11 Red Flags You Should NEVER Ignore About Men 🚫🚩😬
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- Опубликовано: 1 июл 2024
- This video covers 11 red flags you should never ignore about men.
These red flags about men you should never ignore aren't immediately obvious. In fact, a lot of people think these red flags about guys you should never ignore aren't actually a big deal or could even be positive signs.
The reason it's so important to know these red flags you should never ignore about guys (the dating red flags 2020 list, so to speak) is because these red flags to look out for in a man can spare you months or even years of heartache, and eventually, heartbreak.
The red flags to look out for in a guy aren't immediately obvious. The obvious red flags in guys when you're dating them show up easy enough and you don't need a video to tell you them. So consider these as less than obvious red flags in men when you're dating them, so you can spot trouble way before it becomes a problem.
Now these aren't signs you're dating a crazy person or anything. If you're saying to yourself, "he's giving me red flags," then don't worry, I'll tell you which ones are fixable and which should have you running for the hills!
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Thanks. This is perfect ♥️
Why do men string you along when they are like you listed on your talk. I had one that displayed most of these signs (he was not married but was in a 7 year relationship prior to meeting me on a dating sight) and he ended up wasting 7 months of my life (as I was under the impression we were going in the right direction) until he started backing way off and not doing what he said he was going to do and left me hanging so came out and I asked him where this was going and told him I wanted it to be more real, then he told me he was in no position to be in a relationship and that he was a mess. I was like, thanks for wasting 7 months of my life. How manipulative and talk about crazy.
I have chatemate Egypt but he hide me social media specially in Facebook's account i never saw my photos on her Facebook's account dont want me post picture message to her time line saw online never message me ignore me messenger thanks for video advice
He hide promises of lie cheated on me pretending hide promises of lie cheated on me never priority always said not do wrong a lots of pinay woman
Oh yes when I mentioned it had 15 yrs of therapy .hes quick answer was ... I fix me
Really like ah diva guy
“A guy who cheats with you, is going to cheat on you”
- I needed to hear that.
Absolutely true! How you get them is how you lose them! We all reap what we sow!🦁
I don’t think that is 100 percent true, but most of the time it is.
Oh definitely. But it extends further than that a guy who is anything with anyone else, kind,pushy, jealous, optimistic, what ever will eventually be that way with you. 💖🍫Choose a guy with the qualities his displaying NOW towards others and always expect to have them displayed towards you.
I HATE FUCKING CHEATERS! SO TRUE!!
Rarara, 🤔 I made that mistake to pay attention to my mom, and I totally lost the LOVE OF MY LIFE!! 😟💔💔💔😳 If you know that he truly, loves you GO BACK TO HIM NOW!!! It's you who will live with him, not your parents! How old are you if you don't mind?! Text me on Facebook if you want to chat Mariana Bella. ❤️
1. He’s a damage case.
2. He’s never been in a long term relationship.
3. He says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship.
4. He’s selfish.
5. All of his exes are “crazy”
6. You can’t be yourself around him.
7. He doesn’t prioritize you.
8. He’s married, or in a relationship with someone else.
9. Nothing is ever his fault.
10. His friends are awful.
11. You feel it in your gut!
You’re welcome ladies 😉
Thank you! ❤️
Thanks doll.🤗
I got 7 - no. 3, 4, 6, 7, 8, 9, 11
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Thanks ❤
Can we all agree that we watch these videos cuz we already have been thro it and we want to just confirm what our gut already knows!
Exactly!!
Yes!!!!
Yep!
Agreed
Agreed
Add to your list: When he stares or flirts with other women in front of you and then tells you he wasn't doing it and accuses you that you're tripping.
My ex had claimed I was flirting with girls in front of her but I thought I was only being friendly. I’m not skilled with relationships so everything was new to me.
Gaslighting
OR he pays the guys more attention in the wrong type of way, like he's secretly GAY!!
Please do a video on childhood trauma and how it affects relationships!!
Yes. I was with an avoidance who avoided being presented with the evidence that his mother didn't nurture him or any of them.
Absolutely right on all points! I learned something important years ago. A psychiatrist told me several years ago some very simple points that shows you don’t have to spend a lot of time with the wrong men. He told me “a man will tell you everything you need to know by the third date, your job is to listen.”
He was absolutely right about that. He said men find ways to let a woman know he’s wasting her time for any one of the reasons listed in this discussion. I started paying strict attention to what men say and this guy was absolutely correct. Another thing that’s counterproductive is sex way too soon. Try going on those crucial three dates and critique the man’s conversation. Save yourself a ton of regret and even shame!
We’ve all been there, done that. Time to get educated about the right way to do things!
#3. He don't want a relationship right now. "Then leave his not worth waiting for" 😂
#4. He's selfish. "Yes I notice that to him." Thinking only his self.
