My mom told me that not long after she married my dad, he said he hated potato soup. She had made it one evening when he told her that, and she asked him to try a little bit since she worked hard on it. He did, and he was like, "That's not potato soup; this is great!" Turns out his mom would make "potato soup" when he was growing up, and the ingredients were potatoes, water, and salt. That's it. Apparently, there were a lot of foods my dad thought he hated when really he just hated his mom's cooking 😂
Something similar happened with my dad and pumpkin pie. My grandma was a good cook overall, but her pumpkin pie was awful. To spare her feelings, my dad never ate someone else’s pumpkin pie in front of her and pretended he didn’t like it for the rest of her life.
Yes 😂😂😂 The same thing happened to me and fish. I thought I hated fish, because no matter the fish, my mom would fry it on the stovetop in oil, without seasoning.
I wonder if he grew up poor and his mom just had to make do with what she had? Or maybe just a lazy cook, hehe 😅 On a different note; I’m a vegetarian and when I want a brown sauce/gravy I boil potatoes with a bullion cube and blend it (ad colouring if I have it). It can go as a soup if it’s that hunger part of the month.
Story 1: I said it the last time I heard it, so I'll say it again. Wild how when her son harms someone unwarranted its "Boys will be boys," but when someone else hurts her son unwarranted (though well deserved), suddenly its the end of the world.
Absolutely, it's frustrating how people use double standards like that. Everyone should be held accountable for their actions, regardless of the situation.
POST 4: Back in college, a girl I had never seen came up to me and said, "You'd have such a pretty face if you'd just lose some weight." For the record, I was 5'6, 135lbs, almost all of which was pure muscle. I wanted to cry, but instead just smiled sweetly and said, "You'd have such a nice personality if you just closed your mouth and minded your own business." She actually DID close her mouth and walked off. One of my proudest moments.
Story 1: “Boys will be boys” excuses too much toxic behavior. It should only be acceptable for things like making a mess while having fun or getting dirty while playing.
It should just be "kids will be kids" and apply to their silly but adorable games, and them making a mess and fun but possibly annoying things. Not an excuse for causing pain of any kind, weather it be the excuse for drunk frat boys doing bad things to college girls, or little boys getting violent.
"It should only be acceptable for things like making a mess while having fun or getting dirty while playing." Not even then, cause it only suggests to little girls who listen to this that it is not ok for them to have fun and be messy. "kids will be kids" is far better.
I love how you said “Cats are beautiful” at the exact moment my 2 year old Huckleberry Finn climbed up in my bed for some scritches. I told him, “Why yes, cats are beautiful!”
I hate when people tell kids “if you eat it enough you’ll like it”. You know how broken it made me feel that no matter how many tries I made to eat something and I didn’t like it? It made me feel like there was something wrong with me
Trying to force kids to eat foods they don't like just gives them hang ups about food, its also possible that tastes will shift when they're older and they will like the taste then, but now you can be sure they'll never want to be near it.
I often, accidentally, traumatize people back… and don’t realize it until later. I’m autistic and have ADHD so I’m very literal and honest with no filter. It just slips out.
I have Autism too and I semi freak out when someone touches my arm suddenly to get my attention. I explained to them I have Autism and don't like being touch and they apologize immediately.
I saw something online once that I use whenever someone asks me why I don't have or want kids: "My bloodline dies with me." Absolutely stymies them, their facial reactions are priceless XD
fun fact about cilantro, it used to be associated more with stink bugs than soap, since stink bugs have the same aldehyde that cilantro does. Koris, the greek word coriander is derived from, is the greek word for stink bug :D p.s. yes more of your kitties please!
@@seiretzym There is a gene that causes people to hate cilantro and it smells awful to them. I do not have this. It smells fresh like waking up in the morning surrounded by nature, to me. I have a couple of friends who the smell is so offensive to them, I leave it out of my homemade salsa. I wish you could experience how lovely it is. But alas, people are awesome regardless.
When we were small, my friend and I made a whole lifesize boargame on our neighbourhood road in chalk, complete with rules and special squares to land on, and to this day, I consider it amongst my life's greatest achievements.
