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  • @junebrowse1010
    @junebrowse1010 Год назад +61

    If the truth be told some of these girls dont make it back home they disappear.

    • @broderickdoss6068
      @broderickdoss6068 Год назад +10

      Facts..

    • @Lioness-Ma
      @Lioness-Ma Год назад +6

      Facts 😔

    • @dilisacio9433
      @dilisacio9433 Год назад +3

      I can't wait for that time to come I disappear early 😞

    • @sherrisolomon2843
      @sherrisolomon2843 Год назад +1

      ​@@dilisacio9433????😮😮😮

    • @estherblack2770
      @estherblack2770 7 месяцев назад

      Then they need to learn. Some African women don't want men at all and it sad how black American women come and fall in hands of those African monsters.

  • @FATHERPROVIDENCEREPORT
    @FATHERPROVIDENCEREPORT Год назад +64

    They married them out of entitlement...some men are agents...other married them to establish themselves in Africa a gateway😂😂😂

    • @olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688
      @olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688 Год назад +20

      Infiltration through Marriage is the most effective way to conquer. The Mzungu get entitled to your mind, body land, natural resources and culture. It is not personal. It is racial. Your personal wealth does not matter to the Mzungu. He sees you as stupid, anyway.

    • @Justafox305
      @Justafox305 Год назад

      Yes, because if they have kids with an African lady, their children now have claim to the land and resources. Be careful

    • @ms.t4322
      @ms.t4322 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688
      Looks like She married him as a gateway out of poverty in Africa.If she had money she would have her own citizenship,and money to return home and would not care less.This is another reason why Africans need to stop running like cowards
      to other peoples countries to get a better life when they can get and educatuon in Africa and build in Africa and not worry about being used up or taken advantage of in other countries..

    • @vilhelmkron7455
      @vilhelmkron7455 3 месяца назад

      ​@@olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688you got some issues to deal with bro. This comment section is so full of hate n racism

    • @olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688
      @olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688 3 месяца назад

      @@vilhelmkron7455
      Racism my foot.

  • @Zurai-Lion
    @Zurai-Lion Год назад +111

    You cannot rise above the status of your people. It's better to work together

    • @historicwestendvillage8848
      @historicwestendvillage8848 Год назад

      Why are these Black women married to these flucking barbaric? I don't feel sorry for them, they are just as sick as the barbaric.

    • @nbballstarballislife
      @nbballstarballislife Год назад +8

      @Đark Destroyer what lol?

    • @vibezlogistics7453
      @vibezlogistics7453 Год назад

      ​@Đark Destroyer he knows what you're saying...

    • @theashwoodtree
      @theashwoodtree Год назад

      @Đark Destroyer nothing lasts forever. They were doomed as soon as they were taken from Africa. The US has ruined them and there’s no turning back. I say focus on the rest of the diaspora and let the AA’s become extinct.

    • @sweetie539
      @sweetie539 Год назад +2

      You can have self respect. If the man says you will go back we the girls from Namibia say give me a day or two to pack and I will be out asap. But then they try to use our kids to trap us by saying if you go the child stays. So we soften them up and still go with our kids.

  • @devonte7650
    @devonte7650 Год назад +59

    black african females need to date in their race or tribe simple the same goes for black men

    • @kitejohnson515
      @kitejohnson515 Год назад

      Black nen don’t value their women either

    • @-parttimeartist-7379
      @-parttimeartist-7379 Год назад +11

      That's the only solution but you know people won't do it voluntary. For some reason people like to have the option of dating outside of their tribes/ethnic groups. Things will only go back to that once this world system collapses and they no longer have easy access to other demographics.

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад +5

      A lot of black African women don't want black males for partners. A lot of us are in interracial relationships/ marriages.

    • @devonte7650
      @devonte7650 Год назад

      and still get mistreated in the worse way is like black people never learn

    • @ashleyhearts8561
      @ashleyhearts8561 Год назад +19

      @@asiphejohnson6543 speak for yourself. I would never marry a yt man.

  • @wtfsamusidk7574
    @wtfsamusidk7574 Год назад +80

    Good maybe they can stop wyte worshiping

    • @robjohnson2749
      @robjohnson2749 Год назад +1

      they want bro lol

    • @theoutlawjoseywales4075
      @theoutlawjoseywales4075 11 месяцев назад +2

      I'm wyt...
      I agree

    • @avawashington3498
      @avawashington3498 10 месяцев назад

      Because you have nothing to offer that’s why they do what they do and if those women with Smart while they’re there, they would apply for permanent residency

    • @alphonsowashington4934
      @alphonsowashington4934 7 месяцев назад

      @@avawashington3498 who has nothing to offer?????

    • @Noke-wt2tm
      @Noke-wt2tm 7 месяцев назад

      Do not Shame African ladies for wanting something better and That’s white man its just hypergamy. Its in their Nature

  • @eastafrika728
    @eastafrika728 Год назад +104

    We need our own research laboratories and factories for everything we use and need

    • @kurokaizen1889
      @kurokaizen1889 Год назад +9

      Need to start from the ground up first. Need to construction people/builders, Need better customer service, better textilers, Need better politicians and police men etc etc. We need better people generally from the ground up.

    • @eastafrika728
      @eastafrika728 Год назад +5

      @@kurokaizen1889 we should do away with politics, it is not a legitimate profession.

    • @naga7461
      @naga7461 Год назад

      @@eastafrika728 do it yourself

    • @Championwarlord
      @Championwarlord Год назад +1

      Too many chiefs and entertainers no Indians

    • @nola3058
      @nola3058 Год назад

      I've heard that saying you're using: "many Chiefs and no Indians", that adage sounds so flawed because the "Chief" is an Indian also, duh! 😂

  • @jamesfaizon5376
    @jamesfaizon5376 Год назад +78

    If we stop being selfish and get to a point enough is enough. I believe this division will stop! Yes we need a forum of why we as black people keep allowing these lice infected people into our world.

    • @wilbertmcbride498
      @wilbertmcbride498 Год назад +1

      YUP, It's Like Our People WORLDWIDE Are BEWITCHED By Those Knuckledragging NEANDERTHAL Heathens!!!!!!

