Ryan hit the nail on the head - I’ve been told by multiple male partners during arguments when I’d be scared/confused by what they’re saying/how they’re saying it, “Why are you acting like this right now? You’re acting like I’m hitting you.” I always ended up apologizing to them then retreating to silence.
Recognizing that both guys and girls can be shitty people is honestly so refreshing. Hopefully this means that other guys can come forward if they're stuck in an abusive relationship
I agree...I also hope we get to a point when we hear a woman is physically abusive, and we don't immediately jump to excuse it or find reasons for the behavior. When a man hits a woman, there is no discussion about mental health or trauma, it's immediate condemnation, it's "believe all women," "there's never a reason to hit a woman" or my favorite "what did he do, that she had to defend herself"... its always approached from a victim angle when the woman is abused, and that should always be the case regardless of the gender.
This not only goes into abusive relationships, but friendships, and really any type of relationship that involves someone. It does really suck, and it’s nice to see y’all shooting the stuff on this talk.
2:11 I don't live in the US so honestly, this part was shocking. Where I live people's first reaction is to victim blame and even with the evidence and court decision, people's reaction is always "well you should've done what they wanted" or "you shouldn't talk about these things out loud" - very much suffer by yourself thing. Believing women is just not a thing. Men tend to band tgt no matter what's done and justify it. It's scary.
I am just going to say this. I agree. Verbal abuse is also as bad as physical abuse. Although, I don't dismiss physical and s*xual abuse, bad verbal communication can be hurtful too. Also, "We Cry Together" by Kendrick Lamar is a good example of a toxic relationship.
@@OhGeeGanksta that is true. Chris Rock ain't wrong. One of the GOATs in comedy ever. Let us agree that any type of abuse is bad. And no human sure should not go through it. Firstly and most importantly that is what I agree with. And don't have to agree with me on the rest but here is this. I don't want to lessen physical abuse. And most from personal experience. Want to make it clear. Secondly, there is a recent study that suggest that even though physical abuse is extremely dangerous. And cause brain swelling to a person if struck by a punch to the head. But that verbal is as much damaging to the brain. But, to an lesser extent. However, it still lights up the same areas self defense and trauma protection mechanisms in the brain as physical abuse. And it is still a relevant new study, so as studies go it might fall apart in the future. Once people used to think lead is good for you. And now we found out it is posionous. Some claim that it is the reason for being physical abusive. But that is either a video from Vice or Vox or Discovery. But that is besides the point. Thirdly, I have meet some people who have been physically abused. And read some stories about this. And escaped their situations. Battered and bruised. You can see the pain in their eyes when they talk about it. I met a person who seemed cold to the point about it. But that is not the point. And some say it is the mental side of the abuse that still remains with them longer after recovery. And their escape. Again not saying it is not worse but want it to be acknowledged. Physical and sexual are way worse but verbal can be there too.
Joe's story about his parents makes sense as to why his dad beat his ass to be honest. I feel like its common for the male to release their anger on their kid (tiger asian style)
I remember getting into it with a dude after I expressed my disappointment when word was out that Depp was gonna be taken off from Fantastic Beast. That 2nd movie (even though I thought it was terrible) really showed what Johnny could bring to this Grindelwald character. Dude I got into it was like "It doesn't matter what we think. It's proven, he's been abusing her for years" this moron was just so ready to "believe women" that he went crazy on me over hearsay on the internet. And as shitty as that was, WB and other people were the same as him. Stamping guilty on Johnny forehead before any evidence was even on the table.
I was threaten at a barbershop about the same shit. Guys cornered me about to fuck mr because a girl I dated said I beat her. I proved my way out and those same guys now are good homies lol
We had thatt one guy in our circle of friends who we knew was a good guy, never really seen him get pissed of at stuff but one of his exes told us that he used to abuse her but she kept silent about it.
@12:25 i literally have 3 ipad pros bc i want one in each room i frequent the most in my home lol. Love that Apple products let all your stuff sync across their devices with no thought on my end.
To correct Bart's point at the beginning, it's cause in the 90's and early 2000's, Toxic Masculinity was so bad. So Men were held to such a tough standard and were expected to handle any and all abuse, but even a little bit of outburst towards a woman would be taken so seriously. So yeah, another thing we can actually thank feminism for. That Men who were domestically abused, most likely kept it to themselves or had even worse fates.
Like you said, it’s toxic masculinity… but just like feminism, the consequences and abuse is rooted in the patriarchy and misogyny. Don’t blame feminism for this. Blame the men who silence and bully other men, who uphold this “macho man” standard and stereotype the “weak women,” who abuse women AND other men to submission
@@Krjwzhr When I meant, "thank feminism for" I meant thank feminism for highlighting toxic masculinity. Wasn't trying to blame feminism there as a cause.