Story 2: "That's not soup that's salty cilantro tea" EXACTLY! The entire time after the mom called it "soup" I was thinking "that's not soup it's just cilantro flavored salt water"
Except that “being relatives with” gives you an upper hand too. The most successful people I know either grew up rich or inherited a large sum of money when they were in their late teens/early 20s. The most successful one got an apartment paid for, so she could get two degrees at once bc she didn’t need a job. She took 6 months off anyway (without needing to save for it or worry about where food or shelter would come from) to write a book and she’s now an author who has had books translated into many languages. She’s very talented, but she also was related to rich people who made it possible for her to publish books in her 20s rather than 40s/50s like most authors do
@BexsBoxofConfusion I know,But the "people" I'm talking about are like those in this story that are actual jerky losers that just leech and leech off of others
Story 9: my advice, next time someone say "may i ask why" say "no, you may not" and change the subject. Most people will get the hint, the ones that don't aren't worth having around you anyways
Animal lovers are happy to care for a relatively defenseless life just for the chance of being shown affection. Animals are good at filtering out good and bad people
I’m a trans guy and it’s actually wild how often I would be asked shit like “why aren’t you going to have kids” and “oh you’ll change your mind eventually” before I passed as a man with the magic that is hormone replacement therapy. Even after I was out, and after starting to transition!! But now, slipping under the radar of most misogyny, also since I’m gay and the assumption is that there’s no uterus involved in my relationship at all (no biological kids within the realm of possibility anyways) I’ve truly been freed the evil is defeated etc. NOBODY has asked me that in ages! The ultimate traumatize them back, for me, would be to eventually change my mind and have a kid just like my family used to say I would, now that I have a gruff voice and facial/body hair and muscles lmao. But even typing that out, naaaah I could never. There are trans guys out there who are hella masculine and still able to carry a child to term who actually do choose to do so, and I am truly in awe of their strength. People like that are the stuff of myths I swear, I’m convinced they could fight god and win
@@jaeydnheerenI will not do it!!! I am way too much of a Hot Mess Express simply taking care of myself lol. But I nonetheless treasure the support you offer c: and I am wishing you good health and peace of mind for the duration of your pregnancy and as you recuperate afterwards!
That’s really tough, and it’s crazy how persistent those outdated expectations are. I’m glad you’re finding your way and navigating through all of it. Stay strong!
Women experience this and the question itself is not misogyny, let alone "evil". It can be annoying, however. If that is what made you take HRT, that is unsettling.
Story 2: this one reminds me of when I was little, and my dad would get upset at left behind food. So one day he made sure I ate everything on my plate, it was too much, and I threw it back up on the plate (miraculously stayed in the plate). Leftovers were ok after that 😂.
so glad you and the furrbabies are home..did they scurry around, checking to make sure that all there favorite snuggly corners were like they left them to pass inspection?!😊
Story 9: Find and compile the best comment, and depending on situation. For sranger in restaurant, start crying and Your partner can say, "How can You be so crues, we just had a second misscarige", they will get bad looks, and You get sympathy points, and meaby even free diner.
Story 2- I love cilantro and that "soup" sounded vile. Also, I never met anyone who disliked cilantro and thought it tasted like soap until I moved from northeast Brazil to the US and considering the local cuisine I grew up with I think anyone who might have had the soap taste cilantro gene would have just starved.
Violence is not the answer is kind of a stupid thing to say. Violence is the only answer sometimes, like if somebody is trying to stab you, youd be pretty stupid to not fight back. I mean, you always try to get away first, but sometimes thats not possible. And "Violence is not the answer" kind of implies that self defense is bad. We need better saying like "instigating the violence is not the answer" or "unwarented violence is mot the answer"
There's people who've been harassed into moving because they've had to act in self-defense against armed burglars. Some people are wild with how far their beliefs go
Aww Nez is so cute ,I've been binging your videos because I've got covid but these videos are great way to spend the time and it's great that your power is back
Had a zippy bag of tampons in my cargo pocket, on top of a bag of contraband. Cop asked me to empty my pockets and I pulled out the tampons. He looked at me strangely, like he wanted to ask if they were for me, but decided to just walk off. Tampons are magical man repellent.
“Cilantro” is just Spanish for coriander. Basically, in America, British cooks popularized “coriander” seeds, and Mexican cooks popularized “cilantro” leaves. So to Americans, the spice is coriander and the herb is cilantro. Another fun fact is that stinkbugs release the same aldehydes that cause the soapy taste, so when OP said they thought it smelled like stinky bugs, they are 100% correct. Stinkbugs smell weirdly like cilantro.
r/TraumatizeThemBack is a great compilation of stories about people who think their two cents are welcomed even in places where their money is no good. I look forward to future videos on this.
Story6: The first time I had my period I was visiting my great grandparents and my great grandfather went out and bought me pads. He had no problem doing that. He was confused about the variety and had to ask someone for help. Post 8: I work retail and a coworker was carrying a microwave to put back and a lady told her she shouldn’t carry something so heavy when she was pregnant. She said I’m not pregnant just bloated. She has Crohn’s disease.
Story 9:Lol,Nice solution to jerks,I shall use this everytime Damn,this subreddit was real cool,It taught me to fight fire with lava (like how Akainu killed Ace (One Piece))
Post 9. I literally don't understand why people push parenting on people. I'm a mom and it's the best thing that's ever happened to me. That said it is hard AF. I'm literally sick right now and I can't just lie in bed because I have to take care of him. If you wouldn't ask a math teacher why they aren't a business owner or a physicist why they don't sell art in Etsy then why would you ask a person why they aren't a parent? It's not for everybody and that's OK. Our differences is what makes the world a better place.