    • @redefv
      @redefv Год назад

      So you want segregation? No whites in your world, and I assume vice versa?

    • @demetriusevans4139
      @demetriusevans4139 Год назад +10

      Agreed

    • @survivingwhitezaddy2.5
      @survivingwhitezaddy2.5 Год назад +6

      Especially Africans and Carribeans

  • @JayRBG.
    @JayRBG. Год назад +42

    We all we got Family ✊🏿 THE AFRICAN HAS NO FRIENDS!!!

    • @acclason17
      @acclason17 Год назад

      Mexicans are the same!!!

    • @Thatthing1234
      @Thatthing1234 Год назад +7

      Africa is too big and wealthy of a continent for africans to not work together. This biggest lie that they told me was that africa is poor. Yeah, right! Rich in resources, a sustainable population EVEN after everything that has happened, and huge genetic variation across Africa. How can Africa not eventually win? It's our time to shine💪🏽!

    • @kitejohnson515
      @kitejohnson515 Год назад +4

      We don’t even need friends they need us

    • @alphonsowashington4934
      @alphonsowashington4934 7 месяцев назад

      huh???? yall kill each other everyday and known for not sticking together, blk families???? lol bruh africans r known for being about family.

  • @dianecrowder4971
    @dianecrowder4971 Год назад +59

    This happens due to our low self-esteem,distrust, strong dislike, and at times hatred of black people!😎

    • @njonjokibera9587
      @njonjokibera9587 Год назад

      Africans are their own worst enemies 90%. As long as you hate yourselves and your fellow black brothers and sisters don’t expect the world to respect you or take you seriously. As long as Africans are living in object poverty no one will respect you or take you seriously

  • @Synoopy2
    @Synoopy2 Год назад +31

    As a Black American, I know that Africans face different types of issues than we do but, this conversation was depressing. It portrays Africans or maybe specifically people in Uganda as having low self esteem and treating whites as if they are superior. If this is true then we still have a long way to go as black people on both continents.

    • @annmariedorsett2834
      @annmariedorsett2834 Год назад +3

      Damm it is TRUE😫 where you been🤔🤔🤔

    • @olawaleoluyemisi3452
      @olawaleoluyemisi3452 Год назад +2

      Barry, I like the way you think! As black ppl, our burden should be all of our burdens.

    • @aulenebeckford6268
      @aulenebeckford6268 Год назад +2

      So sad!

    • @bobbijones4377
      @bobbijones4377 Год назад

      Dr Claud Anderson has always been on point with everything he’s said. A lot of blacks are distracted by a$$ shaking/twerking, sports, violent rap, manosphere anti-women red pill philosophies, divesting from the diaspora, going viral and likes etc. Much is going on and folks eyes are closed.

    • @ghusaghusa2135
      @ghusaghusa2135 Год назад

      Welcome to Earth ... what planet you from?

  • @lovesyah4618
    @lovesyah4618 Год назад +13

    No sympathy. Keep loving your colonizers 🤬

    • @amenajackson8133
      @amenajackson8133 Год назад +1

      Black men don't love black women so?

    • @karlo9572
      @karlo9572 6 месяцев назад

      @@amenajackson8133no one loves black women, and that is black womens fault

  • @logicalman1172
    @logicalman1172 Год назад +42

    Africa stand-up for yourself we got your back ✊🏾

    • @anitab734
      @anitab734 Год назад

      Speak for yourself they never had our back and never will. Because they no we are not Africans and they don't like us. They stand against us.

  • @sunrise2148
    @sunrise2148 Год назад +15

    "White acceptance is more important than Black consciousness." ~ Mzungu woman

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад

      To some black folks. It is

    • @sunrise2148
      @sunrise2148 Год назад +1

      @@asiphejohnson6543 Some? Most? I think there's a revolutionary threshold. Once it's down to some 'Change gon come'

    • @Synoopy2
      @Synoopy2 Год назад +1

      yeah, its a screwed up world but what are we gonna do, its the only one we have.

    • @Synoopy2
      @Synoopy2 Год назад

      I think this statement will always have a "I am already defeated connotation" please throw it in the trash

    • @sunrise2148
      @sunrise2148 Год назад

      @@Synoopy2 Really? How so?
      First, we must establish if it's true,

  • @eschatologian
    @eschatologian Год назад +102

    From one angle, fuck how outsiders view us. In the same breath, if there’s something true about what they’re saying, we should evolve. Largely, the problem is us as Africans care too much about outside opinions & are too welcoming to non-Africans all the while refusing to deal directly to resolve our in-house issues with peaceful intentions & with adamant support.

    • @eschatologian
      @eschatologian Год назад

      @@rafaelw8115, that’s why I wrote about evolving from truthful criticism. You obviously didn’t read my entire comment. I say fuck’em because we give them too much room in say-so, on our land & psychologically if we can be honest. There’s land in Africa that’s designated for “whites-only”.😡🗣️wtf🗣️😡 how did we become so docile? Why is our land separated through colonial borders. There’s more, but I’ll digress & stop here. Peace & blessings brother❤️🖤💚

    • @Lioness-Ma
      @Lioness-Ma Год назад +3

      💯

    • @williscartee2008
      @williscartee2008 Год назад +2

      I agree 💯 percent with what you say.

    • @cthrower
      @cthrower Год назад +3

      @Benny Lee, This sir in my opinion is in the running for youtube comment of the YEAR!!!!!

    • @thomasmiller800
      @thomasmiller800 Год назад

      Well, well ! Articulated. Thanks 👍

  • @hadast3806
    @hadast3806 Год назад +72

    My sister married a white man (she was born and raised in America), she is half Ghanaian and Sierra Leonean.
    After they divorced I asked her if he ever got cross with her, meaning if he ever called her the N word.
    She was silent and changed the subject. 😤
    It is EXTREMELY common for the white person in the relationship (whether a white man or woman) to racially abuse the black person - even if they were “joking.”
    A person being in IR does NOT mean they can’t be racist, that is a gross misconception.

    • @prisillakimani3590
      @prisillakimani3590 Год назад

      Absolutely marrying a white person doesnt make one less rac*st.Look at the internet!