@@GuyLogen Okay I apologize then. The way you placed that sentence the way you did (between two negatives) and structured your language make it seem you did blame feminism
@@Krjwzhr I can see how that sentence can come off as sarcastic/blaming. Sometimes, I just write stuff that sounds good in my head but doesn't come out the way I intend, lol.
I wish you guys were actually well-informed about the entire case. The media propaganda is so extreme a lot people have tons of misunderstanding about what the case is about and the details have been misrepresented by the social medias and social media reporters. Can you guys also talk about Johnny getting sued for punching a crew member?
Spotlighting LGBT relationship issues makes you a villain. Regardless of truth or respect given; anything negative in the LGBT community is not to be discussed. And who said this, cowards online.
It's sad how the world of dating is coming to an end. That's why I'm hurrying up to find the one before it's to late and nobody knows how to respect each other's love anymore. It sucks that these modern women I guess yall call it now are ruining it. But yes anyone can be abused now not just women and we need to let women know they are not alone and not abused their privileges as well when they falsely accuse a man for doing nothing to the send him to jail.
You ask me, the further we stray from religion, the more shit like this happens. There’s a reason our brain has a dedicated area for religion. We act like we’re above needing God-given rules way too much, and it’s messing everything up. For example, being like Jesus is irrefutably a good thing to do, yet people act like you’re crazy for trying to be like him and following his teachings. Backwards world.
Nah, not everyone practice religion. And honestly catholics around me at work who are married are fucking other people in our office, yet you see them on social media posting aftermass with their family acting lovey dovey and shit, poor wife she had no idea her husband did a bavarian cream pie with one of our co workers. Btw thats againts one of the 10 commandments if I'm not mistaken. So religion isn't always the key to be a good person, it depends on the individual themselves and their upbringing.
@@raikan6601 You can’t say you’re being like Jesus without actually being like Jesus. Are they being like Jesus? No. Simple as that. They also seem like they’re not being honest about their faith and making a daily, hourly effort to be like Jesus; So why look at them as if they’re the main example of what Christianity looks like? Frankly, the thought process makes zero sense. It’s ~generalization~ society that acts & teaches that that thought process is sane.
@@raikan6601 Like I said, it’s irrefutably good to be like Jesus. Read Jesus’ story before you speak on it, or try to determine wether others are being like Jesus or not.
I think Ryan was a great addition to this show tbh, he brings up good topics to speak about and has lots of experience
dude has a story for almost EVERYTHING, like holy shit bro when is his autobiography coming out lol
He's the opposite of David So...
Amber heard totally killed her mom and friend
he seems like a dope dude
@@mayurikurotsuchi9170 which might be a good thing 😂
Ryan hit the nail on the head - I’ve been told by multiple male partners during arguments when I’d be scared/confused by what they’re saying/how they’re saying it, “Why are you acting like this right now? You’re acting like I’m hitting you.” I always ended up apologizing to them then retreating to silence.
Recognizing that both guys and girls can be shitty people is honestly so refreshing. Hopefully this means that other guys can come forward if they're stuck in an abusive relationship
Lmfao what
@@eddygci8 what are you confused about?
I agree...I also hope we get to a point when we hear a woman is physically abusive, and we don't immediately jump to excuse it or find reasons for the behavior. When a man hits a woman, there is no discussion about mental health or trauma, it's immediate condemnation, it's "believe all women," "there's never a reason to hit a woman" or my favorite "what did he do, that she had to defend herself"... its always approached from a victim angle when the woman is abused, and that should always be the case regardless of the gender.
Hey I don’t care what the guys say Anthony that was a perfect way to end it! It made me crack up 👍🏻
i've been watching jk since i was 11 and its refreshing to come back and get the same entertaining content after over a decade later. missed y'all!
I like that you talked about this and not just discuss everything that happened in the trial. And that ending was perfect. 🤣🤣🤣
This not only goes into abusive relationships, but friendships, and really any type of relationship that involves someone. It does really suck, and it’s nice to see y’all shooting the stuff on this talk.
2:11 I don't live in the US so honestly, this part was shocking. Where I live people's first reaction is to victim blame and even with the evidence and court decision, people's reaction is always "well you should've done what they wanted" or "you shouldn't talk about these things out loud" - very much suffer by yourself thing. Believing women is just not a thing. Men tend to band tgt no matter what's done and justify it. It's scary.
