08:34 "auraten bare-minimum pe q khush hoti hain?!" because we are taught that bachpan se k compromise, sabar sab tumne karna hai and men can do 4 shadiya so if he's loyal, he's doing ehsan
So true! Koi humein sirf pyar se baat kar le toh hum jaan dene ko tayar ho jatey hain. Humein sikhaya jata hai ki pyar paaney ke liye apni worth prove karni hoti hai seh ke, chup reh ke..,koi mard humein pyar karega tabhi hum pyar ke layak hain
Living in Hyderabad which is in southern part of India I feel there are lot of similarities between our cultures. I always watch your ask ganjiswag episodes for your insights on various topics which helps me a lot in my day to day life. I became a better citizen compared to what i was few years back. The way am parking my bike following traffic rules and even after drinking chai from road side shop am throwing cup in dustbin that i used to randomly throw it on road. These small behavioural changes really made me a better person and influenced my way of thinking. I have a lot of issues in my personal life but am dealing with them with confidence. In one of your episodes u said "darr k aage jeeth hai isliye maine darr na chodhdiya" that line hit me hard like never before. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Keep inspiring many ppl like u always do. I wish some day we will meet. I pray to prabhu shriram to make this happen.
Red flag girl: Run please! If he has trouble now, what are you going to do during your night stays, calls, house job & residency? Get out of this relationship, your mom will be glad you took decision right now.
Junaid sir. I understand what you felt at the end of it. Having been gone through the same experience. I know how hard it is to see someone dying. Sending my condolences.
1st question: insecure people are very unattractive. People have normalized toxic behavior in the name of love. Controlling your partner’s life preferences, clothes, career, etc. is NOT LOVE. Possessiveness is NOT LOVE. Jealousy is NOT LOVE. Nobody owns you, not even your gf/bf or husband/wife. People suffocate each other in the name of love
I’m sorry you can’t have male friends as a female or female friends as a male. Islamically or or even as a general way of living. As man you will have natural insecurity feeling if your woman is spending any time with male frnd or even other way around. It’s the most stupid thing if anyone does that
@@bilalrk54 the whole problem is created by you men! Men only make female friends with the hope to hook up for sex at an available opportunity, whereas women see male friendship just like friendship. You men have ruined things for women as well, you men know other men and their bad intentions, it’s funny how men defend men but don’t want their own sisters or wives to even talk to other men. News for you!! Women can actually be just friends with male friends, if you men can’t stop thinking about sex in front of a female friend, that’s your issue. You’re just another male hypocrite, who will doubt his wife but then cheat with another woman and justify cheating by saying “it didn’t mean anything “
Assalamoalaikum Junaid bhai ! As a Pakistani, I appreciate your action of making a Channel for kids and on science. I have a suggestion. Future generations will leave TV and adapt to internet completely. So for that time , why don't you gather Pakistani content creaters and build a solid framework for future entertainment industry.
I lost my mother in July. The pain is just not ending. She was my everything. I can completely relate to people who are going through grief. Loosing your loved ones is the most painful event of life. May Allah bless all of the departed souls with Jannat ul firdous ameen
@@ladybird7489 May Allah grant your mum paradise and dont forget we all have to die one day so start praying InshAllah you will meet your mum in jannah
First question girl, please run away. Your parents will understand, they are your parents they love you. You will heal. You will regret your decision for staying with him. You have a life ahead. The amount of love he shows does not equal to your mental peace. Please.
I want to be honest here. All the pain of this life fades away eventually but the pain that comes with loosing your loved ones, never ends. A hollow space is left in our heart when the person we love dies and it stays there forever
About question no 1. I have been through that and all that insecure thing. One of the things I want to say here is that we boys know how “harami” a boy can become. (I know a lot of you will say “does the shoe fit”) but it's not like that. I have friends who cheat but I didn't. Even when my intentions were cleared but still I got Fucked up. So the whole point is I have seen my friends how they gossip about random girls. And I don't want my partner to be a part of it. Secondly, insecurity can be cured too. It needs communication. The person should fix himself.