When my boomer father hears about anything feminine health related from me, my mom, or sister, he'll stick his fingers in his and speed walk from the room going "oh jeez, lalalalala". Not just periods too. He did the same thing when I talked to my mom about a mammogram.
To be fair, trying a food 10 times is supposed to make it something your brain is used to. By 20 times, if you don't like it, then you just outright don't like it.
Story 6: the cops ask questions like that because people who are doing something nefarious often struggle to keep their story sensible. It seems once he realized he was most likely unnecessarily detaining a woman who was actively bleeding, he felt the need to hasten the process and save her the discomfort. I don't see any indication that he was afraid of tampons like all the responses seem to be reaching for. I know a lot of guys are weird around tampons but from what I can tell from the video, the commenters pulled that out of thin air.
It's bewildering how many people HATE kids playing with sidewalk chalk. When I was in elementary school, the school would provide some things to play with at recess. Hula hoops, jump ropes, and SIDEWALK CHALK. Explain to me why when some of us used the chalk they provided us on the brick wall, the recess monitor lady lost her damn mind, threatening us with detention and the like. No one even drew anything bad? We were just coloring bricks different colors. Really bizarre.
I'm 62, so I bet you can all guess how much I was badgered, often by complete strangers (I had a customer facing biz), about my lack of children. I tried deflection, I tried saying helping raise my 9 years younger little sister was plenty, I tried bringing up nonspecific childhood trauma and my fears of being an abusive parent since that's what I knew, and nothing stopped the questions. Finally, I hit upon the perfect response which, being in a small town, I didn't have to say often: If I can't eat it, sell it, give it away or shoot it, I don't want it!
I got sterilized when I could at 28, my choice and my ex and I never had kids. I’m not ashamed to say it was mainly due to mental health issues, go bpd! But if anyone asks when I go to planned parenthood, because I don’t have a regular doctor, I’ll just traumatize them as to why I can’t have kids, and I still need medical care.
It doesn't matter if I've heard every single one of these stories before; since Vincey's reading them for the first time, it feels like the first time again!
first time i told my grandpa i didn’t want kids i was a teenager and it seemed to genuinely piss him off, now after being married for 5 years whenever i remind him he just sighs in a resigned way
Any time a parent says their kid doesn't know any better they're admitting to being a bad parent. Because that's YOUR job as a parent. You DO know better and you're supposed to teach them.
Story 2: ... What the heck? If you don't like something, you don't. Period. you can only try at a later age again cause your tastebuds are changing over time. I'm so happy my mom was hearing me out and didn't make me eat anything I didn't like (except for her favorite soup... I didn't like red beets, but she did let me go with one laddle of soup... But I also didn't gag or have an upset stomach...) she was simply looking out that I at least eat SOMETHING and in the case I was ill or anything and telling her I'm not feeling good or it doesn't taste good, she would let me go. She wouldn't even make me try if I did say I don't want to (and only when I became an adult I actually started eating like everything... Or at least try everything, cause I didn't want my nephew to have someone to point at and use as an excuse to NOT try food... And cause it's the right thing to do...) Story 4: ... I would probably have lashed out and told her that nobody forces her to look at me and if she doesn't like it, she has the freedom to purchase or go to a private beach instead of a public one, so she won't have to see ANYONE who doesn't fit her aesthetics Story 6: ... I understand that used tampons are icky (like when you had wrapped them up and thrown in the bin and they bleed out and of various reasons you need to get them out without a trash bag and it stucks in the bin so you need to somehow get it out) but freshly bought ones? Tampons without even a hinge of blood? Some people are REALLY sensitive... My boyfriend would even wash my undies if my pad didn't work well and I bled on the side (but I usually do it myself, cause it's easier when it just happend and it is my responsibility... But he WOULD if I were sick and not able to stand long enough to rinse it clean and stuff...) This only shows that getting boys and girls seperated for puberty lessons is stupid. Boys don't learn about periods, girls learn it's a "hush, hush"-topic and men either think absolute false stuff about it or get really icky with the topic and in not as rare as they should be occasions: both
3:20 - I have this! Parsley is.... gross. I mean it's not just that, a lot of similar green leafy foods like that I absolutely can't stand. Parsley is soapy, cabbage, sprouts and kale are bitter. Some are kinda in between the soapy and bitter spectrum for me which sucks. The only leafy things I'm safe with are spinnach and seaweed.... though that's not exactly leafy lol
The twist where the woman wasn't actually pregnant but was just fed up with people assuming she was-wow, that must have been a serious wake-up call for your dad! Definitely a reminder for everyone to never assume anything about someone's body.
ps tampons are fantastic for penetrating injuries like bullet wounds or being skewered with a branch. everyone should carry them. They are wound treatment devices as well as menstrual products and if you have one in your bag and a person needs one, you'll be a big damn hero. .001 oz of space the size of a thick pen.