    • @triggered3625
      @triggered3625 Год назад +7

      All of the black men that I know that’s in interracial relationships are respected.
      That’s more of a black women thing.

    • @hadast3806
      @hadast3806 Год назад +15

      @@triggered3625 then why are BM WW unions the most volatile and have the highest breakup rates?
      I think IR is not good for any black persons whether male or female and the offspring are confused and ALWAYS turn on their black side when they have increased numbers - there are numerous examples around the globe.

    • @karlo9572
      @karlo9572 6 месяцев назад

      @@hadast3806well that’s not true the highest break ups in both the uk and France are black women interracial relationships. As a matter of fact 80%+ of black women with interracial children are single only 45% of all black fathers in the uk are single. So that’s a false narrative. Also when black women are with white men they allow way more than they do with black men and let these white men call them all kinds of racial slurs. However there are far more black men in interracial relationships opposed to the other way. Because other men don’t want to marry black women they just sleep with them

  • @eschatologian
    @eschatologian Год назад +24

    Claude Anderson is the truth💯

  • @ShakorPicou
    @ShakorPicou Год назад +28

    They look at Africans and black people as exotic, and the way they go about things as primitive.

  • @ghusaghusa2135
    @ghusaghusa2135 Год назад +16

    Been to 4 African countries so far. How, as a Black amerikkkan, do I connect when Africans see me as just another obruni? A dark muzungu? Almost every African I have met asked for gifted money or loans. I was overcharged at every encounter. Then strangely, I received better service than they gave their own countrymen, strangely, .... BUT ..... any colonizer nearby got better service than ME! Your first true African experience will change you! In what ways remains to be seen.

    • @jxsilicon9
      @jxsilicon9 11 месяцев назад +1

      😂

    • @queenivy8600
      @queenivy8600 7 месяцев назад

      The African version of shucking & jiving. Many have become content with being expendable.

    • @karlo9572
      @karlo9572 6 месяцев назад

      They worship their masters. You can be 70 year old white man and they would let their 15 year old daughter sleep with you. Seen it with my own eyes. Completely disgraceful people without any pride or shame

    • @ShadowHolmes
      @ShadowHolmes 5 месяцев назад

      Poor as hell that on you why you giving them more money anyway

    • @ghusaghusa2135
      @ghusaghusa2135 5 месяцев назад

      @@ShadowHolmes It's called expediency. If I needed a ride in 100 degree eat and the driver is cheating me out of a couple of cedis, do I sit and roast for 30 minutes or just pay the guy and go? C'mon, speak like you do some level of thinking or haven't been in a basement all your life. Ever been to Africa? Some thinks you either take now, or may not see it again for another day, or ten miles away. You gonna let the equivalent of a dollar or two force you to take aa cab to the competitor? Is there any intelligent conversation to be had here?

  • @bossnaz7845
    @bossnaz7845 Год назад +38

    This is why I don't agree with Interracial relationships!!!

    • @wilbertmcbride498
      @wilbertmcbride498 Год назад +11

      Me NEITHER, NEVER Have And NEVER WILL!!!!!!

    • @chardoncrepu
      @chardoncrepu Год назад +13

      Especially Old guy /young poor ladies

    • @Cng215
      @Cng215 Год назад +6

      Not pro blacks problem. That's a problem for 🦝

    • @meganakinsanya4702
      @meganakinsanya4702 Год назад +5

      Love is love…isn’t that what y’all say when you get snow bunnies 🙄. Hypocrites !

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад +2

      ​@@meganakinsanya4702 it's exactly what they say. Just date your WM in peace and stop focusing on bm.

  • @scorpiolady73
    @scorpiolady73 Год назад +10

    I live in Qatar. African American woman. This is a real conversation for the existing in the world. Real talk!. Thank you for this topic.

  • @AJAruna
    @AJAruna Год назад +43

    Well said Oshay! As black folks we need to keep uplifting each other in order to gain respect from other groups of people.

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад +2

      Lol, thar will never happen.

    • @wm6089
      @wm6089 Год назад +7

      ​@@asiphejohnson6543 let it be to you according to your faith.

    • @MIA-fq1di
      @MIA-fq1di Год назад

      ​@@asiphejohnson6543here we go again 🙄

    • @TC-1985
      @TC-1985 10 месяцев назад +1

      Gain Respect from each other FIRST!!

  • @iuicanchorage
    @iuicanchorage Год назад +7

    Proverbs 3:31 Envy thou not the oppressor, and choose none of his ways.

  • @junebrowse1010
    @junebrowse1010 Год назад +36

    These conversations are so valuable. There is so much to learn from you guys.
    Osay you have to start speaking to the young men ie Motivational classes to change their mindset. It is so needed.
    Colloberting with the African Diaspora is so valuable . Learn from each other

    • @billymaepa4576
      @billymaepa4576 Год назад

      My thing is can we stop commenting here and make it happen already

  • @RPNDWORLDWIDE
    @RPNDWORLDWIDE Год назад +8

    Africans dont need help they require business. I despise the word help as nobody does nothing for nothing.

  • @americanoutside
    @americanoutside Год назад +27

    Actually, the problem with Africa is no self awareness, as it relates to how they are precieved, even by each other, and the fact that they are not informed or educated on how anything works, even in their own countries and worst they seek instructions from people even more ignorant than themselves. They do care about how they are seen by outsiders, because that outsider is most likely in a better life position and they can be of use, or robbed, or exploited for their survival, which demonstrates their low moral character, that they are willing to do anything to survive. Empowerment is paramount to restoration of basic human dignity, so self sufficiency is the normal reality. "What do you bring to the table?" "What's a table? "😢

    • @BeyondBordersNewsNetwork
      @BeyondBordersNewsNetwork Год назад +1

      Excuses.

    • @americanoutside
      @americanoutside Год назад +2

      @@BeyondBordersNewsNetwork Obviously you didn't read what I wrote. I'm in Africa and basically it's their countries their choices. It's not excuse, it's fact.