Communication is the key, they should find a middle ground, after all this can make or break their life. Trying therapy and stuff. And still if not, then they should part ways.
If insecurity is based on partner’s behavior, it can be cured if partner makes changes. But if insecurity is based on how your own male friends behave, such insecurity can never be cured.
28:15 JEEE.... ye larki walo ko bhi ajkl keera aya hua he. They ask it in the name of "security". Have seen it prevalent in South punjab where i live. Jahez ka agar ek incident suna he to is jese chutyape har doosre rishte me aate dekhe hein. K jee apke larke ki koi security nahi zameen likh kr dedo ya itna gold dedo. I do understand that in some cases it does help the girl but jo larka shuru se hi ese signs agar de rha he waha shadi hi q kr rahe ho beti ki. Seriously man, In pakistan it never feels like two persons are marrying. It feels like the highest bidder is buying the girl. Phr is rha k cases me agla bnda tme as an object hi deal kre ga. Again, not generalizing it. But isn't it happening way too much in Pakistan?
In UK there a lot of support available please make sure that you have your passport and visa documents with you as in pata ho khidar hai also College ya school ap report the issue they guide you on what you do. Always keep evidence 💯💯
The first one medical student i will give you my example I have been through a crappy relationship like the one u mentioned. Surprisingly same age as well but little more stupid realized at 22 tht he will never change n things will be worst if we get married. I broke up the engagement and got married to a decent person. So moral of the story he is right don't compromise on bare min. Once u find the right person to treat u properly u will regret to waste time in a abusive, always stressful relationship. It's not love it becomes suffocating best of luck.
god why didn't i find your work earlier!!! it seriously makes my day. i listen to u on google podcasts while going to university and it pumps me up for the day
I'm 24 yo boy and from my experiences I will suggest youngsters below 20 to NOT indulge in any relationship. (Especially based on someone's look or status) Learn from people's experiences, and focus on your career and mental health. And most importantly, "mutual respect" is more important than love. If you based your relationship based on looks or financial status, there's a high chance that you will overlook the red flags. Know the person's values and family, because everyone inherit values from his/her circles and family. And values leads to actions (behaviour). I wish everyone reading this message a happy and healthy relationship in future.
For the first girl.Why would you start a relationship at 16? Don't you have any other goals in life?..Bs shadi he krni hai.and Leave that boy..He is not worth it.The sooner the better.
@@amnaarshad2104 I dont think that is something to be proud of...unless you are gonna discover some medicine or the treatment of cancer.Otherwise we have doctors at every corner in our country.
Junaid bhai I understand your pain as someone so close to you as my khaloo who was so close to me passed away in 2016 leaving all of us in greif and I still miss him everyday I just can’t come over it and I too understand your pain may allah give you the strength to come over it and continue your life peacefully stay safe be happy and don’t stress and pray to allah❤
Red flag : So ?!???! Is no body gonna point out the fact that they are in haram relationship?! Like what good do they expect out of it ?! And he’s not even pointing it out , like !!? 😶
I totally appreciates the way you make this blogs with amount of knowledge , experienced that just make relate to me and helping me out to be more aware to think out of the box :)
In Pakistani Dramas, some things and concept are also redundant: Gareeb larhki with Dubatta all over her, ameer larhki must be in jeans, naik biwi is always crying etc.
Your podcast are awesome ✨ seriously I don't have words, they are so much informative and influential. I love it. My perception has changed a lot by watching your podcasts. Thanks and you are love. People should watch your podcasts instead of damn bloody tv serials of Pakistan.
the red flags r major, insecurities will always increase 10 folds, u r convincing urself whatever he is saying is justified b strong n leave him. u deserve better and u will find some1 better. always remember good relations r wen things r easy, jab easy ho ge to ap mil k dunya ki mushkilat ka samna kar sakey ge
Just an opinion for this channel. I truly understand junaid bhai that ur intentions are good and pure you want ppl to be heard but Junaid you need to have a small team of psychologist and well-educated religious scholar to address such issues because ppl are literally asking for advices from you that can turn their lives into good or worst . and we know you do your best too in ur capacity to address their issues but sometimes that is not enough we need other minds to get the best possible solution.