I always love your video playlists, especially for doing art projects!! I'm making a Tri-stringer [from splatoon 3] right now and had your entitled parents playlist in the background, and I got through a good part of the main body in just 2 videos!! :D
People butting into your private life, asking questions that are none of their business … Stories 8 & 9 - I get it. I used to get asked, Why aren’t you married? Aren’t you looking for a husband? Telling them I hadn’t met anyone I liked enough to spend the rest of my life with didn’t work, so I got snarky: NO!!! I’m not looking for someone else’s husband! I’m looking for a bachelor!! THAT somehow got them to back off. I did eventually, at 37, get married. And no one ever dared ask if I wanted babies!
Story 8: I used to work with a woman who had a massive stomach tumor. Due to other severe health problems, removing it would kill her; but it was a constant sign that she was preparing to leave this world. She had to wear maternity clothes to accommodate the tumor. I will never, ever assume a woman is pregnant; you just can't know that there isn't another, very painful reason her stomach could be distended.
Omg a cat! Yes please, this channel needs more cats to help us relax after some posts. Some humans really do suck, but luckily there are also cute kitties in this world to compensate ❤
Post 2: Some people seem to have a weird fascination with locking onto others' dislikes, discomforts, or personality quirks and trying to change them. I think this falls into that category. It's one thing to be in denial about your child hating cilantro but still respect their utter hatred for it. It's another to make up a "soup" and force them to eat it.
My best friend used to hate cilantro. Said it tasted like soap, all that jazz. Suddenly she started loving it, to the point of being obsessed with the flavor, just like me. I didn't even know that was possible for soapies.
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My mom told me that not long after she married my dad, he said he hated potato soup. She had made it one evening when he told her that, and she asked him to try a little bit since she worked hard on it. He did, and he was like, "That's not potato soup; this is great!" Turns out his mom would make "potato soup" when he was growing up, and the ingredients were potatoes, water, and salt. That's it. Apparently, there were a lot of foods my dad thought he hated when really he just hated his mom's cooking 😂
Something similar happened with my dad and pumpkin pie. My grandma was a good cook overall, but her pumpkin pie was awful.
To spare her feelings, my dad never ate someone else’s pumpkin pie in front of her and pretended he didn’t like it for the rest of her life.
Yes 😂😂😂 The same thing happened to me and fish. I thought I hated fish, because no matter the fish, my mom would fry it on the stovetop in oil, without seasoning.
@@elaexploreroh god I’d think I would hate fish too luckily the first fish I had was grouper nuggets 🤤
I wonder if he grew up poor and his mom just had to make do with what she had? Or maybe just a lazy cook, hehe 😅
On a different note; I’m a vegetarian and when I want a brown sauce/gravy I boil potatoes with a bullion cube and blend it (ad colouring if I have it). It can go as a soup if it’s that hunger part of the month.
That’s a cute story! Sometimes a little misunderstanding can lead to a new favorite dish. Glad it worked out!
Story 1: I said it the last time I heard it, so I'll say it again. Wild how when her son harms someone unwarranted its "Boys will be boys," but when someone else hurts her son unwarranted (though well deserved), suddenly its the end of the world.
Absolutely, it's frustrating how people use double standards like that. Everyone should be held accountable for their actions, regardless of the situation.
"He doesn't know any better."
Mam, that's your job. You're supposed to make sure he does.
POST 4: Back in college, a girl I had never seen came up to me and said, "You'd have such a pretty face if you'd just lose some weight." For the record, I was 5'6, 135lbs, almost all of which was pure muscle. I wanted to cry, but instead just smiled sweetly and said, "You'd have such a nice personality if you just closed your mouth and minded your own business." She actually DID close her mouth and walked off. One of my proudest moments.
Gold. Well done Nancy.
When I tell people I don't want kids they usually respond with "you might one day." I'm thirty-seven and won't change my mind anytime soon.
Story 1: “Boys will be boys” excuses too much toxic behavior. It should only be acceptable for things like making a mess while having fun or getting dirty while playing.
Xys never held accountable.
It should just be "kids will be kids" and apply to their silly but adorable games, and them making a mess and fun but possibly annoying things. Not an excuse for causing pain of any kind, weather it be the excuse for drunk frat boys doing bad things to college girls, or little boys getting violent.
I gotta remember than line if I'm ever charged with literal warcrimes. Can't fault me if I'm a man, right?
"It should only be acceptable for things like making a mess while having fun or getting dirty while playing."
Not even then, cause it only suggests to little girls who listen to this that it is not ok for them to have fun and be messy. "kids will be kids" is far better.
@@mjjoe76 it's the unofficial slogan of the Murdaugh family. Seriously such a dangerous thing to teach your kids of any gender
I love how you said “Cats are beautiful” at the exact moment my 2 year old Huckleberry Finn climbed up in my bed for some scritches. I told him, “Why yes, cats are beautiful!”