5:10 when Ryan started telling his story about his friend, I got a little toooo excited at what will happen... 😂
I am just going to say this. I agree. Verbal abuse is also as bad as physical abuse. Although, I don't dismiss physical and s*xual abuse, bad verbal communication can be hurtful too. Also, "We Cry Together" by Kendrick Lamar is a good example of a toxic relationship.
@@OhGeeGanksta that is true. Chris Rock ain't wrong. One of the GOATs in comedy ever. Let us agree that any type of abuse is bad. And no human sure should not go through it. Firstly and most importantly that is what I agree with. And don't have to agree with me on the rest but here is this.
I don't want to lessen physical abuse. And most from personal experience. Want to make it clear. Secondly, there is a recent study that suggest that even though physical abuse is extremely dangerous. And cause brain swelling to a person if struck by a punch to the head. But that verbal is as much damaging to the brain. But, to an lesser extent. However, it still lights up the same areas self defense and trauma protection mechanisms in the brain as physical abuse. And it is still a relevant new study, so as studies go it might fall apart in the future. Once people used to think lead is good for you. And now we found out it is posionous. Some claim that it is the reason for being physical abusive. But that is either a video from Vice or Vox or Discovery. But that is besides the point.
Thirdly, I have meet some people who have been physically abused. And read some stories about this. And escaped their situations. Battered and bruised. You can see the pain in their eyes when they talk about it. I met a person who seemed cold to the point about it. But that is not the point. And some say it is the mental side of the abuse that still remains with them longer after recovery. And their escape.
Again not saying it is not worse but want it to be acknowledged. Physical and sexual are way worse but verbal can be there too.
@Lyn it to win it Like the New World Order group? Or a specific person?
Refreshing to see an episode without bad takes and everyone had pretty much very ballanced and reasonable opinions
Joe's story about his parents makes sense as to why his dad beat his ass to be honest. I feel like its common for the male to release their anger on their kid (tiger asian style)
Why do I feel like Ryan is going to tell of his crazy stories!!!!
I'm British, but I was surprised to hear him pronounce vase like the British way ( @10:20 ), I thought Americans pronounce it like "vays"...
Women can be abusive as well
Agreed. They will never achieve true equality if they can't accept these;
1. Men can be abused by women.
2. Women can lie and falsely accuse men.
I remember getting into it with a dude after I expressed my disappointment when word was out that Depp was gonna be taken off from Fantastic Beast. That 2nd movie (even though I thought it was terrible) really showed what Johnny could bring to this Grindelwald character. Dude I got into it was like "It doesn't matter what we think. It's proven, he's been abusing her for years" this moron was just so ready to "believe women" that he went crazy on me over hearsay on the internet. And as shitty as that was, WB and other people were the same as him. Stamping guilty on Johnny forehead before any evidence was even on the table.
there’s a couple threads about his years of abuse in most of his relationships
@@cherrybuds Yeah which turned out to be bullshit.
12:02 🤣🤣😶🌫️ me too
I FUCKING LOVE JKNEWS
:) thanks Justin !!
SAN q
damn what really sucks is you can be traumatized before you’re even born
hahahahaa anthony's mic drop moment at the end.
2:55 that's still happening.
I was threaten at a barbershop about the same shit. Guys cornered me about to fuck mr because a girl I dated said I beat her. I proved my way out and those same guys now are good homies lol
This episode does nothing to disprove my theory that the male feminists act like that cause they did fucked up shit in the past.
13:18 POV of Gohan
We had thatt one guy in our circle of friends who we knew was a good guy, never really seen him get pissed of at stuff but one of his exes told us that he used to abuse her but she kept silent about it.
Wonderful topic of discussion. Bravo, Careful Boys. Bravo.
the ending lmao
That's why Anthony gets abused on the show. Those corny jokes (jk). We grow up with the saying "Tough love" . That's how we were shown thats love
@12:25 i literally have 3 ipad pros bc i want one in each room i frequent the most in my home lol. Love that Apple products let all your stuff sync across their devices with no thought on my end.
The limit is when your life is at risk, do anything to survive. Outside of that, words are so strong women cannot even stand it.
To correct Bart's point at the beginning, it's cause in the 90's and early 2000's, Toxic Masculinity was so bad. So Men were held to such a tough standard and were expected to handle any and all abuse, but even a little bit of outburst towards a woman would be taken so seriously. So yeah, another thing we can actually thank feminism for. That Men who were domestically abused, most likely kept it to themselves or had even worse fates.