In Pakistan fit, fine and healthy get free food 3 times a day throughout the year by big NGO at every other corner. This is producing millions of ہڈحرام people in the society. The real poor are shy and dont show up whereas the bandits get the benifits. This needs to be fixed.
What a fuckery ,,,,, Har relationship mein boundaries hona zarori hai warna open karlo sab , boundries banda apne hisaab se laga ta hai ye nhi ke tum kon hote ho bolnne wale ajeeb hone wala shohar hai wo to uski dimaag ke lehaz se wo limit lagayega na ye sab baatein wese relationship start hone se pehle hi kardeni chaiye boundaries ki baad mein phir mujhe ye mat bolo wo mat bolo wala scene nhi hoga
I don't think there is any morally-right or morally-wrong demand as long as it was discussed and agreed upon BEFORE marriage. People should not leave difficult discussions for AFTER marriage. For example, if a girl does not wear hijab but the boy wants his future-wife to wear hijab, then this matter should be discussed and agreed upon BEFORE the marriage. And promises made before the marriage should be kept after the marriage lest there are any unforeseen circumstances.
Assalam o alikum Junaid Bhai. First of all may Allah give your mamo janat ul firdous and make his life in the hereafter easy in sha Allah. I consider you my mentor. Everything I am today I owe it to my parents and you. If these emails are becoming overwhelming please take a break!. It’s okay to grieve and take time out for yourself. Please heal yourself first before healing anyone. May this hard time be easy for you Amen❤
Deepest condolences Junaid bhai, indeed parents are a blessing and losing them is not easy, it’s good that you are talking about your emotions. May Allah help you with your patience Ameen
I think their is a jealousy factor too parents can be jealous of their children because children gets all the facilities and best life in the west which their parents never got 😅
55:13...With all due respect, Junaid. I've learned a lot from Pakistani dramas unlike my parents who were into Bolywood(Sorry! My Indian fellows) but it has impacted my parents in a super wrong way... the trick is to pick n chose the right ones. All these behaviors he explained exists in our society and that's what dramas are trying to capture. There was a amazing serial on ARY called "Aulaad" N those who saw it know how it was depressing in some aspects but had a huge lesson behind.
For the first (red flag) lady. Please know that there's a difference between being insecure and being territorial. This "liberal" utopian type of relationship where your spouse can do and wear anything, go anywhere, be friends with anyone might work for some (in this case Junaid), but not for most people. It's not a practical way to view the world, and have relationships. You're right. The restrictions he places on you are for the betterment of y'all's relationship. That's the way he likes his relationship to be. If you don't like that, you're free to change the guy.
39:40 he's speaking the naked truth that no Pakistani wants to hear or acknowledge we're just running from reality. Most of us are haddharams ( including myself) I procrastinate alot and I think it's about damn time k hum is laziness ki parasite sy jaan churaain. Warna tabha toh hum already hain hi. Hamara naam tak nhi rahy ga.
I’m sorry you can’t have male friends as a female or female friends as a male. Islamically or or even as a general way of living. As man you will have natural insecurity feeling if your woman is spending any time with male frnd or even other way around. It’s the most stupid thing if anyone does that
@junaid bhai ek aap k kisi clip ka extract tha jis mai you said k "Bahar rehna asaan nahin hai koi khushi se nahin jata bht se sakht larkoun ko takiya rakh rotay dekha hai" I need to get this. Can someone or you can helo me?