Is that Mr Huckleberry in your profile picture…? 👀👀👀
I hate when people tell kids “if you eat it enough you’ll like it”. You know how broken it made me feel that no matter how many tries I made to eat something and I didn’t like it? It made me feel like there was something wrong with me
Trying to force kids to eat foods they don't like just gives them hang ups about food, its also possible that tastes will shift when they're older and they will like the taste then, but now you can be sure they'll never want to be near it.
I often, accidentally, traumatize people back… and don’t realize it until later. I’m autistic and have ADHD so I’m very literal and honest with no filter. It just slips out.
I have Autism too and I semi freak out when someone touches my arm suddenly to get my attention. I explained to them I have Autism and don't like being touch and they apologize immediately.
Same lol. Not sure on the Autism but definitely ADHD
@@Yumi_Jay No one likes that. It's not specific to being autistic.
I saw something online once that I use whenever someone asks me why I don't have or want kids: "My bloodline dies with me." Absolutely stymies them, their facial reactions are priceless XD
Awww, your cat is adorable. I love his little face pattern around the mouth, almost like he stuck his face in a jar of food.
fun fact about cilantro, it used to be associated more with stink bugs than soap, since stink bugs have the same aldehyde that cilantro does. Koris, the greek word coriander is derived from, is the greek word for stink bug :D
p.s. yes more of your kitties please!
yes it smells straight like stink bugs!! I thought I was the weird one cause the internet always says soap!
That would explain why it tastes and smells like stink bugs and not soap for me! How disgusting.
@@thetherrannative y-youve tasted stink bugs 😳
@@seiretzym There is a gene that causes people to hate cilantro and it smells awful to them. I do not have this. It smells fresh like waking up in the morning surrounded by nature, to me. I have a couple of friends who the smell is so offensive to them, I leave it out of my homemade salsa. I wish you could experience how lovely it is. But alas, people are awesome regardless.
@@seiretzymEXACTLY WHAT I'VE ALWAYS THOUGHT!!
When we were small, my friend and I made a whole lifesize boargame on our neighbourhood road in chalk, complete with rules and special squares to land on, and to this day, I consider it amongst my life's greatest achievements.
That's adorable! 😍👌🙌
Awesome
That’s so cool
Story 2: "That's not soup that's salty cilantro tea" EXACTLY! The entire time after the mom called it "soup" I was thinking "that's not soup it's just cilantro flavored salt water"
Yes, love the Nez photo, and also that you're back at home with power!
Awww! Adorable little Nez! We really need to see more pics of Vincey's cats.
Story 7:Some people aren't rich,They're just relatives of actually rich people
Except that “being relatives with” gives you an upper hand too. The most successful people I know either grew up rich or inherited a large sum of money when they were in their late teens/early 20s. The most successful one got an apartment paid for, so she could get two degrees at once bc she didn’t need a job. She took 6 months off anyway (without needing to save for it or worry about where food or shelter would come from) to write a book and she’s now an author who has had books translated into many languages. She’s very talented, but she also was related to rich people who made it possible for her to publish books in her 20s rather than 40s/50s like most authors do
@BexsBoxofConfusion
I know,But the "people" I'm talking about are like those in this story that are actual jerky losers that just leech and leech off of others
So true! Having rich connections doesn’t automatically make you rich, but it sure can change perceptions.
story 1: "he doesn't know any better" -- clearly not? so why haven't you taught him any better??
because she doesn’t either while thinking she knows everything. typical westerners
@@CassxowaryIts not only Western Problem
This problem exist in every culture that favours boys over girls
"I'm gonna start including more cat pictures" just when I thought I couldn't love your videos any more than I already do
Story 2: I have the soap gene, too. I really wonder what it is supposed to taste like but to me it tastes like biting into a bar of soap.
It's a little citrusy. Like mixing lemon, pepper, and parsley
@@elaexplorer That sounds much better than eating soap :D
It doesn't really smell or taste like much to me, just a bit bitter because it's a leaf.
Story 9: my advice, next time someone say "may i ask why" say "no, you may not" and change the subject. Most people will get the hint, the ones that don't aren't worth having around you anyways
I'm not having children either which my username already gives away. I've turned 43 and I had a hysterectomy. No children and no periods. It's lovely.
Live your best life.
How did you convince them? Asking for me XD
Same here 😂❤
literally so real for that
❤🎉😊
0:25 AWHWHHSHS NEZ
Coriander is just the dried seed in the US, Cilantro is the plant
Story 5:Bro,This guy's mind is stuck in the medieval days
The fact Vincey is a cat lover just makes him feel even more trustworthy.