Like you said, it’s toxic masculinity… but just like feminism, the consequences and abuse is rooted in the patriarchy and misogyny. Don’t blame feminism for this. Blame the men who silence and bully other men, who uphold this “macho man” standard and stereotype the “weak women,” who abuse women AND other men to submission
@@Krjwzhr When I meant, "thank feminism for" I meant thank feminism for highlighting toxic masculinity. Wasn't trying to blame feminism there as a cause.
@@GuyLogen Okay I apologize then. The way you placed that sentence the way you did (between two negatives) and structured your language make it seem you did blame feminism
@@Krjwzhr I can see how that sentence can come off as sarcastic/blaming. Sometimes, I just write stuff that sounds good in my head but doesn't come out the way I intend, lol.
I wish you guys were actually well-informed about the entire case. The media propaganda is so extreme a lot people have tons of misunderstanding about what the case is about and the details have been misrepresented by the social medias and social media reporters.
Can you guys also talk about Johnny getting sued for punching a crew member?
Yeah, that explains Joe's relationships.
Oh wow you guys still make videos…. First time I got a recommendation in like a few years
LMAO what happened here 21:21
True
Did someone fart at 9:16
Good to see that since Terra Luna crash, the crew is now force to continue doing JK news
I'm friends with many LGBT women and almost all of those relationships were abusive
Elaborate, do you mean that they are were straight and had abusive relationships or lbgt community is abusive?
Almost like it doesn't matter what gender someone's attracted to, shitty people are everywhere. Such a surface level comment
@@Zhcwu pretty sure he's baiting
Spotlighting LGBT relationship issues makes you a villain. Regardless of truth or respect given; anything negative in the LGBT community is not to be discussed. And who said this, cowards online.
@@Zhcwu those particular people were in abusive relationships. It's not an indictment of the community but just of those I have been around
Didn’t they say that Amber’s favorite wine was like $300 a bottle and she drank 1-2 bottles every single night
goddayum
I Thought! It Was, JD. That Purchase ALL...The Wine.
Yerp. $500 actually, I think? But yeah essentially and that's just for her fav, nvm the other nice bottles she was chugging regularly.
@@KittyWillCutYou at the time Depp was worth 100s of millions of dollars he probably hasn't asked the price of a grocery item since the 90s
@@KittyWillCutYou
Yeah, it’s ironic that she told Johnny to stop drinking while drinking that much on the daily 💀
I used to do what Ryan was talking bout with the not hitting but other stuff
Anthony is awesome man. XD
Did Bart really say ‘a apple’ 😶?!
Am I missing something or didn't joe have that crazy story about his dad?
Let’s go OILERS!
Rip aquaman
JKNEWS I hought you can choose. Amber or Johnny. I guess I was wrong
I believed Johnny Depp from the start
😭😭😭
Asian baby girls be trippin
Whats up with dating koreans? it feels so sus 😂
It's sad how the world of dating is coming to an end. That's why I'm hurrying up to find the one before it's to late and nobody knows how to respect each other's love anymore. It sucks that these modern women I guess yall call it now are ruining it. But yes anyone can be abused now not just women and we need to let women know they are not alone and not abused their privileges as well when they falsely accuse a man for doing nothing to the send him to jail.
Narcissistic parent
You ask me, the further we stray from religion, the more shit like this happens. There’s a reason our brain has a dedicated area for religion. We act like we’re above needing God-given rules way too much, and it’s messing everything up. For example, being like Jesus is irrefutably a good thing to do, yet people act like you’re crazy for trying to be like him and following his teachings. Backwards world.
Nah, not everyone practice religion. And honestly catholics around me at work who are married are fucking other people in our office, yet you see them on social media posting aftermass with their family acting lovey dovey and shit, poor wife she had no idea her husband did a bavarian cream pie with one of our co workers. Btw thats againts one of the 10 commandments if I'm not mistaken. So religion isn't always the key to be a good person, it depends on the individual themselves and their upbringing.
@@raikan6601 You can’t say you’re being like Jesus without actually being like Jesus. Are they being like Jesus? No. Simple as that.
They also seem like they’re not being honest about their faith and making a daily, hourly effort to be like Jesus; So why look at them as if they’re the main example of what Christianity looks like? Frankly, the thought process makes zero sense. It’s ~generalization~ society that acts & teaches that that thought process is sane.
@@raikan6601 Like I said, it’s irrefutably good to be like Jesus. Read Jesus’ story before you speak on it, or try to determine wether others are being like Jesus or not.
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I totally agree with Ryan. If you hit your significant other you are in a lower class.
Moist
This is the only time I want tiff back just so I could see the look on her face knowing that her queen amber turd lost
Wait what? In what video did tiff supported amber ?
weirdo behavior lmao
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