Life abroad is lonely, isolated which leads to depression ,no family support , doing chores on your own , u r always treated as a third class citizen, and an outsider , phir apko money save krni hy khole khrchay nhi kr skte paki m koi na koi events , hute rehte bahar ki life aik hee same routine day night nothing special..this makes u mentally unstable.
to red flag girl, plz run away break that relationship,it will become excessively toxic with time.i have recently learned that trust is given not EARNED! IF he has trust issues and doesnt want to resoolve them,that relationship will become a nightmare for u
From past couple of episodes i am seeing only the following , Nothing Else 1: Favouring women and not hearing men 2: Feminist Views 3: Supporting Gays 4: Divorce , Without suggesting therapy etc
08:34 "auraten bare-minimum pe q khush hoti hain?!" because we are taught that bachpan se k compromise, sabar sab tumne karna hai and men can do 4 shadiya so if he's loyal, he's doing ehsan
Agr ap female ho or shadi nai hui to shadi k baad ho k dekha lena baghi... Sab pta lag jay ga
So true! Koi humein sirf pyar se baat kar le toh hum jaan dene ko tayar ho jatey hain. Humein sikhaya jata hai ki pyar paaney ke liye apni worth prove karni hoti hai seh ke, chup reh ke..,koi mard humein pyar karega tabhi hum pyar ke layak hain
Yes but tbh women still don't realise that they need to rebel against their male masters or else this chain will never break.
@@Mandakini-Kumrawat kr k dekh lena... Lag jy ga pta...
@@chocolateshake9647 What exactly are you implying here ?
Living in Hyderabad which is in southern part of India I feel there are lot of similarities between our cultures. I always watch your ask ganjiswag episodes for your insights on various topics which helps me a lot in my day to day life. I became a better citizen compared to what i was few years back. The way am parking my bike following traffic rules and even after drinking chai from road side shop am throwing cup in dustbin that i used to randomly throw it on road. These small behavioural changes really made me a better person and influenced my way of thinking. I have a lot of issues in my personal life but am dealing with them with confidence. In one of your episodes u said "darr k aage jeeth hai isliye maine darr na chodhdiya" that line hit me hard like never before. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Keep inspiring many ppl like u always do. I wish some day we will meet. I pray to prabhu shriram to make this happen.
Bhai I am from Uttrakhand and the same happened to me lol
Red flag girl: Run please!
If he has trouble now, what are you going to do during your night stays, calls, house job & residency?
Get out of this relationship, your mom will be glad you took decision right now.
Junaid sir. I understand what you felt at the end of it. Having been gone through the same experience. I know how hard it is to see someone dying. Sending my condolences.
1st question: insecure people are very unattractive. People have normalized toxic behavior in the name of love. Controlling your partner’s life preferences, clothes, career, etc. is NOT LOVE. Possessiveness is NOT LOVE. Jealousy is NOT LOVE. Nobody owns you, not even your gf/bf or husband/wife. People suffocate each other in the name of love
Golden words girl 💕
I’m sorry you can’t have male friends as a female or female friends as a male. Islamically or or even as a general way of living. As man you will have natural insecurity feeling if your woman is spending any time with male frnd or even other way around. It’s the most stupid thing if anyone does that
@@bilalrk54 the whole problem is created by you men! Men only make female friends with the hope to hook up for sex at an available opportunity, whereas women see male friendship just like friendship. You men have ruined things for women as well, you men know other men and their bad intentions, it’s funny how men defend men but don’t want their own sisters or wives to even talk to other men. News for you!! Women can actually be just friends with male friends, if you men can’t stop thinking about sex in front of a female friend, that’s your issue. You’re just another male hypocrite, who will doubt his wife but then cheat with another woman and justify cheating by saying “it didn’t mean anything “
Ganji Bhai I emailed about my father last year the amount of trauma i faced but still no response my father also passed away recently 😭
@Just$ Ameen
Allah SWT aapko sabar de, Ameen.
😭
Wo chaska nai hoga na bhai apkai email main, Drama hi chlta hain yaha bhai
@@zeetrikey.3428 Logo k emotions tumhey chaska lgtey h woooow.
4 out of 6 questions related to marriage lol bhai. Are these emails sent by pakistani awam or khalil-ur-rehman? XD XD XD
Lol
Hahahaha
Only 2 things we are proficient in: khana aur shadi
@@Abdullah-uv9nk and in reproducing like rabbits
Now I am kinda getting bored, how about some different topics. 😅
Thanks Brother For Your Precious Time for Us and My Condolences to hour Uncle ❤️
do donations on his paypal, youtube gets like a 30% cut or something on each donation
@@ShahzadHassanBangash That I didn't know of, tysm for telling
NRI k bhi apney shashkey hen
Thank you 😊
Assalamoalaikum Junaid bhai !