#5. All his exes are crazy. "Yes he said it to me, his crazy too." 😂😂😂
#7. He doesn't prioritize you. "I just love myself than to chase him if he doesn't prioritize me." 😝😝
#9. Nothing ever his fault. "He is immature, not even accept mistake and say sorry"🤔
#11. You feel it in your gut. "Yes I feel it that I am not only the one he is chatting, then I don't care him 😂😂
Almost all red flags are there. So thanks God, he did not allow me to pursue him, his not worth after all. ☺️
Notice: all women need to learn and practice the girl code have respect for one another, have respect for other women's relationships, marriages, children, and families! Were supposed to be on the same side Thank you!
Sounds great in theory but sometimes women don’t even know another woman is in the picture or the guy downplays the seriousness of his current relationship.
This is awesome. Can you please do a video on why the insecurity or the constant need to prove yourself always shows up in relationships and how to rectify that?
Yes. Please.
Would like to see that video as well
The damaged cases video sounds like an interesting video. That color and that pattern on your dress paired with your make-up you look really good
You've learned a lot in your young life. Loving yourself first, is the key.
Thank you so much for sharing!! The only thing that confuses me is MY GUT, lol. Divorced & self-healing for 6 years seems I have JUST REALIZED I have abandonment issues that are not healed. So actually now, I think it isn't my gut saying run but my own destroying of something before it even starts, all rooted in fear (bc it's easier to be alone than the risk of loss). Point is, I actually don't think it's my gut this time
Mona.... well said... many thanks👍🏿💯
I’ve dated different guys in the past who had various red flags as mentioned in this video. However, I’m now seeing a guy who has NONE of them...such a wonderful change to date someone who is emotionally mature and got his sh!t sorted. This is my forever man 🥰
R u still with him?
Hi Sabrina, im a big fan of your videos so far🤗 Regarding this video, I think if you make a new one regarding damaged cases and another one regarding relationship patterns that we actually got and copy from our childhood, that would be awesome! Thank you very much💜🍀🌺
Thank you for sharing your incredible wisdom!
You helped me not only get over a toxic relationship but also allowed me to be mentally healthy and motivated me to do better with all your videos. I can never thank you enough ❤️
Thank you Sabrina. You have such a soothing voice. Keep the content going.
Thank you for your videos! This one is so good and informative! Please do a video talking about what you mentioned about the childhood wounds and how we recreate those situations, and healing ourselves so we can build self esteem and get into a healthy relationship! 🥰🥰🥰
Yes please.
Thank you Sabrina! Can't wait for the damage case video - can you cover addictions - drugs achohol gambling etc or is that just to much!!!!
Thanks Sabrina, your videos are really helpful
Another great video!!! Can you make a video talking more about #6 and out past relationships with our parents that may make us feel this way!? Thank you for all your insight, it's sooo helpful! Xo
You are so right....love this.
What I like about this lady is she's absolutely spot on. Precise and to the point. She explains what's going on in my head as if she knows me. Brilliant. 🍒
Yes, a video about how not to keep choosing a certain type of man because you're recreating the relationship you had with a parent would be very helpful. I had a terrible relationship with my mother, she was cold and withholding, and I have chosen men that treated me that same way in the past without realizing it.
Having dated a man two years. Why am I not meeting friends or family members? He says never ready for a relationship. Why am I here? I broke it off.
Sabrina, can you please do a categories/types of damage cases video?
thank you for this. This is very helpful.
Thanks for the great advice
It's better to stay single and have standards. I'm not lowering my standards!
That's like saying to the seller you won't buy the thing unless they lower the price by 50%. lol
If you're overpricing yourself on the sexual market, no amount of foot-stomping, pouting and demanding will make reality bend to your will.
That's a problem with some older women these days. They're better off just having a "low-quality" loving husband than to be single. All women need a husband.
Excellent video thanks. 👍
O M G Sabrina thanks soooo much! All the red flags are there! I feel better now letting go
Happily single, watching this coz i love her💞
Same!
Same
Thank you 🙏
I'm VERY interested in what you said about damage issues. Please could you do an entire video on this...just found your blogs today.
There soooo many dating advice RUclips channels I've been watching for years! A NEW MODE is seriously the best!!! Thanks so much!❤ I'm still single, but that's okay and I'll be ready.
I agree. The other channels just make lists about things boys like and how to tell, but she actually makes lists about the bad things to watch out for too. Yes, I’m 24 and still single too.
Yes me too. Im surprised I havnt seen this b4. Very good.
Yes PLEASE do one on damaged cases.
Go watch the manosphere channels and read the comments. There are a lot of damaged men there.
Damage cases video - yes please!
Great list!!!!
This is one of the better discussions that I’ve seen on this topic.
It’s very important to understand that many people will need to do many long, hard years or work to resolve the issues that they have. It’ll probably take 10-20 years of committed, dedicated, consistent work.