  • @TheBlackGeo
    @TheBlackGeo Год назад +12

    I love the conversation. I've been saying for a minute we can all still live in the diaspora but we as black people have to annually travel back to Africa and spread our wealth and learn within each other. You see that with the whites from America to Europe and Australia

    • @Morgue12free
      @Morgue12free Год назад +2

      Exactly! Most Australians travel to Europe during their youth as some right of passage.

    • @TheBlackGeo
      @TheBlackGeo Год назад +1

      @@Morgue12free all facts! We need to have our own rights of passage

  • @JayRBG.
    @JayRBG. Год назад +25

    Oshay been on point lately 💪🏾 had to subscribe.

    • @Silverbackugx
      @Silverbackugx Год назад +2

      @Jay, yes I have noticed less pandering and pacifying in his commentary lately, it made me COME BACK to the channel. Bold truthfulness in good spirit, and love is appreciated by his diasporan audience. Some times the pride of some Africans is hurt, but that stubborn arrogance and reluctance to accept the truth and change is waning. We will come out on the other side better, stronger, united, invincible.

  • @ndingere7857
    @ndingere7857 Год назад +11

    That's a good reason to divorce him and take HALF!

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад +5

      Trust me they won't.

    • @stephfrancis7109
      @stephfrancis7109 Год назад +5

      You see this is the problem with many women. They too are not innocent. The first thing you think about is divorce him and take HALF when you brought nothing to the marriage. These are some of the reasons why I have to pray for my son. Some women are really not nice either. They leave America to find a wife abroad and when they bring her here she too gets Americanized, have children, divorce him then dig the eyes out of the men.

    • @user...9inety8
      @user...9inety8 Год назад

      @@asiphejohnson6543 damn look at all the interracial pages u've subscribed too.. ooh my days

  • @RPNDWORLDWIDE
    @RPNDWORLDWIDE Год назад +13

    Correction: Muzungu is a bantu word meaning white person. It is not derogatory, it isn't slang it is an actual bantu word like Muzukulu

    • @duchesstyra
      @duchesstyra Год назад +3

      It’s Mulungu or Mlungu in Zulu I see the similarities

    • @RPNDWORLDWIDE
      @RPNDWORLDWIDE Год назад

      @@duchesstyra It's interesting that these Bantu words which mean white person also grand child sou d so similar. I think the ancestors were geniuses and knew the white people were their grandchildren, hence forth the words were made to sou d similar. The Greeks called the black Africans the most ancient if all men, before anthropology existed. It was always known.

    • @duchesstyra
      @duchesstyra Год назад

      @@RPNDWORLDWIDE it’s really interesting and Muzukulu means Grandchild in Zulu 😃

  • @THIZZAVELI
    @THIZZAVELI Год назад +6

    The female host looking like a whole snack(birdman hand rub). She better not be messing with no white devil lol. That's a whole grown azz women right there.

  • @iuicanchorage
    @iuicanchorage Год назад +6

    Deuteronomy 7:3 Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son.

    • @-parttimeartist-7379
      @-parttimeartist-7379 Год назад

      These people are already compromised brother. The moment they allowed foreign industries in THEIR nation was the moment they performed the prohibited act in this verse. They are apart of this world system and won't come to their senses until after it collapses. Til then they'll be running in circles lamenting their low status in this system they agreed to.

    • @mariepearl-harbour2335
      @mariepearl-harbour2335 7 месяцев назад

      Ugandans are Hamites not Shemites like the Negro/Afro American, totally different tribes and ethnicities. Don't let the false black lie classification bamboozle you.

  • @leogilbert207
    @leogilbert207 Год назад +7

    A slave situation.

  • @alvinwitherspoon5960
    @alvinwitherspoon5960 Год назад +6

    We the black race need to come together and do for self and kind!!!!!

    • @Synoopy2
      @Synoopy2 Год назад +1

      So, when is this supposed to happen?

  • @kerryfran9438
    @kerryfran9438 Год назад +8

    Am really enjoying these conversations,we really needed to hear this.

  • @darianshaw4294
    @darianshaw4294 Год назад +7

    Black/African Get on code Draw some Lines

  • @proudlyafrican6043
    @proudlyafrican6043 Год назад +12

    As an African or black man our spirit has been defeated and to revive our spirit we must first take accountability by acknowledging that we messed up in the history. Therefore we should be responsible for our actions and not wait for the China or European man to come save us.
    Oshay duke you have spoken my spirit and my mind that exactly how I move but majority of African men still need to be awaken just like the guy in the middle he has search a weak mentality.
    And for you joanita you are search a beautiful woman, your skin is flawless I like how calm you are and your attentiveness. I wish you all the best.

    • @shhagley
      @shhagley Год назад +1

      I say a prayer every day where I first take accountability for my mistakes and then "forgive' myself in order to move forward.Very important for growth.

    • @infozone9601
      @infozone9601 Год назад

      Accountability isn't taking responsibility for the failure of others. Our elders failed. It starts with acknowledging the problem

    • @beezelsub
      @beezelsub Год назад

      @@infozone9601 and some of them expect us to prostrate towards them.

    • @thomasmiller800
      @thomasmiller800 Год назад +1

      Hmm, I didn't think anybody else vibes his weak mentality. Observation is key. Ask Lion.👍

    • @ChuloDiamonds
      @ChuloDiamonds Год назад

      My spirit is not broken at all.

  • @gnettetwin439
    @gnettetwin439 Год назад +20

    I will always love black men❤

    • @chosensun2627
      @chosensun2627 Год назад +7

      We love black women who loves us💗 #TeamNaturalBW

    • @Synoopy2
      @Synoopy2 Год назад

      Probably the only positive comment I have seen, that includes the depressing video I just watched on this channel.

    • @thomasmiller800
      @thomasmiller800 Год назад

      Dam! Bout time a sista said the magic words!👍

  • @cardesignerchris
    @cardesignerchris Год назад +3

    Damn Oshay, I almost packed my shit up and jumped on a plane. lol

  • @elvdell5582
    @elvdell5582 Год назад +8

    Claude Anderson nailed it. Man did he call it. And you Oshay, I agree with you 100% agree with you. We really need to work on our self-worth. Many races feel they are so much better off than black people and they have in many cases no reason to other than self-worth. Perception is powerful thing.