As a Pakistani, I appreciate your action of making a Channel for kids and on science.
I have a suggestion.
Future generations will leave TV and adapt to internet completely.
So for that time , why don't you gather Pakistani content creaters and build a solid framework for future entertainment industry.
people still watch TV??
@@ahmxi yes
Most people watch TV for 3-6 hours a day.
As long as baby boomer* generation and mallinion generation is alive, TV will live.
*Science and Kids channels? Please tell me channel name, I wanna see*
I lost my mother in July. The pain is just not ending. She was my everything. I can completely relate to people who are going through grief. Loosing your loved ones is the most painful event of life. May Allah bless all of the departed souls with Jannat ul firdous ameen
Sad to hear 😒. May Allah bless her with jannat-ul-firdos .
@@abdulwahab4077 ameen
@@ladybird7489 May Allah grant your mum paradise and dont forget we all have to die one day so start praying InshAllah you will meet your mum in jannah
Jewellery tou bht choti cheez hai - log tou jaan bhi le laitay hain- thank god she came back safe - Ques 2
First question girl, please run away. Your parents will understand, they are your parents they love you. You will heal. You will regret your decision for staying with him. You have a life ahead. The amount of love he shows does not equal to your mental peace. Please.
She is just dating. Not in a live in .
@@jatinkamwal280 Pakistanis don't do live-ins 😅
Sorry to hear about your loss. Good question and answer session
I want to be honest here. All the pain of this life fades away eventually but the pain that comes with loosing your loved ones, never ends. A hollow space is left in our heart when the person we love dies and it stays there forever
About question no 1.
I have been through that and all that insecure thing. One of the things I want to say here is that we boys know how “harami” a boy can become. (I know a lot of you will say “does the shoe fit”) but it's not like that. I have friends who cheat but I didn't. Even when my intentions were cleared but still I got Fucked up. So the whole point is I have seen my friends how they gossip about random girls. And I don't want my partner to be a part of it.
Secondly, insecurity can be cured too. It needs communication. The person should fix himself.
Communication is the key, they should find a middle ground, after all this can make or break their life. Trying therapy and stuff. And still if not, then they should part ways.
@@PakNetaverse on point.
@@amnaarshad2104 couldn't agree more.
If insecurity is based on partner’s behavior, it can be cured if partner makes changes. But if insecurity is based on how your own male friends behave, such insecurity can never be cured.
@@cherishgp, you got a valid point.
Your RUclips channel is so addicting, literally I am watching it from last 5 days. Enjoy, learning a lot. Ask Ganjiswag is a NASHA . . . 😊
May his soul rest in peace... Ameen...
28:15 JEEE.... ye larki walo ko bhi ajkl keera aya hua he. They ask it in the name of "security". Have seen it prevalent in South punjab where i live. Jahez ka agar ek incident suna he to is jese chutyape har doosre rishte me aate dekhe hein. K jee apke larke ki koi security nahi zameen likh kr dedo ya itna gold dedo. I do understand that in some cases it does help the girl but jo larka shuru se hi ese signs agar de rha he waha shadi hi q kr rahe ho beti ki.
Seriously man, In pakistan it never feels like two persons are marrying. It feels like the highest bidder is buying the girl. Phr is rha k cases me agla bnda tme as an object hi deal kre ga. Again, not generalizing it. But isn't it happening way too much in Pakistan?
Junaid how do you get all these visas like so smoothly and fluently once you are in london then dallas....and elsewhere
Travel history..
Create krni hoti hai Passport per our UK ka Sticker visa hota hai woh laga Ho to Baki Saray Difficult visas b easily mil jatay hain..