Animal lovers are happy to care for a relatively defenseless life just for the chance of being shown affection. Animals are good at filtering out good and bad people
I’m a trans guy and it’s actually wild how often I would be asked shit like “why aren’t you going to have kids” and “oh you’ll change your mind eventually” before I passed as a man with the magic that is hormone replacement therapy. Even after I was out, and after starting to transition!! But now, slipping under the radar of most misogyny, also since I’m gay and the assumption is that there’s no uterus involved in my relationship at all (no biological kids within the realm of possibility anyways) I’ve truly been freed the evil is defeated etc. NOBODY has asked me that in ages!
The ultimate traumatize them back, for me, would be to eventually change my mind and have a kid just like my family used to say I would, now that I have a gruff voice and facial/body hair and muscles lmao. But even typing that out, naaaah I could never. There are trans guys out there who are hella masculine and still able to carry a child to term who actually do choose to do so, and I am truly in awe of their strength. People like that are the stuff of myths I swear, I’m convinced they could fight god and win
as a trans man whos currently pregnant, i support this plan lmao
@@jaeydnheerenI will not do it!!! I am way too much of a Hot Mess Express simply taking care of myself lol. But I nonetheless treasure the support you offer c: and I am wishing you good health and peace of mind for the duration of your pregnancy and as you recuperate afterwards!
That’s really tough, and it’s crazy how persistent those outdated expectations are. I’m glad you’re finding your way and navigating through all of it. Stay strong!
Women experience this and the question itself is not misogyny, let alone "evil". It can be annoying, however. If that is what made you take HRT, that is unsettling.
@@tungstenanderson5991 creepy as fuck that you feel the need to speculate about why I went on hrt, thanks
Violence isnt the answer, its the question. The answer is yes.
Story 2: this one reminds me of when I was little, and my dad would get upset at left behind food. So one day he made sure I ate everything on my plate, it was too much, and I threw it back up on the plate (miraculously stayed in the plate).
Leftovers were ok after that 😂.
Hurray❣️Vincey promised more kitty pics!!🥳
so glad you and the furrbabies are home..did they scurry around, checking to make sure that all there favorite snuggly corners were like they left them to pass inspection?!😊
Glad you're back home. Thanks for being consistent even through all the troubles
Story 9: Find and compile the best comment, and depending on situation. For sranger in restaurant, start crying and Your partner can say, "How can You be so crues, we just had a second misscarige", they will get bad looks, and You get sympathy points, and meaby even free diner.
One minute, aww cute kitty❤
As a tea enjoyer, we don't claim that cilantro concoction either
Story 2- I love cilantro and that "soup" sounded vile. Also, I never met anyone who disliked cilantro and thought it tasted like soap until I moved from northeast Brazil to the US and considering the local cuisine I grew up with I think anyone who might have had the soap taste cilantro gene would have just starved.
Violence is not the answer is kind of a stupid thing to say. Violence is the only answer sometimes, like if somebody is trying to stab you, youd be pretty stupid to not fight back. I mean, you always try to get away first, but sometimes thats not possible. And "Violence is not the answer" kind of implies that self defense is bad.
We need better saying like "instigating the violence is not the answer" or "unwarented violence is mot the answer"
There's people who've been harassed into moving because they've had to act in self-defense against armed burglars. Some people are wild with how far their beliefs go
Story 4:Dude,That monster of a woman was just being rude for no reason at all
Glad your power is back! :) also Nez is very cute, a good palette cleanser
Boiling cilantro makes it even stronger, poor OP.
Love Vincey being offended over the "soup"s on behalf of all soup
Oooh I love this subreddit it’s so funny when Karens get their shite back 😂😂😂
Exactly 😂
Story 1 that kid is a legend and is going places
Such a cute cat with a round snugglable face! Give them cuddles from all of us.
Aww Nez is so cute ,I've been binging your videos because I've got covid but these videos are great way to spend the time and it's great that your power is back
Sorry you have covid mate, hope it doesn't last long. I agree about the cuteness of Nez!
Oh, Bearie and Vincey, Kitten Conversation will keep me smiling for the coming week, at least.
Awe, wonderful little Nez-Nez! 😻
Violence isn't the answer, it's the question. And the answer to that question is always YES!!!
Story 2: Leek and potato soup is a thing, but I don't think I've heard of leek soup.
I love leek and potato soup, but yeah I don't think that leek soup is really a thing 😅
It does appear to be a real thing since your mention of it links to a recipe for leek soup, the recipe picture looks really good too
Leek soup is a thing, just like how potato soup is a thing. Almost anything can be a soup tbh 😂
Had a zippy bag of tampons in my cargo pocket, on top of a bag of contraband. Cop asked me to empty my pockets and I pulled out the tampons. He looked at me strangely, like he wanted to ask if they were for me, but decided to just walk off. Tampons are magical man repellent.
“Cilantro” is just Spanish for coriander. Basically, in America, British cooks popularized “coriander” seeds, and Mexican cooks popularized “cilantro” leaves. So to Americans, the spice is coriander and the herb is cilantro.