    • @njonjokibera9587
      @njonjokibera9587 11 месяцев назад

      Individualism means nothing at all if your own people are living in townships slums ghetto without essential services

  • @bgee5098
    @bgee5098 Год назад +6

    If only two African nation come together and work together, and accomplished one big thing maybe would start others to think

    • @njonjokibera9587
      @njonjokibera9587 11 месяцев назад

      Do you think that will happen in the near future? Africans don’t love or respect themselves they have this inferiority complex that the whites Asians are better than blacks self hate poverty can longer be an excuse. Collectively we are weak as black people

  • @rbailey3309
    @rbailey3309 Год назад +26

    I am not too fond of biracial relationships, (not to be confused with the marrying of those with the diasporan,) because of the underlying racism that naturally comes with the territory. Even with the best of its type, it seems that Europeans are even more racist than yt American men who marry or date Blk women. Great job guys!! This channel has been enlightening while shedding light on challenging diasporan issues. If there ever were candidates for championing Diasporan Unity, the hosts on this channel would serve well on its panel. This channel is one of four channels that do well for the betterment of the diaspora.

    • @chosensun2627
      @chosensun2627 Год назад +10

      Continental Europeans are the same as European Americans just different continents but same people
      Only difference is yall don’t see it first hand in America because y’all don’t live here

    • @rbailey3309
      @rbailey3309 Год назад

      @@chosensun2627 I, for the most part, agree and would like to thank you for pointing the difference out, except, yt Americans are literally outrightly barbaric in a criminal sense as they lack the pretentious social decorum that those in Europe practice. The draconian behavior of yt Americans is increasingly becoming the norm. It's ugly, to say the least.

    • @mariepearl-harbour2335
      @mariepearl-harbour2335 7 месяцев назад

      Being an African Diasporan is different to a Caribbean Diasporan. An African man with a Caribbean woman is a bi-ethnic relationship. Different ethnicities and tribes. African men and Afro-Caribbean woman marriage union does not work very well. It works better if the man is Afro-Caribbean and the woman is African.

  • @demonte87
    @demonte87 Год назад +7

    This is a example of the culture barrier that happens with African people. You are mixing two train of thought together. The person that says this isn’t African is saying that you are not adapting to the culture of their country. The people that say I will send you back is saying that because they think that is the only way to hurt you. If you are in a African country African people say the same thing but in a different way. They say this is our culture. So if you as a African don’t want to adapt to another country culture don’t move to that country.

    • @olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688
      @olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688 Год назад

      How will it be clever for anyone to dump his/her culture for another's!? A party might want to do that for love, but, it is not natural.

    • @demonte87
      @demonte87 Год назад +1

      @@olatunbosunbode-alaaka3688 This is what the commitment of marriage is; especially if you agree to moving to your partners country. If your spouse chooses to stay in your culture and country you would tell them to adapt to your country and culture.

  • @SimeonToko
    @SimeonToko Год назад +24

    In America a man will say, "Don't make me take you back to the hood" or "I'll drop you back off in the projects."

  • @marvl6472
    @marvl6472 Год назад +7

    I know theres a group of men who need to learn from this and not tolerate b.s. with all this "yo momma" programming..

  • @deebrown7160
    @deebrown7160 Год назад +21

    With the passport Bros those Latina women don't respect them only their wallet

    • @memyself4ever1
      @memyself4ever1 Год назад

      RUclipsr Rome's channel Average Man Unplugged has testimonials from passport bros. who moved to other countries and successfully married the women in the countries they were in. And "NO" they did not want a green card and they stayed in their countries with their wives. So your argument is WEAK as F*ck!

    • @logicalman1172
      @logicalman1172 Год назад +3

      If Africa was closer and wasn't so hard with the visa process they would probably go their first .

    • @vibezlogistics7453
      @vibezlogistics7453 Год назад

      No real woman respects a trick...also those dudes need to ask themselves why do they need to travel to a 3 world countries to meet a latina..u got over 24 million of them living right here in this country..u got thousands crossing the boarder every day as the second they get in America they won't even say good morning to a blk man...

    • @hadast3806
      @hadast3806 Год назад

      @@logicalman1172 yeah right!! 😂😂😂
      Passport bros do not want to duplicate their blackness they want to disappear racially into Latinas, Asians and especiallyWhite women.

    • @hadast3806
      @hadast3806 Год назад +9

      @@logicalman1172 passport bros have now dropped white women and are flying all the way to Thailand and the Philippines! That is 10xs farther than Africa! 😂

  • @beezelsub
    @beezelsub Год назад +11

    They literally made their bed. 😝

    • @Synoopy2
      @Synoopy2 Год назад

      Yes but its called wanting your cake and eating it too. Yes, go after the rich man, there are expectations.

  • @coolislandbreeze9906
    @coolislandbreeze9906 Год назад +6

    IT NEED TO BE SAID.

  • @clare_jordin
    @clare_jordin Год назад +18

    Oshay is spitting nothing but facts!

  • @trueserenityone
    @trueserenityone Год назад +7

    My Goodness this video was complete fire 🔥 This is ME having these conversations with my Ugandan husband. Wow.💯

  • @Cng215
    @Cng215 Год назад +16

    These 🛌 🔧 not our problem brothas. Let their preferences community help them. I bet they won't 🤣

  • @iuicanchorage
    @iuicanchorage Год назад +4

    Zephaniah 2:1 Gather yourselves together, yea, gather together, O nation not desired;

  • @gheechiedan9299
    @gheechiedan9299 Год назад +5

    Fantastic speech OSHAY my man ! 👍🏾

  • @philvalantine8853
    @philvalantine8853 Год назад +2

    The slave connotations is disgusting..black women need to have more respect for themselves.

    • @MIA-fq1di
      @MIA-fq1di Год назад

      As well as black men

  • @blkqueen6201
    @blkqueen6201 Год назад +13

    LOL! That title is funny. That's why you don't put yourself in positions like this. I grew up with them. The suburbs of Mass in the 80's and 90's. Let me tell you they do this easily to their own women. When I say they trade them in the cars. They used to have a saying. Drive it until you find a nicer model. They will slap them and treat them however. They will pass them around with their friends and it's acceptable. Cheating is acceptable for them but not for you. Dare never ever gain any weight. I know them was the only black girl in my class.