Travel history and heavy bank statements
In UK there a lot of support available please make sure that you have your passport and visa documents with you as in pata ho khidar hai also College ya school ap report the issue they guide you on what you do. Always keep evidence 💯💯
The first one medical student i will give you my example I have been through a crappy relationship like the one u mentioned. Surprisingly same age as well but little more stupid realized at 22 tht he will never change n things will be worst if we get married. I broke up the engagement and got married to a decent person. So moral of the story he is right don't compromise on bare min. Once u find the right person to treat u properly u will regret to waste time in a abusive, always stressful relationship. It's not love it becomes suffocating best of luck.
Future single mother🙃
god why didn't i find your work earlier!!!
it seriously makes my day. i listen to u on google podcasts while going to university and it pumps me up for the day
Condolences for your loss may Allah grant him jannah
what a time to upload , i was feeling sleepy atwork, now i am woring back Listeing this
I'm 24 yo boy and from my experiences I will suggest youngsters below 20 to NOT indulge in any relationship. (Especially based on someone's look or status)
Learn from people's experiences, and focus on your career and mental health.
And most importantly, "mutual respect" is more important than love.
If you based your relationship based on looks or financial status, there's a high chance that you will overlook the red flags.
Know the person's values and family, because everyone inherit values from his/her circles and family. And values leads to actions (behaviour).
I wish everyone reading this message a happy and healthy relationship in future.
Allah ap k Mamu ko Jannat ul firdos may jghaa dy or ap sab logon ko sabr e jameel ata farmaye ameen.
Aoa Bhai. Your content is so refreshing! I wish there were more people like you
32:09 Junaid bhai! It’s true. Women exploit men after being in relationship when they are ready to settle down.
For the first girl.Why would you start a relationship at 16? Don't you have any other goals in life?..Bs shadi he krni hai.and Leave that boy..He is not worth it.The sooner the better.
She is doing MBBS. 😅
@@amnaarshad2104 I dont think that is something to be proud of...unless you are gonna discover some medicine or the treatment of cancer.Otherwise we have doctors at every corner in our country.
Comrade salman i have read ur replies in comment section, i m thankful to God that guys like u exist , i respect ur opinion
@@annie2853 ahhh i am so flatter🤗🤗...thank you soo much..I am thankful that people like u exists who knows when someone is right.
My maternal uncle is exactly the way you described your late mamoo. Such humans are hard to find 😪 ..
Junaid bhai I understand your pain as someone so close to you as my khaloo who was so close to me passed away in 2016 leaving all of us in greif and I still miss him everyday I just can’t come over it and I too understand your pain may allah give you the strength to come over it and continue your life peacefully stay safe be happy and don’t stress and pray to allah❤
Kahan mil skty hien aese larky jo Ganjiswag ki category mien fall karien ? Kahan se dhondien ?
To the first girl. Sister believe me he is a red flag & toxic. RUN!
No girl deserves kabir Singh type boyfriend or husband 🤬
Omg another episode.. Am i dreaming??? Yeyyyyyy😅😅😅
It's full of depression
@@FarhanRUclips283 naah. I dnt get depressed always try to learn things from people's experiences.
Red flag : So ?!???! Is no body gonna point out the fact that they are in haram relationship?! Like what good do they expect out of it ?! And he’s not even pointing it out , like !!? 😶
Bitch apni morality apno jeb mei rakho
He is not a mufti
Jaa oaa madrassachap
Agreed 👍
Who gives a F?
I totally appreciates the way you make this blogs with amount of knowledge , experienced that just make relate to me and helping me out to be more aware to think out of the box :)
This is not a blog. Brush up on your definitions.
Thankz sister :)
In Pakistani Dramas, some things and concept are also redundant: Gareeb larhki with Dubatta all over her, ameer larhki must be in jeans, naik biwi is always crying etc.
Your podcast are awesome ✨ seriously I don't have words, they are so much informative and influential. I love it. My perception has changed a lot by watching your podcasts. Thanks and you are love.
People should watch your podcasts instead of damn bloody tv serials of Pakistan.
the red flags r major, insecurities will always increase 10 folds, u r convincing urself whatever he is saying is justified b strong n leave him. u deserve better and u will find some1 better. always remember good relations r wen things r easy, jab easy ho ge to ap mil k dunya ki mushkilat ka samna kar sakey ge
1st question: Good advice👏🏼👏🏼It is so difficult to be with someone who is insecure and controlling.They can make life hell.