Also, many people are beyond the reach or ability of a therapist to help them.
Therapy can only work if the patient wants to learn, grow and to change. If they don’t, there very little they can do to help that person.
And if a professional therapist who’s had many long, hard years of training and experience helping people to work through their issues aren’t able to help them, who’d you’d have to pay a lot of money for their services, it’s clear that the average, everyday woman won’t be able to help the troubled man she’s involved with, and she should certainly try to not do be his therapist for free.
When a woman is involved with the kind of man you speak of, one who’s damaged goods, she needs to end it with him immediately. Nothing she can do will help him to work through his problems. She should never do any unpaid therapy labor for him.
Excellent advise. Thanks
I really have been liking your videos, this one was really good. As a man that is just starting to date again after coming out of a long term marriage it is good to reflect on things I may have to work on to be a good partner. The challenge with red flags are that when we are in the infatuation of a new relationship, we are often blind to them. This is where it may be good to have one or two good friends you trust who will help point them out if they see them. Then it is important to listen to your friends.
Good luck....theres nice people out there...somewhere!!!!😇😇😇🤟🤟🤟
Yep. My father's abuse made me except so much for my manager out my life and think it was normal and I deserved it. You are so right! Thank you for the wonderful video!
Please do a video about no. 6 and the parent connection. I think there's many of us that could benefit from this.nthank you xxx
Love this video ♥️ Thank you
Hi I just want to say I appreciate your videos because you offer really solid advice and you voice the things that I have always thought internally. I think a lot of women could really learn from you and the next time I see a woman with a dude who is messing up I am going to direct her attention towards your videos! 😍😍
Yes. And I direct myself to it
Best video yet!!!
loving your channel + your energy!
A video on our need to prove our worth and therefore putting in way too much in a relationship would be really helpful. This is such a hard thing for me to not do.
#8: when he tells you he’s divorced but then you find out months later he’s really married... never ends well
Had a guy switch up saying he was separated and divorced and I told him he was still married after insisting that he wasn't I gave him a chance and he gave me Chlymidia
The reason why I stopped dealing with the guy I didn't get just one of these red flags from the guy, I actually got all of them. I eliminated all traces of him from me and I am glad I did. Never again did I go there I really should have listened to my intuition. I have super strong intuition as it has 4 sources it is highly powerful.
Uhhh Yeahhhhh
Please do a video on Damaged Cases. It would be very helpful.
Very true about the ‘damage case’
Please made a vid about childhood trauma and relationship connection.
GOOD STUFF!!
Thank you sooo much! I thought about some of those things, but there were so many negative questionable things. I thought it was me who got it wrong!! .Everything was fine until he asked me about a younger prettier woman who flirted with him. After that I was out of the picture. It was like a splash of cold water in my face.I was crushed! From that point it was down hill for me! Thank you for clearing up of those difficult "right in my face" episodes. I'M OUT!! I am beginning to steady myself, and respect and love myself more, each and every day I don't see him!
IT'S FUNNY, because when I was younger and an older man dropped someone for me, I thought I was special. Guess what I wound up dropping him!! 😊 Thanks again!!!. 😏🙏🙏🙏
Ha I love the “damage case” red flag. I definitely have experienced this on both sides. It’s brutal.
Yes, damage cases video!
You know what I noticed the moment you come up out of your own head and look more objectively. Listen to the things that are being said because more times than not a guy will tell you the truth about who he is but it takes being able to filter and sift out things because sometimes what truth he tells is mixed in with a bunch of sugarcoated bullshit. All you have to do is discern and clear away all of it then you will see the truth and save yourself the heartache that would otherwise come.
Ive noticed it so many times afterward i see this. Now i look for it during our talks.
def make a video about damaged cases!
Yes would like a video about damage cases..... Thank You.
Yes do one on damaged cases
This video is SOOOOOO SPOT ON!!!!!
Gosh yes !!!!
I need that damage case video!!! x
Why?
She is so so smart !!! This video is great. She is saving lives in many ways !!!
Well said. Saving lives. That's right.
i love that blouse! thanks for the tips :D
It's actually a dress and it's really cute. Maybe I should have filmed this video standing to show the full look!
Honestly I’m only about 1 minute in and you’ve summed me up 1000% well done haha
Magdalena... very wellsaid many thanks... 👍🏿👍🏿💯
Definitely do a video on the 1st point in this video.
such good advice
I'd like you to do a series on a damaged case guy
I think she just did. Brilliant. All there, the signs...
I’d love to see this woman’s take on that! As women are never to blame or take any responsibility.