    • @vibezlogistics7453
      @vibezlogistics7453 Год назад +3

      Like blk men don't do the same thing..even worse..

    • @blkqueen6201
      @blkqueen6201 Год назад +3

      @@vibezlogistics7453
      I don't know who your dating but no. I don't know black women that have been passed around between friends. If that's part of your click then we have a name for that.

    • @kitejohnson515
      @kitejohnson515 Год назад +3

      @@blkqueen6201 black men in USA have something called trains

    • @yadig.
      @yadig. Год назад +3

      @@vibezlogistics7453 Ask yourself why your first reflex is to defend who she's making a case about to villainize Black Men instead of approaching your respose differently

    • @vibezlogistics7453
      @vibezlogistics7453 Год назад +1

      @@blkqueen6201 why are u making this personal when u made such a blanket statement about yt..did I say u were hanging out with girls that are out here getting ran through..you want to sit here and tell me it's not happening in the blk community then you lived up around them people to long...like the other person posted it's called running a train..it's very common in the hood in blk Caribbean culture it's called running a battery....

  • @Assata_X_The_Writer
    @Assata_X_The_Writer 7 месяцев назад +2

    The Royals of Europe ... YES Europe, both men and women, young and old - had their way with the African Men and Young Girls. Read the Leslie Hutchinson story.
    I believe older mixed couples, are fully aware and both satisfied with their choice of marrying another race.

  • @afrikaplug1447
    @afrikaplug1447 Год назад +7

    The gazelle will never question if the lion is good or not he knows who the lion is to him.

    • @Synoopy2
      @Synoopy2 Год назад +1

      In this context, why would the gazelle seek shelter from the lion, knowing what the lion is capable of?

    • @nakeya3856
      @nakeya3856 Год назад +3

      , good point. Some of our people don't know the difference.

  • @brianbrown6806
    @brianbrown6806 Год назад +4

    It took 3months to dump him? Nah not wise

  • @waynemoi
    @waynemoi 10 месяцев назад +3

    Sooo, I'm from Kenya, I've grown up there and went to school there till the end of high school then started going around the globe and I can tell you the concept of Africans putting others (not just whites) on a pedestal because they have lighter skin or straighter hair or a slimmer nose (yes, this is a thing lol) is very real. I actually had a friend when I was in like 6th grade who was biracial say "I think Kenya would be so much nicer if we had a white president". I remember some kids who were a little lighter, but still black, roasting the fuck out of other kids who had darker skin tones calling them shit like "midnight". Some people would always be like "I don't like being in the sun too long because I get darker". This shit is very real brother. The human mind is a sucker for repetition, and as such, if you've been sold the idea consistently and continuously that you are not as good as nor as aesthetically pleasing as "X" for centuries, you've then set up a default mode network that passes down from generation to generation.

  • @PoloJ410
    @PoloJ410 Год назад +7

    Kenya has too many old white men with their women. I was shocked! But also I didn't see not 1 African American male or female the whole time I was there so most of these African girls can only pick from these white men. I have a Kenyan gf and we would always see these mix matched couples in Masai Mara and Diani beach area. I travel to Kenya every 3 months and will be back again in July. We are expected to get married next year and she will be coming back with me to America on a Fiance visa. I have to buy some cows and shit for her family and dowry payment.

    • @nakeya3856
      @nakeya3856 Год назад

      Awful, how about they stick with Kenyan men. I am AA woman in the United States, there is no way me knowing the history of my people voluntarily lay down with people who have defiled mine. The stupidity of some. Many AA man have stupidity, so many chase strange women and take care of her. In my atmosphere, I choose to be with an AA, but also know that I have the option to marry a cousin from the islands or Africa. A muzungu is never an option. I'd rather die alone.

    • @PoloJ410
      @PoloJ410 Год назад

      @nakeya3856 I'm from Baltimore and nothing is strange about me dating or marrying a Kenya women. Mind ya business! You just jeleous that black men in America aint checking for black women like you! And don't act like black women don't lust for white men in America. Difference is African women don't live amongst white men to know any better. They find out when it's to late. I never dated a white women in my life and dating AA women is not even an option for me. Yah to ghetto

    • @sarawaweru7664
      @sarawaweru7664 Год назад +1

      AA treat african women very badly when they marry them I've had so many such cases

    • @Hadda23
      @Hadda23 Год назад

      So what that’s their preference

    • @James-ys6wm
      @James-ys6wm Год назад +1

      "I have to buy some cows and shit"😂

  • @michaelgreene9162
    @michaelgreene9162 Год назад +3

    The part about the job thing, I was told so many times how i was different from other black workers because i didn't really need to be supervised and i didn't like taking breaks on heavy work days but that caused other issues because i became a threat to some lead men..

  • @mikeafroabdul7046
    @mikeafroabdul7046 Год назад +4

    Misused, abused and thrown into trash 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @onthegrind9971
    @onthegrind9971 Год назад +4

    These ladies made their choice.

  • @davidclass7150
    @davidclass7150 Год назад +7

    Those African women should have read that book daughters of the trade then they get it Those African women learned their past events

  • @wm6089
    @wm6089 Год назад +6

    Oshay is telling you facts especially if you are not seen as the prize. When asked what are you bringing to table, are you more of an asset or liability? Do you come from a prestigious family, have education, money, intelligence. You also have to realize social class comes into play when dealing with different cultures. People can fall in love with each other but you need more to hold a family or relationship together. Africa has some naturally beautiful women and women from other cultures have had unsuccessful marriage with Americans. Some have had success. The young lady on panel is attractive and is correct about adding additional assets by improving skills, talents and abilities.