Another fun fact is that stinkbugs release the same aldehydes that cause the soapy taste, so when OP said they thought it smelled like stinky bugs, they are 100% correct. Stinkbugs smell weirdly like cilantro.
Nice, Vincey.
I really like this sub and the revenge ones, you are the perfect narrator for these.
Keep up the great work
Agreed ❤
Story 6:What's wrong with this guy?
The cat tax has been paid, for the day. But be aware it could be due again tomorrow.
r/TraumatizeThemBack is a great compilation of stories about people who think their two cents are welcomed even in places where their money is no good. I look forward to future videos on this.
Story6: The first time I had my period I was visiting my great grandparents and my great grandfather went out and bought me pads. He had no problem doing that. He was confused about the variety and had to ask someone for help.
Post 8: I work retail and a coworker was carrying a microwave to put back and a lady told her she shouldn’t carry something so heavy when she was pregnant. She said I’m not pregnant just bloated. She has Crohn’s disease.
CAT PHOTO! instant like on the video
Story 9:Lol,Nice solution to jerks,I shall use this everytime
Damn,this subreddit was real cool,It taught me to fight fire with lava (like how Akainu killed Ace (One Piece))
Lmao yep 😂
Post 9. I literally don't understand why people push parenting on people. I'm a mom and it's the best thing that's ever happened to me. That said it is hard AF. I'm literally sick right now and I can't just lie in bed because I have to take care of him. If you wouldn't ask a math teacher why they aren't a business owner or a physicist why they don't sell art in Etsy then why would you ask a person why they aren't a parent? It's not for everybody and that's OK. Our differences is what makes the world a better place.
Do you not have anyone to watch the kids?
When my boomer father hears about anything feminine health related from me, my mom, or sister, he'll stick his fingers in his and speed walk from the room going "oh jeez, lalalalala". Not just periods too. He did the same thing when I talked to my mom about a mammogram.
I think I'm in love with this subreddit, it's people learning the hard way. And I'm for it.
To be fair, trying a food 10 times is supposed to make it something your brain is used to. By 20 times, if you don't like it, then you just outright don't like it.
Story 6: the cops ask questions like that because people who are doing something nefarious often struggle to keep their story sensible. It seems once he realized he was most likely unnecessarily detaining a woman who was actively bleeding, he felt the need to hasten the process and save her the discomfort. I don't see any indication that he was afraid of tampons like all the responses seem to be reaching for. I know a lot of guys are weird around tampons but from what I can tell from the video, the commenters pulled that out of thin air.
This is what I got too
Story 3:Why didn't she get locked up?
YES show us the FLOOFS ❤
A cat photo and Minecraft horses, bonus! :)
It's bewildering how many people HATE kids playing with sidewalk chalk. When I was in elementary school, the school would provide some things to play with at recess. Hula hoops, jump ropes, and SIDEWALK CHALK. Explain to me why when some of us used the chalk they provided us on the brick wall, the recess monitor lady lost her damn mind, threatening us with detention and the like. No one even drew anything bad? We were just coloring bricks different colors. Really bizarre.
This just made my year 🥹🥹🥹
Thank you Vincey for struggling through electricity and internet troubles to give us fun videos every day
I'm 62, so I bet you can all guess how much I was badgered, often by complete strangers (I had a customer facing biz), about my lack of children. I tried deflection, I tried saying helping raise my 9 years younger little sister was plenty, I tried bringing up nonspecific childhood trauma and my fears of being an abusive parent since that's what I knew, and nothing stopped the questions. Finally, I hit upon the perfect response which, being in a small town, I didn't have to say often: If I can't eat it, sell it, give it away or shoot it, I don't want it!
You technically could do all of that with kids but you be viewed as a monster for doing so
@@doll9340 fair point!
I got sterilized when I could at 28, my choice and my ex and I never had kids. I’m not ashamed to say it was mainly due to mental health issues, go bpd! But if anyone asks when I go to planned parenthood, because I don’t have a regular doctor, I’ll just traumatize them as to why I can’t have kids, and I still need medical care.
Water, Cilantro, Salt... you seasoned the water. That is not a soup.
You have seen the light,Vincey
I love how Nez looks like she stuck her face into a bowl of butterscotch pudding! 😂
It doesn't matter if I've heard every single one of these stories before; since Vincey's reading them for the first time, it feels like the first time again!
first time i told my grandpa i didn’t want kids i was a teenager and it seemed to genuinely piss him off, now after being married for 5 years whenever i remind him he just sighs in a resigned way
Story2: those would actually be called vegetable broths. A bad vegetable broth.
Any time a parent says their kid doesn't know any better they're admitting to being a bad parent. Because that's YOUR job as a parent. You DO know better and you're supposed to teach them.
9:22 so the friends weren't gonna say anything untill she said her baby died good god
And the next story it sounds like a inside thought that escaped
Story 8:What in the huh?