Ha ha yes, the damage case is what I have recently experienced and would love to hear more about it too:) I have always been confused with this guy whether he likes me, is he shy, is he busy, is he that introvert etc. Anyway, last time I thought I should dig a bit deeper into his emotions in order to get closer and I ended up doing the opposite:)) While I was digging deep I also came to find out that “all his girlfriends were crazy” and all brought him to anxiety:))) We have moments when we get along really well and have lots of fun, but I also realised I can’t really “be myself” in certain moments and need to hide certain things about myself otherwise I might look “crazy”:)) I then decided to follow the NO CONTACT rule even if we are not in a relationship, but I thought what is the point in dealing with someone if we can’t complement or understand each other? But the problem is that he is still in my mind!!! Then another issue comes, I felt him very strongly in my guts from the moment I met him and I still feel him very pleasantly! This has always gave me the patience and persistence, but I am getting more and more confused. I really wish to meet someone else and forget him. I got so much pain from fantasizing about love, that now I only wish to have fun! But how can you meet new guys in the world of coronavirus? I am a very shy person and don’t like online dating ...any advise please or new videos? PS: Thank you for all your advise, I have listen most of them and I seem to be on the right track. Still single, but I suppose better than with the wrong person! :)
Would
Like to hear more about damaged cases - commitment phobics
Wow you describe my ex sicko nabor.... Thank you for confering with what i know i am right... I have a few questions but i wished i knew how to figer things out but i guess time will tell... You sound very smart
You’re the best!
Hi Sabrina, first of all I'm such a big fan! I have learned so much from your videos. I need your advice, this guy that I have met online, we met in person for the first time last week. We had a great, there was connection. I happened to mention a week after that there's this other guy that I'm meeting on my upcoming trip to Napa. He didn't like the idea & tells me that he can't really connect with any further unless I choose him & stopped dating others. It threw me off because we just started to get to know each other, we're not bf gf. Should I consider his behavior a red flag?
Your gut is always right.....shame I ignored it!!!! Until now!!!!! Love to u all out there!!!🤣🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I'm 48 and I've never really been single until 5 yrs ago when I divorced my then husband. I'm learning a lot about what I don't want in a man and I can relate to #9 with the guy I just broke up with.....# sad
Wauw, the colour is gorgeous on you!! Content is great !! As always!!🤩 THNX....
Thank you!
Awesome video.! Can you do a video about Friends with benefits , please
Yes , I would love you to do a video on the topic about trying to get the love and approval from somebody else in a relationship that you did not give him one of your parents. That kind of ring a bell for me. I would love to hear more about it thank you :-)
I would love a video about the damaged cases too!
Enjoyed video about red flags
You are so right. WOW
Now i know he has red flag more than Beijing olympic
😂😂😂
Yes I knew but didn't want to face it
😂🤣
He's not willing to have you meet his family OR he avoids spending time with YOUR family members.
So true I have been with him since April and still never met his sister or daughters
Yes! Please make a vid about try8ng to measure up!!
Heyy Hie... If u could pls make dat video of damaged boys... Dat wud b really helpful pls...
Dear new mode,
If one doesn't look for answers but let's go of the questions, Zen saying, taking each day at a time is the best answer for a wonderful relationship
Every thing you're saying, I've been there, I dropped him
I think you needed to add signs of abuse and a guy that is controlling and is trying change you. One that sees you as a make-over project.
Had that too. I had somebody been so insistent that they liked me, but I didn't have hair long enough for them. Fact of the matter was they liked certain features I had. I said if my hair isn't long enough for you you don't like me.
I got out of my 3 year relationship (last year) mainly because of that sht, he'd put his energy/effort into the wrong things!
Most of the "damage cases" I met were men in their 40's that had been through some sort of significant commitment in their life. I haven't met a damage case yet that had no relationships in their past.
If I have seemingly disappeared or "ghosted" an individual woman it was only bc I learned that a person with a Dismissive avoidant attachment style is easily overwhelmed and needs time to process each interaction I have with them so that I don't become confused with those other people who don't really genuinely love or care about her and what she needs to keep growing both personally and professionally.
Please do a video on damaged cases
Yes please, more on damage cases
One thing I find frightening about this video is that it encourages women to seek perfection, as if only one of these red flags is in itself sufficient to stop a relationship. Whereas no-one is perfect.
When he bombards you with his time especially after letting known your boundaries!!
Please make that other video 👍🏽
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Yes please do a video on damaged men! They are soooo confusing! Thanks!
Why? there damaged.
If I have seemingly disappeared or "ghosted" an individual woman it was only bc I learned that a person with a Dismissive avoidant attachment style is easily overwhelmed and needs time to process each interaction I have with her so that I don't become confused with those other people who don't really genuinely love or care about her and what she needs to keep growing both personally and professionally.
And, as it turns out I also needed "extra" time as well to realize that I am capable of "making all the (romantic) stops along the way" without feeling the rush of a too immature society too eager to skip steps in the whole healthy relationship process.