Just an opinion for this channel. I truly understand junaid bhai that ur intentions are good and pure you want ppl to be heard but Junaid you need to have a small team of psychologist and well-educated religious scholar to address such issues because ppl are literally asking for advices from you that can turn their lives into good or worst . and we know you do your best too in ur capacity to address their issues but sometimes that is not enough we need other minds to get the best possible solution.
first of all - kudos for keeping up with these blogs. Seondly, you can see him getting very angry and cut off the camera :D
In Pakistan fit, fine and healthy get free food 3 times a day throughout the year by big NGO at every other corner. This is producing millions of ہڈحرام people in the society. The real poor are shy and dont show up whereas the bandits get the benifits. This needs to be fixed.
Junaid disclosed first time that he have special child.
but as far i know he just got married couple of years a go
I'm so sorry for the loss Junaid sir. May Allah give you strength to cope up with the loss.
@Junaid Akram can I ask what earbuds are you using? did you also record from them or had a separate MIC to record this video?
What a fuckery ,,,,, Har relationship mein boundaries hona zarori hai warna open karlo sab , boundries banda apne hisaab se laga ta hai ye nhi ke tum kon hote ho bolnne wale ajeeb hone wala shohar hai wo to uski dimaag ke lehaz se wo limit lagayega na ye sab baatein wese relationship start hone se pehle hi kardeni chaiye boundaries ki baad mein phir mujhe ye mat bolo wo mat bolo wala scene nhi hoga
I don't think there is any morally-right or morally-wrong demand as long as it was discussed and agreed upon BEFORE marriage. People should not leave difficult discussions for AFTER marriage. For example, if a girl does not wear hijab but the boy wants his future-wife to wear hijab, then this matter should be discussed and agreed upon BEFORE the marriage. And promises made before the marriage should be kept after the marriage lest there are any unforeseen circumstances.
Very informative video hn apki zaberdast.
We must appreciate Discover Pakistan Channel. They are doing a service to Pakistan. And they are growing😍
Answer of Question no# 1
LEAVE HIM ASAP !!!!
dher sari duaye he sounded like such an inspiring man u r lucky to have him as an uncle
Yaar 16th minute was owsome you have the nice one girls who told the better English either then my wife
He has a home in Dallas. He has a home in Britain. Wow wow wow wow.
Boy, I was baby sitting missed the chance to meet you in Dallas! :( **
i read a few comments on recent videos saying that Junaid Akram is biased. I feel this video bashes that viewpoint.
Assalam o alikum Junaid Bhai. First of all may Allah give your mamo janat ul firdous and make his life in the hereafter easy in sha Allah.
I consider you my mentor. Everything I am today I owe it to my parents and you. If these emails are becoming overwhelming please take a break!. It’s okay to grieve and take time out for yourself. Please heal yourself first before healing anyone. May this hard time be easy for you Amen❤
Just an opinion for this channel. I truly understand junaid bhai that ur intentions are good and pure you want ppl to be heard but well-educated
Deepest condolences Junaid bhai, indeed parents are a blessing and losing them is not easy, it’s good that you are talking about your emotions. May Allah help you with your patience Ameen
I think their is a jealousy factor too parents can be jealous of their children because children gets all the facilities and best life in the west which their parents never got 😅
Dear Junaid, my sincere condolences 🙏
55:13...With all due respect, Junaid.
I've learned a lot from Pakistani dramas unlike my parents who were into Bolywood(Sorry! My Indian fellows) but it has impacted my parents in a super wrong way... the trick is to pick n chose the right ones.
All these behaviors he explained exists in our society and that's what dramas are trying to capture. There was a amazing serial on ARY called "Aulaad"
N those who saw it know how it was depressing in some aspects but had a huge lesson behind.
Katwa praising katwa
@@jatinkathait7388 Sorry, what?
