TOXIC MASCULINITY | Have we FAILED this GENERATION? | The Basement w- Tim Ross
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- Опубликовано: 22 янв 2023
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I’m gonna need an episode still dropped even though this live happen yesterday please
When other dwellers, see other dwellers, it’s blessings on site!!!
Even though it’ll be beautiful to be able to do that for any and everybody.
Blessings on Site!!!
BOS Up!!
Wow Sam, that was so powerful . This is true friendship. This is giving me a blueprint of how i choose who to call friend. This is such a blessing
23:55 I agree let’s do it anyone from the basement let me catch you in this streets you getting loved on
Listening while delivering food bank donations and I live in West Virginia... So come through.. 😂
Today I fell on my knees praying for myself and my family after hearing this podcast. I am a Christian father of four and I have not done a good enough job living to the call of Psalm 101. Today that changes. Thank the Lord for all y'all. God Bless.
God bless you for your transparency Sir! In Jesus Name, the Almighty God will revolutionize your life in ways only His mercy can, and He’ll lead you from now on to live a life of sexual integrity and all-around integrity on every side, and this will translate in the lives of your family by the example you lead for them, don’t worry God’s evident grace is your strength and What God Cannot Do Does NOT Exist!!!! (NSPPD) in Jesus Name Amen 🙏🏾
@@mosoriresuccess6968 Amen, Thank You Brother!
Tim, Tim, Tim! Man, that moment with Sam is such a beautiful display of brotherly love, the kind that leads to sozo. Wow!
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What is soxo?
Hi Jacqueline, sozo is wholeness.
It was so beautiful to see!
😢😢😢😢so beautiful
When Tim reaffirmed Sam, it gave me chills, I felt like Jesus was talking to Sam and me
I felt the exact same way. It was such a beautiful moment. That was real love.
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YES!! Such a beautiful moment 🙏🏾💜
Tim… that’s 😤
That's God moving
Tim, we are basement DWELLERS not basement VISITORS! We here at noon or at midnight! 😆 You go live, we go live!!! Some of us work from home and while it may take 3-4 hours to listen to the whole thing between meetings, we are here for it!!
Even though this was aimed at men as a female I still got so much from this episode. I’m almost 90 days sober from alcohol and your dive into psalm 101 really spoke to me. I called my sponsor to share your insight and it also blessed her in a specific way that only God could facilitate. Thank you.
PREACH!
Absolutely 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amen 🙏🏻
Yesssss
Thank you for sharing your story and a piece of your heart!
Tim Ross, if there were more men like you in the world, being honest & open, VULNERABLE, as the mentor & example you are, this world would be a totally different place! We love you! Love to Hector & Sam!
Honestly I’ve never seen someone like Tim, he’s a rare gem
At church on Sunday a mom came to drop her daughter off in the 2-3 year old room I was serving in- she saw my Basement hat and instant deeper connection between us. DWELLERS unite !
Community ❤
500$ on sight!
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Sam, Thank you for your humility and your transparency. Tim, thank you for being a great example of Christ. Amazing vlog!
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“I turn down preaching engagements based on whose on the line up.” MANNNN YESSSS! That’s next level integrity and I LOVEEEE IT. Most won’t and most don’t understand how important that is!!
Pastor Tim!! Thank you! So I yelled up to my oldest, while my 9yr old son was in kitchen. I said hey Shar go outside and get some glitzies out of the freezer. My son's eyes got sooo big! I asked him why he reacted that way. He told me that what I said mostly meant hot dogs. When I asked what else it meant, the child literally teared up and said...mom just please don't say that
I love hearing the laugher in the background. 😆 It’s infectious. Love this podcast!!! Wasn’t so random after all.
Sam thank you so much for your vulnerability. For the longest time I held myself captive over the wrong things I had done that hurt people I truly loved and cared about. God set me free and forgave me but I still carried the guilt and shame of my wrongdoing. I hid for a whole year because I was embarrassed. God is delivering me from that and your vulnerability has helped me a lot. 😢
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yes!! @Sam and @temwachi same for me 🥹God is delivering me as well. Old me is shedding away with the guilt and shame and God is creating something new because HE is my redeemer!🙌🏽
Thank you for this Tim! I am a single mom to a 10 year old boy and the kids are doing this at my son's school. I've just asked him and he could tell me about this hot dog nonsense. Where we live this school is considered thee best co-ed school in Southern Suburbs, Constantia, Cape Town. Just thankful that God allows these moments for me to be informed and have real conversations with my son. It's so hectic out here.