    • @thomasmiller800
      @thomasmiller800 Год назад +1

      Agreed. The two main components you learn in a Business is assets and liabilities. What are the main components in a marriage or relationship? I'm thinking love and stability. However, without God🙏🏼 neither matters. A Fool and his money shall soon part.. He who finds a virtuous woman , finds a good thing.✌️

  • @pauljohn-paul4767
    @pauljohn-paul4767 Год назад +12

    Black woman. The black man is simply the best. 🖤♥️💛💚

    • @meganakinsanya4702
      @meganakinsanya4702 Год назад

      Yet they choose whites women and give our their resources to them 🙄. For the last three years, you guys says non black women were better…so respectfully stick to your preference

    • @amenajackson8133
      @amenajackson8133 Год назад

      Black men don't want to marry black women aren't you going to Asia?

  • @wendyomanga
    @wendyomanga Год назад +1

    We need more genuine young AA men travelling to africa,

  • @brendameteyer6377
    @brendameteyer6377 Год назад +5

    There was a time when muzugu’s were not allowed to enter the motherland, only trade at the dock was as far inland as they could come, Research, Research. Presidents have to start kicking the monzugu out and not allow them to come in. Just like the other outside countries do to Africans.

  • @RPNDWORLDWIDE
    @RPNDWORLDWIDE Год назад +3

    Too much concerntrating on others and not enough emphasis on ourselves

  • @healthylifestyleletshareid6060
    @healthylifestyleletshareid6060 Год назад +6

    As my own experience, I can confidential say, black Africa person can't married other races and live peacefully and comfortable life , because we Africans born on our continent , our culture is base on sharing,. Whilst other races groups culture require to be just only 2 couples..
    So if your Africa born you can't leave your parents and your other families. Without helping them financial on monthly basis.

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 Год назад

      It must be hard for white/,Black man to marry a lady who has to send monthly salary to their family. Helping your family is good but every month especially when u have your own children nd home to run. We all assist fam from time to time but monthly is a big commitment.

    • @healthylifestyleletshareid6060
      @healthylifestyleletshareid6060 Год назад +3

      If you're only child in your family and your parents invested on you, once you become aduit.. A real African knew that is time to take good care about you he /she parents.. Which is no negotiable.

  • @ichigokurosaki-ij6bk
    @ichigokurosaki-ij6bk Год назад +1

    Sounds about right. She wants in?, Then fall in line.

  • @louvellbanks-cg9pf
    @louvellbanks-cg9pf Год назад +3

    Oshay Duke ! Speak truth ! . Peace Fam. .

  • @hellmanksingh7967
    @hellmanksingh7967 10 месяцев назад +1

    As an outsider(Indian) I can confirm that most of the issues with African ladies come with having forced to earn at a young age for their families. That’s really a case of zero accountability from the family side. That’s why avoid to marry a local nice African dude who may not bring much to the household and instead get involved in randomly marrying a WM who is at least 10-20 years older to you who would only use you or else get involved in other unwanted activities abroad.

  • @omoluabiorishaluabi
    @omoluabiorishaluabi Год назад +2

    Self-preservation is key...we have to come together to make things happen because if we don't others will take away our women and mistreat some of them. The brainwashing of the African people is so deep and that as well we can undo.

  • @kitejohnson515
    @kitejohnson515 Год назад +8

    Is that worse than a black man calling bw a b or a whore ?

    • @Silverbackugx
      @Silverbackugx Год назад +8

      Yes Whitey...it's worse

    • @awelechukwuemeka1382
      @awelechukwuemeka1382 Год назад +5

      Whitey 😂 you guys and your sense of entitlement.

    • @karlo9572
      @karlo9572 6 месяцев назад

      Of course it is and make no mistakes white men call them all that as well as the n word

  • @littleredhenaquaponicsfarm1613

    A greater and necessary dialog, Brother Oshay.
    It's Nation Time.
    It's time to organize and to build in unison. Hotep, Ash', Heri.

  • @SP_D
    @SP_D Год назад +1

    Oshay is spot on...the best version of him i have seen so far!

  • @perfectpeanut9321
    @perfectpeanut9321 Год назад +2

    It's because the husbands know from the beginning about the background of these African women. No woman from a well to do family will be treated like that.

  • @willieterrell1618
    @willieterrell1618 Год назад +1

    Whats up Oshay!
    Thank you for all you do to provide content for us. Have a great day brah!

  • @marclouis2017
    @marclouis2017 Год назад +2

    That’s what they get for dating pink men they are pink not white

    • @cytkl
      @cytkl Год назад

      Pigs are filthy Looks and Charakter

  • @willhairstonful
    @willhairstonful Год назад +6

    Swirl on....zaddy loves you!

  • @billymaepa4576
    @billymaepa4576 Год назад +1

    Great content as always we will forever be complaining until we actually do something about all this let's start the organisation/forum let's be proactive

  • @damiancarr8209
    @damiancarr8209 Год назад +10

    That's because mixing is Wrong. It has always been wrong. People are different colors/race for a reason. There is only one human race but the different colors is for a reason.

    • @awelechukwuemeka1382
      @awelechukwuemeka1382 Год назад

      Mixing isn't wrong mindsets are mixing is the history of humanity it's natural.

    • @damiancarr8209
      @damiancarr8209 Год назад

      @@awelechukwuemeka1382 That type of illogical thinking is why hybrid children always have a hard time with identity. Nature didn't create hybrid people. Only people who doesn't have control over their thinking would think that way and are the ones that mixing. There's plenty of men and women in each race group for them to be with.

    • @Swo76
      @Swo76 Год назад

      ​@@awelechukwuemeka1382 mixing is wrong jubilee 30 Deutoronomy chapter 7 verse 3.

    • @awelechukwuemeka1382
      @awelechukwuemeka1382 Год назад

      @@Swo76 you guys are weird we are all humans who have grouped ourselves and politicized out appearances if mixing is wrong then we are all wrong cause most of us have ancestry from multiple groups plus scientifically the more you date outside your group stronger the genetics of your off spring if your God was against it he would not make it that way we need genetic variation for strong offspring so yean mix if you want to nothing wrong with it.

  • @slove102784
    @slove102784 Год назад +5

    Dr. Joy DeGruy's Post-Traumatic Slave Disorder may also be helpful, especially if an effort is made to draw parallels between Chattel Slavery and Colonialism. Frantz Fanon and the Psychology of Oppression, written by Hussein Abdilahi Bulhan, is helpful in understanding Fanon's work.