Awesome now I've got a whole new subreddit to obsessively read when I'm board. Thanks Vincey 😊
Story 2: ... What the heck? If you don't like something, you don't. Period. you can only try at a later age again cause your tastebuds are changing over time.
I'm so happy my mom was hearing me out and didn't make me eat anything I didn't like (except for her favorite soup... I didn't like red beets, but she did let me go with one laddle of soup... But I also didn't gag or have an upset stomach...) she was simply looking out that I at least eat SOMETHING and in the case I was ill or anything and telling her I'm not feeling good or it doesn't taste good, she would let me go. She wouldn't even make me try if I did say I don't want to (and only when I became an adult I actually started eating like everything... Or at least try everything, cause I didn't want my nephew to have someone to point at and use as an excuse to NOT try food... And cause it's the right thing to do...)
Story 4: ... I would probably have lashed out and told her that nobody forces her to look at me and if she doesn't like it, she has the freedom to purchase or go to a private beach instead of a public one, so she won't have to see ANYONE who doesn't fit her aesthetics
Story 6: ... I understand that used tampons are icky (like when you had wrapped them up and thrown in the bin and they bleed out and of various reasons you need to get them out without a trash bag and it stucks in the bin so you need to somehow get it out) but freshly bought ones? Tampons without even a hinge of blood? Some people are REALLY sensitive... My boyfriend would even wash my undies if my pad didn't work well and I bled on the side (but I usually do it myself, cause it's easier when it just happend and it is my responsibility... But he WOULD if I were sick and not able to stand long enough to rinse it clean and stuff...)
This only shows that getting boys and girls seperated for puberty lessons is stupid. Boys don't learn about periods, girls learn it's a "hush, hush"-topic and men either think absolute false stuff about it or get really icky with the topic and in not as rare as they should be occasions: both
Yes - keep the cat tax coming! 😺😸😹😻
i would love to see minecraft bees in the background
Story 2:That was not food,That was acid
3:20 - I have this! Parsley is.... gross.
I mean it's not just that, a lot of similar green leafy foods like that I absolutely can't stand. Parsley is soapy, cabbage, sprouts and kale are bitter. Some are kinda in between the soapy and bitter spectrum for me which sucks.
The only leafy things I'm safe with are spinnach and seaweed.... though that's not exactly leafy lol
The twist where the woman wasn't actually pregnant but was just fed up with people assuming she was-wow, that must have been a serious wake-up call for your dad! Definitely a reminder for everyone to never assume anything about someone's body.
Oooo this new subreddit is spicy, I love it! And glad to hear you have power back!
ps tampons are fantastic for penetrating injuries like bullet wounds or being skewered with a branch. everyone should carry them. They are wound treatment devices as well as menstrual products and if you have one in your bag and a person needs one, you'll be a big damn hero. .001 oz of space the size of a thick pen.
This episode was so good. I’m going to listen again!
I always love your video playlists, especially for doing art projects!! I'm making a Tri-stringer [from splatoon 3] right now and had your entitled parents playlist in the background, and I got through a good part of the main body in just 2 videos!! :D
A new sub! I am sooo here for it. Congrats on power being back!! And thank you for nez pictures!!
People butting into your private life, asking questions that are none of their business … Stories 8 & 9 - I get it. I used to get asked, Why aren’t you married? Aren’t you looking for a husband? Telling them I hadn’t met anyone I liked enough to spend the rest of my life with didn’t work, so I got snarky: NO!!! I’m not looking for someone else’s husband! I’m looking for a bachelor!! THAT somehow got them to back off. I did eventually, at 37, get married. And no one ever dared ask if I wanted babies!
That's hilarious 😂 although I would ask them why they assume my sexuality
Searching something up on Google while reading on Reddit really reminds me of OneTopic😂
Story 8: I used to work with a woman who had a massive stomach tumor. Due to other severe health problems, removing it would kill her; but it was a constant sign that she was preparing to leave this world. She had to wear maternity clothes to accommodate the tumor. I will never, ever assume a woman is pregnant; you just can't know that there isn't another, very painful reason her stomach could be distended.
For story 2 I was actively fiddling with a cilantro bunch as I was listening to it 😂
Omg a cat! Yes please, this channel needs more cats to help us relax after some posts. Some humans really do suck, but luckily there are also cute kitties in this world to compensate ❤
One again you’ve made my day vincey. Ty and continue to do what you do. 😊
I also don’t want children. So January this year I finally got my tubes tied. So now I can say with a straight face “I’m infertile” 😂
Post 2: Some people seem to have a weird fascination with locking onto others' dislikes, discomforts, or personality quirks and trying to change them. I think this falls into that category. It's one thing to be in denial about your child hating cilantro but still respect their utter hatred for it. It's another to make up a "soup" and force them to eat it.
My best friend used to hate cilantro. Said it tasted like soap, all that jazz. Suddenly she started loving it, to the point of being obsessed with the flavor, just like me. I didn't even know that was possible for soapies.