Sam's laughter honestly blesses me. And I'm not just saying that because of our namesake.
Agreed! That laugh makes me want to laugh :)
Would be dope if you guys can do a pop up live podcast in a venue where you can give the crowd like an hour of Q&A after the pod finishes. You can do this in every city like, “The Basement Tour” ‼️
Sam and Hector guys you are real testimonies of change and strength we want to hear it 🙏
Me: *works at Dell & is listening to the pod while working*
Also me: *gets shaded by Tim Ross like 10 mins into the pod*
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The camera quality is absolutely spectacular!!!!
What an excellent excellent conversation!
Thank you my brothers and sisters for exposing everything that no one in my community discussing. I have thought about these things since I was a little girl. I just realized the holy spirit was always in me since I was a little girl. And I didn't have anyone to do talk about this. I am 29 years, raising a daughter. Thank you all for obeying God's call.
The way I wanted to jump through the screen and give Sam a group hug. Thank you for being transparent and vulnerable. I pray that weight is lifted off you because you are not who you used to be. Father God we thank you. 🙏🏾🥺🙌🏾
Yess I wanted to cry and hug Sam😢
@@estherbaffour2993There was someone cutting onions in the room with me. I couldn’t hold my tears because I felt that moment for him.
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Awww. Sam!!!!!! His vulnerability got me in tears 😢. I pray 🙏🏾 we all find or experience someone lik Tim Ross his dialogue in that moment was GOLDEN.
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All the way from south Africa I wanna say thank you. God knows how I've been searching to hear this narrative. It's raw and it's real. I'm raising two little boys that will become men some day. In a couple of weeks we are moving to New Zealand. If ever God sends you to New Zealand, I will buy you a tea with vegan milk. Thank you for being a conduit of God's truth in this crazy world we live in... PS: this is my second podcast and you can consider me a dweller 🙌🏼
Tim. I listened to this while working from home 😂 Plus, I used to live in DFW while in college. I'm now in Seattle and Tacoma. I passed you to my Bible study members for daily inspirational for thought, application, and knowledge. The member's of the human body of believers are listening 🎧 Much love fam💓🫀🙌🏾
WE LOVE SAM, TIM THANK YOU FOR BEING A BROTHER!!!!
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Tim, the way you affirmed Sam was so graceful 😢❤🙏🏾
God bless you sir 1:31:25
Don’t let those people take away the man you have become Sammy! I seen the integrity on you the minute I started watching Tim Ross ❤
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Thank you Tim! We are sacred b/c we are good! God made women good and good enough to deserve the best and be safe! ❤
I know you were addressing men, and this helped me so much as a woman. thank you @thebasement
Tim,
You're helping me in so many ways that I can't even describe! Thank you for what you said to Sam. We could all use a friend like you. I'd love to write to you, brother!
Sam,
Whew man! Your vulnerability is both heartbreaking, yet reassuring and hopeful. You are not alone! You're healing so many men even if you don't realize it. Guilt, shame, and regret are the strongest of mental and emotional prisons. And having the belief that your past will forever be held against you can be an unsettling experience. However, I see your heart. I see you! You are a beautiful soul and human being. You are strong and courageous! I just wanted you to know that!
God Bless and KEEP DOING THIS PODCAST!!
“He didn’t give me amnesia but he did give me a cross” 🔥🔥🔥
Sammmmmm! You just set who knows how many free! I have been tremendously hurt and I’ve tried to tell that person what walking in transparency looks like that and what it would take for me to heal. This is it right here. This person still doesn’t get it. Tim spoke facts! This was so beautifully handled and done. Thank you for this!
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I love you Sam for being so real. One day I would like to hug you and say thank you for this moment
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I'm watching 4 days later from Nairobi Kenya and i have shared it, toxic masculinity is an issue in our society!!!! you just bring it all together and give Godly practical solutions. Thank you
Wow! Surprise mid day episode....GOOD STUFF! Sorry I didn't catch it live, but so blessed to get to watch it back. Brothas Tim & Sam thank you thank you thank you for that REAL moment of transparency, love, & communication. Once again....love & respect to the entire Basement fam!!! 🙏🏼❤️✝️
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Thank you for this message. I’m not a man but have been struggling for a year while separated from my husband who unfortunately has returned to the world without any repentance. I’ve book marked Psalms 101. I will pray for him and will work on myself as i continue on God’s path. It’s ok to acknowledge that you can’t rock with some people. Have to give them to God. 🙏🏽
The way I screamed “It’s Christmas over there” 😩🤣 I’m sorry but I’m thankful for the way you give it to us‼️ We need this in 2023 get right or get left!!!