    • @yadig.
      @yadig. Год назад +1

      Isis Papers by Dr. Frances Cress Welsing for those of you who are steppers.

  • @starsstripes990
    @starsstripes990 Год назад +4

    Good serve them wright the bible said to leave the strange people alone we not to give our daughters to them or take there daughter for our son but these people are a stiff-necked people please stop having there children too high my rich aunty

    • @meganakinsanya4702
      @meganakinsanya4702 Год назад

      But the sons can give themselves to snow bunnies. Hypocrites !

  • @marcopowell8465
    @marcopowell8465 Год назад +2

    Oshay you absolutely correct black african men got take care of their woman irregardless of tribe they only seen as black africans period its time african men to take charge of their countries indians Chinese protect their woman it's time black african men become real men because they are competing with europeans indians Chinese in the world and they using your women

    • @MIA-fq1di
      @MIA-fq1di Год назад

      They don't wanna learn how to be like other men🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @numinuecooper9975
    @numinuecooper9975 Год назад +1

    They mean for not allowing them to abuse their African wives. A real man does not abuse his wife or threaten his wife.

  • @slove102784
    @slove102784 Год назад +5

    Yurugu: An African-Centered Critique of European Cultural Thought and Behavior may be helpful too. One may benefit from easier-to-read work such as The Chains and Images of Psychological Slavery, by Niam Akbar also.

    • @ucakpan
      @ucakpan Год назад +2

      I started that book, 'Yurugu', a few days ago.

  • @Keys2SOAR
    @Keys2SOAR Год назад +1

    OSHAY, “let’s get together and solve our problems “, I have been strong in the creation of curriculum to “develop “, our AfriKAN collective consciousness that is a baseline for our healing and growth. Barring religion and barring the prescriptions of YT people’s social and emotional theories.
    It requires a baseline AfriKAN collective consciousness. It isn’t about gaining things….without POWER TO DEFINE OUR ENVIRONMENT we can continue to be CONSUMERS yet it has Not affected our global situation.
    1985 smh….and we keep measuring our growth by a few carrots…celebrities and house academics. Smh. It’s absolutely insane.

  • @SM-mm3kg
    @SM-mm3kg Год назад +1

    Got to share this on my Facebook page.

  • @jesse-mb5go
    @jesse-mb5go Год назад +1

    Shout to you guys on the pod. You guys add a lot of value and special shout to Oshay. As a Ugandan I see you as a brother and not a foreigner. So feel at home man .Great work

  • @careynash6512
    @careynash6512 Год назад +5

    Joannita Maya how are you my future wife your looking beautiful as usual take care

  • @kaybrown7733
    @kaybrown7733 Год назад

    lol odj is complaining about the other side of the passport bros. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @johnnwabuforudemezue1108
    @johnnwabuforudemezue1108 Год назад +1

    Thank you oshay

  • @pitbullmrwhat73
    @pitbullmrwhat73 Год назад +3

    Joanita is looking good 👍🏿... love them chocolate sister's!!! And she seems down to earth! 😏😍

  • @ghusaghusa2135
    @ghusaghusa2135 Год назад +1

    African autonomy begins with giving the colonizer back his jesus! You can't expect protection from the colonizer to come from the colonizer's god.

  • @judyem.c5753
    @judyem.c5753 Год назад +3

    Sad but true : we are always grouped in a place of weakness because they (a) always support each other no matter how wrong they are. And (b)see themselves superior and fight to overpower everyone else in the world. We seem to be OK letting them do so ( docile) to this as we even help them. We don't see they as the reason for our misfortune collectively. Ultimately, they are! They take, take , and take, and we just submit and smile at them. Thinking the worst of ourselves but giving them every unnecessary 🙄 benefit of doubt (Savior mentality) to them. It's almost like a self hate complex we all collectively have. Yes: the African man needs to fight for his place in how he is seen and treated otherwise; the law of nature dictates extinction for the weaker species. Assimilate and be absorbed by the strongest and ultimately become extinct. We are living in those times as this places out. Nite that has happened already in Australia, South/ North America. The Caucasian people, despite being minorities at the start; have taken over and completely dociled the native people's of this region. Afrika is proving to just be longer in process because of our tough gene pull. We are ultimately the strongest, but we are getting beat down by a weaker group because we refuse to think and see it for what it really is. We refuse to love ourselves enough to unite and fight because this really is our final fight, and these other groups are not messing around. Everyone is stepping it up while we just think someone is going to save us. I bet Afrika will be completely colonized and whiter, looking like North African in the next 500 years if we don't fight for us. Sad to watch my people as our ways, traditions, languages, and ways die out as we are talking. No self-love and self-respect and undying love for each other. It is almost like something in our brains is broken: save others over ourselves. I say that Jesus must have been Afrika...lol!

  • @laryjones-jm7ng
    @laryjones-jm7ng Год назад +1

    That dark skin girl on the platform is so so beautiful as always

  • @blongshanks77
    @blongshanks77 Год назад +3

    It always boils down to economics. Because African countries are considered second and third world compared to western countries, any western man who goes to Africa and gives an African woman who lives in third world country a better life, they will always feel superior to her. The western man always has his home country that he can rely on, whereas a woman from Africa would rather be disrespected in a relationship than to go back to Africa. As Oshay said, middle class in Africa is not on the same level as middle class in the West. And both parties know that.

    • @Synoopy2
      @Synoopy2 Год назад

      So , in retrospect if you marry into this type of lopsided relationship - you should expect the outcome. example - if you marry a woman who has cheated on husband, you will be forever looking over your shoulder.

  • @luvbig41
    @luvbig41 Год назад +2

    THAT's the reason they go to Africa for wives. A lot of the sisters from Africa make the same mistake that was made 100s of years ago and that is mistake the smile of the caucasian to mean kindness.

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад

      Lol

    • @karlo9572
      @karlo9572 6 месяцев назад

      They worships these dog kissers and view them as better than their own

  • @davidclass7150
    @davidclass7150 Год назад

    Yep oshay they tell me that I give it back too yeah I know how too read too lol 😂 us black southerners knows our story those who had thar black cultural education