey Josh, this is unrelated I just wanted to ask a question. Im In a weird spot right now, I have a big crush on this girl, who Im kinda friends with. But.... Shes an ex of one of my good friends, and that group of friends kind of doesn't like her at all and think shes annoying. So idk what to do because If I build up to asking her out and do that, my friends would be either mad or just upset. What should I do?

  • @tollelege5635
    @tollelege5635 5 лет назад

    Always pick your friends who are morally right with you

  • @joshtheclasher6024
    @joshtheclasher6024 8 лет назад

    Hey Josh, I know you must get hundreds of people asking for your help every day but this is really big for me and I need some help. There's this girl that we like each other and other people keep physically disrespecting her (touching her but) and asking her if they can touch places or send them pics. I'm in middle school going into high school next year and I'd like to know how to deal with them. Now I'm not usually with her when this happens. I'm a strong person so is intimidation useful? Any other solutions???

  • @avinashcradle5260
    @avinashcradle5260 8 лет назад

    hey josh i got a problem.I have been watching your videos for a while and have started to like your channel.! My problem is that the girl that i poured my haert rejected me.!Well the real deal is she is now hitting on me and saying she regrets and loves me h\what should i do please reply.!! Much love

    • @Czekaro
      @Czekaro 8 лет назад

      Ok, I'm not good with advice but I think she was playing hard to get before.

  • @thegloo2822
    @thegloo2822 8 лет назад

    I said this last video but can u make a video about how to be a nicer person? I feel like I'm an ass sometimes and I wanna be nicer all around.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  8 лет назад

      +THEGLOO 282 That's a great video topic, I'll add it to the list!

  • @gtfohtyler
    @gtfohtyler 8 лет назад

    my girlfriend just said let's take a break does this mean she will get back with me or she trying to let me down easy and it's over forever

  • @nickdiaz9830
    @nickdiaz9830 8 лет назад

    I know that this isn't relevant to the video, but I'm having problems at school with girls. (Warning long story) so it's 6th grade and all the kids are meeting each other for the first time. So me, being the dumbass I am, decided to be shy and only hang out with my guy friends, and don't talk to many girls. How do I start talking to girls now that's it's the end of 8th grade? Also how do you have any tips on blushing? I have the worst blushing problems, so the girls I do talk to ( and one I happen to like) I constantly blush in front of. Even if I don't like them and someone mentions something like that, I blush. Thanks!

  • @reboostproductions7379
    @reboostproductions7379 8 лет назад

    hey josh i have a crush on a girl that's taller than me can you make a video about if girls can date smaller boys. ps. I am in middle school.

  • @burnwyd7265
    @burnwyd7265 3 года назад

    It’s so weird that parents tell you not do substance abuse when some of them do the exact samething themselves.

    • @David-fo1rg
      @David-fo1rg 3 года назад +1

      They want you to learn from their inappropriate/bad habits or experiences which have negative consequences in their life’s.
      However, it is better to lead by example according to psychological studies, especially when teaching children or young people.

  • @jettb2931
    @jettb2931 8 лет назад

    someone help me there's a girl I really like my school and I asked her out and she still hasn't given me an answer and it's been 2 weeks and this Friday it'll be 3 what do I do is that a yes or a no

    • @Osabi
      @Osabi 8 лет назад

      I think thats a no man, sorry to tell u, she probably just didnt want to reject u

    • @jettb2931
      @jettb2931 8 лет назад

      +Osmar Barrientos :*(

    • @Osabi
      @Osabi 8 лет назад

      Jett Bennett its aight man theres lots of other girls out there bro

  • @derpygamer5658
    @derpygamer5658 8 лет назад

    Sooo... There's this girl I like and I would ask her out but she's in my home room and her mom is my teacher Plz help!

  • @ithexfuturexgameri4154
    @ithexfuturexgameri4154 8 лет назад

    i been active on this since alot josh i like this channel and i have a question i hope you answer it.... my best friend is done with his relationship with a girl i liked and i still do since kast year i wanna get her back but this other girl likes me so she is worried and thats her bestfriend too

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  8 лет назад

      +i TheXFutureXGamer i Hey, one thing I would suggest doing is talking to your friend before you pursue his ex. It's important to see if he's ok with it so you aren't hurting him by going after her. Do you think the other girl that likes you will get in the way?

    • @ithexfuturexgameri4154
      @ithexfuturexgameri4154 8 лет назад

      I think she probably will because when i go out with the girl i like she will just see us there and she will probably be dissapointed

    • @ithexfuturexgameri4154
      @ithexfuturexgameri4154 8 лет назад

      +The Josh Speaks thanks so much josh i really did that and now i actually am going out with her 1week already

  • @reboostproductions7379
    @reboostproductions7379 8 лет назад

    +thejoshspeaks

  • @mackenroll6914
    @mackenroll6914 8 лет назад

    Can you make a video about rumors man? Every one is saying I'm dating this girl and it's embarrassing her.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  8 лет назад

      +Mackenroll Gaming hey i made this video a while back on rumors. ruclips.net/video/kfQxrNyF2OY/видео.html

  • @reboostproductions7379
    @reboostproductions7379 8 лет назад

    #Thejoshspeaks

  • @connormitchell1021
    @connormitchell1021 8 лет назад

    What shall I do I fancy a girl I know but I am friends with her boyfriend but I really like her and I know they have no future

  • @quinberg2675
    @quinberg2675 8 лет назад

    Joshua. Excuse that

  • @khevdishdinajsing892
    @khevdishdinajsing892 8 лет назад

    +josh how to contact you
    too much of josh rodriguez on skype

  • @maze2888
    @maze2888 6 лет назад

    Someone is says ( do my homework or I well say rumors about you)