"Who you are alone, is who you ARE!!" 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank You Tim Ross and Sam for exemplifying what walking together in the Kingdom looks like and works like❤❤❤ Thank You Tim for leaning and leading with The Word!!!
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Dropping on a Monday is what I needed!! Thank you for putting it straight to us men today sir. I pray for more grace to keep this thing going. You are literally changing generations.
“It’s been 7 months, dawg! This is just who you are.” THAT PART!!!
Love you Sammy! You have a testimony in that. Your saving others and spoke to my heart. That fear of the things we've done. We are well aware them and God has forgiven and so shall we.
Glory to God! In Jesus name. Amen
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We love you, Sam ❤
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Sam, the only thing I’ll say is I identify with you. This helped break something that I needed to see and hear. Please don’t ever stop! This is helping me with work on myself that I always knew I needed but wanted to start in so many different areas! The basement means a lot to me ever since I pressed B! 💪🏾🧡
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We love you Sam and Hector!! So much!! Just saying ❤❤❤
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I’ll be 33 next month and I remember the hot dog, popsicle, and banana thing starting when I was in middle school/high school. We didn’t have a term like “glizzies” for it, but the results were the same for guys as far as bullying was concerned. But for us girls, the guys would try to tell us to eat slower and lick slower. I never participated in that, it really bothered me for both guys and girls that this was happening. It wasn’t funny, it was gross and uncomfortable. I hate that it now has a term and is continuing, and yet I’m not surprised in the slighted.
I’m 39 and we had that some nonsense in middle school in NC. Nothing new under the sun.
“It’s Christmas over there. I’m not coming.” took me OUT!!!😂😂😂 This was a very refreshing pod episode. Thank you for putting us all in the know about what scripture says is the way to live in the world without being of the world.
I hollered 🤣
That and grandpa sex 😂 Tim😂
This top 5 craziest pods I’ve ever witnessed. This is what the Christian world NEEDS!!!
Sammy don’t know he just won over a lot of hearts. Keep your head up Sam ❤️
Boy I almost messed up my bench press laughing at this pod. But also a MUCH NEEDED conversation!! 👏
SAVE OUR MEN!!!! Love the work that you’re putting in ❤
This podcast helped me as a young man trying to live this Christian life
Love this, we have 2 boys 17 and 13 I’m aware of the music that’s out here I’m aware of what can get my kids caught up I listen to them, we gotta know what’s out here we can’t just be hiding under a rock
I'm at work. South Africa, Cape Town. Time: 13h02 afternoon...I love you guys. My SPIRIT'MAN needs this...
The background music while we wait for The Basement to start is therapeutic, Thank you
I am a first time listener. I have been longing to find God again. You’re mentioning Galatians 6:1!!!! Tears bro! Thank you!
Thank you for speaking about Toxic Masculinity. Your talk reminded me of my senior year in college where I wrote a senior thesis on memes and masculinity. Most popular meme pages are reflective on modern takes on Masculinity if you look at them through a critical lens.
Thank as well for helping me through your words as I going on the fight against my flesh
Me!! Cleaning houses and listening to past basement episodes when I caught this one live
I am mad late to this party/podcast. As a woman, this episode made my heart smile. I am in prayer that my father, brothers, nephews, Godsons, and man cousins find themselves in circles such an intentional centering on GOD as this circle has thus far exhibited in Jesus's name. Obviously, I want the same for all my loved ones and Christ-anchored fam, but a focus from time to time per subgroup can do immeasurable good for the distinct intricacies in our experiences and temper us for working in the interdependent manner intended by our Creator. Y'all don't need my confirmation, but I'ma type it anyhow: the Holy Spirit is all up and through y'all and this platform. 🖤💪🏾
Tim Iam so grateful to have stumbled across you last year on IG and you and your team have blessed me so much. I love your truth and transparency and the fact you always use bible to back what you say. Sam, I love you my brother and feel your pain. I need friends like this in my life.
normally I always watch these last week was the first time I didn’t watch it and I’m watching and catching up this week!! && i’m in SLC UTAH!!!