Brainwashed by dramas lol
@@jatinkathait7388 Akbar ki aulaad burned
@@comradesalman7625 hehehe!..Good one, No!😂
For the first (red flag) lady. Please know that there's a difference between being insecure and being territorial. This "liberal" utopian type of relationship where your spouse can do and wear anything, go anywhere, be friends with anyone might work for some (in this case Junaid), but not for most people. It's not a practical way to view the world, and have relationships.
You're right. The restrictions he places on you are for the betterment of y'all's relationship. That's the way he likes his relationship to be. If you don't like that, you're free to change the guy.
JBH
Well said
Guess how many times he said, "Mai ye nhi keh rha" 😄👍🏻
Ask ganji swag sun ka maza bhi ata hay per sun sun kar depression bhi ho gai hay asay problems sun sun kar
39:40 he's speaking the naked truth that no Pakistani wants to hear or acknowledge we're just running from reality. Most of us are haddharams ( including myself) I procrastinate alot and I think it's about damn time k hum is laziness ki parasite sy jaan churaain. Warna tabha toh hum already hain hi. Hamara naam tak nhi rahy ga.
Welcome to Great Houston .
Junaid Bhai you have read email No 1 & give her a piece of good advice, That is a similar case to mine thankyou 💯👏🥰
"Gaari ly kr ghus jaye ga kfc ky andar" 😂😂😂
"I dunno Man"
"I Mean"
"Mujhay ek tu samajh nahi Ati"
"Khali Walli"
I am very sorry for your loss. X
15:13 - it was like you were speaking to me although i did not write that email.
Are you in same situation?
In Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia and Korea has same cluture men have to provide the dowry to women
"purrap kr k bacha nikalo" that hit me hard. Not really btw.
Allah ke zikr se dilon ko sakoon milta ha
Thats the food for the soul
India 🇮🇳 waale Attendance lgae 😃
@@bharatkapoor4062 why
Gold Content ❤
Best series ever,!
I’m sorry you can’t have male friends as a female or female friends as a male. Islamically or or even as a general way of living. As man you will have natural insecurity feeling if your woman is spending any time with male frnd or even other way around. It’s the most stupid thing if anyone does that
Junaid bhai you've lost some pounds
Looking stunning
And ya very informative podcast
Men drag you down, don't let them, imagine if she didn't go for the MBBS, just terrible.
which camera u r using for this vlog?
Which brand wireless in ear bluetooth earphones your using Junaid bhai..?
May Allah Pak bless him with Jannah❤️
13:00 the guys has a narcissistic personality get rid of him. You’re a doctor he’s quite controlling why do you want to be in a toxic relationship.
Maybe she don't want kids, and dont want to use medicine, or afraid to tell that she dont want kids. He should ask her whats the reason politely.
1) Girl, leave the lawyer guy! Thank me later.
@junaid bhai ek aap k kisi clip ka extract tha jis mai you said k "Bahar rehna asaan nahin hai koi khushi se nahin jata bht se sakht larkoun ko takiya rakh rotay dekha hai" I need to get this. Can someone or you can helo me?
Life abroad is lonely, isolated which leads to depression ,no family support , doing chores on your own , u r always treated as a third class citizen, and an outsider , phir apko money save krni hy khole khrchay nhi kr skte paki m koi na koi events , hute rehte bahar ki life aik hee same routine day night nothing special..this makes u mentally unstable.
Very sentimental after 1:08:11 second Mr Junaid
to red flag girl,
plz run away
break that relationship,it will become excessively toxic with time.i have recently learned that trust is given not EARNED!
IF he has trust issues and doesnt want to resoolve them,that relationship will become a nightmare for u
From past couple of episodes i am seeing only the following , Nothing Else
1: Favouring women and not hearing men
2: Feminist Views
3: Supporting Gays
4: Divorce , Without suggesting therapy etc
Man he’s my inspiration ..):
Ganji swag please consider both sides of the coin.
abe idr junaid bhai ki tone bhat alag hoti he
1:02:16
Hilarious.
Lumber one Pakistan country and lumber one Karachi n LHR.
Todays world both partners need to make money to achieve lifestyle objectives ,
Aray Bhai Abu :D
thank you bro