I just ❤ it when Tim says a lil cuss with passion 😆 🤣 😂 "They don't have no lights on in their house". I can't stop laughing 😂
❤️❤️❤️The Basement 🔥🔥🔥 I do have an observation and an ask. Things in culture have nothing to do with attending or being part of public schools. Pastors are saying it daily like there is truth to it. IT’S NOT!!! People everywhere start these dumb fads of glizzy…not a public school teacher or public school student. This is another division in the kingdom that if something happens in culture, public school is at fault. PLEASE STOP!!! It hurts parents and kids in the public school system and sends the message that somehow we are less than, not holy, tainted goods in the church. I am a parent of a public school teacher as well as a public school student. These trends start in all kinds of people including those who attend church every day. Thank you BASEMENT TEAM 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️
“What did you do?”
“I DID IT ALL FAM!” 😂😂😂 I’ve rewinds that one part about 20 times by now
Just watched your first podcast and I’m blown away!!!!!!! Love love love.
Gospel gold right here and as real as it gets!💜💜💜
This podcast is what I needed right now. Thank you so much for speaking the Word
Sammyyy🥺 want to hug you. We love you❤
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What an afternoon delight!! Keep making it plain so that we can read and run!! I love you all!! ❤
My brother Tim you are saying all the things. I’m here for it. Thank you for taking your time to unpack it all. I’m addicted to the one your following.
I could have cried when Sam teared up & Tim spoke to him so gently 😢 It was so inspiring & lovely
This is the kind of pod episode that emboldens your audience & terrifies your doubters lol keep um coming!! The Basement is here to stay & helping the masses 💯💯💯
I appreciate this podcast! The transparency is unmatched and MUCH NEEDED! You all are SAVING LIVES and most importantly YOU ALL ARE giving hope to believers ! thank you ! Our men need this ! So do our women! Just Thank you!!!!
So happy to have been working from home today!
And I’m watching this on a Monday. This is definitely a Monday episode. Thank you 😊
Sam my heart goes out to you…You can be all you can be, thanks for sharing your pain❕
Thank you Sweet Sam . Thank you for your caring ❤️
for yall relistening looking for when he starts talking about manhood here's the time stamp 31:32
Yes ! The Basement is the Place ! Expose ! Expose ! Expose! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yessss!!!!!! Sam!!! SHAME OFF OF YOU!
-Thank you!
Clippp! In the world not of it I'm waiting 👌
All facts!!! As an educator we hear it all!!!
I love this conversation so much. Thank you Tim. Thank you The Basement!
Oh how I enjoy time with Tim. WE NEED THIS! Thank you 🙏🏾
Prayers for Memphis TN please ! I don’t know how else to reach the basement dwellers and prayers for the family who lost there son to the 5 officers . I believe God is revealing what’s been going on for years but we need prayers for everyone’s peace out here .
I love it how every time Tim takes a sip he has some knowledge to drip.Lol I know that was so corny 🤣🤣🤣 but it’s true tho
Thank you so much for the podcast!!!! The real moments are 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
❤ I speak light and accountability in all my dark areas so help us God.
I receive Psalm 101 as my new standard.
I ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️the BASEMENT!! 😢😢Sam gave us REAL water falls & TIM gave us REAL WISDOM 🙏🏾
This was amazing!
I shared it with all my brothers!
Thank you so much.
Multiple times i felt the spirit from this! ❤ amen brother
Whew that part about there being a difference between lies and deception.
This podcast has and will no doubt continue to bless me in so many ways. Respect & Gratitude for going against the grain & embodying/modeling what obedience to God looks like in this day and age. Your podcast is a reminder that having the audacity to be obedient to His will & His word is both Radical & Revolutionary. It’s not easy, but it’s simple. Peace & Prosperity to you, your team/family & the rest of the Basement Dwellers
We love you Sam!!❤❤
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Wowwwwwww this is another powerful episode! That portion about Sammy .... my God! That was beautiful and a show of the love of Christ.
It’s amazing how I read the word, yet when Tim brings up scriptures it’s like i never heard them be4
Exactly-honestly, openness and transparency. Restore him Tim. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I aim to be a Psalm 101 woman. Thank you for allowing me to be a work in progress with Grace and Truth.
Such a great episode!! The part with Sam had me crying
Honestly, it’s not enough I need you guys EVERYDAY!!!
Thank you for this. I know what I need to be praying and reading everyday till I have integrity in my own home